| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|---|---|
| 1 | Online dating is not real life | 1softboy4mommy | /r/ExRedPill | 23/06/22 01:02 PM | |
| 1 | USA vs Europe dating | 1softboy4mommy | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/22 02:33 PM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|
| 1 | Eastern Europe is so much better for dating than the west it’s crazyUnderstandable | /r/seduction | 12/10/23 07:54 PM |
| 2 | Eastern Europe is so much better for dating than the west it’s crazyWhy would you rely on dating apps if it's a well known fact that gender ratio is skewed? There are simply much more men there. I bet you would get better results if you just approached irl in these english speaking countries | /r/seduction | 12/10/23 02:16 PM |
| 1 | Eastern Europe is so much better for dating than the west it’s crazyAmerican men are also fat | /r/seduction | 12/10/23 02:09 PM |
| 2 | Yes, muscles will get you laid.You forget about skeleton structure. If you have wide hips and/or narrow shoulders as a man, muscles won't do a shit for you | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/23 06:56 PM |
| 2 | The best self-improvement for a man is finding a girlfriendNo mental health is more important. Being with someone will only make it worse if you have social anxiety or similar stuff. Getting together with someone will only improve your life only if you feel good about yourself already, are confident, don't feel stress. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/23 06:47 PM |
| 1 | Forget sex or relationships, how tf does a man even become friends with a woman?I am an artist and tons of women are into doing art. Any creative field is good tbh. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/23 08:53 AM |
| 1 | Being called a "fuckboy" is the biggest compliment you can get as a manIsn't it easier to manipulate women into sex if you give boyfriend material vibes? A lot of women don't want to look easy and if they see a guy who clearly just looks for sex, a lot may feel repulsed by it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/08/23 04:47 PM |
| 1 | This world is all messed up from all the sexism and racism etc I disagree with all of it and how it’s ran aka the patriarchy.What do you mean by "world is ran"? The world is ruled by powerful goverments with big guns, like the US. | /r/ExRedPill | 03/08/23 09:34 PM |
| – | Female women, how would you feel if most men did not desire you at all?I say this as a man that it sometimes amazes me that other guys aren’t aware there are women that genuinely had that experience. Yeah incels only acknowledge the existence of top tier women tbh. I wouldn't blame them for that if they didn't shame women for wanting handsome men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/08/23 05:18 PM |
| 3 | The greenpill is a true and genuine solution to modern datingInvesting in your looks? Nah, fuck that. I will rather become a betabuxer to a foreign woman that will leave me as soon as she gains citizenship, other benefits from me. This is truly the way. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/08/23 05:09 PM |
| 1 | Online dating is not an accurate marker for your dating successNo it’s not. There are like 80% of men on these apps | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/23 09:51 AM |
| 1 | A man being used as an ATM on a date is equal to a woman being used for sexNah in one case you just lose money and in other the woman gets sex which can be pleasurable for both parties | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/23 12:50 PM |
| 5 | Will men be shamed in the future for bit wanting to date "soft" sex workers? (OF models, sugar babes etc.)Well OF women make their money by some men jerking off to their pictures. I don't see a problem with it, there's the demand and there's the supply but this is not exactly a job one should be proud of or show off. Yeah a lot of people are repulsed by the idea that you make your money from horny losers and I think it's okay to be repulsed by that | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/23 12:43 PM |
| – | There's a lot of stay at home wife/mom relationships, they just occur under the disguise of the woman having a fun job like a yoga/fitness instructor or running a shop.Running a business is not easy... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/23 12:23 PM |
| 1 | CMV Many People in Dating Strategy subreddits (doesnt matter what pill, pua or whatever) have no reallife experience and therefore claim dumb delusional things, which makes finding the truth harder.Yeah women are passive. It doesn't mean they are attracted less to that handsome dude you was in the club with. His introversion might make him look unapproachable and his height intimidating | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/23 12:09 PM |
| -4 | Men shouldn't show their emotions to women>If you want your girlfriend or wife to lose respect for you, think of you as less of a man, or make fun of you behind your back to your family and your friends Sounds like projection. Yeah, choose your partner wisely | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/23 12:02 PM |
| 1 | Confidence for men requires seeing oneself as better than other menWho’s arguing that… Ofc confidence should be based on something | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/23 05:51 PM |
| 1 | We'll never have true equality as long as some women want to be treated special just because they are women.Demand and supply… a lot of men are willing to satisfy these demands | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/23 05:49 PM |
