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People (usually) try harder to impress people out of their league. 90% of being good at giving head comes down to your level of enthusiasm. The mechanical part of it is easy.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/25 01:51 AM
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That would require men to want women less than women want men, our biology makes that virtually impossible.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/25 01:46 AM
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Would
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/25 12:07 AM
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What she really meant "and yet they still aren’t willing to date any girl below a seven. and isn’t slim. and is older. and has short hair. and has piercings. and has kids. and believes in astrology. and goes to church every sunday. and wants to be taken out to dinner. and wants commitment. and wants flowers. and wants sex after marriage." See, she's talking about herself, and she still probably has suitors that she doesn't want.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 11:59 PM
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I think everyone's gotta pick their battles. You'll drive yourself mad if you spend your whole life dwelling on every aspect of the world that doesn't fit your personal tastes.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 11:55 PM
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He was going to end up friendzoned regardless. If she really liked him, she would've let it slide.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 10:45 PM
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I accept the things I cannot change
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 10:22 PM
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Would you volunteer to spend money you don't have to? Would you give up leverage in a romantic relationship for no reason?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 10:17 PM
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*Defrosted* pizza? <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 06:42 PM
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6 of one half dozen of the other
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 11:53 PM
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Could also be that it has a finite lifespan because they have diverging long term goals.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 11:42 PM
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You don't know they're happy. They could just be staying together for their ducklings.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 11:37 PM
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FWB to me is somewhere between fuck buddy where you just meet up and fuck, and situationship which is a relationship that one or both parties doesn't take seriously.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 11:35 PM
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Undoubtedly a future serial killer at least.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 11:21 PM
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I accept acts of service (to my penis) as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 11:07 PM
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This strategy has worked so far, so they might as well give it a shot. One's capacity to endure suffering is generally seen as a positive personality trait as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 11:06 PM
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I was dating women before RP existed as far as I know, and definitely before I knew about it. When I finally heard about it, it didn't really tell me anything I didn't already know.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 10:58 PM
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Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 09:52 PM
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I think I get it. Maybe for different reasons, maybe not so much, but I get it. There's always tomorrow man.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 03:43 AM
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Sounds about right for Russia lol
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 03:18 AM
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Brutal
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 03:05 AM
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Pretty basic: Multi, vit-D, fish oil, and creatine Do you find those supps for mental stuff really work? I think I tried to take L-theanine when I was going through a particularly stressful time and all it did was give me the worst heartburn I've ever had.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 02:36 AM
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Nah, I'd feel the same way if we were talking about men. If a guy is married and his wife cheats on him, but he stays with her for the sake of the kids or whatever, would you think he forgave her?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 02:14 AM
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I just know the day is coming where a healthy (19-21 BMI) woman will be at the buffet with you to watch you eat.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 01:15 AM
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Like girl he doesn’t give a fuck about you or your desire to get married…leave him. That's what I'm saying, why don't they? It’s okay that you don’t see wrongdoings against women as wrongdoings, but at least be honest about it. Where did I imply those men had done nothing wrong? Of course leading someone on is wrong. I just don't think those women have forgiven them for it. They've just decided to put it up with it for whatever reason. There's nothing altruistic about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 01:11 AM
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I think that might've been the joke
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 12:32 AM
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Those women are just acting in their own self-interest, it has nothing to do with being forgiving or not. They've made the calculus being a forever-gf to the guy they're with is more appealing than the alternative. They've forgiven nothing. Forgiveness would be accepting the guy isn't going to marry them and then not bitching about it online.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 12:30 AM
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Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 11:08 PM
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Please give 3 examples of ways women are forgiving towards men that men are not towards women
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 11:04 PM
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Time to contact a lawyer. No one should have to put up with this kind of harassment.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 09:54 PM
