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You claimed redpillers were the ones pushing the “men need to be providers” stuff “Men need to be providers” didn’t come from that side of the internet— it came from the women who STILL say it in REAL LIFE & ONLINE ~ Secondly… Redpill was very specific group of ppl like 10 years ago After it went mainstream 5 years ago…. A new BS adhoc definition was created so basically anyone who said “bad things about women online” could be thrown under the same umbrella & given a negative connotation I’ve se…
/r/Divorce_Men16/07/25 04:55 AM
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You think “men being providers” started 5 years ago & came from the “redpillers” (which nobody can seem to define at this point) I’ve seen clips of Andrew Wilson & he’s not even a “redpiller” himself, so you’re premise doesn’t even make sense I swear I see so many dumb things every day, but one of the dumbest is when ppl try to erroneously tie two things together Secondly— women making an income was SUPPOSED to be a good thing…. Except many of the women decided they don’t wanna go 50/50 with men…
/r/Divorce_Men16/07/25 04:10 AM
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Weak men subconsciously believe that by aiding women in this war against “the bad men”, that the women will eventually reward them
/r/MensRights21/06/25 01:21 PM
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I get so annoyed anytime I see “Woman here…” in a post Why are you here at all? Your perspective can stay in the other subreddit, where women already overran I never understand why women feel the need to come into male-only discussions & groups, when there’s plenty of women-only ones
/r/Divorce_Men27/04/25 10:49 PM
12

Pretty much any dating/relationship-related subreddit that doesn’t explicitly say “men” in the title is overran by women Don’t even bother going in there
/r/Divorce_Men22/03/25 11:09 PM
3

If there is no sex or intimacy, then why not just stay friends with her? By remarrying, you would just be going back down the road that led you to cheating the first time
/r/Divorce_Men21/03/25 05:03 AM
2

Just logically speaking— White women are the biggest beneficiaries of handouts, period Child support Alimony Divorce settlements Gender-based business funding DEI programs Hiring quotas College enrollment programs It’s a pretty long list & the hiring one is very problematic because the jobs that they often gravitate to (white collar) have become highly feminized Video game industry is a great example of how liberal women & LGBT came in, then started changed the “culture” They get in, then hiring…
/r/MensRights10/02/25 12:11 PM
10

Feminists got the term MGTOW basically banned from the internet, but they’re able to OPENLY push their movement
/r/MensRights11/11/24 01:19 AM
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Thats how every men’s discussion circle gets diverted over time
/r/Divorce_Men23/10/24 07:23 AM
5

Yup, start letting too many of them post here & suddenly the sub’s name will change
/r/Divorce_Men23/10/24 07:22 AM
7

Why are you here? There’s tons of places for women to ask questions amongst themselves
/r/Divorce_Men23/10/24 07:21 AM
5

Why are we still getting married?!?
/r/Divorce_Men02/10/24 10:04 AM
12

You should be thanking him He’s trying to stop you from going down a rabbithole with someone who betrayed you
/r/Divorce_Men14/07/24 05:27 AM
27

Women tend to drop nuggets after the fact, not before There’s a good chance she’s already cheating or stepping out on you if she’s willing to tell you she “isn’t the same person anymore” I’ve been a victim of it too
/r/Divorce_Men17/06/24 02:39 AM
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Finalize the divorce first. Never reset the clock.
/r/Divorce_Men09/06/24 01:27 PM
3

Is that yen or pesos?
/r/Divorce_Men02/06/24 07:47 AM
23

Everybody looks happy out in public Knowing the intricacies of someone’s relationship would give you a much different view
/r/Divorce_Men14/04/24 09:35 PM
21

As soon as women allow men to sign away financial obligations— Then I’ll give a damn about their reproductive rights Problem is— all they ever do is make hypocritical arguments as to why women should be allowed to get off scot-free, but men should have to pay
/r/MensRights10/04/24 03:39 AM
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Modern women wanna be able to make their money, keep it & spend it frivolously— While the man becomes a pack mule to sustain the lifestyle And there are really men out here who sign up to do this, just have a woman around…..absolutely pitiful
/r/MensRights07/03/24 01:19 PM
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It’s not in their nature to do that There’s a reason why it’s projected that 45% of women will be single & childless by 2030 Women don’t wanna dare their equals— they want someone doing better Even when they have the means to support themselves, a man should still do it for her It makes no sense that they fought for equal (or more) pay, just to turn around & eliminate the men on their level
/r/MensRights05/03/24 02:36 PM
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Women have a ridiculous use of the apex fallacy when talking about men
/r/MensRights27/02/24 09:04 AM
8

