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The only problem is people will quickly find alternative solutions to legal BC including black market abortions. Abortion rates are actually higher in some countries where abortion is illegal.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 06:44 PM
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TRP is wrong (IMO) about the whole top percent thing. It's not like all women are lusting after chad. Rather, it's that a lot of women aren't lusting at all- at least not by male sex drive standards- and those who are high libido have practically endless choices and non-physical ways to gain satisfaction. It's like have 10 meals for 2000 lions and those 10 meals get to pick which lion gets to eat, or can just swipe on a bunch of lions begging her to eat, then change her mind and not let any of t…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 05:56 PM
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Many, many women have duty/ pity sex as infrequently as possible to keep the relationship stable or even going. Many women simply close up shop sexually and expect the man to be celibate. Go check out any of the dead bedroom subreddits. There is literally an endless sea of sex deprived middle aged married guys out there. It really comes down to men having higher libidos, and maintaining that higher libido well into middle age, than do women, even though society likes to pretend women are all hig…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 09:14 PM
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That's a good point, the jealous types were probably neurotic and jealous all their lives. I've known a few women like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 05:25 PM
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I would definitely be considered an older woman by this crowd. My main feeling for younger women is fear for them. It's getting harder and harder to eek out a living both solo and with someone. Resentment between genders has grown enormously. Men are lost to porn and VGs, women are lost to social media and streaming. Women are expected to have a career yet still end up carrying the burden of majority housekeeping and childcare unless she can afford help. If anything that last part has gotten wor…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 05:19 PM
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I'm very thin and can concur. Many men prefer heavier women over model thin. Obviously 'heavier' is subjective, but I've encountered plenty of men who'd be fine with overweight BMI as long as she has proportional boobs & is reasonably pretty. Obese/ morbid obese is a different matter but there still are guys who will go for that and not out of desperation.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 06:33 PM
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I'm a woman and I don't cry easily. I can't even remember the last time I full on sobbed. I may tear up a bit (once a month/ every other month?) but that's it. I consider myself extremely emotional though.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 12:16 PM
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Good points and I agree with everything (especially men here wanting the virgin-sex-fiend-in-waiting) with the exception of 'women want sex based on good sexual experiences.' Sex drive is something people either have or they don't- yes it may take a while to come.out, but by say 25 or so it's pretty set. And women are incredibly prone to losing that drive (if she has much to begin with) surprisingly early, often after having kids, with a further hit at menopause. Whether this is purely physical …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 09:10 PM
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If I were tall, and equally attractive as a dude, I might stand a slim chance. Otherwise I'd be a (hopefully not bitter) i-word or possibly MGTOW. I've always been a bit of a weirdo and socially awkward. As a pretty female you can get by, as a guy I'd be doomed.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 05:38 PM
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I have wondered what is the endgame of a gynocentric society. I don't think it is what OP describes at least not in the US. We have a practically endless supply of low cost blue collar labor due to current border and immigration policies. Migrant workers charge half or less the wage of union workers. So I absolutely don't see blue collar wages increasing. Linesmen for example are criminally underpaid given how dangerous and vital their work is. Few women are well paid artists so I don't see that…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 05:32 PM
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Rape (2 others so far and this thread is only an hour old 😞). Other than that, a guy so fat (low end obese bmi) neither of us could see past his gut so we could aim it in (some guys don't even need to look, they just have honing ability lol). So I reached down to manually do it and he came immediately in my hand. Just cringe and awkward there was no chemistry. Second, guy had a true micro, he didn't warn me. I'd never seen anyone so small, maybe 2 inches erect. He also came instantly. Again no c…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 05:59 PM
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Could also be lower sex drive. If you have an intense sex drive you're going to suffer without sex or a partner. Whereas if you could take it or leave it, or prefer not to have it, you'll be arguably happier without a partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 02:56 PM
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I assumed this was an end of the world scenario (what with both donors dead) so it's one sperm or the other lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 03:38 PM
