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2udaylatif/r/seduction13/10/17 06:50 PM
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1

You aren't getting the results you want according to you. Figure it out.
/r/seduction28/01/22 02:21 AM
1

That's up to you. Do you want to be cute, adorable, a sweetheart and her safe friend? Or do you want to be the guy she can't stop thinking about fucking and who bangs her brains out and makes her scream your name? Your choice
/r/seduction28/01/22 02:14 AM
1

You have to ask to find out. If she isn't ready then ask for a friends meet up.
/r/seduction27/01/22 11:56 PM
2

Yes this is a good approach. Get contact info or regret it later.
/r/seduction27/01/22 10:28 PM
1

If you want to hang out just you and her then ask her. Don't try and soften it with your friends or whatever.
/r/seduction27/01/22 10:25 PM
1

Just ask her and find out. Why are you so worried? If she says no then build up trust. If she says yes then you are good. You don't know unless you ask.
/r/seduction27/01/22 10:24 PM
1

She suggested it? Then definitely ask her to hang out just you two.
/r/seduction27/01/22 09:43 PM
1

No
/r/seduction27/01/22 09:42 PM
1

Ask her to hang out. She might think differently of you just by you asking to hang out. Maybe she doesnt think you are interested because of your fights in the past. Asking her out might surprise her.
/r/seduction27/01/22 09:42 PM
7

A lot of girls smoke weed these days and for that reason it is good to smoke weed too. Wanna smoke a blunt/dab/bowl is an easy invitation to throw out to girls who smoke also. Most will take you up on it if they even have the smallest interest. Then just game normally when you smoke together.
/r/seduction27/01/22 09:28 PM
1

Asking what?
/r/seduction27/01/22 07:31 PM
3

Your drunk text was all that? Most people's drunk texts are "CoMe gEt a drunk wit me bitch"
/r/seduction27/01/22 06:12 PM
7

What? No. Just no.
/r/seduction27/01/22 06:08 PM
3

Bad text. No response. Move on. Stop pursuing. If you see them in person act like you never sent it. Don't bring it up unless they do then just say whatever.
/r/seduction27/01/22 06:07 PM
5

No Cut off contact unless you want a buddy. If she wants you she will show real interest. If she does then go for it.
/r/seduction27/01/22 02:51 AM
5

Don't text her. You come off needy. She got your last text. She is out of town. She will text you when she is back and ready to chat. If not well then adios and find another woman who will text you back.
/r/seduction27/01/22 02:33 AM
2

If you want to keep seeing her then keep seeing her but you see that you need to change your behavior. Good. If you want to keep seeing her then put her on the back burner for now and focus on this new woman and meeting other women. You will be more attractive that way. And you know what you did wrong so don't do that anymore. You probably need to give her some space at this point.
/r/seduction27/01/22 02:31 AM
5

You displayed too much nice guy behavior and she got bored of you. She told you she moved on before you asked her out. OUCH. A break is a nice way of saying it's over and it leaves the door open for her to come back in the future which is what a lot of girls like doing these days. They don't want commitment or definitive endings. She doesn't want to hurt you by saying it's over but it is essentially over. Just stop holding on to hope that you can talk her out of it or confess enough love for her…
/r/seduction27/01/22 02:26 AM
1

When a woman says things like that you have to act or she feels bad throwing herself out there like that. She thinks you aren't interested.
/r/seduction26/01/22 09:13 PM
1

Kavorka
/r/seduction26/01/22 08:44 PM
1

Not saying it wasn't. But you could have escalated and had an even better time and memory. Maybe even more.
/r/seduction26/01/22 08:35 PM
4

Small penis game Tell her it is tiny. Tell her you have a micropenis and having sex with you counts as lesbian sex. Tell her you want to scissor with her.
/r/seduction26/01/22 06:45 PM
1

You are her friend until you make a move to turn this romantic. You like her obviously so hang out with her and start touching her and making prolonged eye contact. Go for a kiss. Get drunk together if you have to but make a move already. You don't know until you try. Make the physical move. Don't confess your deep undying love for her. Make the move.
/r/seduction26/01/22 07:12 AM
1

No Do all you can to avoid inconveniencing and offending people? What does that mean? ALL YOU CAN? Really? Just seems like you are overly concerned about things outside yourself. With that thinking I see why you want 1 to be the "correct" approach over 2. You don't want to offend or inconvenience a woman "in any way", shape, or form do you? You are worried you might be bothering her. You are worried you might offend her. You are worried about what she might think about you flirting or making a s…
/r/seduction26/01/22 06:59 AM
1

LOL You are clearly a nice guy so that won't happen. You worry too much. Are you in high school? Are you a virgin? Your mindset comes off young. It's ok if you are I'm not judging. I Its just your thinking is very concerned with others needs and not your own. You aren't owning your shit and thinking of yourself first.
/r/seduction26/01/22 06:17 AM
1

Why are you worrying about that? How would you break off a conversation with someone you weren't interested in talking to anymore?
/r/seduction26/01/22 06:06 AM
1

2 Why? You said it here Being attractive and friendly definitely help but they aren’t usually enough to seal the deal. You have to establish man woman frame. Sometimes an approach is enough if you are in a bar or club. It depends on your frame and non verbals. Do you have your flirt game down? Do you hold yourself confidently? 2 just conveys the right things and speeds up the whole process. She isn't wondering why you approached her. She isn't wondering why you are asking questions you are askin…
/r/seduction26/01/22 06:04 AM
2

This DICK!
/r/seduction26/01/22 12:42 AM
1

You should have escalated. Missed opportunity.
/r/seduction26/01/22 12:30 AM
2

She moved on. You should too. Leave her alone and maybe she will wander back your way in the future. But don't pursue her anymore. Hard facts. Move on.
/r/seduction25/01/22 01:01 AM
9

Escalate physical contact and go for the kiss after building up an increase in comfortable touch. Greet with a hug and kiss on the cheek. Then you already broke that barrier of touch. Hand on the back when walking. Move to holding hands. Arm around waist. Then prolonged eye contact and go for the kiss.
/r/seduction23/01/22 08:43 PM
6

Was going to say this but decided to just let him figure it out.
/r/seduction23/01/22 07:20 PM
2

