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Field Report2_brainz/r/seduction23/08/24 05:03 AM
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Suffice it to say it’s not yours
/r/seduction22/07/26 11:48 PM
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They generally don’t care if you don’t have tons of followers. But on the other hand if you DO have tons of followers that will no doubt intrigue them.
/r/seduction21/07/26 12:14 PM
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Yeah that’s what game is. Easier understood than implemented
/r/seduction10/07/26 01:14 PM
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Honestly not sure, just telling you what I’ve heard from women
/r/seduction04/07/26 02:45 AM
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Big yes, long fingers they like, thick fingers they like, anything masculine with the hands they like. Calluses too
/r/seduction03/07/26 02:12 PM
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Idk why, but trust me on this, women love men’s hands
/r/seduction03/07/26 01:11 PM
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Yeah arms and hands are probably the main things on a man’s body that women will actually “check out”
/r/seduction03/07/26 05:47 AM
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Arms, shoulders, hands. Those are the big ones besides face and hair obviously
/r/seduction03/07/26 05:43 AM
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“As many as possible” sounds desperate and lame
/r/seduction16/06/26 09:27 AM
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Does it only happen after you shave you dick?
/r/seduction12/06/26 08:20 AM
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I don’t necessarily think that that’s what people on the “seduction” subreddit are interested in though it is of course a valid option
/r/seduction03/06/26 05:11 PM
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At a certain point you have to just roll the dice
/r/seduction03/06/26 04:35 PM
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Kissing and receiving oral are safe unless she has open herpes sores on / in her mouth lol
/r/seduction03/06/26 02:44 PM
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Not ideal no
/r/seduction30/05/26 12:49 AM
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You don’t. You find different ones. What are you, a high schooler?
/r/seduction30/04/26 04:15 AM
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You’re not listening to me. You have to get them to be interested in you. By seducing them.
/r/seduction30/04/26 04:14 AM
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What is up with all these pathetic passive dudes? Unless you’re a Greek god no random woman is going to actively pursue you. You have to seduce them. JFC it’s right there in the name of the subreddit.
/r/seduction30/04/26 01:48 AM
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It can be as easy as talking to a group of women at a bar. Once one group has accepted to hang out with you (doesn’t have to even be flirty), the other women at the bar will see this and be more receptive.
/r/seduction30/04/26 01:06 AM
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More fun, more interesting, more exciting. End of discussion.
/r/seduction20/02/26 09:38 PM
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He’s probably a furry
/r/seduction16/02/26 03:36 AM
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What is your profession? Are you in shape? Have you tried traveling abroad? Do you have positive male role models?
/r/seduction08/02/26 11:34 PM
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Do people use dating apps in your city? Worth a try if you’re too busy to go outside
/r/seduction04/02/26 05:42 AM
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Shooters shoot
/r/seduction26/09/25 10:08 PM
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You might honestly have a shot if she said that lol
/r/seduction26/09/25 05:32 PM
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Unless your cousin is elite male model level attractive, then it’s his “player” persona and reputation doing most of the heavy lifting here. When pulled off properly (not easy) the girls basically come to you. For some reason Latin guys seem to excel at this method.
/r/seduction05/09/25 04:36 PM
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Good one.
/r/seduction25/11/24 04:32 PM
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True
/r/seduction25/11/24 05:33 AM
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Same. Grass is always greener I suppose.
/r/seduction25/11/24 05:33 AM
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Ask interesting questions that invite long and in-depth responses. Have an answer prepared for if they turn it around on you but often they’re so eager to blab that they won’t remember to. Ex: Let’s say she’s in a healthcare profession. “So, what in your life do you think made you decide to devote yourself to helping others? If you don’t mind sharing, that is.” Sometimes they might say “idk it just happened” but more often than not you’ll get a long story about something from her childhood and a…
/r/seduction23/11/24 08:14 PM
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Yeah these advice here is great for landing “DGs” mostly because it teaches you how to play their games. Less so for more serious types. Some advice here is great in general but a lot of it is tailored to getting with the type of girl that you shouldn’t want to actually date 😂
/r/seduction15/11/24 03:08 AM
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Hahaha well there you go. What I’m describing generally happens with (what I might consider to be) higher quality women. Playing nonchalant doesn’t work so well with them.
/r/seduction14/11/24 10:16 PM
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What I’m saying is, when (some) women are inundated with low interest men, (some) women will come to prefer high-interest men. This doesn’t mean being a doormat or a simp, it means making it clear to her that she has your attention. Just something I’ve noticed.
/r/seduction14/11/24 09:13 PM
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I'm not sure about this. I think some women actually want to see a high (or even, higher than hers) level of interest from you, at least at the beginning, to make sure you're actually interested and not just keeping her for a backup plan. Playing nonchalant can also backfire.
