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That’s true, you definitely changed my perspective on that. However, it still seems uncomfortable/gross to have sex with someone I have no intimate connection with. I feel inclined to wait for sex with a girl I actually care about and know better. I think this would foster a more healthy relationship for a LTR. Is this not realistic? Should I just try and get over it?
/r/askTRP03/12/18 07:30 AM
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It’s not an option to not date at my college. There’s tens of thousands of people at my University. Any girl (whether at my college or not) could accuse me of rape and get me expelled. It’s just the gamble of being a man in this modern day society unfortunately.
/r/askTRP03/12/18 07:25 AM
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It’s not exactly an option for me to live in any of those places unfortunately. I go to college on the west coast, and my job right out of college will be in New York city for at least two years (Investment Banking). What do you suggest I do? The best idea I had is rushing the fraternity with the highest GPA at my university which all the girls love. It’s nicknamed the “boyfriend fraternity”. Thoughts? Additionally, I’m curious why you think our society became this way?
/r/askTRP03/12/18 07:24 AM
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Why do you believe I’m afraid of rejection? I don’t think that’s the case at all, but I’m open minded.
/r/askTRP02/12/18 08:30 PM
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Yes, you’re absolutely right. It’s primarily the result of oxytocin being released in the brain which causes the “pair bonding” reaction. I just don’t know how to find a LTR that hasn’t had their pair bonding ability completely fucking destroyed. The male equivalent can also be induced by excessive porn use in my opinion too.
/r/askTRP02/12/18 08:28 PM
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How do you suggest I find a good girl?
/r/askTRP02/12/18 08:24 PM
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You will probably have to go to an endocrinologist and they’ll fax the bloodwork over to a lab to have your levels tested. Pretty much just a blood test.
/r/askTRP02/12/18 10:42 AM
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In terms of LTRing, it’s a red flag for me if a girl is willing to have sex fast. Regarding your comment, is there a way to avoid the trap of being forgotten/friend zoned as you mentioned? Such as increasing SMV?
/r/askTRP02/12/18 10:31 AM
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Yeah man, it’s a rough spot. I’m hoping someone can provide some insight here. I had my T levels tested and they’re completely fine. 900 ng/dL
/r/askTRP02/12/18 10:29 AM
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If it weren’t for pussy I’d be gay - women are too fucking complicated.
/r/askTRP02/12/18 09:52 AM
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How do you recommend I find an LTR in college? It seems that most LTRs are initiated by a hookup in college. Not just that, but most girls are not willing to commit/nor do they meet the LTR requirements.
/r/askTRP02/12/18 08:43 AM
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She said “i’m going to change it tomorrow if that makes you happy”. I can tell she’s going to hold this against me, what should I do to avoid this?
/r/askTRP18/05/18 03:09 PM
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Hey man, I appreciate the response and I definitley need to work on being more assertive. It’s hard to break BP habits but i’m getting better every day. In regards to dating her, it’s honestly purely out of lust. She’s a sweet girl and cares about me: she always buys me gifts and does favors for me but there are too many things that are annoying me at this point. I’m just trying to get experience at my age to better implement TRP in future relationships when I go to college. Prom is on Saturday …
/r/askTRP18/05/18 01:25 PM
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Thanks for the response man. I agree with everything here. This is mainly just for experience for me. In the meantime, i’m having fun with her and can’t see myself hard nexting her until this summer. I knew going into this it wasn’t going to be a super LTR.
/r/askTRP18/05/18 11:47 AM
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Got hit with this now “ya know i think it’s funny how you’re like “oh i don’t want to be controlling” & yet here you are telling me to change even though i told you i like something else but you don’t seem to care. does my opinion not matter ? because that’s how i feel.. yeah i am upset. i get it’s something small, but when i told you i liked having my ring in, i expected that you’d let me have that & let me be happy. but i guess not...” Then she said “Okay im sorry that was a little intense, i’…
/r/askTRP18/05/18 04:58 AM
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Sorry to hear that about your ex wife man, but yeah, they’re nasty as fuck. My gf went from being an 8 to a 6 with it imo. I texted her and just said “I like the stud better” And she said “fine” I left her on read and she said “thanks for listening to my opinion...” and then said “whatever goodnight”. I haven’t opened the last two messages yet though. What would you do if you were in my position?
/r/askTRP18/05/18 04:50 AM
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A few ideas I thought of ranged from out right ignoring that text (but she would bring it up eventually) to saying “I don’t like nose rings, but I don’t want you to be unhappy” to just saying “lol. It’s up to you”.