| 0 | Modern Western societies are still very traditionalist, but only when it comes to the views on men.I think no one cares Creep? Idk but it's just a weird tendency to breakup with a woman when she turns 25 Yeah, but often it's true. Why would you fly over the world just to date someone? Probably because you are not successful in your home country. Yeah, I think this is true to some extent It depends. If bully is less attractive, more stupid etc etc, people will be more empathetic towards the victim | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/23 08:23 PM |
| 1 | Reminder this is who you are arguing with.Could’ve put a warning ffs | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/23 12:43 AM |
| 0 | Reminder 3: Nice guys are jealous of attractive assholes of because they themselves are assholes and upset they can’t find women to abuse.Tbh men do that too. Men can forgive cheating, golddigging, bad treatment from attractive women | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/23 12:41 AM |
| 1 | The whole “wOmEn dOn’T oWe yOu sEx” narrative is bullshit, the vast majority of men do not think this at all. Most men just rightfully expect to be able to get women at or below their level of attractiveness.Nah tbh men want the hottest they can get | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/23 12:32 AM |
| – | Men don’t see unattractive women as humanNo, I think these men judge women’s success on dating by matches amount in dating apps. But they don’t count in that like 50% of men don’t even respond because a lot just swipe on everyone. Adding to that much more men than women use dating apps so it’s not really that relevant. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/23 12:25 AM |
| 4 | You cant hate the opposite gender and expect to succeed in datingIt doesn’t matter tbh. People can act and pretend and get what they want by that | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/23 12:13 AM |
| – | Men, Can you touching a women be 100% platonic?People are complicated ngl | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/23 12:11 AM |
| 7 | I don't get why Western Women complain about Passport BrosIdk, I am talking about internet (I am polish). If I lived in America, I would date an American woman because why not. In Poland I would date polish, in UK british, etc etc | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/23 09:40 PM |
| 1 | Male feminists/Simps are often sexually and romantically inexperienced.I am a male feminist. In a sense that I support equality and in matriarchal countries like Russia women should give up their privileges like stealing a child after a divorce because judge always sides with women, fight against conscription slavery for men (like in Russia), stop demanding child support (depends on a situation) and many others | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/23 07:24 PM |
| 2 | Men, Can you touching a women be 100% platonic?It was platonic for you but not for her (you friendzoned her) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/23 07:10 PM |
| 1 | Andre Tate is a schmuck and a poser. The REAL specimens of masculinity right now are Arnold Schwarzenegger (Alpha Male) Keanu Reeves (Theta Male), and Gordon Ramsay (Sigma Male).Who cares about Andrew Tate, just live your life | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/23 07:09 PM |
| 2 | CMV: Men greatly over-complicate dating.Yeah, there's no secret key because everone is different. But women don't have to initiate anything because men do that themselves. So women at least don't have to worry about saying some weird shit that inexperienced man can say and embarrasing themselves. Dating is at least less stressful for women | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/23 07:06 PM |
| 2 | CMV : Women underestimate the sheer effort and time towards looking like a big muscular gym bro, which is why they say they don’t like gym/muscular guysThey like but in general women are less bold than men and don't want to sound shallow (imo). I think a good indicator of your attractiveness is if gay men like you. And gay men like well built men | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/23 06:21 PM |
| 1 | American women have the worst reputation for relationships / marriage in the entire world. This is not (so much) the case for American men.>American men (and western men in general) AND Thai women often form relationships with each other because of a sense of mutual respect and admiration Xddd. Nah, the real reason is because thai women are cheap. And desperate to escape their poor country and ready to get together even with american looser | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/23 06:14 PM |
| 26 | I don't get why Western Women complain about Passport BrosI only see men who complain about "western women bad" tbh | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/23 06:10 PM |
| 1 | Double standards exist and that’s okay.No unwanted attention is a plus for me | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/23 06:04 PM |
| 3 | Double standards exist and that’s okay.>Many women have the opportunity to not work and be financially supported by their husbands, while men have to work for financial security. And what's the justification for that? Earlier housework was hard, without all the technologies. Now, everyone can do housework. Families now don't have as many kids as earlier and fathers can spend time with kids too as much as mothers because less men work hard than earlier. Job opportunities for women are also better than ever now | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/23 06:02 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: Do you want women to think you are easy?I don't trust people, so I usually need some time to get used to a person. I definetely don't like people to know what's in my mind | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/23 01:52 PM |
