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Solid
/r/MarriedRedPill30/01/20 05:34 AM
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I don't want more time. I think I was bargaining. I've made up my mind on the separation, as painful as it is. I want out, she wants out. Who knows what happens in the future but this is the right thing now.
/r/askMRP03/01/20 11:33 PM
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So MRP is appropriate whether you're M or not? Why go back? Because I came to this too late and am not able to prevent separation. If I could have I would have remained together while working the plan.
/r/askMRP03/01/20 03:07 PM
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Is MRP still a place to participate if you're separated, and unsure whether you want to get back, however still working a plan.
/r/askMRP03/01/20 02:41 PM
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Thanks for this reply. I told her I would do the mediation appointment AFTER the workshop; which she said she “would not agree to”. We haven’t corresponded since then but I expect her to withdraw from the workshop if I don’t go to mediation. I get the idea that “the stay plan is the go plan”, but if she withdraws from the workshop and admits that the only reason she scheduled it was the better our communication about the children (not repair), then I’m in a tough spot - agreeing to separate then…
/r/askMRP02/01/20 10:08 PM
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I actually said “I’m going to delay the appt” but yeah. I think this is too late.
/r/askMRP02/01/20 06:56 PM
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She asked me to confirm the appointment with the separation consultant, and I gave her that response. “I want to postpone until after the workshop”. She said “I can’t agree to that, it’s important we hammer out logistics”.
/r/askMRP02/01/20 06:10 PM
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Thank you. I’m going to follow this suggestion re: the separation consultant. Reflecting on it, I believe she scheduled the retreat out of guilt, and to be able to say she tried everything. I think she’s moved on completely, either already cheating or going to. Would you still advise same course of action? Skip the mediation, do the retreat, STFU, and work the plan? One scenario is she backs out of the retreat if I back out of the separation consultant.
/r/askMRP02/01/20 04:05 PM
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I read a book called "Too Good to Leave, Too Bad to Stay", it had 34 questions, the answers to which revealed whether it was more likely the right choice to leave or stay. My score was Stay (6), Leave (28). I read your other post - the comment "she will never be the one I want to grow old with" resonates with me. But I seem to be able to convince myself either way. Also re: the divorce rape "how much is your happiness worth?". My happiness is inextricably tied to my time with children. I don't r…
/r/askMRP02/01/20 02:14 PM
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No, I mean the therapist/mediator. They tend to escalate quickly to custody and money discussions.
/r/askMRP02/01/20 01:11 PM
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No I initiated the separation idea after nothing else was working. Not sure how that paragraph means “I’m not red pilled”, or what “you’ve already lost” is intended for. She’s not trying to “rope me in”. She’s emotionally gone already.
/r/askMRP02/01/20 01:11 PM
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First was not planned but we we pulled the goalie and were open to it if it happened. Second was planned.
/r/askMRP02/01/20 04:15 AM
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Using masculine/feminine polarity to pull her into a faggot-frame is a disaster plan fuuuuck
/r/askMRP02/01/20 03:07 AM
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Thanks. The 9 years was me avoiding commitment because i didn't see how it benefitted me legally. I finally did it when she pleaded after she got pregnant with our second.
/r/askMRP02/01/20 03:03 AM
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"Do you like her?" is echoing. Honestly not that much. I don't dislike her, but we're so different. No shared interests. Always had trouble finding things to do together. My motivation to stay would be: Kids having both parents Avoiding divorce rape Will have the same issues with next woman until I've fully exercised my BP behaviors anyway Might as well work on myself while we're together I'm still very attracted to her (she's still hot AF) She might be intimate enough to satisfy me if I can get…
/r/askMRP02/01/20 02:57 AM
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Thanks. For the record: 6’2” 195 ~10% BF Bench 225 1RM Dead 405 1RM College lacrosse player Traps are legit and I have the farmer walk palm blisters to prove it Will re-read NMMNG GFY
/r/askMRP02/01/20 02:44 AM
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done
/r/MarriedRedPill02/01/20 01:41 AM
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I got the following error there: Sorry, this post has been removed by the moderators of r/askMRP. Moderators remove posts from feeds for a variety of reasons, including keeping communities safe, civil, and true to their purpose
/r/MarriedRedPill02/01/20 12:28 AM
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