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7

Most normal women respect men that clean their apartments. This scene exemplified why she was toxic. You don't want to be with a girl that has the same viewpoint as her
/r/seduction04/04/26 12:41 AM
11

They make it harder than it needs to be. Public image is important and a Lotta people judge easily over there. It's unfortunate but that's why it's not a great place to date.
/r/seduction12/03/26 06:01 AM
13

Most often, women like that don't settle. They keep seeking attention and validation from someone more important than the last
/r/seduction26/02/26 07:19 PM
50

The joke Your head
/r/seduction18/11/25 06:29 AM
15

Your logic isn't wrong, but it's the same with doing anything else dishonest. Some people have a conscious and choose not to
/r/seduction18/11/25 03:32 AM
0

You say this like you're his bestie and know this random internet stranger so well. Or are you just airing out your own insecurities?
/r/seduction31/10/25 11:48 AM
30

Surprised no one's mentioned this yet, and this is just a theory, but maybe they're looking for someone to take them out for fun dates on the man's expense.
/r/seduction28/10/25 03:27 PM
1

The cities I named are melting pots full of foreigners dummy
/r/seduction07/10/25 03:53 AM
9

Lol, spoken like someone that has never lived in the states. NY, Miami, and California definitely don't fit the overweight and obese stats, lotta beautiful women there. That being said, I do agree that there are a lot of beautiful women in Asia and Europe, but I would definitely not rule out the cities I listed
/r/seduction07/10/25 01:24 AM
2

You're 23, you're not a grown ass man, not fully grown yet. There's a lot more in common between you and an 18 year old than you and a 35 year old.
/r/seduction06/10/25 01:43 AM
2

If I'm 23 or younger and she's offering herself up, and it's mutually consensual, sure.
/r/seduction06/10/25 01:37 AM
3

People her age are deciding their careers, signing up for the army, have the right to drink and drive (not at the same time hopefully lol) Like the other guy said, she'll do what she wants, it's her decision and she's legal. He's not doing anything wrong by coercing her or grooming her
/r/seduction06/10/25 01:08 AM
4

Just make a move. Latinas are easy mode.
/r/seduction21/09/25 06:33 AM
2

Some guys prefer to be single, some prefer to date and have companionship without needing to make a lifelong commitment, and some like life partners. But there's definitely a shift towards wanting to be single in both men and women, which makes sense given how much entertainment and activities there are that one can enjoy on their own compared to any other point in history
/r/seduction09/08/25 12:33 AM
7

You needa get out there and meet more people
/r/seduction21/05/25 05:33 AM
6

My comment is not limited to women who have engaged in porn or prostitution. I was born in the 80s, even in the pre-internet era, a large amount of hot women would date guys who could provide a vast amount of financial support. I'm not saying I like the fact that it's easy to pick up 10s with money. I'm not saying I am "going with the norm". I'm just pointing out what a harsh truth that you for some reason are very resistant to seeing is a reality.
/r/seduction21/05/25 03:33 AM
7

Dude, it's more prevalent than ever in this onlyfans and ig generation. Miami, NY, LA, Dubai, London, Paris, Hong Kong, all of southeast Asia. Name a major city, and I will show you tons of 5-6s men who have money and can easily land 9-10s women And note, I didn't say it's the only way, but it's one of the easiest
/r/seduction21/05/25 02:49 AM
9

Definitely the easiest way to get 9s and 10s. Getting rich without the help of rich parents on the other hand is probably harder than pulling a 9-10 lol
/r/seduction21/05/25 01:17 AM
19

If she only serves as an object of lust, then yes, there is nothing to gain from her in a friendship role. If you genuinely enjoy her company, and are fine with accepting a platonic relationship, that's fine.
/r/seduction10/05/25 03:18 AM
6

Bro, do you think OP is looking to bag an influencer for conversation?
/r/seduction01/05/25 05:04 AM
23

Not a requirement, influencers love men that are charismatic in real life, but keep a relatively low profile online
/r/seduction01/05/25 05:01 AM
2

To add to this, look up ways to really make yourself attractive to women. Get in shape, fitted clothes, beard/hair, get your life together in general to boost your own self esteem and confidence etc etc. It goes a long way and opens up more women to you than you'd imagine. From there, it's a learn as you go process. Just keep dating, interacting with women, keeping many as friends, and you'll pick up on what works and what doesn't
/r/seduction14/01/25 05:54 AM
17