Fuck her gently
/r/seduction23/01/22 07:20 PM
4

You're both virgins? No advice needed. Just do it. Communicate and have fun. It is going to be weird the first time. No way to explain it. It is just weird. It is exciting and awkward. Forget all the advice and just do it together. Be in the moment.
/r/seduction23/01/22 07:19 PM
2

Send a D pic and ask if they like
/r/seduction18/01/22 11:36 PM
0

Chill out man. You are over reacting for real.
/r/seduction18/01/22 11:34 PM
2

I never thought of it that way. Snapchat seems like a private messenger app since messages disappear either after read or within 24 hours after read. It also shows you if someone screenshots you. For that reason I like to get Snapchats. You can get laughed at by her friends off text without you knowing. She can even screenshot without your knowledge. At least with Snap you have a heads up.
/r/seduction18/01/22 11:31 PM
-9

Put her hand on it
/r/seduction18/01/22 07:41 AM
1

she realized she likes you but doesn’t have the emotional capacity to be the partner she wants to be Sorry but this is such female BS LOL
/r/seduction16/01/22 07:55 PM
1

Honestly yeah
/r/seduction16/01/22 07:51 PM
1

Nothing. Do nothing. Let her go. If she was attracted to you she will come back when she has time and nothing going on. Girls are finnicky and flaky these days.
/r/seduction16/01/22 07:49 PM
1

Ask her out. Leave her wanting more. Save some for the date.
/r/seduction14/01/22 01:15 AM
1

Look up Bobby Rio's The Scrambler. Good luck
/r/seduction10/01/22 12:12 AM
1

Well what I mean is sometimes changing your mindset changes the game. I got lays off of joking before. Somehow taking the mindset that I was joking relaxed my communication and delivered better than trying to get laid. It is the same as going in and trying to get blown out. Just say the most ridiculous opener. I'm probably going to get blown out I thought. Most of the time it opens.
/r/seduction09/01/22 03:34 AM
9

Yeah sometimes the right subcommunications come through when "not trying".
/r/seduction09/01/22 03:03 AM
1

Yeah but why do you want to? Ultimately its not worth the effort. Move on yourself. Your ego is making you want to have another shot with the one that got away. What you can do is give her space. No contact. Post yourself working on yourself and enjoying life. She will message you eventually when she has nothing going on.
/r/seduction09/01/22 12:04 AM
2

Get a full time job first of all. You need money. Part time isn't going to cut it for life sorry. Work. Work 40+ hours a week. Get a second job if you have to. You need to work and make real money. If your job sucks quit. There is a shortage of workers literally everywhere. Now is the time to get hired. Work Full Time. Places are dying for help. Once you got some cash coming in start working out. Don't make excuses like you are too tired or have no time. WORK OUT. Get a gym pass to some 24 hour …
/r/seduction08/01/22 11:47 PM
2

Sounds like you are depressed. Work on fixing your depression. Dating is the least of your concerns right now.
/r/seduction08/01/22 08:15 PM
10

Romance isn't dead
/r/seduction18/12/21 08:52 PM
1

What about 7lb dumbbells? 10 might be too much of a jump up.
/r/seduction18/12/21 08:47 PM
2

She may be into you or she may be just work flirting. Lots of people have "work spouses" or best friends and flirt partners at work but it stops when they go home from work. Married people do this a lot at work. She is definitely flirting but the only way to tell if it is real or just a work thing is to ask her out. If she hangs out with you then she might actually be interested in you.
/r/seduction23/10/21 04:52 PM
3

Young inexperienced people.
/r/seduction20/10/21 06:26 PM
1

She is not manipulative by withholding sex to get a relationship? Because that sounds manipulative.
/r/seduction20/10/21 06:25 PM
1

Communication goes both ways? Or is he the only one who has to initiate that conversation, be open and upfront, and lay his intentions and cards on the table so to speak? The excuses for the woman in here are kind of ridiculous.
/r/seduction20/10/21 06:14 PM
0

There are 2 sides to this. She is playing her own games trying to seduce a relationship out of OP. She also slept with his friend in one night. Did she think he wouldn't find out about this? Did she think he might not have expectations after finding this out? Women control access to sex. Men control access to relationships. Thus the eternal game goes on. Men try to seduce women into sex and Women try to seduce men into relationships. Neither side is to be blamed really for trying to get what the…
/r/seduction20/10/21 06:08 PM
1

Have you felt on her thingies?
/r/seduction20/10/21 05:55 PM
1

Exactly. You wouldn't spend the night let alone 10 times because you have common sense and decency like most people. This is an odd situation.
/r/seduction20/10/21 05:52 PM
2

Point is you manned up and created a boundary based on your wants and needs and then she made the decision to walk or stay. Good on you. OP needs to do the same.
/r/seduction20/10/21 05:41 PM
2

hobosexual lol
/r/seduction20/10/21 05:30 PM
3

Gonna grape you right in the mouth
/r/seduction20/10/21 05:12 PM
1

She's only into hobos?
/r/seduction20/10/21 05:10 PM
4

Online Dating
/r/seduction11/10/21 03:39 PM
1

Online Dating
/r/seduction11/10/21 03:39 PM
12

If it's meant to be, it's meant to be
/r/seduction02/10/21 06:21 PM
16

Right up there with "Just be yourself"
/r/seduction02/10/21 04:24 PM
1

Don't tell her that. Don't volunteer that upfront. That's a talk for after you have sex a couple times not before. At this point all you've done is flirt online. What are you worried she is catching feelings already? She's not.
/r/seduction30/09/21 05:32 AM
6

Pull back yourself. Don't answer her texts. Don't text first. Wait on her.
/r/seduction30/09/21 02:51 AM
4

You have issues.
/r/seduction30/09/21 02:23 AM
2

You only have a couple options Have sex in your car - Only works like once or twice with the same girl. Can work for one night stands. Get a hotel room for the night - Pricey. Adds up over time if you are sexually active more than a few times a month. If you dont have enough to live on your own then you don't have enough money to do this more than a few times. Go to her place - If she has her own place or lives with roommates this is the best option for sex Or you have to get over your insecurit…
/r/seduction25/09/21 07:33 PM
0

