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You are having a hard time realizing that I agree with you. Saying both sides do it doesn't do anything indeed. So let's call out both sides for it. so can we not call out BOTH sides for it?
/r/AllPillDebate09/09/23 02:26 AM
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Go through my comments if you wish. I don't generalize anyone. All I'm saying is both sides do it.
/r/AllPillDebate08/09/23 11:42 PM
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I can small talk just fine with men and women alike, but it has never really helped me.
/r/AllPillDebate08/09/23 10:01 PM
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Assuming the worst is what a lot of bluepillers do too though. They think we're all fat, lazy, woman-hating slobs that never leave the house.
/r/AllPillDebate08/09/23 08:09 PM
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No way I'd ever go to one of these. I can't imagine willingly going out and humiliating myself like that.
/r/AllPillDebate08/09/23 06:23 PM
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How many of those percentage of men who aren't looking for someome are men that have just become disillusioned and given up entirely? I bet it's less than half but still more than you think. I'm certainly one of them.
/r/AllPillDebate01/09/23 04:57 PM
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Thanks man. I'm outta pot, but I'll definitely have a beer (or 10) for you dude.
/r/AllPillDebate30/08/23 05:58 PM
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Like I said man, do you. If you wanna talk to him about it go for it, but I don't have any advice to give you that I think he would listen to. If someone told 16yo me that at 30 I'd be alone and have given up entirely on ever finding someone, I wouldn't have believed them.
/r/AllPillDebate30/08/23 05:57 PM
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Hey you do you man, I can't tell you what to do. I'm just saying I personally would leave the guy alone. Life will teach him everything he needs to know as he lives it.
/r/AllPillDebate30/08/23 05:24 PM
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Dude all I cared about at 16 was beer, pot, heavy metal, horror movies, and video games. (Still love all that stuff) Let the dude enjoy his youth. You became blackpilled really young man. I'm 30. If I were you I'd pump the brakes a little my man. This is heavy, depressing stuff.
/r/AllPillDebate30/08/23 05:13 PM
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If I lost 3 inches of dick size I'd have a fucking innie.
/r/AllPillDebate30/08/23 05:06 PM
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Lmao "a sad lonely orphan"
/r/AllPillDebate30/08/23 05:05 PM
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You don't need to "convince" him of anything. He'll figure it out eventually or maybe he'll get lucky and end up an outlier. Either way, don't shit in his cereal. Just be his buddy and let him do things his own way. Real life is blackpilling enough, there's no need to expedite the process at such a young age.
/r/AllPillDebate30/08/23 04:58 PM
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You can't take a "good picture" of a turd.
/r/AllPillDebate30/08/23 04:53 PM
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Yeah I gave up. It's pretty clear I don't fit into the mold of what women want. And even if I did find someone I'd probably just end up a betabuxx until she cheats with someone better looking or with more money and leaves me. Happened to me before, only relationship I ever had. Lol, I was even saving up for a ring. 🤡 Only silver lining is it happened before I could get her a ring, so there was no chance of her taking half my stuff.
/r/AllPillDebate30/08/23 04:25 PM
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Absolutely not.
/r/AllPillDebate30/08/23 03:31 PM
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The way I see it there are 2 types of "cope" Delusional cope where you lie to yourself and try pretend everything is fine. One instance of this would be "the wall" where dudes pretend women will be interested in them when they get older. Then there is self-aware cope. That's where you fully understand the fact that you are highly unlikely to ever find somebody so you try not to think about it using whatever "copes" you like. Could be TV, movies, video games, hobbies, booze, drugs, food, etc. The…
/r/AllPillDebate29/08/23 04:44 PM
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Yes but not a ton. Once or twice a week.
/r/AllPillDebate29/08/23 02:01 PM
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I can't answer that. I can only speak for myself, and I wouldn't think those things about my (hypothetical) daughter.
/r/AllPillDebate22/08/23 09:00 PM
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That wasn't the ONLY reason, just the main one. And yes, I'm a straight guy. I'm attracted to women
/r/AllPillDebate22/08/23 08:50 PM
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I don't fit into your mold of what a "pilled" guy is but I wanted to date women because I wanted a family. I gave up on that though, and while I won't lie and say I'm totally indifferent towards the prospect of dating now, I'm certainly closer to it than I once was.