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Report her to HR
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 09:36 PM
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It's also not like the key grants him his freedom. He's gonna need energy to escape the prison once he gets out of his cell.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 08:13 PM
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75/25
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 08:02 PM
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He'll still have the stick to grab the other item no matter which he chooses first.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 08:01 PM
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maybe i just have a helpful vibe idk lol I doubt it's that because I get it too and I don't look friendly or helpful at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 07:34 PM
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Never thought of it like that, so fair. If I had the looks I think I'd be white pilled though.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 07:32 PM
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Go for it then. If you get the vibe she's just there for the meal, you can always excuse yourself to the bathroom and dip before the check comes. I get about 2-3 matches a day on average Black pill stolen valor.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 07:15 PM
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You're black pill, so is it fair to assume you get very few matches?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 07:06 PM
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She's well below average if she gets so few likes that this one stands out enough to bother her a year later. Also the fact that she's even considering giving him another chance means she's got nothing else going on. That's not a thing average women have to give a second thought to.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 06:58 PM
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Nothing to be scared of, every day will be easier than the last. It helps to get some days under your belt because you start being able to lean on not throwing away your progress.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 02:15 AM
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At least give it try to get through the night then. If you can't stand strong through tomorrow then you're just not ready yet. Pretty much all of us tried and failed multiple times before it really stuck. You've gotta really want it because that first week is a bitch.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 02:07 AM
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How long since your last one?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 02:00 AM
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Commenting to see if my name comes up
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/25 04:17 AM
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I don't shop dresses, Coat. You keep linking 'em, and I'll keep giving my opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/25 04:14 AM
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Big no. I like the pink one from the other day that I didn't like that much way better.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/25 04:08 AM
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Exactly. I think your dream about torturing them with legos is just you remembering stepping on legos because they're male self-insert characters. You're Batman.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/25 04:04 AM
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Do you like James Bond and Batman?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/25 03:57 AM
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🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/25 03:50 AM
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You stepped on a lot of legos barefoot as a kid
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/25 03:47 AM
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Fuck the debt even, residency is supposed to be grueling as hell. No one's going through that just to get married lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/25 03:18 AM
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This feels like mostly conjecture on your part, but I know even less about the situation in Europe as an American. Here, men don't want the overwhelming majority of jobs in the medical field. The idea that a meaningful number of women are going to the trouble of becoming a doctor just to marry a doctor seems unrealistic to me. Nurses and assistants maybe, but not doctors.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/25 03:09 AM
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I know nothing about the medical field, but how does women entering the medical field create staff shortages?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/25 02:27 AM
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I don't think the girlboss thing applies to a doctor. I'd save that sentiment that for all the women (men too really) who think everyone should be extremely impressed because they dedicated their life to reaching the level of the average middle management corporate drone.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/25 02:05 AM
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Doing everything you want to do at once sounds doable then. Good luck.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/25 01:39 AM
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Cigs or weed?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/25 12:16 AM
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I bet I know what those two bonded over!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/25 12:13 AM
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I'm not convinced anyone actually finds them funny. They just like the hot slutty girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/25 11:13 PM
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You're not fighting, though. You're just hanging out with other like minded folks and momentarily making yourselves feel good. The people you're protesting are fighting, though, and they're winning.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/25 10:19 PM
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And you know what was accomplished by all this? Absolutely nothing. That's not meant to be taken as support of Trump's agenda, but these protests are a fart in the wind.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/25 10:09 PM
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Eyesore
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/25 09:56 PM
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Who?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/25 09:49 PM
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"I have a friend of a different race, therefore I cannot be a racist."
