| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 6 | A question to men in the sub: does body count matter for men, or only for women? | Question For Men | 1witty_username | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/04/20 05:49 PM |
| 5 | I’m leaving my husband | 1witty_username | /r/RedPillWomen | 05/05/20 01:38 AM | |
| 0 | Good YouTube video about hypergamy | 1witty_username | /r/ExRedPill | 04/09/20 03:05 AM | |
| 0 | Women don’t actually give bad dating advice to men. The problem is either men only listen to part of the advice given, or just misunderstand it all together. | CMV | 1witty_username | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/08/20 03:46 AM |
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| 9 | Q4W: Have you ever had a long period where you couldn't meet a guy you liked? How long did it last?Yes, they were friends first so obviously already had an emotional bond. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/21 08:47 PM |
| 1 | “I can’t be open because they will use it against me” is a common thing I hear men say, but not women as much — why?I suppose that could be true. But, it also shows how either gender can be nasty and use intimate information against you. It’s not a trait only shown by women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/09/21 04:23 PM |
| 1 | “I can’t be open because they will use it against me” is a common thing I hear men say, but not women as much — why?As a woman, I can honestly say I have had more men attack me using things against me that were said in confidence, than women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/09/21 02:18 PM |
| 3 | What are Your Physical Deal Breakers in Guys ?As a woman with an asymmetrical face, I’m jealous of your capability to grow a beard. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/21 03:59 PM |
| 22 | The Red Pill Is A Shell Of Its Former Self and Suffers From CorruptionAre you trying to claim that complaining and pettiness is a feminine trait? That’s what this comment sounds like, and that is extremely toxic thinking. | /r/ExRedPill | 29/05/21 12:58 AM |
| 0 | Men saying ‘if you didn’t want me at my worst, do you don’t deserve me at my best’ have a valid argument.The aggrieved spouse is generally the one that files for divorce. So, stating that women are more likely to be the ones to file is not proving what you think it does. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/04/21 07:17 PM |
| 1 | 16yo friend spent 1 month in jail due to a $10k bond for sexting a girl who led him on, and never mentioned her age...It was never stated that she misled him about her age. It states she led him on, as in she was the initiater. He has some kind of responsibility in verifying or even asking age before engaging sexually with another person. | /r/MensRights | 28/12/20 06:31 PM |
| 1 | 16yo friend spent 1 month in jail due to a $10k bond for sexting a girl who led him on, and never mentioned her age...This wasn’t a woman. Read the comments. This girl was extremely young, op guessed 11-13. That’s a child. | /r/MensRights | 28/12/20 05:58 PM |
| 1 | Genuinely curious if women can understand where men are coming fromDo men not understand that this is a result of their actions? Women holding out on sex stems from a few reasons for most women. Being shamed for having sex. Being called easy or a slut for doing the same thing that men do. Being misled by men into believing that they want a relationship, when the men were just saying whatever they thought would get them laid. If women weren’t held to some higher standards and expected to be pure and chaste while also being a sex goddesses then maybe more men wou… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/20 01:56 PM |
| 1 | Fertility and AttractivenessI’m surprised how many men are saying they don’t care, yet one of the main reasons men on here state that women 19-25 as being in their prime is because of peak fertility. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/20 04:53 PM |
| 20 | A lot of men can't "be themselves" as women often offer as advice to datingEveryone, male and female, has to put on a slight act out in public or with new people. You either have to force yourself out of your comfort zone and be more engaging, or for some they have to tone themselves down. It’s just what it is. Saying “just be yourself” means just put your best foot forward without trying to become a completely different person. All day at work I have to exaggerate my personality, but that doesn’t mean I’m being someone else. I’m still being me, but an over exaggerated… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/20 12:23 AM |
| 6 | Why is intamacy decining?She is nowhere near overweight. Women carry more fat than men do, and, if she is at all toned or works out she would have more muscle which weighs more than fat. And at your height and weight, you honestly sound underweight, or at least very thin. | /r/ExRedPill | 23/08/20 02:06 AM |
| 8 | It's not womens responsibility to have sex with any type of man or any percentage of men. There is no sex quota to filled.*his choice. He chose to nut in someone, now he has to pay for the consequence. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/20 02:26 AM |
