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Rule 9 is tough. I've studied archwinger and jacktenharts posts and reading old messages from the board, many of them outline the female actions in detail to provide context and help identify how we should handle them. I fucked up on the bedroom. I'll fix that. I don't see the scoreboarding, she's threatening divorce so I'm going to take steps to protect myself. When I reflect, the marriage has had huge competition from the beginning, at this point I just don't participate in it. STFU and foggin…
/r/MarriedRedPill02/10/21 09:34 PM
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I'm stomping that scoreboard out this week. The downside of red pill is that taking care of myself quietly for over 2 years has resulted in a long rope that will take her a long time to catch up to (physically, career-wise, spiritually, etc). I have to accept that and not score it.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/09/21 09:17 PM
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I've made a commitment to come here and lay it all on the line. I won't continue to grow unless I do and I **am** at a point that I don't see it. I'm outlining what my current situation is, no matter how ugly, and I'm having huge hurdles overcoming the situations I wrote about.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/09/21 09:16 PM
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I thought I was past the anger phase, I'm not sure how to overcome other than by STFU currently, especially based on the recurring "How hard her life is" conversations. I'm definitely Outcome Independent at this point, but I need to internalize the stay plan is the same as the go plan. As for the skin, it could be humidity, increased sweating from running, etc. I've switched to luke warm showers with unscented soaps. I don't use deodorant, etc. Maybe the fall weather will cause some relief.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/09/21 09:11 PM
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OYS #11 Stats: Age: 39 Height: 5'11 Weight: 172 BF: 13% Navy Wife: 37 (Married 10) Kid: 1 Readings: Unchained Man, Alpha 2.0, WISNIFG, NMMNG , Rational Male, Book of Pook, MMSLP , MAP, Way of the Superior Man, Sex God Method, How to Win Friends and Influence People (x3), 7 ways to 7 figures, Leaders eat last, Jewish Literacy, American Icon, Acres of Diamonds, Why the Jews, 1-2-3 Magic. Current: Weekend Millionaire Physical / Health: I continue to search for what the hell is wrong with me. Since …
/r/MarriedRedPill30/09/21 03:16 AM
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You do you. To each his own.
/r/askMRP22/08/21 02:24 AM
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This wreaks of emeshment. Build your own life, don't live in daddy's shadow.
/r/askMRP02/08/21 01:51 AM
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OYS #10 Stats: Age: 39 Height: 5'11 Weight: 174 BF: 13% Navy Wife: 37 (Married 10) Kid: 1 Readings: Unchained Man, Alpha 2.0, WISNIFG, NMMNG , Rational Male, Book of Pook, MMSLP , MAP, Way of the Superior Man, Sex God Method, How to Win Friends and Influence People (x3), 7 ways to 7 figures, Leaders eat last, Jewish Literacy, American Icon, Acres of Diamonds, Why the Jews. Current: 1-2-3 Magic and have also been listening to /u/bluepillprofessor 's youtube videos Physical / Health: I'm continuin…
/r/MarriedRedPill27/07/21 03:50 PM
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This is gold. OP needs to read this and re-think his path forward with stating his intentions and then lead by taking incremental action against them.
/r/askMRP26/07/21 02:31 PM
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(and should have had more with other women also) I can't stop wondering.... Why?
/r/MarriedRedPill21/07/21 01:45 AM
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What's the recommended plan of action the following day? Reset and to be awesome, the kind of guy who has goals, things to do, and is fun to be around.
/r/askMRP19/07/21 06:59 PM
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You've described that you gamed your wife (and others) by reading books and copy/pasting commandments of Poon to her as poems. It was all a sham. I learned the basics of game years ago specifically so that girls would like me and not reject me. It was all about my validation all along.Faggot. If I’d actually done the necessary work back then and made myself into the man I should be, I never would have gotten complacent and regressed to beta bitch boy bullshit when my level of investment in this …
/r/MarriedRedPill19/07/21 02:49 PM
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I totally agree. This is true for the manosphere. Read a width breadth of content and decide what applies to your life/marriage.
