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Realistically.... yeah, you can make AI fakes of men, but if women want to see their friend's dick, they pretty much just have to ask. I'm not saying it doesn't happen, but again, horny dudes do some really sketchy things. I just don't see women sitting down and making AI nudes of their classmates at the same rate as men do. It's kind of like how false rape accusations can happen against women, but... the majority of the time it's the other way around.
/r/MensRights30/07/26 02:39 PM
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When they want to be included it's about equality, when they want to exclude people it's about safety. They don't see a possibility of women being any type of threat to men, so therefore, men have no right to their own spaces. If they're uncomfortable with having women around then that's discrimination and has to be attacked. If women are uncomfortable having men around, that's common sense because everyone knows men cause all the problems.
/r/MensRights28/07/26 08:12 PM
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Yep, She knew she was wrong but also, nobody was actually hurt, and she claimed she didn't mean to push him over the table. It's not that she wanted to go to jail, but she recognized how fucked up it was that her boyfriend was going when she was the one who assaulted him. They both told the cops their stories and its was clear she was the aggressor, but the cops kept questioning them hard, repeatedly asking them what he did while trying to find out if he touched her at all. Eventually he told th…
/r/MensRights24/07/26 03:33 PM
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Granted this was 20 years ago but in college I knew a couple where the woman was a student athlete and the man was... not. She was significantly bigger and stronger than him and he was a fairly small skinny guy. They ended up getting in a loud screaming argument and at one point she apparently pushed him backwards which caused him to trip over their coffee table. That's when the neighbors called the cops. They immediately cuffed him and put him in the car. Because of the Duluth model, the agency…
/r/MensRights24/07/26 02:55 PM
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And girls hoped for hot male teachers. But the thing is, kids are kids, we've decided as a society that 16 year olds are not emotionally mature enough to make decisions about fucking adults. Mostly because 16 year olds can be dumb and easy to manipulate and enough adults were taking advantage of that that we had to make laws to stop it.
/r/MensRights11/06/26 02:38 PM
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Pretty much, the higher up you get on the economic food chain the more common it seems. With Leonardo DiCaprio I don't care at all. The women dating him aren't victims. They know full well what they're getting into because people have been joking about how he dumps them when they turn 23 for well over a decade. He wants to bang hot 21 year olds and hot 21 year olds want to hang out with A list celebrities and at fancy vacation homes in exchange for doing whatever Mr. DiCaprio says. Again, not my…
/r/MensRights23/04/26 07:45 PM
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I agree. I think people place too much importance on age gaps today. You can have an 20 year old who still lives with their parents, sleeps in a room with all their stuffed animals and has never had to have a job or fend for themselves. Then you have 20 year olds who raised their little siblings due to absent parents, have been working since they were 16 and have the maturity of someone far older than they should. It's not an automatic no, but more of a potential for power imbalances goes up alo…
/r/MensRights23/04/26 06:26 PM
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The line has to be somewhere. We could raise the age of consent to 25, but honestly, if you're old enough to drive a car, vote, sign legal contracts and join the military where you may be expected to kill people, you're old enough to decide who gets to stick their dick in you. I have no problem with people thinking it's gross on a social level, I do too. I'd make fun of someone for doing that because it's a pretty ridiculous age gap. But they're old enough to be legally allowed to make their own…
/r/MensRights23/04/26 05:48 PM
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A guy I know who was the victim of domestic abuse was taken to jail despite his partner admitting to the cops that she was the aggressor. She demanded they take her instead but he department practice the Duluth model so the guy gets the ride every time. The cops eventually go so sick of her they told her to shut up or she'd go with him. I also had an experience where a woman purposely got me black out drunk after I turned her down and raped me. I said no, but I was in and out of consciousness an…
/r/MensRights15/04/26 09:27 PM
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I mean, I eventually got my shit together, got a full time permanent job instead of temp work, and am doing well now. But a lot of dating in my 20s was finding ways to have fun on the cheap. I knew all the museum free days, I'd go hiking a lot, we'd go to parks or beaches, I knew the door guys at the local venue so I could get in free and I kept a list of the best deals for happy hours. I'm sure there were lots of women who didn't date me because of my financial situation, but there were also en…
/r/MensRights15/04/26 09:16 PM
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I don't know man, I dated plenty when I was broke as hell. If they were looking at me for survival they were making a terrible miscalculation. If anything I mooched off them far more than they did me.
/r/MensRights15/04/26 08:39 PM
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Yep, men are expected to enjoy the attention. It's the same stuff guys used to tell women back in the 70s. Hey babe, it's a compliment, lighten up. I was being nice to you, why are you taking it so badly? You should enjoy that people think you're sexy. Except while men have learned that it's not really socially acceptable to sexually harass a woman these days, a lot of women still have that idea that hitting on a guy is a compliment and he should feel honored that they would express interest. Bu…
/r/MensRights06/04/26 02:45 PM
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It's because they're told their whole lives "Be careful. Men are going to try to use you for sex. All men want is sex. They'll say whatever they need to in order to get sex. Don't let your guard down or a man will rape you because all they care about is sex." So if you grow up thinking your worth to a man revolves around what's between your legs, then are told by a man you like that they have no interest in what's between your legs, that's going to be shocking. Well if all men want sex so much t…
/r/MensRights30/03/26 08:46 PM
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Some women get it in their head that all men want sex all the time no matter what. So if you say no, then they take it as a huge personal insult, because if all men want sex and you don't, that must mean you think she's so horrible that you won't fuck her despite being willing to fuck literally every other woman. You bastard. I've had women go absolutely unhinged after rejecting them. I get that guys can do that too, and there's more physical danger from them, but in my experience you're far mor…
/r/MensRights30/03/26 04:44 PM
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I try to be the example that makes them go "but you're one of the good ones." Then use that to talk about how, I'm not one of the good ones, I'm pretty normal, there are bad ones out there, but we shouldn't judge and entire group of people by the examples of the worst of them. Also, if someone is that bigoted, then I just don't hang out with them and I certainly don't talk about gender issues.
/r/MensRights06/03/26 09:22 PM
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Exactly. If someone is demanding I take them to a fancy restaurant for a first date, that means there will be no first date because I don't want to date them anymore.
/r/MensRights06/03/26 07:12 PM
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How was a convicted child rapist allowed to keep kids in her home? The state absolutely should have made sure that woman had no contact with any children.
/r/MensRights05/03/26 09:18 PM
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Oh yeah, if they're ugly dumb and lazy they might still find a guy, but honestly, considering the kind of guy willing to date them, they're better off being single. Being alone is far better than being with the wrong person.
/r/MensRights27/02/26 09:10 PM
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Women all want different things. Think of it like everyone is playing the same game, but they all have different rules at to what scores points. Some may put a lot of value in someone who is smart, someone else may call that nerd shit and detract points for being annoying. The confusing thing for guys is the values aren't set in stone. People change what they value over time, sometimes very quickly depending on their particular situation. However on average you're going to see most women put poi…
/r/MensRights27/02/26 05:50 PM
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I think part of it is due to how much getting hit in the balls has been played for laughs over the years. Even today it's still an easy slapstick bit, where a man get's hit in the groin, makes a funny face, grabs himself and falls over. Hell, even the cartoon Bluey has jokes about it. More recently women have started getting hit in the groin for comedic effect, but it's still seen as more surprising than a man being hit there. Almost like a man being hit is expected, but a woman being hit is upp…
/r/MensRights13/02/26 03:40 PM
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If MGTOW guys could get out of their own way, they would have a much better time of it. Going your own way shouldn't be about women. It should be about finding a path in life that makes you happy that doesn't rely on having a romantic relationship. Not because you can't get laid, but because you realize that your life can be more rewarding and fulfilling when you stop focusing on finding a romantic partner and instead shift focus to being the best version of yourself. Again, not because being th…
/r/MensRights27/01/26 05:07 PM
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I agree. You'll see men have this idea that being the provider is a noble idea. Then a few years down the road they're burnt out and frustrated that their partner isn't contributing as much as they do. When the whole time they've told their partner that they don't need to contribute and they'll take care of everything financially. Which, for some guys that works. If you have a high enough income and find a partner who's willing to do all the stuff at home while you cover the stuff outside the ho…
/r/MensRights15/01/26 10:06 PM
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The same advice is applicable to both men and women. Don't date someone hoping they'll change. If you want an equal partner, find an equal partner.
/r/MensRights15/01/26 09:20 PM
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It's amazing how many people don't realize that artists constantly buy songs they didn't write which then became hits. Which is why actual singer songwriters who do both well are more impressive than people realize.
/r/MensRights13/12/25 02:24 AM
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I've been told she's got it going on.
/r/MensRights13/12/25 02:21 AM
