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| 1 | I hate the fact that men have to play games with women to get them interested. It's so exhaustingIt’s not a game. It’s called getting to know each other and being considerate of others. If it feels like a game, it’s only because you are fooling yourself. Not saying this to trivialize your feelings, I really feel this is true. All the signs that she wasn’t romantically interested were likely there plain to be seen, but you played a game in which obvious signs were reinterpreted to mean something else. | /r/seduction | 27/06/21 08:42 AM |
| 2 | In response to the "do girls like muscles" postDo men like women with nice bodies? Does a nice butt, great legs matter? Well, same for women with men. Women don't want the same exact things men want, like they don't want wide hips, but of course they're attracted to a nice body. | /r/seduction | 12/06/21 06:53 PM |
| 4 | Older guys, what is some advice you can give to younger guys?Be interested in people. This is the secret to not just picking up women, but doing well at jobs, and making new friends. Be a GOOD LISTENER. You want somebody to be comfortable around you? Be a good, sincere listener. You want somebody to like you? Be interested in them. Don't cut them off. Don't constantly be waiting to interject with your version of their story. Don't judge them or try to explain to THEM what they are probably trying to say. Just be a generous listener, chuckle at their jokes… | /r/seduction | 09/11/20 01:40 AM |
| 2 | How do you guys pickup highly sarcastic women that seem bitchy when approached?Do you like sarcastic women? Like if you like girls with brown hair, is it the behavioral equivalent of brown hair, something you find wildly attractive? Cause if it is, you won't have to PRETEND to find it delightful, you will find it intrinsically delightful and it won't be hard for you to be agreeable. You use the word "bitchy," so I assume you're not really a fan. Look, I know you're asking for advice, and maybe you think the sarcasm is the most outer layer of her defenses and once you penet… | /r/seduction | 04/10/20 05:05 AM |
| 5 | Besides confidence, what qualities attract women?Be well groomed. Good haircut, nice shoes, fashionable clothes that fit. This is probably the easiest and quickest way to make yourself more attractive by a LOT. Although I admit, if you're used to wearing football jerseys and cargo shorts everywhere, it can be a mind fuck to dress more like a metrosexual. Guys will date any type of girl generally if he finds her attractive. Preppy, goth, hip hop, etc. But girls often see guys as a fashion accessory on some level and are wayyyyyy less likely to … | /r/seduction | 18/07/20 07:48 PM |
| 5 | Does height matter?One of my friends used to say this a lot. He saw height requirements on dating apps. But in person, he always did great. The thing is, men and women have requirements, but they're almost never true deal makers and breakers. For example, I can say I want a girl who likes traveling, 90's R and B, Asian food, Eric Andre Show, etc. And it might seem pretty specific, but I could end up not vibing with 100 girls who truly meet those "requirements." Height, hair color, education, etc, all pales in comp… | /r/seduction | 11/07/20 08:24 PM |
| 1 | Does height matter?Height matters just like ethnicity matters, eye color, having nice skin, style, money, etc. So yeah, it matters. But there are a LOT of girls who don't want to be next to a giant, so for a 5'2" girl, you would be fine. There are tons of girls who will think 5'6" is fine, all else being equal. What I mean by that is that all else being equal -- two guys equally funny, smart, considerate, romantic, rich -- sure, maybe the girl wouldn't mind taking the one who is 5'10 or 6'1". Likewise, all else be… | /r/seduction | 11/07/20 08:17 PM |
| 1 | Jay Cutler ain't having itI was expecting a much bigger house for that kind of money in Nashville. Must come with a lot of land? | /r/PussyPassDenied | 05/05/20 12:08 AM |
| 2 | Short Asian dude pulls tall 10/10 blonde. If can do it, you can too.I think you're trying to sell todd v here. My impression, too. Because of the tone of the writing, not the general premise. | /r/seduction | 25/07/19 08:09 PM |
| 3 | FR - Girls DO care about looksWe really need to kill this ''girls don't care about looks'' stuff. I once went around some bars with a male model. Friend of a friend. Girls were acting stupid around him. It was real eye opening. Girls definitely care about looks but with a few key differences from how guys care about looks. Like guys generally don't care about fashion that much. A guy who wears cargo shorts and hockey jerseys everywhere will date a girl who wears Chanel... or has tattoos and wears vintage dresses... or a girl… | /r/seduction | 20/07/19 04:17 PM |
| 0 | The 12 Most Attractive Qualities A Man Could Show...This is one of the best, most realistic posts I've seen here. | /r/seduction | 04/05/19 12:04 AM |
