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1dafullyfe/r/seduction29/12/17 10:22 PM
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How can you grow to care about a woman you've only been talking to for one week? You pretty much answered your own question about why she was "tired" all of a sudden. You made yourself way too available to her and she started losing interest. Stop texting / calling / responding to her everyday. Give her a chance to miss you. Mix it up and stop being so predictable. Go a day with immediately responding to her. Let her wonder about you sometimes. Women are like cats. They get bored very easily whe…
/r/seduction06/09/22 02:27 AM
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Don't text her. Just call her on Sunday. You: Hey what's up? This is Joe from Target Her: Blah, Blah, Blah You: Nice. Any plans for the holiday weekend? Her: Blah, blah, blah You: (make 5-10 minute small talk. You basically want to gauge her interest level and see if she's boring or not. If she sounds cool then ask her when is she free to meet up for a drink, bite to eat or whatever you like to do) Her: (if she gives you a day she's free then make a date and get off the phone. If she says "I don…
/r/seduction03/09/22 05:02 AM
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Things that might involve physical contact like dancing, teaching her to shoot pool if she's never played before or just simply making a move when she's at your crib. If she's not with it then fall back for a minute then try again. If she tries to friendzone you then you're a fool if you continue hang around her.
/r/seduction31/08/22 10:50 PM
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Two good books that will help you out tremendously: No More Mr. Nice Guy by Robert Glover The Manipulated Man by Ester Vilar
/r/seduction22/02/21 05:30 AM
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Going through all that just to holla at some random chick is crazy. It's not like you're going on a job interview or auditioning for a movie role. Women are the gate keepers to sex but they're also human just like men. They're not queens or goddesses. Which means if she rejects you then it's best to just shake it off, laugh about it and keep it moving. I agree with the top post here about just starting a regular convo. That way it's a small investment on your part and you can better feel her out…
/r/seduction21/02/21 08:09 PM
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I tell her to text me or I'll text her when we make it back home depending on who's crib we were at. Keep text convo short and to the point. "Made it home safe. Had a great time." Once she replies I end the convo. Then I fall back and let her contact me. If she had a good time she'll reach out. When she does I set up the next date. If she doesn't reach out then I move on. If you want a relationship always let her bring it up first. Until then keep it strictly dickly and let her do most of the pu…
/r/seduction21/02/21 06:18 PM
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You're right about giving free validation. She already knows she looks good. She's been hearing it her whole life. What women claim they want vs what they actually want are two different things. Women want to chase your validation. They lose attraction when you constantly give it away for free. Granted all of this means nothing if she's not attracted to you. You can't force attraction. Either she's feeling tippy or she's not.
/r/seduction20/02/21 10:27 PM
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Steady vagina. That's about it.
/r/seduction20/02/21 10:19 PM
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She's giving you the real deal straight from a woman's perspective. It doesn't get any realer than this. Actions speak louder than words. This is why men shouldn't go crazy over silence or delayed replies. No reply is still a reply. It just means little to no interest
/r/seduction08/02/21 07:30 AM
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Wait a few hours and respond back. High interest chicks are easy. With low interest chicks like this it's best to keep her on low priority just like she's doing to you. If you play it right you can still smash later.
/r/seduction08/02/21 07:25 AM
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Friends with benefits is the way to go.
/r/seduction31/01/21 09:26 PM
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You're right about her also having to meet your standards. Though most men fall in love over a pretty smile and a hot body. Either she's attracted to you or she's not. All that swooning, trying to win her over, seeking her approval and obsessing over her bullshit you see in the movies only diminishes your value in her eyes in real life. Making a move and communicating your interest is fine. If she's not feeling you just smile and move on.
/r/seduction20/09/20 12:22 AM
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Only an insecure man who is an over analytical pessimist would assume an attractive woman is crazy for approaching him. I don't mind women approaching me at all. Makes it much easier for me to seduce and sleep with her if I find her attractive. If not I just tell her I'm not interested and move on.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/20 10:59 PM
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I would not mess with a woman already in a relationship, but it sounds like you basically talked her out giving you some pussy by acting like her male girlfriend instead of a dude that finds her attractive and wants to fuck her. Better to make a move and risk embarrassment and rejection than to live with regret later thinking "I should've just fucked her".