Smile touching teasing her
/r/seduction23/09/21 12:59 AM
9

That's a low bar for good looks. Saying a significant percentage of men don't have these qualities seems off. Most men have at least one or more of those qualities or can attain them fairly easily.
/r/seduction14/06/21 04:49 PM
-1

Bloatmax > 10% bodyfat
/r/seduction10/06/21 03:48 PM
0

Talking to girls is like talking to the police, the more you do it the more likely you are to screw yourself over. I lol'd
/r/seduction21/05/21 08:02 PM
1

Have an upvote for a classic
/r/seduction21/05/21 08:00 PM
18

You have a lot going for you it sounds like but you are out of practice. You are the getting back out there guy. Most women won't hit on men. Not the way you think. So right off the bat your assessment of your looks is off. If you want women you have to take action and push the interactions. First thing to boost your confidence and help you out is update your look. Get some new clothes. r/mensfashion is good. Or you can hire a personal stylist or shopper. Get a new haircut. You want to look your…
/r/seduction16/05/21 07:36 AM
4

Grunts work in pickup
/r/seduction13/05/21 04:58 AM
3

I hear you but I also think women know what you want. You aren't hanging out with them to do her hair. You ask a girl to come to your place for coffee, to watch Netflix, to see the view on your balcony, etc. She knows what's up. They are expecting the move. They don't know when it is coming but they expect the move.
/r/TheRedPill17/04/21 05:22 PM
15

You had her at your place and you didn't make a move? You had her at your place and left to go to the barcade? WTF? Should have gone for the kiss on the balcony my man. One way to deal with LMR is to agree with your words but keep going and escalating otherwise. Say "You're right we shouldn't be doing this" but keep kissing her and touching her while saying it. It both sounds like you agree with her reservations but also adds the element of naughtiness and transgression that women love. You are …
/r/TheRedPill17/04/21 02:36 AM
3

What's wrong with your location?
/r/seduction10/04/21 08:58 PM
2

Is it? I doubt it
/r/seduction10/04/21 08:57 PM
1

My point exactly
/r/seduction10/04/21 08:48 PM
1

Because it is not about your home or room.
/r/seduction10/04/21 08:47 PM
1

I've given up a sure thing because her apartment smelled. Someone had spilled bongwater on the carpet. I was about to press on but then we got to her room and she was dogsitting and there was the smell of dog hitting me before she opened her door. I had to leave.
/r/seduction10/04/21 07:40 PM
17

Interesting that there is so much thought into impressing women with your home. It won't hurt to have a home that makes a woman impressed or comfortable but at the end of the day you aren't getting laid on what kind of art you have on the wall or what kind of couch you have. Girls can tell you their preferences for such things but they have all gotten banged on floor mattresses they had to throw piles of clothes off of first. Maybe they didn't even move the clothes on the bed. Hell most of their…
/r/seduction10/04/21 07:36 PM
1

College Humor is the source of debunking? Really? Ask yourself why this is being pushed? This is an attack on Alpha males and veneration of Beta males. It is a dichotomy we understand intuitively. Alpha = strong/dominant and Beta = weak/submissive. Does it exist? Yes. You can do away with the labels Alpha and Beta if you want to but the fact is there are strong men who are dominant/assertive and there are weak men who are subservient. Are there in betweens? Sure probably. Instead of focusing on …
/r/seduction03/04/21 10:08 PM
3

No I would not feel uncomfortable. At best I would go for it. If not I would at least feel flattered.
/r/seduction17/02/21 04:18 AM
2

You don't know anything about her. You are learning about her. This might be part of her personality. She could be insecure. Beautiful girls are often very insecure and sensitive. They can afford to be picky and sensitive. Keep dating and pushing things further. Don't give up because she is different than you are used to.
/r/seduction17/02/21 03:21 AM
3

You spend time, share experiences, create memories, confide in each other and know each other's lives and past.
/r/seduction03/12/20 04:45 AM
-2

She wants to bang idiot.
/r/seduction10/09/20 04:13 PM
3

Eye contact smile flirt
/r/seduction12/08/20 01:57 AM
2

Ask her to hang out. Flirt. Make a move.
/r/seduction10/08/20 04:20 PM
3

Here is one thing you can try. When you get bored say "I'm bored. Do you want to get out of here?" It is worth a shot. You either get out of the set, get her more invested, or she might get out of there with you. You can bounce a set to another set if she doesn't go with you.
/r/seduction09/08/20 03:29 PM
1

Yes. You look fine. It's likely your insecurity. Work on changing your outlook on it. Not much you can do physically. Change your feelings about it and don't worry about it.
/r/seduction11/07/20 09:03 PM
1

Smile more instead of being so dry maybe. Just something to try. Why are you letting anyone affect you so much? Someone says you are xyz and you immediately take it as a character flaw and the unadulterated truth?
/r/seduction11/07/20 07:45 PM
1

You look normal
/r/seduction11/07/20 06:29 PM
3

You're good looking and sounds like you have basic social skills. You have done everything but sex. You are on your way. Don't worry too much about it. It will happen. I would say try saying those bold confident things you stop yourself from saying and see what happens. You might be surprised. Start going to the gym if being skinny/lanky bothers you.
/r/seduction11/07/20 05:57 PM
3

Tease her, frame control, push-pull, stop stifling your bold thoughts say them, confident eye contact, put your arm around her, hold hands, go for a kiss, lead her with a hand on her back
/r/seduction11/07/20 05:44 PM
2

Confident eye contact
/r/seduction10/07/20 05:27 PM
28

Should be satisfying. If it isn't then examine your own desires and thoughts on the matter. What is it you are really looking for in "chasing pussy"? Validation? Acceptance? Ego satisfaction? Status? Getting with a woman you desire should be satisfying. If you have resorted to making her a notch on your belt of course it is empty. You aren't even looking at her like a person. You are cheapening the experience.
/r/seduction07/07/20 04:00 PM
1

Did you ask for a date?
/r/seduction06/07/20 03:45 PM
1

Sex and blowjobs
/r/seduction05/07/20 09:20 PM
2

Good job
/r/seduction01/07/20 03:39 PM
1

Get a decent coffee table and put a couple photography books or art books out.
/r/seduction30/12/19 03:15 AM
5

