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I (am not OP) have tried all 3 of these. A. eventually they realize that we are together (or 'back together') B. my never forgave me for saying 'fuck you and get lost' - just like any woman does, she brings it up every time we have a disagreement or argument; she uses that as a reason to get super emotional and make me look like a villain. This is how they win arguments I guess. C. This is the only thing that has been effective to some degree, for helping me to minimize stress related to this is…
/r/askTRP01/05/17 08:29 PM
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Sounds so similar to my situation. It drove me insane. Created resentment in my LTR. I'm just in stalemate Right now. I'd be interested in hearing replies to this post.
/r/askTRP30/04/17 09:05 PM
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I'm gonna get a latte. And u can get whatever you want. Them proceed to order your latte and pay for it. Its has actually been a very good screen-out tool for me.
/r/askTRP24/06/15 05:15 PM
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30-35
/r/askTRP19/06/15 11:53 PM
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Agreed.
/r/askTRP29/05/15 10:41 PM
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If you're using it as a transition then your next step will be dealing/dating with gold diggers. Just jump into daygame. Your first sets will suck but you won't waste any money and your covo skills will be forced to improve really fast. Strip clubs are a waste of your money. Now if you're rich as hell and want an easy way to find a hot 3rd girl for your threesome then that's a different story.
/r/askTRP29/05/15 10:40 PM
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so true. thanks for your reply
/r/askTRP28/05/15 09:02 PM
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IOI's are not approaches. An approach is when a person actually comes up to you and interrupts your day, speaks to you for the first time, proposes or requests something.
/r/askTRP27/05/15 10:54 PM
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"Looks" is not nearly enough for a man. Inner/outer game is necessary. "Looks" just buys me the first 1-4 minutes of an interaction. Being courageous (overcoming approach anxiety) buys me the first 0-60 seconds. "Purpose" frames the whole interaction. Then there's "game" vs actually clicking with someone. And even when you click with someone you still have to have some game.
/r/askTRP27/05/15 12:01 AM
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good answer..
/r/askTRP26/05/15 11:57 PM
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Where do u live?
/r/askTRP22/05/15 10:23 AM
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Yes we're on the same wavelength. She was my 3rd date in as many nights. She couldn't take that I wasn't paying attention to her. Better to go after girls that intrigue us.
/r/askTRP19/05/15 10:23 AM
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For that purpose it would be good
/r/askTRP17/05/15 08:48 AM
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Gut is a layer deeper than emotion. I think the gut provides 1 signal whereas emotions comprise six signals: anger, fear, surprise, disgust, happiness. When your son has been out later than curfew on 4th of July. You get that feeling in your gut, indicating something horrible might have happened.
/r/askTRP17/05/15 07:50 AM
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This seems to happen to me often.. I think im femine in the swnse that I've historically been too emotional. (Guy friends called me that when i was in college). I have been working on stocism ans moving toward masculinity and valuing logic over emotion.
/r/askTRP17/05/15 07:44 AM
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Whar u wrote is beautiful. Makes alot of sense. Thanks.
/r/askTRP17/05/15 07:41 AM
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Same here. Complete horse shit of a quote.
/r/askTRP17/05/15 07:40 AM
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with escorts you don't get to improve your trp/attraction/masculinity/shit-test-response skills. It's like takinf a hit of cocaine to get high.
/r/askTRP17/05/15 07:31 AM
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I've found that very often when you're with a chick it's best to just do nothing if you're unsure what to do. Obviously, I'm not saying to turn invisible at a party and wait for the prettiest girl to come and find you, but rather during shit tests and lulls in conversation where you're getting nervous and feel like you should react. BUT If you "do nothing" you are risking nothing.. not good advice for newbs. Otherwise, alpha type behavior comes with practice. Whatever you do, the important thing…
/r/askTRP06/05/15 11:17 PM
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My piece of advice is to stop micromanaging. You can only control yourself, nothing else. And this is the point of game.. It allows a man to be internally driven with respect to dating rather than externally (allowing other people to drive you)
/r/askTRP06/05/15 10:42 PM
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I let myself do shit like push a stroller for a kid she was babysitting. OMG, I loved this... This is the same stupid shit I could see my idiot-self doing on a second date!! and is exactly what I'm talking about yukk I bet if your mom could see you doing that on a date she would think "my son is such a good boy" In fact, the reason for my post it is that on a first date, I gave the weakest, most BETA kiss to a girl.. It felt so Beta, that I went in for a 2nd.. still felt BETA, so I went in for a…
/r/askTRP06/05/15 10:38 PM
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Use the weaknesses that get exposed as feedback to get better. Yes. This is the best we can do. Be aware and use it as feedback to improve.