| 12 | It's not womens responsibility to have sex with any type of man or any percentage of men. There is no sex quota to filled.Women. Reason being most men don’t fight for custody. Talk to your fellow men about stepping up to the plate. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/20 01:33 AM |
| 41 | The Hypocrisy of FDSYou’re pretty much wrong on all accounts. RP does not at all give women what they want or try to understand women. They basically preach mental and psychological abuse of women. They mislead, straight up lie and manipulate women. They don’t at all try to understand them because they think they already know everything, but what they think couldn’t be farther from the truth. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/05/20 12:51 AM |
| 3 | To incel/MGTOW lurkers: I found the way outI love most of what you wrote except the fact that you’ll probably be single forever. There’s no reason at all to think that. Keep working on yourself and you’ll go far. | /r/ExRedPill | 07/05/20 10:40 PM |
| 5 | People who think " if you didnt want us at my worse, you don't dont deserve us at our best" should be avoided.That’s provably false. Sex trafficking is a real thing that still happens. Also, just like underprivileged boys are forced into gangs, underprivileged girls are forced into prostitution. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/20 05:39 PM |
| 6 | How much do your dating options diminish/increase as you get older? For both men and womenRead through this sub and you will see countless men saying they will only date women in their early 20s. In real life maybe the entitlement is not as common, but on Reddit I see it all over the place. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/20 03:39 PM |
| 10 | How much do your dating options diminish/increase as you get older? For both men and womenThis sounds like incel ideology. Do you really think that judging young girls for being young and having fun, makes any sense? Most men are the same. When someone is young they like to enjoy life and experience new things. Stop trying to make villains out of women who enjoy their life just like many men do. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/20 03:33 PM |
| 8 | How much do your dating options diminish/increase as you get older? For both men and womenWomen mostly don't live up to their own expectations, and more often than not their standards are delusional. The same can be said for the middle aged men believing they are entitled to dating model looking women in their 20s. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/20 03:24 PM |
| 18 | How much do your dating options diminish/increase as you get older? For both men and womenIs it really any more shallow for a woman to want a man that has his life together, then a man to want a woman that looks like a super model? If I’ve got a career and house and car, then I am going to look for a man that also has those things. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/20 02:47 PM |
| 16 | Are most people who can only imagine fucking young girls (18-24) around the same age bracket?The amount of men on here that see nothing wrong with grooming and manipulating young women is absolutely astonishing. As a woman in my 30s who is attracted to both men and women, I see those that are significantly younger than me as extremely child like. I can admit when they are beautiful or handsome, but there is just no sexual appeal. I don’t have sex with bodies, I have sex with people, so if their minds are still in need of maturing, there’s no sexual attraction. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/20 04:10 PM |
| 3 | Q4A: Why is desire for young women (legal age or older) singled out and not treated like any other standard?There shouldn’t be a need for a law to tell you to not take advantage of others. What am I going to do about it? I’m going to do my best to mentor anyone I come across that might need support as they progress into adulthood. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/04/20 04:49 PM |
| 10 | Q4A: Why is desire for young women (legal age or older) singled out and not treated like any other standard?I never said women. I don’t think the inexperienced should be taken advantage of by those much older who use their inexperience and naivety to their advantage. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/04/20 04:34 PM |
| 4 | Q4A: Why is desire for young women (legal age or older) singled out and not treated like any other standard?Or just don’t take advantage of young adults.... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/04/20 04:29 PM |
| 10 | Q4A: Why is desire for young women (legal age or older) singled out and not treated like any other standard?Sure, they are technically men and women. However they still have a lot of learning and maturing to do. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/04/20 04:29 PM |
| 11 | Q4A: Why is desire for young women (legal age or older) singled out and not treated like any other standard?Being pursued by someone your own age is completely different than being pursued by someone significantly older who can take advantage of your inexperience and naivety. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/04/20 04:17 PM |