You should not be "falling in love" with any girl you are not having sex with. That is just immature high school fantasy crush shit. You are infatuated not in love.
/r/seduction11/12/19 07:50 PM
-1

Nothing wrong with chatting up people. Not illegal yet.
/r/seduction13/11/19 08:33 PM
1

8 approaches in 9 months is not a lot. Do more approaches. Try the mall, Starbucks, book stores. Go to a bar. Look for things like trivia nights or live bands. Join a pool league if you have free time. Look for activities.
/r/seduction13/09/19 09:59 PM
5

DENNIS System
/r/seduction13/09/19 03:49 AM
7

School work comes first.
/r/seduction30/08/19 03:39 AM
3

That was cringe. You messed up. It happens. Forget about it. You're a coworker. Learn from this and do better next time. Don't waste your energy trying to pursue this one. You won't fix it.
/r/seduction08/08/19 11:47 AM
1

Uh Snap her
/r/seduction08/08/19 10:18 AM
-4

Be attractive. Don't be unattractive.
/r/seduction08/08/19 09:04 AM
32

Some hot girls are a different breed
/r/seduction17/07/19 05:38 PM
1

Say "Can I at least get a beej?"
/r/seduction12/07/19 03:21 PM
1

You're missing the point now because I countered your example.
/r/seduction17/05/19 07:19 PM
1

Actually he got Nadia in Part 2 with The Sherminator so my original statement is correct.
/r/seduction17/05/19 02:26 PM
3

American Pie is a good one for Social Conditioning This is what I mean about society putting you in a box. We see Sherman and we laugh and point and make fun of him. What an idiot! Why would he act like that? Well The Sherminator was actually his true self. He was a nerd. He was silly. Notice he only told the guys the Sherminator stuff. Why did he do that? Because he was psyching himself up to approach hot girls because society told him he was a nerd and shouldn't be doing that. Yet they were al…
/r/seduction17/05/19 02:14 PM
3

"The idea of you is a fluid concept" You didn't fake it. You broke out of your comfort zone. You took a risk. That's not fake. That's brave. Are you going to let society tell you who you are? Are you going to believe it? Don't lie but taking an action you normally wouldn't do isn't a lie or betrayal of yourself.
/r/seduction17/05/19 11:37 AM
35

The biggest lies are that "Just Be Yourself" means not to try or not to try and improve yourself. Society often wants to put us in a box based on very little information. We are not taught to improve and work on ourselves in everyday society. I think that many often believe self improvement is somehow not being yourself. This goes along with the idea that some guys have "IT" and some guys don't. While that is true in a sense, society lies to us saying that we can't learn it if we don't have it. …
/r/seduction17/05/19 02:45 AM
11

For the people in the back
/r/seduction15/05/19 07:57 PM
10

EYE CONTACT AND FLIRTING
/r/seduction15/05/19 04:02 PM
1

That's bullshit she's texting Brandon back fast as hell so to speak. ​ Lots of women will cancel last minute or just not show and not reschedule or properly apologize.
/r/seduction14/05/19 11:01 PM
1

Only experienced State a couple times in dating but it was amazing and magical.
/r/seduction08/05/19 11:54 PM
1

TEACH ME
/r/seduction08/05/19 11:53 PM
44

The greenlight is always a difficult thing to gauge when you have self doubt or are in your head. The best advice would be to press forward. Go for it. Make a move. It is better to make a move than do nothing 99% of the time. ​ So how do you get girls to view you sexually? Tell them they look sexy. Bring the word sexy into conversation. Sexuality isn't something to hide. Tell them they look hot. Learn to show passion and intent in your looks and smiles. Make direct eye contact. Learn the triangu…
/r/seduction08/05/19 11:26 PM
1

Ask if she wants to have a drink at your place. This is good when the bar is closing and kicking everyone out. Ask if she wants to come watch Netflix at your place. Just ask. Don't make a big deal of it.
/r/seduction19/01/19 08:50 PM
3

No it is not bad. Don't be afraid to express your opinion or not like something just do it in a way that doesn't belittle someone's opinion.
/r/seduction15/12/18 01:26 AM
4

Deep close friendships are based upon a mutual sharing of intimate details of each individuals lives and mutually shared experiences. This usually happens over time and continued friendship. ​ SHARE EXPERIENCES TOGETHER Friends have memories together from shared experiences. If you aren't regularly hanging out together then you need to work to get to that level. One bit of advice when making new friends. Show up for every meet up they invite you to until you build a friendship. If you can't make…
/r/seduction13/12/18 09:54 PM
14

Indirect unless you already got IOIs that she is interested in you. ​ In college you want to open indirect and ask for hangouts. Hangouts can mean a lot of things and everyone hangs out. College is a very free time and nothing has to be defined. It's all plausible deniability. You can just go to eat with someone after class. Nobody knows if you are dating, sleeping together, etc. If someone asks you always got an answer. "Who that? That's my study partner." "That's just my classmate we were hung…
/r/seduction20/11/18 05:14 PM
2

r/socialskills
/r/seduction20/11/18 04:57 PM
1

Nope. Don't have to say anything. Just look her in the eyes for a second or 2 and then go in and kiss her.
/r/seduction31/08/18 09:00 AM
6

Social skill is the ability to interact with people and come across positively so that they enjoy your company and would want to be around you. You make a good acquaintance or friend. You can have good social skills with people you aren't attracted to or have no intention to sleep with. Seduction is when you interact with the intent to physically/sexually attract people for sex and or dating. So intent plays a big part and a willingness to take it to the next level.
/r/seduction23/07/18 12:57 PM
5

3 days later? I would have hit her back with "New phone who this?"
/r/seduction10/05/18 08:36 PM
1

Damone was teaching guys in the 80s
/r/seduction10/02/18 11:55 PM
1

"Hey baby what's your sign?" "Can I buy you a drink?" "Hey don't I know you from somewhere?"
/r/seduction10/02/18 11:49 PM
1

Keep approaching
/r/seduction26/10/17 12:05 PM
1

You should do all the work before you get her to your place. Getting her to your place should be for sex. Keep your place clean. Dress up your place as best you can. Have candles, mirrors for the illusion of space, have some nice scented stuff, have nice sheets on your bed. Guys have pulled to bathrooms, backseats of cars, vans, dirty rooms, etc. The place doesn't matter when you have her ready to have sex with you. Do all the hanging out and seduction before your place so when she comes over sh…
/r/seduction14/10/17 02:15 AM
2