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The short smart one hands down. I would never knowingly spread the genes of a sociopath. However guy 2 does sound a little dormat-ish. I'd prefer someone like that but who 'thinks outside the box' and isn't afraid of getting in trouble if it's for a decent cause.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 03:36 PM
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I used to follow a guy on SM who was a 40+ virgin and he was always complaining about how society looks down on older male virgins. Meanwhile he had at least three women throwing themselves at him repeatedly in comments and he just ignored them. My point is, it may not be society holding these guys back per se. This guy clearly had issues and even with these women ready to drag him to bed he couldn't work past it. So I guess the solution is to try to take an honest look at what might be holding …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 03:29 PM
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My sense is it's more a soccer mom thing so they can get services/ sympathy for having an autistic kid.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 03:16 PM
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I don't think it is really about acceptance, not the kind of acceptance you are imagining anyway. We are just weird to them. We always will be. We give them the creeps. Women especially are extra sensitive to detecting and being repulsed by autistic weirdness (even I can feel it and I'm female). So any 'acceptance' is automatically going to be fake and forced. The most we can hope for as a society, is everyone being entitled to equal civil rights. Part of the problem with wokism (not calling OP …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 03:15 PM
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This is the only example I can think of too. Knew a guy with a 50+ n AFTER marriage. Wife stuck around because she was financially dependent. He was miserable and conflicted.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 03:06 PM
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It's actually closer to 200:1 in adultery dating sites/ apps. A lot of cheating guys go straight to the sex worker/ SB route for that reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/22 04:57 PM
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This has been studied. It's definitely men who cheat more. Depending on which study you look at, 30-70% of married men cheat; 10-30% married women cheat. Personally I think it's mainly due to higher sex drive, not that one gender is 'worse' than the other. That coupled with the fact that women lose attraction to men much faster than men do to women in a marriage, which has been studied also.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/22 04:55 PM
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New flash: women with a high sex drive are more likely to cheat than low to average sex drive women. Even accounting for that, men are still far more.likely to cheat. Probably again due to higher sex drive. If you're hungry, you will find food.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 04:13 PM
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Agree there is a huge number of undiagnosed eating disorders/ body dysmorphia in men. If a guy does a brutal workout and puts himself on an insanely harsh diet, he's being healthy and working hard. If a woman does it, she has an ED and needs immediate help. Disagree it is caused by solely women. Many/ most women find huge bodybuilder level roided up, bulging veins, freakish huge muscles gross. Just as men find Auschwitz skinny women gross. JMO but EDs tend to be inspired and fed within genders. …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 08:25 PM
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OP I don't know how old you are, but as recently as 20ish years ago being gay was not cool or acceptable, and unmarried people could be under suspicion of being gay and thus considered weird or strange. This is going to vary by region too obviously. As far as current perceptions, granted I'm in an urban liberal area but I don't sense much hostility towards older singles whether male or female. In some communities here it's fairly normal. In terms of dating I do consider it a red flag if someone …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 06:22 PM
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If it's any comfort, the portion of women who are NOT sex workers, SBs, or strippers, who will calculatingly use a guy for cash, gifts and lifestyle is not significant. Because once a woman crosses that line it becomes closer and closer to becoming an actual transaction, and that should be fairly easy to spot. I really don't know any women who target men for cash, who aren't involved in sex work to some degree. That being said I know any number of women who do use BFs for 'convenience issues...'…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 08:21 PM
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Yes I know someone like this. He's in his 60s now. Never had a GF not even short term. He's over 6 ft, when he was younger definitely a 6 if not 8 depending on taste. Not overweight. Steady technical job and income. He claims it was due to social awkwardness he never found someone but who knows. Maybe some of these people actually don't want the whole marriage and family thing but can't admit it? He has lots of hobbies some very technical and difficult. Watches lots of movies/ tv. He visits esco…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 05:20 PM
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The executive/ burger flipper analogy isn't good. Beautiful women are going to get the baseline attention all non-hideous women get plus a huge amount of extra attention (some of it obsessive) from desirable and undesirable dudes. It can easily drown out the 'one' who might stand out better with less attention. And yes guys will go after her just for looks and not care at all who she is as a person. She may also be at risk of being trafficked. It's more complicated than white collar vs burger gu…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 08:39 PM