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/25 09:44 PM
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Nobody's forcing you to participate
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/25 09:32 PM
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Tell her you think it's a great idea, quickly change the subject, and then act bored and dismissive every time she brings it up going forward. Telling her not to do it will just make her want to do it more. Also, if she can afford that, who really cares at the end of the day?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/25 09:10 PM
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A while back some guy's snot nosed 3-year old kept looking at me and asked his dad "why is he alone?" It was as if he could see into my soul. I wasn't aware that was necessarily a group activity you little shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/25 08:57 PM
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I was talking about the screenshot you posted.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/25 08:47 PM
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I don't date women with dads
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/25 08:41 PM
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Then what I said wasn't directed at you. Why are you taking it personally?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/25 08:39 PM
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The main problem is finding a man that I actually want to offer it to they can't find a man they like that sees them as anything more than a set of holes.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/25 08:33 PM
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How's that going?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/25 08:28 PM
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Sure, but most of the time they want more.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/25 08:22 PM
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That's true, most of the time those men are just out of their league and nothing will change that.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/25 08:22 PM
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Many millennial/zoomer women seem to be making it their mission to offer as little as possible to a relationship. Then they wonder why they can't find a man they like that sees them as anything more than a set of holes.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/25 08:17 PM
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Believing there are celebrities who haven't had plastic surgery is like believing in Santa Claus.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/25 08:11 PM
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Absolutely delusional take
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/25 07:50 PM
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Is it a day that ends in Y?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/25 06:56 PM
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Now do normal women who don't have tons of money for surgery or access to the best surgeons. Also debatable that most of these women look better. I'm really not a fan of the sunken cheek look they all go for.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/25 05:05 PM
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I'm with you on the second part, but we'll have to agree to disagree on the first part.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/25 03:35 AM
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Your bf seems to think so. Take it up w him
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/25 03:22 AM
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Never said it was
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/25 01:51 AM
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When she's in a relationship but she's acting like she's single
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/25 01:42 AM
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/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 11:29 PM
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I'm A LOT more worried about the economy overall.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 10:18 PM
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What happened?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 09:54 PM
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This is all my fault because I haven't taught my son to stand up for himself properly.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 07:00 PM
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Sometimes I think I just experience varying degrees of sadness. If I've ever experienced happiness, it's been extremely fleeting.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 02:42 AM
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I think most people agree with this. What we can't agree on is what "equal" is.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 01:41 AM
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I've more or less given up on the romantic area of my life delivering me any happiness.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 01:00 AM
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Feeling a little down about the fact that all my hopes and dreams for the future more or less hinged on a good economy and it's being tanked on purpose.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 12:23 AM
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They're crying about no women being into them, even the scumbag women.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 09:06 PM
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Eh, even if I was divorced I'd still probably try to avoid dating other divorcees. After a certain age that's probably impossible though.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 09:04 PM
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Divorcees have are significantly more likely to get divorced again, so the idea that they're not relationship material tracks.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 08:52 PM
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What difference would that make?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 01:45 AM
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I think a lot of those random women who are suddenly into you when you get a gf would've been into you regardless. A guy being taken just gives them a reason to actively pursue you instead of being passive like they normally are. Preselection is part of it, but not all of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/25 11:12 PM
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This is shocking to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/25 09:28 PM
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You know they're gonna be licking the ketchup off their dirty fingers.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/25 08:27 PM
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Left is a slob. Probably has stains on their shirt, wipes their hands on their pants, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/25 08:17 PM
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Not a woman, but I didn't know people actually did this on purpose. I always thought they were scars from getting hit in the face.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 07:34 PM