/r/seduction14/11/24 08:05 PM
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IDK where you live, but I had the same thing happening to me recently and I blame the weather out. It's shitty and boring out and people aren't feeling as adventurous. When it was warmer out I was swimming in dates (that didn't flake).
/r/seduction14/11/24 08:02 PM
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I mean, if it’s not within your boundaries don’t do it.
/r/seduction13/11/24 04:11 AM
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Tattoos
/r/seduction12/11/24 09:03 PM
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Well that’s why I try not to get attached without sleeping with them, then at least you know if that part’s mutual (and compatible). You can still have bad sex with someone whose personality and body you like, sometimes.
/r/seduction10/11/24 09:52 PM
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Been there. Unless you’re really dedicated to single life you’ll eventually sleep with a girl you actually like sleeping with. Then you’re back in the relationship/quasi-relationship game again.
/r/seduction10/11/24 09:04 PM
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Yep that’s pretty much exactly what I’m thinking it is. Hasn’t been an issue for me except with women closer to my own age.
/r/seduction04/11/24 12:27 AM
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Yeah I agree, but it’s been happening to me enough that I’m starting to worry if it’s an issue on my end. Maybe because you’re younger you don’t run into it as much.
/r/seduction04/11/24 12:22 AM
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I’ve run into the issue lately where sometimes I’ll be on a date with a woman that’s looking for a relationship and she’s be able to tell (in person, I’m pretty smooth on text) that I’m not ready for something serious and cools off on me. I use jokes like that too, but if it’s a woman that’s been played before by guys pretending they want something serious to get sex then her bullshit meter will be on high alert. Maybe I’m just not attractive enough for it not to matter.
/r/seduction04/11/24 12:01 AM
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A few questions: How do you convince the women that say they’re looking for a relationship to sleep with you? Ideally without straight up lying? Where were you operating (generally, you don’t have to be specific if you don’t want)? Like USA, Europe, LatAm, etc? How tall are you? Why didn’t you just date one of the single ones that you liked, if you do in fact want a relationship?
/r/seduction03/11/24 11:41 PM
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Someone said Finland
/r/seduction01/11/24 05:36 PM
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Depends on the girl. Some girls will want to have the whole pre-date conversation in one night. Others will drag it out over a few days up to a week.
/r/seduction01/11/24 05:35 PM
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Yes, but not every girl will be down to have a stranger over. They tend to be more willing to go to a stranger’s house than vice versa. Basically you should be fine but your success rate may be a little lower.
/r/seduction31/10/24 10:46 PM
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I’ve had plenty of conversations that went like this and ended with getting laid. Not tall. If she’s into you it’ll tend to go pretty smoothly but you still have to know how to flirt.
/r/seduction31/10/24 10:44 PM
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That’s a good thing. It‘a basically a way for them to say they’re attracted to you without saying it outright.
/r/seduction28/10/24 02:54 AM
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Doesn’t matter a whole lot for for getting laid, true. But for securing a relationship with a high value woman professional success definitely matters
/r/seduction23/10/24 12:34 PM
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Agreed. Wary is the perfect term. They’re interested/attracted, but something about you feels off to them.
/r/seduction22/10/24 09:27 PM
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What? Just have sex with her
/r/seduction18/10/24 02:43 AM
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Eh I’ve had some (very minor) success tossing a throwaway message after a few weeks have passed. Don’t get your hopes up though.
/r/seduction08/10/24 09:32 PM
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This is what helped me. It’s usually not even about you but rather her own circumstances
/r/seduction07/10/24 08:13 PM
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Basically he’s saying you have to keep her on her toes with clever conversation and well-timed physical touch
/r/seduction06/10/24 01:51 AM
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Bullseye. I thought I was doing badly after a 3-4 not great dates. So I went on 10 more. Got laid a bunch. It’s partly a matter of trial and error and practice. Consider each failed date a learning opportunity. I would also point out that even if they’re attracted to you that doesn’t necessarily guarantee a second date. You have to be interesting and fun as well (at least for higher quality women). Are you making jokes / teasing her playfully? Are you able to talk about your career/career ambiti…
/r/seduction06/10/24 01:43 AM
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This is really not a large enough sample to make any conclusions from. Sounds like you had one shitty date, and two girl ask if you were a fuckboy. That’s a total of three women. And frankly it sounds like the girl from the double date was into you, which is why she was looking for reassurance that you’re not a dickhead. So we’ve got one or maaaybe two rejections and one girl you went out with that you say you’re still dating (not sure what happened with the double date girl but it sounds like y…
/r/seduction26/09/24 04:34 PM
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You’re 24 dude. Maybe these women are perceiving you as a fuckboy because that’s what they want/hope to be true. Girls love fuckboys that’s why they’re called that, because they get laid a lot.