/r/askMRP18/07/21 04:10 AM
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Looking through your post history, it seems you never did the work here. Start by making yourself a better man. The last thing you need is another hoe to go and save. The go plan is the same as the stay plan.
/r/askMRP18/07/21 03:31 AM
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Asked a girl who works in a liqour-store for advise about local beer. Stated that they have a much greater variety than I'm used to at home. We talked maybe 15 minutes solely about beer. Beer is her job. Next time expand the conversation. Have you read Dale Carnegie how to win friends and influence people?
/r/MarriedRedPill15/07/21 04:45 PM
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This OYS hits home a little and I have a similar issue, I just bought the book. Thanks
/r/MarriedRedPill14/07/21 05:44 PM
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OYS #9 Stats: Age: 39 Height: 5'11 Weight: 176 BF: 13% Navy Wife: 37 (Married 10) Kid: 1 Readings: Unchained Man, Alpha 2.0, WISNIFG, NMMNG , Rational Male, Book of Pook, MMSLP , MAP, Way of the Superior Man, Sex God Method, How to Win Friends and Influence People (x3), 7 ways to 7 figures, Leaders eat last, Jewish Literacy, American Icon, Acres of Diamonds. Current: Why the Jews MRP Re-Readings that helped me this week: Rule of Poon #15 (Maintain your state control): You are an oak tree. You wi…
/r/MarriedRedPill08/07/21 01:35 PM
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I'm not willing to tolerate it. All the "she" was to provide context. Won't happen again. I just don't know if I should be overt about it and set my boundary clearly or just act as if I DNGAF and pull the cord if it happens.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/07/21 07:59 PM
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OYS #8 Stats: Age: 39 Height: 5'11 Weight: 176 BF: 13% Navy Wife: 37 (Married 10) Kid: 1 Readings: Unchained Man, Alpha 2.0, WISNIFG, NMMNG , Rational Male, Book of Pook, MMSLP , MAP, Way of the Superior Man, Sex God Method, How to Win Friends and Influence People (x3), 7 ways to 7 figures, Leaders eat last, Jewish Literacy, American Icon, Acres of Diamonds. Current: Why the Jews Physical / Health: I've increased my endurance and speed with running. I run 2 miles a day and 5k's on the weekends. …
/r/MarriedRedPill03/07/21 02:29 PM
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Read the whole post. At the end it states "that woman is your wife." For me, MRP is about improvement of one's self. Natural selection makes it obvious that others will be magnetized towards you just based on the fact of taking care of your physical self and owning your own shit.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/02/21 04:45 PM
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Right now it's pushed deep down inside somewhere.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/02/21 01:50 PM
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I've really took this into thought and am taking action. I'm setting a meeting with my leadership team today and have some recurring 1:1's I'm setting up. My direction is to explain the bigger "why" and follow up with 1:1's for personalized discussion around what's YOUR passion, how does that align with this job, what else could I help you do to reach YOUR goals. I'd like to be able to thread a line between someone's personal goals and the goals of my organization.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/02/21 01:48 PM
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I'll check it out, thanks
/r/MarriedRedPill24/02/21 01:45 PM
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It's basic math, I wouldn't have made it this far otherwise & I agree. I was doing Intermittent Fasting so there is some sort of ketones/metabolism that comes into play.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/02/21 01:44 PM
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I have a team of ~100 people (20 are new) and have to empower my leadership team to carry out my vision and provide empathy for the overall team. My frame is solid and provides the protection, knowledge, communication, and energy needed to succeed. The lack of response to leadership is interesting. I wish I could blame it all on coronavirus, but that would be evading the root cause. We have challenging deadlines that don't align to the bigger program's "why". These deadlines require 3 shifts of …
