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| 14 | Is it a bad idea to consider dating a lifelong friend? [M27] [F28] | Logistics | 2bitgunREBORN | /r/seduction | 06/08/25 07:48 AM |
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| 1 | What’s the sexiest hairstyle a girl can have?The one that makes her feel sexy. Girls that feel sexy act sexy. | /r/seduction | 06/12/25 03:36 AM |
| 3 | while you wait, other men are sleeping with your dream girlI was also going to point out that while I'm putting money aside for school working two jobs and living with my parents I don't really have a place to take sexual partners other than hotel rooms and on camping trips. I've done both with a fwb but I wouldn't want to do that for someone I'm seriously interested in dating. | /r/seduction | 01/11/25 03:46 AM |
| 0 | Stop trying to have mass appeal / know your type that you succeed with!What if the type of woman that likes me tends to be women I probably shouldn't pursue relationships with? Ie unhappily married nerdy women old enough to be my mother | /r/seduction | 30/08/25 12:39 AM |
| 1 | Is it a bad idea to consider dating a lifelong friend? [M27] [F28]What about being interested in someone negates a friendship? | /r/seduction | 07/08/25 05:48 AM |
| 1 | Is it a bad idea to consider dating a lifelong friend? [M27] [F28]Weren't you saying earlier to not go for it? | /r/seduction | 07/08/25 05:31 AM |
| 1 | Is it a bad idea to consider dating a lifelong friend? [M27] [F28]This one has been in my life since we were in our early teens. It seems the consensus is that to go for it I'd be risking the friendship and she's worth too much to me for that... | /r/seduction | 07/08/25 03:48 AM |
| 1 | Is it a bad idea to consider dating a lifelong friend? [M27] [F28]I mean I'm a bisexual man in his 20s...I'm attracted to probably most people within a 5 year range of myself | /r/seduction | 07/08/25 03:30 AM |
| 1 | Is it a bad idea to consider dating a lifelong friend? [M27] [F28]That makes sense. | /r/seduction | 06/08/25 08:46 PM |
| 1 | Is it a bad idea to consider dating a lifelong friend? [M27] [F28]That makes sense. I've known her since we were 14cand she's moved away a few times over the years but always came back. | /r/seduction | 06/08/25 08:43 PM |
| 1 | Is it a bad idea to consider dating a lifelong friend? [M27] [F28]Not going to lie I'm terrified of moving...I commute out of county and even the state for work | /r/seduction | 06/08/25 08:31 PM |
| 1 | Is it a bad idea to consider dating a lifelong friend? [M27] [F28]Good to know | /r/seduction | 06/08/25 08:02 PM |
| 1 | Is it a bad idea to consider dating a lifelong friend? [M27] [F28]She offered a hookup once when we were in our late teens and I think I embarrassed her a bit when I said no. That was more than a decade ago at this point so it seems irrelevant to me. I would decline a hookup still. I want a relationship. | /r/seduction | 06/08/25 07:55 PM |
| 1 | Is it a bad idea to consider dating a lifelong friend? [M27] [F28]I have found that I feel gross talking to women under 22. They seem child like in a lot of ways | /r/seduction | 06/08/25 07:52 PM |
| 1 | Is it a bad idea to consider dating a lifelong friend? [M27] [F28]Idk what I'd do in a big city. I'm kind of a weird guy. I'm not super socialized, I'm not a performative "country boy" but I do live rural and when I talk to people from cities they tell me I seem super "country", I'm bisexual but I haven't had the opportunity to explore that with anyone. A few people have offered but its always something that I think would be a but much like a coworker wanting me to join him and his woman. | /r/seduction | 06/08/25 07:37 PM |
| 1 | Is it a bad idea to consider dating a lifelong friend? [M27] [F28]I wouldn't harbor something like that. I actually legitmately really liked her ex. He was a fantastic man & honestly I thought he was pretty cute on top of being really good to my friend. | /r/seduction | 06/08/25 07:23 PM |
| 1 | Is it a bad idea to consider dating a lifelong friend? [M27] [F28]Working my ass off between two jobs. Hiking occasionally. Was off work with medical shit for like 7 and a half months from the job that pays more and about 5 months from the other one that I just do for supplemental income. | /r/seduction | 06/08/25 07:14 PM |