Google is your friend. Is this good enough for you? [Academic](chrome-extension://oemmndcbldboiebfnladdacbdfmadadm/http://scottbarrykaufman.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/09/The-Dark-Triad-Personality.pdf) [University](chrome-extension://oemmndcbldboiebfnladdacbdfmadadm/http://etheses.dur.ac.uk/11282/1/Carter%2C_Thesis.pdf?DDD27+) Washington University Study Experts from the University of Liverpool as well as institutions in Poland and Finland, showed 2,370 adult female participants a selection of …
/r/seduction07/10/17 01:48 AM
3

Dark Triad
/r/seduction06/10/17 09:55 PM
16

Dark Triad also confirmed as more attractive so there is that too.
/r/seduction06/10/17 05:36 PM
1

Have you looked at the right side of your screen?
/r/seduction01/10/17 11:47 AM
1

Who's Corey Wayne?
/r/seduction25/09/17 03:04 PM
1

Read the guides in the sidebar for starters. If you can engage in small talk you can get dates. Just start asking girls you already talk to to hang out, meet up, study together, etc. Then get their number to text and call them. Then you are on your way.
/r/seduction21/09/17 08:29 AM
26

Guys who are having some success are already figuring out what works for them. Experiment and see what works for you. If you aren't going out and actively communicating with women then it doesn't matter anyway. Not saying that's you but arguing on the sub about whether to get a final answer on saying date or not is pointless. Try both and see what results you get. I will say that guys who are beginning their journey and always getting friend zoned or who have a hard time getting women to look at…
/r/seduction18/09/17 08:57 AM
1

How is it fake? You think they are dying to go home with him but said no for the video?
/r/seduction12/09/17 07:00 PM
1

This has been tried
/r/seduction12/09/17 06:30 PM
7

You are looking for this
/r/seduction12/09/17 06:28 PM
3

"Do you want to come home with me" "Do you want to go back to my place"
/r/seduction12/09/17 06:25 PM
2

You caught feelings, took your shot to see her again, she wasn't interested, The End. You did nothing wrong. Move on. The wrong move is to keep obsessing about her and try contacting her again.
/r/seduction21/07/17 03:56 PM
6

Ignore it. She's not attracted. She said so. She left like a jerk. She apologized. It's over. Give no more thought to this.
/r/seduction01/07/17 03:12 PM
3

Dancing Yoga
/r/seduction07/06/17 04:43 AM
1

Ask her if she wants to watch a movie at your place.
/r/seduction14/05/17 03:26 PM
1

Want to make sex?
/r/seduction22/04/17 06:39 PM
1

Stop chasing her. She doesn't want a relationship and you do. The end. Your chance was to hook up when she wanted and then you may have been able to work from the f-buddy angle which is far better than working from the friendzone. You are spending too much effort and time on a lost cause. Move on. Stay friends if you want but don't contact her. Let her contact you to hang out. You will see if she wants you in her life. I'm guessing she wants to move on but is being nice. I'm also guessing you do…
/r/seduction13/01/17 10:07 AM
0

That was LEGEND DARY!
/r/seduction02/01/17 07:53 PM
3

Sex vs No Sex Sex is usually the better option in a lot of cases It might be time to try something other than online dating if you are not happy with the results
/r/seduction01/01/17 11:20 PM
2

Date her. Have sex. Have relationship. See if you feel the same way 1 month into the relationship.
/r/seduction30/12/16 01:44 AM
3

All tension between a man and woman is technically sexual. It is just the way we interpret it. If you feel sexual tension most of the time she feels it too.
/r/seduction06/12/16 12:07 AM
1

Go to bars at happy hour instead of 10 at night for a change of pace. 9 to 5 people hit the bars after work and are done by 10 when the night owls come out. 9 to 5 people are professionals and work in offices mostly. The night crowd is service industry. Get a feel for both scenes. Go to concerts Go to real clubs not college bars Go to wine tastings like an adult Go to food markets Go to professional sports events Join a yoga class
/r/seduction06/12/16 12:00 AM
2

One that got away. I know the feeling.
/r/seduction06/10/16 05:12 PM
6

Should have banged the lesbian.
/r/seduction06/10/16 04:48 PM
1

LOTS OF THINGS YOU COULD DO. Here are some ideas next time for parties. Isolate "Let's go out for a smoke" Go outside the party and find a spot. If she agrees to go with you then she trusts you. Small compliance test. If it is her place or she knows the layout "I haven't seen this place yet show me around." If it is your place or you know the layout "Let me give you the tour" If neither one of you has been there "Let's check this place out" find suitable spot. Take her hand or put your arm aroun…
/r/seduction06/10/16 04:45 PM
1

They always want you to fight to keep them. Sometimes it really is the end though. Sometimes you are done with them too.
/r/seduction30/09/16 07:33 PM
29

Men look at relationships as the goal, the finish line, and women look at relationships as the beginning. Most guys in relationships are very chill and laid back. Guys think the hard part is over so it is time to sit back and bask in the accomplishment of having won over a quality girl. You're in a relationship now. The hunt is over. Women look at relationships as step 1. Now they start to work on their master plan which is relationship escalation all the way to marriage and kids. The way you es…
/r/seduction30/09/16 06:31 PM
2

She didn't really want to break up. Women say "I want to break up" as a last ditch means to get you to change sometimes. She wants to see you fight to keep her. It's fucked up but true. Women speak differently with different meanings.
/r/seduction30/09/16 06:04 PM
16

Innocent is a good one because it is inherently sexy/sexual. You can fill in other traits but make sure they are the opposite of what you want.
/r/seduction26/09/16 05:59 PM
0

See Number 9 again
/r/seduction22/09/16 03:53 AM
-2

DEEZ NUTZ ON HER TONSILS
/r/seduction12/09/16 02:23 AM
-4

Your mother sucks at it
/r/seduction12/09/16 02:17 AM
1

Fuck Tinder
/r/seduction11/09/16 11:14 PM
1

Abundance mentality. Hold frame. That's the name of the game. Play to win. Confidence. You can't worry about WHAT IF at this point. The party is happening. He invited multiple women for the exact reason that one or more may drop out.
/r/seduction11/09/16 04:20 AM
1