This. Rave culture often involves people that just wanna vibe by themselves on a dance floor. Even if a girl does dance with you, it doesn't mean she intends on doing anything more later on. Know your environment, it creates less confusion.
/r/seduction02/01/25 07:31 AM
16

Partners are supposed to be equal. If you put her on a pedestal, she has no choice but to look down at you.
/r/seduction29/08/24 02:38 AM
25

Usually safe, just use your best judgment. If she seems like the type that's kissing different guys or fucking around without protection regularly, skip it
/r/seduction29/06/24 02:30 PM
7

This. And if she mentioned she has a bf, I'd take that as a strong sign she only has platonic intentions with you. Generally there's no reason to mention it if she's looking to fuck around. My advice is to be platonic as well, especially given that you work together (unless she straight up makes a move on you, then it's up to you if you wanna go for it)
/r/seduction12/06/24 07:39 AM
2

Agree, if he did smash, then he gotta deliver.
/r/seduction25/03/24 06:13 PM
2

Nah, not a different thing. It's superficial, yes, but he was looking to meet the woman that he saw in the pics, not a much less attractive version. A woman would be entitled to walk out on a man that catfished her, he's within his right to reneg on paying for her Uber
/r/seduction25/03/24 08:30 AM
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Well, I think you answered the question in your post then. You clearly rate yourself below the "competition" yet only set your sights for women that you deem as high standards. That being said, there's nothing wrong with being happily single. Keep living your life and dating whatever women you have a shot with, you'll figure out what's best for you in time.
/r/seduction29/02/24 02:52 AM
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If hookup culture isn't a thing there, I wouldn't be surprised
/r/seduction10/05/23 08:37 PM
1

It's a great icebreaker for sure.
/r/seduction10/05/23 12:47 AM
9

This is actually very true
/r/seduction10/05/23 12:46 AM
10

Lol, this is anywhere in the world.
/r/seduction10/05/23 12:44 AM
4

For me, it's not even about going out. Dating apps are where I get most of my hits (once a week easy), although granted when I'm out with friends, I'm not actively looking to pick up women
/r/seduction10/05/23 12:42 AM
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Respectfully disagree with this on many levels. Miami has wayyy more superficial women than NY, can't comment on Vegas (although I would imagine women going there for fun would make it easy). LA also came off as more difficult to me, plus logistics there absolutely suck, and everything closes early. NY you have a ton of fun options and rooftops in Manhattan that are not invite only, you also have fun dance bars and clubs that are not exclusive. You have Brooklyn which in itself is a great place …
/r/seduction09/05/23 06:29 PM
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True, but going the numbers game, there are far more 8-10 girls in NY as well. It's not remotely impossible to pick them up if you know how to dress (which can be as simple as a nice fitted tshirt and skinny jeans, inexpensive loafers). It's not like you'll find a plethora 8-10s in butt-fuck middle America, and there are a TON of 7s here that are very easy to meet through examples that OP provided
/r/seduction09/05/23 06:25 PM
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Don't listen to him. I'm not going to tell you whether or not you should travel for sex, but you will get laid in Thailand, even if you have to pay for it. There are massage parlors that will do the job for you, you can simply call or email anonymously or whatever and ask if they provide those services. You can even ask on certain Thailand specific subs which massage parlors etc are safe and to your liking. As dirty as I feel for helping you with this, you're young, go experience whatever you wa…
/r/seduction16/08/22 08:37 PM
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You can also finesse a way to ask in conversation. Loose example, talk about how you're enjoying Thailand, and joke that you didn't expect to see so many Ladyboys, and that it's hard to tell some of them apart from real women. Ideally you'd like to find out they were born female before you bring them back to your room
/r/seduction16/08/22 08:34 PM
6

Pick out a bar that's known for cougars or older women. Some cities have bars that are known to have cougars stop by looking for younger guys as well
/r/seduction14/07/22 09:06 PM
3

Lol, for all you know he used the number "1000" in an exaggerated sense and the guy you replied to took it literally
/r/seduction12/07/22 10:57 PM
1

Hence why I said if the lady has no objections. There are ways around it. Vape, edibles etc. And to my experience, anyone that has an issue with the smell comes around once they develop an appreciation for weed.
/r/seduction28/01/22 07:27 AM
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If the lady is down, then absolutely. But it does hinder my game, specifically with wit and humor. Once I've dated a girl a couple of times, and we're comfortable to just hang out and do nothing, I'm down to smoke anytime
/r/seduction27/01/22 09:24 PM
39