/r/AllPillDebate22/08/23 08:39 PM
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I don't think a bunch of men are going to become blackpilled in the sense of actually knowing what the blackpill is or anything like that. I do, however, think they will become blackpilled in the sense that they will give up on the losing game that is dating as an ugly dude. I already see it happening with some of my friends, and they've (to my knowledge) never even heard of the blackpill.
/r/AllPillDebate22/08/23 08:08 PM
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You really don't think the chick in that video is funny? I think she's hilarious.
/r/AllPillDebate22/08/23 08:02 PM
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Dude comics, I find, are on average more funny than the chicks, but there are still some hilarious ones out there. https://youtu.be/l7K3y4EPq10
/r/AllPillDebate22/08/23 01:58 PM
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I get it, it's not ideal. But it's better than nothing. For me at least. Slowly but surely I'm beginning to forget all about women. That's my strategy. Rather than pine for the unattainable, I'm trying to ignore them so much I forget about them.
/r/AllPillDebate18/08/23 03:53 PM
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Do you play online? It's not like it was 10 years ago, but plenty of people still chat in games. Easy to make gaming buddies. I know that's not a substitute for a romantic relationship, but it's better than nothing. Or maybe try something new. I like fishing, and it's a relatively inexpensive hobby. Grab a starter rod and reel combo from Walmart and some circle hooks and sinkers. Get some bait (I use chicken livers) and bam you'll be catching catfish like a champ in no time. Super fun, even alon…
/r/AllPillDebate16/08/23 07:40 PM
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Sounds like a good time as long as there is a bar at the retreat. But alas, I'm far too broke to do anything like that right now.
/r/AllPillDebate16/08/23 07:05 PM
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Your not a loser just because you're not getting laid dude. Unironically just pour yourself into hobbies as much as you can. Unlike what the normies say this will not help you get laid, but it will help you have fun and get your mind off stuff. Keep on coping my man.
/r/AllPillDebate16/08/23 07:03 PM
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Yup, I'm completely checked out and I have a few friends my age that have done the same. They don't even know that any of the pill or incel stuff exists, they've just come to the conclusion that it's never gonna happen, so why bother?
/r/AllPillDebate16/08/23 04:06 PM
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I cant tell you that it's over for you bc I don't know you. But if it really is over, then giving up is really freeing. There is something great about not giving a shit about what anybody thinks of you and just doing whatever you want regardless of if it's something that women like. I know what women think of me, and it ain't much. That's fine, I'll just be done with trying. They don't care, I don't have to put in the effort anymore. Everybody wins.
/r/AllPillDebate16/08/23 04:00 PM
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If I could get a date I think it would be fun. I like food, drinks, and conversation, so why not? It's the whole getting one part that's not gonna happen.
/r/AllPillDebate16/08/23 03:42 PM
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Look, I know who I am as a person. I would not have left her for aging. If she wasn't a cheating whore I'd probably still be with her. I didn't know it at the time, but I was a betabuxx. I paid for everything in her life. And still she jumped on a better looking dude's dick with zero hesitation. That's what betabuxx gets you. You are being used, not loved. For guys like me love is a fairy tale. It's a nice thought, but something we should never chase. It won't lead to anything good.
/r/AllPillDebate16/08/23 03:01 PM
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Obviously not everyone is the same, but I wish we could get a poll of every chick that's been simped for. I wonder if they like the attention, are repulsed by the simps, or a mix of both.
/r/AllPillDebate16/08/23 02:58 PM
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Lmao I don't even remember tbh. We broke up like 5 or 6 years ago. Mid to late 20s.
/r/AllPillDebate16/08/23 02:50 PM
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I'm not playing a numbers/rating game with you, that's stupid. I have multiple friends that bang very hot girls regularly. I call that Chad.
/r/AllPillDebate16/08/23 02:49 PM
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That's just utter nonsense. I was in no way losing interest in her. But she found someone hotter and boned him. And all the betabuxxing in the world couldn't have stopped it. Your whole premise is silly.
/r/AllPillDebate16/08/23 02:47 PM
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Would gladly date an older woman. Doubt any of em would wanna date me.
/r/AllPillDebate16/08/23 02:43 PM
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Women only "love" a betabuxx for as long as he can provide. It's a fair-weather relationship. If he for some reason loses his financial stability she will leave in an instant. She might just pick up and leave for Chad anyway, even if he doesn't lose his financial stability. Happened to me. We want to be loved, not used. And I know that I'm not gonna be loved, so I'd rather just be alone.