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I mean, there are certain genera's of music that lend themselves to sexism. 1980s rock was all about fine ladies looking nice and how much the singer wanted to put his love into them. These days you're mostly looking at rap for that spirit of lyrics, but it's also become a lot more explicate. Her songs are written mostly for women, so the theme of women good men bad will go over well with the audience in the same way that wanting to bang your hot teacher went over well with a lot of guys in the …
/r/MensRights11/12/25 03:43 PM
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It's modern day Jerry Springer. I wouldn't bother paying attention to anything from that channel.
/r/MensRights05/12/25 06:58 PM
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But it's seen as different because they're insistent that men still have all the power, so for them it's punching up, whereas when a man says the exact same thing, it's punching down.
/r/MensRights25/11/25 04:08 PM
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Yep, men and women are treated differently. Look at how many upvotes guys get posting nudes vs women. Supply and demand. There is a glut of penis on the market so nobody really wants to see it. Hell, you can't even give it away for free because the market is so oversaturated. However, there's still a strong demand for naked women. That said, it also really depends on the individual's looks. If the woman was 350 lbs I doubt you'd have as many guys being like "That's so hot to you got hit in the f…
/r/MensRights04/11/25 04:09 PM
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In this case we'd have to go back to the 1950s. Pretty much the dawn of television. Making the main character a little dumb makes him relatable and funny. Nobody wants to watch a sitcom where the main character is super smart, never messes up and understands each situation they walk into perfectly. But Gilligan! How will we ever get home? "Oh don't worry, the captain and I rigged up an electric motor to act as a generator to power the VHF radio. We were able to alert the coast guard to our locat…
/r/MensRights17/10/25 02:33 PM
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Making fun of someone because their fat is bad. That's asshole behavior and should be called out. Not being attracted to someone because they're fat is a personal preference. Recognizing that being obese might make dating more difficult is simply reality. For a LOOOOOOONG time calling fat people names was tolerated. Hell, Married with children made it a running joke. How can you say things like that behind my back? Well, I'd say it to your face but my car's only got half a tank of gas. Women esp…
/r/MensRights14/10/25 09:32 PM
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Eh, things are cyclical and big companies will always chase trends. They managed to bring in a lot of women with the Avengers movies and were terrified they would lose their newfound audience in a space that had traditionally been dominated by male viewers. So they scrambled to find something that would maintain engagement and revenue. Focus groups told them women liked seeing strong powerful female role models, so they pushed that hard. Because if there's one thing the mouse now loves, it's fol…
/r/MensRights08/10/25 08:58 PM
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money. They want to hit the wildest possible spectrum of demographics. Research tells them they can get more men to watch a female lead than women watching a male lead. It's all about making the most profit possible.
/r/MensRights03/10/25 12:25 PM
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Someone who feels entitled but refuses to help themself. Who complains about their place in life, but then demands others fix it for them. If someone does help, their assistance isn't met with thanks, it's met with criticism and demands for more help. They do nothing with their life and feel that all their problems are the fault of others.
/r/MensRights12/09/25 02:35 PM
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I think it's because originally it did mean you wanted sex but couldn't get it for whatever reason. Not really a problem for other people, but I can see why it would suck for the guy who felt like they weren't good enough to get laid. The issue came when you had the loudest angriest of those guys take to social media and basically get all of them labeled as hateful, angry losers who despised everyone who was happy and would rape women if given the chance. They may have been a small minority of t…
/r/MensRights20/08/25 07:22 PM
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There's also the weaponized insecurity aspect of it. If a woman wants to join a man's group it's empowering and standing up to the old fashioned status quo that prohibited women from being equal to a man. Man wants to join a women's group there's an unfortunate number of people, both men and women, who will ridicule him for "not being a real man." For a very long time men caught a ton of shit from people for doing things that were traditionally associated with women. Think about how often you sa…
/r/MensRights05/05/25 03:59 PM
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The problem is everyone has a slightly different view on what cheating is. I think the best definition would be doing something that betrays the spoken or unspoken agreement regarding monogamy in the relationship. To some people talking to a person of the opposite sex would be cheating. To other people participating in a gangbang isn't cheating, but kissing another person without their partners knowledge would be. In any case, I think public shame and ridicule is a far better consequence than in…
/r/MensRights24/04/25 01:49 PM
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This is one of those things I've read about but never actually seen in person. I held a lot of doors and nobody has ever reacted negatively to it. Sounds like you ran into someone who wanted to be angry about something and found a reason.
/r/MensRights21/04/25 01:16 PM
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Don't date emotionally unbalanced people is a good start. That crazy girl who wants to fuck half way through the first date? Maybe hold off until you've determined what kind of crazy she is. The vast majority of women are fine, they're not going to try to send you to prison because they decided the next day they didn't actually want sex when they said they did. Most women like sex too, and most guys aren't going to try to do things that blur the line of what consent is. So most of the time, sex …
/r/MensRights13/03/25 05:05 PM
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It's a tightrope walk. You should be able to cry about big thing. But I've had friends who talked about how awkward it was to date a guy who cried over a lot of little things. That said, I would find it awkward to date a woman who cried that much too. One of my friends talked about how she was going to break up with a guy because there wasn't a strong connection and he kept inviting her over to his house then doing online gaming while she sat there annoyed and bored. But when she tried to break …
/r/MensRights06/03/25 08:44 PM
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Most people aren't horrible, at least with circumcision they're simply misinformed. People repeat what they're told and in America we had a big movement towards circumcision over 100 years ago as a way to keep boys from touching themselves. That was coupled with the advice that it's easier to keep clean if you don't have to pull skin back to clean it. Today that's not really an issue, the masterbation angle has been debunked and keeping it clean is as simple as washing it occasionally. There are…
/r/MensRights27/02/25 02:48 PM
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I've been with a pretty significant number of women and never had one actually reject me for having foreskin. Although there was a woman that I'd hooked up with a few times who told me over drinks that she could never be with an uncircumcised guy because it was too gross. I get the feeling a lot of women who say it's gross or unhygienic don't actually know what they're talking about. In the case of the woman she thought that intact guys had a long tube of skin hanging down from the tip that was …
/r/MensRights27/02/25 05:51 AM
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The fact that the majority of people in positions of high power are men does not mean that all men are powerful. It's similar to how the fact that Sydnee Sweeney exists does no mean all women are beautiful actresses. That specific woman is, but it doesn't mean your 60 year old overweight aunt with gout is going to be turning down offers to appear in perfume ads.
/r/MensRights16/01/25 03:29 PM
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In college a woman purposely got me black out drunk and raped me. I don't remember a lot of it, but I remember curling up into the fetal position to try to keep her from going down on me and trying to push her off while she was straddling me while my arms felt like jello. Being 20 at the time whiskey dick was not a thing so unfortunately my body responded even if my heavily intoxicated brain did not want it to. I was told that I slept around a lot anyways so I shouldn't be upset. No women took i…
/r/MensRights15/11/24 09:02 PM
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Pretty much, there have always been assholes in real life, and trolls on the internet, but now more people feel comfortable trolling those they don't like in real life. I see it as pretty much that. They're happy their side won, and want to rub it in the face of the people they dislike. They might be horribly offended if someone had that attitude with the women in their life, but if it makes a blue haired liberal scream in rage they're all about it.
/r/MensRights13/11/24 09:51 PM
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That's eye raising, but not exactly shocking to me. Think about how a lot of people have sex for the first time. They're probably younger, less confident, and less mature. So if one partner is pressuring the other for sex and the partner being pressured goes along with it because they're not confident enough to say no or wait, that can feel like rape. That might not be what their is actually doing, but to the partner feeling pressure, they don't want to but they feel like they can't say no. It's…
/r/MensRights13/11/24 02:49 PM
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It's a lot like what MGTOW started as. I remember being on that sub back before incels got banned and everyone migrated over. It was pretty cool. Mostly guys who'd been divorced or who were very career focused who decided that their life would be better if they didn't have romantic relationships. So there were a lot of posts about doing cool stuff on their own, decorating their house the way they wanted, or why they enjoy being single and not having the obligations or responsibility to a partner…
/r/MensRights07/11/24 08:58 PM
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I once had someone respond "Because guys have hands." To be fair, she was a bit drunk and realized that she had implied women don't have hands after I gave her a funny look. She then went on to clarify that her fingers don't feel like an actual dick, but using a dildo does, however a guy can just grab his dick and make it feel good.
/r/MensRights30/10/24 05:36 PM