/r/askTRP18/05/18 03:56 AM
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You can lead a horse to water but you can’t make it drink.
/r/askTRP05/05/18 02:05 AM
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How do you phrase these types of questions without appearing jealous?
/r/askTRP09/04/18 01:52 AM
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That’s pretty much what I wanted to say. The only reason why I didn’t is because she started spamming me with apologies.
/r/askTRP09/04/18 01:48 AM
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Thanks for the advice
/r/askTRP09/04/18 12:45 AM
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That’s a good rule. Thanks man
/r/askTRP09/04/18 12:45 AM
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I just said that and she said “this isn’t a joke, I messed up and should have said something” I told her “don’t worry about it, I give girls the wrong impression all the time” and she said “I guess...”
/r/askTRP09/04/18 12:38 AM
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Thanks, going to have to do some research. Also, how should I go about responding to her apology?
/r/askTRP09/04/18 12:16 AM
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What specific mental illness would this pertain to?
/r/askTRP09/04/18 12:09 AM
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I appreciate the response. I’ve definitely read the sidebar. I have a hard time recognizing certain behavioral patterns and how to apply specific TRP principles which is the primary reason I made this post. With that being said, I’m assuming it’s either A of D. She’s definitely not socially inept and it’s highly unlikely that she’s preparing the branch swing (I say this due to the dynamic of our relationship. I’m fairly high SMV). In the event that it is A, why would she feel the need to make me…
/r/askTRP09/04/18 12:04 AM
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Good advice, i’ll try #1 out and continue with #2. I’ve never been the first to text her, she always texts me. Thanks
/r/askTRP29/03/18 01:44 PM
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Thanks brother!
/r/askTRP28/03/18 04:29 AM
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Right now you are like Hamlet in Shakespeare, asking himself: To text, or not to text? This made me laugh. Anyways, thanks for the response. I agree with the concept that my “inner self” will eventually come out. I’m definitely emotionally invested since this is my first real relationship. She’s enamored with me but I could easily see that being killed if I reciprocated the same behavior. I plan on delaying my replies to her texts in order to constrain the flow of the conversation. I’ll primaril…
/r/askTRP28/03/18 04:24 AM
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I need to re-listen to some Andreas Antonopoulos videos. Sometimes I forget the long term vision for BTC. What are your thoughts on DAG coins? In regards to ethos, it’s a utility token.
/r/askTRP28/03/18 03:10 AM
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You can txt your gf whenever or whatever you want, but if she begins to be the center of your life, she will know it. This really helped, thanks man. I typically emulate alpha behavior over text, but for the past few days I’ve been paying too much attention to her. Would it be strange if I randomly went to texting her a lot to dropping off?
/r/askTRP28/03/18 03:03 AM
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Congratulations on retiring early! I want to get into politics and have lofty financial goals as a result. I was a BTC/ETH maximalist until I found out about Ethos. It’s a UW, Trading platform, social media platform, bank, etc. Their Chief Global Strategist is the former COO of BlackRock. Marketing hasn’t started yet, app comes out soon.
/r/askTRP28/03/18 01:02 AM
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I haven’t had any positions in BTC since its ATH. I bought into ETH at around $7 and was extremely lucky. I liquidated most of my portions before the corrections we’re seeing in both markets and i’m trying to decide when to start dollar cost averaging back in. I still have around 10% of my net worth in the S&P500 and hold some ether. My biggest holdings are in a cryptocurrency called ethos (not going to shill altcoins here, we can PM if you want). I’m considering picking up precious metals as we…
/r/askTRP28/03/18 12:43 AM
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Ooo, will do. I liquidated most of my stock and crypto positions in early January trying to figure out what to do. Appreciate it.
/r/askTRP28/03/18 12:28 AM
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Networking isn’t a problem lol. I’m frequently chosen to represent my entire school district and give presentations for events. Money is just a personal interest of mine. I’ve been investing in stocks since I was 14 and I just want to secure my future early on.
/r/askTRP28/03/18 12:22 AM
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I quit video games a year ago, I don’t watch TV, I’ve never done drugs. I enjoy music and and parties but I don’t let it interfere with my goals. I probably think of women and money too much but there’s worse things I could be concerned with. I appreciate all the advice - thanks bro. I learn more from TRP every time I come here.
