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Mostly because so many men are so bad at sex that women aren't having a good time! There are many reasons women have low sex drive and most of the time it is situational.
/r/seduction12/05/22 01:07 PM
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Why would you think a majority of women would be happy to match a low sex drive? Obviously there are women with a low sex drive that would be satisfied, just as there are men with a slow drive, but not the majority!
/r/seduction12/05/22 01:07 AM
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Chatting online is boring. Flirting in person is fun. Pretty simple! I prefer to interact in person, she may be the same.
/r/seduction26/03/22 11:39 PM
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I would just tell her "feel free to circle back to me if it doesn't work out!"
/r/seduction26/03/22 10:38 PM
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It definitely happens for women too! I have had to let many conversations fizzle out when a man just wanted to chat, but never wanted to meet up.
/r/seduction18/03/22 06:08 PM
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Then she probably wasn't interested in meeting. You can move on and not waste your time with endless texting!
/r/seduction18/03/22 05:21 PM
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If I am on tinder, I don't want to be texting a guy, I want to meet a guy. Just keep texting me and never arrange a meet up, and I will definitely lose interest and stop texting because what's the point?
/r/seduction18/03/22 02:56 PM
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Yes, he has a great smile!
/r/seduction18/02/22 12:25 PM
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He's tall, has a cute boyish face, a great smile, he's funny, has a cool vibe. He's really cute, like the kind of boy you would crush on in high school.
/r/seduction18/02/22 03:50 AM
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Exactly. I think Pete is very attractive!
/r/seduction18/02/22 02:45 AM
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Nope, he has a cute face. He is very attractive.
/r/seduction18/02/22 02:41 AM
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A lot of us women think Pete is hot, definitely not below average.
/r/seduction18/02/22 02:40 AM
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Maybe she is losing interest because you haven't asked her out again. Lots of women prefer a man who takes the lead. Make a specific plan and ask her out.
/r/seduction04/02/22 12:30 PM
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When you are getting advice from a group of people, you are bound to get conflicting advice. It's up to you to decide what you are comfortable with. As I said, I think it is likely that she was turned off by your indecisiveness. So I think you need to be the opposite of that, take the bull by the horns and actually lead like a man. Ask her out on a date with a place and time. Don't be wishy-washy it out the ball in her court. Many women prefer a strong man who is a leader and initiates
/r/seduction04/06/21 05:07 PM
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Sounds to me you were being wishy-washy in setting up the next date and that was turning her off. The advice I am giving you is what you should have done in the first place. At this point it is anyone's guess. I am a woman, however I am much older than your target audience and all women are different anyway, so my advice may not be applicable to your situation. However, I will say that I, and most women I know prefer a man who leads and is decisive. Spending days setting up a date over text is n…
/r/seduction04/06/21 03:03 PM
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That is not decisive or taking the lead. I think this kind of language is what is turning her off. You pick a time and day and an activity and offer it to her. "Would you like to go get ice cream on Sunday afternoon?"
/r/seduction04/06/21 02:35 PM
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You keep saying you were texting to set up the next date. How much texting back and forth does it take to set up a date? You should choose something interesting, a time and place and offer it to her. Be decisive and take the lead.
/r/seduction04/06/21 02:30 PM
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Personally, I wouldn't try to turn things sexual over text with someone you haven't even met. In my opinion you should look for girls who live close and ask her out for coffee or ice cream and let things happen organically. If I understood your op, it sounds like this girl was complaining that you weren't being sexual, so that made her feel ugly. That is not how an emotionally healthy person thinks, so I recommend you tell her you don't feel like you are a match and move on.
/r/seduction25/03/21 03:47 AM
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Whatevs! We are completely happy and adore each other. I feel completely loved and I completely love him.
/r/seduction13/03/21 03:09 AM
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No, of course not. Every person is different and has different wants and needs. We are both extremely happy, this works for us. I was answering the question about how I knew he was the one, so I was describing what he does for me. When we first started dating he just naturally took care of me in this way and it made me feel good and loved and taken care of. I'm sure my positive reaction to how he treated me just reinforced his behavior. He is also very happy with what I do for him. It's a lovely…
/r/seduction13/03/21 02:42 AM
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Absolutely! You need to trust that he wants the best for you so you know you won't be taken advantage of, used, or hurt.
/r/seduction13/03/21 02:09 AM
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I'm not sure I understand what you are saying, it doesn't make sense.
/r/seduction13/03/21 02:07 AM
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I didn't have to test my man, he just showed me he is the one from the beginning. He always picks me up and brings me home for every date, even if we are just going back to his place to have takeout and watch TV, he never asks me to meet him. He has paid for everything and never expected me to pitch in. Pays for every date, equipment for activities we do (hiking boots, bicycle, windbreaker, etc.) When we eat out, he always orders enough for me to have lunch the next day or 2. When he cooks he se…
/r/seduction12/03/21 07:24 PM
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Everyone is an individual, so I don't know if this is true for everyone, but it is definitely true for me. But I only want to be submissive to a man who truly loves me and takes care of me.
/r/seduction12/03/21 12:57 PM
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She just probably decided that she wasn't that into you. No big deal it happens. That's what dating is about and sometimes after a date or 2 or after texting for a while, one person just realizes this is not the right match for him or her. Some people don't know how to say that, so they come up with an excuse such as "I'm not ready to date right now."
/r/seduction13/02/21 02:25 PM
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Okay, I get that this seems like a copy-paste that he might have sent to multiple women, but aside from that this wouldn't bother me at all. In fact, I prefer it. I like it when men are bold and confident and ask you out right away. A short coffee date to get to know someone and check to see if you click is so much more preferable than exchanging messages. The worst is when men just keep exchanging messages endlessly instead of asking you out. Nope! This is a dating site, ask me out on a date!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/19 01:52 AM
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I have had this problem with a couple of men lately. Sometimes it is uncomfortable when it is someone you have just met, maybe had one date with and they keep texting. It can be difficult because you barely know the person. I would rather go out and talk in person, not over text.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/10/19 12:12 AM
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