Don't be worried. Hold frame and have fun. Let them see the competition. It works better for you that way. They get to be in a dating show and you are the Bachelor or the prize. The danger is actually in having too many other dudes there to take them away.
/r/seduction10/09/16 09:39 PM
8

If they all try to win him over it is better. You are worried about them finding out about each other like he is. Don't be. Let them see the competition. Women love the Bachelor and The Bachelorette and Dating Shows. Women are competitive socially like men are. They are going to size up the competition and get their brains working on how to win once they see what they are up against. Be the focus. Don't be scared. Hold frame. Be like those dating shows. Ask who wants to do body shots and see who…
/r/seduction10/09/16 09:36 PM
3

You did nothing wrong my man only right. Abundance mentality. You put these women in competition with each other for you. Good work. I would shake your hand and pat you on the back in person if you told me this. They will not all stop talking to you if they find out about each other. I guarantee you that will not happen. 1 or 2 might but that's fine because you set it up so that won't matter because there are others. You set yourself up to win. Again good work. Women are competitive with each ot…
/r/seduction10/09/16 09:31 PM
10

Men take eye contact as a sign of interest so women avoid eye contact so as not to lead a man into approaching them.
/r/seduction02/09/16 05:30 AM
1

Do you want to come over? Do you want to come over and watch a movie? Do you want to come in for coffee? Have you seen my bedroom? There are lots of ways to invite sex or the opportunity without saying it. I wonder why you feel the need to be explicit. It shows no social skills. Research The Apocalypse opener. Even then it doesn't mention sex fucking explicitly.
/r/seduction26/08/16 07:41 PM
1

Look up Player Supreme Patrice O'neal's Black Phillip show about women and relationships
/r/seduction01/06/16 01:55 PM
38

To Pound Town
/r/seduction30/03/16 02:40 PM
11

Focus on bettering yourself and your career and your $$$$$. Achieve your goals. Put women lower on the priorities ladder in your 20s and you will be in a more favorable position when you are older. Don't give up women completely though. I'm not saying be a monk. Get yours if that's what you want but know that you will be in a better position in the future.
/r/seduction12/03/16 10:18 AM
13

That's the kind of attitude that created the whole seduction market because guys who were slow to learn social skills or who were behind in social development got mocked or hit with that attitude from people like you.
/r/seduction11/03/16 05:04 AM
0

This
/r/seduction29/02/16 05:26 PM
2

He is talking about chemistry and acting on opportunities. You are kidding yourself if you think you can reject a lot of high value girls and keep them coming back for nothing. He is absolutely right and you are reading something completely different than what he is saying here.
/r/seduction20/02/16 04:39 PM
4

try r/sex
/r/seduction17/02/16 08:06 PM
7

She rejects him quite nicely. I think there is value in this vid regarding approach anxiety. Most girls won't reject you the way you fear in your head. Did she go "OMG why are you tapping on my window you freak!?" NO. He was normal and non threatening and paid a compliment so she was nice. He caught her off guard too as it was day game and not a club. Is it only cringe because she had a boyfriend and said no? If he got her number would it still be cringe? Because there are videos of guys succeed…
/r/seduction04/02/16 06:09 PM
-2

TIL sex lasts longer than 10 minutes
/r/MensRights15/10/15 02:09 PM
2

I rest my case you didn't escalate up to a kiss. You didn't build enough attraction. You didn't kino up the ladder and create enough sexual intention. You were boring and nice.
/r/seduction10/09/15 01:17 PM
3

Did you get to a make out? Were you holding her around her waist? Pulling her in to you? If not you didn't escalate kino enough to really push her buttons. It was just a "nice" time aka boring. Then on top of it you asked if she had a good time.
/r/seduction10/09/15 12:30 PM
1

Escalate You come off as a friend. You are friendly on your date instead of ramping up the attraction, flirting, sexuality. You lack intent.
/r/seduction07/09/15 09:12 AM
3

Sounds like her problem not yours. You were you. Whatever issues she had kept her from being with you because she admittedly wasn't ready at the time. Just because she's ready now and back rationalizes in her mind that it was your fault doesn't make it so or make you wrong. Don't lose sleep over something like this. If she really wanted to be with you then she missed her chance when she had it for HER OWN REASONS. It's not like you were dating already and she broke it off with you for something …
/r/seduction30/08/15 07:33 PM
10

A motorcycle is like easy mode
/r/seduction05/08/15 06:44 AM
34

Why are you in a stalemate? The easy answer is because you aren't escalating properly. Without more info it's hard to say but I bet that is it. How many dates have you been on? Have you been flirting, sexual, etc? Have you demonstrated your personality? Are you doing any kino? The problem is you like this girl and want to date her without really knowing her yet. You have a beginning case of oneitis. You are going about this all wrong because you want her so bad. Your question itself is supplicat…
/r/seduction04/08/15 08:44 PM
1

Suggested by her parents and her response was literally "How do I even do that?" She has no clue how to do anything for herself. Congratulations parents you raised an entitled, spoiled, non self sufficient moron. Her parents said "Get a job". She responds "But that is embarrassing!"
/r/TheRedPill20/07/15 02:05 PM
0

Orlando Bloom is a pussy. I can't imagine John Wayne doing something like this. Arnold Schwarzenegger wouldn't do this. Russell Crowe is too busy stealing other guy's women to do something like this.
/r/TheRedPill20/07/15 01:53 PM
1

You stumbled into disinterest by not having any experience LOL!! That poor girl needed validation bad
/r/TheRedPill20/07/15 01:46 PM
6

They want to see both Eiffel Towers LMAO. In a way does that make them so different than us? I know I want to fuck a variety of women.
/r/TheRedPill19/07/15 06:56 PM
24

Because men like easy lays. Foreign women away from home are usually sex touring. It's not all sightseeing and museums on vacay.
/r/TheRedPill19/07/15 03:46 PM
3

Camille Paglia is not bad for a feminist and calls out Steinem and modern feminists beliefs
/r/TheRedPill16/07/15 07:36 AM
0