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It can be taken as an accusation of cheating which many people would be highly offended by. I'd also be offended if my partner demanded to see my phone or put a location tracker on my car because they thought I was cheating. If they trust me that little, fuck them, I don't want to be with a partner who is going to have so little faith in me that they require 24 hour surveillance on me. If you don't have trust in a relationship, that's an unhealthy relationship. I think a lot of women would feel …
/r/MensRights12/08/24 06:32 PM
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It's the same way you get racists who say they hate a race, but not the people of that race they know, because they're different. But all the other people, they're the bad ones. Meanwhile, they're just racist.
/r/MensRights09/08/24 09:19 PM
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We really need a term for the female version of incel, because this is pretty much it. Reading way too much into this, I get the feeling that she has an unattractive personality so guys are willing to sleep with her, but not date her and now she's pissed that she can't keep a guy longer than the morning. Rather than look inwards and try to figure out what's driving men away, she's blaming the men for leaving. The incel comparison is due partially to the entitlement that she seems to feel owed a …
/r/MensRights08/08/24 07:46 PM
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Depends on the men and women. In general, my experience is men are often friendlier to men they're first meeting because when women are friendly to men there are a minority of men who will misinterpret that as flirting and make things weird. Again, not the majority of men, but talk to any server and they'll have stories about guys who take their niceness because they want a tip as them being interested in the guy. Men tend to be less guarded about other guys which lets us be friendlier with each…
/r/MensRights08/08/24 04:17 PM
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What's kind of crazy to me is the levels of domestic violence in lesbian relationships. Maybe it's a very odd sample group, but so many lesbians I know have at one point or another been in a violent relationship. And while it feels really weird to say this after that previous comment, on average, I get along with lesbians pretty well. I tend to treat everyone the same, men or women, so how the look or who they want to hook up with never is an issue. I just treat them the same way I would anyone …
/r/MensRights01/08/24 09:10 PM
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I feel like that's a bit different than saying they hate an entire gender though. I don't like dicks, not my thing, I still don't hate all other men though.
/r/MensRights01/08/24 09:07 PM
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That's the entire point. There is an ocean of attractive women willing to get naked for $10. They have to do something to stand out because she is functionally no different than every other attractive woman on OF. Since standing out in a good way is hard, she chose to stand out in a bad way. Regardless though, she stood out and is getting more followers because of it.
/r/MensRights11/06/24 04:43 PM
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In other news, marketing still exists. Onlyfans model has a controversy which results in lots of people being made aware they have an onlyfans account. Even if 95% of the people reading about her are like what a shitty person, that 5% who see it and think she's hot enough to spend money on make it worth it. Especially when things like this get picked up by the national news. It's all free publicity for them. The worse they behave, the more people see the story, the more people subscribe and the …
/r/MensRights11/06/24 04:41 PM
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I think there's a feeling that because some men have power all men are powerful. The reality is that just because Jeff Bezos happens to be a man doesn't mean some dude working a split overnight shift at a circle K has it any easier. It's like saying because Sydney Sweeney exists, all women are treated like rich beautiful actresses.
/r/MensRights08/05/24 08:33 PM
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Because painting an entire group of people with the same brush is generally seen as unfair and not something that should be encouraged. We as a society have worked to overcome stereotypes about race and we seemed to me making progress with gender. This feels like a step backwards.
/r/MensRights03/05/24 02:08 PM
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People do that. But what the person mislabeling someone else's sexuality never seems to understand is that A. That's not really the insult it was 30 years ago. Nobody cares who's gay these days. and B. It reeks of insecurity and closeted bigotry. If I hear someone telling people they didn't get laid because the other person is gay I'm assuming that person is an asshole and the person being labeled gay absolutely made the right call in avoiding them. They're not gay, they just have standards.
/r/MensRights22/04/24 02:10 PM
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I had a gay roommate for a while and I was super jealous of how easily he could find hookups. Not that I wanted to be with another guy, but I would see him go out to a bar and within an hour be back at some dudes apartment then be home by midnight. Getting laid wasn't a question, it was a matter of who. Granted, he was a blond haired, blue eyed, former gymnast, so his experience might be different from other less attractive guys, but still, as a straight guy it was like someone on a diet watchin…
/r/MensRights18/04/24 01:39 PM
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I know, I am 6'4 and have traveled a bit. As a teenager who was tall and awkward it was super uncomfortable adjusting to that aspect of other cultures because American is pretty much the opposite. And I realize it's not necessarily appropriate to go to another country and demand people stop doing something that is completely culturally acceptable there. But to Americans it can sometimes seem alarming and shocking. It's considered rude to stare in America to the point that doing so for too long a…
/r/MensRights23/03/24 03:06 AM
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It can work really well for certain people, but not everyone. I've had family friends who were in their 60's where they never married or had kids. They'd had a few girlfriends over the years, but apparently after they got past starting a family age they decided that being single was pretty awesome so there was no reason to partner up with someone. So instead they had a lot of time and income, a large social circle of both men and women, lots of cool toys like four wheelers and guns, and a house …
/r/MensRights18/03/24 05:56 PM
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When you go against the status quo it makes people who have fully embraced it uncomfortable. Society is becoming more accepting of it now, but for a long time women had the same issue where if they said they wanted to be child free it was almost sacrilege. It was seen as people's duty to find a partner and pump out kids. Not doing that was unthinkable or a source of pity. Oh you're not having kids? You must be infertile, right? Oh you don't want a partner? You must be secretly gay. Why else woul…
/r/MensRights18/03/24 05:49 PM
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It's pretty easy, if you want an equal partnership, don't date people who want a one sided relationship. It's kind of like women who are shocked and horrified when the guy they married who never does anything around the house and thinks cooking and cleaning are women's work doesn't help out when they have kids. It's like, what did you expect? You knew who you were dating. Yeah, it sucks, but you had every opportunity to find someone who was compatible with you and instead you chose someone who w…
/r/MensRights15/03/24 08:55 PM
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In a disagreement with a partner if I don't match her strong emotions I get told I'm like talking to a robot and I clearly don't care about us as a couple. If I do match their emotions by raising my voice without yelling I get told I'm too angry and it's not productive to the discussion or they escalate further by full on yelling and any hope of a positive outcome goes out the window. It's a lose lose situation. I feel like a lot of the time men's emotions are weaponized against them. Partners l…
/r/MensRights13/03/24 07:55 PM
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Kind of how some angry guys will call women who won't sleep with them sluts as an insult, some women will call men who don't agree with them incels even if it makes no sense in the context. It doesn't mean anything to them anymore. It's just weaponized words that they want to hurt the other person with. If they could think of a more insulting term they would use that instead. Gay slurs used to be a common go to insult until they started becoming socially problematic. I've talked to actual incels…
/r/MensRights29/02/24 04:12 PM
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Some people are assholes and you happened to run into three of them. They make themselves feel good by making other people feel bad. They might not be rich, but hey, they're not broke so they get to tell themselves they're better than you. Except they're wrong, they might have more money, but you're the better person because you don't hurt people to make yourself feel better. It's not a man or woman thing, it's an asshole thing, some people are just like that.
/r/MensRights01/02/24 03:48 PM
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Seriously, I remember seeing so much advice when pick up artists were a big thing were it was like like "Oh... buddy, no, please don't try that. It's not going to work and it's going to make everything so much worse for you. Instead of being the quiet guy who showed up with his friend you're going to be that guy who with a quiet shaking voice called her fat then told her he'd fuck her anyways." Touching a woman CAN work to help signal interest, but like pretty much everything it's very situation…
/r/MensRights16/01/24 05:08 PM
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I'm in agreement with you. The guys actions sound creepy as fuck and would unnerve anyone. Especially since it happened twice. This wasn't just a quick experiment that failed and he didn't do it again. He waited on a bridge for her, touched her, she got away from him, then he did it again later touching her waist that time. It's not like it was at a crowded place and he put a hand on her shoulder to try to signal he wanted to squeeze by. He waited for her alone on a bridge, spun around when she …
/r/MensRights16/01/24 05:01 PM
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It's because of the videos that get posted of guys looking at women like zombies. Having never been there I'm guessing that in India staring at people is pretty normal, but to a lot of westerners it's considered rude and creepy. So when you see a video of dozens of guys following one woman while staring at her, that is unsettling to many people.
/r/MensRights05/01/24 09:42 PM
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In my experience we're seeing a social change take place where in pervious generations women were told they HAD to have children and not doing so was them failing as a person and woman. Which meant there were a lot of moms out there who had no business trying to raise a kid doing so anyways because their mom told her that she had to give her grandchildren if she didn't want to become an old maid. Today women still have some pressure, but they're much more able to make their own choice about grow…
/r/MensRights03/01/24 02:52 PM
4