| 12 | Why is confidence so attractive to women?Because deep down inside everybody is unsure of themselves and feel like a fraud, so when somebody appears and seems sure of themselves, it makes them think this person can help them navigate through life safely and protect them. I've seen this in my career, too. A person who throws out B- level ideas with certainty and confidence is going to get listened to and respected more than somebody throwing A- ideas out apologetically and with doubt in their voice. Everybody is thinking "thank you for m… | /r/seduction | 25/04/19 03:11 AM |
| 5 | The Ultimate Guide to TinderNot saying everybody with this attitude is like this, but guys who say this tend to want girls out of their league. I know a lot of guys who would have more success if they wanted the female equivalent of them. But they want a hot girl who is getting hundreds of messages a day. They think hot girls are shallow, but if a chubby, poorly dressed, average woman approached them they would be completely uninterested. | /r/seduction | 27/01/19 03:33 AM |
| 3 | I’m a college guy being “set up” with a girl by mutual friends. Any tips to avoid awkwardness?Pretend she's the sister of your best friend or boss at work. You've been asked to show her around a bit, she's bored. | /r/seduction | 18/01/18 08:46 PM |
| 10 | 19yo virgin. Advice?Your hair is beautiful. Thats an interesting necklace. Nails look amazing. Sorry, but in my opinion, all of these suggestions are dangerous. Not saying Elon Musk wouldn't get away with them, but they're all pretty weird. Are you okay just talking to adults... or other guys... or kids... etc? Are you only awkward around girls? If you aren't just awkward with everybody, just girls you're attracted to, then try to pretend they're the younger sister of your best friend or something. Don't make it se… | /r/seduction | 09/11/17 09:06 AM |
| 1 | How did you get better at small talk?He approaches new people with a genuine interested attitude, with the intention to figure them out. The short and bald part made me think we knew the same guy but my friend is married now and isn't into hip hop. But for sure I would like your friend. :) The figure them out part is huge. I think I might have been on the verge of becoming a person who immediately labeled somebody "interesting" or "not interesting" upon meeting them. Not sure what talked me out of it, but at some point I realized s… | /r/seduction | 29/08/17 07:26 PM |
| 2 | How did you get better at small talk?Oh thanks. It came out relatively coherent thankfully. Haha | /r/seduction | 29/08/17 04:43 AM |
| 151 | How did you get better at small talk?I get extremely bored EXTREMELY fast.... I am kinda weird and zany. This is not meant to be an insult. This is meant to be actionable feedback. Don't take yourself so seriously. There are a million people out there with poor social skills who have decided to glorify their inadequacy, and that's a very dangerous trap to fall into. The combo of "I get bored easily" and "I'm zany" leads me to believe that you are only comfortable being the center of attention, acknowledged for your zaniness, and ar… | /r/seduction | 28/08/17 09:10 PM |
| 2 | I got brutally rejected twice regarding race last night. It actually hurt.I would like to know if OP has a thing for Asian girls. Seems like a lot of guys do. | /r/seduction | 28/05/17 11:01 PM |
| 3 | Which do you think is better? Dating girls you aren't attracted to? Or being a loner?So its like my choices are be alone or date a fat chick. I would not date the fat chicks and spend time becoming the type of guy better looking girls want to date. For example, work out... get a better hair cut... dress nicer (nothing baggy)... nice shoes... maybe learn to dance... read some good books, have stuff to say. | /r/seduction | 01/01/17 10:12 PM |
| 1 | Study: Women find men who are desired by other women to be more desirableYou, too. :) | /r/seduction | 31/12/16 12:31 AM |
| 2 | Study: Women find men who are desired by other women to be more desirableI hear what you're saying. Sometimes it sucks to have to scroll down for an hour to find a serious reply that clarifies something that was ambiguous in the link. I think the jokes are cool, though. I think they're completely unavoidable, totally natural, and something that sometimes has to be gotten out of the way before more serious discussions can gain traction. So many times I come in to make the most obvious joke and see that it's already been said 3 or 4 times and one of the times is the to… | /r/seduction | 29/12/16 07:27 PM |
| 8 | Study: Women find men who are desired by other women to be more desirableYeah, it controlled for this. They showed a pic of man, had women rate him, then showed a picture of his attractive GF to see if it changed their perception of him. It did. I saw a similar study where they showed women some guys, full body, had them rate them, and then told them how rich they were. The guy who were revealed to be rich and successful were rated higher in a second round. | /r/seduction | 29/12/16 09:40 AM |
| 5 | Study: Women find men who are desired by other women to be more desirableI'm confused as to why you're not interested in some science on the subject. They're in here posting, that implies interest. They could have read every word than decided what they most wanted to post is a joke. It happens. You can joke about things you are interested in. | /r/seduction | 29/12/16 09:38 AM |
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