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| 2 | I don’t think it takes that long to get good at game/seductionWorks if you're looking decent enough not to be hardly rejected in the beginning. Which happens if you look really ugly. | /r/seduction | 23/06/20 07:23 AM |
| – | Conversations with an average man with an above average sex lifeI'd love to look average rather than very ugly. | /r/seduction | 07/04/20 06:06 PM |
| 3 | Why Looks Don't Matter That Much (Infield)I think it was 'mystery' who started the 'girls don't care about looks' thing (which, if you know any young girls or have sisters or whatever, you'll know is the most ridiculous thing in the world lol) - but since he was one of the first to take PUA mainstream, people take what he said as fact It's a thing most PUA teachers preach, because non-attractive guys is their main target. | /r/seduction | 02/03/20 12:17 PM |
| 2 | Why Looks Don't Matter That Much (Infield)Good looks helps you, average looks gives you chances, bad lucks gives you nothing. | /r/seduction | 02/03/20 12:15 PM |
| 3 | Why Looks Don't Matter That Much (Infield)So if we were to put a male model with no confidence, no sense of humor, and no social skills into the PUA arena against a hideous gargoyle who also happens to be the life of the party, you would put your money on the model? In a second. | /r/seduction | 02/03/20 12:14 PM |
| – | Girls want sex too, you’re the one that messes it up.Yeah, I see women wanting sex everywhere, jut not with an ugly guy like me. | /r/seduction | 22/02/20 03:49 PM |
| 2 | Think about thatWorks great if you're not ugly. If you are you're just a creep. | /r/seduction | 21/02/20 08:14 AM |
| 1 | Cold approach levels the playing field.It wouldn't help, because english is not my native language, we don't speak it where I live. | /r/seduction | 07/02/20 07:56 AM |
| 0 | Cold approach levels the playing field.Thanks, but as I said - I already tried that. 20 years is a lot of time to try all imaginable things. | /r/seduction | 06/02/20 09:54 PM |
| – | Cold approach levels the playing field.Btw, I'm not saying that women should date ugly men. The same way as I wouldn't like to date women I don't find attractive. It just doesn't make sense. I'm only saying that looks (in my case) is something I can't change and I'm just basically fucked. | /r/seduction | 06/02/20 07:14 PM |
| 1 | Cold approach levels the playing field.I did all these things, I was dating with some ugly girls for a while, but it doesn't do anything for me. I don't like them, they don't like me, I'm still low on self-confidence. Wether I'm "faking it" or not I'm still being treated as a creep. And I'm not low skilled socially, lot of girls tried to friendzone me because I'm an interesting guy (not a nice guy), but even a thought of having a sexual relationship with me makes them cringe. Their reactions are very obvious. | /r/seduction | 06/02/20 06:17 PM |
| – | Cold approach levels the playing field.Already did without any success for more than 20 years (I'm almost 40). | /r/seduction | 06/02/20 12:16 PM |
| – | Cold approach levels the playing field.Yeah, looking even below average is a dream I have. If only ... This doesn't work if you're really ugly. | /r/seduction | 06/02/20 10:12 AM |
| 1 | How the hell do I get laidSame here, almost 38 years old. Quite skilled socially but ugly beyond repair. | /r/seduction | 03/02/20 01:48 PM |
| 2 | How to Win Friends and Influence People is great but it doesn't seem to work for girls especially getting a partner?It works if you're physically attractive. | /r/seduction | 24/12/19 05:26 PM |
| 1 | Physical looks get your foot in the door, character and personality keep you in.Ok, and that's why I don't even get inside. | /r/seduction | 09/12/19 10:46 AM |
| 1 | Lets have a discussion about something thats been bugging me: Unatractive GirlsAnd yet, as a an ugly, 37 year old virgin I keep getting opinions here that it's my fault, my attitude and lack of skills. You fucking hypocrites :/. You wouldn't date anyone who you find ugly. | /r/seduction | 30/11/19 01:24 PM |
| – | [FR] You can approach women anywhere - 8 approaches in a grocery storeEveryone is more open if you are attractive. I on the other hand am always creepy (not attractive) no matter what I do. | /r/seduction | 29/11/19 06:17 AM |
| 1 | Knowing What You Want (The Secret To Dating Success)Yeah, I'm falling on the looks front. | /r/seduction | 11/11/19 06:08 PM |