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He's always been hyper-sensitive about Tesla stock price. I can remember him pitifully whining on twitter about how people shorting the stock were "mean" a decade ago. His net worth is how he calculates the value of his life.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 07:16 PM
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It's looking like it's the best way to ensure they'll never be able to read or write
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 07:11 PM
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I'm not going to introduce him to this stuff if he's currently ignorant of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 06:05 PM
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Keep an eye on it to make sure anything really bad doesn't happen, but other than that, getting your heart broken is part of life.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 05:59 PM
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Like, I literally just behave like a (kind of unhinged and bit insane) decent person and I literally get asked out and cold approached by women. It is awesome. You're getting cold approached and you think it has to do with your behavior? How do you figure they know enough about your behavior when they don't even know you?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 04:01 PM
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Yes, that's what I'm saying, snarky gifs notwithstanding.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 04:44 AM
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Try re-reading it until you figure it out I'll give you a hint: You seem very insecure about your N-count.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 04:33 AM
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Okay, my original reply to you stands
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 04:16 AM
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Your message seems to be that N count doesn't matter and men are stupid for caring? Am I wrong about that?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 04:02 AM
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That's a possibility whether you've had a hoe phase or not. You can start to miss the good ol' days too. I think that's even more likely given women often refer to ending their "hoe phase" as being ready to stop having fun and settle down. A higher divorce rate is also correlated with higher N count.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 02:42 AM
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Given your flair and how clearly obsessed with this topic you are, it seems like you're trying to convince yourself more than you're trying to convince us. Maybe pair bonding isn't real, but there are A LOT of women getting into situationships that aren't casual on their end. These women who repeat the same behavior over and over again seem to become jaded by these experiences. As a jaded person myself, it's easy to see how that has a negative impact on future relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 02:37 AM
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Nah it just damages the drywall
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/25 04:59 AM
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I relate to some of what you've been through: You gotta realize your parents have their lives, and you've got yours, and at some point you've got to realize your life isn't about them. Fuck what they think. If they actually love you, they'll love you regardless. If they don't, fuck em.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/25 04:47 AM
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How deep?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/25 04:09 AM
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That's yet to be established
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/25 04:00 AM
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My bad, I misread your original comment. I thought you were talking about women making men earn it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/25 03:33 AM
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If they're making you try hard, they don't like you that much.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/25 03:19 AM
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I got some theory of mind for you: Women say shit like this because they want to seem complex and deep and special. Y'all really ain't.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/25 03:18 AM
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Duke's or Hellmann's?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/25 01:25 AM
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Something like 95% of day traders lose money. The 5% that don't probably have inside info. So is it worth it? You tell me.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/25 01:24 AM
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It's pretty standard for any office job
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/25 10:03 PM
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Any of the women in here who seem to have little or no experience romantically because they have impossibly high standards. I don't think any guy is ever going to measure up for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/25 06:06 PM
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I think I'm rare in that I'm flexible on children. I think I'd kill it (perhaps not the best choice of words) as a dad, but I'll probably won't feel regret if I never have children. I think it'll mean divorce for most people, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/25 05:42 PM
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Projection
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/25 04:36 PM
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Shotgun, birdshot, spackle, paint
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/25 04:32 PM
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Yes, I'm American. Nowadays, I think I should've joined the coast guard, which was not even a thought when I was younger. I think it'd be fun to be a rescue swimmer, or chase drug smugglers, or even fly helicopters if I got lucky. There seem to be a lot of fun jobs in that branch.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/25 04:13 PM
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Yeah you got me there. I concede the argument. Be honest though, you don't really to vomit when you look at a guy you're not attracted to, do you? I mean, there are plenty of women I'm 100% not attracted to, but none of them really make wretch on sight alone. They just do nothing for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/25 03:58 PM
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I'm of the opposite school of thought, I think we'd be better off as a society if we were harder on everyone instead of just men.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/25 03:47 PM
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Yes, I wish I hadn't let my family talk me out of it when I was younger.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/25 03:45 PM
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Even though you're not attracted to him, you know damn well Chalamet's not ugly.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/25 03:39 PM
