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| 6 | I don’t understand men...afffAs a guy who spent most of his life kind of chubby and awkward but had a glow up senior year/beginning of college, looking back there were so many times where a girl was clearly interested in me but I was so oblivious to it and after a while they sort of stopped talking to me or acted weird around me because it probably seemed like I was an asshole. Not saying this guy is in that situation but some guys are just really oblivious like that | /r/seduction | 12/07/20 11:15 PM |
| 4 | I want to get fit to attract women but I also don't.Do it for yourself man. I think any guy who puts time in at the gym will tell you that the sense of accomplishment you get from seeing yourself improve and how good you look almost always feels better than validation from women. Hell other guys are more appreciative and hyped about your gains than women ever will be. It helps you look better to them yes, but the confidence boost you should get from it will be the main difference. when it comes down to it sometimes you’ll see the most absurdly ho… | /r/seduction | 31/05/20 06:58 AM |
| 300 | This community fucked me up. Fuck this place, just get out there and focus on being the best guy you can be and girls will come naturallyIdk why im still subbed here tbh. I’ve said it before but the catch 22 of this stupid ass shit is girls are most attracted to guys who have actual lives outside of chasing girls, but most of the guys on here think girls are the biggest issue in their lives so they put too much energy trying to get girls which for the most part comes off as desperate and not genuine. | /r/seduction | 19/05/20 04:48 AM |
| 2 | 2 Years Of Cold Approach, 15 Lays, And Right Back Where I StartedCatch 22 of this sub is that in the end women are attracted to guys who have their own lives and goals outside of chasing women but the people who come here are lonely people who make women the main issue of their lives | /r/seduction | 13/05/20 06:18 PM |
| 35 | The Brain is the biggest sex organ! Female here sharing my own experience— what has been extremely effective with me.This sub really showing its incel colors huh | /r/seduction | 13/05/20 05:37 PM |
| 1 | How do you start tinder conversationsSay something unique about their profile or bio. Be a little bold but not like agressive. Tinder is not for messaging and having full out conversations, if the girls reciprocating I usually get the snap within a couple messages. Honestly you could say pretty anything within reason. Just for the love of god please don’t say “hey”. You know how many guys an attractive girl has in her tinder messages and instagram DMs saying “hey” and “whats up?” Even if she does respond its probably gonna be a dry… | /r/seduction | 29/04/20 10:11 PM |
| 23 | I miss having crushesIn senior year I formed a crush on this girl who sat with me in back to back classes. It was the last semester of high school and the classes were jokes so we mostly just spent all class talking about whatever. She was always super nice to me but we never talked outside of school except for class stuff. It was so weird, it was exactly that type of crush you’re describing where your heart flutters a little when you see them or you just enjoy talking to them even though you dont know them below th… | /r/seduction | 19/04/20 05:18 AM |
| 324 | Now that I’ve been dating this girl, girls have been hitting me up left right and center. It’s like they’re a magnet to things they can’t have easily?I don’t understand how anyone is having a dating life at all rn | /r/seduction | 05/04/20 02:42 AM |
| 1 | 13 Ways To Make A Girl Want YouSame bro, so many girls over the years have told me my voice is monotone and I genuinely don’t know what to do about it. I feel like im so boring. | /r/seduction | 27/03/20 04:58 AM |
| 8 | 13 Ways To Make A Girl Want YouSo obviously its just a tv show but I’ve been watching the sopranos a lot and I’ve noticed how much power james gandolfini/tony soprano exudes just from strong eye constant and letting silences play out, speaking with control, etc. Especially in season 3 when he was going after the mercedez saleswoman. Supposedly Gandolfini himself exuded [good] sexual energy even though he was fat, bald, and not a conventionally attractive guy. | /r/seduction | 27/03/20 04:55 AM |
| 46 | 3 realizations I had. Not every girl will like you. A person doesn't need a lot of friends. Meeting girls.My entire first year of college I only ever expanded my friend group to other guys. Just before Corona fucked everything up I was finally starting to branch out and i wanted to start hanging out with my roommate and his gf, she was always super nice to me and had lots of attractive friends but hey theres next year i guess :/. Definitely something I need to change. | /r/seduction | 23/03/20 04:50 AM |
| 1 | Just witnessed a 29yo hot girl begging a 18yo guy for his number and it made me question lots of thingsThis isn’t as weird but I have a friend who moved here from South America and then worked as a starbucks barista when he was ~20 and so many girls at my high school would talk about him and he would get numbers all the time. | /r/seduction | 02/03/20 02:06 AM |
| 1 | When did you start to bloom?I go to a school thats known for partying and frats so probably a bit more common than usual | /r/seduction | 12/02/20 12:34 PM |
| 6 | When did you start to bloom?Im 19 and at risk of jinxing myself i feel like im on the cusp of finally hitting my stride. For some context i spent my entire life being overweight and not taking care of myself up until senior year of high school, where I got insanely skinny. For the past year ive been bulking up and i think I’m at a pretty good place physically and attractively. Obviously I basically had no experience with girls for most of my life up until that point. Once I got skinny I knew i was a decently attractive guy… | /r/seduction | 12/02/20 05:06 AM |
