2512347 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
13	I am sick to my stomach		2512347	/r/Divorce_Men	28/03/23 11:00 PM
9	Dealing with a Toxic Ex and Absences from Kids' Activities While Co-Parenting		2512347	/r/Divorce_Men	27/03/23 06:31 AM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
2	Need Advice... First, it's great that you're taking steps to ensure that you can continue to pay bills and manage finances. However, since you have significant assets and debt, it would be a good idea to consult with a lawyer to understand your rights and responsibilities. They can help you navigate the legal process and ensure that you're protected. In terms of your personal life, it's important to take care of yourself and your mental health during this time. Lean on your support network, whether that's frie…	/r/Divorce_Men	02/04/23 10:47 PM
1	Question on separation vs divorce Regarding your question about filing online without a lawyer, many states do offer online filing options for divorce or separation. However, it's still recommended to consult with a lawyer, even if you can't afford to retain one for the entire process. A lawyer can provide valuable guidance and ensure that you're making informed decisions that protect your interests. If you're unable to move out of your shared residence due to financial constraints, you may need to consider alternative options s…	/r/Divorce_Men	01/04/23 08:54 PM
1	Wife wants a second child and I don’t. She threatened divorce over this. I swear I have read the same post posted by a women narrating the same story few weeks ago and basically saying she can’t love her husband anymore if he won’t let her have a 2nd child. I wonder if that was your wife.	/r/Divorce_Men	01/04/23 12:37 PM
5	The nice Guy trap. Remember that change is a process and it takes time, but with effort and determination, you can definitely overcome these habits and cultivate positive, masculine traits that will benefit both you and your loved ones. Keep up the good work!	/r/Divorce_Men	01/04/23 12:05 PM
3	Short thought for anyone that’s lonely. It's admirable that you have decided to prioritize your own well-being and not settle for a subpar relationship. This mindset can help you attract and cultivate healthy relationships in the future, where both parties treat each other with mutual respect and love. Remember that self-improvement and growth is a lifelong journey, and continue to work on yourself and your own happiness. You deserve to be with someone who loves and respects you as much as you love and respect yourself. Thank you for …	/r/Divorce_Men	01/04/23 07:22 AM
1	The way I vet women after divorce is kind of cold Hey, based on my experience, it might be worth asking your potential partner about their relationship with their father. However, it's important to observe their interactions with him and how much respect they show him. You should ask subtle questions and read between the lines to get a better sense of their true feelings. For example, my current girlfriend talks to her dad every week and they exchange silly jokes/prancks and check in on each other. I see this as a healthy relationship and it's …	/r/Divorce_Men	30/03/23 07:16 AM
1	I am sick to my stomach Yes, my ex, who has been divorced twice, has three children, and has unresolved issues from her childhood and past trauma, is actively seeking a new husband... watchout guys ( I took one for the team, but you're now warred lol) . It's concerning, to say the least. I've decided to never date or interact with divorced women or single mothers again, as it can be incredibly draining and negative.	/r/Divorce_Men	30/03/23 07:08 AM
1	I am sick to my stomach That's appalling, I'm sorry for what you went through. Divorce can be advantageous for women, which is unfair. They may end up with a 50/50 custody arrangement, which is a considered a bad outcome according to them because they won't get as much CS, while for men it's considered a unicorn to get 50/50. Women can manipulate the system by saying whatever they want and being believed, as evidenced by my ex who went to court and put on a show of modesty and innocence and crying in front of the judge…	/r/Divorce_Men	30/03/23 07:07 AM
1	How did you guys deal with the guilt in regards to your kids financial support? it feels like you're being backed into a corner with this whole "supporting our kids" thing. that's definitely a tough one. It's important to remember that divorce is never an easy or pleasant experience, and it's natural for both parties to want to come out of it with as much as they can. But it's also important to be fair and reasonable. Ultimately, the most important thing here is your kids. They need both of their parents to be present and supportive, both emotionally and financially. So my …	/r/Divorce_Men	28/03/23 12:08 AM
1	Dealing with a Toxic Ex and Absences from Kids' Activities While Co-Parenting I meant by "positive co-parenting" a non-toxic relationship whare two individuals try to work together for the best interest of the kids and put their issues aside. Currently my ex just try to make my life inconvenient as possible. If I miss a practice (which I don't think it is a big deal) she blast me by messages. If she calls the kids and they don't answer she emails me saying she's worried about the kids well-being. lol it's just too toxic. Again I am not saying they are not getting to their…	/r/Divorce_Men	27/03/23 11:34 PM
1	Dealing with a Toxic Ex and Absences from Kids' Activities While Co-Parenting What do you think she’s doing	/r/Divorce_Men	27/03/23 11:53 AM
1	Dealing with a Toxic Ex and Absences from Kids' Activities While Co-Parenting Same thing, I didn't see that coming until now. I always hear that it's hard to change custody unless something big such as abused no? would you mind share more about your position and experience?	/r/Divorce_Men	27/03/23 07:28 AM