20JC20 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	How is the dating world after 30? Hell	/r/seduction	16/12/24 08:58 PM
3	If you brush off sex on the first date does that make a girl fall harder for you? If your motives are to be in a long term relationship w her then taking it slow and turning down sex when you both want it, makes sense. If you just want a fling and your motives and intentions are to get back at pretty girls bc they “always get what the want” well then… that’s a diff story. If you just don’t want to have sex yourself. That’s totally cool and wish more men could feel comfortable saying no. The real answer to your question here, are figuring out what you’re true motives are in th…	/r/seduction	12/12/21 08:27 PM
2	Has a woman ever randomly said she doesn't want to have sex with you in the middle of a non-sexual conversation? I think women assume men are automatically trying to get them into bed when they’re having a good chat and women are continually sexualized and then unfortunately say that prob when it’s best not to say that as a way to make sure they don’t have to owe you their body just bc men secualize them so much so that they can’t even have a nice convo w a man without them trying get something out of them. So then they say that even if it comes off rude and awkward bc they’re so used to be used. Idk just …	/r/seduction	01/11/21 05:23 PM
5	Best way to respond if a woman says no when you ask her out? “Ok no worries!” And get on w your life	/r/seduction	18/10/21 12:50 PM
3	Did I make it awkward with my coworker? She’s prob jsut not interested from the getcko. Leaver her be	/r/seduction	12/08/21 12:46 PM
26	So I went on 5 dates today This is prob fake tbh. Regardless of whether it’s fake or not the way this guy thinks is wild. Deff a serious womanizer good grief. If a guy I met on a first date slapped my ass the first time I met him I would freak tf out.	/r/seduction	29/06/21 09:57 PM
16	First cold approach in months, rejected but worth it Jeeze you’re so degrading to other women. I didn’t know “lmao” was a gender classified word ? But it’s true. You know nothing about me or my life and your vile tone and defensive assumptions have way more to do with you than any of us on here. I think you take things wayyyyyy too negatively right off the bat and THATS why you were down voted and why I said what I said. Maybe try to have a little more grace and faith and kindness. I’m a very independent single wonderful woman. And I’m kicking ass…	/r/seduction	18/04/21 12:14 PM
17	First cold approach in months, rejected but worth it As a woman I absolutely would not think that at all lmao what? I would think he had to take the chance and ask me even if I rejected bc I was too intriguing and magnetic for him to let me go lol	/r/seduction	18/04/21 04:05 AM
2	Keep in mind the fact that girls sometimes do shit that makes absolutely no sense and there is nothing you can do about it. I think he meant it’s biological in trying to get the man to notice you. And sometimes as I said it’s psychological as to how it’s done.. so it is biological. Dating and getting a man to notice you or a female to notice you in inherently instinctual she just did it in a shitty way which is her psychological issues. And how it’s done is psychological due to as u said the social adaptation and evolution but still... biological in its nature.	/r/seduction	01/04/21 08:13 AM
3	Keep in mind the fact that girls sometimes do shit that makes absolutely no sense and there is nothing you can do about it. Hahaha totally feel you. That’s true dating is a game. And it’s exhausting if u ask me. Hopefully one day you and I will not have to play anymore lol	/r/seduction	01/04/21 03:06 AM
7	Keep in mind the fact that girls sometimes do shit that makes absolutely no sense and there is nothing you can do about it. Hoenstly great point and you’re right. But I do still think that psychologically there are other and better ways to go about it and this is still their insecurities projecting onto the situation and this would personally turn me off. But i totally understand exactly what you mean and do agree it is biological. But the wayyyy you go about it could be different but that’s just me. Maybe that’s why I’m single lmao I would never act the way these girls acted to get a guy’s attention I would jsut be …	/r/seduction	01/04/21 02:49 AM
20	Keep in mind the fact that girls sometimes do shit that makes absolutely no sense and there is nothing you can do about it. Women are shitty. Men are shitty. Women are kind. Men are kind. It’s not a gender thing. Some humans are jsut super insecure and fucked up. And as OP would say do things that make absolutely no sense and that’s not necessarily your fault. Those girls are messed up and deff have issues but men do things that are as equally messed up too. Let’s all agree to not be like this regardless of your gender lol	/r/seduction	01/04/21 02:08 AM
1	Is DMing girls on Instagram even worth it? Yeah i should do that honestly, youre right but a lot of the time its men who follow me now already and i dont follow them back, i have used the remove button a few times but youre right thats one step i can do to minimize this but i havent yet	/r/seduction	16/03/21 01:58 PM
5	Is DMing girls on Instagram even worth it? As a woman who gets DMs from men it’s extremely annoying. I don’t even post on my story anymore bc men will reply to a pic of a flower and hit on me. And it feels like men are constantly trying to get a piece of my energy. Then I feel bad and obligated to answer and even when I’m straight up w them and explain I’m not over my ex I’m not interested in dating... they say ok, and the next day they’re messaging me memes and songs and shit and it’s like no. I don’t wanna talk to you. I’m Not interest…	/r/seduction	16/03/21 01:13 PM
1	For men, being ‘Good Looking’ and ‘Physically Attractive’ are different things This 100 times yes.	/r/seduction	16/03/21 07:28 AM