209boss Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
7	Am I the only one who can't move if the girl is not attractive enough? I find a lack of motivation to approach if the girl is not a 9 or so. Cutting porn really changed this for me. It gives an inflated level of "normal" so that a 7-8 or seems relatively unattractive.	/r/seduction	13/05/16 05:54 PM
-1	I do not understand models honesty/vulnerability - it seems needy to me. I wouldn't use Models as a pick-up guide. It's a lot of BS and fluffy stuff trying to make you feel good, rather than something based on field experience and proven by dozens/hundreds of guides. I'd look to RSD / Magic Bullets for some real, PROVEN to work stuff.	/r/seduction	13/05/16 05:41 PM
1	Girl talking shit I mean I get what you're saying but I feel like I was being roasted for 5 minutes. I know, it can feel that way, but I really think she was flirting. If you're right tho, and she is into me how do I go about the next step. I mean your best opportunity was right there. You could just facebook her and ask her if she wants to go out for coffee so you two can catch up privately.	/r/seduction	09/05/16 10:11 PM
1	Being Challenging: Not answering their questions directly. Is this necessary? It's not necessary, but it does create some fun and light-heartedness and create a bit of a frame of "I'm not just going to tell you everything because you ask". If she asks the same question again, that's when you answer logically and move on. And obviously don't do this for every question, or it's just forced and over-the-top. It's basically an element of "how to flirt": "instead of answering her questions logically, playfully give an absurd answer."	/r/seduction	09/05/16 11:32 AM
0	Girl talking shit That's how flirting works. She talks shit about you and wants you to respond with some witty line that trumps her. She's into you, a lot. Women don't talk shit about men they aren't attracted to (and aren't part of their lives), they just ignore them and have no interest in talking about them at all. The opposite of love is apathy, not hatred, etc. Whatever you do don't get rattled. Just re-imagine what she's saying as "I am very attracted to you right now", because that's the sub-communication.…	/r/seduction	07/05/16 03:16 PM
2	Is this a polite way of 'we will go as friends?' She is nervous because she's afraid you will push for sex this date. She imagines being uncomfortable as you demand sex, essentially, driving her anxiety. You were probably way too blatant about escalating and triggered her ASD/general discomfort as her attraction/comfort did not meet what your hands were asking for: instead of escalation "just happening" and being natural, it seemed like you were PRESSING for something. She became conscious of it, because you were escalating past her acceptance…	/r/seduction	07/05/16 02:43 PM
2	Do you avoid expressing yourself because you don't want people to judge you? [xpost from /r/selfimprovement] Great post. I've heard a lot of the "don't praise a child by telling them their smart, tell them they're a hard worker", but I've never seen a way to apply that paradigm to my own life.	/r/seduction	04/05/16 11:09 PM
1	Socially acceptable places to approach women in a college environment College bars, anything college related (activity clubs, like camping club or whatever, whatever is female dominated, get in as many clubs as you can), any drop-in sports leagues around the campus or part of the college (drop in dodgeball, drop in badminton, drop in yoga), walking around campus and talking to people, make friends on campus and you'll go to college parties, and of course class/clubs, which you're writing off. Oh, and of course last but not last, campus night clubs, for night game,…	/r/seduction	16/04/16 10:38 PM
1	What happened to PUA scene and this sub-reddit? The sub got too big, the people who knew what they were doing left, and it became the blind leading the blind with a very rare good post from a mod once a day. The same exact thing happened to /r/malefashionadvice 2 years ago. The subs just get too big and they become overrun with newbs and the sense of a small tight-knit community disappears, and then the pros leave.	/r/seduction	16/04/16 10:28 PM
1	New here. I read the "Looks don't matter" sidebar material and I'm not sold at all. CMV, I guess. The issue is I don't get past "hey, whats up?" Your approach is bad. Learn to approach indirectly, like with an opinion opener. You cannot possible be rejected with that (unless you do it wrong, which you will when you're learning it) because you don't even hint at any sort of interest until she shows interest. It's in the same vein of how you can't be rejected by walking up to someone and saying "Hey, do you have the time?". Read "Magic Bullets" for a full guide, it's 10x better than the sidebo…	/r/seduction	14/04/16 02:43 AM
1	New here. I read the "Looks don't matter" sidebar material and I'm not sold at all. CMV, I guess. Read "Magic Bullets", find the pdf online. Read specifically about indirect openers and how they are built around not communicating intent at all until you have gotten her attraction, which largely comes from your behaviour (concious and unconscious) rather than your how you look. I have a high income, I dress well, am hygenic, and am generally well spoken. I keep a good posture. And yet, my success rate is 0. Your game sucks (it's a unique skill, related to but not the same as general social sk…	/r/seduction	14/04/16 02:30 AM
3	I have the problem RSDTyler talks about where "my mind runs deep and is highly analytical". How do I stay in the present moment like he does and just have fun? Comes from experience. You're going to be nervous/"in your head" when you start ANYTHING new that's a bit intimidating, but you'll be able to relax after getting better at it and being more familiar with the process. It's really just one of those issues that's mostly solved by volume. Put in more hours and have a consistent schedule. Even Tyler talks about how he's in his head at the start, but by the end of the night he's in the moment. You can also look into meditation and mindfulness practice…	/r/seduction	14/04/16 02:23 AM