/r/seduction26/09/24 04:31 PM
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If you’re in a confident and assertive frame of mind (which you clearly are not right now) that will come across in your texts.
/r/seduction26/09/24 01:50 PM
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If all of your friends are telling you you come across as needy you need to immediately stop approaching women and figure that shit out before you continue.
/r/seduction26/09/24 01:40 PM
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The fact that you’re thinking like that is the problem. Step 1. Believe that you’re hot shit Step 2. Go on 20 dates You will have success if you follow these steps.
/r/seduction26/09/24 02:15 AM
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Practice practice practice. If you're getting first dates you're already like 75% of the way there.
/r/seduction25/09/24 03:46 PM
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As others have been saying, you spread out your meetings throughout the week. Save the weekends for your favorites or for girls you're especially excited to meet (they do this as well, trust me). As for texting, I just text them back when they text me. If I haven't heard from one in a while I might message them to keep the lines of communication open or to make plans for the coming week.
/r/seduction25/09/24 03:44 PM
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I think you need to just talk to women and then ask them out if you like them after talking a bit
/r/seduction23/09/24 03:17 AM
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Lol this was me a few weeks ago, but then I got laid. Just be patient and talk to plenty of women.
/r/seduction15/09/24 04:14 AM
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Couldn’t you get more or less the same results without committing to an official relationship?
/r/seduction15/09/24 03:38 AM
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Same. I find that it comes in waves. You can go weeks without much positive female attention, then suddenly you’ll have multiple women chasing you at the same time. The important part is not letting yourself get discouraged during the dry times.
/r/seduction30/08/24 06:49 PM
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Dude, same problem. Tons of quality connections, tons of first dates, but very few second dates. I think it’s a matter of practice, honestly. At least that’s what I’m telling myself. I just started dating in a new city and I’m 3/12 for second dates (3 of them I chose not to pursue so maybe more like 3/9). Not to suck my own dick but I’m a good looking guy with a lot to offer. I think the market is just saturated and a lot of women are already juggling multiple guys and have no room in their sche…
/r/seduction30/08/24 02:51 AM
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Which thing? Trying to get back to their place right away?
/r/seduction24/08/24 05:47 AM
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You’re right, it’s hard to say with the amount of info I gave. I definitely don’t think it’s because they’re getting bored. It’s probably a case by case issue. Girls that want more long term thing think I’m just interested in casual. And the girls that just want something casual think I’m too serious. Because I want something that’s more than casual but less than super serious, and act accordingly. I probably need to better modulate my approach depending on the vibe of each girl. In the future i…
/r/seduction23/08/24 06:34 PM
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Well, I try not to on the first date. I show interest but not in an overly sexual manner. But I’m getting conflicting views on this, some would say the point of the first date is to try to get laid (I don’t necessarily agree) Therefore my approach it to be flirty but not sexual. At most making out. I’m not trying to get them to come over to my place the first time we meet. It might just be a numbers thing or a matter of practice. I’m just getting back into dating after a while of being in a rela…
/r/seduction23/08/24 06:32 PM
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I actually do (try to at least) flirt and escalate and build sexual tension on the first date. We usually end up making out but that’s it.
/r/seduction23/08/24 05:10 PM
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Thanks for the constructive response. That’s more or less what I was thinking, to keep at it and I will improve over time. I’ll check out the blueprint decoded you mentioned.
/r/seduction23/08/24 01:52 PM
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Have a plan where it leads to pulling could you expand on this?
/r/seduction23/08/24 08:12 AM
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Plenty of women who aren’t entirely looks focused are on the apps because that’s the main socially acceptable way for young people to find dates these days. They become more and more looks focused the longer they spend on the apps, though. And you can see how that process occurs with the girl I mentioned who doesn’t particularly care about height yet still filters out exceptionally short men because there are plenty of taller ones available in abundance. I guess I need to specify my parameters h…
/r/seduction23/08/24 05:18 AM
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They do actually exist on the apps believe it or not but even those women that are flexible about looks and are on online dating are operating in an ecosystem where a “better” option is just a few swipes away. I was talking to a girl about this recently. She’s a total sweetheart and was telling me about how she’s never cared about height in real life. But on the apps, why would she ever swipe on a guy that’s 5’5” when there are plenty of other guys that aren’t? She even felt guilty about it, but…
/r/seduction23/08/24 04:39 AM
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Yeah, anytime you’re on a date with an attractive woman, people (men and women) will be curious: How did you manage to get her to go out with you? Are you “good enough” for her? Should I (as a woman) try to find a man like this? Etc.
/r/seduction23/08/24 04:34 AM
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Very poor, moreso than most other Latin American countries
/r/seduction26/07/24 11:59 PM
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