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21bulldog/r/askTRP27/02/18 03:45 PM
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What are some ways you can inspire your wife to hit the gym Hitting the gym probably isn't going to help her much, bro. Buy her a food scale, download FitnessPal, and tell her to start counting calories.
/r/askMRP02/03/18 12:06 AM
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She's cheating on him, you think you're any better? She will do the exact same thing to you.
/r/askTRP01/03/18 11:46 PM
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Why do I feel like I want closure? Closure is for women. Why do I want her and only her attention? You sound like a woman right now.
/r/askTRP01/03/18 11:44 PM
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You're probably hitting the trifecta of, Body Grooming Style Most blue pill schmucks look like lesbians. And a lot of gay dudes like the alpha masculine look.
/r/askTRP01/03/18 10:57 PM
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Never vent about anything , especially work. Don’t be one of those faggots who needs to unwind after work with your smoke or cigs. Never have a “case of the Mondays” or be part of the “TGIF” crowd either you piece of shits. Every day is fucking awesome. Another day to be me. Memorizing this shit. So true.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/02/18 04:38 PM
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Thanks man, appreciate it. plant some potatoes spuds/seeds in some dirt and put it on your window. Then measure your bicep growth vs vegetation growth to see if you’re being outgrown by a potato! Lol. Hell yeah, great idea haha. Will keep me busy.
/r/askTRP28/02/18 02:54 AM
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Bro, you're the best. Thanks so much for this post. It really uplifted my spirits, and motivated me to want to continue the work I've started on. I'm copy and pasting it into my notes, and will be re-reading that shit on a daily basis for weeks to come. Head to the main sub and sort by top of all time and start rolling through. First on my agenda for tomorrow. That is why so many drug dealers and criminals slay. They might not be at the top but they're displaying a lot of characteristics that sh…
/r/askTRP28/02/18 02:49 AM
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Thanks man, you're totally right on all accounts. I know she feels significant She does, but I'm trying to re-adjust my thinking and move on. Do some self work and introspection. Be grateful you got away with your life. Grateful AF
/r/askTRP28/02/18 01:46 AM
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After reading more sidebar I decided I will go into monk mode. I'm slowly learning.
/r/askTRP28/02/18 01:44 AM
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Lol, for being enablers?
/r/askTRP28/02/18 12:52 AM
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I feel bad bkz I was blindsided and loved her. The way she ditched me so fast and got engaged after 6 months was some cold fucking shit. But, I'm waking up now. Won't be blindsided in the future.
/r/askTRP28/02/18 12:43 AM
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A girl will really fake sexual attraction for money? 100%. My dad's friend (white, 55, overweight, and has a disability), was banging a 30-year-old hot woman from a Latin country, never shut up about how amazing she was in bed. The second he brought her to the US and she had her green card, she peaced out and married a Latino gang banger.
/r/askTRP28/02/18 12:40 AM
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I think if you're talking about plates, then it doesn't matter. If you're talking abt LTR that's going to come with you to work events and represent you in public, we tend to want someone who's been around the same social circles, has manners and class and can hold a conversation. Not someone who will embarrass us.
/r/askTRP28/02/18 12:37 AM
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Noted. Thanks bro
/r/askTRP28/02/18 12:27 AM
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Point taken, man.
/r/askTRP28/02/18 12:25 AM
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Wow. Thanks for dropping this truth on me man, what you're saying makes absolute 100% fucking sense. None of this shit was adding up before, I kept reverting to "she's a gold digger" because it was easiest to make her the bad guy and him the beta. I think she initially got with me because I'm conventionally attractive, her friends thought I was hot, I'm in sports, etc. But, it was puppy love. And because I didn't know shit about TRP then, I did all the wrong things during the relationship. He's …
/r/askTRP28/02/18 12:22 AM
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Yeah, you are completely right. I appreciate the insight. It just seemed so empty, marrying a guy your dad's age, with no physical attraction simply bkz he has resources. But, this is where I lacked ANY real understanding of women or relationships before. Thank God TPR is clarifying all this shit for me. Accepting reality is only harsh for a little while. I'm still at this stage.
/r/askTRP28/02/18 12:00 AM
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Thanks bro. I've been reading the sidebar for the last hour. Powerful shit. Depressing at times, but real.
/r/askTRP27/02/18 11:14 PM
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It was cringeworthy to write out as well. Never want to go back to being that dude. Why are you wanting to jump into another relationship? I feel good in a stable relationship with a respectable woman. I don't like dealing with multiple sleazy women and their drama. But, I will date around. Not gonna look to settle anytime soon. Most of all, I will work on myself, and not focus on women.
/r/askTRP27/02/18 11:13 PM
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Yep, I was just doing some more reading right now. Going into monk mode. Need to work on myself.
/r/askTRP27/02/18 11:11 PM
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Was a sweet turn while it lasted.
