23dragonflies Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
19	Toxic feminity: female-on-female incivility		23dragonflies	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/05/18 09:15 AM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	Toxic feminity: female-on-female incivility hahaha, that's hilarious! That queen bee mentality is everywhere, but I guess in gaming, it can be more easily documented. Its one of those issues that everyone knows exists, but nobody really talks about. I guess you can say its independent research that I've decided to take up on. Can you reccomend any games that wouldn't be too difficult for a noob? I'd like to see it for myself sometime	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/05/18 11:03 AM
2	Just a bit depressed about modern marriage It seems to me that you are very open person (not being particular about a type, not making any pre-emtive decisions based on paychecks, etc) Firstly, do not undervalue this aspect of yourself. Your non-judgemental attitude would be precious to many, I'm just sorry you've have the luck to come across people who have taken it for granted. Judging from your reply, I can see that you've tended to pick partners that are conversent in dating-strategies and the like. To be frank, I think you can reall…	/r/RedPillWomen	03/05/18 03:44 PM
2	Just a bit depressed about modern marriage Hey sweetie, I'm sorry to hear that the dating/marriage game appears so bleak to you right now. I've had the same perspective not so long ago, but I found a way to look past that and I'd like to help you do the same. It seemed like no matter how hard I tried to fulfill what I think my suitors wanted, the less appreciation I recieved in return (law of diminishing returns, eh?) I apologize in advance if this question has been posed to you beforehand, but you mentioned that you dated several men wh…	/r/RedPillWomen	03/05/18 08:59 AM
1	The top 1% of men, in different categories 20% * 3= 60%? "The problem with your post is your fundamental misunderstanding of math. If you’re in the 80th percentile in various important categories, you’re solidly in the 95th percentile. " None of this is math, it is speculation.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/05/18 08:41 AM
1	The top 1% of men, in different categories Clearly you haven't heard of Baye's Theorm.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/05/18 08:38 AM
1	Women high up in the totem pole, how do you regain humility? Thank you for this. :)	/r/RedPillWomen	02/05/18 10:45 AM
2	Women high up in the totem pole, how do you regain humility? Thanks for your insight. :) I am not as well-versed in biblical scripture to be confident enough to interpret your verse, but I'll mull over it from time to time.	/r/RedPillWomen	02/05/18 09:07 AM
3	Women high up in the totem pole, how do you regain humility? I'm very sorry to hear about your loss. Death took away a loved one of mine last December, and I agree it jolts you out of your sense of whats important. While I am engaged in improving myself (be it gaining knowledge, lifting or game), I do make an effort to stay concious of the harsher realities that life dishes out. It just puzzles me why a woman openly acknowledging her sense of achievement is a cause for so much concern (I'm not speaking about you so much as other posters in this thread). I…	/r/RedPillWomen	01/05/18 05:44 PM
1	Women high up in the totem pole, how do you regain humility? Bueno.	/r/RedPillWomen	01/05/18 04:49 PM
3	Women high up in the totem pole, how do you regain humility? Good for you? That doesn't change the official description of the subreddit. Calling someone egotistical and unworthy of a relationship is a personal attack. I do pride myself on the essence I cultivated for myself, as you can infer from my original post, I wasn't born with it, I worked hard for it. "Being a creature like no other" is the trademark advice from The Rules, "women are human beings men are human doings" from RP wisdom. Me saying I followed RP wisdom and got good returns should be em…	/r/RedPillWomen	01/05/18 04:06 PM
1	Women high up in the totem pole, how do you regain humility? I'm not going to humor personal attacks by people who choose to be keyboard warriors over something as trivial as an honest self assessment on an anonymous forum. I believe your replies reveal more about you and your insecurity, than it does me and how delusional I am. And if you read the side column, it says this forum is about female sexual strategy (and sorry, but judging from your other posts, I'm going to assume you're not female) Maybe you should contact the moderators if you feel the desc…	/r/RedPillWomen	01/05/18 03:22 PM
3	Women high up in the totem pole, how do you regain humility? Perhaps if you reread my post more carefully, you'd realize that I never explicitly stated that I was looking for a relationship. I wanted to keep things general, since I know that the RP collective looks down on solipsism. I wanted to address the issue of developing intimacy, which is a general discussion that could be of use to both people who are looking for a relationship and those who are already in one. And with all due respect, your reply seems tinged with blue-pill conjecture. As a paral…	/r/RedPillWomen	01/05/18 02:28 PM
3	"Commitment" in Western (US) Society If you reread my original comment, you'd see that I say people(men and women) where I live choose to commit at this age, not get together. You can still have healthy conventional child-birth with this timeline, granted you want 2-3 children. However, we live in an age where women can choose to freeze their eggs. More options!	/r/RedPillWomen	01/05/18 01:29 PM
2	Women high up in the totem pole, how do you regain humility? Well, I'd describe my M.O as more of having wanted men to compete for me, back when I was in the market. This is the female brain, plain and simple. I'm okay with admitting this. I agree with you that men that feel they deserve a pat on the back for being smarter, wittier, stronger than _____ (whoever), are prone to feeling threatened by a more skillful mate. But this mentality is a dime a dozen, and I wouldn't be interested if this were shown to be the case. I'd like to know how to develop a ma…	/r/RedPillWomen	01/05/18 01:23 PM