Damn, talk about being dramatic
/r/Divorce_Men21/02/24 11:32 AM
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You shouldn’t even be dating 33 y/o women tbh
/r/MensRights17/02/24 05:03 PM
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Taking her back isn’t gonna stop her from seeing other men It’s just giving her a buffer period since her current situation is collapsing
/r/Divorce_Men13/02/24 05:48 PM
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A vast majority of the wealthiest women in the world gained their money thru a man— divorce or inheritance I’d assume this stat has similar underlying circumstances
/r/MensRights09/02/24 11:16 PM
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No There’s a million places on the internet & in real life for women to congregate, plus air out their grievances regarding men in general They don’t need to be in this space at all This has been a recurring issue in male spaces…. Once you start letting a few women in— they start tone policing & some of the guys begin mincing words + changing rules to appease them Every other “neutral” space gets overran by women, where they push gynocentric-feminist talking points & men are kicked out instantly…
/r/Divorce_Men09/02/24 11:03 PM
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Finalize the divorce, then you can go from there One of the worst ideas you can do is drag things out & extend the marriage window, once a divorce is on the table
/r/Divorce_Men04/02/24 03:59 PM
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This is the key here Lots of men have deployed a “happy wife, happy life” mentality onto society itself through the laws As long as weak men continue to get pats on the head from women, they’ll continue allowing things to degrade
/r/MensRights13/12/23 04:38 AM
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Because women are loyal to their gender & the idea of egalitarianism Men are loyal to race, tribes, ideologies, etc They can get on code & do things collectively for the bigger picture— meanwhile men will fight amongst each other on mīnute points Then you got the fact that gynocentricism (simping mentality) is the norm for a majority of men & we will never appeal to them without coming across as ‘woman-haters’ Feminism could be dealt with overnight if there weren’t so many semi-emasculated men e…
/r/MensRights13/12/23 04:15 AM
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Ultimately, they don’t apply this logic to women so it falls on my deaf ears I’ve already gotten snipped to avoid this issue, but it’s absurd how women control literally every other aspect of procreation & pregnancy— yet men are blamed for the sex part It ‘takes two’ when it’s the sex part, but not when it comes to her taking birth control or keeping the baby or putting you on child support Nope— that’s her decision & her’s alone
/r/MensRights07/12/23 05:26 AM
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The truth is always depressing when you’re accustomed to lies But eventually the truth makes you happy— because then you know better
/r/Divorce_Men03/12/23 08:05 PM
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I think incels get the brunt of attacks that women refuse to address with the men they actually sleep with
/r/MensRights28/11/23 06:48 AM
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Women operate on the 80-20 rule They consider most men to be unattractive in general This leads to them only simping for top guys in her relative vicinity
/r/MensRights22/11/23 05:34 AM
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The difference is that women are more likely to under-exaggerate, while men will over-exaggerate
/r/MensRights20/11/23 12:08 PM
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Because those women are settling lol They still want the kids, weddings & events — and they realize they can’t ALL get the same men Once they get what they want, start counting your days That’s when the sex stops, the attitude starts & the demands increase
/r/MensRights20/11/23 11:02 AM
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Most men are betatized simps They think that complying with the feminine agenda will lead to getting pussy at some point
/r/MensRights17/11/23 07:32 AM
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Black men who try to do well in life are hit from all directions We get stereotyped just for having dark skin & looked at as thugs by non-black people The black “community” is a matriarchy & young black men who are discouraged from being intellectual Black women get all sorts of female-only grants, programs, scholarships & positions that black men are locked out of Not only that— but black women tend to prioritize the criminal class of black men when it comes to dating due to non-thug black men …
/r/MensRights15/11/23 01:55 AM
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Yup & they prioritize gender far more than race They even got rid of race-based affirmative action for colleges, yet still kept the gender-based one White dudes complaining about losing their spots need to point the finger at their counterparts White women make more than most male demographics
/r/MensRights14/11/23 07:50 AM
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If you’re a black man, you’re chances are worse lol Edit: For all the idiots downvoting me— You do realize that the reason these DEI programs, companies & hiring quotas say “minorities” instead of “black” is that it allows groups like Latinos & Asians to benefit off it too right? Also gay white men & white immigrants benefit too Again, you’d have to be an absolute fool to think black men benefit from this stuff over you We’re at the bottom of the pecking order— especially if you’re talking in th…
/r/MensRights14/11/23 07:45 AM
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The problem is that we not only have female feminists— we also have gynocentric male feminist simps who believe they’ll get e-pussy by defending a woman’s honor online And subreddit covering male-female issues is flooded with bias against men, except in the most obvious cases Lots of tone policing, hate speech violations & accusations of misogyny at the mere thought of criticizing a woman
/r/MensRights14/11/23 04:36 AM
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I agree 100%— but they’re still women so they can be controlled in that environment more than the men Only way they’ll hire a black man is if he’s part of the rainbow club I’ve always hated having BW as my managers because many are on a power trip & feel they have to assert some sort of “authority” It’s the same reason they have the highest divorce rates— They don’t know how to cooperate with other people
/r/MensRights14/11/23 04:33 AM
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White women are the ones getting all the jobs & entire positions/departments made up for them Then you got the “ethnic minority women” (Indian, Asian, European, etc) Then you got the rainbow club & non-binary’s Black & Latino men are pretty much locked out of all that shit As a black man, I’m noticing black women getting funneled into a lot of these positions— I don’t think it’s by accident
/r/MensRights14/11/23 04:26 AM
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Any woman asking for a break is dealing with another man or other men This is usually about 99% true— and chances are, she’ll come back when she’s done having fun
/r/Divorce_Men14/11/23 04:16 AM
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The reason you don’t like it is because it scares you subconsciously You agree with what they’re saying but have to reject it to a degree because you’ve been programmed to believe otherwise It’s not that they’re dunking on women, it’s that you’re afraid that what they’re saying right Guys like you actually make it worse for the rest of us trying to change things because you don’t want to let go of the feminine imperative of “protecting women”
/r/Divorce_Men13/11/23 06:22 AM
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I just don’t understand why men look for reasons to be controlled, restricted & under the thumb of a woman or the government Any child you have in the US is essentially the mother’s by default, not the father’s If you guys break up within the next 20 years of the child being born— child support will be coming for you Why try to get locked into the system?
/r/Divorce_Men07/11/23 12:59 PM
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Some guys just can’t let it go It’s been conditioned into them since adolescence
/r/Divorce_Men06/11/23 10:16 AM
1

It should be considered elder abuse Very clear exploitation
/r/MensRights04/11/23 12:58 AM
2

‘Emotional labor’ is their favorite trump card & allows them to tack on a bunch intangible, unmeasurable things to their workload— to seem like they do more than you no matter what
/r/Divorce_Men29/10/23 05:18 AM
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There is no gender pay gap Easiest way to debunk it is— asian & white women make more than black men do The “gender pay gap” is just women wanting to make more than white men
/r/MensRights25/10/23 05:38 AM
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Women aren’t even better at hiding it It’s just that men are less likely to blow up their affair partner’s relationship than women are
/r/Divorce_Men24/10/23 12:37 AM
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Get a vasectomy if you’re planning on having sex again at some point in the future Nothing will derail you worse than some chick popping up with a baby
/r/MensRights22/10/23 04:28 AM
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I walk thru life as a ghost I’d be damned if I sacrificed myself for anything other than my own benefit Being selfish is a productivity hack
/r/MensRights20/10/23 11:19 AM
1