Approach. Forget your smiling.
/r/seduction13/06/15 12:38 AM
1

And he specifically mentioned smiling so I'm responding to that.
/r/seduction11/06/15 02:37 PM
1

Women find the stoic look more sexy than smiles
/r/seduction11/06/15 03:05 AM
2

Bravo
/r/seduction27/05/15 03:01 AM
1

Flirt with women but don't sleep with them. Let them know you have a girlfriend. You can't make new friends? You can't talk to women and not sleep with them?
/r/seduction22/05/15 08:54 PM
1

Oh yeah that is definitely doable
/r/seduction21/05/15 03:18 PM
5

Creates STRONG attraction
/r/seduction21/05/15 01:41 AM
1

Ask her out and hang out with her again and then you will find out what kind of girl she is right? Are you attracted to her? Hang out and escalate. Try to progress things far enough to make a move. Just see if you have a connection and if you are attracted to her. Just go for it. At this point you don't really know her. You are just a guy and girl hanging out and seeing where things lead. The beginner mistake is to wait too long and see if all these variables play out the way you want and the in…
/r/seduction20/05/15 09:58 PM
1

This is useless without examples. Besides it sounds like you are caught up in conversation and not in pushing things forward. Have you hung out? How did that go? Are you using kino? Are you sexualizing/flirting? Did you make out? Have you had sex yet? Escalate escalate escalate is the name of the game
/r/seduction20/05/15 07:13 PM
12

Soul gazing works on women even if it doesn't work on you
/r/seduction20/05/15 07:09 PM
-1

Sex
/r/seduction20/04/15 11:05 PM
3

A combination of you not projecting a sexual vibe early enough and not screening for sex. They like you for long term because you are projecting the boyfriend vibe to them. You are dating them and being all "nice" and "safe". You are probably not flirting hard enough and waiting too long to escalate. Your image may need a makeover as well.
/r/seduction03/04/15 05:09 AM
2

And your bedroom. Do your parents care? More likely you feel uncomfortable more than they do. Talking to OP here.
/r/seduction10/03/15 01:48 PM
1

You have a negative outlook and limiting belief that is holding you back. Chances are your friends look at you as a friend and you yourself are holding back and feeling like an outsider in your own mind. If you want to get closer with someone who is an acquaintance friend then share something personal with them and tell them to keep it between you. It shows trust and most people value that and will reciprocate most of the time.
/r/seduction09/03/15 02:22 PM
-1

Look at the book "No More Mr. Nice Guy" by Robert Glover
/r/seduction17/02/15 03:36 PM
1

Great post.
/r/seduction11/02/15 04:19 PM
15

Wear a suit and tie. Look good. Go to a bar outside of a movie theater. Sip a martini and wait. All the single ladies who just saw 50 Shades of Grey will be like shooting fish in a barrel.
/r/seduction09/02/15 11:35 PM
21

Take her to her bedroom
/r/seduction04/02/15 05:37 PM
2

Well somebody had to
/r/seduction02/02/15 08:36 PM
1

Can we spell Drake right once in this thread?
/r/seduction02/02/15 08:22 PM
8

They deceived you. Contract is null and void at that point.
/r/seduction02/02/15 08:20 PM
9

or Slenderman
/r/seduction26/01/15 05:47 PM
57

DO NOTHING. Seriously they are into you and your job now is to try to not fuck it up. Let it happen. Get some drinks and some snacks and that's it. Don't overthink and overplan this. Keep flirting and let it happen.
/r/seduction24/01/15 04:41 PM
1

Agreed
/r/seduction09/01/15 01:05 PM
1

I am in agreement with you. Not sure why you are down voted for telling the truth.
/r/seduction09/01/15 01:00 PM
1

This is some tough love for you and everyone else on this sub. That was Carpe Diem time my friend. From your story and situation that "Now you should really go" wasn't a real good bye. She was escalating the sexual excitement. What she really meant was "You should really go now or FUCK THE SHIT OUT OF ME". You chose to leave. You already closed the door and made out with her instead of leaving once. She loved it. She was trying to get you to do it again. If she really needed you to leave because…
/r/seduction09/01/15 12:59 PM
1

EYE CONTACT
/r/seduction09/01/15 11:59 AM
5

Like a job looking for the best worker
/r/seduction07/01/15 09:36 AM
3

Flirt, sexualize the conversation, kino escalation ladder. Boom Done.
/r/seduction13/12/14 04:25 PM
1

Don't do anything. Make her make the first move and when she does reject her 3 times. Women like guys who are hard to get.
/r/seduction08/12/14 04:00 PM
1

Also anywhere they sell books
/r/seduction20/10/14 08:07 PM
1

STARBUCKS is a gold mine
/r/seduction20/10/14 08:06 PM
1

Work on yourself and change your mindset. You have a negative world view. You need to fix that first.
/r/seduction20/10/14 05:26 PM
1

Why?
/r/seduction20/10/14 04:50 PM
1

Just go for the kiss. She wants you to.
/r/seduction20/10/14 11:43 AM
1

Harder. Get to work now. Stop putting your desires and success off until the future.
/r/seduction20/10/14 11:42 AM
5

Don't listen to the people who think this is creepy. They probably never do day game or even approach. Keyboard warriors always have criticism. You were there and it worked. Try it a few more times and see how the results go. Just because it worked once doesn't mean it will always work. I think what they are missing is that this is college not the outside world. College is it's own community apart from the world already. There are already commonalities between you and everyone there because you …
/r/seduction10/09/14 06:55 PM
4

Are you stupid or trolling
/r/seduction10/09/14 06:47 PM
2

Walks to parking lot "Hey are you leaving?" "Yeah. I'm in the back though can you give me a lift there?" I don't see how this creepy at all.
/r/seduction10/09/14 06:47 PM
4

It's only creepy if you aren't actually leaving or if you aren't going to your car and just made it up to get in the car and talk to them.
/r/seduction10/09/14 06:13 PM
1

Purity of Essence
/r/seduction10/09/14 05:58 PM
4

I don't like Tinder and OKCupid because it removes your power as a man and PUA. You get nexted without even getting a shot. You are judged by your looks, pics, and the briefest of profiles that tries to summarize you as a person? It just breeds shallow judgement. At least in cold approach face to face interaction you can demonstrate all the skill you have learned here from the community. Even with success on Tinder and OKCupid you will have to have some seduction skill or social skill once you g…
/r/seduction31/07/14 12:40 PM
1

