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2102/r/RedPillWomen09/04/14 05:14 PM
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Hah. Okay.
/r/RedPillWomen09/04/14 09:28 PM
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I definitely agree that bed sharing could easily have an impact on sex if you don't make an effort to fit sex in elsewhere. We still have sex weekly. Probably.. twice or three times per week. Which I don't think is bad being that I am pregnant enough for things to be slightly uncomfortable already (will have to stop missionary in a few weeks as its starting to hurt my belly). And we shower together at least once or twice a week. He may very well be seeking other people to tell him he is attracti…
/r/RedPillWomen09/04/14 09:27 PM
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I did after all.. "sexy ;)"
/r/RedPillWomen09/04/14 08:39 PM
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With all do respect, aren't I supposed to listen to what my husband says? Not some stranger on the internet. I will have this discussion with him. It's one worth having to make sure that he has no issues with our sleeping arrangements, but for you to say "stop it immediately" and for me to just take your suggestion, wait, I mean, command, is slightly ridiculous.
/r/RedPillWomen09/04/14 07:27 PM
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I said that I understand that there is a cost and benefit and that I believe the cost to us as parents is not so high as to outweigh the benefit for our child. I also said that my husband is on board with doing whatever we can as parents to limit any stress or anxiety for our infant child. Perhaps there is a correlation. Perhaps there is not. I will discuss with him if he has any issues with co sleeping or if he feels like I do not put him first. I believe the answer will be no on both counts, b…
/r/RedPillWomen09/04/14 07:24 PM
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What makes you say that?
/r/RedPillWomen09/04/14 07:13 PM
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He agrees that we should do anything we can as parents to lessen the anxiety an infant may feel.
/r/RedPillWomen09/04/14 07:04 PM
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I understand your point of view. But I've read a lot of research about this topic that convinced me that at 8 months of age bed sharing is not going to permanently scar my child and make her want to stay close to me too long. And I get that there is a cost and a benefit to bed sharing. Its my opinion that the benefits for the INFANT (she's an infant remember, its not like she's 3 years old and can communicate effectively with me using words) far exceed the costs to us as parents. The main thing …
/r/RedPillWomen09/04/14 07:01 PM
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I think I should give him more flattery and attention. Thank you :) I try to compliment him often but could always step it up.
/r/RedPillWomen09/04/14 06:18 PM
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Thank you for this response. I think its likely you are right. I think my immediate emotional response was that something must be wrong in our marriage if he's seeking flattery elsewhere.. and that may be the case, but maybe he is wanting to be a good example for others.
/r/RedPillWomen09/04/14 06:16 PM
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Betaize him? I've never heard of that. Do you have anything I could read explaining what I should avoid specifically? I'm new to this whole 'thing'. (Just started reading this forum because I'm what would best be described as a traditional housewife and the community here is a little more in line with my thinking than other forums).
/r/RedPillWomen09/04/14 06:14 PM
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He has many female acquaintances on there.. I have no idea who he would be trying to impress specifically, if anyone. Do you think I should say anything to him? If so what? I feel like if I say anything I will come across as crazy and jealous. And the bed sharing thing.. I am very aware of making time for my husband and not being all about baby all the time. I just don't feel right about making her feel any anxiety at such a young age when its not necessary for her to feel any. Personal preferen…
/r/RedPillWomen09/04/14 05:57 PM
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He has been losing weight to get into a lower weight class for fighting, so yes proud of himself which is cool and I've been 100% supportive of this (cooking only healthy things and being supportive of him going to the gym often). I'm currently pregnant so not totally fit looking. Lol. But we still have sex, yes. Less than perhaps we would like as we also have an 8 month old who likes to bed share.. but we are doing pretty well I think.
/r/RedPillWomen09/04/14 05:27 PM
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Lol :P would rather not
/r/RedPillWomen09/04/14 05:24 PM
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Yes. On Facebook.