I can also see it becoming a weird political issue. "I'm not going to chemically neuter myself!" "On that side is pushing for men to not have kids? Of fucking course they are, well to spite them I'm not even going to wear condoms going forward. They hate our country and want to see birth rates fall!" "Bro, I'm a real man, I don't fuck with my balls, I just pull out or tell her to get an abortion."
/r/MensRights21/12/23 05:48 PM
3

If she's not a flight risk or a danger to the community it makes sense. Odds are she won't do it again while awaiting trial.... but she's a rapist pedo so logic might not work with her.
/r/MensRights06/12/23 10:07 PM
6

Part of the issue is some people see men being at the top of the power hierarchy as meaning all men have power. So the powerless majority are judged as if they were the powerful few. Which makes people say "What rights do you need? You already have all the power? Elon Musk having so much money he can get into intergalactic dick measuring contests has has no effect on some dude from Montana fighting for custody of his kids though. Some men may have an inordinate amount of power, but that doesn't …
/r/MensRights06/12/23 07:05 PM
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In her slight defense, even a lot of the Americans fighting in Vietnam didn't think we should be fighting in Vietnam. Some wars are fought for a good cause, Vietnam wasn't one of them. The way she did it pissed people off, but the idea that we shouldn't be there was popular with many people in America.
/r/MensRights30/11/23 09:54 PM
38

They used to be reversed. Late 70's and 80's comedies were all about seeing women naked who didn't consent to being seen. People rightfully realized that being a sexual predator isn't as funny as they thought it was. However, it seems like today some writers are saying "OK... so hear me out... what if the victim was a guy? It's funny then, right?" What's really astounding was that movie 40 days and 40 nights came out in 2002. You know the one where the main character is raped and then has to apo…
/r/MensRights17/11/23 05:37 PM
8

At some point hopefully the pendulum stops swinging and everyone gets to look at the other sex's naughty bits. I prefer women, but I get that some people would like to see a hot guy naked as well. I think it used to be a ratings thing where bush and boobs were fine, but labia and penis would get an X rating.
/r/MensRights17/11/23 05:31 PM
2

Because men for the most part don't identify as their gender in the same way that women do. Often we identify more with our profession, politics, region or religion, or family status. Women place a higher importance on their gender and tend to have more of a tribal view of it where an attack on one is an attack on all. Men are more like "I dunno, maybe that guy was a dick and deserved it. His shit's got nothing to do with me"
/r/MensRights17/11/23 03:40 PM
2

Did they portray the rapist as a bad person? The trailer makes it seem like she's putting up a mask of normality, but is unhinged underneath.
/r/MensRights23/10/23 03:36 PM
1

I've read before that women consider suicide at a higher rate, but men attempt it at higher rates and are more successful at it than women. I think the success rate partially came down to the way men and women killed themselves with women choosing ways that could be interrupted or recovered from more frequently and men choosing more immediate and catastrophic methods.
/r/MensRights20/10/23 07:36 PM
3

Wait what? How? I mean, most guys I know have had significantly more than 2 LTR partners. Maybe my sample size is unusual, but two seems extremely low to me.
/r/MensRights04/10/23 01:38 PM
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It's because some people have a very difficult time empathising with other people's issues when they regard theirs as the most important. To them, their issues are the ones that matter, and because they identify half the population as the cause of their issues, any attempt to illicit sympathy by someone in that group is seen as offensive. So no matter what you say, to them, you're the oppressor group and therefore underserving of any sympathy. You see a lot of who has it worse comparisons come u…
/r/MensRights26/09/23 05:24 PM
15

Some fetishes are weird. I know a woman who was really into the BDSM scene and would travel around the country going to conventions where her husband would consensually beat the ever living fuck out of her. He was a pro and was very careful not to leave marks that couldn't be covered with a long sleeve shirt, but I'd seen some of their performances and even with the context of enthusiastic consent it was pretty shocking how much pain he was inflicting on her. Sometimes people get off on things I…
/r/MensRights26/09/23 05:07 PM
3

God no. I mean, I'll avoid walking right behind someone late at night in poorly lit areas, but if I want to pass them I'll say something like "on your left" or "Can I squeeze by?" If there's something small I can do to put someone's fears at ease I'll do it like slowing my pace a little bit or the aforementioned polite acknowledgement that I'm passing them, but if they don't want to walk on the same side of the street as me, that's on them.
/r/MensRights26/09/23 04:43 PM
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It's a really tough conversation that needs to be had with young men. I don't want them to see women as the enemy any more than I want women to see men as the enemy. But the truth is there are bad actors out there who will do terrible life ruining things simply because they can. There are steps you can take to lessen the risk, but they're still out there and you can't always tell who is a good person.
/r/MensRights26/09/23 01:53 PM
1

Loss of libido is fine. It's the change in relationship compatibility people complain about. If you both start off no libido there's no problem. It could be a hormonal issue too, which may have other impacts that are less freeing, but in general everyone has a different level of sexual need.
/r/MensRights20/09/23 01:52 PM
2

I seem to remember the men's contract was more high risk high reward because the male players already made a lot money from their regular teams and endorsements. So they could afford the risk. The women however opted for more of a consistent contract that put less emphasis on performance, which makes sense if a lot of the players who aren't filming commercials for Subway are depending on that pay for things like rent and living expenses. But then they ended up doing really well and would have ma…
/r/MensRights18/09/23 03:16 PM
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I agree that 27 years is still a pretty damn good run. I know a lot of people have the definition of till death do us part, and that's great, but almost 3 decades is getting pretty high up there. It's not like a marriage that ended after 6 months or something. People can change a lot in half a lifetime, and sometimes those changes mean you're no longer right for the person you married three decades previously. It sucks, but I think staying together out of habit when you both know you no longer h…
/r/MensRights15/09/23 06:31 PM
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You can try to explain that there are a spectrum of people in any movement. Maybe start by asking her if she's ever heard people who identify as feminists say something along the lines of "All men suck." Does that one woman saying that mean all feminists hate men? Do you hate the male members of your family? Do you hate me? Then you can start talking about provable issues that effect men. Workplace fatalities, the draft, suicide rates, custody rates, support for abuse or or homelessness. It's al…
/r/MensRights14/09/23 03:07 PM
2

Yep, once they start consistently passing it's a double edged sword of "Hey, the world sees me as a man!" and "Why are people so mean now?"
/r/MensRights14/09/23 02:58 PM
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I've worked with a few trans people in the past and for the most part, they just wanted to live their lives. Being trans never really came up since it wasn't relevant to the job. I never knew their birth name but we still made small talk about the normal stuff you talk to any coworker about. The people who were in MLMs though... holy shit. I would rather work with all trans folks than just one person who wanted to tell me about this great side hustle they could share with me that would totally c…
/r/MensRights14/09/23 02:56 PM
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I see it as being polite. You can legally call a minority a slur and technically there's nothing they can do about it. However, everyone will rightly think you're an asshole. If someone wants to go by a different name or pronoun, I'll try to go along with it. I'll probably slip up from time to time, but that's not out of maliciousness, it's more just me forgetting if I knew them as a different name first. I feel the people that insist on using the non-preferred name or pronoun on purpose are a d…
/r/MensRights14/09/23 02:46 PM
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Unfortunately the reason she couldn't have custody and the reason she killed them were the same. She was bat shit crazy. Also, holy fucking shit. The photo they used of the 10 year old she shot has him wearing a Winchester shirt. Come on media... when a 10 year old get shot and killed, find photo where he's not potentially wearing an advertisement for his murder weapon. Also, the mom killed her 19 year old kid too who wasn't even involved in the custody.
/r/MensRights29/08/23 05:03 PM
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It's not quite knowing what they prefer, but more knowing if their preferences match up. Some people want to fuck every night, some people are happy with once a month. Some people like to be active and aggressive, some people like missionary with the lights off. Some people have kinks, some don't. You can talk about some things, but there's no real substitute for experience. There's also the issue where you read about couples waiting for marriage and one partner is like "Well, it turns out that …
/r/MensRights21/08/23 05:23 PM
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I don't think it's just women, but it's being noticed there more. People are less inclined to get involved these days. You're way more likely to see someone start recording with their phone that actually step into a physical confrontation. People also fight less these days. Maybe with older generations fighting was normalized, but it's far more stigmatized today. Which means people are less confident in their ability to throw a punch and when you combine that with others being more likely to car…
/r/MensRights08/08/23 09:09 PM
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Looks like the article says she was laid off after 13 years and sued because of that. I'm assuming that this was more a grasping at straws because she was pissed off at the company. Or she was a bad manager and the laid off part was the company being nice and not outright firing her.
/r/MensRights20/07/23 06:03 PM
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Especially when there's a power dynamic like a server where the customer is the one providing most of their income.
/r/MensRights12/04/23 02:22 PM
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If you're going to approach a strange woman in a parking lot because they forgot their purse a loud "MA'AM! Excuse me, ma'am! You forgot your purse!" should suffice. Nobody is trying to get laid calling a woman ma'am. It's like sexual kryptonite.
/r/MensRights05/04/23 04:33 PM
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Crazy people are crazy. Crazy people on drugs are especially crazy. I think that saying she killed people because she's a feminist based on her having pink hair is a gross look for this sub. I get disagreeing with people who use feminism as a means to be sexist assholes. But this seems to a person with some serious mental health and substance abuse issues.
/r/MensRights31/03/23 03:23 PM
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What will be really interesting is how they start to push in sponsored content. Your ex may have hinted towards you buying a $6000 engagement ring, but your AI girlfriend keeps discreetly shilling the all new Nissan Altima while drinking a delicious and refreshing Pepsi in her wardrobe sourced from H&M. "I hate Pepsi. It tastes like an old bar mat someone left in the sun." "Now dear, I think you're being too harsh on Pepsi. I like it and so do millions of people around the world. Have you tried …
/r/MensRights27/03/23 09:20 PM
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I think once we're at a point it can render photorealistic video in real time we'll see a boom in digital romantic partners. In theory everything could be randomized and procedurally generated, but realistically, you could probably have a couple dozen character models and personality options as starting points for the AI. I can absolutely see some of them developing cult like romantic followings as users gravitate towards certain character more than others. Some people already do it with charact…
/r/MensRights27/03/23 09:00 PM
2

