2abetterwhy Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
2	How to accept that you're an attractive guy? Came here to say this. Happy I got beat to it, BRO	/r/seduction	15/09/24 03:45 AM
3	What is exactly emotional labour which women do? One of the rare quality comments on this growing parody of a sub. Cheers!	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/06/23 04:14 AM
8	What is exactly emotional labour which women do? I think you are mixing apples and pears. I'm pretty sure OP was talking about something slightly different, and from a dating POV, i.e. a woman is able to open up and be vulnerable however much she wants, yet when a man does it many women find it repulsive and lose attraction for the man. Unrelated but, not sure how it works from a married person's perspective but damn, what kind of a person have you married if the hubs doesn't participate in remembering birthdays, buying gifts, driving kids to …	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/06/23 02:30 AM
1	Saying that unlike men women today are "happier single" is very disingenuous Pardon the ignorance, but what's the point of this post? Sure, women have more options, especially in an online world full of dating apps and crazy high standards for men to earn X much, be X tall, have X hobbies, etc. These are the cards our generation has been dealt. What will complaining about it solve? And to be fair all throughout history men were the ones stuck in a gender role where they need to prove their worth (not sure where I heard it but men, save their mothers, can never be loved u…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/06/23 01:50 AM
1	Saying that unlike men women today are "happier single" is very disingenuous I think you are vastly generalizing. I can't speak for women, but I don't know many men who are that desperate to have a priority list as you described above. Most guys from my friends circle (including me): good relationship > casual hookups/fwb > single Bad relationship isn't even up for consideration.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/06/23 01:42 AM
–	CMV : Men assume a woman to be attractive, and are more forgiving of negative traits. Women assume men to be unattractive and try and find the cracks between all the positive traits I wouldn't necessarily label women as prizes. And you're looking at the "prize" from the wrong angle - it can be a stable relationship, someone to root for you through thick and thin, laughters, cries, and everything in between. If you're into renting hot girls that leave afterwards, then by all means disregard everything I said. Edit: grammar	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/06/23 07:36 AM
–	CMV : Men assume a woman to be attractive, and are more forgiving of negative traits. Women assume men to be unattractive and try and find the cracks between all the positive traits The singles market nowadays is one big competition between men. The best-looking, fittest, wealthiest, etc. men get the hottest girl (I'm overgeneralizing a bit, but if a man has absolutely nothing going for himself, no woman in history has ever went for a guy like that - the reason being purely biological and hardwired into our brains for hundreds thousands of years) It's always been like this, but with the rise of dating apps (and the fact that most people use them nowadays) the balance of pow…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/06/23 07:07 AM
0	CMV: We should have a Super Marriage concept where divorce is illegal The only way out is death. You trying to get the already high suicide rates even higher? What's the point of doing a super marriage if you went past the 7-year itch? And since people love throwing the word "social construct" so much nowadays, to whole concept of a materialistic marriage (marriage in general) is one huge social construct and one of the biggest marketing plots in history. You think men were dumb enough just 100-150 years ago to spend some insane numbers on a ring? SuperWeddings …	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/05/23 08:35 AM
3	Opinion on dating for males- from a lonely 24M I was quite sure what the term pity sex would mean, but still had to google it to make sure it wasn't some cool new drug. You mean women are actually willing to give up their bodies when "wimpy and moaning soft-boys" beg for it? And the "wimpy and moaning soft-boys" will rather swallow their pride and take pity sex over staying dry?	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/05/23 08:18 AM
2	In dating, whats the biggest - men/women say they want X, but their actions suggest otherwise? Say they want young women but most guys actually date around their age I feel like most men mean this one though! Most are not able to secure a younger woman.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/05/23 09:16 AM
14	CMV : I think the problem is that whilst people realize they are not special or top 1 percent, deep down, id say over 90 percent of people believe they are AT LEAST in the top 50 percent in some way While I agree with your points, I think the matter is quite the opposite. It's not that people think THEY are the top 1 percentile, but rather, because of being brainwashed by social media and prohibitively retarded standards on SNS, people believe that OTHERS in the actual 1% are average. Following your example, an average woman will probably know she is average, but when she sees an average man, she would probably look at him as the bottom 10%. The same goes for men looking at average women.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/05/23 03:02 PM
3	Is aiming at 50/50 ever going to be fair to women? How about the fact that men run the risk of having their woman divorce them, as 80% of divorces are started by women? The same number being for household violence, where 80% of women are the aggressors? And again the same number goes for child custody being awarded to the mother. Just because a woman carries a kid for 9 months doesn't mean she should by default have custody of it if she is a horrible mother. For household work, I'm not sure where you got that from (or which country you are from)…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/05/23 02:14 PM
–	For men: if you don’t approach women IRL - you have no reason to complain on this sub Thanks for the post man. You sound like someone who's done a fair number of reps with cold approaches. Mind sharing what might be the best openers for a couple of the situations (i.e. the library, park, while hiking, just out walking on the street?) I'm based in Asia though, so women here are way less receptive to cold approaches, but honestly that's why I care even less, cause nobody else is doing it here.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/05/23 11:06 AM
5	Why is most dating advice "for men"? I think most of the stuff has already been said in the comments, especially how virtually any woman, regardless of looks can find a partner (whether it be online, in a bar, church or on the Moon). The three things I'd like to add: Most content online nowadays is connected to money, and the logic goes like this: more searches = more money -> men = more horny (on average) & unable to get laid at the most random whim = more likely to look for partners & less likely to be successful = more likely to…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/05/23 08:15 AM