Agree with this, specifically to OP. Your observations are spot on and your instincts are spot on
/r/seduction11/06/21 07:17 AM
2

Just came across this post and read your edit. Really happy for you, love hearing these kinds of stories, it melts the romantic side of me, which has faded significantly as I've grown older and become more involved with flings and short term dating since the majority of relationships I see around me don't really come off as magical, and I'm at an age where I'm seeing divorces and no chemistry relationships. I was concerned about you putting her on a pedestal too, but the fact that you added your…
/r/seduction01/10/19 03:51 PM
2

Tell her ... "I'm really happy if you stay over ... but you're kind of hot. So if you're going to stay in this bed, promise me you're going to stay on your side and don't start anything 'cause I don't want it to get awkward. Otherwise you have to sleep on the couch." What are your thoughts on the shy and image conscious girls that won't give you an opening because they don't wanna look like a slut or may think you're not interested in her. I definitely see this working with some girls, but I thi…
/r/seduction24/09/19 08:04 PM
1

As I said in my other response to you, they just met, and the girl doesn't have feelings for them. Completely different situation
/r/seduction24/09/19 07:59 PM
4

She legit said they're just friends. I get what you're saying but women that don't wanna lead on guys they just met are aware of sending mixed signals. She should learn to communicate better. OP already made it clear he's confused by her signals and behavior
/r/seduction24/09/19 06:01 PM
29

He barely knows her mate, it's not like they're bffs or go back years. You don't do this with someone you barely know
/r/seduction24/09/19 05:14 PM
105

I agree with this. She can make a case where you're a dick because she just wanted to cuddle as a friend and you wanted more, but let's be real, most friends don't hang like this, and you are entirely justified in saying that she was sending mixed signals. Most importantly, your bold move to tell her to leave was a good one, because she'll either come back and be open to engaging sexually or she won't come back. Either way, you're not wasting anymore of your time on her and her games.
/r/seduction24/09/19 04:16 PM
1

I appreciate that. I think my concern is knowing whether or not I would like to commit to someone for life. But I've decided not to overthink it and just go with the flow. If I see someone I like, I'll commit to them and probably date for AT LEAST 2 years before considering marriage.
/r/seduction12/08/19 09:32 PM
4

Definitely an issue I feel like I'm facing in my early 30s. I'm respectful to women, whatever my intentions with them, but pulling a girl is not difficult. When I fall for someone though, I definitely get more attached and don't have the best luck in making it last, which is one issue; but another issue also is my concern that living in a very metropolitan city with millions of single, attractive women, I may have gotten so used to not being committed long term, that I may struggle to commit lon…
/r/seduction12/08/19 08:14 PM
1

Good advice. You live and you learn, it takes a couple of heartbreaks for some people, but OP will be fine
/r/seduction18/07/19 03:07 PM
2

Amazing advice. And like you, I don't know how people balance relationships and the life that they had when single. I don't know if I could do it either
/r/seduction25/06/19 11:03 PM
9

OP, you described me in a nutshell. I have no problems meeting women, hooking up or even having ongoing fwb relationships. But once I get into a relationship with a girl, I clearly have no idea on whether I'm too available for them, or not being a good bf, which usually leads to me being super chatty via text with them (generally on work days when I'm not super preoccupied). It's backfired on me too and as you said, made me lose my appeal to the women that were originally interested in me.
/r/seduction25/06/19 10:58 PM
6

She's telling you explicitly not to date her. It's anyone's guess, but I think she's keeping you on a leash for a an evening where she's bored and looking for a free meal
/r/seduction08/04/19 06:56 PM
22

Chill, he's 16 and experienced less in life
/r/seduction19/12/18 09:51 PM
143

Guessed something like this based on your post. Listen, you're going to meet a million women, and you're probably going to break some of their hearts, and you're probably going to have your heart broken many more times too. I can't comment on your friend or your crush, as I dont have the full story on your relationship with them, and how loyal they are to you ​ If you've been through anything like this before, you'll probably remember how much it sucked back then too, and how you thought you'd n…
/r/seduction19/12/18 08:47 PM
114

Honest question, how old are you, and how many girls have you dated? It'll help me cater my answer to you better
/r/seduction19/12/18 08:33 PM
0

Did you not consider this before making a Tinder profile?
/r/seduction08/11/18 06:45 PM
5