/r/RedPillWomen09/04/14 05:20 PM
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I was 100% certain that it was the relationship I wanted to be in. But I wasn't 100% certain that it was going to be worth the sacrifices we both had to make to be together. We met while I was 18 and studying at university. He lived on the other side of the world and I spent a lot of money visiting him, as did he visiting me.. until I basically ran out of funds and we had to make the call that I had to move if we wanted to be together. It was a hard choice. I enjoyed what I was studying.. and I'…
/r/RedPillWomen08/04/14 06:52 PM
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Seems like being under 21 when married makes a huge difference in the score you get so mine was 49% eh.
/r/RedPillWomen04/04/14 07:05 PM
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I'm telling you, you will NEVER regret it if you do have a child now. You won't regret it for a second. Becoming a mother is amazing, and it sounds like you are all set. You have the money, the relationship, the stable environment, and on top of that you will be able to stay at home to raise the child (it sounds like, since you can live off just your husbands income).
/r/RedPillWomen04/04/14 06:54 PM
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My husband is 8 years older than me. I love that age difference. We met when I was 18 and he 26 then got married two years later and had our first baby when I was 21. I have found this age difference ideal as he has already established himself a great job that is enough to support our family so that I can stay at home and raise the kids (which I LOVE). He has also got his party years out of the way and was very ready for marriage and to begin a family. I'm so glad that I'm having my children whi…
/r/RedPillWomen01/04/14 03:26 AM
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This makes me want a vodka red bull so bad. But I'm pregnant so.. probably a bad idea.
/r/RedPillWomen27/03/14 06:37 PM
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Welp, I think I've just added another course to my birthday dinner I've planned :) I was just going to have appetizers and a watermelon feta salad starter but that soup would go so so well in there too.
/r/RedPillWomen25/03/14 01:24 AM
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Pull off the elaborate dinner I have planned on Saturday for my husbands birthday. Learn to make good mojitos as it's his favorite. Have the house totally up to par by the time Saturday rolls around (especially the bathrooms)
/r/RedPillWomen25/03/14 01:22 AM
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Yeah I think making soups makes any meal feel more special, having two courses (or three if you add a dessert) makes it feel like more effort was put in rather than just banging something on a plate. And YUM, cucumber yogurt! Might borrow that idea now that it's getting warm outside and summer is coming.
/r/RedPillWomen25/03/14 01:17 AM
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Yeah I haven't actually tried this so I don't have results to go on. The reason it was on my mind is that this weekend my husband is turning 30 and in an effort to do something special I'm planning on wearing a french maid outfit and making him eggs benedict (which he loves) and giving him the 30 minute blow job. We will see how it turns out. It's pretty corny but I think he'd find it cute. (Now I just have to cross my fingers that I can keep my 8 month old occupied with her toys for that long..…
/r/RedPillWomen25/03/14 01:13 AM
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And with cutting down your cleaning time, whenever something is cooking do some dishes. I clean as I go ALWAYS because I hate having a large pile to do at the end. When you put some potatoes on to boil, clean some dishes, when you put some butter in the microwave to melt, wash a couple of dishes. It all adds up. And when I'm baking I get each ingredient out as I use it and put it back right after. People think I'm a weirdo but it makes things so much tidier.
/r/RedPillWomen25/03/14 01:09 AM
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With cooking I like to meal prep in the weekends. I make a list of meals that I want to make and prepare all that I can. For example, for BBQ chicken I make a big pot of BBQ sauce from scratch (super cheap and simple) and then put chicken pieces in a ziplock bag with the BBQ sauce and freeze it. Then when I need to prepare a dinner I just put it in the crock pot and leave it to cook. And then make the side dishes which is usually roasted vegetables (only uses one pan and about 5 minutes prep) an…
/r/RedPillWomen25/03/14 01:06 AM
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Random idea that I just read that seems like fun, for their birthday set a countdown clock next to them with the number of minutes that they are turning (turning 28= 28 minutes) and don't let him come until the timer is up. I thought it was a cute idea if you usually give blow jobs that are fast and to the point (which I usually do).
/r/RedPillWomen25/03/14 12:56 AM
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