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NEVER turn gay.
/r/seduction07/02/20 10:49 PM
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The trouble is, you don't know whether the girl you are approaching or the people around her are those of a sane variety or those of a deranged feminist variety. Sometimes a girl I've approached has been underaged and it's been completely fine, so it comes down to the person at the end of the day, but if they are underaged that amplifies it. The link I was trying to make was the link between that video with that journalist towing the "official line" and how that effects me. That nonsense effects…
/r/seduction07/02/20 10:44 PM
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You need to practice daygame sooner rather than later. You sound like I was when I was 18. I remember being afraid to speak in case my voice came out weak and embarrassing. I remember keeping interactions in real life as short as possible and being uncomfortable talking on the phone. It was 2008 so not as high tech as now but heading that way, so I interacted mostly on forums and became proficient at typing up my thoughts and feelings rather than interacting in real life. You will probably find …
/r/seduction07/02/20 10:18 PM
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I think it really comes down to "how you are perceived", by the girl in question. This depends on you're looks, body language, tonality, everything that you could be not good at, could mean the difference of how they react. Same in the UK regarding the city thing though. That's why London and other big cities are popular for daygame. A lot of my infields were recorded in my local town of 55,000. Word gets around here and you often see the same faces regularly. I guess it's cultural as well, the …
/r/seduction07/02/20 10:04 PM
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What's the paranoia about "pedophiles" in the US like, then. I know the age of consent is 18 there, rather than 16 here in the UK. But the "societal" age of consent here seems to be more based on the age gap rather than the actual age. So a 30 year old with an 18 year old would be more frowned up on than a 15 year old getting with a 19 year old. We also have these vigilantes from rough backgrounds who go around targeting people they've deduced a "pedophile" if they think they are "going for" und…
/r/seduction07/02/20 09:07 PM
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Check out my videos. All rejections https://youtu.be/km7X-uHXd9E https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lYmNLAhpDnk Here in the UK, chicks don't play nice. At least they are polite in America.
/r/seduction07/02/20 09:01 PM
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Where is you're advice/help then, based on how this interaction went? That's quite hypocritical to agree with him then say that and go on to offer NOTHING on the actual content of the thread you dummy.
/r/seduction07/02/20 08:59 PM
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This is true. And good luck getting an 18-25 year old girl if you are much over 30. I started cold approach at 28, no way I am gonna bag myself a hot young 18 year old or even 21 year old!
/r/seduction07/02/20 08:58 PM
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Follow my pickup series on my channel, I have had a roughly similar experience and I am releasing videos detailing my journey on a weekly basis. https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCuGvpGT7BCWZc8gFO15lJxw?view_as=subscriber Part of the reason is to show for other men that rejection is normal. Most of my videos are simply rejection compilations.
/r/seduction07/02/20 08:55 PM
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Yeah, UK gaming. They perceive you as a weirdo for even talking to them. They think they are special because of feminism, which isn't as strong in the US, or so I gather.
/r/seduction07/02/20 08:50 PM
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Did you even watch the video? Could you tell how old that girl was? I find it very hard to believe you haven't had at least a few underaged girls if you are following the method you describe. I'd really like to go out day gaming with you and see how you make the decision on who to approach and who not to. There is also another video where I am stopped by POLICE due to a complaint from a woman.
/r/seduction07/02/20 08:44 PM
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How about some reasons as to why? That's the whole point of this forum...
/r/seduction07/02/20 08:26 PM
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NEVER approach without first analysing a situation. They could be UNDERAGED. It has happened to me quite a few times. It is TOO DANGEROUS to simply run in to a situation without a careful analysis of what it is first. I have followed the "zero second rule" before and the girl has been underaged. NEVER go straight into a situation.
/r/seduction07/02/20 08:12 PM
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Do you know how Google works?
/r/seduction07/02/20 08:06 PM
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I was agreeing with the OP, it looks like you think I am disagreeing, from you're post. But I am in OP's shoes and I have made efforts.
/r/seduction07/02/20 07:44 PM
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It was my 23rd interaction with a woman, what do you expect? I was in the process of developing my social skills, how is that possible without practicing in the field!?