| – | Knowing What You Want (The Secret To Dating Success)I don't think so. If they think I don't have any sexual interest in them they treat me normally. I have lots of attractive female friends, they just don't see me in romantic context at all. | /r/seduction | 11/11/19 02:16 PM |
| – | Knowing What You Want (The Secret To Dating Success)I'm comfortable talking with women, even attractive. But they're not interested in me as a man at all. Most I can hope for is friendzone. Not because I'm not manly enough, just because "I'm not their type". It's not something they say after get to know me, but something they say always when they meet me. I can easily be found sexy and attractive if we talk online, but when they see how I look it all changes. | /r/seduction | 11/11/19 02:13 PM |
| – | Knowing What You Want (The Secret To Dating Success)That's the theory, because I'm fit, clean and put together and it doesn't work. | /r/seduction | 11/11/19 09:58 AM |
| – | Knowing What You Want (The Secret To Dating Success)It doesn't affect me apart from the fact that woman treat me like a creep without me even talking with them. Which only gets worse if I try to. | /r/seduction | 11/11/19 09:57 AM |
| – | Knowing What You Want (The Secret To Dating Success)Of course I have confidence in everything about me apart from look which is totally unattractive. | /r/seduction | 10/11/19 08:15 PM |
| 2 | Knowing What You Want (The Secret To Dating Success)In addition to being a stud obviously. | /r/seduction | 10/11/19 07:28 PM |
| – | Knowing What You Want (The Secret To Dating Success)Same here but in addition I'm very ugly and a 37 years old virgin. Will this work for me? | /r/seduction | 10/11/19 07:25 PM |
| – | Random Game Thought #223: Stop Trying To Seduce Women Who Make You Work For Their Sexual (&Non) Attention.Actually no women are interested in me. | /r/seduction | 06/11/19 09:23 AM |
| 1 | Getting Laid Will Not Solve Your ProblemsWhat if I don't have any other problems apart from not getting laid? | /r/seduction | 04/11/19 09:30 AM |
| 11 | How Tinder changed my dating life in one weekYou didn't break the rule that counts the most. Don't be ugly. | /r/seduction | 08/09/19 08:58 PM |
| 2 | Approaching girls is more simple than you thinkYou'll get downvoted, but this is the right answer whey you're ugly. I get exactly the same results no matter how friendly, optimistic I try to be. All I see is being treated like a creep. | /r/seduction | 22/08/19 01:15 PM |
| 0 | FR - Girls DO care about looksYeah, a good answer if you don't care. If you'd like to have your family some day and to be happy and not lonely whole life - it's not enough. I tried not to care, but it doesn't work for me. It makes it only worse. | /r/seduction | 23/07/19 07:45 AM |
| 2 | FR - Girls DO care about looksThe thing with being confident is that you either have it based on experience or not. If I don't have positive experiences with women even though I'm almost forty, then how am I supposed to be confident? I faked it for years but guess what? I didn't make it. Every non-clueless woman will detect a fake immediately. How do I know that I'm ugly? Because women turn away from me, don't want to talk at all, literally walk away. And not - I'm not unfriendly, aggressive, chauvinistic or a "nice guy". | /r/seduction | 22/07/19 03:31 PM |
| 2 | FR - Girls DO care about looksOk, I'm bald with bad squint (can't be fixed), had some cosmetic surgeries, dress pretty well, care about hygiene obviously. Still I'm treated like a creep exclusively based on looks, as I'm also a friendly person. So there is obviously truth in what you say, but if someone is really ugly it just doesn't work. I've heard it all so many times, but my real life experience differs a lot. | /r/seduction | 22/07/19 06:51 AM |
| 6 | FR - Girls DO care about looksJust read it as I do. Good looks may be not enough, but being ugly means it's game over. | /r/seduction | 20/07/19 10:01 AM |
| 0 | 7 Simple Lessons About Attraction (Which Are Often Forgotten)Oh, really? I have a bad squint not possible to operate and fix. No matter what I do I get treated like a creep. | /r/seduction | 05/06/19 06:22 AM |
| 1 | "Wow you have beautiful eyes."I have a bad squint. It makes me creepy. Tried to fix it, but doctors say it can't be done. Thanks for advice though. | /r/seduction | 18/05/19 12:52 PM |
| – | A girl goes on the most amazing date of her life and then...why waste time on people who aren't enthusiastic about you? Because I've been searching for long time and haven't found any such people? | /r/seduction | 11/05/19 11:46 AM |
