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at first I was wtf but now this is my favourite thread on this sub.. and it’s the sub (amongst all i follow) that has a good dialogue and interesting ideas on the topic
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 04:49 AM
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wow, I think your analysis is spot on. And I agree that marrying slightly older keeps the powe balance in your favour.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 03:00 PM
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At 11-12 I became aware of male sexual attention (ie. male classmates) At 13 I was receiving overt attention from adult males. I was catcalled and asked out regularly. And one day I was followed off the bus by a man who asked me to have sex. I will never let my teen daughter walk or take the bus alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/20 01:55 AM
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Now even living together is not even required. A court ruling in Ontario recently awarded spousal support to a women who had been dating a rich dude for 10 years. Court ruled he treated her like a wife.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/20 06:45 PM
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you mean *desperate dudes don’t care men with options will fuck pretty women that also like them
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/20 06:31 PM
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maybe they don’t need emotional investment but they sure get off on it... when you feed his ego and make him feel like a king, his interest / attachment to you is different. I think men prefer sex with women who are into them, not women who just let them fuck. But correct me if I’m wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/20 06:06 PM
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no men really resent you when you try to build them. even if they tell you they want your help and support. they will ultimately see you as a nagging and pushy woman that is never satisfied. even though you were trying to push them to their best. even if they became their best, they won’t reward you for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/20 03:43 PM
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thats not a secret. smart women know to maintain the allure, and dont give a man too much of yourself or access to your life until hes locked in.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/20 03:07 PM
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agreed.. I have encountered red pills who elevate their looks and game to Chad levels but they didn’t have the “swag” or attitude of a genetic Chad. Real Chads have an endearing cockiness about them.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/20 12:12 AM
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I have built character and inner strength that attracts really good men. But thank you for your concern.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/20 11:54 AM
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Okay. I see what you are saying now. I don’t disagree. If a less attractive man would have made such valiant efforts it would likely made no difference to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/20 11:06 AM
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I’m not sure what this expression means. But if you’re asking if I think well of myself, then yes. I respect myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/20 11:05 AM
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I said he “packed on some muscle” operative word - some. And he stayed lean doing it. he didn’t achieve a massive transformation. Just slow and steady gains from hard training and an ultra clean diet. Hence why the effort is impressive. I have been lifting weights myself for over 10 years. And both my previous boyfriends were iron addicts. So I know what are reasonable natural gains in a few months. sorry to hear your progress has been slower. Everyone is different and genetics might be a factor…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/20 09:07 AM
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Okay fair enough, I wouldn’t have value his effort if I didn’t find him attractive in the first place. My post was more rebutting the OPs initial position that women aren’t attracted to hard work, just the end result. But that’s not the case for me. I judge men on their substance. Because end results can come and go, but do they have the traits to rebuild if necessary?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/20 03:45 AM
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See my comment above. Despite his looks I was not interested in him. He needed to demonstrate effort for me to consider having sex with him.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/20 02:30 AM
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He was hot enough to fuck and I didn’t want it. I am not moved by looks alone. But I also get a lot of male attention so I can be choosy. He was “unattractive” and “unfuckworthy” to me until he put in the hard work. His hard work will get him laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/20 02:30 AM
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He was already physically attractive before the gym burst. He is blonde, blue eyed with a chiseled jaw, strong and lean with abs. We made out but I stopped there bc I didn’t see any relationship future and I don’t do casual sex. So he was already good enough to have sex with. The hard work made the difference in me seeing him as relationship material. He’s still in progress so he’s not even hit “success” yet. It’s a huge turn on to see a man work hard at something and chase goals.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/20 01:05 AM
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I am woman who is turned on by a disciplined hard working man. I currently have a dude chasing me. He has transformed his body in the last few months to appease me. (He was leaner before and found out I like a more thicker physique, so he packed on some muscle). I do love his “success” - he’s a muscular 6’2” with <10% BF. But I am most turned on by the fact that he did all that hard work for me. I did not consider him a relationship material before. But I am absolutely ready to commit to him bc …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/20 09:59 PM
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100% agree. A below average looks dude CAN be attractive for a one night stand type of instant lust, if his body is in good fucking shape. But most won’t put in the kind of effort and dedication this requires.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/20 03:07 PM
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not that I know of. I was young but I can recall my grandma, aunts, and mom getting slapped or punched in the course of a discussion or argument. Maybe argument got heated or the woman “back talked” and then they were quickly put in their place. This was completely normal, regular, and could even happen in large social gatherings etc. Then the other men would tell the man to calm down and the women would take the hurt woman away. Or if neighbours heard the commotion they would come to break it u…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/20 02:32 AM
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Absolutely correct. There’s nothing really they can explain away when you’ve observed enough shitty behaviour. The leaving door open is just leaving yourself open to manipulation or hurt.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/20 12:59 AM
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I am not sure about why men behaved that way, but I can only speak from personal experience that most of the older women experienced some form of abuse by their husbands “back in the day”.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/20 12:57 AM