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They are less than 20% of the us military. And while some are excellent soldiers it's unlikely they could all outperform the average male soldier. Men and women compete separately in sports for a reason. Even at an elite level they aren't on par.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 05:21 PM
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True and not true. If a woman wants a traditional family she should probably take it easy on the N count if for no other reason that STIs can mess up fertility. Condoms don't 100% protect especially for skin affected STIs. Fertility is the real enemy of women-- if she truly wants kids. Even waiting till 30s is risky. Freezing eggs isn't the magic pill people seem to think either. It doesn't matter how beautiful she is or how well she takes care of herself- the real wall for women is fertility. I…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 02:21 PM
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The example you give isn't representative of what I've seen and what bothers me. This exchange you screenshot sounds like the woman was attracted to him bc he's handsome and she was hoping maybe the height stat was wrong. Or as mentioned hoping his personality made up for it. Men 'try' women outside their preferred weight league all the time What I've seen is a glaring double standard where women are allowed to verbally abuse and threaten men but if a man were to do the same, instead of being br…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 06:33 PM
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For years now I've seen men warning 'just wait till we have sexbots! Then women will be left behind!' and I sometimes wonder if that's already happened with OF, vtubers and whatever else is out there or will be soon. 170 million subscribers to OF. Yeah I'm sure plenty of unappealing/ already married dudes in there but if even 1 million are decent, lonely guys who prefer this to dating and being out there, that's not insignificant. I'm not sure what the endgame is here but it will result in the p…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 10:59 AM
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What?? The sex is amazing for you and seemingly great for him when you initiate, when you initiate he's ravenous That is completely, utterly not a description of anyone asexual.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 02:53 PM
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But an asexual person wouldn't enjoy/ be into the amazing sex OP describes the theoretical man having with his wife. OP I'm not sure the sex hungry guy who loves and is intensely attracted to his wife, but never once is inclined to initiate sex, exists. But sure I'd be ok with it assuming everything else was great sexually.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 02:52 PM
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Especially if you factor in upwards to 25% of women experience childhood sexual abuse.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 02:46 PM
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My issue with the concept of a wall is most people are fat and out of shape (75% in the US) and most people aren't naturally beautiful. So this idea that women (or even men) have this raging beauty that grinds to a halt at 35ish is unrealistic. Most people just go from bad to worse. But for other features of desirability, yeah there absolutely is a wall somewhere that happens harder and earlier for women but I'd argue it's mostly psychological/ her attitude/ the degree of BS people will tolerate…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 05:19 PM
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That's funny same here. Same weight as HS and it seems like I eat a lot 🤷
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/22 11:00 PM
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That's very thin! I'm an inch taller and 15 lb heavier and I'm pretty bony. Are you naturally thin or do you have to put in effort? I'm naturally thin.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/22 07:19 PM
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No, but I would act on the offer lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 09:05 PM
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IME guys who say they are ok with you being with other guys have never been in that situation, then find themselves insanely jealous once it happens, or, they get off on it and constantly pepper you for 'reports.' Both are unappealing situations. The first one is outright dangerous.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 08:56 PM
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Yeah I was thinking he may have to go outside his race to find something even remotely compatible to what he's looking for, but, asian women are not known for their eagerness to procreate. The asian american birthrate is the lowest in the country IIRC. Also to clarify my 'he's short' comment: What I think many men don't realize is women are reluctant to date shorter men because it makes them (ie the woman) feel very awkward and self conscious. So I'd be very surprised if anyone his height or tal…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/22 06:53 PM
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He's a weird mix of extremely liberal/ secular (atheist, vegan, science is god) and extremely conservative/ old school (wants a SAHM baby machine). He's going to have a hard time finding what he's looking for. Religious/ conservative women will be put off by him, secular women will be put off by the baby machine aspect no matter how gently he spins it.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/22 04:18 PM
