1dougdimmadome1 Archive

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1	Confidence Comes from Competence I would like to comment to make a small contribution: Confidence comes from practice, and noticing you are becoming better. Monitor your progress and be happy with it. Also, see failure when trying something new as a form of progress, an oppertunity. Many people are good at something but in their head think they aren't good enough at it. This however, impairs your performance and will make you actually suck at something you are good at. Its a self-fulfilling prophecy. So practice, be mindfull of…	/r/seduction	30/10/15 07:37 PM
2	"Nerdy" hobbies useful for meeting women: do they exist? I would bring it up no different than any other hobby: When she talks about her hobbies I talk about mine, or when she asks what my hobbies are. The point to make is as I said: It would be 'weird' if you only had one hobby and pumped all your time into that constantly. Then again, this goes for any hobby ( fitness all day every day = meathead who cant think about anything else) So if you have a few different things you lime to do and one of them is MTG, there is nothing weird about it. Just don'…	/r/seduction	03/10/15 02:56 PM
2	"Nerdy" hobbies useful for meeting women: do they exist? It's not, same goes for me and alot of my friends. We game together, play LoL, TCG's and regularly have board game nights...Hasn't stopped me with women. You want to attract women that like you for who you are, instead of getting hobby's you don't like and get women you don't like? The girls I've been with also call me a 'geek'. But its part of who I am and they like and accept that. Thats important. Just make sure your hobbies stay hobbies. Don't spend abnormal amounts of time on them or let th…	/r/seduction	28/09/15 07:32 PM
1	Models - Is there such thing as being too honest and too natural? I hink the correct answer is not so black and white. Authenticity is never wrong, neither is there a 'too authentic' or 'too natural'. The question you are actually asking is: How much should I show of myself? And the answer is: How much you feel comfortable with, given the situation, her reaction and most importantly, your level of trust/involvement with the person. Because think about it: if you told your entire life story to a girl that shows minimal interres rigt off the bat, thats a sure wa…	/r/seduction	09/08/15 07:16 PM
1	Attraction - Care free party guy VS Level headed athlete kunde9 is right, it is a whole different ball game, you will fail, and in the end it will be worth it.	/r/seduction	20/06/14 09:07 PM
5	Attraction - Care free party guy VS Level headed athlete I think you might be asking the wrong question here. What you are asking is: which of these personallities will be most succesfull to bang hot women? While you should be asking: who am I currently? You probably asked this question because your wild rockstar side used to pull more women and now that you have changed, you kinda miss it because your current lifestyle doesnt give as much room for it and you feel like you miss out (correct me if im wrong) But the idea behind going BEYOND seduction, r…	/r/seduction	20/06/14 07:53 AM
1	Asked her out to movies she said no have you ever considered she just has plans already? your post implies you take it personally, but that really is not the case here. you say 'fuck her' as in spite, but it feels to me you got the wtong mindset here. you should just think 'ok, maybe another time'. dont take it to personal bro, and just live on happiky. if she keeps saying ni, ask a different girl!	/r/seduction	10/10/13 10:10 AM
1	How to go from 'social group' friends to 1 on 1 type of friends. you let her know through conversation that you aren't looking for a relationship, you like the casual aspect and want to keep it more open minded, and that's ok. you both are sexually active and adult people so you should be able to do what you want. there is no shame in being sexual with someone if you like that person.	/r/seduction	05/09/13 04:16 AM
2	How to go from 'social group' friends to 1 on 1 type of friends. I think making others see you as a sexual object within a close group can backfire pretty easy. If you have sex through this way with escalation then the other girls in the group WILL HEAR about it, and they will be more cautious since they expect you to try it with them as well. I rather escalate when you are private with the girl, enforcing the 'bubble' only you 2 reside in together. That way she will keep the bubble intact when you 2 are back into your group of friends, she will search you ou…	/r/seduction	04/09/13 03:40 PM
8	How to go from 'social group' friends to 1 on 1 type of friends. I would like to add to this, since I have quite a few female friends in my friend group, and just to give you another option/idea to think about. I go out drinking 1 on 1 a few times a month with girl-friends, just casually. The way this happens most casually is isolation while you are in the group. See, when you are 'in the group' it is a safe place for her, everyone knows each other and everything is fine. Now, all you have to do is get into a 1 on 1 conversation with her during a group meet/p…	/r/seduction	04/09/13 03:30 PM