Flee town/country There’s also the option of somehow convincing the ex to find some guy to adopt the kids, have her sign off on terminating your parental rights, then also convince her to waive your child support payments So yeah…..
/r/MensRights19/10/23 07:46 AM
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A bunch of these white-collar jobs are gonna get flooded with non-men in the next 10 years Where else are they gonna put all the liberal arts majors?
/r/MensRights14/10/23 06:08 PM
1

I got snipped just recently, with this being a factor I had to idiot-proof myself Life is way too hard already & this economy is making it worse No way am I taking the chance of accidentally having a kid in this dating environment, where women know they have you by the balls once they either have a kid or get you to marry them Child support is a mf man — would not wanna get stuck in that system under any circumstances
/r/MensRights05/10/23 01:46 AM
1

The courts don’t care about any of the circumstances “Man pay” is the only relevant thing
/r/Divorce_Men03/10/23 03:10 PM
4

Have you guys ever been to a casino?
/r/Divorce_Men20/09/23 11:05 PM
2

My dad never said anything but my brothers picked up on how he really felt It’s endless sacrifices with a promised “reward” at the end Marriage is a borderline religion
/r/Divorce_Men13/09/23 10:20 PM
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I’ll be the critic here You: Dated a chick making WAY less than you You did a long distance relationship You flew her BACK into the country to LOS ANGELES, CALIFORNIA of all places You paid & subsidized her entire life You gave her a new fun career where she basically got meet all sorts ppl (including new men) You married her, thus giving her no incentive to cooperate with you anymore, while making tons of demands She more than likely was plotting for a green card Marriage is a plantation where …
/r/Divorce_Men13/09/23 11:44 AM
1

We’re all just making it up though…
/r/Divorce_Men21/08/23 04:44 AM
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Why why why do ppl continue to get legally married in this day & age? If she really “loves you more”, she’d have no problem with not getting married
/r/Divorce_Men18/08/23 02:33 AM
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That’s because despite the propaganda that’s put out there, most men are controlled by their wives, both directly & indirectly Guys don’t realize it because they’re trained to believe they are the leaders in the relationship when they really aren’t
/r/Divorce_Men06/08/23 05:10 PM
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Nope, you figure it out Tired of dudes seeing millions of men get screwed over in marriage & divorce, then they get to the front of the line & ask “how can I get screwed a little less?” Some men never learn Why enter into a voluntary legal contract where you have to protect yourself, when you could just avoid the legal contract entirely If you really wanna get married, find a rich woman That’s all the protection you’ll need
/r/MensRights06/08/23 04:45 PM
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Only two ways Luck Constant work, sacrifice, commitment & duty on BOTH sides Unfortunately, we know that one gender only looks at marriage as fun, butterflies, vacations, traveling, cash prizes, falling in love with their best friend, happiness, spontaneousness, etc all forever And they WILL bail when they aren’t “happy” anymore The idea of falling in love forever with one person & it staying that way for the next 50 years is extremely rare Especially when it isn’t our natural biology to be attr…
/r/Divorce_Men04/08/23 11:47 PM
1

I would never wanna be tethered to another person again
/r/Divorce_Men31/07/23 06:25 PM
0

Unfortunately, there are little to no options bro This is why the laws surrounding children & reproduction need to be taught to every single man out there, especially at younger ages If she puts you on child support, here are your options: a) Flee Either the country (you won’t be able to come back without paying) or go on the run (you won’t be able to get a passport, renew your drivers license, etc) b) Pay Get the court ordered child support amount & pay it while keeping your distance c) Termina…
/r/MensRights30/07/23 12:16 PM
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“Fair” is still making an unnecessary gamble How is it fair that they get anything you worked for?
/r/MensRights30/07/23 09:52 AM
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Women benefit from it way more They get a personal utility & provider, while men get duties, responsibilities & expectations Not just financially — but also having to give her the right amount of attention, energy, affection, time, effort, vulnerability, etc all while dealing with constant shit tests And it NEVER stops It’s just not worth the trouble, ESPECIALLY for guys who have a lot going for them in life You’re gonna relegate yourself to a corner in your own house AND life ————— This is befo…
/r/MensRights30/07/23 07:12 AM
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Sigh, marriage needs to be abolished
/r/Divorce_Men29/07/23 12:51 AM
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Thank god I’m a coward Because I’m not sacrificing myself for ANYBODY
/r/MensRights28/07/23 09:15 AM
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I had one assault me while while I was driving the car, fucked my face up, then took my car keys & threw them down the sewer Oh, and she called the cops afterwards claiming I hit her Guess what they did to her? NOTHING This system is completely fucked up
/r/Divorce_Men14/07/23 06:07 AM
7

“Let’s move to a place where I could screw you even worse babe”
/r/Divorce_Men12/07/23 11:43 PM
1

I’m not angry at all But sometimes I’ll think back realize how horrible she was & become thankful I didn’t get stuck with her
/r/Divorce_Men12/07/23 11:41 PM
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And she more than likely deleted her responses as well to make him look worse Almost presenting it like he’s “reprimanding” her with 10 straight messages
/r/Divorce_Men11/07/23 08:00 AM
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Bro, don’t take her back This entire paragraph read like you’re trying to make logistics to bring her back around She CHEATED on you dude — specifically after you told her not to in the beginning She knew what the boundary was & still stepped over it If her new guy wasn’t a total piece of shit, she’s be all over him still She tried to throw you under the bus, but instead got bamboozled by the new guy & now she has NOWHERE to land, so she’s running back to you You’re her easiest lifeline right no…
/r/Divorce_Men11/07/23 03:25 AM
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Marriage is a government-backed insurance policy on your relationship Zero upside & you’re essentially at a woman’s mercy once you sign the contract She has no obligation to continue contributing to the relationship — not financially, intimately or even physically (keeping herself in shape) Not worth the trouble whatsoever
/r/Divorce_Men09/07/23 02:00 AM
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Some guys just can’t get away from the ‘woman is god’ mentality It’s easy to see how dudes get married & screwed over more than once
/r/Divorce_Men05/07/23 09:11 PM
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This is typical “it’s the man’s job, she’s perfect the way she is” bullshit Get the hell outta here I hope another woman screws you over if this is how you think
/r/Divorce_Men05/07/23 09:10 PM
1