| 22 | Q4A: Why is desire for young women (legal age or older) singled out and not treated like any other standard?More like young “adults” who’s brains haven’t fully matured are morons and are more easily taken advantage of. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/04/20 03:28 PM |
| 2 | CMV: TRP promotes the Men Are Wonderful ideaLol go check the percentage of women acquiring child support and alimony checks in divorces... also check which gender is responsible for most divorces ? I’ll give you a clue it’s not men The percentage of SAHM is much greater than SAHD so that makes sense and doesn’t really prove feminism. Do you mean which gender is more responsible for filing for divorce? Because that does not at all mean responsible for divorce. And no... the global platforms, are there to promote women’s most toxic traits, … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/04/20 10:35 PM |
| 2 | CMV: TRP promotes the Men Are Wonderful ideaDo you have any citations about your claims of feminists controlling family courts? In my research I have seen that the majority of the court systems in the US are now pushing to give fathers equal rights. In most cases where the mother is given full custody, it’s because the father does not request custody. The family court system used to be extremely biased against men, but that’s been changing in current times. Then... feminists are now weaponized to be used for political benefits. I’m not su… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/04/20 09:31 PM |
| 21 | Society works best when the base assumption is men and women do deserve sex and relationshipsLol shame women because they have standards. This is hilarious. You want to shame the women that have standards and won’t just hop into bed with anyone, and then you also want to shame the women who have lower standards that would actually have sex with you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/04/20 06:06 AM |
| 8 | Society works best when the base assumption is men and women do deserve sex and relationshipsEveryone is shallow to an extent. People want to have a physical attraction to their partner. There is absolutely nothing wrong with having standards. I’m sorry you think most men are not up to the standards that women have, but that is ridiculous to expect them to lower their standards so a man can get his dick wet. If men work on their personality more, they might have better luck! *edited my comment to say men instead of “you,” as I meant men in general. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/04/20 06:03 AM |
| 2 | Why women give men bad romantic adviceA lot of women love romance, and kindness is a great quality to have. A man can be only slightly attractive, but if he has a good, funny charming personality, his attractiveness is greatly increased. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/20 11:03 PM |
| 4 | CMV: Men don't really love women for who they areYes! It’s so sad that this has to be said. Treat people how you want to be treated. Stop with the manipulation and tactics and objectification. Most people just want love and to be loved. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/20 06:15 PM |
| 7 | Redpillers, and FDS. What are the ideas that you disagree with when it comes to your own community?I don’t know if you realize it, but most men don’t let on when they are seeing multiple women at a time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/20 03:59 AM |
| 18 | Redpillers, and FDS. What are the ideas that you disagree with when it comes to your own community?So women should have sex with a man right away, but they should also have a low n count. How are they expected to do both? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/20 02:45 AM |
| 1 | Are men upset about not being able to get relationships or causal sex?First of all, yes, I agree that there is an ideal beauty standard for men, just like there is for women. Unfortunately that’s just how society is, it’s not fair to the people that don’t meet or conform to those standards, but that’s how it is. However, human nature is awesome and mysterious and not all people have the same beauty standards! Secondly, not everyone would consider 5’10” short. I certainly wouldn’t and many other women wouldn’t. I also know how it feels to not be what you think the … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/20 11:49 PM |
| 1 | Q4A: Would you date a person who would have ignored/rejected you in their late teens/early 20s?How does not wanting sex on the first date = ulterior motives? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/20 10:14 PM |
| 3 | Q4A: Would you date a person who would have ignored/rejected you in their late teens/early 20s?Sure. I was extremely shy and tried to be invisible as best I could when I was younger. I don’t blame the men that overlooked me or wouldn’t date me. People change, their likes, looks and opinions all change with age. I know I sure have, so I wouldn’t hold it against someone if I wasn’t “their cup of tea” back in the day. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/20 10:12 PM |