/r/MarriedRedPill23/02/21 03:14 PM
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**OYS #7*\* ​ **Stats:*\* Age: 39 Height: 5'11 Weight: 174 BF: 13% Navy Wife: 36 (Married 9) Kid: 1 ​ **Readings:*\* Unchained Man, Alpha 2.0, WISNIFG, NMMNG , Rational Male, Book of Pook, MMSLP , MAP, Way of the Superior Man, Sex God Method, How to Win Friends and Influence People (x3), 7 ways to 7 figures, Leaders eat last, Jewish Literacy, American Icon. ​ **Current:*\* Acres of Diamonds ​ **Physical / Health:*\* I've started adding running to my work out. My weight creeped up this last week,…
/r/MarriedRedPill23/02/21 12:30 PM
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OYS #6 Stats: Age: 39 Height: 5'11 Weight: 170 BF: 13% Navy Wife: 36 (Married 9) Kid: 1 Readings: Unchained Man, Alpha 2.0, WISNIFG, NMMNG , Rational Male, Book of Pook, MMSLP , MAP, Way of the Superior Man, Sex God Method, How to Win Friends and Influence People (x3), 7 ways to 7 figures, Leaders eat last, Jewish Literacy. Current: American Icon Physical / Health: Because of Corona I haven't been going to the gym. I do 100 push ups, 100 squats, and yoga every day. My 7 year old son is doing pus…
/r/MarriedRedPill09/02/21 01:39 AM
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OYS #5 Stats: Age: 39 Height: 5'11 Weight: 172 BF: 13% Navy Wife: 36 (Married 8) Kid: 1 Readings: Unchained Man, Alpha 2.0, WISNIFG, NMMNG , Rational Male, Book of Pook, MMSLP , MAP, Way of the Superior Man, Sex God Method, How to Win Friends and Influence People (x3), 7 ways to 7 figures, Leaders eat last. Current: Jewish Literacy Physical / Health: I had to have my tonsils out, doc thought I had cancer. Went through 3 weeks of hell, and test came back benign. I've reached my last goal weight o…
/r/MarriedRedPill26/05/20 08:54 PM
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Finally. What a huge disaster.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/01/20 03:20 AM
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Recommendation for the book is extreme ownership by Leif Babin and Jocko Willink
/r/MarriedRedPill05/01/20 04:16 AM
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Welcome, I'm also an engineer starting a side gig
/r/MarriedRedPill05/01/20 03:54 AM
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OYS #4 Stats: Age: 39 Height: 5'11 Weight: 185 BF: 14% Navy Wife: 36 (Married 8) Kid: 1 Readings: Unchained Man, Alpha 2.0, WISNIFG, NMMNG , Rational Male, Book of Pook, MMSLP , MAP, Way of the Superior Man, Sex God Method, How to Win Friends and Influence People (x3), 7 ways to 7 figures. Current: Leaders eat last Physical / Health: Testosterone checked 700+. I’ve been following Intermittent Fasting for over a year now. My goal weight is 172. I still have a belly, can’t seem to get rid of this …
/r/MarriedRedPill02/01/20 03:53 AM
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What did the guy end up doing on your favorite post ever?
/r/MarriedRedPill22/08/19 02:43 AM
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You already know she's a liar. The liar that put you in 10k debt said it's over and you begged. Don't do that again. STFU and don't cry or DEER. You said you read NMMNG twice, so take it into action. You got this knowledge from the book, so do it. Your boat is off in the rocks, take the wheel back.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/07/19 10:53 PM
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You have to be the best you that you can be. Our bodies are amazing. Take care of it and be happy for what you have. Respect yourself and own the decisions that you make.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/07/19 05:46 PM
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My thoughts are you are in one huge fucking pickle. At my fattest I was 240-250 lbs and if my wife disrespected me by texting guys next to me I would have burnt that shit to the ground. Step one is for you to respect yourself. Step two is to stop eating everything in sight and attend a gym everyday.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/07/19 12:58 AM
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I feel really bad for you. The good news is that you can still improve you. Everyone else has pointed out the bad news.