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You're entitled to your opinion, but I've got no shortage of blame to throw around, so I'm gonna do it. Furthermore, I think if the genders were flipped, people would have no problem blaming the man. Women get sympathy, men get told they should've seen it coming and to be better.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/25 03:39 PM
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I appreciate that.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/25 03:28 PM
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These are preferences within a preference. Ugly is ugly, and no one prefers ugly.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/25 03:24 PM
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Of course it's not okay lol, I'm not defending Tate. I just think people who offer themselves up to a known predator, and expect the predator not to do what a predator does are equally to blame.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/25 03:20 PM
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I don't think you're different from any other woman really.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/25 03:16 PM
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Not sure why there are so many complaints about this. $50/month or whatever it is a small price to pay if it enables you to get what you want. That's only like 1.5 first dates.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/25 03:11 PM
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In that case I think I'd rather be invisible.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/25 03:04 PM
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I'd say it's about the same. Women are just willing to have a relationship with no physical attraction on their end while men will almost always be at least someone physically attracted to their partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/25 03:03 PM
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If I intentionally go to the worst part of Detroit flashing money around, and I get robbed (or worse), how is that anything but my fault?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/25 02:52 PM
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Didn't fall for it the first time. #Pureblood
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 07:37 AM
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Asking which you'd rather date is implied when I asked what's more unattractive. I'm not suggesting you want to date either, but not dating either was never on the menu for the sake of this hypothetical.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 07:35 AM
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You'll never convince me (I warned you not to try) you'd rather date an ugly secure guy over "normal everyday insecure" attractive guy. And no "neither" isn't an option in this scenario. Ugly is worse than insecure. Fact.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 07:09 AM
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Non answer
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 06:59 AM
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Those are not universally unattractive or universally attractive features. They're secondary or tertiary features at best. Even if a woman finds veiny arms unattractive, for example, most of the time she won't reject a man she otherwise likes because of it. Now you don't know how to proceed.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 06:56 AM
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Of course, you'd have to be dumb to think it could go anywhere else.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 06:24 AM
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plenty of guys who are not objectively or universally unattractive have insecurities and they are still able to get a gf or even hook ups. No shit? How is this contradictory to what I said? however, can you give me a list of traits that are universally considered unattractive? deformities? We both already know what these are, so no.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 06:16 AM
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Alright, let's do an experiment: Name three physical features you find unattractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 06:12 AM
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Q4W: What's more unattractive? Having physical traits women universally find unattractive, or being insecure? No need to answer, everyone who's not a gullible r-word already knows the answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 06:08 AM
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Very true. I was there, and I can confirm there were no women there. Plenty of friendly AC130s above tho (I was the one calling them in).
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 04:57 AM
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I thought you were a dude until I saw you identify yourself as a woman, and since then, I've recognized you as such. Of course, there are no women on the internet, but I take people on the internet as they say they are regardless. I'm benevolent that way. RIP Harambe
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 04:51 AM
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That's a shame
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 04:27 AM
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You ever seen True Romance?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 04:18 AM
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This makes me uncomfortable. Please delete.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 04:01 AM
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I disagree, but I acknowledge this as a worthy challenger
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 03:30 AM
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Rose only sucks because she's a million years old and still hung up on a guy she knew for 3 days a million years ago. Cal is objectively a scumbag abuser. Jack did nothing wrong and should've taken the door and let Rose freeze to death. Everybody sucks here.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 03:24 AM
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Don't care about symbolism, it's just dope. You have embarrassingly bad taste, respectfully.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 03:12 AM
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Pillowfists
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 03:03 AM
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Simp
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 03:02 AM
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Respectfully, the Maryland flag looks like it should come with a seizure warning.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 03:00 AM
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I am without shame
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 02:53 AM
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Is this AI? Either way, I love her hair and eyes.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 02:50 AM
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I'm kinda into flags. Not enough to post on r Vexillology or anything, but I'm definitely vexillology-curious. The Chicago flag is undoubtedly the greatest flag of all time.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 02:48 AM