To add some "hobbies", checking out a new bar/restaurant or exploring neighborhood events/attractions are a good way to meet women. And once you get more comfortable with any in particular, tv/shows and movies are some great hobbies to get together and watch, particularly shows that are currently going on that you can watch together (Walking dead etc.). I don't do this, but I know men that get bonus points for watching shows like The Bachelor with their significant others etc. Your hobbies don't…
/r/seduction02/11/18 08:13 PM
2

I think the men that complain are the ones that are looking for super hot women, for a fun one nighter, or a fun physical relationship. Sadly, these kinds of women aren't high quality, so while OP's post is great advice for those looking for a lifetime partner, it unfortunately won't help with those looking to seduce women for a one nighter.
/r/seduction27/04/18 08:31 AM
17

It's downvoted because "Who doesn't have 2 smartphones". Come on, acting like the average person has more than one smartphone?
/r/seduction12/04/18 03:31 PM
20

Unless your or her breath is off point, in which case it completely kills tension for the night
/r/seduction08/09/17 02:14 PM
2

I think we're on the same page buddy. I never said you need to be rich to pull girls. I am simply saying that being rich or good looking makes it a lot easier, but if you aren't either, then you need game. The difference is that most rich and good looking people are either born into rich families or are blessed with good genes. Game is something that you have to learn on your own, and that's the one thing that no one should complain about since we're all capable of developing this method of gett…
/r/seduction25/07/17 04:54 PM
0

To be an ethnic minority, ugly and short is more of a disadvantage than just being ugly and short in general... This is not to say that being white gives you an advantage, it's just that in most countries, and with most races, white guys aren't as unsought after as say Indians, Asians, Black people etc. But race isn't the issue here, cuz there will always be girls that will give you a chance if you know how to approach them. Fact of the matter is, that if you're ugly and short, and you aren't ri…
/r/seduction25/07/17 02:52 PM
13

It's not indecent to escalate the flirting and kino though. There's a fine line between making moves and being sleazy. Don't bitch out of taking a chance cuz you're concerned about not being decent OP, you've got nothing to lose here. Not taking your chances is worse than taking a chance and failing
/r/seduction01/07/17 09:20 AM
5

Would you like to engage in meaningless conversation with me, before we depart from this location and engage in the act of reproduction?
/r/seduction19/06/17 05:03 PM
6

May be good for OP's self esteem.
/r/seduction28/03/17 05:52 PM
12

I'd argue there's a case for letting her know it wasn't cool. If done right it gains her (subconscious) respect for you and elevates your position as someone she can't simply do that to
/r/seduction28/03/17 05:40 PM
7

"Keep a condom in your wallet" Doesn't this damage the lube in a condom? Also, here's another talking point. I have a small apartment in Manhattan, in a nice building though which definitely sets up the mood and comfort levels when bringing a girl back. My apt though is on the basic side. Good furniture, but small... and I have a great view which helps. But funny thing, a friend of mine brought up how you could argue that while I'm paying a lot of money for the great view, it does little to add …
/r/seduction22/11/16 07:41 PM
26

So... ever been raped through a religious meeting about being addicted to politics, by your ex partner?
/r/seduction17/11/16 03:16 PM
1

Was expecting a picture of a penis head.
/r/seduction18/08/16 09:51 PM
1

I'll get my condoms ready.
/r/seduction27/01/16 10:17 PM
6

So Chinese/Japanese/Korean guys will be drowning in pussy in places like Alabama
/r/seduction27/01/16 09:56 PM
71

It's usually genetic
/r/seduction04/12/15 06:21 PM
40

No need to be a bitch about it
/r/seduction04/12/15 06:21 PM
1

Clothes aren't necessary but they definitely help as a turn on. But there are a million other ways you can turn on a man. Honestly, if he's your partner then you can just simply do slutty things and foreplay to get him in the mood. Start kissing/touching/playing with him while he's doing something. Seducing your male partner is hardly an issue, unless you think the problem is something super deep like not knowing if he's attracted to you
/r/seduction30/11/15 09:40 PM
1

What if your pet's name is of a different gender to you?
/r/seduction17/09/15 01:58 PM
1

Being wasted was a defense mechanism for me for when I'd strike out. Not that I'd strike out in an embarrassing fashion or anything, but it just would reassure me that if anyone was watching they'd laugh it off because I was clearly drunk. I used to also enjoy getting wasted because in college it would be a great way to get women's attention and make them laugh. But now, as someone who enjoys an appropriate amount of alcohol that allows me to retain my wit and charm, and confidently approach a g…
/r/seduction09/07/15 08:04 PM
15

They're both good with head.
/r/seduction04/02/15 07:36 PM
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