/r/seduction07/02/20 07:43 PM
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On the flip side, let's be honest here...almost every sub that has to do with relationships or relating to others in some manner (r/dating, r/relationships, r/socialskills, r/seduction, r/foreveralone, r/incelhate, r/virginityexchange...etc) is FULL of men who were either never taught OR just arent able to master - relating, on a simple social level. I am not attacking nor blaming these guys either...but if things are going to change, there has to be open communication and dialogue. Reading thei…
/r/seduction04/02/20 08:18 AM
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Yes-go indirect and don't spam approach Going direct and spamming will cause trouble after a few weeks of people noticing you doing the same thing.
/r/seduction04/02/20 08:01 AM
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Looks like the moderators have shut you down baby girl. You looked like a bad girl, too. I would bend you over and hit your shit from behind, too bad you are probably on a different continent to me.
/r/seduction04/02/20 07:44 AM
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Who is that!? I would eat that chocolate beauty all up!
/r/seduction03/02/20 11:35 PM
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God damn. You are onto something starting at 19, I didn't find out about approaching until I was 28 and 1/4! You have many years of enjoyment ahead of you!
/r/seduction03/02/20 11:34 PM
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It's very easy to do bold approaches in a big city, but not so much in a small one. Most of my daygaming has been in a medium sized town which makes it harder.
/r/seduction03/02/20 06:11 PM
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"How to go from just getting laid..." you had me up until there! Haha. "Just getting laid" is something that never happens for some men.
/r/seduction03/02/20 06:02 PM
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Yeah, I've done many approaches like that. I think also having a prepared "script" doesn't help.
/r/seduction03/02/20 06:00 PM
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I can't bring myself to. I've tried it and taken advice that it is the correct method. But I can't do it on a consistent basis because it feels too fake. I would rather be myself rather than suppressing myself trying to enact some PUA nonsense. It stops you have developing a true connection when you use PUA techniques.
/r/seduction03/02/20 05:59 PM
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You are missing the irony of what you are saying. You sound like a natural, but not everyone is. Not everyone knows what's going to happen if they approach, or kino. I have only kino'ed once in daygame (flicked her hair) and probably won't do so again, unless a chick is really friendly. You don't understand how easy things are for you as a natural. Can you blame that young man for being nervous? I was almost exactly like him when I was 19, being around women made me almost have a panic attack fr…
/r/seduction03/02/20 05:31 PM
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It would have spited you if she'd have gone to the police. Take a look at this story https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-7557947/Shy-awkward-student-19-faces-JAIL-sex-assault-conviction.html
/r/seduction03/02/20 05:03 PM
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All sorts of things can happen. One time a woman went crazy at me in H&M for saying she looked nice. She was shaking with anger and called a store clerk over and complained about me to him. I tried to explain but he said I was harassing her and he would call the police if I didn't leave. Another time a girl turned out to be 15 and the dad went crazy in my face when he saw me walking around the same shopping mall looking for overaged girls (I got a video of that one if you want to see it!) And I'…
/r/seduction03/02/20 04:57 PM
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I see. The friend who I used to do daygame with was actually a nightgamer. He swore by nightgame and said it was easier. Also you have reason to believe everyone there is 18+ which isn't something you can take for granted in daygame, as I've found out on a few occasions! I agree with you on the teasing bit. On a few approaches it's gone really well and I've felt good from it, but it makes me sad as I wish I coulda done that back in 2008, when I was 18. I feel like there is a big void from all th…
/r/seduction03/02/20 04:51 PM
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Another gamer here in the UK huh? Check out my daygame infields, I bet you'll find them relatable!
/r/seduction03/02/20 04:44 PM
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I don't drink alcohol or like fights. I am an intellectual so I won't do nightclub game.
/r/seduction03/02/20 04:36 PM
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I had a friend who I used to go out for daygame with, but after a few incidents caused by my approaching, he stopped.
/r/seduction03/02/20 04:28 PM
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I've been single 30+ years. As for hobbies, many. As for books, as many coaches say "get out in the field instead of reading books" which is what I've done. There is plenty of content readily available online, but being able to implement it is another thing. Check out my videos to see how my interactions normally go, they can tell you more than I can on here in text.
/r/seduction03/02/20 04:03 PM
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I'm not, but only because I had sex with prostitutes since I was 25. Sex is too good to miss out on, even if it's paid for. I wish I did it when I was 18, but back then I still wanted to have sex the "normal" way.