Me too. I get no response on Twitter or OKCUPID
/r/seduction31/07/14 12:19 PM
6

just read the whole thing
/r/seduction29/07/14 03:24 PM
1

Seems about normal. What's your rate?
/r/seduction28/07/14 03:22 AM
1

got a mini date with the one girl
/r/seduction27/07/14 07:49 PM
1

He was
/r/seduction27/07/14 07:15 PM
1

The Art of Seduction by Robert Greene He believes that most women aren't used to such lavish attention and it will melt most women for a short period of time.
/r/seduction25/07/14 03:08 AM
1

She doesn't feel special. She wants to feel special since you are sweet to everyone. She wants to be special in your eyes and right now she doesn't feel that. Without more information to go on I can only guess what is happening. She wants you to commit to her in some way. Are you her bf? She wants you to be. If you aren't going to relationship her she is going to be this way. You are being too casual with her and not giving enough feelings back her way. This makes girls uncomfortable. She really…
/r/seduction02/07/14 07:11 AM
0

If that's flashing then lock me up
/r/seduction16/05/14 05:43 AM
-2

HELL NO
/r/seduction15/05/14 11:52 PM
3

Yes this sounds so far fetched
/r/seduction15/05/14 11:51 PM
-4

A flirty conversation is emotionally cheating ?
/r/seduction15/05/14 11:50 PM
2

Exactly. It's the difference between going for a kiss and asking "Can I kiss you".
/r/seduction09/05/14 03:18 PM
1

"What's your man got to do with me?"
/r/seduction14/04/14 01:47 PM
4

This. A lot of guys forget that they are chatting her up to get a date or dates when learning. They become so focused on learning the craft they forget the goal.
/r/seduction09/04/14 02:51 PM
1

Yes be upfront if you don't want anything serious. Just say it and see how she responds. There is no downside to being honest and if she doesn't want to see you anymore since she wants more then you will be doing yourself and her a favor. Don't string girls along with false promises of a relationship. That is not game. Abundance mentality, you can find another one.
/r/seduction29/11/13 10:01 PM
2

She is social and popular and hot, of course she is going to have a bunch of guy friends and orbiters. That is something you have to deal with if you are going to be a PUA. The hot girls always have guys around it means she is a high quality girl. Just talk to her. Sounds like you see her a lot already and are already sleeping together. She is almost your girlfriend. She is waiting to see what you want out of this. You guys are seeing each other you just haven't had the talk yet. She is hinting …
/r/seduction29/11/13 10:00 PM
1

It demonstrates all the right things. It shows that you are not beta, that you are comfortable initiating touching, that you are sexual, that you are into her more as more than a friend.
/r/seduction14/09/13 10:31 PM
6

You need more kino and to be more sexual. Sounds like you are cool but you are playing it safe in sets. A lot of times we rely on being cool and play it safe in a set because the interaction is going well. That won't get you laid. Talk about sex. Make sexual jokes. Tell a story about sex. Get close. Hug her and pull her in. Tell her a secret in her ear. Put your arm around her. Do the Apocalypse opener for a while to get started.
/r/seduction14/09/13 09:52 PM
-1

Kino kino kino always kino. Your inner game is solid? How solid? Can you open girls with Hey and go in for a solid hug and make out? Can you open with twirling her and picking her up off the ground and spinning her? That's how rock solid you need to be. I've done that by getting into state before hitting the bar but that isn't all the time.
/r/seduction14/09/13 09:47 PM
3

Kino kino always kino for outer game
/r/seduction14/09/13 09:41 PM
1

That's GOLD JERRY! GOLD!
/r/seduction20/07/13 04:03 PM
1

As always follow The Bro Code
/r/seduction11/06/13 11:20 PM
2

Work? Shit where you eat. Always a good idea.
/r/seduction23/05/13 06:10 PM
1

See. There is no reason to fumble opening at a party. It is too easy. You are expected to mingle and socialize. Stop thinking so much and just have fun. That is what parties are about.
/r/seduction18/02/13 05:13 AM
3

Me: Lol seriously? Why can't you just drive your own car? Why am I needed? Her: I thought we could all go out together and have hella fun haha Me: Mmm maybe some other time..I got some stuff to take care of in the morning... Sorry. :( WHAT! NOOOOOOOO!!!!!!!!!!!! facepalm
/r/seduction17/02/13 04:21 PM
1

You are in your head and not into the vibe of the party. Parties have an energy we need to flow into or lead. Contribute to the fun and stop thinking. When there is girl you are interested in at a party just go up and talk to her. Pull her aside and game naturally. The good thing about a party is opening, conversation, and pre-selection are all taken care of. You know someone in common or you both wouldn't be there. Talk and find out who you know there.
/r/seduction17/02/13 04:18 PM
2

I wondered that too when I saw the play performed at my school. Oddly no one saw that as wrong.
/r/MensRights07/02/13 01:30 PM
1

You played it too cool from the beginning. You tried being too romantic instead of escalating hard. Escalate, escalate, escalate. If you ever feel like you are in a romantic movie type of scenario whip it out.
/r/seduction19/12/12 08:03 AM
3

Do you slap your troubles away?
/r/seduction04/12/12 03:57 PM
5

So women approach guys and make the first move as often as men? Not sure anyone is going to agree with that.
/r/seduction30/10/12 07:40 PM
2

It's not the same thing.
/r/seduction30/10/12 05:35 PM
5

Women don't proposition men in nearly the same way or nearly as often. Not even close.
/r/seduction30/10/12 05:17 PM
2

Read it again. He clearly explains the difference between men and women.
/r/seduction30/10/12 04:40 PM
1

Bravo
/r/seduction28/08/12 11:57 PM
0

I agree with all of your points. Negging is a Mystery Method tactic which can work but is often unnecessary. The popularity of The Game also delivered the idea of negging to many newbies who had no idea of how to properly neg or the idea behind true negging. They just wanted a new tactic to get women so they latched on to negging which quickly turned a bunch of non calibrated social misfits going out and insulting girls and calling it negging. Many guys who have had a hard time with women found …
/r/seduction18/08/12 05:47 AM
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