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6	How blindsided were you by the affair? I was told about the affair on the drive over to look at our newly bought house that we had closed on a week before. The affair was going on for at least a year and that was the day she let it all out!? So, yes, blindsided and now stuck with a hefty mortgage with someone who showed no empathy, no remorse, or respect about breaking up our family.	/r/Divorce_Men	18/09/25 08:11 PM
7	How do you deal with missing your kids? I highly recommend you stay in the house someway, somehow. Leaving the kids might result in less custody. Plus, it sounds like you do much of the care taking when you're around (like myself). It might be rough, but just try to hold strong, grey rock if things get heated, and spend as much time with the kids. It'll pay off in the end when it comes to custody and parenting time. And don't forget to document all of it!!	/r/Divorce_Men	17/01/25 01:25 AM
1	Anyone leave for these reasons? I highly recommend you look into BPD. It enlightened me in your same situation. I have 3 kids and it helped me understand that staying is not the best choice for the kids.	/r/Divorce_Men	14/01/25 08:12 PM