| 1 | Men need to give up on western women and go overseasI think a big part of why people want sex is to feel desired. When you are from wealthy country and go to the poor one, you never know if a girl is genuine or just hunting for a guy with western passport. If you buy sex than it looses it's appeal, isn't it? And that's why western dating is better. Women don't need a man to satisfy their financial needs anymore unlike in poor countries so they are more genuine when it comes to physicall attraction. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/23 01:41 PM |
| 0 | CMV: Missing out on teen love as a male can be hugely detrimental in later years while courting a woman.Insecurities and awkwardness don't come out of nowhere. First person who judges you is the one who you see in the mirror and you better fix all the shit you don't like about yourself and do the most of what your genetics allow you to do. If you like how you look, you will be more confident and happy and that not only will help you with women but also in socializing in general. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/23 05:52 PM |
| 1 | No one ever seems to want to acknowledge that women consistently go for abusive, bad natured men. If you bring this up all they do is shame you to silence the discussion, and this is probably the most prominent example of gaslighting in dating/gender dynamics.You changed reason and effect by their places. Not women go for these men but men who are abusive are less scared of rejection. If they don't fear to beat or kill someone, why would they fear approaching a woman who is 2 times weaker physically than him? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/23 05:42 PM |
| 0 | CMV : A big cause of confusion is that the male “average” is statistically above average, but women understandably perceive this above average guy as averageGet off from social media and dating apps and touch some grass. Suddenly you will see that average women date average men, hot women date hot men and below average also date those who match their looks. Most of the time. There are some exception like if a popular/rich man or girl who have more attractive partner than they are. Or if a girl liked a guy and pursued him and a guy "settled" for her. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/23 05:39 PM |
| 0 | CMV: "Approaching women" is dumb and a waste of time.>But honestly, if you're trying to get a genuine relationship, simply approaching women you've never met before and know nothing about and asking them out is a colossal waste of time. Maybe for you but these men want sex and relationships so approaching more women increases their chances >You don't know if she shares similar beliefs to you, you don't know if she's a good person, and in all likelihood, she probably already have a boyfriend. Right. So men approach women to get to know them and the… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/23 05:34 PM |
| 3 | Women are attracted to men with social intelligence, which is why you can't understand women's strugglesShe probably thought you aren’t into her and wanted to step back so she doesn’t feel like she was rejected | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/22 06:24 PM |
| 3 | What is a healthy sex life for a dude with options. Bodycounts, hookups.Dude just jerk off when you feel you are horny. It really is that simple | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/22 11:38 AM |
| 1 | Roe v. Wade Mega-ThreadHave a nice evening I guess | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/22 09:36 PM |
| 2 | Roe v. Wade Mega-ThreadIs it an insult or something? I can't say that killing unborn babies is bad? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/22 09:31 PM |
| 2 | Roe v. Wade Mega-ThreadI don’t care if they see it or not. It’s a human by fact and killing innocent humans is morally wrong. Abortion as self defence (rape, medical) is another story. Who allowed them in their bodies? Women themselves by having sex. And again sperm is not a human, it can not develop into something if it doesn’t meet egg World will be very different if men would get pregnant but they don’t | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/22 08:54 PM |
| 1 | Roe v. Wade Mega-ThreadI am too shy to be a fuckboy anyway 😅 so I would prefer to just choose a partner wisely | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/22 08:47 PM |
| 1 | Roe v. Wade Mega-ThreadForce? People choose to have sex, it’s their responsibility lol. Sex is like mainly designed to produce offspring so yeah, even with protection there is always a risk | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/22 08:33 PM |
| 2 | Roe v. Wade Mega-ThreadYeah very cool. But also there is large movement of women who want to kill unborn babies just because they claim they can’t provide for them or they didn’t planned a baby. Doesn’t sound like a valid reason | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/22 08:25 PM |
| 1 | Roe v. Wade Mega-ThreadDude or dudesse, some babies are ready to go out at 8 month. Why wouldn’t you call them a baby? And a baby who is just 1 day from being born isn’t a baby? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/22 08:06 PM |
| 1 | Roe v. Wade Mega-ThreadBabies are born Compare 8 month old with newborn. They don't have much difference. And you are just saying that modern biology is wrong by denying unborn babies term | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/22 07:41 PM |