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I am a parent whose daughter is struggling with dating! Her issues are: She can't find anyone smarter than her, who isn't also really weird or autistic. She is highly intelligent, straight A stem full scholarship etc.. She has unique political views and if a guy doesn't match exactly on a few key issues she automatically rejects him. She's kind of libertarian which isn't common for people her age, at least not where we live. She doesn't have much of a libido and wants to wait until marriage or a…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/22 06:46 PM
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There's a thread of ephebophilia in some TRP philosophy. Maybe it's the anime influence. To consistently talk about barely legal women as the ideal or peak of all desirability for all men of any age... is a little weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/22 06:24 PM
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Just my impression but ruling out single parents in your age bracket will make everything much more difficult.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/22 06:20 PM
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This is one of the better replies. Anyone who takes care of themselves, isn't naturally ugly, and doesn't have a foul personality will always have dating options, even 40+. With 75% of americans fat, just by being in the fit 25% you will stand out, regardless of age There's a peak for both genders late 20/ early 30s where they're more available/ have less baggage/ less jaded. Anyone who hasn't had a serious LTR by mid 30s either isn't interested in one, or has something wrong with them. I encour…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/22 06:15 PM
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60% of men are biological fathers. This negates the argument that only the top sliver of men are having sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 03:57 PM
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I brought this up in my comment in the daily thread about the kristin smart case. Women are incredibly sensitive to 'creepiness' so what puzzles me about the case is how flores, who was universally described as creepy and strange, gained access to so many women. At least some of his assaults started out as consensual, and he had a long term GF. Anyway OP. Yeah, women especially (I'm a woman) are like sharks smelling blood in water when it comes to someone being weird, autistic, autistic-ish, cre…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 03:41 PM
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TRP is a psychologizing of relationships and male - female interaction. I'm not 'linking it to rape' except in your mind. How could a guy who is a social pariah gain such unfettered access to women? is my question. You may be right. By prowling and stalking it negates social standing. But I'm still puzzled by it. Women are hyper sensitive to 'creepiness' but somehow this guy circumvented that. For decades. With dozens of women. Pic of him young: http://californiaregister.com/wp-content/uploads/2…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 03:10 PM
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Wish I could +100 lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 02:51 PM
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When I read that I clearly took 'hot' to mean 'desirable.' Which isn't just looks. I practically had to beg my daughters (18 and 20) to consider men more than 2 years older. They and all their friend groups find older men disgusting, and 'older' is anyone more than a few years older. Even in very conservative cultures like India men and women tend to gravitate same age, or so I've been told.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 02:51 PM
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Is anyone here following the kristin smart trial/ listened to your own backyard podcast? If so what are your views on Paul Flores from a TRP perspective? What confuses me is despite being universally regarded as creepy and a loser, he managed to insert himself in enough social circles that he had extensive contact with women. He also had at least one serious/ long term GF and some consensual encounters. But even in consensual encounters, he allegedly drugged and raped the women. There are drug/ …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 02:41 PM
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Yup I have an adult son in this category. He's on the spectrum plus mild tourettes. But he's not disabled enough to appear disabled, but not functional enough to be functional. I'm terrified for him tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 06:50 PM
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Someone lying and cheating to that extent probably has a personality disorder. This assumes 1, you weren't abusive and 2, you weren't in a dead bedroom. I'd wash your hands of her OP and go NC, she'll just keep tormenting you.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 12:39 PM
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I probably would have been considered promiscuous, maybe not by sex addict standards but I was definitely hypersexual. I would get a drug like high just from being entered. I actually had little interest in the O. And no the high it didn't diminish over time or with increased body count. Not to sound like a fruit loop but it was almost like an energy exchange takes place at a spiritual level (if you believe in that kind of thing) and that was also addictive. And remained consistently intense. I …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 07:26 PM
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