Time to have a brief talk with her about what she actually wants. "Hey, So I was thinking about the other day. You're my friend and I care about you so I want to make sure you're safe, which is why I had been walking to your car. But, I can see how that might feel a bit infantilizing, like you're not able to protect yourself. So, I guess I'm asking what you would like me to do. I Wouldn't think less of you if you want me to walk you to your car, but at the same time, I don't want to be doing som…
/r/MensRights17/03/23 05:22 PM
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I think in a lot of relationships there's this subconscious feeling of if I don't see it, it doesn't exist. So for her, you're at your job having fun talking to the guys and not contributing to the household chores, because she doesn't see you working, she just sees you not doing stuff in the house. On the flip side, sometimes people who are at work and don't see their partner doing all the little jobs that only take 10 minutes individually, but add up over a whole day feel like their partner do…
/r/MensRights28/02/23 06:28 PM
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It's almost like communication and respect go a long way in a relationship. Congrats on finding a good partner.
/r/MensRights28/02/23 06:21 PM
4

That pretty much tracks with what I've seen. Outside of the online sphere, I've heard far more women make negative comments about women's appearances than men. Like, not even close. While it's not all women, there are some out there who take any opportunity to call a woman sexually derogatory names based on how they look, what they wear, or who she chooses to sleep with. Usually when I hear guys making comments in person, it's due to a bruised ego after being rejected or expecting rejection. Tha…
/r/MensRights21/02/23 09:12 PM
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Societies are full of outliers but at least in the US, it's generally considered rude to stare. That said, I've traveled all over the world and as a 6'4" white guy, I've learned that in many cultures staring at someone who is unusual for the area from the time they come into the view, until they're out of sight is completely normal. So I'd say it depends on the social norms where you currently are. If staring is considered rude where are and you do it anyways, that's kind of shitty. Same as it w…
/r/MensRights21/02/23 08:55 PM
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I'm somewhat curious as to how many couples today meet via apps vs organically. I know a few couples who met on apps, but the vast majority met through friends of friends, a night out, or at work. Dating apps are inherently superficial because all most people look at is the photo. So you get guys swiping on every single woman, and women only swiping on the most attractive guys. However, the other issue is men and women often have different goals. While women may enjoy sex, for many the goal is a…
/r/MensRights21/02/23 03:19 PM
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Go over the district manager head and also leave reviews everywhere you can find. That is highly inappropriate and almost certainly against their company policy.
/r/MensRights30/01/23 07:02 PM
1

That's very true but it's a fine line. They want Captain America, not Biff Tannen.
/r/MensRights12/01/23 02:43 PM
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I would argue that toxic masculinity does exist, but often it's a conditioned response rather than an intentional set of actions. It's being told your whole life to never show emotion so you shove all your feelings deep down inside until they find out outlet in a way that's counter to your well-being like violence or seemingly irrational anger. It's telling other men to suck it up and "man up" because nobody ever gave you sympathy for things that absolutely deserved sympathy so now you enforce t…
/r/MensRights12/01/23 02:42 PM
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Somewhat, I'm trying to think of an insult for women that conveys the lack of desirability. You're absolutely right that women get slut shamed, but there are still a lot of people out there who very much enjoy women that are more open sexually. Where as incels don't enjoy that same level of support. If anything the term slut denotes that they're desirable enough to have multiple partners whereas incel is pretty much the opposite. Women get shamed for too much sex, men get shamed for too little. …
/r/MensRights13/12/22 04:58 PM
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Absolutely not. Nobody is owed a romantic relationship regardless of the government's involvement in it. If one person wants marriage and the other doesn't, then that is an incompatibility. It doesn't mean one person is right and the other is wrong, they simply have different ideas about what they want in a relationship. It's similar to sex, if two asexual people want to be in a relationship and never have sex, that's great, because they're compatible. The issues come when one person has a sex d…
/r/MensRights01/12/22 07:17 PM
1

I agree somewhat, but I think part of the confusion with a lot of people is how the sexes receive validation differently. For many men, sex is a status symbol, and the lack of it is a sign that you're somehow broken or inferior. The fact that people have replaced virgin with incel in their insults is a pretty clear example of that. Even while criticizing men for being angry about not having sex, they're still mocking them for not having sex. Essentially reinforcing exactly what the guy is pissed…
/r/MensRights07/10/22 08:01 PM
2

I agree. I remember when incel was first a thing and I was like hey, that's a pretty good description for it. They want a partner, but for various reasons can't find someone who they mutually connect with. Sometimes it was mental health issues, or shyness, or body image, or financial issues, but the common thread was they wanted a partner, but didn't have one. Then super toxic guys started using the phrase as almost a badge of honor. By toxic I mean guys who would angrily spout off stuff decryin…
/r/MensRights07/10/22 02:16 PM
2

"So... let's take that 1970's movie, I Spit on Your Grave, you know, the one with the really intense and prolonged rape scene, gender swap it, then make it a zany slapstick. I hear Seth Rogan is available, he'd make a great Jennifer!"
/r/MensRights10/05/22 08:07 PM
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You'd think he would be able to petition for full custody considering the other parent is a child rapist.
/r/MensRights10/11/21 06:47 PM
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Oh... you mean their actual fathers. I thought you were referring to the men who took care of their financial needs in exchange for "companionship". Honestly though, there's a guy out there for her. He would be a nightmare for any other women to date because of the materialism, lack of loyalty, and misogynistic attitude but for her, he would be perfect. The kind of guy who makes enough to be totally on board with paying to have an attractive woman who was always up for sex, looked good on his ar…
/r/MensRights19/05/21 03:20 PM
2

While I think there are sexual discrimination issues out there, class privilege is a real thing and frequently it can be mistaken for whatever other sort of privilege people are concerned about. Money and power go together and protect people from the consequences of their actions. If you don't have money or power, then you don't have much protection.
/r/MensRights11/05/21 03:30 PM
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Outrage sells. We've become desensitized to murder to the point that the sensational part isn't that she killed seven people. So media companies have to put a different spin on it if they want anyone to actually read the article. So rather than talk about how horrible the murders are they sensationalize outrage over her punishment. It will drive more clicks and views and therefore be more profitable.
/r/MensRights26/04/21 09:57 PM
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Look at is an opportunity to help people understand your point of view. Don't let yourself get angry, don't say that women don't matter, because they do, TOO. The point here isn't that women's issues aren't important, or that they should be ignored, the point is that men also face issues. Pretending that one side's problems don't exist because the other side's problem exists isn't equality. This shouldn't be an either-or proposition. As a society, we should want to make the lives of all people b…
/r/MensRights25/03/21 04:38 PM
1

