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Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
26	My HVM was actually just a golddigger I’m glad you kicked him to the curb. Looking through your post history I can’t help but notice what you said about him in regards to your grieving process. I hope you now realize that is an orange flag at best. I had an experience with a LVM who was jealous that I put so much energy in to grieving instead of him. At the time I thought it was reasonable and justified. 🤡 Only to realize a few years later that someone who really loves you and cares for you won’t make you feel uncomfortable for grie…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	03/12/21 01:48 AM
4	Do not refrain from running a background check, snooping his phone, or showing up uninvited — trust but verify. Which tactics have you used to check his credibility? It’s worth spending money on too tbh. I would have saved a lot if I ran the background check on my ex in the beginning/prior to the relationship vs at the end.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	07/11/21 04:10 PM
40	Moving in with him = You are his ATM. If, for whatever reason anyone does consider breaking this rule - consider a cohabitation agreement. Basically a pre-nup for people living together (especially if you own the house). It protects you in case things go south. I would consider any objection to this a red flag. I wish I knew these existed when I was younger.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	08/09/21 04:36 AM
28	Stop sending men paragraphs. There are only TWO things that are worth saying to a guy before you block and delete... and even then, it's not recommended. You’ve got some great points and I often times have felt that it was important that I got the last word in... but I truly believe a straight block & delete is better. Here’s why: if you call them out on their red flags or manipulation, they will look at whatever prompted you to say that and LEARN from it. Which just means that the red flag might not be so obviously red, or the manipulation might be harder to detect for the next girl. You don’t owe them an explanation and you certainly don’t owe …	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	08/04/21 01:25 AM
6	Found one ya’lls boyfriend, time to make him an ex. I could hear this in my ex LVMs voice... 😩whoever’s man this is, dump him, life will be so much better when you don’t have to spend every minute of the day validating someone. Trust me 🤞	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	19/11/20 04:37 AM
3	Reminder: LVM don't like it when you have a support system How would you approach a situation where you do actually have to explain you are new to the area? Counter it by saying you are still well connected to your old home? Lie and say you already are well connected in your new home? Also - definitely a handbook worthy post!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	02/08/20 07:17 PM

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