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You nailed it in your first sentence. Its is banter. Americans do not really use that word as much as English do. So the seduction community tried to come up with dorky and convoluted ways to breakdown and dissect the idea of banter. It is shit tests when women do it, and negs when men do it. The pickup artists who wanted to make money pretended that they invented the concept and could teach it to average guys by creating banter formulas that could be memorized.
/r/seduction23/02/22 07:22 AM
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Being flirty is like being funny or being cool. It is a very subtle flavor, or elusive feeling. It is exactly the kind of thing that is hard to put into how-to rules. Imagine someone said "I tell a lot of jokes but dont get many laughs. How can I be more funny." People could give him a bunch of rules about what makes a joke funny, but that can only help so much. I am a natural flirt. Hang out with flirty people and then copy and observe behavior. Look for playfulness. "Lets go get a drink" has a…
/r/seduction20/12/21 10:34 AM
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Desire for sex and intimacy are on a spectrum, and you may be on the low end of it. It is totally cool if you are cool with it. Even the desire for friends, colleagues, and activity partners is on an introvert-extrovert spectrum. Even friendship requires compromises that some people may not care about. Keep discovering what makes you happy.
/r/seduction05/09/20 01:00 PM
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observe your friends and study their charisma. You dont have to copy them, but you will see lots of little things that will make you go "oh that was cool and something I could totally do."
/r/seduction09/05/19 12:20 PM
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Imagine if she always said "lets do something expensive" but never offered to pay for it. You would think she is a mooch. Next time she wants excitement, offer to thumb wrestle her. And if she does not get excited by the silliness of it force her to explain what is exciting to her. Ask her, dont ask us. Ask her what she is doing/wants to do to make things exciting. Remember you are the catch, not the chump
/r/seduction13/07/16 04:59 AM
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you did fine, you had a few drunken laughs with a beauty. If you wanted more then you had to do the seduction techniques you read about here. Plant a kiss. Pull away early. Lead her to a different location etc.
/r/seduction31/05/16 02:13 PM
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To me that is exactly what game is. Be your sexy self. Women will show interest. Pounce. Trying to sell yourself to women who are not interested is not game.
/r/seduction29/05/16 04:41 AM
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Here is what I do I do not seduce the ones who have become valuable friends. With enough game you can. I just dont. I let the hot friends know that I am on the make for other women. I try to recruit them as wingmen. The validation of hot hight quality women is probably my biggest asset. I pounce on their hot friends. I recruit their help. "I think Becky is hot. Can we invite her next time?" I use the confidence of having hot female friends to decide I dont need anymore. So the next time a meet a…
/r/seduction16/05/16 07:32 AM
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Friend zone can mean more than one thing. It could mean that a women chooses you as a friend rather than a lover. Many good things can come out of this. It could also mean that a woman manipulates your love struck pining to get what she needs and not give you anything you need. Nothing good comes out of that.
/r/seduction01/09/15 09:38 AM
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It is a guide to clubbing using the principles of game: Demonstrate value, be fun, be outcome independent, be proactive etc. These general game ideas would be useful even if you were in a library.
/r/seduction28/08/15 06:48 AM
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Step 1 is to just pay attention and develop awareness. I am sitting with this beautiful woman, what is going on inside me? How am I feeling?
/r/seduction19/02/15 06:36 AM
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If you relate better to playing sports, and find the word "meditation" to be too touchy feely, I recommend the book "The Inner Game of Tennis." Its a manual for how to tell you inner monologue to shut the fuck up so you can get in the zone and put some topspin on that motherfucker.
/r/seduction19/02/15 06:33 AM
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Not really. I think you are being too technical with the geometry. Establishing oneself as a lover is more important than giving the companion vibe, if you want to end up as boyfriend. That's the lesson.
/r/seduction01/10/14 05:36 AM
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I agree with the principle, but there is a logical flaw in the argument. You may say Fuck Yes to lots of women, and lots may say Fuck Yes to you, but the two groups dont always overlap. This is the reality of dating life for most people. He ignores this.
/r/seduction10/09/14 02:22 PM
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I do this
/r/seduction28/08/14 12:49 PM
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I was going to upvote your post, but I was not sure if I like it THE MOST
/r/seduction15/07/14 01:43 PM
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Maybe you think you are supposed to like girls, but in reality you dont really like them.
