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^ the demented meme philosophy of toxic positivity, in a nutshell
/r/Divorce_Men14/07/23 12:32 AM
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Your post has a more-enlightened-than-thou, patronizing tone, and I think you should stop smelling your own farts. Anger and a desire for people who have wronged you to face some form of justice are 100% appropriate reactions to being betrayed/abused/manipulated/etc. There's nothing "gentlemanly" about refusing to allow yourself to feel and act on righteous anger. There are many situations where it's the only virtuous course of action. Stop trying to interpret every shitty thing that happens you…
/r/Divorce_Men13/07/23 03:00 AM
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CBT and related strategies are basically trying to coach the patient to develop a layer of metacognition that identifies and vetoes/displaces unwanted thought patterns and behaviors. I don't believe this approach is very effective except in specific cases: (a) the patient is a person who is right on the cusp of being intelligent enough to examine their own thoughts, and the therapist encouraging them to develop this habit is some kind of mental revolution for them (b) the patient is inherently c…
/r/AllPillDebate11/07/23 01:52 PM
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Back in high school, a very popular guy tore a girl's vagina by aggressively fingering her without her consent. It ultimately had zero effect on his popularity or his success with women, even though every single person in the entire school knew the story.
/r/AllPillDebate11/07/23 01:18 AM
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I've gotten to know several women throughout my life who have been physically abused by romantic partners. I know that anecdotal evidence isn't worth much, but out of all of those women, I would say that only one didn't see the abuse coming from a mile away and choose to ignore it.
/r/AllPillDebate11/07/23 01:08 AM
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It's odd that someone who doesn't care about Jonah Hill would comment on multiple posts related to him.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 12:32 AM
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I'd forgotten about poor Aziz. The full babe.net writeup on the allegations is a gold mine. After arriving at his apartment in Manhattan on Monday evening, they exchanged small talk and drank wine. “It was white,” she said. “I didn’t get to choose and I prefer red, but it was white wine.”
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 12:26 AM
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Your point about the intensity of the reaction being nearly as important as the opinion itself is great. Being able to push your emotions aside and rationally explain/defend your opinion is as important as the opinion itself.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 08:40 PM
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I think peoples' attitudes towards the O.J. Simpson trial are more about racial in-group preference than anything else.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 08:35 PM
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His line at the very end - "based on how these actions have hurt our trust" makes me think that she had repeatedly used some line such as "we're just surfing buddies, geez quit being so jealous" to shame Hill into overlooking her inappropriate behavior which he later discovered and confronted her about. Although it's impossible to make a judgement without knowing the full context, this sort of thing mirrors experiences I've had.
/r/Divorce_Men10/07/23 06:53 PM
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Are 18- and 19-year-olds teenagers? They were last time I checked.
/r/AllPillDebate10/07/23 02:40 AM
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I disagree with OP and think he's a tool, but your statement is factually incorrect.
/r/AllPillDebate09/07/23 05:59 PM
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Regardless of one's "-pilling," a reasonable person would probably explain the situation by saying that some people are just fucking nuts. The lesson is that you have to trust your gut, identify them, and stay far away from them. I don't think this story is much deeper than that.
/r/AllPillDebate07/07/23 07:49 PM
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The number of women who outwardly present themselves as accepting/progressive and then start casually bashing once we get comfortable around each other is wild. It's typically not specific grievances or well-thought-out criticisms, either; it's stuff like "x are just awful, don't you think?" or "look at that [slur]." Even though I'm somewhat of a right-wing edgelord myself, and I have plenty of controversial beliefs, many of the things women have said to me have made me unformfortable because of…
/r/AllPillDebate06/07/23 09:51 PM
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"Perfectly normal dudes" always struggled to get "basic women" in a vacuum, it's just that in the past this struggle was minimized by (a) Cultural/social pressure heavily steering and often more-or-less forcing average women to settle for and marry average men by early adulthood (b) Society being more cloistered, so that the average woman didn't come in contact with (and get the tingles for) very many Chads outside those in her local community who were likely already partnered, so her standards …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 07:56 PM
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Yet another example of women as a group being totally oblivious to the bottom 80% of men in their age range, and setting their idea of "a bit above average" at the 90th percentile or above.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 11:51 PM
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This rhetoric is in the same vein as posts on incel forums about how women should be property, there's no such thing as marital rape, etc. Half parody and half edgily blowing off steam by people who are in very deep pain and have no proper outlet.
/r/AllPillDebate30/06/23 03:57 PM
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however, you can't hold someone prisoner to their past forever Yeah, you can. You should be proud of your sobriety and for making positive changes, but people you've wronged don't owe you forgiveness or a second chance. They're absolutely allowed to resent you indefinitely for the harm you've caused them. It's clear that both you and your spouse seriously mistreated each other over the course of the relationship and that you are both deeply flawed. You have to accept that becoming sober doesn't …
/r/Divorce_Men28/06/23 06:28 PM
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Women tend to put far more effort into aspects of their appearance that signal status or belonging to an in-group to other women, rather than on aspects that make them sexually desirable to men.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 05:03 PM
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You're saying that the threshold for visual arousal is far higher for women than it is for men, and that only the top few percentiles (physically) of men are capable of visually arousing women. ...that seems like an argument that women are less-, not equally-as-visual. I'm confused why OP believes their post supports the thesis in the title.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 04:57 PM
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A lower percentage of people than ever before in history are suitable romantic partners, but it's also faster/easier than ever before in history to meet and filter potential partners from all over the world. I think it mostly evens out.
/r/AllPillDebate26/06/23 10:54 AM
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Being sensitive, feeling powerful emotions, wearing your heart on your sleeve, etc. is one thing. Being passive, fearful, and defeatist in the face of it all is a completely different thing. That's the aspect of it that's the true turn-off. I agree with OP.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 03:08 AM
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You can absolutely hate a group's aggregate behavior and its impact on society, while still being able to see members of that group as individuals and have meaningful relationships with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 03:47 AM
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I agree. They dislike the implied lifestyle, not the idea of being into fitness or having a certain body. Hitting reasonable protein/calorie targets 80% of the time, doing basic compound lifts three times a week, and getting good sleep will turn you into someone who looks "muscular" within a year.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/23 09:14 PM
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humblebrag: the thread
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 06:57 PM
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To preface, I'm not interested in relationships with children or underage women. But dating a post pubescent person is not pedophilia and casually throwing that word around dilutes the seriousness of actual pedophilic behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 04:08 AM
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There are absolutely plenty of biased, man-hating therapists out there, but it's more likely that the picture she painted of your relationship in her sessions was mostly fabrication and lies by omission.
/r/Divorce_Men15/06/23 02:53 AM
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