/r/askTRP06/05/15 10:27 PM
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thanks.
/r/askTRP06/05/15 05:54 AM
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This is true.
/r/askTRP05/05/15 10:31 AM
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you know which podcast I hate? Art of Charm podcast.. anybody into that?
/r/TheRedPill04/05/15 02:45 PM
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I took all the validation I had been showering women in and started using that energy into working on building better relationships with the guys/ bros in my life I kinda did the same thing.. by reducing the free validation I would give to women and being OK with giving validation to other men, eventually I started to develop a bros vs. hoes mentality (a girl is generally a hoe until she proves herself to be better than a 'hoe' by historical behavior or personality traits). Not sure if this make…
/r/TheRedPill04/05/15 08:41 AM
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What makes a man more attractive: $90k/yr at a job that makes him miserable OR $45k/yr at a job that he enjoys
/r/TheRedPill04/05/15 06:59 AM
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That's what I'm wondering.
/r/askTRP03/05/15 09:50 PM
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I hadn't thought about that-- but (of course, purely speculation) it does sound like suicide. So much for Sheryl Sandberg being able to manage career and family. Reminds me of the husband of model Katie Cleary who killed himself after he found out his hot wife was partying with Leo DiCaprio (http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-2667880/Models-husband-commits-suicide-just-weeks-photographed-getting-cozy-Leonardo-DiCaprio.html)
/r/askTRP03/05/15 09:47 PM
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How about with puckups/approaches/daygame sets? I wonder what tech is best suited for this, or if anyone has done it.
/r/askTRP02/05/15 01:04 PM
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very good reply
/r/askTRP01/05/15 10:39 PM
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I need to start meditation- that's been on my to do list...
/r/askTRP30/04/15 11:34 AM
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Thanks
/r/askTRP30/04/15 11:33 AM
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Some good points. Tx
/r/askTRP30/04/15 11:33 AM
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=)) thanks
/r/askTRP30/04/15 11:32 AM
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This was the great advice I needed =))
/r/askTRP30/04/15 11:31 AM
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another hypothesis: You are naturally shy with people of your peer group. (High school was difficult for you. You were always awkward around the girls). But it has always been another matter with older women because they are not you don't consider them as peers and you interact differently with them, you feel more at ease and confident.
/r/askTRP30/04/15 08:54 AM
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another hypothesis: do you get off on being adored? Women do this a lot: they're in love with being loved -- actually adored -- not that there's anything wrong with that, but I think you might know what I mean . . . after all Ben Franklin's last reason for going for an older woman was that she would be SO grateful!
/r/askTRP30/04/15 08:53 AM
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The Answer lies in your own psyche, and I can only point you in the right direction. You'll have to scan your memory banks for quite some time to figure it out, but eventually you will settle on the right memory. This will only work if you have no guilt towards your desires, and your reason for wanting to know is just that: Wanting To KNOW. What follows is only my opinion, and I am not a psychitrist. Usually young kids feel protection, security, and love from adults, but occasionally sexual ener…
/r/askTRP30/04/15 08:50 AM
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Just get a hair transplant. Lebron James got one. It looks goos.
/r/askTRP29/04/15 03:26 PM
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i just tried this.. date was "probably can make it" for tomorrow but i could tell she was 75% chance of flaking, as she was very neutral and not as responsive as I would like. So I sent: "It seems like a busy weekend for you. I'm going to make other plans. I'll let you know when I'm free again." Girl: "Yes I apologize for not letting you know earlier midterms are getting hectic." No counteroffer or interest was specified to see me again, etc.. that's why I changed her name on my phone to "Cunt o…
/r/askTRP16/04/15 07:04 AM
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this answer seems more on-the-ball... being emotionally expressive, i tend to show my cards, and i need to NOT do that.. whether on a date, or in a negotiation/business deal.