/r/seduction03/02/20 01:34 PM
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Daygame-watch my video thread by clicking on my user.
/r/seduction03/02/20 01:06 PM
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This was me when I was 20. Now it is me when I am 30! Nothing has changed, so I don't know the answer.
/r/seduction03/02/20 09:20 AM
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When you are new to cold approach, it's enough to put you off. It just makes you feel like you did something wrong, even if you didn't.
/r/seduction03/02/20 08:32 AM
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Hey man, glad you asked the question! It feels like giving my 18 year old self advice so I am more than happy to help. I hear you on feeling like you don't fit in. I would probably have started having a few low pressure interactions with chicks. Not "Go direct" and ask for her phone number, just try out compliments or try saying "how's your day going" and stuff like that and figure out how they react to it. To be fair, I did try this at the youth club on a chick, but she was not friendly and jus…
/r/seduction03/02/20 08:30 AM
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Not everyone thinks that, though. Check out this video https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=eU9QcgM1Qhs&feature=share
/r/seduction02/02/20 10:09 PM
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Ha, thanks dude! Like you, I find approaching chicks walking in the street to be not really fitting with my personality. Which is why you have to be "too confident" otherwise they don't stop! But yeah, I'm a tall dude so they might be a bit scared when I come up to them and that's something I have to work on. A lot of pickup advice is bad which was what made me try to be "too confident", in my later approaches I try to be more apologetic and understanding which scares them less.
/r/seduction02/02/20 10:01 PM
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I had the waterproof seal on so I had to go into a video editing program to enhance speech recognition which also enhanced the sound of my heartbeat. To begin with, I was horrified, but then I thought it actually made the videos more exciting. Just turn your speakers up and you'll hear just fine.
/r/seduction02/02/20 09:52 PM
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What does "bad quality" refer to!? 1080p if you mean the video.
/r/seduction02/02/20 09:48 PM
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Check out my approach videos, they are all done in a small to medium town.
/r/seduction02/02/20 07:48 PM
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I am 30, but when I was 18 I was exactly like you. Trying to figure out who's "league" I was in and who it would be appropriate for me to talk to and who not to talk to based on that. As a result, I was shy and didn't talk to any chicks, but wish I would have. I would love to be back at college again. Start approaching now, 18 year old girls are at the beginning of they're peak, don't wait until you are in your 30s and restricted to women 30+ years old.
/r/seduction02/02/20 07:45 PM
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If a chick hitting and shoving you is the worst thing you can think of then you're somewhat lacking in imagination! You can't go boldly into every situation with a direct compliment like "Hey, you've got the sexiest legs I've seen all day" because you don't know how that chick will react. I can tell you from experience that you've got to be careful in what you say and do it delicately.
/r/seduction02/02/20 07:35 PM
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Basically this is near the absolute worst result you can expect from a daygame approach: the chick perceives you as complete shit and utterly disrespects you. The next level of that is if she starts cursing at you which is rare but can happen. The level above that is if she literally starts trying to shove or hit you, but that will never happen basically You are wrong, that is not the worst result. I believe I have experienced the worst result but I don't want to share it because people will giv…
/r/seduction02/02/20 07:20 PM
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Also, not to start an argument, but I think you are too far the other way. Barging blindly into situations in the guise of "pushing yourself! I've done it before, the results have never been good, one guy even wanted to punch me! You've got to be careful in any situation involving women as they are extremely sensitive to the wrong signals.
/r/seduction02/02/20 07:15 PM
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I actually agree with this advice, but you've got to understand that for a newbie starting out, a lot of books and videos just tell the clueless newbie to "grow a pair of balls approach" without much consideration for the girl. As someone with little or no experience with female interaction (like most newbies are) it really is "trial by fire" so to speak. The pickup coaches describe this kind of situation as the ideal one to "push yourself" in, which is of course wrong and not socially calibrate…
/r/seduction02/02/20 06:49 PM
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Not brutal at all, I've had far worse, some of which I've caught on camera. I actually found that when I was recording, I didn't fear the rejection that much, as it was a funny situation for my channel. I remember my 23rd approach, it was in H&M. I went up to a lady looking at swimsuits and told her I thought she looked nice. The reaction I got could not have been predicted. She was shaking with anger. She said something like "I'm in THIS STORE...looking at WOMEN'S CLOTHING...and you think it is…
/r/seduction02/02/20 06:43 PM
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From experience, I don't agree with "ABC". You can mess up a really nice, natural interaction and turn it into something awkward.