/r/askTRP28/03/18 12:13 AM
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Yup. This is my first serious relationship. I’ve done everything pretty well so far. •No Social Media but still hang out with tons of people (Social Proof but Mysterious) •Different High Schools (Don’t shit where you eat) •I dress very well for my age/lift/keep myself well groomed. •Funny and very confident •I do crazy things and i’m exciting (despite lack of previous sexual/relationship experience) •Successful for my age in regards to money and exhibit leadership qualities in school. I’m worrie…
/r/askTRP28/03/18 12:07 AM
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Makes sense. Sounds like you have a good LTR.
/r/askTRP27/03/18 11:57 PM
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Yup! I realized this pretty quickly. When she takes her phone out I turn it off and start KINO. The only time I’m on my phone with her is if I get a phone call.
/r/askTRP27/03/18 11:49 PM
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I’m pretty confident she won’t branch swing. I’m very high SMV for my age, lol. I made it very clear to her that she’s not my priority and never will be (my passion is finance and there’s no way in fuck i’ll be distracted from it).
/r/askTRP27/03/18 11:47 PM
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I like the way you think
/r/askTRP27/03/18 11:38 PM
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Fair enough, that’s what i’ve been doing. I guess i’ll just do the same thing.
/r/askTRP27/03/18 11:36 PM
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I’ve given her this response a few times but she doesn’t really get what i’m saying and will immediately start telling me some BS again.
/r/askTRP27/03/18 11:26 PM
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This is what i’m trying to do. She constantly types shit like “my dogs are on my bed” or “I just did X”. Do I ignore these texts? I tend to just say some sarcastic bullshit and she’ll follow up with a shit test and I either ignore or A&A. Is this the right approach?
/r/askTRP27/03/18 11:19 PM
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Do you think this applies to High School girls too? And why do you think the same logic applies in LTR?
/r/askTRP27/03/18 11:16 PM
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How often should I be texting then? I don’t want to come across as clingy but because I can’t see her a lot during the week I enjoy having conversations over text.
/r/askTRP27/03/18 11:14 PM
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Weird
/r/askTRP24/03/18 08:06 PM
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I would never raw dog. She’s on birth control too.
/r/askTRP24/03/18 08:05 PM
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I get that, i’m pretty dominant and already set boundaries. From what she told me it would seem like i’m the first real alpha that shes dated. In regards to the baby comment, does that mean that she wants me to knock her up? That’s kind of scary lol.
/r/askTRP24/03/18 07:34 PM
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Is it really that common?
/r/askTRP24/03/18 06:24 PM
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Good advice, thanks.
/r/askTRP24/03/18 06:01 PM
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Don’t worry, I won’t.
/r/askTRP24/03/18 05:36 PM
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I’m definitely embracing it but i’m just trying to make sense of it. I’m relatively high SMV for my age (I can elaborate if you want me to) and have options so I don’t think she’ll trade up. She’s into the 50 shades of grey type of kinks and I definitely can do that, the daddy kink just seems kind of strange to me.
/r/askTRP24/03/18 05:23 PM
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I really appreciate the detailed response man. I always forget about the “Don’t listen to what they say, watch what they do” rule. Everything clicked perfectly once I read that. I’ll apply it next time I see her. The daddy thing is still weird af to me though, lol.
/r/askTRP24/03/18 05:16 PM
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I like her, i’m in High school, and we both wanted it. It’s spring break and we’ve spent a fuck ton of time together (almost every day / every other day for 4+ hours) I’m just trying to get experience before I go to college so it really isn’t a big deal to me.
/r/askTRP24/03/18 04:46 PM
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LTR was the wrong word choice. I edited it. And can you elaborate on the “Paternal Vibe”?
/r/askTRP24/03/18 04:02 PM
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Don’t I need it to focus though? I’ve been medically tested and have an actual diagnosis for ADHD.
/r/askTRP16/03/18 03:39 PM
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I already did lol. I haven’t in 16 days.
/r/askTRP16/03/18 03:38 PM
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How long does it take to go back to normal?
/r/askTRP15/03/18 09:19 PM
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They schedule my appointments for everything medical related (I have several medical conditions) and they’ll question me.
/r/askTRP15/03/18 08:24 PM
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Watching hours of porn everyday does that to you bruh. I used to be that way and probably will be in a few weeks once I haven’t watched porn for awhile. But it fucks with your head.
/r/askTRP15/03/18 08:23 PM
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Thanks man, I would have to explain to my parents why I need blood-work done and I don’t think it will go over to well. Maybe i’ll just sit this one out
/r/askTRP15/03/18 08:08 PM
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Neither of us drink so that probably won’t happen. I appreciate it though, definitely going to look into stopping my ADHD meds. Why do you think it’s bad though?
