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RED FLAG 🚨1x9x1x7/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/21 05:59 PM
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Which episodes do they talk about this in?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/23 04:16 PM
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It’s because he’s having a realization that he might not be perfect either. A good guy wouldn’t be mad at her for making these poor choices or at least wouldn’t hold it against her - we all make poor choices sometimes. If he was truly a stand up guy he would have sympathy and empathy for her and be understanding, not upset. Oh some level he realizes this and on some level he knows there’s not so great stuff about him that are going to come out later on down the line, or else he wouldn’t be worri…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/22 01:59 PM
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They're not even plastic, they're latex. Lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/22 01:28 AM
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get an inferiority complex real fucking quick. Oh 100%. And you KNOW that if you stopped grooming yourself and putting in all this effort, at some point down the line they would start complaining about why you don't put any effort in anymore, or will cheat on you with someone who was doing what you did, and the reasoning will be related to the fact that you stopped taking care of yourself or some shit like that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/22 02:23 PM
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Who the fuck does this moron think is doing the work making those Pixar films that bring the company millions of dollars? I’m so confused by this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/22 01:23 AM
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Exactly. People also buy expensive shit through the mail all the time - if it matters that much, get the special shipping etc. This is clearly a ploy just to meet up with her and convince her to stay.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/22 06:28 PM
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This also shows that men generally will interpret that rules made by women are optional, and that they can bend them. Absolutely - look at how many women who tell men that are hitting on them that they're lesbians. I've heard of men answering like "oh, I don't mind" "that's okay with me" or some variation like they don't get it. Some of them are probably truly stupid and don't actually understand what it means, but you know there's men who think exactly how you mentioned, that it's optional and …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/22 02:06 PM
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I've seen it discussed elsewhere here before, but I think this really relates to LVM's own insecurity and how they see themselves. They are insecure and don't see highly of themselves and thus if you think highly of them, they basically don't respect you because they think you're a loser for seeing something in them. Just look at the way he insults her - she took him for who he was in spite of his physical appearance and what does he say about her in return? That he was always embarrassed by her…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/22 01:54 PM
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This is one of my personal red flags…like if I find their mannerisms irritating or if I cringe when he compliments me. If I’m feeling irritated or cringed out by him there’s something wrong - whatever it is, I clearly don’t actually enjoy his company. He could be nice, but it’s okay to cut it off. Why waste time with someone you don’t like? If you truly are in love with someone you aren’t going to be constantly irritated by everything they do and say. I see men do this, stick with women they’re …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/22 11:27 PM
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Constant texting is a red flag or at least a yellow flag. Obviously there is expectation for a reasonable about of reciprocal exchange, but if I get the feeling the dude is glued to his phone, that’s not good. If he has enough time to be doing that, what is he not doing? He was texting back constantly because he was on his phone all the time trying to keep up with his rolodex of women while unemployed. If he’s not playing every woman in the city, constant texting, IMO, shows clinginess.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/22 03:04 PM
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"You can't have access to my money, but I need to have access to yours" Notice how in both scenarios the woman is painted as the greedy one here. He needs a prenup to protect his assets because she makes less money and has more debt and maybe there's a potential issue here where she tries to take his money and run either in a divorce, or just in marriage where she tries to use his money to cover her own expenses because she has no money and he has some. Now she makes more money than he does and …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/22 02:31 PM
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Man, I didn’t expect this post to be THIS bad, but it got worse the more I kept reading. I don’t know how you kept your composure at the table. He’s definitely hovering. Anyways, it always sucks to lose a friend but now you have more room and time for old and new friends who respect you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/22 05:10 PM
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Beware the men that ignore your boundaries or "forget" . They didn't forget. This. At a previous job we had a coworker with a severe allergy to chocolate, and our narcissist boss and his flying monkeys would conveniently forget or leave stuff open that would allow her to become exposed. He could remember that his flying monkeys liked a certain type of food or followed a certain diet though. Honestly even if some of these are just genuinely forgetting, if they can't make a conscious effort to do …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/21 03:20 PM
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This reminds me of a story I saw being posted around the internet, I'm not sure if it came from reddit or if it came from like an advice column or something, but some woman was asking for advice because her husband/fiancee/whatever and his family basically didn't believe she was allergic to mushrooms when she had a pretty severe allergy. When she would go over dinner they would always make it a point to include mushrooms or put it in shit that didn't need to have it, like one of the examples she…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/21 03:12 PM