The concept makes sense, but the way it’s practiced in modern times is so far off from what the intention was
/r/Divorce_Men03/07/23 12:01 AM
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Some women are always the ‘victim’ no matter what they did in their prior relationships It makes it easier to rationalize why someone would wanna get away from her
/r/Divorce_Men02/07/23 04:25 PM
5

The fèminism kicked in
/r/Divorce_Men02/07/23 01:19 AM
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It’s no surprise that everywhere you go, women promote marriage the most — but are the quickest to bail on it for any arbitrary reason They truly believe bullshit like ‘emotional labor’ is equal to everything a man has to provide & put up with
/r/Divorce_Men30/06/23 12:42 PM
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Some guys truly believe that by “locking it down”, their wife will never care for the gaze of another man again
/r/Divorce_Men30/06/23 12:39 PM
1

They always keep something on you — whether their memory is true or not
/r/Divorce_Men28/06/23 02:59 PM
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I’m against getting married all together I’m against the laws surrounding divorce
/r/Divorce_Men20/06/23 01:02 PM
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Marriage & Divorce leads to court-ordered slavery, passive income for the woman & a cashed-in insurance policy
/r/Divorce_Men20/06/23 08:24 AM
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Super objectively attractive women are always burnt out by the time they’re ready to ‘settle down’ They usually never had to reciprocate anything in their lives & it only gets worse once they lock some guy in long-term
/r/Divorce_Men19/06/23 12:10 AM
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A vast majority of women are, by definition, narcissists
/r/Divorce_Men18/06/23 09:31 AM
1

Try playing Call if Duty with the game chat on lol
/r/Divorce_Men17/06/23 05:55 AM
1

You’ve learn how to deal with those feelings of being alone A woman will not solve your issues bro & neither will a relationship / marriage If you don’t learn how to be alone, you will become dependent upon being in relationship no matter how bad it is Don’t believe me, just scroll through some of these subreddits where guys are getting cheated on, abused, lied to, manipulated, etc — yet are still trying to “communicate” & make things work because they’re afraid of being by themselves —— Now tha…
/r/Divorce_Men15/06/23 07:18 AM
1

I only date short-term & if they start pushing the “what are we?” bullshit — I get out of there immediately Long-term relationships just isn’t worth the trouble these days Waaay too many things that can go wrong — cheating, DV accusations, paternity fraud, financial abuse, verbal + physical abuse, sneakiness, manipulation, single moms, boss babes, etc All of these come in some form with 99% of the women you come across If you choose to date seriously, just know that you CANNOT escape the negativ…
/r/Divorce_Men15/06/23 05:13 AM
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Easy is good sometimes
/r/Divorce_Men14/06/23 07:24 AM
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The issue with marrying college-educated women is that they file for 90% of divorces. I suppose it’s better than having to pay a SAHW for the rest of your life, but you’re still not dodging the high probability of her walking out
/r/Divorce_Men12/06/23 08:48 PM
1

Everytime guys ask this, it re-affirms that society’s programming can override all logic There’s no incentive in getting married dude — if you’re gonna get a woman, it’s best to stay unmarried No need to add a government-backed insurance policy on your relationship
/r/Divorce_Men12/06/23 05:04 AM
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I guess it is pride month 😂
/r/Divorce_Men03/06/23 11:03 PM
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This dude ain’t reading any of our posts 100 bucks says he’s already called & texted his ex wife a million times begging for her to come back Look at what he wrote — he’s never lived outside that bubble he created In the world of 8 billion ppl, she’s the ONLY girl he wants to be with Good luck man
/r/Divorce_Men02/06/23 02:33 PM
1

Its amazing how some men can be so successful in so many different aspects of life — but when it comes to dating & relationships, they are complete & utter fools
/r/Divorce_Men24/05/23 11:29 AM
1

They already fucked bro smh We’re not 15 anymore If you put two adults in one room, there will be fucking going on
/r/Divorce_Men23/05/23 05:44 AM
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Nope, You gain absolutely nothing Many say it’s selfish to think that way, but will also say that a woman deserves half your shit for just being around you The problem with marriage is that everything that a man is supposed to provide: security, money, experiences, etc — those are all tangible things that can be measured The things women are “supposed” to or claim they provide: support, peace, love, sex — those are mostly intangibles & things like sex can be taken off the table at her discretion…
/r/Divorce_Men22/05/23 01:16 PM
1

I try to keep explanations as simple as possible This seems like a classic case of ‘got married too young & one partner wants to make up for lost time’
/r/Divorce_Men19/05/23 03:17 PM
3

Shit. Take heed young fellas. Marrying someone making less than half your income is like sticking your head in a guillotine & waiting for your “wife” to pull the lever. Being the kind of guy I am, I’d just go on the run or flee the country. I couldn’t fathom paying money to anyone or anything I’m not longer involved with.
/r/Divorce_Men17/05/23 04:26 AM
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Don’t marry at all. You’ve gotta get out of the societal programming bro Your life has meaning without being married Any woman that comes to a western country has a 80-90% chance of assimilating into the “culture”. It’s promoted everywhere — in music, movies, social media, TV Unless she finds a group of like-minded women from a similar background, the writing is on the wall — Hell, the women that grow up in this country can’t fight the influence their friends have If you choose to do it, you kno…
/r/Divorce_Men17/05/23 04:15 AM
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Yup 100%. I don’t trust any neutral media, creator, forum or general outlet anymore, because they’re only neutral due to not wanting to piss off their female audience Can’t have any discussions with them because it devolves into bad faith emotional arguments & “men do it too” Never trust anything that says ‘pro-men’ but has women at the forefront
/r/Divorce_Men16/05/23 08:48 AM
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It’s pure hope Dudes fail to realize that we’re in 2023 & women will always win in the court of public opinion All she has to do is convince everyone that you’re a piece of shit & now it’s open season on everything positive you’ve ever accomplished
/r/Divorce_Men16/05/23 08:45 AM
3