Think of them like socks with sandles. There's nothing wrong with it. They can be comfortable and useful at the same time, but some people have decided they're incredibly unfashionable. If you like wearing them and you're not trying to impress teenagers or college kids nobody cares. Honestly, even people who are in the loop with fashion enough to know that they're now considered uncool probably don't care that much. I still wear them around the house when I'm working on stuff because they're so …
/r/MensRights20/07/20 04:01 PM
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I was in a dead bedroom relationship for a couple of years. At the time I didn't know about subreddits like deadbedrooms and I was too embarrassed to talk to any friends about it so it was a very dark and lonely time in my life. However, it would be easier to take if I knew the reason why it was happening. When we talked about it my girlfriend at the time would only say she was still attracted to me, but just didn't feel like sex/was too tired/felt gross/was stressed about work/had to get up ear…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/05/20 11:21 PM
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I've described it like a four-legged chair where one of the legs has broken off. If you still have three legs on the chair you can sit in it, and if you don't move around too much you can stay like that for a long time. But it's not stable and it's not a good chair. You would never buy a new chair knowing it was missing a leg because you can never really relax in it. One wrong move will send the whole thing crashing down. LL partners don't see the instability though, they just see a chair that s…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/05/20 06:08 PM
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One of my previous roommates was a very cool gay guy. He'd occasionally invite me to gay bars with him and I'd go because he was fun to hang out with and I'm comfortable enough in my sexuality not to worry about people I'm not into hitting on me. Maybe it's just because he would introduce me to people as his straight friend 2muchtequilia and his other friends took that as a challenge, but I'd never been hit on more in my life. Granted it was by people I had absolutely no interest in hooking up w…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/05/20 03:11 PM
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At what point does being odd stop being appealing? Like in college, if you were a manic pixie dream girl with tattoos, a wierd pet and quirky mannerisms I was super into you. However, a lot of the time the people who wrapped themselves in the identity of being "strange" were doing it as a cover for their insecurities of not being interesting or smart enough on their own. So it's like they had to invent this cover of "Look at me! I'm so quirky and special! ....but please don't look too deep becau…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/05/20 03:01 PM
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Yep, nobody is owed anything when it comes to dating. If we're going to tell incels that they need to work on themselves and be realistic about who they're able to date I see no reason that the same shouldn't apply to mid-40's women who have trouble finding dates. It's the same complaint from both groups "The person I desire wants someone I'm not and that makes me angry! Their preference is wrong!" Nobody is owed anything. Not the neckbeard sitting in his parent's basement, eating Doritos, hopin…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/05/20 03:32 PM
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Theater, art and education programs. Theater for everyone fucking everyone because sex is fun. Art for everyone fucking everyone but ascribing some deep meaning to it, and education for getting blackout drunk four nights a week and fucking whoever is closest to you and reasonably attractive.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/05/20 03:35 PM
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It's shitty tabloids tearing people down so their shitty readers feel better about themselves. Normally it's" "This actress who was a sex symbol 10 years ago got SO FAT!!! Look at her! Sure, she's bending over, shot at a weird angle, not wearing makeup, and is 10 years older, but gaze upon her hideousness and feel superior!!!" This is just more of the same "Hey you know that guy who would never fuck you in a million years? Well, his dick might be small when he gets out of the cold ocean, so now …
/r/MensRights01/05/20 04:32 PM
16

There are enough guys out there who just swipe right without looking that odds are still good she'll match with a few of them.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/04/20 09:15 PM
3

If someone isn't paying perhaps it's the quality of content that is the problem. "The customer is always right" wasn't a comment on customer service, it was a reference to no matter how amazing you think your product is, if the customer doesn't like it, you're not going to make any money.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/04/20 03:43 PM
9

She'll find someone to take care of her. There's always someone out there willing to belive a good story when it's told by a pretty face.
/r/MensRights08/04/20 04:49 PM
29

Prince Harry always seemed like a regular dude who was born into the wrong family. I imagine he's spent his entire life being told "As a prince, you have to do to X" or "as a prince you're absolutely not allowed to ever do X." Being a royal meant that every teenage fuckup that would be a funny joke among normal friends was displayed on newsstands all over the world. Being a royal meant that when he joined the military he was able to serve with regular guys on the front lines until some asshole t…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/03/20 03:49 PM
3

Oh trust me, I searched on google for like five minutes to figure out who he was. I just assumed you were Canadian and had some sort of encyclopedic knowledge of minor league players from the '70s.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/03/20 09:21 PM
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I suppose it depends on the woman. Personally, if someone has the self-respect to be somewhat choosey and presence of mind to be safe then the number isn't an issue for me. I like confidence, so I like women that can be honest about things like having a sex drive and knowing what they like. That's very different than women who have the mentality of "Maybe if I suck his dick he'll like me." Then they wonder why the guy still doesn't want to date them after they've been his human fleshlight for tw…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/03/20 08:25 PM
1

I can see where you're coming from, but that implies that women are losing when they sleep with you or me. If we're doing it right, both people should walk away feeling like they won even if it's just a one time hookup or friends with benefits thing. There are absolutely women out there looking to use men for money, security, or status. But sex drives exist and sometimes, women just want to get laid with someone they're attracted to and they like hanging out with. Gender culture is changing and …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/03/20 08:11 PM
28

I've slept around quite a bit, probably more than most people. I was always safe, and never had any issues with STDs or unexpected pregnancies. For me at least, demanding that a woman I date have a low number of past partners would be extremely hypocritical. However, there's a big difference in my mind between someone who is careful and has standards and someone who says "good nuff" at 2 AM and raw dogs it with a random dude in a porta-potty. I'm way less concerned with the number than I am self…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/03/20 05:26 PM
4

She did that because lots of people are scared to let down others, it's like they think it's preferable to cause more pain if they don't have to see it rather than tell someone bad news themselves. It's selfish, cowardly and unfortunately common among people who don't have much emotional maturity. It also sounds like you were her plan B in case plan A didn't work out. So, she did a shitty thing and tried to hide it so maybe you'd still be around later. You can do way better than that.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/02/20 06:28 PM
6

That's actually how it should be, and not just for women. If you're casually dating someone you should make sure you're both on the same page before you start turning other people down. If you think things are getting serious and she just likes your dick, then that's going to suck for you down the line. Having a conversation about "Hey, we're just FWB, right?" might hurt for one person if they wanted more, but it's a hell of a lot better than finding out the other person didn't want a relationsh…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/02/20 06:21 PM
4

That's the problem. I have no doubt that if a woman acted the same way to him as she would to me if I propositioned her he would be vindictive enough to torpedo her career. Powerful people aren't used to being told no, particularly not by some nobody who's never been in anything and has no connections. The problem is, does he actually have to say the words "Do this or else" when everyone around him knows the likely outcome for turning him down.
/r/MensRights12/02/20 10:49 PM
5

It's tempting for good reason. Go up to a guy doing roofing in Texas sometime in the middle of summer. Let him know that if he's willing to suck your dick, he'll start making seven figures a year and never have to climb another ladder carrying a five-gallon bucket of sealer in 110-degree heat again. I don't care how straight you are, that level of life improvement would be tempting. Sucking a dick and sucking a dick for a life-altering amount of money and success are two different things. in my …
/r/MGTOW20/01/20 10:40 PM
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Fuck it, more power to her. If overweight old dudes can pull in hot 19-year-olds just because they have money and fame, why shouldn't she? Pool boy! Get in here and stay down there until I tell you to stop, then grab me a glass of rose and put on the Great British Bake Off. Does that work for the lady down the hall in your apartment complex who smells like menthols and depression? Hell no, but she wasn't in Basic Instinct.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/01/20 09:21 PM
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Wait till he transforms back into a human and she's all like "Oh... It uh... shrunk." "Well, yeah, I was transformed into a beast, I became big and hairy all over. I mean... it's still normal size, and not to brag, but it's probably even a bit above average for a normal man." "Yeah..... but.... It was Beast sized before... I'm sure we can figure something out, It's cute." "Cute? Oh come on, it's still big, just not monstrous. Besides I'm happy to be back, I'm saving a fortune on shampoo and Luth…
/r/MGTOW06/01/20 05:23 PM
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Not exactly true. If it's a job where a lot of people are doing the same thing then yes, most people with the same amount of experience will be paid the same. Women however on average are less likely to aggressively negotiate starting pay rates and demand raises. So you can actually have cases where a man and a woman in an office are in similar roles but the man makes more because he negotiated harder or asked for a raise. I think it's becoming less pronounced these days, but I read an article a…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/12/19 04:13 AM
1

Bipolar of its own shouldn't be a deal-breaker. It's like dating someone with any chronic illness, where the important part is are they getting treatment and managing it appropriately. It probably adds a degree of complexity to the relationship, but if your partner understands that part of themselves and is actively seeking treatment to make sure it doesn't negatively impact their life it shouldn't be a huge deal.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/12/19 07:10 AM
16

I've thankfully learned my lesson but for a few years there, I couldn't help but go for the manic bipolar pixie dream girl. They were exciting and fun. Sure, other girls might not cheat on me or steal things or make suicide threats, but they probably also wouldn't try to convince their roommate to have a threesome with us, or buy a half-gallon of cheap vodka and announce we're skipping class to drink screwdrivers all day. The relationships were like little explosions. Firey and intense, and usua…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/12/19 08:58 PM
14

Which is somewhat odd because out of necessity Russia at least was comparatively pro-equality in the Soviet days. While in the US if you were a woman and you wanted to work in stem you better be good at typing, in Russia they were more like "Fuck it, got a working brain? Get your ass in here comrade, half our people are dead and we're busy trying to figure out how to murder the other half."
/r/MensRights13/11/19 10:03 PM
2

I see being an adult as being able to take responsibility for your actions and have the willpower to motivate yourself to do what's needed even if it isn't fun or pleasant. It's planning ahead and working towards goals. It's self-improvement and self-care while maintaining empathy for others. Having a wife and kids is not necessary to "be an adult" but being an adult is necessary to have a healthy relationship with your spouse and children. There are plenty of people out there doing good in the …
/r/MGTOW23/10/19 03:41 PM
11