/r/askMRP14/07/19 03:05 AM
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Yes lifting and not being fat will cut all this out. The fairy tale society is told a out marriage is fiction. If Brad Pitt were waiting at the table for dinner from your wife what would have happened?
/r/askMRP13/07/19 01:41 PM
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What brought you here?
/r/MarriedRedPill13/07/19 12:40 PM
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Evolved you are making my fucking head hurt. You are asking anonymous guys what to do about a model girl who wants you to orbit her. Have you lost your mind? Send her a dick picture and ask if she likes it.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/07/19 01:38 AM
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Look at intermittent fasting. Eat whatever you want within reason a few hours per day.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/07/19 01:27 AM
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My SMV has become higher than my wife. I'm going to continue to improve me until I'm a super high value male. If she is still providing the sub par sex I get now then I will have a hard decision to make. Bottom line is to focus on improving you, sounds like you are way out of shape.
/r/askMRP11/07/19 01:12 AM
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Just an update for this week: I flew in to spend July 4th w/ wife and her family while they prepare for MIL's surgery. I attempted to initiate and was shot down, so I took my laptop and went to a nearby free wifi coffee shop to get caught up on bills. My SMV is without a doubt higher than her and higher than it's ever been. Onward and upward.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/07/19 04:26 PM
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OYS #3 Stats: Age: 37 Height: 5'11 Weight: 182 BF: 14% Navy Wife: 36 (Married 7) Kid: 1 Readings: WISNIFG, NMMNG , Rational Male, Book of Pook, MMSLP , MAP, Way of the Superior Man, Sex God Method, How to Win Friends and Influence People (x3), 7 ways to 7 figures. Current: Unchained Man, Alpha 2.0 Physical / Health: Physical scheduled for end of this month. Bloodwork sheet ready for me to get it done prior to the appointment and includes testosterone checkout. 5x5: BP: 175 OP: 160 Row: 140 DL: 2…
/r/MarriedRedPill02/07/19 05:30 PM
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I just lost quite a bit over the last year. I was fat roaming between 220-230 and 240 at the peak.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/05/19 08:17 PM
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Your post struck something in me. Looking at your past post from 2 months ago: Career / finances I have a stable job I been the past 3 years and I’m doing great. I been looking for a part time job to complement my income with no success yet. My goal is to be able to afford a couple courses to improve my skills to get a better job position; therefore, a better income. I’m still stuck financially after separation but improving. No debt and reasonable CS. I’m aiming at least at the end of the year …
/r/MarriedRedPill29/05/19 02:00 PM
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OYS #2 Stats: Age: 37 Height: 5'11 Weight: 185 BF: Need to lose 10 more lbs. Wife: 36 (Married 7) Kid: 1 Readings: WISNIFG, NMMNG , Rational Male, Book of Pook, MMSLP , MAP, Way of the Superior Man, Sex God Method, How to Win Friends and Influence People (x3). Current: 7 ways to 7 figures Physical / Health: I've been lifting since last October. I'm miles from where I started. I recently moved to a new area and need to find a new Dr. for physical checkup. Before I left my last residence I had a T…
/r/MarriedRedPill28/05/19 09:39 PM
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OYS #1 Stats: Age: 37 Height: 5'11 Weight: 185 BF: ? Wife: 36 (Married 7) Kid: 1 Readings: WISNIFG, NMMNG , Rational Male, Book of Pook, MMSLP , MAP, Way of the Superior Man, Sex God Method, How to Win Friends and Influence People (x3). Current: 7 ways to 7 figures Physical / Health: I've been lifting since last October. I'm miles from where I started. 5x5: BP: 160 OP: 150 Row: 130 DL: 185 Squat: 155. My squats were higher, but I hurt my back and am taking a slow time increasing weight for fear …
/r/MarriedRedPill21/05/19 03:52 PM
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I am in.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/03/19 10:20 PM
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