2007507 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
32	The Female Dating Strategy Podcast: EP. 67 - So What IS a Femcel? The Atlantic Attempts to Answer But Misses Key Points If he were interested in you, he would pursue you. Move on.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	16/06/22 02:16 AM
40	Have any of you had an actual relationship from tinder? I met my boyfriend on Tinder but that was after 4 years of sifting through absolute garbage.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	22/03/22 11:18 PM
86	pickme glamorizing doing it all. there's no prize for doing it all🤡 I read this tweet as trying to show all the unpaid, unthanked labor that women-- particularly moms-- do. I don't see her glamorizing anything; maybe just wanting a shred of recognition or appreciation.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	21/03/22 05:56 PM
106	Forever Girlfriend finds out her baby daddy isn’t going to marry her. This is why we need FDS. Not too long after we started dating my boyfriend spontaneously started talking about things he admires about me. And it's all things that don't benefit him directly. It made me realize that I almost never hear men talk about admiring women. I think trying to get him talking about what he admires, rather than what he loves or appreciates, can be a good strategy. If you get a blank stare, he probably is someone who only sees women in terms of their utility to him	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	18/03/22 09:40 PM
203	What do we think about a man wanting to be treated like a trophy wife? OK here's the deal. I'm a high earner. And I would entertain the thought of a trophy husband if--AND ONLY IF-- HE: 1) maintains a fit, athletic, sexy body 2) consistently gives me mind-blowing orgasms 3) keeps the house clean to my standards 4) has a hot, nutritious meal on the table at 7pm sharp 5) is pleasant and submissive. but the fact is men don't want that deal. And that's ok because we don't either. We all want to be fully realized human beings. As humans should.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	17/03/22 03:24 AM
90	I understand the sentiment of this post was to tell women it is not our fault when a man has erectile dysfunction. I like many of her sketches. However, I think she forgot a lot of men also have (PIED) Porn Induced Erectile Dysfunction... May I ask FDS sisters, how can we best tell the difference??? My bf is 42 years old and gets an erection if I'm walking around in jeans and a bra. When we first began having sex, he told me he had an issue with performance anxiety the first few times with a new person, and he already had a prescription ready. After the first few times we had sex he stopped taking the meds and there have been zero issues. A healthy, porn-free man should not be having a difficult time getting an erection, and if he does he should take care of it.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	16/03/22 12:02 AM
238	A single people’s group on the book of faces wants us to be nicer to the Y chromosome. "Men are few and far between"? W T actual F?	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	14/03/22 09:27 PM
130	Using your hobby to vet I'm a weight lifter. Any man who jumps to one of us beating the other up is an immediate no. You'd be surprised how many of them jump from "woman lifts weights" to projecting violence.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	18/02/22 02:07 PM
195	How many of you ladies have found HVM since following FDS? I'm older than a lot of you (40) and widowed. After 5 years of being single I've found a man who makes my life so much better than it is without him, which is the definition of a HVM. His kids are grown and I don't have any; we aren't interested in marriage or cohabitation. He is also widowed. We have a living-apart-together arrangement that works well. He treats me amazingly well, is fit and sexy, and we have a great sex life. We go on trips and vacations and have a wonderful time. He supports …	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	08/02/22 01:28 AM
18	Harbouring resentment in future relationships Oh well, we met on Tinder of all places. He'd only been on for 2 days. His partner had passed a year and a half previous and he wanted to start dating and his co-workers told him it was the place to go. When we started chatting he was super clueless about how it worked and then we both deleted our profiles pretty quickly. I knew to keep letting him pursue me just by the way he acted, the way he treated me when we were together and apart. How open and honest and up-front he was and how he played …	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	24/01/22 02:30 PM
6	Harbouring resentment in future relationships There's a difference in the way a man looks at/touches/holds/makes love to his lady when they are each other's only sexual outlet. Like she's the most beautiful thing he's ever seen and the most precious thing in the world. In a year he's never asked for anything weird, painful, humiliating, or degrading (aka porn inspired). I have access to his phone and computer. His words, values, and actions in this department align. He's talked about getting his hands on porn magazines and then videos as …	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	24/01/22 02:25 PM
367	Harbouring resentment in future relationships I don't know if this is what you're trying to hear, but you haven't wasted your best years and you damn sure aren't about to "hit the wall." I'm 40 years old and my 30's were better than my 20's in every single way. IN. EVERY. WAY. I figured out my priorities, my finances, my sex life, my fitness. I'm in better shape now than I was in my 20's. I found an amazing, sexy boyfriend who doesn't use porn and who treats me like the queen I am. Please don't think you're losing anything by approaching 30…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	23/01/22 09:53 PM
135	Are men seriously trying to normalize erectile dysfunction now??? 😬😬 My boyfriend is 41 (I'm 40) and he gets hard looking at me in a sun dress. He doesn't use porn though, so..... yeah.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	23/01/22 09:27 PM
48	I asked my boyfriend what he would do if I decided to keep the baby - was his answer a red flag? I think it depends on what he means by "convince." He's certainly allowed to lay out his reasons and make a compelling case for not bringing a child into the world. He gets a say. He just needs to understand that the final say is hers. Stating his case and using logic and reason are okay in my book. Emotional manipulation, threats, pressure, etc is not okay.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	23/01/22 01:30 AM