/r/TheRedPill14/02/18 02:20 AM
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I don't think she was using him. I think she wanted some dick, but he talked her out of it. All women want sex to be the man's fault, not theirs. Beta behavior like doubting yourself and going the "gentleman" route, when you have a woman all over you is fear of losing her or "fucking things up". Better to take a chance and face rejection on the spot, then playing the Nice Guy, male girlfriend.
/r/TheRedPill14/02/18 02:13 AM
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How do you telekinetically insult someone? Also, who said you need a squad? Sure brotherhood with like minded men is awesome, but look at Debo from Friday. That dude was his own squad all by himself. And he had no problem intimidating beta males, bossing them around.
/r/TheRedPill12/02/18 09:00 PM
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I can confirm some beta dudes hate more than gossiping women. Whether you're pursuing goals, meeting hot women, getting money, working out, or just feeling good, not every male friend in your life is going to be happy about it. The hate manifests in different ways. It could small shit like dudes gossiping about you behind your back and shake your hand, cock blocking, trying to fuck your girl, to way more serious shit like robbery, setting you up to get jumped, to even calculated murder. That's w…
/r/TheRedPill12/02/18 08:47 PM
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If she said "next week sure", why not make a definite date and time? Texting and phone talk between dates is bad, because she basically finds out everything you've been up to has no excitement to see you because she knows everything you've been up to. Also, it makes it look like you have no life and don't do well with other women since you are always free to talk and text with her. Women need to wonder about you. They don't want a dude that gets rejected by other women. So even if you're not doi…
/r/seduction09/01/18 05:40 PM
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I'm willing to bet some of those "creeps" you're referring too, are probably the ones who are not afraid of rejection, take risks by laughing and joking with those models, make dates and end up getting laid. Stop putting the models on pedestals and treat them the same way you would treat women you are not interested in. Joke and laugh with them like they are normal people and make a date with whichever one shows interest.
/r/seduction04/01/18 05:35 PM
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No. You should move on and meet new women. Why waste time dating a girl you have zero chance to romance? It sounds like you are giving off the "scared, shy guy friend" vibe by texting too much and not going for the kiss when you're out on dates. Girls eventually get bored or perceive you as a "friend" and make excuses like being busy when they lose interest. You should only text to make dates, get to the point and then end the convo. Don't hang out with your date and friends at the same time.
/r/seduction04/01/18 05:28 PM
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Next time she invites you over or you invite her over, be upfront with her about your romantic intentions. If she says no, then tell her you are interested in her in a romantic way, but not as platonic friends.
/r/seduction04/01/18 05:20 PM
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Keep your hands to yourself and focus on getting her to talk, laugh, enjoy your company and feel comfortable. She'll let you know in her own way when she's ready to be touched.
/r/seduction04/01/18 02:24 PM
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Like the old business saying goes, "you don't get what you deserve, you get what you negotiate." And the greatest negotiation tactic is being willing to walk away and mean it.
/r/seduction04/01/18 02:20 PM
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Never be pushy, demanding an answer when you ask a girl out. You'll scare girls away and they will think you are controlling and possibly abusive. Why would you ask a girl out a 2nd time when she said "maybe", when you asked her out the first time? You're coming off way too desperate, asking them out more than once, with a scarcity mindset and these girls can see that you're desperate. Never invite a girl out in a date that includes bringing your friends along. It makes her uncomfortable plus yo…
/r/seduction30/12/17 08:19 AM
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When a girl says "I'll let you know", your immediate response should be "cool, I gotta run, but get back to me once you figure out when you're free and we'll make plans." Then, end the convo and get off the phone. Stop iniating contact. When they contact you, whether text or phone call, immediately get to the point and make a date. If they turn you down a 2nd time, stop asking and end the convo. When they reach out to you after that, talk for 5-10 minutes and then end the convo, regardless of ho…
/r/seduction30/12/17 08:15 AM
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Good shit. I agree. I'll also add, learning when to walk away, revealing your interest while giving her space to come to you, and most importantly, being okay with rejection.