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Literally happened to me this weekend. Noticed that our texting became less frequent and me doing most of the talking. So I blocked him on chat and unfollowed on IG. He messaged me to ask why I removed from everything. I (stupidly) decided to respond to him. It was a short matter of fact answer “you weren’t giving the same energy I was giving, so I moved on”. Then he went on to give excuse and explanation for his behaviour. And then re-engaged with me again only to not answer me at all. He just …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/20 10:46 PM
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Lol no. Men will abuse and control women when society allows for it. If you are younger than 40, then you have no idea of the social norms that existed. Most men today don’t want to beat and control women, bc they have been taught not to. Prior to the 70s, they absolutely exerted physical and financial control over women. You couldn’t even say no to sex with your husband.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/20 02:47 PM
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Thank you.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/20 11:36 AM
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What is a UMC?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/20 08:53 AM
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My mom was a homemaker and my dad worked an extremely prestigious job. My mom had a maid, gardener etc but she also sported black eyes and didn’t have spending money. She had to steal vegetables from her own garden to sell it at the market to buy underwear. No fucking thank you to that kind of “security”. OP is glossing over what pre-feminism life was like for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/20 08:52 AM
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*Some types of men are hated. Women and even FDS women, don’t hate all men. Men will never collectively strike against society or women, en mass. You will always have some men that undermine the greater good, for their personal gain if that means more pussy for them. Blame your competitive nature. Men have always been their own enemy.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/20 01:57 PM
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My point is that there already is a movement that encourages women to avoid abusive assholes
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/20 04:45 AM
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FDS warns women how to identify and avoid potentially abusive, overly “alpha” men. But FDS is frowned upon as toxic?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/20 03:19 AM
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Disagree. Good quality women admire discipline and in fact we measure men by it. I eschewed party boys to commit to a disciplined man. I saw the potential in him when he was a broke young man. Spent my 20s finishing 2 degrees, buying a house, getting married and having kids. I helped him get thru school and his career started. Then he left for a 21 year old. ^ this is the answer to your question. Why should women giveaway her prime to that one man when he may ditch her, 10-20 years later? 10/10 …
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/20 05:16 PM
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This 100%. Take the best and sane wisdom from both approaches.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/20 06:57 PM
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I don’t look for height first. I look for strength...traps, legs and forearms; physiques that show power. 5’9” wrestler > 6’2” runner but all things equal, taller guy is more appealing. 6’3” powerlifter or football physique is the swoon
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/20 05:14 PM
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I love cooking and cleaning, taking care of my kids and my dude. I get immense pride out of seeing them gobble down a huge meal I prepared. I cook everything from scratch and use whole foods as much as possible. I am very particular about a healthy diet. Whole foods and balanced macros, and nothing processed. And I am meticulous house cleaning, I could never have a house cleaner, none are up to my standards. But I’m also a fiercely independent, highly educated woman with a career. Have zero desi…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/20 04:21 AM
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TRP only works on women who have never been with real chads, or are young/naive/not bright. The rest of us quickly spot the chad-wannabes.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/20 08:57 PM
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Okay.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/20 05:18 AM
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Sorry not true... women will be jealous of other woman with the sexy ass husband. Period. Regardless of his employment status. You’re equating earning ability to being alpha.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/20 04:23 AM
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There are chads that won’t mind being a stay at home husband who gets to hit the gym all day. If he’s tall, fit and good looking. Why would she need to fuck anyone else? Alpha women don’t need an “alpha” man. They just need a Chad that fucks them good and makes other women jealous.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/20 04:03 AM
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You post is the first time I’ve realized the each sex generally wants to be desired in the manner in which they evaluate the other sex. I feel so duh. Lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/20 10:10 PM
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Men get a whole damn human being for free; they don’t live with the physical and mental scars of childbirth. But they mad bc when they have to pay child support to the woman who enabled them to have a genetic legacy. The audacity, for real.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/20 06:15 PM
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But it’s the congruent example of how women can get screwed over in marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/20 06:10 PM
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Isn’t this what men want tho? Give us your youth and chastity and we will provide for you?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/20 06:08 PM
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Thank you for this post. I made a similar point but you stated it far more brutally. We don’t don’t get our bodies back.ever. Annndd women are considered damaged goods for being a divorced mother with kids. Divorced men do not have the same social stigma.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/20 05:37 PM
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but that’s different from your original point about stimulating conversation. I do agree with you tho that leave men when they don’t feel desired / adored.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/20 05:30 PM
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Agreed
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/20 05:28 PM
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this is less common. Usually the case the couple decides to invest in the mans future (for the mutual benefit) while the woman works and takes care of the kids
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/20 03:38 PM
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nope not uncommon. I came into the marriage with 2 degrees and down payment for our house. He got half of everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/20 03:37 PM
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Lol, I doubt the men are leaving bc the conversation sucks.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/20 03:35 PM
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Agreed. There can breach of marital trust from both genders and it ruins lives. I would even argue that a man leaving a woman after she’s given him her youth and kids, is slightly worse (only slightly) offence than man losing his money in divorce. He can make more money back, she can’t buy her youth or pre-baby body.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/20 03:32 PM
