21redman Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
51	Religion became a wedge issue in my relationship.		21redman	/r/TheRedPill	02/01/24 01:55 PM

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9	Red Pill Thought Megathread I struggle with the push pull of long term life goals like starting a family and the ultimate freedom to do whatever you want Is it possible to have a wife or life partner that will bear children and let you fuck off for a few days ot doesn't throw a fit if you want or buy that project car? Is it a frame issue to just tell the woman "hey, im gonna do whatever i want and if you don't like it, there's the door" thats how I treated my last relationship and she imploded and cause alot of problems fo…	/r/TheRedPill	20/07/26 03:19 AM
5	AskTRP Megathread Married guy here with a pregnant wife. What you got?	/r/TheRedPill	22/06/26 11:52 AM
3	Own Your Shit Megathread Actions? Just crushing goals to make our living situation better. Just bought us a house and have been going to all appointments, following up on things we discus about how to raise a kid with my own research Idk if I can maintain a DGAF frame.. with a kid on the way im in a constant state of vigilance. Shit tests are in frequent but I think I handle them pretty well. I'll either respond with playful banter, or if it's serious I stfu and correct the issue Lifts are mid.. I mostly focus on calist…	/r/TheRedPill	03/06/26 03:09 PM
10	Own Your Shit Megathread Wife is 7 months pregnant. Man one of life's greatest lessons is to STFU. This is especially true for pregnancy.. Worked all day and your wife is in a mood when you come home to a dirty house? STFU and clean. She later opened up about how she failed her glucose test and it's been stressing her out. Some other things durring the pregnancy frustrate me. I (for the most part) shut the fuck up and handle shit and our relationship stays strong I know others who's wives fucking hate them durring and a…	/r/TheRedPill	02/06/26 11:45 AM
31	How to meet women besides using dating apps? Join a climbing or crossfit gym.. be social but not desperate.. let them come to you as you own your shit	/r/TheRedPill	20/05/26 11:42 PM
3	AskTRP Megathread I think trp boils down your life into two paths I can do whatever I want Or I can't do whatever I want because I'm committed to another person. I like to think online redpillers like to cosplay as category 2 by kind of ordering around their girlfriend and then they eventually fuck somone else because of neglect, and the girl is simply replaced There are women for category 2 who will look the other way while you do whatever you want but as they get older and their friends build lives, get married…	/r/TheRedPill	12/05/26 10:24 AM
20	2026 is 2 months away. How do you upgrade yourself as a man? Don't drink If you haven't started contributing to a 401k or IRA start now Cohabitate with other like minded men if you can	/r/TheRedPill	15/11/25 12:52 PM
2	The looming 2030-2040 Millennial divorce wave A trap I'm pretty sure every guy has fallen into at some point in their life is they bag a woman, think they've "made it" and then completely pull back on effort and care. Then the woman feels neglected and the relationship goes to shit. Do you think this could be as simple as not holding Frame? I was in a LTR where my feet were firmly planted on how I divide my time between her and everything else in my life. She ended up turning up the heat on everyone else around me, and I had to dump her bec…	/r/TheRedPill	27/09/25 12:07 PM
75	The looming 2030-2040 Millennial divorce wave I feel like I see it more with men who can't stop partying. Scores of my friends ditch their wives every weekend for (the boys) If you ignore your wife, she will fuck somone else	/r/TheRedPill	24/09/25 10:47 PM
1	Son Husbands and the Mothers That Castrate Them That's the whole point of TRP, tho is becoming more rational	/r/TheRedPill	29/01/25 06:49 PM
2	Son Husbands and the Mothers That Castrate Them Wdym, im not saying move into a crackhouse I'm saying don't be a pussy and move out, find somone looking for a roommate, vet them like any normal person would and throw them 500 a month or whatever the rate is	/r/TheRedPill	29/01/25 05:34 PM
1	Son Husbands and the Mothers That Castrate Them Taken advantage of how?	/r/TheRedPill	28/01/25 10:04 PM
11	Son Husbands and the Mothers That Castrate Them Word of advice.. cost of rent nearby it's almost impossible to move out) Is not true for young single men. Pack one bag with clothes, chargers, toothbrush, and a laptop. Go on Facebook or Craigslist and search for men looking for roommates, even in "undesirable areas" I used to live with 5 people in a 3 bedroom apartment and it was the most fun I ever had. Sure it was gross but cmon don't be a pussy and orbit your mom because you "can't afford it" move out however you can and don't look back	/r/TheRedPill	18/01/25 02:23 PM
1	Religion became a wedge issue in my relationship. I did	/r/TheRedPill	19/06/24 12:51 PM
2	Religion became a wedge issue in my relationship. Already spinning better plates	/r/TheRedPill	16/01/24 11:38 AM
1	Religion became a wedge issue in my relationship. Because this is America, ownership is granted to those who work hard	/r/TheRedPill	12/01/24 11:28 PM
1	Religion became a wedge issue in my relationship. Trp is about mastering our own destiny, and we can be red pilled and faithful, but don't tell me to watch my language. Otherwise, you are no better than a blue haired feminist	/r/TheRedPill	07/01/24 12:43 PM
4	Religion became a wedge issue in my relationship. Is that not the end goal of being RP is to be able to keep your riches and bitches	/r/TheRedPill	03/01/24 03:59 AM
2	Religion became a wedge issue in my relationship. We went married and I never plan on getting married	/r/TheRedPill	03/01/24 03:57 AM
3	Religion became a wedge issue in my relationship. I agree	/r/TheRedPill	02/01/24 07:44 PM
4	Religion became a wedge issue in my relationship. God isn't real, I forge my own destiny	/r/TheRedPill	02/01/24 07:24 PM
10	Religion became a wedge issue in my relationship. Jesus, I don't understand why more men are pushing for life partners instead of marriage	/r/TheRedPill	02/01/24 04:36 PM
11	Religion became a wedge issue in my relationship. I would say that to her, and it would fall on deaf ears. I should have seen that alone as a red flag that she wouldn't acknowledge ownership things and why marriage would be such a raw deal for me.	/r/TheRedPill	02/01/24 03:44 PM
3	Religion became a wedge issue in my relationship. She was younger than me 29M 25F What are some examples of jaded? Early warning signs? I also will probably never get married unless I meet a girl with equal income or if it works out with a partner for 10+ years	/r/TheRedPill	02/01/24 03:43 PM
27	Religion became a wedge issue in my relationship. Maybe I'm just confused on what the RP stands for? Didn't know I need to be religious to also be red pilled	/r/TheRedPill	02/01/24 03:38 PM
24	Religion became a wedge issue in my relationship. Yea, and I think she tried to use religion as a moral authority over me because you can say no to God or the influences in our lives that are also religious. I have nothing against Christianity, but it was getting real cult like. I grew up Catholic, but being Catholic never told me that witchcraft is a real thing or that Halloween is the devils holliday or that my friends are a bad influence because they aren't religious. I'm talking weird Facebook Christianity	/r/TheRedPill	02/01/24 03:36 PM