Sadly I think you're mostly right. I've head men talk shit about longer labias but it was usually about ex's or some woman they felt had wronged them. I've never in my life heard a man talk shit about longer labia unless there was some other reason to be unhappy with her. Women reading this: As long as it doesn't impede function, men don't care about your labia's appearance. Cleanliness is way more important, so as long as you've taken a shower and don't smell/taste like you've been eating pickl…
/r/MensRights21/10/19 03:14 PM
15

It would be thrown out, but you would still have to retain an attorney which costs money. The unfortunate reality is it costs the cops nothing to hit you with a bogus charge, and it costs you an hourly rate to defend yourself.
/r/MensRights26/09/19 09:55 PM
26

The last 10 seconds of this video provides a lot more context. "Why can't you do it?" "You know why, because of the interlock thing." She got a DUI and was forced to have an alcohol interlock installed in her car. To my knowledge, you usually don't get that on the first DUI. So she's a drinker who can't control herself when intoxicated. My guess is it's the weekend and she's drunk in this video too. I imagine this guy is sick of being painted as the bad guy when she gets drunk and throws a tantr…
/r/MGTOW26/09/19 04:35 PM
10

If you're someone who is able to comfortably live in a space that small then it's awesome. It's a very minimalist lifestyle and there are certainly challenges and occasional discomfort but for the right person it's way better than an apartment. Although every boat person I've been around has been a bit odd. Not in a bad way, just in the kind of way where one day they decided fuck it I'm getting rid of 80% of my crap and living in an 8 foot wide house that can sink. I've heard marina communities …
/r/MGTOW16/09/19 09:29 PM
69

If you're famous and good looking enough people let that stuff slide. Case in point: Chris Brown is still making money. If that was Christopher Brown the McDonalds employee who likes to sing he'd still be in jail.
/r/MGTOW26/08/19 03:05 PM
25

They're pretty awesome. You should check out their other songs.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/08/19 05:05 PM
8

I don't really see anything wrong with it in either case, but I also used to do the same thing. I worked as a professional photographer and I took photos of quite a few friends as a hobby since my work didn't have me taking many artsy portraits. Most of the time my friends were fully or at least partially clothed, sometimes they weren't. Unless she's selling the photos or otherwise distributing them without the model's consent this seems more like fake outrage than something people would actuall…
/r/MGTOW12/08/19 09:53 PM
4

That's pretty much how I see MGOTW in a perfect world. There's a ton of posts about how women suck, and how men are better off without them. But they seem less about going your own way and more about following a group of people around you say you don't care about loudly proclaiming how little you care about them. The older guys I know who aren't married and don't have kids aren't like that. They're happy with themselves. They have big circles of friends, lots of money for fun stuff, houses decor…
/r/MGTOW25/07/19 08:25 PM
11

She's honest at least. It's kind of like the warning on a power transformer box. If you ignore the warning, pry open the cover and stick your dick in it, you're going to have a bad time and you probably deserve the pain.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/07/19 02:49 PM
8

Emotionally as well. I don't have a hell of a lot in common with a 20-year-old anymore. Sure, we probably both like drinking, but I'd rather order a cocktail than a shot and the gossipy drama that I remember being apart of dating at that age would drive me insane now. While I agree that your average 25-year-old is probably more objectively attractive than your average 35 year old, I still value having stuff in common with a partner if it's anything more than a one-night stand. I've dated beautif…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/07/19 04:14 PM
2

Tom Leykis, that's a name I've not heard in a long time. I think it would impact men as well. Companies are very controversy averse at this point. If you have two equal candidates for a manager position, and one of them has nudes floating around that are publicly assessable that could harm his chances of being promoted. A lot of careers have morality clauses that would terminate people regardless of their gender. On a relationship level, yeah men probably wouldn't care as much as women would but…
/r/MGTOW30/05/19 04:11 PM
17

Keep in mind, she's on this show for a reason. I imagine she saw this as a way to promote her frosting company and go viral by telling a good story. People in the audience are laughing along with her at Steve's reactions. She's not getting pissy or defensive which most super entitled/narcissistic people would do. Have you ever seen an asshole get told they're wrong? They don't laugh and smile like that. I'm not saying there aren't really women out there like her with an unreasonable list of dema…
/r/MGTOW30/05/19 03:56 PM
6

Holy shit. Depending on how and where they harvest their data this is going to have some life-altering impacts on people. If they expand it to men and women on NSFW subs or fetlife it would catch so many more people than just paid porn stars. I really wonder if the next generation that grows up with that level of exposure will they stop sending nudes or just go "Meh, yeah, people have seen me naked, who cares?"
/r/MGTOW29/05/19 04:13 PM
7

Only if the stigma around male sex toys goes away. Women's sex toys are accepted in pop culture and growing less and less taboo all the time. Pretty much the only people who find them gross or weird now are conservative or religious groups who consider non-procreational sexuality to be bad. When men's sex toys, in whatever form, are no longer considered weird or neckbeardy by the majority of the population then you'll see an explosion in development. When we get to the point where there's a toy …
/r/MGTOW20/05/19 09:44 PM
1

I was listening to a report about the refugee camps for isis families. Many of weren't originally from Syria and moved there to assist ISIS in the war effort. Now that ISIS is mostly defeated they're left in these camps because their home countries don't want to take them back. Now, I have a lot of sympathy for the kids, they didn't ask for that and they didn't get say in who their parents were. I wish something could be done to help them because children don't deserve that kind of suffering. Bu…
/r/MGTOW01/04/19 03:44 PM
7

I want to put her and one of the cringiest incels I can find together in a locked room with nothing but a bottle of bourbon to share. You'd either have a murder or some of the ugliest angriest sex nobody ever wanted to see.
/r/MGTOW18/03/19 03:12 PM
1

We'll see how long social security is around for. Currently the SSA preditcts that by 2035 the program will only be able to support 75% of it's obligations. So Gen X might be ok, but not get back as much as they put in. I keep hearing how by the time millenials retire it will be one of those quaint old ideas.
/r/MGTOW28/02/19 09:24 PM
32

I like kids and I like the idea of having them. However, I completely understand my childfree friends and would never judge them for it. If you don't want kids don't let anyone try to guilt or shame you into having them. We have enough people already, we don't need more people who's parents didn't want them. If someone asks who you think is going to take care of you when your older, you can tell them that with the money you'll save not paying to raise children/buy a huge house/paying for divorce…
/r/MGTOW28/02/19 03:03 PM
6

Part of it is quality vs quantity as well. Most women could get laid any time they want, just not by someone they're attracted to. If you look like the elephant man with tits Ryan Reynolds isn't going to be knocking down your door to sleep with you, Frank Reynolds might be though. "I don't know how many years on this earth I got left, but I'm gonna get real weird with it" ~ Frank Reynolds
/r/MGTOW22/02/19 09:38 PM
2

I'm sure it didn't help that he skipped bail, never appeared at the trial and had been warned previously about speeding in the boat.
/r/MensRights25/01/19 03:48 PM
23

Ad agencies exist to help companies find the button that makes you buy something. Once they locate the forever moving button, they'll spam the hell out of it, milking it for all it's worth. Right now one of the buttons is somewhere around social justice. A few of years ago there was a button around organic/sustainable products. Remember how everything from toothpaste to dog toys was "natural" for a while there despite the product being unchanged? Increased profits always justify the means for bi…
/r/MensRights17/01/19 04:50 PM
7

With SNL I think back about old episodes and wonder why it's not as funny as it used to be. Then I remember that I thought the same thing back then too. It's never funny, except for the parts that are. Occasionally you have seasons where you have a higher percentage of hits than misses, but generally, comedy is risky and they throw a lot of air balls up for every slam dunk. I'll keep watching because I knew eventually it will cycle through and get on another hot streak.
/r/MensRights15/01/19 09:45 PM
8

Grey Advertising is currently really pushing SJW messaging in their campaigns. It resonates with an increasing percentage of the population so they're using it to sell more product for clients. P&G didn't come up with the idea or create the ad spot, they simply OK'd it to run and paid for it. They don't give two shits about toxic masculinity, they just want people to buy more razors and jumping on an advertising bandwagon is normally the way to do it. They had some success with the spot with the…
/r/MensRights15/01/19 09:37 PM
8

A lot of the positive stuff I saw on there was essentially basic self-improvement advice halfheartedly disguised as pickup techniques. It's almost like people want to be with someone who has their shit together even if it's just a one night stand. If you're happier and healthier then people of both sexes will want to be around you more. Most of the toxic masculinity I see is some combination of insecurity, social illiteracy, lack of empathy or anger. To me, masculinity is ordering a fruity drink…
/r/MensRights15/01/19 09:26 PM
70

Every relationship has one person who's more dominant in the decision making. Sometimes that's the man, sometimes that's the woman. Some men want to be the leader, the person who calls all the shots. Some men like not having to make the decisions at home, if you work a demanding job where people look to you all day to fix their shit, sometimes it's nice just to come home and not have to decide anything. Whatever works for you. The key thing is, the decision maker has to be willing to put the oth…
/r/MGTOW28/11/18 04:51 AM
2