Reddit went full libtard a long time ago
/r/Divorce_Men16/05/23 08:41 AM
1

Get accustomed to it bro. Those solo breakfast, lunch & dinners are phenomenal. Never gets old.
/r/Divorce_Men25/04/23 01:44 AM
3

“Because she’s different bro. I just want something real.”
/r/Divorce_Men24/04/23 07:54 PM
1

Stabbed?? Bro, please find a way out of this relationship.
/r/Divorce_Men23/04/23 06:46 PM
9

I hate to be that guy, but there aren’t too many “amazing” 42 year olds Especially one that just magically falls into your lap right during your divorce You need to take a step back & evaluate what you’re doing
/r/Divorce_Men23/04/23 02:10 AM
3

Pretty much lol Plus the feminine touch is actually great thing to have on your skin But you don’t need to be married or even commit to get those things
/r/Divorce_Men22/04/23 05:39 PM
3

Yup, you’d rather have a chick cheat on you at 25 & monkey branch to some loser Vs Her cheating on me at 35 w/ 2 kids, a house & cars + a 6-figure salary — and now you’re stuck paying her to live with her boyfriend I almost thought about getting married my last ex years ago & thank god I didn’t — she was the one pushing for married WHILE she was cheating on me Crazy shit right? Anyways I’m not even a “commitment” type of guy when it comes to anything — the logical leap it would take for me to pu…
/r/Divorce_Men22/04/23 05:31 PM
1

Women are experts in the court of public opinion. As men, we try to play fair & be “soft” with them during tough situations — meanwhile they’ve gone off & told every single person you guys know + coworkers + your family & more. Controlling the narrative is all apart of their agenda. They do not play fair. Period.
/r/Divorce_Men21/04/23 06:01 PM
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My ex tried lovebombing, promises, guarantees, becoming a devout Christian, etc. I wasn’t buying any of it. My motto in life: If you do it once, you can do it agin. And the next time is always worse.
/r/Divorce_Men21/04/23 05:54 PM
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I gotta start searching then. Twitter is a good spot with an anon account but it’s hard to get any intricate discourse there. Unfortunately that place is liberal-central too.
/r/Divorce_Men21/04/23 05:47 PM
2

That’s because most of those articles are written by liberals or womanists who have an active agenda in making sure that masculinity is suppressed. Lots of guys look at “red pill” as bullshit. Hell, I did too many years ago. The main reason is that guys don’t wanna think that they’re woman acts in that manner or can be gamed. The fact of the matter is: that all can. Years after I got screwed by multiple women, including one who really did me wrong, I found out those “red pill idiots” were 100% o…
/r/Divorce_Men21/04/23 05:33 PM
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Looks like she’s found a new a boy toy. It’s amazing for how “different” they are, the programming & script stays the same. It’s the Classic: “I love you but not in love with you” BS How are you the primary breadwinner but she’s making you sleep in the basement? You gotta stand up bro. Guys don’t realize that they slowly become betatized after a while of being with the same woman, no matter how attractive you might be yourself. They get bored & start giving you all sorts of reasons for not wanti…
/r/Divorce_Men21/04/23 05:27 PM
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This whole app has gone to shit if we’re being honest Nearly every pro-male subreddit has been disbanded due to lobbying from the groups you named You can’t even a find a damn independent forum anymore where guys can congregate & discuss this stuff
/r/Divorce_Men21/04/23 05:21 PM
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Yup, we make the mistake of thinking that a terrible woman has a look. And an “innocent” one has a look too. And if just we pick one that looks innocent, we’ll be fine — unlike all those other “fools” over there who picked theirs. Reality is: They are all capable & the ones you least suspect will hit you the hardest.
/r/Divorce_Men21/04/23 06:15 AM
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I don’t doubt you. The problem is: Once you become married, you automatically become the good guy to her Women get bored easily, that’s why they’ll chase feelings over all else. After 20 years, theres no tingles. No spontaneous activities. No butterflies after texts or meetups. The bad boy in this case is the guy she felt she couldn’t have. It’s typical female behavior. Almost like they read from the same script.
/r/Divorce_Men21/04/23 02:28 AM
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Sounds like the typical: Fun guy vs Husband/Bf Material Lots of guys assume that just because his woman is with him, that she’s only attracted to guys like him My ex cheated on me with a drug dealer too At the end of the day, the only thing predictable about women is that if she’s had “bad boy” exes in the past — there’s a good chance she’s still communicating with them
/r/Divorce_Men21/04/23 01:39 AM
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Seriously. These days, you wake up 3 years after marriage & suddenly she’s bisexual. 5 years later, she wants an open relationship. Makes no sense to bet everything you have that she will never change or change the context of the relationship.
/r/Divorce_Men11/04/23 05:45 AM
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I wouldn’t be surprised if she did. Mine went outta town on a “girls trip”. This is how I ended finding out what she was doing.
/r/Divorce_Men10/04/23 10:32 AM
1

I’ve learned enough about women to know that she WILL get pregnant whether it’s by you or not. Paternity fraud is a motherfucker.
/r/Divorce_Men10/04/23 09:09 AM
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You’re never too young my friend. The system doesn’t care how old you are, they’ll just take what they can get.
/r/Divorce_Men10/04/23 08:08 AM
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Her friends were whores anyway but her mother never believed her & still communicates with me.
/r/Divorce_Men10/04/23 08:06 AM
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Divorce benefits the person who makes less. A SAHM essentially makes nothing. This is a problem because your immediate income, retirement, assets, etc are all completely fair game & will be divided much more in her favor because she has no income. I know a highly successful guy who runs a church in my town, who’s wife quit her job to become the “accountant” there. He essentially had to pay her severance to leave her position, alimony, child support & more. With the career woman, you still get fu…
/r/Divorce_Men10/04/23 08:05 AM
2

Hell, if you’re lucky, she’ll just have the kids then kick you out immediately afterwards & replace you with government.
/r/Divorce_Men10/04/23 07:48 AM
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It’s real out here bro. We were never told this stuff when we were younger — it was just “be a good man” & she’ll do her part. Nobody informed us of the scandalous nature of many of these 304s
/r/Divorce_Men10/04/23 07:47 AM
2