/r/AllPillDebate16/08/23 02:35 PM
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I have a few Chad friends. It's not their fault I'm a loser. They're good guys. No girl is gonna be into me whether they're around or not, so why not? I've already accepted the fact that my romantic life is dead end, so I gave up on that fruitless endeavor. I'm in no position to turn away friends. I don't wanna be any lonelier than I am.
/r/AllPillDebate16/08/23 02:02 PM
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Well that's the thing though. Most of us here don't even claim to be slightly desirable, let alone highly desirable.
/r/AllPillDebate15/08/23 06:22 PM
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Yeah pretty much. I'm 30 and I've had one gf in my whole life. In the beginning she went on and on about what a great guy I was. I was attentive, caring, listened, all that stuff. We moved in together. Guess who paid for everything? She only had to pay the cable bill, and I even footed that for a while after she compulsively quit her job because it was too "stressful." (Meanwhile I'm working 12 hour days in a warehouse, wearing a full face respirator with no AC hand-cranking 1200 pound sand bags…
/r/AllPillDebate11/08/23 03:47 AM
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It's just a nonsense platitude, really. It doesn't help anyone, and they know it doesn't help. It's societal programming, they're saying what they think they're supposed to say. I agree that it's stupid, but I don't think it's malicious.
/r/AllPillDebate10/08/23 06:21 PM
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Embarrassment, shame, rage, but most of all weakness. You feel more like a grub to be scraped from the bottom of a shoe than a man. An angry grub, but a grub nonetheless.
/r/AllPillDebate09/08/23 06:12 PM
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I mean there's a million different ways it could look, but just look at the first chick's boyfriend in the video. That's one way it could look.
/r/AllPillDebate09/08/23 05:57 PM
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I guess I kinda knew by middle school that I really was never gonna "fit in." It got a little better in high school, I was never bullied in HS, but I was still considered a nerd though. After HS I actually did land a gf for a while, but she cheated and left me. After that I did everything I could to get back out there. Online dating, gym, going to bars and events to meet people. Joined 2 hobby groups. All the normie-tier advice, but it never panned out. About 2 years ago is when I threw in the t…
/r/AllPillDebate09/08/23 04:41 PM
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I personally wouldn't give a shit if an AI replaced me in the dating world. Whether or not a woman wants to date or bang a robot has no bearing on my life at all. It's not like it's taking women away from me that I could be dating, so have at it. Replace dating dudes with dating AI. I wouldn't lose a second of sleep about it.
/r/AllPillDebate09/08/23 04:03 PM
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Some days I feel sad that I've given up, but stuff like this makes me feel better. Even if I found someone she would probably just leave and emasculate me the second someone better came along anyway. I'm better off not trying. I don't have what it takes to compete, so I'm not playing the game.
/r/AllPillDebate09/08/23 03:40 PM
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I feel like this place helps me personally. I feel like I'm not just some freak, not the only one suffering. It reminds me of the futility of pursuing relationships, and helps keep me from falling back into the prison of false hope and disappointment. That being said, I'm just some dude and I don't know anything, really. Nobody does. So if you feel like this place is hurting you, then bail and try something else.
/r/AllPillDebate09/08/23 02:08 AM
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I care because I love them dude. And I don't care if being a sociopath makes things easier. I don't need any reasons to hate myself any more than I do. Besides, I like drinking.
/r/AllPillDebate08/08/23 04:01 PM
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Personally, I go to the liquor store
/r/AllPillDebate08/08/23 01:58 AM
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I gave up 2 years ago, and I'm starting to get more numb to the loneliness. Idk how long it will last, or if that's a good thing, but I am starting to care less about ever finding a relationship which I can't complain about. Idk how bad it will be once I get old and all my family and friends are dying, but I'm fairly certain I'm gonna find out because I sincerely doubt I'll ever find anybody. I'm an alcoholic, I eat like shit, and I don't exercise which helps a lot because I barely have a libido…
/r/AllPillDebate08/08/23 01:56 AM
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Sorry that's happening to you, but unfortunately this is the internet, and you're going to get all types here. I can't say this with any certainty, but if I had to venture a guess, a lot of the dudes who lash out with virtiol on here would probably love if someone befriended them irl. When you feel like an outcast anger can make you feel some semblance of control, and boy can it be addicting. I used to be pretty bitter when I was younger before I learned to accept my fate.