/r/seduction30/12/17 08:04 AM
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Ever seen a couple and wonder "how did this ugly dude bag this hot chic?" It's not your looks. It's your lack of confidence. How you feel about yourself, reflects in your body language and the way you carry yourself. There is no magical solution. You have to first be OK with yourself as you improve yourself how you see fit. Practice talking to people in general, every chance you get to improve your social skills. Work on making eye contact and smiling when you talk. As you get better over time a…
/r/seduction30/12/17 07:55 AM
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Confidence and being ok with rejection is what it's all about. For someone not sure what the point of this thread is, you certainly are sure enough to chime your own two pennies. Which means, deep down, you already know what this thread is about. Beautiful women come in all shapes and sizes. Not just young and fit.
/r/seduction30/12/17 07:12 AM
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Glad I could help. I've been there before and even though this is. common sense", you can see from these threads how easy it is for men to become unsure and insecure around women, thinking we have something to prove to women. We worry about losing her, when in reality, we never really had her in the first place. Practice with different women to improve social skills and become comfortable with either getting the girl or not getting the girl. There is more than one woman in the planet.
/r/seduction30/12/17 04:06 AM
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It's true though. The truth hurts and you have to learn to laugh and not take rejection so serious. We all get rejected from time to time. It's realizing that rejection is not the end of the world, that's the hard part. Just like you have the right to reject whatever woman for whatever reason.
/r/seduction30/12/17 03:05 AM
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Lately, no one. Either you get the girl or you don't. I've realized when you can learn to be at peace with either outcome, you're whole world changes and you start to attract way more women, since they can sense that you are happy with yourself and won't compromise your standards. Even if it means losing her and meeting better women.
/r/seduction30/12/17 01:52 AM
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I don't know about Dr. Phil, but wasting time, scheming on ways to attract a woman who has no interest in you, is never good.
/r/seduction30/12/17 01:36 AM
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Most of the threads here are dudes asking advice on how to get a girl who usually has little to no interest to like them. My post is advising men of all ages be okay with rejection, abandon that scarcity mindset and have some self value. Whatever girl you like, she's not the last woman on earth.
/r/seduction30/12/17 01:34 AM
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Yeah, just wait for her to reach out to you. If she doesn't, learn from your mistake and move on. If she does reach out, get to the point and set a definite date and quickly end the convo. Don't question her about what happened and do not call or text to confirm the date once it's set. If she stands you up, then let her go.
/r/seduction29/12/17 11:06 PM
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When she asked if you could reschedule, you should've made a definite date and time in the same convo. Who cares why she had to reschedule? At least she was decent enough to ask, instead of standing you up. Since you already told her to let you know if she's free before Tuesday, your best move now, would be to do nothing. It makes you look beta, going against your word, reaching out to her even after you told her to contact you, like your don't have much success with women. Even if that is the c…
/r/seduction29/12/17 10:52 PM
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Hey, I'd love to see you, when are you free to get together?
/r/seduction29/12/17 10:32 PM
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She sees your as a fake friend who wants to get with her, which is why you're in the position you're in. She already knows you have romantic interest. They all do. You're too focused on trying to con her into liking you. You have a scarcity mindset, afraid to risk losing her, because you're too cowardly to make a date and reveal your romantic interest, so she keeps you around, as another male friend. As long as you remain in that scarcity mindset, no matter what PUA tricks or tactics you use, yo…
/r/seduction29/12/17 10:31 PM
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Don't be pissed at women. Be pissed at yourself for not understanding women and how they operate. Get over it and move on. It's a learning experience. Women have the right to reject you and like whoever they like. You don't own her and she owes you nothing. If you run into her again, smile, say hi and keep it moving. Now that you lost your virginity and know you can get laid, your goal should be meeting even better women. And stop stalking her on facebook. I'll bet the new guy doesn't obsess ove…
/r/seduction29/12/17 09:31 PM
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Why obsess and stress over a chic who clearly has no interest in you? Especially when women outnumber men 3 to 1. Plenty of pussy out there to get. You just need self respect and be willing to walk away and lose her if need be.
/r/seduction29/12/17 09:23 PM
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