Yup, pretty much comes down to luck. I’d never invite another woman into my household or inner daily life.
/r/Divorce_Men10/04/23 07:34 AM
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Stay at home moms are the biggest cheaters of them all. Atleast the career woman has the decency to fuck around on a business trip. I don’t trust any woman after what my ex did — her boredom will eventually become a you problem. You didn’t entertain her enough. Didn’t give her enough attention. Didn’t spend enough time doing random bullshit. She also has all the time in the world to find a new boytoy — nowadays they have social media, group chats, friend groups. It won’t take long for her to fin…
/r/Divorce_Men10/04/23 07:26 AM
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My ex cheated on me then told everyone I was controlling & abusive. Shit is crazy out here.
/r/Divorce_Men10/04/23 07:24 AM
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*for betas
/r/MGTOW221/02/21 10:24 AM
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I’ve talked about this on here before. Women seem to have an inability of just letting things be. It’s always “What are we doing” “Why haven’t we done this” “Why aren’t we doing this” “Why haven’t we done this in a while” “When are we gonna do this” “When was the last time we did this” It’s never ending. This is why we also say don’t commit or cohabitate because suddenly YOU are responsible for the lifestyle you guys live. And if you aren’t improving her lifestyle continually then the “I’m unhap…
/r/MGTOW221/02/21 10:13 AM
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Because it makes it infinitely harder to break up or get rid of them once they inevitably become a general pain in the ass. Not to mention that if they just suddenly stop doing whatever they said they were gonna do (ie: help pay bills or mortgage, cook, clean, etc) you can’t just kick them out on the street.
/r/MGTOW216/02/21 06:45 PM
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The period from October & February was always terrible for me. Between the anniversary, her birthday, Christmas, Valentines Day, & all the other bullshit dates and events in between, it was a massive money pit. This day is really just a pissing contest between women on social media for who can manipulate their boyfriend / husband into doing the biggest grand gesture. Saw some guy on Facebook buy his gf a Model X earlier. He’s a truck driver so he’ll be gone most of the time. You guys can figure …
/r/MGTOW214/02/21 09:12 PM
3

Why do some of you guys persist in trying to beat the odds here? If you’re much more well off financially than her & you get married, you’re gonna be fucked when divorce season comes around. Prenup or not. No way in hell will the courts allow you to walk away scot-free with 10x her income. God forbid you have a kid or two. If you choose to get married nowadays, you should be doing it being fully okay with someone being able to walk away with half your possessions plus a monthly stimulus check fu…
/r/MGTOW214/02/21 09:05 PM
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I think a lot of guys are red pill aware but choose it either because they believe their girl “isn’t like that” or he thinks nothing can happen to him. How do I know? I was one of them. I thought all of those fucked up stories I saw on the MGTOW & redpill subreddits were just bitter dudes who were mad..... Until I had my own fucked up story.
/r/MGTOW214/02/21 05:21 PM
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That’s their problem. They don’t know how to just let things be. It’s constant talk about “what we’re doing”, “what’s next”, “what are we”, “where are we”, “why aren’t we doing this”, “why aren’t you doing this anymore”, “why haven’t we been to this place”, etc. It’s mentally & physically draining. I hated being around my ex for this very reason. She became unbearable the more time out of the day I spent with her. Then these women have the audacity to hop on social media everyday & say “I don’t …
/r/MGTOW214/02/21 05:03 AM
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This is why guys who come in here saying you can be MGTOW while getting married & living with a woman need to be ostracized. It’s not gatekeeping. There’s a reason we say to avoid those situations. You will eventually lose.
/r/MGTOW213/02/21 09:01 PM
1

Marriage is just one symptom of the real issue. One of the worst ones? Yes. But a symptom nonetheless.
/r/MGTOW213/02/21 11:54 AM
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Stop thinking it’s YOUR job to save her from her past choices. Stop believing that all her exes were abusive, controlling, etc. Stop taking them on dates, buying them things, etc. Attraction cannot be negotiated. IF she is actually legitimately to you, it’s better to be chased than to be caught. (i.e.: don’t commit to her or get into a relationship) You’d be appalled at the shit women do when they’re trying to win over a man. And best of all: You will always become the bad guy at some point, the…
/r/MGTOW213/02/21 10:14 AM
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I agree 100% Recently stopped having sex with a chick because I could never get a concrete definitive answer to whether or not she would keep a child if she got pregnant. She always says things like “I don’t wanna have kids until X age” but then she loves being around babies & sharing stuff on social media. 2 months ago, she started saying how she doesn’t know what she’d do if she was pregnant. After that, I stopped having sex with her, period. I’ve read too many horror stories here about chicks…
/r/MGTOW213/02/21 10:05 AM
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They’ll start arguments over the dumbest shit then have the audacity to say “it’s just how I feeeeeel”. My ex girlfriend would constantly start arguments over the dumbest shit and assaulted me several times because I would blow them off. Literally called the police on me because I pushed her down after she kept hitting me. My dumbass still stayed for two more years. I was young and thought “this is just the way it is“. You always hear about how arguments are supposed to “make the relationship st…
/r/MGTOW212/02/21 10:43 PM
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If a woman is really attracted you, she’ll let you get away with WHATEVER. If she isn’t really attracted to you, she may let you display your love for her by buying her gifts, taking her out, doing massive acts of love or paying her bills, but the moment you stop doing that, you are outta there. I grew up on Disney movies & romance stories. Even though I’m a fairly attractive guy & have even had women approach me countless times, my early blue pill programming had ruined any chance I’d get. Even…
/r/MGTOW211/02/21 09:25 PM
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I guess I can kinda see his point. There’s a between a feminine gay guy & a masculine gay guy. Similar to how the lesbians usually have a “man” in the relationship. To each their own I suppose.
/r/MGTOW211/02/21 10:31 AM
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This has ALWAYS been my argument. If a women is adamant about not having a child, she has EVERY means to prevent it. Pre-Sex, during sex, after sex and after pregnancy, THEY HAVE EVERY OPTION. MEN HAVE ONE, barely. Yet it’s somehow the man’s fault when a misfortunate child is born. For women: “It’s her choice!” For men: “Welp, shouldn’t have had sex” That’s like forcing the woman to have the child simply because she had sex. It’s bullshit.
/r/MGTOW211/02/21 09:03 AM
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This is why I always tell men (AND women)((in public)) to always avoid getting involved with someone who is worse off financially than you. You gain ABSOLUTELY nothing & only stand to lose in that situation when things go wrong.
/r/MGTOW211/02/21 08:57 AM
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You’re young dude. Some of here have been divorced, cheated on, baby trapped, used as a utility, embarrassed, assaulted, berated or even falsely accused by women in our lives. You’re still young & haven’t experienced that stuff (yet)((hopefully)). If you feel like you just can’t control yourself & resist the urge, go ahead & date. Nothing wrong with it. But just a word of advice: Don’t make any big mistakes. Most women are atleast moderately dangerous & manipulative. They have no problem using y…
/r/MGTOW210/02/21 12:04 AM
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Some are happy with not having the responsibility of a higher position. Others have to do those jobs either to get away from their wives, or because they decided to dedicate their lives to making sure their wives don’t have to work. I knew a guy that worked 16-18 hour days so his wife could stay home. Back in my blue pill days, I thought it was noble of him.
/r/MGTOW205/02/21 02:20 AM
2