| 3 | Q4A At what body fat percentage is a woman's dating life hindered?You could jerk off | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/22 06:49 PM |
| 11 | Q4A At what body fat percentage is a woman's dating life hindered?it’s not just lifestyle. Ehhh, mostly it is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/22 06:47 PM |
| 0 | Roe v. Wade Mega-ThreadThose who have no stake have no say. Everyone who is against of killing innocents has a say Except when abortion is a self defence (rape, medical reasons) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/22 06:42 PM |
| 1 | Roe v. Wade Mega-Threadsperm is not a human and fetus is | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/22 06:28 PM |
| 2 | Roe v. Wade Mega-ThreadWell, protection exists if you don't want a baby. Or you can just not having sex. Or you can leave it to childcare home after birth | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/22 06:16 PM |
| 0 | Roe v. Wade Mega-ThreadThey can't have an abortion but doesn't a baby share a half of father's dna? And after child birth a father will pay money still even if he won't live with a mother and see him. So a man should have a say | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/22 06:14 PM |
| -8 | Roe v. Wade Mega-ThreadI’m 20 and can’t support a baby Ah, I see. Valid reason to kill an unborn baby. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/22 06:07 PM |
| 1 | Roe v. Wade Mega-ThreadI am an atheist and liberal both economically and socially. And I don't agree that killing unborn babies should be legal | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/22 06:02 PM |
| 4 | Roe v. Wade Mega-ThreadMen should say nothing, though. Absolutely disagree. By that logic, women also shouldn't have an opinion whether is it amoral to kill a human | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/22 06:00 PM |
| 5 | Q4A At what height is a man’s dating life hindered?Lol, are you in Netherlands or something? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/22 03:12 PM |
| 0 | Q4A At what height is a man’s dating life hindered?Jesus that’s a fucking giant. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/22 03:10 PM |
| 2 | Q4A At what height is a man’s dating life hindered?Idk I see plenty of short guys with girlfriends even tho my country’s average is 5’11 for men | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/22 03:06 PM |
| 2 | [discussion] What is really being the truth about the physical attractiveness??If you are weak insecure energy, you will flop. If you are strong confident energy, they will give you attention. I am insecure "weak" not confident and I still get looks. I don't think that the way you perceive yourself matters, if they like you, they like you | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/22 03:22 PM |
| 5 | [discussion] What is really being the truth about the physical attractiveness??eye shape is more important than color | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/22 03:11 PM |
| 1 | How do girls not find guys who ask them out after just meeting them creepy?They generally don't approach but drop hints. But they can be attracted and insecure so they completely ignore you and don't give any sign. If a girl is confident she would glance at you, touch you, try to get your attention If she is shy she will be nervous around you | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/22 03:04 PM |
| 2 | Average=invisibleMaybe. And maybe not. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/22 02:59 PM |
| 2 | How do girls not find guys who ask them out after just meeting them creepy?Men can just jerk off lol. Imagine spending time and effort to chase women that you are not attracted to. Like, why? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/22 09:56 AM |
| 0 | Average=invisibleGo outside for once and look ar the couples | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/22 06:50 AM |
| 1 | The whole “Chad” thing is extremely overblown, women consistently get with men less attractive than themSo you want to fuck a lot of women as an introvert? Wouldn’t that be exhausting? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/22 10:08 PM |
| 4 | How do girls not find guys who ask them out after just meeting them creepy?So what would you do if not attractive to you girl would approach you? Most likely reject, so women reject someone who they aren't attracted to | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/22 08:34 PM |
| -1 | Average=invisiblethat applies to online dating but not to real world | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/22 08:08 PM |
| 0 | Average=invisiblethat applies to online dating but not to real world | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/22 08:07 PM |
| 1 | Average=invisibleMen are so horny, that's kinda crazy. Like, you can just jerk off. Zero effort, clear mind lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/22 08:05 PM |
| 1 | Voluntariliy single/celibate people: How do you get your emotional intimacy needs met?M20. Main reason of why I am still single is that I am very insecure about some aspect of my appearance (generally I don't see myself as attractive but I had girls interested in me so not an incel, I guess) and until I fix that thing in my appearance I won't approach anyone. I don't really feel lonely because I have family that drains me enough and I like to spend time alone in general. Sometimes I dream about a person that I could trust and be in love with and open up with my emotions. It's not… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/22 07:51 PM |
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