/r/seduction16/06/14 01:18 PM
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A few things I have learned from seddit so far Turn conversations sexual. I am good at this already. Women will either think "this guy is ridiculously funny, and bold" or "this guy has some fascinating insights into human sexuality." I want them to think "this guy wants to fuck me. now" Kino. I am a touchy guy. Women welcome a lot of intimate contact with me, but its not very sexual. The title of the post is from this video. I stumbled upon it from their facebook ad. Nothing great here, but that…
/r/seduction13/05/14 07:16 AM
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You have a great point about vulnerability, but there may be other things going on here as well. Maybe you demonstrated value and strength also (you handled the fallout well). Also instead of bombarding her with questions or statements about yourself maybe you sucked her into a nuanced situation (chick crack) where she had opinions of her own. Your loyalty to an old friend, but your drawing a line on their bad behaviour etc or whatever else was involved in the fall out. Vulnerability can just be…
/r/seduction13/05/14 06:33 AM
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Invite people. Many people want to get invited to things, but the easiest way is to invite them first. Throw a Sunday brunch. Gather your new tribe at an art event. Be the leader.
/r/seduction11/06/13 06:33 AM
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Start with targets that present no sexual tension. Women, children, old people etc. Practice being friendly. Talk to everyone. Find ways to start conversations. Look people in the eye and smile. Go out and say hello to a bunch of strangers. Skip the hot sexy men for now. They will flock to you once you become a little confident and friendly
/r/seduction14/12/12 11:54 AM
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Look up "active listening". Practice on dudes, your barber, the bartender, the random lady at the bus stop.
/r/seduction11/10/12 02:26 PM
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Dont fixate on one person. Say Hi and introduce yourself to everyone. Get used to making friends with strangers. Try the whole thing out on a dude in some other class.
/r/seduction30/09/12 09:49 AM
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go to r/malefashionadvice there are lots of pictures and guides.
/r/seduction12/09/12 10:16 AM
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That's not entirely true. There are people who watch tv 24/7 and can captivate and audience. There are war photographers who will bore you to death. Only some of it has to do with living an interesting life. The rest are the arts of conversation, story telling and seduction. These arts can be learned. I am a natural. I dont know how to teach them, but others do.
/r/seduction07/09/12 01:18 PM
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I guess you and I have a different approach to this rich lifestyle thing. I am often in similar situations and I never feel like a chump. I feel like a champ. If I ever felt like I was selecting my company based on their ability to pay for stuff, that is when I will start feeling like a chump. How does this work out with your dude relationships? I am going on a adventure with my bud. We are flying economy because he is poor. If I feel like sitting in business class, I will upgrade us both. My tr…
/r/seduction18/08/12 04:21 AM
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Listen to this guy. I had to scroll all the way to the bottom to see some wisdom. She wants to be seduced. She does not want you to just start pawing her, or buying her gifts or telling her what a Romio you are. She wants action. Tease her, play with her. She likes cute things? But her that 99c Hello Kitty eraser from the Japanese store. Take her to go see that secret spot you know.
/r/seduction17/08/12 07:25 PM
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Yeah man absolutely. Its good to have money. Spend it on yourself and spend it on others. Feel rich. Enjoy life. See if you like the low cost stuff they like. See if you can work out fair compromises. She pays for gas, you pay for the hotel, nobody feels like a doormat. BTW, are you in a friendzone with those two?
/r/seduction17/08/12 07:19 PM
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Not sure if there is any generic advice. I like living in new countries. I am constantly building new social networks. I like throwing a dinner parties for new friends with not too much effort. Take charge and invite people to picnics, events etc. Follow up. If someone gives you an email or phone, use it. I like being up front "I want to meet some new and interesting people. Invite me to things. Hook me up." Sometimes it really is as simple as asking.
/r/seduction05/05/12 10:20 AM
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I am sure those are all great books. I would still recommend that you find a human instructor/coach. This thing is just designed for a verbal explanation.
/r/seduction25/04/12 05:35 PM
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grab'em by the tits
/r/seduction05/03/12 06:44 PM
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