/r/askTRP15/03/18 08:07 PM
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Weird. I think it is mainly PIED mixed with anxiety. I’ll have to look into that though. I honestly don’t really like taking ADHD medicine but i’ve been doing it since I was 13. I always have doubts about if it does anything for me.
/r/askTRP15/03/18 06:50 PM
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I appreciate the reply man. I think it probably is a mix of anxiety, porn addiction, and maybe medication (although I doubt it)? I get horny when she touches my stomach but i’m not rock solid. Is that normal? And do you think most chicks are understanding if I can’t get it up or want to wait longer for sex?
/r/askTRP15/03/18 06:48 PM
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I don’t drink/do drugs. I do take ADHD medicine though.
/r/askTRP15/03/18 06:38 PM
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Thanks man. I don’t see myself going back to porn at this point. I really like this chick and i’m honestly craving experience. She pretty much loves me because I told her I want to take things slow. How long is it normal to not fuck a girl you’re dating in HS? Edit: I just saw your edit and really appreciate what you said. I also want to take things slow just because I’m more of a LTR type of person. I don’t care for racking up a high N count and I want to lose my V-card to a girl I actually lik…
/r/askTRP15/03/18 06:36 PM
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Yes. I’m on Focalin currently. I haven’t taken it in roughly 5 days though.
/r/askTRP15/03/18 06:29 PM
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Yeah. She used to cut so she definitely has problems. It seems like chicks with mental issues almost always have divorced parents.
/r/TheRedPill13/03/18 02:04 AM
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Would you say the girl I mentioned has an eating disorder?
/r/TheRedPill13/03/18 01:21 AM
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Why do you say this? Just went on a date with this girl yesterday who said her mom (who she doesn’t talk to anymore) was anorexic but claims that she’s not. She later said that she really only eats dinner and just isn’t hungry most of the day. She’s super fit so I doubt she has an eating disorder (?). She does seem to have some BPD traits though. edit: why the fuck am I being down voted? I asked a question.
/r/TheRedPill13/03/18 12:51 AM
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I’m pretty good at talking to girls so i’m not worried about conversation. The car ride may be slightly awkward though... I just figured out my parents won’t be home tomorrow night at the time we were going to go out. Do you think it’s a better idea to just go out to eat and take her back to my place? I can give her a tour of my house, look for a movie, and see where it goes. Kino would be much easier in my own house.
/r/askTRP08/03/18 11:43 PM
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I’m really good with eye contact so that shouldn’t be a problem. I was thinking about playing 20 questions with her and trying to apply kino during it. Thoughts? Also, can Kino be applied during a movie w/o being awkward?
/r/askTRP08/03/18 09:10 PM
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Already reading it brother, really appreciate all the advice. Fucking love TRP.
/r/askTRP08/03/18 05:24 PM
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That’s true. The main thing I get concerned about is KINO. I’m reading the DiCarlo escalation ladder. The guy that gave her my number said she wanted my dick. Do you think she’ll make moves if she wants me that bad?
/r/askTRP08/03/18 05:22 PM
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It’s Arizona - so not exactly lol. In regards to going to an Ice Skating rink, all the ones around me are super far away. I was just in a bad accident and don’t feel comfortable going that far yet tbh.
/r/askTRP08/03/18 05:17 PM
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That’s how I normally am and how I behaved at the party. I just get worked up when I do new shit - not sure why.
/r/askTRP08/03/18 08:23 AM
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This really hit home with me. I appreciate it man.
/r/askTRP08/03/18 07:29 AM
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That’s what I was thinking too. My original idea was to go to an arcade but it was to far away. Which is my problem. I’m afraid to drive to far away. I was just in a bad accident with my friend and the movies are close near by. A roller skating rink would actually be really cool. Do you think it’s too late to change on her?
/r/askTRP08/03/18 06:08 AM
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I also think it’s worth mentioning that I don’t really know if I want to LTR her. I don’t know what her N count is or enough about her to consider that. She’s definitely super intelligent and athletic. (All AP classes, Soccer player, Kick boxer, etc). I’m just trying to get experience but I definitely want to impress her at least and see if it can go anywhere sexually.
/r/askTRP08/03/18 05:33 AM
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This is a throwaway account so I didn’t see your replies until now. I’m trying to organize information so I can build a good routine. I appreciate the response
/r/askTRP03/03/18 03:52 AM
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Hey man, sorry for the late reply. This is a throw away account so didn’t see until now. I just messaged you
/r/askTRP03/03/18 03:50 AM
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