A historically accurate WW2 sim would likely be boring as fuck. If you want a combat simulator, go play ARMA. If I want to jump out of a plane, shoot down the fighter behind me with a bazooka before falling back into the cockpit of the plane i just bailed out of I'm going to play Battlefield.
/r/MGTOW10/11/18 05:24 PM
5

That doesn't seem like it could be a real posting. Has anyone actually been able to find a source for that? I'm all for jumping on stupid shit people say, but be careful about falling for misinformation.
/r/MGTOW12/10/18 09:14 PM
-1

I feel like the accusation wasn't political, however, everything surrounding it including the way it was released and handled on both sides was. Say you knew of a crime that was committed, you're a school teacher and a student told you a couple months ago their neighbor exposed and fondled themselves in front of the student and you're the only adult who knows. Would you tell the parents right away or would you wait two months until parent-teacher conferences so you can try to get bonus points fo…
/r/MensRights12/10/18 07:34 PM
-1

Old school can be a pretty big double-edged sword for women. It means taking care of your partner and your family without the wife having to work, expecting a clean house and a hot meal when you get home, and in general being the head of household with final say on all decisions. Unfortunately for her, it also means avoiding women with kids because why would you pay for someone else's bastard? There's a reason we left the old school in the past. If you want someone with 1950's values, you don't …
/r/MGTOW12/10/18 03:36 PM
2

If the world wasn't filled with more good people than bad society wouldn't work. Yes, shitty people exist, but thankfully good people outnumber them.
/r/MensRights10/10/18 04:57 PM
13

It depends on which feminists you're talking to. Some are actually super in favor of it being legalized. It goes somewhat hand in hand with the idea that the government shouldn't be able to tell you what to do with your own body. They'll let women work as fighter pilots, doctors, and offshore fishermen but sucking a dick for money? Nope, sweety, your little woman brain isn't developed enough to know that's wrong, so we're going to pass laws so you don't have to decide. If you disagree and do it …
/r/MGTOW09/10/18 07:15 PM
12

And then you would spend the next several years in prison and have your life ruined. If something like this happens, call the cops, get a paper trail going with her name attached to it, visit the doctor for the neck and face pain your experiencing then visit your friendly neighborhood attorney and rain holy hell down on her. Yes, it's unfair, but the reality is you're going to hurt your future way more than you're going to hurt her if you keep it physical. Don't let your opponent decide the batt…
/r/MGTOW04/10/18 09:48 PM
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You're going to run into the "Not every woman" counterargument. Which is true, not every woman does that. Some women marry the person they dated in high school, some want a nerdy guy who's into computers, some are socially awkward, super religious or just plain old exceedingly unattractive. We're not really talking about them though. We're talking about the average girl, the average guy wants to sleep with. Even though pretty much all of us know at least one woman who fits the description to a T…
/r/MGTOW30/08/18 09:04 PM
82

A phrase I've heard is in a knife fight the loser dies on the street, the winner dies in the ambulance.
/r/MensRights29/08/18 03:49 PM
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It's like a gunshot victim telling a stabbing victim they don't need a hospital because their injury isn't as bad. They're both bad. Who cares which is "worse", that's not the point. The point is neither one should be happening. This isn't a men vs women argument, this is a don't mutilate people's genitals argument.
/r/MensRights29/08/18 03:18 PM
2

Like I posted above, they're sensationalist because that's what people want to read. A normal paper will write: the circus is coming to town. Here's where it is, here's how much it costs. The Daily Mail will write: London is being invaded by man-eating tigers! A traveling circus will import ferocious Bengal tigers, the same type of beast that's killed thousands of people throughout history. As of this moment, it's unclear what if any safety measures will be in place to prevent innocent children …
/r/MensRights29/08/18 02:45 PM
2

Revenue. The Daily Mail is known for being more editorial than news. Their writing style is less about facts and more about sensationalism because that's what brings in readers, which brings in money. Anytime you see an article from the Daily Mail take what you read with a grain of salt and try to find corroborating articles in more reputable publications.
/r/MensRights29/08/18 02:39 PM
50

If a woman ever starts hitting you and you're not surrounded by witnesses and or cameras... run. I know people like to joke about "equal rights means equal lefts" but just get out of there. Don't try to block punches or slaps. Don't try to restrain her or talk her down. Just run, literally run, as in put as much ground between you two as possible. Get out of there before something happens that you can be arrested for. A lot of jurisdictions have rules about requiring someone to go to jail in a d…
/r/TheRedPill24/08/18 04:42 PM
4

I listened to an interview with her a while back. Started out as a stripper at 16 or 17 and began dating people with money in the music industry. She also talked about how she likes/expects guys she's seeing to buy her extremely expensive things. Personally, I'd never date someone who expected that, but then again, women who demand that as part of the relationship aren't exactly beating down my door. I think the khaki cargo shorts and brewery t-shirt may be an indicator that I'm not what they're…
/r/MensRights13/08/18 05:57 PM
2

It's kind of a dog whistle to certain guys who go for that type of woman. If you're someone who brings nothing to the table and normal woman won't touch you, this is your best shot. She's not swinging for the fences, she's looking for someone just as fucked up as her who will put up with things that send healthy well-balanced people running for the hills.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/07/18 08:41 PM
1

I like to use the line "I'll pay tonight, you pick up the tab next time." If they act anything other than perfectly happy with that arrangement then there's not going to be a next time. Fortunately, the only objections I've had were women who wanted to split it 50/50 which I'm also fine with.
/r/MGTOW17/07/18 08:35 PM
2

So I'm the first to admit that I think a lot of redpill stuff goes overboard. That said, acting confidently uninterested did more to attract women than any bad pickup lines, negging or "game" ever could. It's not about being mean, or rude or putting them down. It's about showing that you're fine no matter the outcome. You go home with the girl? great! She turns you down? Who cares, there will be others, it's her loss, not yours. There's no need to be mean about it, she's already lost out, move o…
/r/TheRedPill09/07/18 04:49 PM
6

One of my previous roommates was gay and occasionally I'd go to his favorite gay bar with him. As a moderately attractive straight guy holy shit did getting hit on constantly get old fast. Most guys were cool when I said "sorry, I'm straight, just here with my gay roommate who you should absolutely talk to." However, there were a couple guys who wouldn't give up and did their damnedest to convince me that I really was attracted to them and just didn't know it yet. It was one of those moments whe…
/r/MensRights16/03/18 07:54 PM
15

Isn't league play based on hitting your average? So it's less about being crazy good, and more about being crazy consistent? If so, even if she sucks, as long as she sucks constantly she'd be fine.
/r/MensRights16/03/18 07:43 PM
16

That's one thing I judge people on, how/if they talk about ex's. Unless I'm interacting with your ex, your opinion of them has no effect on me. Trash talking them only makes you both look bad. Stay classy about it or don't bring them up.
/r/TheRedPill30/01/18 10:19 PM
14

Some have latex sensitivity, some don't like how it tends to dry out the vagina, some don't like the taste of them if it's going to be a longer session, some want to get pregnant, some want to have the guy finish in or on them because they think it's sexy, some want to spread disease,some just don't want to wait the 10 seconds to have it put on. Sex without a condom feels better for both people in general.
/r/MensRights31/10/17 02:45 PM
35

Some of the best advice I've heard is if a new partner says that the two of you don't need protection, you ABSOLUTELY need protection. Ironically, it's the people who use protection every time that you don't need it with.
/r/MensRights31/10/17 02:42 PM
29

This is just a headline to get clicks and we're feeding right into it. I imagine there are way more people forwarding that saying it's BS than there are agreeing. In any case, two out of the three most powerful women have been raped in the series and the third was made to walk naked through the streets having literal shit thrown at her. Sure, John Snow got stabbed in the chest, but at least Yarwyck didn't first flip him over, drop his breaches and go to town while Sam watched helplessly. The who…
/r/MensRights16/08/17 02:53 PM
3

I used to not like straight alcohol outside of shots, then I upgraded my liquor choices. Apparently, when you're not drinking bottom-shelf rotgut it can actually be pretty tasty.
/r/MensRights26/05/17 09:46 PM
3

Winner. Pale ales are "boring" so they just make a pale ale and dry hop the hell out of it.
/r/MensRights26/05/17 09:45 PM
1

Her poor son.
/r/MensRights25/07/15 06:09 AM
3

yeah, I gotta say having had a janitor job in the past that involved cleaning both men's and women's restrooms. Men's room have some splash back around urinals and occasionally right in front of the toilet. Woman's rooms look like a bunch of guys played the "how far back can I stand and still hit the toilet" game. That's not even going into poop splatter and improper disposing of tampons and pads.
/r/MensRights26/05/15 11:15 PM
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