Workout, find a hobby, start taking a glance at all those women you never paid attention to (helps get past the one-itis), etc. A lot of guys put their unicorn or gf on a pedestal. The fact is: she’s not special. This is why I recommend the last tip the most. Start checking out other women. You don’t have to interact with them at all. Just look at all the attractive chicks around you & you’ll wonder why you thought your old girl was all that. It really helped me when I was a little younger.
/r/MGTOW201/02/21 06:00 AM
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THIS. A lot of guys will come here wondering why most of us agree that marriage, cohabitation, commitment & kids are off the table. This is exactly why. If you refuse to do any of those things, you are able to maintain agency over your own life. The second you do any of those, you essentially hand control of you life over. Remember fellas: Keep it light.
/r/MGTOW201/02/21 05:46 AM
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There’s a pattern here. Every time you wanted to do the right & smart thing, you allowed her to oppose you. At some point you gotta stop stand up for yourself & stop listening to her. You’re now 3 kids deep dude. Since you didn’t leave years ago, NOW is the best time to get out. Otherwise you’ll be sorry when another kid pops out OR she wants a new house, etc. You sacrificed everything & she’s gotten everything she wanted. And yet, she still feels the need to attack you.
/r/Divorce_Men28/01/21 11:59 PM
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Prenups mean absolutely nothing. Can easily be thrown out for “unenforceable clauses”. The worst part: even if only one part is deemed null, they can void the entire prenuptial agreement. Divorce court is open season. I’d be damned if someone took 700K from me.
/r/Divorce_Men28/01/21 11:08 PM
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It’s always been a business transaction. It’s literally a contract. If it was just about love, why would the the government need to be involved at all. It’s effectively relationship insurance. Marriage is an antiquated tradition that needs to be abolished in its current form. Atleast give people the option to end or renew the marriage after certain time periods. 3 years, 6 years, whatever. It would make FAR more sense.
/r/Divorce_Men28/01/21 09:43 PM
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Has she atleast done any of the things she “loved to do” to you?
/r/MGTOW223/01/21 11:25 AM
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There’s always a next guy OP. It’s just a matter of time.
/r/MGTOW223/01/21 11:14 AM
3

White females are easily the most over privileged group out of all women. A lot of them never had to lift a finger their entire lives because their dads were complete pushovers. Zero accountability whatsoever. Then they get gifted cushy jobs like HR Director in their adult years. They seem to be the fastest to file false charges against someone as well. Black men know all about it. The only time you’ll see them with any other race is if the guy is a pro athlete or some sort of rich guy. Hispanic…
/r/MGTOW223/01/21 10:21 AM
2

“Relationships” is broad term. Do I still date, communicate, associate, & do things with women? Of course I do. What can I say, I enjoy the feminine touch. What I won’t do is get into ANY form of exclusive romantic relationships, no LONG-TERM relationships, no cohabitating, no kids & definitely no marriage. The longer you’re with a woman exclusively, the more issues start to arise. The shit tests will start, she starts feeling entitled to your time & it just goes down from there. I am very cogni…
/r/MGTOW215/01/21 05:58 AM
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Same thing happened to me minus the kids. Always remember fellas: HER happiness will always come first. She doesn’t give a damn about you in the way you think she does.
/r/MGTOW215/01/21 12:15 AM
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These guys never realize that once “their” woman starts talking that “focusing on my happiness” bullshit, it’s all downhill from there. Hell, she’s usually already cheating at that point.
/r/MGTOW215/01/21 12:11 AM
1

I think they’re still holding onto hope that if they somehow maintain frame for the rest of their lives, they can still secure their unicorn. Either that or some guys are just masquerading as a MGTOW because they got turned down by some girl. They’re still in the anger stage & have some red pill knowledge but they’re ultimately jumping the gun by claiming MGTOW.
/r/MGTOW213/01/21 11:56 AM
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I agree 100%. I think there’s a huge difference between guys who are MGTOW because some girl rejected them vs a guy who turns MGTOW because he’s been in relationships/gotten cheated on/dealt with general female bullshit. Only one of these guys is battle-tested & knows what comes with dealing with women. The dudes who do it without any real experience tend to be those “one blowjob from the plantation” kind of guys & might even still be holding out for their unicorn. We should realize that most of…
/r/MGTOW213/01/21 09:27 AM
1