/r/askTRP27/02/18 10:20 PM
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Dude, until you can spin multiple plates without catching feelings and reverting to BP behavior, stay away from LTR’s. You're right man, thanks.
/r/askTRP27/02/18 09:41 PM
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Will do brother, thanks.
/r/askTRP27/02/18 09:22 PM
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Good point, man. I'm worried I would lose attraction to a 7 longterm, if I thought she was lower on the scale than myself. But, will test it out.
/r/askTRP27/02/18 08:54 PM
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I'm embracing the burn, and trying to rise from the ashes now. Thankful for TRP.
/r/askTRP27/02/18 08:53 PM
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You're right, a good body only gets you so far as a man. It's possible she's a gold digger, but you don't even know that for sure. I only assumed that bkz she used to call me cheap for wanting to split things, and bkz I figured she's with him only because of money. But you're right, maybe fat guy is turning her on somehow. I actually did find out that he's a member of a pretty major University secret society club, so clearly the dude has pull. Either way, I need to stop obsessing over what he's …
/r/askTRP27/02/18 08:51 PM
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Will continue educating myself with the sidebar. Thanks man.
/r/askTRP27/02/18 08:17 PM
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next time you want a ltr go for a 7 not a 9 Interesting approach. Although I did read that in most successful marriages, the wife has to be better looking than the husband. Otherwise there is an imbalance.
/r/askTRP27/02/18 08:16 PM
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I honestly was, Shocked he called me. Unprepared for the conversation that followed. Outmatched verbally (he's a smooth talker). I felt like I was being scolded by my father/professor. Afterwards I thought of a million things I could have said but didn't.... I've learned A LOT from that one talk. Gotta work on myself.
/r/askTRP27/02/18 08:11 PM
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Good way of looking at it.
/r/askTRP27/02/18 08:06 PM
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Yep, had to hit that low point to wake me the fuck up. I was completely ignorant before.
/r/askTRP27/02/18 08:06 PM
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Thanks brother. I did delete her from Instagram, and deleted her number from my phone. I embarrassed myself enough, I know better now.
/r/askTRP27/02/18 08:05 PM
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Solid point.
/r/askTRP27/02/18 08:03 PM
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I completely agree, thanks man.
/r/askTRP27/02/18 07:56 PM
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Will do brother, thanks.
/r/askTRP27/02/18 07:51 PM
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Thanks man, appreciate it, I needed a good vent.
/r/askTRP27/02/18 07:49 PM
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I don’t know why these beta walking wallets pay to fuck the SAME girl over and over again via a staged relationship. She was a really good fuck, and banging all natural body. Fat boy probably jizzes from just seeing her naked TBH. OP give it 5-6 years and she’ll be divorcing and taking him to the cleaners lol. I won't be waiting for that, but I wouldn't be upset if it happened either.
/r/askTRP27/02/18 06:46 PM
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Thanks man. He sees her value as she's young and hot and likely gives him sex he couldn't dream about without paying for it (at least until she divorces him and takes 1/2 his money). You'd think a smart 45-year-old would know better than to marry her after 6 months. Probably has an airtight prenup, but still blows my mind.
/r/askTRP27/02/18 06:27 PM
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Could have been much worse, and I've still got many good years ahead of me. Just working on getting over that bitterness now. I don't want to hate women, it's not their fault they are how they are...just tough to accept without getting cynical.
/r/askTRP27/02/18 06:15 PM
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You're absolutely right. It just hits you like a ton of bricks when you finally wake up to the reality of the world and women. I'm still trying to get my bearing. Thankful for TRP everyday.
/r/askTRP27/02/18 06:11 PM
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Thanks man, it's a sobering and harsh awakening; but I prefer it on this side rather than my previous life of ignorance.
/r/askTRP27/02/18 06:07 PM
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Right on.
/r/askTRP27/02/18 06:04 PM
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Thanks man. I've mostly moved on, but the bitterness still overtakes my ZEN on some nights. Writing this out was a pretty sweet way of ending the chapter.
/r/askTRP27/02/18 05:28 PM
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I know, to be honest like you said it's just my resentment and insecurities speaking...I like to make myself feel better by thinking he's beta. In all reality, he definitely has a lot of financial and social pull. And he clearly knows how to keep his cool, he scolded me like a professor on the phone, meanwhile I lost my marbles. I'm just bitter. Working on it though. Thanks for the reply man.
/r/askTRP27/02/18 05:26 PM
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Amen to that
/r/askTRP27/02/18 03:57 PM
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Lots of good stuff in the sidebar bro! We're on this journey together.
/r/askTRP27/02/18 03:40 PM
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"He is hot, I even kind of want to suck his dick" Is it really wise to put that image in her head?
/r/askTRP26/02/18 10:39 PM
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"Do you want me to go introduce you to him?" sounds like a good rebuttal.
/r/askTRP26/02/18 10:27 PM
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