/r/seduction02/02/20 06:34 PM
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Well done, I wish I'd started talking to chicks at uni. My whole life coulda been different! It makes you feel sad when you are older if you don't.
/r/seduction02/02/20 06:32 PM
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After 18 months of approaching, some of it with a camera on, I have come to this conclusion myself. Sometimes, when I stop and think about it, it just seems somehow absurd that I and others put so much effort into this process. Basically having to become a fake person, change your whole persona. And for what!? Just to get someone who only likes you for fake and learned behaviour that isn't even the "real" you? It's either looks (I'm on the fence here) or as you say, a certain kind of "inner core…
/r/seduction01/02/20 10:57 PM
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I don't have any form of social media, it's for idiots, why make your real name and face publicly available? That's stupid. I even have an approach video where I say I don't have a facebook account because I am "old school" but she wasn't sure how to put her phone number in my "dumb" phone either, so I left wishing her a good day! You will see this video if you subscribe to my channel on YouTube.
/r/seduction01/02/20 10:43 PM
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Do it. When I was your age I had two goals before I started meeting women Get a full time job (not achieved until I was 27) Move out of home (not achieved and now I am 30+) I honestly regret wasting my late teens to my mid 20s and only started meeting women at aged 28. It's a massive regret, you don't get those years back. Edit: Don't worry about "doing the deed" it's unlikely to happen anyway (I've daygamed consistently over 18 months and only got about a dozen numbers from it) but just do it s…
/r/seduction01/02/20 10:38 PM
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I just thought it might be interesting for people to see my progression, etc. But yeah, only a little bit. I don't take it personally.
/r/seduction01/02/20 04:41 PM
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Not ever approaching girls is a weak move...but making approaches badly is just as bad. You have to learn NOT to take everything so literal and adding context to things you see/hear. Because there always is context. Yeah, I didn't approach until I was 28. There was this chick I wanted to approach back when I was 18 at a youth club I went to for a long time. I almost did when we were both alone but then someone came in the door and then I had an audience, so at the last moment I diverted and pret…
/r/seduction01/02/20 03:13 PM
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Yeah, I realise that this approach is a bit too dominant now. I was trying to implement advice in pickup videos about being "dominant and alpha". I was actually watching a video about this exact subject, yesterday. https://youtu.be/eU9QcgM1Qhs?t=2640 Basically he's describing that the stop must be "strong". I have since adopted a more natural and softer approach. My argument with the above mentioned method is that you just don't know how the girl is going to react, it can either look good or bad…
/r/seduction01/02/20 02:40 PM
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I suffer from Asperger's, it makes daygame tricky. But other than nightclubs (Which I would NEVER go to) and online (mostly looks based) there simply aren't other options. See my videos if you want to know how rough daygame is for an Asperger's sufferer...
/r/seduction01/02/20 01:32 PM
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Actually I totally agree with you that they look uncomfortable and that as a man you have to ease into talking to women. But there are a lot of posts on this forum and others (and videos on YouTube) that avoiding talking to women makes as a man makes you a "pussy" for not talking to them. So instead of describing how the girls seem to be uncomfortable in my interactions (which doesn't carry much weight), I figured I would film a few interactions to say "look, this is why I normally avoid female …
/r/seduction01/02/20 12:55 PM
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I think you might have trouble with security both inside the airport and if they notice you hanging around there on a regular basis. If you ask me, you're asking for trouble.
/r/seduction01/02/20 12:42 PM
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Just leave. Mike Mehlman has a good philosophy towards this. Check out mikemehlman.net.
/r/seduction01/02/20 12:16 PM
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Watch my videos and if you are doing better than that, you have no reason to be scared. If you are doing worse then...gg
/r/seduction01/02/20 11:46 AM
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I am not the OP, but watch me post my approach infields and then watch me get criticized. If the OP approached his infields would probably attract criticism. Damned if you do, damned if you don't. Now go on my thread and call me a pussy, I DARE you.
/r/seduction01/02/20 11:25 AM
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