| 4 | 1000+ approaches, lots of instant rejections, how to stay motivated?And being authentic is important as always How can you authentic when you're having low self-esteem? You'll have to fake it. That's not attractive. | /r/seduction | 04/05/19 09:19 PM |
| -2 | 5 exercises that will make you attractive to the women you wantSome of us are really ugly, not just below average. All the advice of the world won't change a thing if you're really unattractive (physically). Yeah, you could get some sex if you have a lot of money or fame, but it's purely transactional in such case. | /r/seduction | 01/05/19 09:38 PM |
| 2 | If she smiles, say hiMy doctor said my teeth are fubar (fucked up beyond any repair). Also I have squint which can't be cured. | /r/seduction | 21/04/19 05:40 PM |
| – | If she smiles, say hiI'm 37 years old. No woman has ever smiled to me. Also, if I try to smile first - everyone treats me as a creep. | /r/seduction | 21/04/19 05:45 AM |
| 1 | You're Already Good Enough!Thanks. I appreciate your good will. I'm already doing all this stuff. Apart from intensive eye contact - I have a bad squint - which cannot be cured (I already had LASIK surgery, but this can't be fixed). | /r/seduction | 05/04/19 04:46 PM |
| – | You're Already Good Enough!I've maxed my look (still am ugly as hell, because of my face) and trying to talk to women I find attractive. Get almost 0 matches in dating apps as I'm still ugly, and when I try cold approach girls are universally not interested. Most of them seem to look at me like I'm a creep, a small percentage tolerate me and treat politely but in the end are not interested in anything more. | /r/seduction | 05/04/19 02:00 PM |
| – | You're Already Good Enough!Then why 100% of girls reject me? | /r/seduction | 05/04/19 11:53 AM |
| 2 | "It's kinda like fishing..." - a conversation with my 20m brother and his friends.Amen, brother. | /r/seduction | 30/03/19 03:09 PM |
| – | An Individual Woman's Interest in you is not an Indicator of how Attractive you areMaybe. Though I'm pretty successful in other areas of my life. | /r/seduction | 22/03/19 06:09 AM |
| – | An Individual Woman's Interest in you is not an Indicator of how Attractive you areWho says I didn't practice? But my rejection rate is 100% no matter what I do. | /r/seduction | 21/03/19 06:20 PM |
| 2 | How much rejection is normal?Yeah, maybe. Though I tried extensively for the last 20 years to "fake it till I make it". Seems you can't do that in some cases. Read a lot of books, tried a lot of advice from a lot of places. Maybe I'm just too physically unattractive. I added some my best photos (with smile, grooming, photoshop, etc.) to some sites rating attractiveness and the highest rates I got was below 5% (not 5/10, but 0.5/10). | /r/seduction | 21/03/19 03:22 PM |
| – | An Individual Woman's Interest in you is not an Indicator of how Attractive you areWhat if none of the thousands I met are interested? | /r/seduction | 21/03/19 12:51 PM |
| – | How much rejection is normal?My stats: Tinder: 0,001 % matches, 100% rejections after chatting Real life: 100% rejections | /r/seduction | 21/03/19 12:18 PM |
| – | Virgins are demonised, yet apparently most men can't get laid?so maybe a good woman is harder to find. And with Tinder you only see lots of attractive women, because less attractive ones are less vein (overgeneralization, I know). So as a virgin you look at lot of porn, instagram, tinder, where the most popular, most good looking girls are. And then "normal" women don't attract you that much. You only take notice of the really hot ones, which obviously have a lot of attention from almost all males. Describing this from my perspective, a 37 year old virgin,… | /r/seduction | 11/03/19 10:33 AM |
| 1 | Any other dude find tall girls mega hot?Only if they're skinny. | /r/seduction | 10/02/19 10:03 AM |
| – | FUCKING EYE CONTACTYay, another great advice for me - having incurable squint. | /r/seduction | 29/01/19 08:34 AM |
| 1 | I'm nearly 25 and I've never a relationshipYou don't need to be super attractive Yeah, it's actually pretty sad to hear this answer every time when being a guy which is just ugly beyond repair by fashion and fitness. | /r/seduction | 27/01/19 10:40 AM |
| 13 | The Ultimate Guide to TinderThen you're not as attractive as you think. | /r/seduction | 27/01/19 09:28 AM |
| – | Why do guys like older women?Same here, it sounds disgusting (at least the lot older case). | /r/seduction | 12/12/18 03:06 PM |