| 1 | Is it a bad idea to consider dating a lifelong friend? [M27] [F28]A lot of people in this thread indicate they think it'd end the friendship. I wouldn't want that. | /r/seduction | 06/08/25 07:12 PM |
| 1 | Is it a bad idea to consider dating a lifelong friend? [M27] [F28]We've been friends since we were in our early teens. As a kid I had an actual crush on her. That went away after a few years. Yes I do talk to her. I value her presence in my life a lot. Why would it be devalueing a friendship to want romantic connection? | /r/seduction | 06/08/25 07:02 PM |
| 1 | Is it a bad idea to consider dating a lifelong friend? [M27] [F28]I live outside a town of about 1000 people. Roughly a third of the population are children | /r/seduction | 06/08/25 06:58 PM |
| 1 | Is it a bad idea to consider dating a lifelong friend? [M27] [F28]I can accept not having her as a romantic prospect but I do feel that I have about as good as self esteem as (probably) autistic man in his late 20s can have. I make okay money, have a cat that I love to bits, a loving family, a handful of good friends, a pile of hobbies, and an idea of what I want to do with the rest of my life. I'm just romantically lonely. A few years back I got my heart broken by a girl who did it without a second thought...tried desperately hard for a couple years to have s… | /r/seduction | 06/08/25 01:48 PM |
| 1 | Is it a bad idea to consider dating a lifelong friend? [M27] [F28]Hmmmm | /r/seduction | 06/08/25 01:19 PM |
| 1 | Is it a bad idea to consider dating a lifelong friend? [M27] [F28]What about older women? | /r/seduction | 06/08/25 01:03 PM |
| 1 | Is it a bad idea to consider dating a lifelong friend? [M27] [F28]Every time I talk to a younger woman I feel skeevy. I'm sure there are some out there that are more mature but the ones I've met at coffee shops seem like overgrown middle school girls. | /r/seduction | 06/08/25 12:58 PM |
| 1 | Is it a bad idea to consider dating a lifelong friend? [M27] [F28]Maybe its because I live in a pretty rural area with one of my jobs being in residential mental Healthcare but I legitmately feel like I can't be friends with a lot of the people who live around me because of concerns for professionalism and hipaa | /r/seduction | 06/08/25 11:06 AM |
| 2 | Is it a bad idea to consider dating a lifelong friend? [M27] [F28]Its not so much that the people at work are shallow its that workplace friendships are often shallow. Only so many pecker jokes one can make and laugh about ya know? As for travel...I really enjoy the outdoors but I have a hard time talking to people in public. | /r/seduction | 06/08/25 10:51 AM |
| 0 | Is it a bad idea to consider dating a lifelong friend? [M27] [F28]I have found I feel more attracted to people who seem attracted to me even if they're not my usual type | /r/seduction | 06/08/25 09:07 AM |
| 2 | Is it a bad idea to consider dating a lifelong friend? [M27] [F28]Since graduating high-school I think I've made maybe...three or four friends/ acquaintances outside of work. I live pretty rural, don't go to bars(other than a pretty rare stout I'm not really a drinker anymore as my dad is an alchie and seeing him drink his health away ruined the appeal for me) and work a ton between two jobs. I've also never been diagnosed but I'm positive I'm autistic. I have found work friendships to often be pretty shallow and only really last about as long as the people ar… | /r/seduction | 06/08/25 08:58 AM |
| 1 | Is it a bad idea to consider dating a lifelong friend? [M27] [F28]That makes a lot of sense. I realized I'm bisexual a few years ago...much more into women than men but its made having platonic friends a lot more complicated because I'm attracted to most people + or - 5 years from me which is about the age range of most of my friends. | /r/seduction | 06/08/25 08:23 AM |
| 1 | Is it a bad idea to consider dating a lifelong friend? [M27] [F28]I dont want to be another failed relationship with her. Do you think that'd be likely? Thats the sort of thing I'm asking about. | /r/seduction | 06/08/25 08:01 AM |
| 28 | I have been friendzoned by over 30 women. Here’s what I’ve learned:My guy I'm no great success with women but what happened in highschool & especially in middle school doesn't matter. You were children then. Sure some people meet their partner early in life but for the most part it's just play. | /r/seduction | 07/09/23 11:33 AM |
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