3	Women high up in the totem pole, how do you regain humility? Thank you for your reply. I believe you're speaking of developing my emotional intelligence.. perhaps the most useful skill one can choose to cultivate. If you know of any books or any other resources that talk about gauging more information from interactions, let me know! :)	/r/RedPillWomen	01/05/18 01:12 PM
5	Women high up in the totem pole, how do you regain humility? "I'm not saying you should be a doormat, a people pleaser or a 'nice' girl. I'm saying you should do your thing, be completely independent and have a fulfilling life while at the same time being able to stand completely vulnerable before the man you like and submit to him." I find this very hard to do, mostly because the reaction I am normally met with is a sense of defensiveness when I reveal that my skills are in par with my partner's (I didn't mention my LTR in my original post, because I wan…	/r/RedPillWomen	01/05/18 01:09 PM
7	Women high up in the totem pole, how do you regain humility? Its refreshing to hear another female openly admit she values herself. I think the reason this rubs many people the wrong way is that women in western society are constantly reminded that there is always something deficient (not skinny enough, not curvy enough, etc ) about them, and its blasphemous to say otherwise. Its difficult for people who's faces are constantly plasted on instagram and fashion magazines to swallow the notion that perhaps they're inherently desirable, and its okay just to s…	/r/RedPillWomen	01/05/18 12:25 PM
1	"Commitment" in Western (US) Society I personally think it's easier to find a suitable mate after your personality has crystallised, which happens for most people by that age. Before that, I think the average person wants to explore but this may be a cultural skew. And with proper fitness and self-care, (my personal opinion) is that a woman physically peaks at 35. I guess we're too late to ask Liz Taylor her secrets :)	/r/RedPillWomen	01/05/18 11:34 AM
5	Women high up in the totem pole, how do you regain humility? I would actually say SMV and self-realization are synonyms. A man's SMV can be function of his financial standing, physical strength, creative output and cultural acumen. I believe you can get a pretty good grasp of how self-realized an individual is by looking at these same (objective) factors, but I agree that it is a more nuanced term. Perhaps it is a matter of taste, but judging someone only on their overall accomplishment in life to me is preferrable to judging someone based soley on appear…	/r/RedPillWomen	30/04/18 11:32 PM
3	Women high up in the totem pole, how do you regain humility? Thank you for your detailed explanation. I don't understand how me viewing myself as more self-actualized than my peers is different from a male that considers himself having a higher SMV than his peers. Everyone makes comparisons in their head, its what sexual strategy is all about. Its what hypergamy is all about: "how can I be a better catch so that I can get the best catch". Am I wrong?	/r/RedPillWomen	30/04/18 09:58 PM
1	Women high up in the totem pole, how do you regain humility? You're right bby_gem, I have elaborated further on the prior comment.	/r/RedPillWomen	30/04/18 09:45 PM
3	Women high up in the totem pole, how do you regain humility? I'm not "thinking" that I need to fake the dynamic, its just that what I feel. I am not trying to be contentious, but I believe the "Prince-Charming" fantasy just die when women mature, particularily if they push themselves to work as hard and rough as their male counterparts. If there is a single purpose to this post, its just to see if anyone out there knows of an evolved version of the dynamic where respect takes the place of projection. "Everyone is striving to be the best version of themsel…	/r/RedPillWomen	30/04/18 09:20 PM
1	Women high up in the totem pole, how do you regain humility? I'm not going to explain something you can Google. And yes, indeed, I have opinions. :)	/r/RedPillWomen	30/04/18 09:15 PM
3	Women high up in the totem pole, how do you regain humility? I don't think it is rude at all for you to ask me to do that, but judging by the moderator's reply, perhaps that would be just an open-call for hostility?	/r/RedPillWomen	30/04/18 09:14 PM
-4	Women high up in the totem pole, how do you regain humility? I'm sorry if terms like "self-truth" make you flinch, so perhaps it would be better if I reformulated that sentence into "..since it just feels like I'm faking that particular dynamic". Better? Are you suggesting I'm directing this post at thin air? Or do you simply assume self-actualized feminine women do not exist? "Just the qualifier at the beginning makes clear that you think there's some kind of scale, and you're at the top, so you're not interested in the opinions of most other women (who …	/r/RedPillWomen	30/04/18 09:02 PM
-6	Women high up in the totem pole, how do you regain humility? isn't new-speak technically a new-speak term? ;) quoting wikipedia: Self-actualization is a term that has been used in various psychology theories, often in slightly different ways. The term was originally introduced by the organismic theorist Kurt Goldstein for the motive to realize one's full potential. Out of curiosity, do you associate RP discussions on increasing one's SMV a form of narcissism?	/r/RedPillWomen	30/04/18 08:30 PM
15	"Commitment" in Western (US) Society I think commitment is less a choice and more of a state of mind you grow into. I live in Europe, which I guess you would consider "westernized", but generally people get married at an older age (>28) than the States. I think this culture is more conducive for maintaining long-term monogomous relationships because its more customary to spend your early 20s really developing yourself as an individual, so when you reach the marriage question, you've taken your time to figure the world out and indug…	/r/RedPillWomen	30/04/18 07:39 PM