| 2 | The regret is realI remember this past summer i was hanging with my friend at his apartment and his roommate was having a party. This gorgeous girl that I used to crush on hard on in elementary/middle school was there. I specifically remembered her bc we had the same birthday and i always thought that was cool. I would always see this girl at my friends place when she came in to hang with my friends roommate but I always assumed she just didn’t remember who I was. Well at this party she randomly came up to me sup… | /r/seduction | 29/01/20 01:28 AM |
| 10 | You won't get laid just because you're attractiveCan’t agree with this enough. For most of my life i was fat and overweight and then over senior year of high school and leading into college I got skinny and then started lifting a lot. I consider myself an attractive guy now and girls have told me so many times, but some part of me subconsciously figured that the women would just come to me and Id evolve into a player just by becoming good-looking. All throughout that first semester of college I’d get looks from girls and when everyone was drun… | /r/seduction | 05/01/20 01:22 AM |
| 1 | What are the best songs to have sex to?Weeknd, drake, sza | /r/seduction | 01/01/20 02:54 AM |
| 1 | My tease and seduce spotify playlist. Enjoy 😈Need more weeknd | /r/seduction | 01/01/20 02:51 AM |
| 2 | How to Be Congruent With WomenNah dude that’s good, as long as you’re not a complete dick about it you can’t let yourself get walked over, obviously she didn’t mean anything by it and it wasn’t on purpose but if it bothers you tell her | /r/seduction | 12/12/19 05:33 AM |
| 3 | Going to a club in a group with womenIdk about making you more attractive but itll definitely get your social juices flowing | /r/seduction | 30/11/19 02:10 AM |
| 5 | I’m a beginner... was she interested?Not gonna lie chief she wanted you to grind on her | /r/seduction | 27/11/19 06:09 AM |
| 46 | It's not you, women just don't like to be approached in publicThat makes more sense lmao, I was under the impression that the car screeched to a halt next to you and he just jumped out walking up to you | /r/seduction | 14/11/19 03:37 AM |
| 14 | It's not you, women just don't like to be approached in publicVery curious as to how he pulled that off without seeming creepy as shit or scaring the fuck out of both of you | /r/seduction | 14/11/19 03:07 AM |
| 1 | Solo game: What happened?Nah i just type lmao or lol after everything i type, bad habit. And yeah everything you said is right. Im new to this sorta shit so how would i build tension, create mystery, etc. | /r/seduction | 25/08/19 06:20 AM |
| 1 | Solo game: What happened?I guess lmao, what should i have done | /r/seduction | 25/08/19 06:05 AM |
| 1 | Added a girl on Snapchat but idk if she knows it’s me.Lmao | /r/seduction | 04/04/19 01:59 PM |
| 3 | How to get a guy to kiss me?I hate antiquated gender roles like “ITS HIS JOB TO KISS YOU SO YOU CANNOT BE THE ONE TO INITIATE” or “you are the girl so you should not have to do the ‘work’ here” if you want to kiss a guy then just fucking kiss him jesus christ | /r/seduction | 16/01/19 11:33 AM |
| 1 | Gym GirlYeah lmao wtf, wouldn’t want OP in my gym | /r/seduction | 03/12/18 04:45 AM |
| 6 | STOP TELLING HER HOW YOU FEELI mean this post comes across abrasively but yea for the most part show dont tell. Flirt with her and establish yourself as a sexual person/option, dont follow her around like a puppy and then declare you have feelings for her. | /r/seduction | 14/11/18 03:44 AM |
| 3 | What are some smooth moves?The thing with “moves” and “lines” like that is that they come across as cringey and terrible unless you get the delivery, timing, and confidence down. So work on your confidence and flirtation skills and you’ll find yourself naturally being smooth. Yes i could see that working well but also very poorly | /r/seduction | 14/11/18 03:41 AM |
| 1 | Just can't do it...Nothings going to change by coming to this sub. It’s literally just a mental wall that you have to tear down. It sounds harsh but you just gotta stop being a pussy and overcome your anxiety. Theres really not anything else people will tell you. | /r/seduction | 29/07/18 12:10 PM |
| 2 | My luck with hispanic women has been ridiculous.Half chinese quarter puerto rican quarter white checking in | /r/seduction | 23/06/18 03:58 AM |
| 1 | Has anyone experienced this phenomenon before?Mere exposure effect? | /r/seduction | 18/06/18 02:06 PM |
| 3 | I think that I finally kissed a girlKissing is a pretty natural human movement imo, you just need practice. If you get a girl whos willing to sit down and just make out with you, you can probably get it down pat within a few minutes. | /r/seduction | 01/04/18 09:29 PM |
| 2 | Are most girls at the bar/club going home with guys they just met?I mean what did you expect from clubbing? | /r/seduction | 01/04/18 09:25 PM |
| 1 | Have you ever known an Indian guy who had success with women?Yes. One of the more well known guys at my high school is Indian. He has a reputation for getting with lots of girls. Although I’ll say that’s pretty unique. He’s one of the popular, weed smoking soccer player types, all of the other Indian guys I know aren’t like that at all. | /r/seduction | 26/03/18 11:57 AM |
| 5 | Tip: Don't be 'just friends' with girls you want to smashDon't give her attention and support while she's fucking Chad on the first date. careful, you're reaching r/braincels levels | /r/seduction | 20/03/18 10:15 AM |
| 1 | Here are some good public places where you can makeout and do more with a girlThis definitely doesn’t apply to every where but where I live in Florida there’s a causeway where you can drive along the shore and park your car. Beautiful view during the sunsets for romantic dates, and at night its super secluded and dark so people go there all the time to smoke, fuck, etc in their cars. | /r/seduction | 05/03/18 05:13 AM |
| 4 | My biggest key to having a high success rate with women.I understand the concept of this but how do you do it without seeming like you’re just ogling their body? How do you make eye contact playful/flirty? | /r/seduction | 03/03/18 03:55 PM |
| 2 | My first Tinder match = success!I think he told her he was making a new account, so she had to give him her number to be able to continue talking to him. | /r/seduction | 22/01/18 08:05 PM |
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