| 6 | Are men upset about not being able to get relationships or causal sex?Why do men in here talk about a women wanting to be in a relationship with you as if it’s a bad thing? What would you prefer? Your manager giving you the tasks of leading a team at work with no other responsibilities or perks of a team leader. - Or - Your manager promoting you to supervisor, you still get to be in charge of your team but now they become your responsibility. On the plus side you now have a raise, a good parking spot and get to set your own hours. Giving you the promotion comes wi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/20 09:59 PM |
| 12 | Are men upset about not being able to get relationships or causal sex?How can a person be “used up?” Can you elaborate as to what you deem to be used up? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/20 09:44 PM |
| 1 | Do men here realize that the women who post here "care" more about men's issues than like 99% of women do?I think many women are trying to solve your problem by getting you to open your eyes and see that your situation may not be what you believe it to be. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/20 08:08 PM |
| 2 | Do men here realize that the women who post here "care" more about men's issues than like 99% of women do?That’s not at all what the op said | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/20 08:06 PM |
| 1 | We are lonelier then ever because everyone is disposableIt’s an “average BMI” sure, but you can still have an amazing above average body at that height and weight. It’s all about the fat placement and how much of that weight is muscle vs fat as muscle weighs more than fat. You can judge someone solely based off of numbers. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/04/20 03:28 AM |
| 3 | Women are not responsible for men.A women can’t unilaterally make a decision to have a child. Every time anyone engages in intercourse they are making the decision to engage in an activity that could potentially result in having a child. It’s a given. Children are created from sex. Deciding to have sex is deciding to risk creating a child. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/20 11:43 PM |
| 7 | Fat girls have no problem in the marketMy sister is morbidly obese and people in public can be straight up cruel. She’s had people throw shit at her from their car calling her a fatass. People have made cow and pig sounds as she walks by. When we’ve gone to the lake she’s been called a whale. So just because you haven’t seen it, it doesn’t mean that it doesn’t happen. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/20 03:36 AM |
| 3 | To those believe that something should be "done" about whatever it is you've observed (e.g. sexlessness). What do you think should be done?Men or women will potentially lie about how many people they’ve been with if they feel their partner may not see them favorably if they tell them the truth. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/20 06:51 PM |
| 5 | To those believe that something should be "done" about whatever it is you've observed (e.g. sexlessness). What do you think should be done?“women have cultural incentive to lie.” People lie. Men and women. We are all individuals and whether or not people lie is based on their own moral compass, not on their gender. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/20 06:41 PM |
| 2 | To those believe that something should be "done" about whatever it is you've observed (e.g. sexlessness). What do you think should be done?Nope. Even if you signed the birth certificate you can still petition the court to order a paternity test. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/20 06:39 PM |
| 9 | To those believe that something should be "done" about whatever it is you've observed (e.g. sexlessness). What do you think should be done?You do realize that statistically men cheat more than women, right? I’m not sure what this “all women are cheaters” mentality came from when there’s nothing to back it up. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/20 06:21 PM |
| 3 | To those believe that something should be "done" about whatever it is you've observed (e.g. sexlessness). What do you think should be done?That’s not true at all. If a woman claims a child is yours, you can petition the court for a court ordered paternity test. The mother’s permission is not necessary. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/20 06:17 PM |
| 3 | Is self-improvement the solution to getting alpha widowed?Believe it or not, not all men think like that. Many men realize that there are many more aspects to a woman besides her looks and her ability to provide children. Many men have absolutely no desire to have children so “fertility” is of no value to them. Many men value the companionship and conversations they get from their SO more then looks, so to those men personality and knowledge/education has more value than looks or youth. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/20 05:40 PM |
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