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How you feel if you married a man while you were young, had his kids and supported him thru school. Then once he “made it”, left you for the younger woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/20 02:31 PM
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so would you include a BJ in a woman’s N count?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/20 05:13 PM
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women can have self control when we are in presence of chads.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/20 04:36 AM
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Anyone, regardless of gender who uses false pretence or implied feelings to get sex or resources from another person has taken advantage of that person. Equivalent for men.. a woman who keeps going on dates when she isn’t really attracted to the man but likes the expensive dinners and nice outings. She shows him enough interest to imply she’s interested in him, but doesn’t plan to ever have sex or a relationship with him... she’s taken advantage of him.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/20 07:42 PM
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They didn’t grow apart. He cheated on her. In his eyes, glamorous Lauren Sanchez is the upgrade that be deserves now that he’s uber wealthy. This is the idea behind starter wife— men who become successful later on, won’t necessarily reward the woman who gave them her youth and support. On another note, Lauren has worked her way up the rich dude ladder; she must have some serious FDS game going on.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/20 10:15 PM
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She was indeed the wife that believed in him and supported him when he was nothing. She’s a starter wife. If the laws weren’t in place to ensure she got her fair share, she would have been left with nothing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/20 06:04 PM
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I feel attacked.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/19 03:51 AM
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women’s worth was not always tied to a man. This is a relatively new phenomenon on human existence. We used to have separate but equal roles in pre-agrarian society.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/19 07:05 PM
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holdover from religious/patriarchal culture. In order for each man to be allocated a wife, society had to shame women into settling
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/19 07:03 PM
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But if you plan to have kids, raising them with a partner is absolutely much easier. (Don’t need to be married tho)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/19 03:30 PM
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I actually suspected Russia or Eastern Europe bc I think Russian women are the baddest bitches. I live in Toronto which is a very multicultural city so you get to know all the worlds cultures pretty well. Russian women are the perfect balance of femininity and savage.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/19 05:34 AM
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/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/19 05:33 AM
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These are all incredible gems. Thanks for sharing. Do you mind if I ask what country your dad’s family is from?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/19 04:59 AM
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The red pill was the original, stemming from e idea of men rejecting mainstream advice about dating and “taking the red pill” to really understand the “true” nature of women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/19 07:15 AM
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I got carded by a late 30s server, (I’m early 40s) bc I was buying beer and out with my teen daughter. He was shocked when he realized I was OLDER than him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/12/19 12:24 AM
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For me, even an intense make out session, can leave me attached. I have to monitor myself prudently.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/19 03:29 AM
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And now we have even more of an excess glut of men in today’s society. Nature births 106 males to every 100 females (“the natural birth ratio”). Nature assumes men will die hunting or taking risks, and things will even out. Well our modern society is devoid of daily risk such as war, famine, or diseases. So the natural ratio has been screwed up, and now we as women have to wade thru the mess.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/11/19 04:59 AM
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Yesss this is why I don’t / can’t do casual sex. I “bond” too easily and start romanticizing a future with the man. Don’t underestimate the power of oxytocin in your body. It hits some of us way stronger than others.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/11/19 04:37 AM
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On dying alone.. ladies, you can die alone even after you commit your whole life to a relationship. my grandma was married at 15 yrs old. She gave her whole life to 9 kids, 50 grandkids, and 20 great-grand kids. She put up with my alcoholic, abusive grandpa for 65 years!!! He died last year. And now she is ALONE. All that bullshit she put up with and she’s still alone. But she’s also finally free. She doesn’t have to take care of a sick man. And she gets to go to the casino as much as she wants.…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/19 08:41 PM
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one of the best gifts you can give your daughter is your masculine affection. The more you praise her and raise her up, the less she will seek male validation in her teen years. allow her to assert herself and tell you “no”. This will give her the strength when she’s older, to stand up to shitty men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/19 12:40 AM
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100% they know right away.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/10/19 11:34 PM
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you’re prob right and not misreading it. Maybe I was too harsh with my post title. I just had a visceral reaction to her post. So thanks for brining a more tempered view. I’m having a hard time seeing the point of it? She’s being a fuck toy for this guy but she really does want want a regular relationship. How will she open herself up to a relationship she deserves if she’s attached to her current situation? I have no problem with her kink, but I strongly feel that’s something a man earns the ri…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/10/19 01:06 PM
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Haha right as if it’s a complement. Nah, I just look good, period.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/10/19 12:37 PM
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they sooo mad that women over 40 can get matches and messages. They blame thirsty men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/10/19 12:24 PM
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Yesss me too!! I’ve been bingeing through the posts in the past 2 hours. My new fave place. I’m 43 and just gathered the self worth to leave a toxic relationship of 8 years. It took me a long time and just today I made a big move toward that. And boom I find this sub tonight Looking forward to sharing and learning with you ladies.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/10/19 12:23 AM
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