/r/AllPillDebate02/08/23 05:34 PM
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That's not the point I'm trying to make. What I'm saying is a lot of women (I would venture so say most, at least in my experience) don't want to be friends with lonely guys anyway. So why would they care what those lonely guys think of them? Of course there are exceptions. I understand why they would care what someone who might lash out violently would think. But the other 99%? I highly doubt they give a shit if we love them, hate them, or land anywhere in between.
/r/AllPillDebate02/08/23 04:49 PM
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A lot of women already are indifferent to men who struggle with dating. We aren't assertive or attractive enough. I don't hate lonely women, but from what I can gather strictly from my own life experience is that they don't want to be my "compatriots" anyway, so I doubt they even care.
/r/AllPillDebate02/08/23 04:03 PM
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I'm 30 if that means anything. And if my friends fall off that will suck but so be it. I'm not falling back into the dating trap. Not worth it.
/r/AllPillDebate02/08/23 03:21 PM
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You can socialize without being in a romantic relationship. I'll never be with a woman again, but I still love my buddies.
/r/AllPillDebate02/08/23 03:07 PM
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Not on dating apps anymore because it's pointless, but when I was no I didn't really get upset. Rejection or ghosting from someone I've never met irl doesn't bother me. It's the irl ones that sting.
/r/AllPillDebate02/08/23 02:46 PM
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Sure defeatism is boring if you're a defeatist in every aspect of your life. There's nothing wrong with giving up on romantic relationships though, it ain't gonna happen for some of us. Doesn't mean that I don't enjoy any aspects of my life.
/r/AllPillDebate01/08/23 08:37 PM
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Trust me dude I'm not counting on it, and if something like that were to happen I would be suspicious. However I do trust my gut enough that I think I'd be able to tell if someone was just trying use me.
/r/AllPillDebate01/08/23 01:09 AM
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Yeah I'm at the point where I'm just done with it all. If someone cool ends up in my life and we click that would be awesome. But I sincerely doubt that will ever happen.
/r/AllPillDebate01/08/23 01:02 AM
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Best of luck to you man, but I'm done trying. I'm just gonna go to work and when I'm not there focus on my copes.
/r/AllPillDebate01/08/23 12:27 AM
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Yeah dude. I'd rather be alone than the back up plan. And realistically I know if I got into a relationship that's probably what I would be so made the decision a few years ago to just stop playing the game. It's like juggling chainsaws to even get a woman to look at me, and for what? I was with one chick for like 7 years and she cheated on me, so of course that ended things. In the five or six years since then I've slept with a whopping ONE woman and not for lack of trying. I'm sick of putting …
/r/AllPillDebate31/07/23 07:38 PM
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81, cyborg
/r/AllPillDebate31/07/23 03:03 PM
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Read the article. She tried to take almost all of what was allotted to him for his long term care during the divorce. She isn't a caring person. But you already know this and either hate men and always side with the woman, are a troll, or both.
/r/AllPillDebate21/07/23 02:22 PM
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Was it "a caring thing" when she tried to take most of what little was left of the money allotted to him for his care?
/r/AllPillDebate20/07/23 06:20 PM
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That's a 2 person decision and he had fucking brain damage. Plus the stupid idiot didn't even get the house surveyed.
/r/AllPillDebate20/07/23 04:56 PM
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Lmao good hygiene. Why do you always think we don't bathe? And don't worry, I already did give up on women 2 years ago. The rest of your advice was normie crap I've already tried before to no avail for like a decade. I've got booze and a TV. That's it til death.
/r/AllPillDebate19/07/23 03:43 PM
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I hope it doesn't completely collapse until I'm dead though. Lonely and miserable as I am I still enjoy my games, movies, fishing, and grilling. Ain't like I'm gonna have kids to worry about anyway.
/r/AllPillDebate19/07/23 03:18 PM
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"Loser men have been dying alone for all of time." Well, at least you said the quiet part out loud. This is why I choose to give up. I'm not hot, and I'll never be hot, so why try? Btw OP I'm not asking you, question is rhetorical.
/r/AllPillDebate19/07/23 02:57 PM
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Nah dude it's fucking over for me and I'm not bitter. 30 Y/O never had any luck with the ladies. I'm skinnyfat, I'm awkward, I'm not overly social, and I don't give a shit. I'd rather be alone than do all the fucking work needed to change that. I tried long and hard enough to meet someone to no avail. At some point it makes more sense to just give up. That isn't bitter, it's realistic. Let's say I put in a ton of self-improvement for the next few years. There is no guarantee anything will come o…
/r/AllPillDebate18/07/23 01:39 PM
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