/r/askTRP08/04/15 02:06 AM
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that's not the issue. i have alot of options on who to date.. but when i go out on a date i still show (express) alot of emotion. this is a problem 1) because it may give the false impression to the girl that i have fewer options than i actually do, 2) showing emotion puts all my cards on the table [whether in a negotiation, or on a date you never want to show your cards so you can get a better deal]
/r/askTRP08/04/15 02:05 AM
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Looks like you have the logical structure of Daygame down pretty well.. you're missing the creative side... all that filler stuff... "the vibe". https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RgQ7g_O_kwA
/r/askTRP05/04/15 02:56 AM
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The Boy Must Die (in order to become a man) https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vBimbC40mPo I'm still working on this and I'm 10 years older than you.. at least you're getting started.
/r/askTRP03/04/15 03:00 AM
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ya.. similar situation.. noticed same thing :(
/r/askTRP02/04/15 12:09 AM
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You have to learn for yourself which feelings are worth keeping, and which are not...this decision is on you. can you elaborate on this or give an example, pls?
/r/askTRP26/03/15 04:25 PM
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A true Alpha would anal bang the new roommate. Only anal. About 1x/week. (Sorry, my brain is prob. still messed up from excessive porn consumption)
/r/askTRP26/03/15 10:26 AM
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How can OP be sure she wasn't girl-gaming (albeit, doing a poor job of it) (kinda like a guy just doing a really bad job at teasing/challenging and coming off as insulting instead)? Maybe a 3rd date is worth a shot to make sure she really is a poor match? Side question: how much did you spend on her / or did she spend on you?
/r/askTRP26/03/15 10:07 AM
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I think I'd been fapping my feelings away for the last 10 years... as well as drowning them away in other addictions (don't do this). Everytime I'd share feelings with chicks I felt punished or unattractive. Pushed me down a terrible spiral. Great thread. Thx
/r/askTRP26/03/15 09:59 AM
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I imagine there's alot of people in the same boat, and that's how drug companies make their money, and how the economy goes round (we're more productive). I've been trying to get off Adderall for the last couple weeks and have been performing poorly on some work projects.. thinking about reducing my workload (from Employee to contractor). There have been times in the past where I've gone off it for a year.. it is so difficult but do-able. Here is a good resource that lets you know what to expect…
/r/askTRP26/03/15 04:32 AM
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you may call it Hamster, but I have noticed that the more comfortable I am with a girl, the less I am concerned with her judging my performance, which makes my performance much, much better.
/r/askTRP06/03/15 07:36 PM
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what's the solution? viagra to ensure a good first fuck?
/r/askTRP06/03/15 07:34 PM
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i was instructed by Yad as a Daygamer. He filmed me and said that in my approaches, I looked meeek (quiet, gentle, and easily imposed on; submissive). He told me to stop masturbating to porn. The next day I was more aggressive and make good progress, got 2 instant dates. for a while i did visualization masturbaction that Yad taught, which is to masturbate to the visualization of the girl you met daygaming. That was a healthier way of getting it out. Yad also says get that porn out of your life!
/r/askTRP06/03/15 12:08 PM
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I loved your response.... I need to figure out a plan for my life in regard to women.. ive been all over the place, daygaming, meeting women in there 20s,30s with kids, 40s.. and am finally dating 28 and 24. but what do i want? right now, i would like to have a girlfriend. Eventually i would like to have a family.
/r/askTRP06/03/15 12:04 PM
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as we were having dinner, i realized the chemistry wasn't there. (im still not sure what chemistry is besides 2 people can't get there hands off each other) i guess if i can detect that there is no chemistry at the venue, then there is no sense being invited to the bedroom. during dinner, i looked bored, hotter girls were walking by.. my date asked if i was bored, i said NO. then she suggested we go to her place and watch TV. to me that meant i could have sex with her. But without chemistry, tha…
/r/askTRP06/03/15 12:01 PM
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but wouldn't a rational person allow a repeat sex to occur... it is common knowledge that the first time can be awkward... many couples have told me that sex gets better with time, as each partner understands the needs of the other. IM CONFUSED WHY THIS GIRL WOULDNT GIVE ME A SECOND CHANCE.
/r/askTRP06/03/15 11:53 AM
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as I'm having sex I start thinking that the views and angles shown in porn would be more fun to see... than my own perspective.
/r/askTRP06/03/15 09:00 AM
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Bro, you're so right.. mind-blown! So, do you NOT masturbate at all? Thank you for that reply. I'm really trying to get better at Life.
/r/askTRP06/03/15 08:54 AM
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