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“Whatever you want to know just ask” AKA I’m boring and want you to do all the legwork. “I like women who are good listener” AKA I want you to shut the fuck up and listen so I can talk about my day and never ask you about yours.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/21 02:44 AM
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Humans, and especially men value what we have to work for and invest in. Always let men come to you in courtship phase. Sherry Argov gives this example in "Why Men Love Bitches": a man received a toy he didn't ask for on Christmas day and played with it for a few minutes, but the toy that he saved up for to buy himself from the shop is what he cherished and played with the most. I could even see this in my father when it came to stuff he had to make or put together himself; he was always so much…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/21 03:21 PM
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I learned the hard way that most men will say "yes" even if they have zero actual interest in you, just on the off-chance that they'll get sex. Exactly this right here. It's been discussed here before how many men WILL settle. They'll fuck someone just to fuck someone, or in worse cases they'll marry someone just because they think it's time or because the have to. Women are not the same - if we aren't interested in a guy we will just say no. I think this has become a major point of contention i…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/21 03:11 PM
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I can see why people think this, but it's not about what ANY man wants and expects. If that's what the book was truly about, the examples of how to behave would be much, much different. She gives the example in the first chapter of not cooking him elaborate meals or giving him elaborate gifts. I've seen plenty of posts on here about LVM who, on the first date or two, want you cook him a nice meal. LVM want this treatment; if Argov's book was about pleasing men, she wouldn't be advising you again…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/21 08:38 PM
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Even if she was pressing for a reason, if he is worried that it would upset her why bother wondering if he should have been truthful. It was also only 3 dates…I think if they had been in a committed relationship for 3 years I’d understand wanting to be honest. But for something that insignificant all you have to do is just say you weren’t interested and leave it at that. The only reason I could see for wanting to say “it’s because of your physique” is just to humiliate her. It’s just not necessa…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/21 05:05 PM
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TBH I think in america in general (can't speak to other countries cuz I just haven't lived anywhere else) there is something strange surrounding how people are taught and not taught to bathe properly. I remember on twitter there was a viral discussion happening where some white people were talking about how they don't wash their legs lol. I've been trying to figure out why this is so common especially with men and I want to say part of the reason is pure narcissism and also a fear of intimacy an…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/11/21 04:28 PM
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they think they're always hooking up with women they've settled for Probably because they do. They touch upon it in the episode but soooo many men fuck women they aren't attracted to just to have their orgasm or lead women on just to practice their game for when the woman they actually wanna date comes along. And men think everyone thinks the same as them: they think if they settle, women should too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/21 12:35 AM
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I really wish academia and the larger LGBT community would stop with the inclusivity train because this is what happens, you get freaks trying to ride your coattails because they find a community that will accept them. I know that most people in the aforementioned groups don't support pedophilia, but if you are not extremely vocal and stern about who is and isn't allowed in your circles, you get people who latch on like this. Sometimes it's okay to be exclusive.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/21 01:45 AM
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I hate this so much. Something somewhat similar is I've had guys come to me to be emo about a girl they just broke up with, or a girl who blocked him, girl who isn't talking to him, etc. Fuck off. Big red flag especially if I was interested in you or you were attempting to date me; I'm not your bro, don't come to me to whine about women or get advice. If you try to give them advice they don't listen and just want you to give them asspats OR will use it as way to manipulate you into having sex or…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/21 05:03 AM
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I don’t think lingerie is inherently a questionable gift, especially if lingerie is one of your hobbies/interests. However, men tend to do the “this is actually for me” style of gift. A lingerie set you think is ugly that he clearly likes or lingerie when you aren’t a lingerie woman, an appliance for the house you didn’t ask for, furniture you didn’t specifically ask for…I think they deeper issue is that it’s a gift you didn’t ask for or have no interest in. Like asking your parents for makeup f…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/21 10:09 PM
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I will never forget the time I met a guy on Bumble and through a short chat on the app I didn't think we were a good match but I thought he could be a cool friend. I said as much, and the switch was astounding. Immediately changed his tune and got pissed off, then told me ways in which I should improve myself and then told me to get back to him in a few months because he "really wants to fuck an asian girl". He was served a block party invite pretty quickly after that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/21 06:27 PM
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Got, for real. A friend and I talk about this all the time - it's so fucking bizarre. They will start conversations with you online or in person in the most asinine ways. There's the men who asked you 20 questions but then give shitty/one word/no answers if you try to engage with them back and are like literal NPC's, head empty no thoughts, etc. Then there's the men who never shut the fuck up about themselves. I have overheard so many dates in the city with the guy literally talking nonstop, nev…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/21 04:23 AM
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