| 1 | Why Tinder Is A Waste of Time For Most MenIt's just attractivenes percentage as judged by women. Not really enjoyable to see how ugly I am. | /r/seduction | 05/12/18 07:54 PM |
| – | Why Tinder Is A Waste of Time For Most MenSome of us would kill to be 6/10. Some time ago I did an experiment on photofeeler, with carefully prepared photos of me. Just face, though I'm not fat or something. After being professionally groomed, with various attempts to smile and look friendly. Done by a professional photographer. The highest score for attractiveness I got was 4/100 (no, it's not a typo). | /r/seduction | 05/12/18 04:47 AM |
| – | If you can't get the 9s and 10s...What if I can't get the 1s? | /r/seduction | 25/11/18 11:12 AM |
| 1 | The Illusion of Beautiful WomenAs men, we need to put in a lot more work to be attractive to women, unless we are deemed a natural Attractive to the attractive ones, the ugly ones can't become attractive to us at all. So we actually have it easier. | /r/seduction | 24/10/18 10:58 AM |
| 1 | This is the best time to approach a girlIt actually is in my case. | /r/seduction | 09/10/18 02:36 PM |
| 1 | This is the best time to approach a girlAre you suggesting I'm lying in my own case? I'm just ugly, women usually do look away from me when I see them first time. I never had a legit smile from them unless I really know them for long and they had a chance to get to know me better. But even if they smile at this point it's because of a joke or something, never in a sexual way. | /r/seduction | 04/10/18 06:44 AM |
| 2 | This is the best time to approach a girlIt's not exaggeration in my case. 36 years old, never got one smile. | /r/seduction | 03/10/18 04:31 PM |
| 99 | This is the best time to approach a girlMy guess is rule 1 - don't be ugly. | /r/seduction | 03/10/18 01:18 PM |
| 20 | This is the best time to approach a girlThey never do that to me. | /r/seduction | 03/10/18 12:09 PM |
| 1 | Personal opinions of how much looks matter?Sure, a guy who dresses like homeless that hasn't brushed his teeth and has paint stains on his face is most likely not going to get far. Best clothes won't make you attractive if you own really ugly face. If you're average looking, yeah, it's a great thing and a game changer. | /r/seduction | 10/09/18 03:45 PM |
| 1 | Lost my virginity when I was 16 - I've slept with 22 different girls now, and I'm 18 yrs old. Here's my most honest guide on how I've done it.The funniest thing is that these guys with youtube channels and teaching pickup are at least average looking, usually pretty handsome. These tips don't work on ugly guys really. | /r/seduction | 27/07/18 04:03 PM |
| 2 | Lost my virginity when I was 16 - I've slept with 22 different girls now, and I'm 18 yrs old. Here's my most honest guide on how I've done it.Thanks for help, brother, but I already did whatever I could (I'm 36 years of being alone so I had a lot of time). Turns out it doesn't matter much if you're just naturally ugly. Even after many years of trying - I still get less that 5/100 rating of attractiveness on photofeeler. | /r/seduction | 27/07/18 07:15 AM |
| 0 | Lost my virginity when I was 16 - I've slept with 22 different girls now, and I'm 18 yrs old. Here's my most honest guide on how I've done it.Yeah, 36 year old here like you. It's a nice guide, but: Looks do not matter. As long as you look like an average guy, you're good. Well, I'm not average looking, I'm just really ugly. All I could get is sex for money, but no way to get in a relationship with someone I don't find attractive at all. | /r/seduction | 27/07/18 06:50 AM |
| 0 | Is it possible to become very high-status without having a lot of money?Yes, by fame e.g. if you have the biggest dick in the world. | /r/seduction | 12/07/18 02:20 PM |
| – | Why It's Your Fault Women Take Advantage Of You (And How To Stop It)That's a good idea unless you are in my situation where women won't date me otherwise | /r/seduction | 22/04/18 09:10 AM |
| 1 | How I Got 14 Dates In 4 Hours On TinderWhat's so ugly about it? I'd be happy to look like that. | /r/seduction | 12/04/18 11:55 AM |
| 3 | The two worlds: Generally speaking, what are the attractive girls and higher value guys doing after college? How is the lifestyle like after graduation? (Mid 20s, late 20s, and even 30s)https://www.coursera.org/learn/learning-how-to-learn | /r/seduction | 29/09/16 03:28 PM |
| 9 | Got this message from a female friend. I fucking love you guysThat's also very funny. | /r/seduction | 26/08/15 07:18 AM |
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