Relationships are inherently blue pill/beta-oriented. The longer you’re with someone, the more you begin to feel unattracted to them. It gets progressively worse once you either have kids, move in together or get married.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/20 05:42 AM
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If any of you question what OP said, take a trip the deadbedroom, cheating_stories, survivinginfidelity, & relationship_advice subreddits. You will find all the material you need in those. Reading those threads everyday will surely move you closer to the red pill.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/20 05:39 AM
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This is how I felt during the relationship I ended up getting cheated on in.
/r/MGTOW221/12/20 09:38 PM
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I took my first dose of red pills around 19 years old when I couldn’t figure out why this girl I was trying to get with never gave me the time of day or took me seriously. Won’t get into specifics but I did everything for her. I even royally fucked up my credit, finances & mental health for that situation. She told me that she wasn’t ready for relationship right now & wanted to work on herself. Turns out when she went to college she ended up getting a boyfriend who I assume she’s still with now.…
/r/MGTOW220/12/20 04:23 PM
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Can you imagine that there are actually guys out here that are eager to do this dumb shit? They wear it like a badge of honor. I worked with a guy like this last year. Worst part about it is that it still won’t be enough for her. Publicly, she’ll brag about him on social media for validation points. Privately, she’s bitching to her family & friends about how he isn’t giving her enough attention. To him, she’s complaining that he needs to do more. Whatever more is.
/r/MGTOW217/12/20 06:16 AM
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She’s probably sneaking Chad, Tyrone or Miguel into the back door right after he leaves for work.
/r/MGTOW217/12/20 05:38 AM
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Shit, last time I dated a single mother, my dick refused to have sex with her....If you know what I mean. There were times when she’d try to initiate with the kids (two aged under 3 year old) INSIDE the same room. She’d always tell me about how she wished she never had kids & how she was done having them. Funnily enough, last I heard, she had another kid last year. Thank god I bolted before then.
/r/MGTOW225/11/20 08:20 PM
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100% true. Happened to me & happened in literally every situation I’ve seen where the woman cheated.
/r/PussyPassDenied15/11/20 02:43 PM
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I was gonna leave some choice words here but I’ll refrain & just say you fucked up big time.
/r/MGTOW230/10/20 09:19 AM
1

Banned because I said black people actually have been disadvantaged for much of the past 2-3 centuries.
/r/MGTOW227/10/20 09:50 AM
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Avoiding unnecessary loans and/or debt. If you’re planning to go to college, DO NOT go right out of high school. You will receive a lot of resistance but you need to stick to your guns. 99% of 18 year olds have no clue what they want to next week, let alone what they want their career to be.
/r/MGTOW202/10/20 03:39 AM
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It’s not about being a “minority”. It’s about being treated negatively simply based on your skin color. Darker skinned people (specifically black ppl here) have been killed, attacked, kept away from getting loans, rejected from workspaces, unable to get housing in certain areas, profiled, beaten, enslaved, disenfranchised etc simply because they were black since like forever. If you think them getting a fucking category in a food delivery app is even remotely comparable to systematic racism, you…
/r/MGTOW18/07/20 10:01 AM
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Lol. I’ve noticed that anytime a non-woman based topic comes up, you guys have some garbage ass opinions. Black people have been disenfranchised for centuries. Segregation wasn’t that long ago relatively. Many black-owned businesses never had the chance to growth/thrive because no-one would shop there due to it being BLACK-OWNED. I’ll get downvoted to hell for this but idc lol. Some of you really need to evolve from the bullshit views you carry. Read a fucking history book or two. Black-owned bu…
/r/MGTOW18/07/20 09:33 AM
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Funniest part is that she could end up with a guy who fits 9 of her 10 dumbass requirements & she would probably nag him to death about it, only to turn around & fuck some guy who doesn’t check off any of the boxes.
/r/MGTOW16/07/20 05:47 AM
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Women are usually expected to just show up. That’s why many of them lack any foresight & fail at long-term planning.
/r/MGTOW14/07/20 05:53 PM
2

This would’ve sounded like a Russell Wilson post office there was no picture. I almost feel terrible for that guy once Ciara dumps him for some thug after taking half his NFL money.
/r/MGTOW14/07/20 05:27 PM
2

Russell Wilson, Steph Curry....
/r/MGTOW14/07/20 05:26 AM
1

Lol. He’s fucked. And the clock is ticking. When the clock strikes midnight & he’s dead broke, she’ll have already used him as a stepping stone for her career and will drop his dumbass like a bad habit. Giving up a life like that just for the sake of her is extremely stupid in & of itself. Almost like he thinks he’s living a fairytale. And you know what, she’s probably thinking the same thing too. “This jackass really gave up a luxury life for me. What an idiot.”
/r/MGTOW19/01/20 12:47 PM
4

Twitter is most certainly on this list. Every anti-male tweet is met with 20K likes & retweets while every pro-male tweet is met with a mob of angry women calling you all kinds of shit and simps chiming in for validation. Mob mentality is extremely prevalent on that app. I’m convinced that men are outnumbered 50-1 on there.
/r/MGTOW19/01/20 12:36 PM
3

If you read the articles, you’ll notice that none of them have citations whatsoever & continue to repeat “according to recent surveys”. Then the studies they referenced were done nearly 20 years ago with no data on the actual surveys conducted. Everybody shitposting in those threads should be ashamed. All it takes is 1 dummy to spew false info then a bunch of dummies come in & parrot the same shit. Suddenly it’s 30 on 1 & whoever gets the most likes & retweets wins apparently. Twitter’s probably…
/r/MGTOW09/07/19 05:24 PM
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She cited 3 bogus articles from pro-marriage websites 😂😂😂. The articles aren’t even real sources! The amount of stupidity in that thread is absurd. A bunch of women are attacking him too lmao
/r/MGTOW09/07/19 11:52 AM
1

She’ll be looking to “find herself” in a few years. I’m never surprised anymore. And the thing is, plenty of men find her attractive. What she’s really saying is she wants some guy in Steph Curry’s status or income bracket to take their chances with her
/r/MGTOW09/05/19 04:44 AM
1

Damn shame. And the guy is 34 years old. He should know better. That guy is fucked ultimately. The worst thing you can do is try to rationalize someone else's decision to fuck you over. You'll never learn. Here's what really happened: She fucked some guy off Tinder for FREE just because she wanted too, KNOWING that she had some bluepill beta bitch on his way to pay a premium on her "services". What a clown. But this yet another example of women speaking in code to sound like a victim. Clown's li…
/r/MGTOW23/09/18 11:32 PM
1

Your first mistake was taking her to the movies. Very little opportunity to interact verbally or physically.
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