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I'm sure they exist, but I find most people are just hiding behind them in an attempt to excuse their bad behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 02:06 AM
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Aaaaackshually, women always bear the brunt of war, you fucking bigot.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 12:36 AM
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Long story short, if I could experience it, I would have. I've wished I could a few times, but I can't. I think if it were common, you'd see close friends falling in love with each other a lot more often, which isn't the case. I think it's so rare it's not even worth discussing in a place like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 12:04 AM
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Did you meet him before he got fat?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 11:31 PM
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Yeah, I tried to delete before you saw it. No need for me to pile on, I know you know who you are.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 07:20 AM
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I need to do some soul searching and commit to becoming meaner
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 06:55 AM
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They like the attention. If any of these women ever really want you to ask them out, they'll get so desperate that they'll let you know in such a way that even the most oblivious man couldn't miss it. You will either know for a fact they're gonna say yes before you ask, or on rare occasions, they'll ask you. You should never be hoping this'll happen, though, because it rarely does.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 06:50 AM
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Scored 67
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 06:28 AM
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Can't imagine any other reason to choose your partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 05:22 AM
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Idk, I don't really have standards I don't meet myself. They're clearly still to high though given the economics of dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 05:13 AM
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It's was kinda jarring to me how similar talking about bombing people seemed to other work group chats I've been in.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 05:08 AM
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I have well defined masculine features and a strong jaw. I have no idea what that'd look like on the female version of myself. Maybe I'd like it, maybe I wouldn't. If we just assume the female version has a normal BMI like I do and isn't hideous, I'd say he clears my bar 80% of the time. I'm not sure what your point is here other than bragging you can date a bunch of your male friends if you want to. Congrats?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 04:59 AM
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“0715pt: Rise" “0735: ‘Trigger Based’ Walk to 7/11 (This is when I purchase my vaguely coffee flavored water, pending seeing another item that piques my interest)” “0800: Arrive back home and start browsing PPD (1st strike package)" “0803: Click reply (THIS IS WHEN THE FIRST BOMBS WILL DEFINITELY DROP)” “0805: Clicks on another thread (2nd Strike Package)” “MORE TO FOLLOW (per timeline)” “We are currently clean on OPSEC”—that is, operational security. “Godspeed to our Warriors.”
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 04:12 AM
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More like Handsome_Hank
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 03:51 AM
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I do not think I could ever get away with being gross, not that I'm inclined to or anything. Like I don't even want to be gross outside of my control, like sick, in front of a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 03:44 AM
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Liquid assets
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 03:35 AM
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At my first job, at orientation the HR woman presented herself like she was there to help the average employee with anything. I learned real quick that's just a tactic to get you to walk yourself into her office and basically snitch on yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 03:33 AM
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Women can put up with that shit for a hot guy apparently, but I cannot do the same for a hot woman. One time, okay, we're all human. The second time I'll look like the roadrunner sprinting for the door.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 03:29 AM
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I just get the idea this is mostly happening for the first time when these women are younger. Most people will never regularly interact with more other single people than when they're in their late teens or early 20s. Whether they're going to college, working some crappy job with a lot of other people their age and partying on the side, or all of the above. It would seem to me that there'd never be a more opportune time to have your pick of the litter, assuming everyone wants different things. M…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 03:22 AM
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myself and a lot of women here have said we gave guys chances that we weren't that into and got mistreated. If everyone finds different things attractive, like you said above, there should be no shortage of attractive guys around for each woman. Why is giving an unattractive guy a chance an idea that ever even enters a woman's head?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 01:55 AM
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Depends how literal you're being about it. If the female version of myself has even roughly the same thoughts, opinions, likes/dislikes, and life experience, that'd be pretty dull for me, wouldn't it? I want someone who is similar enough to be compatible, but different enough to be interesting. Not gonna answer a probable gotcha question any deeper than that.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 06:39 AM
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I don't consider faking interests or aspects of your personality to be as sinister as lying. If you've ever been in a relationship, you've probably done something you didn't want to do to make them happy. Doing something beforehand for the same purposes is no different. You just have to be willing to maintain the charade for their sake at your expense. It's the same as maintaining your physique by skipping that bowl of ice cream you wanted, or doing your half of the household chores even though …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 06:02 AM
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"I was very tired, but it's for my family, so it's worth it." King
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 02:36 AM
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You're welcome
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 01:54 AM
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While I think it is ideal to find someone who matches you almost perfectly, I don't think your relationship is doomed or even can't be fulfilling if you don't. You just have to decide what's most important to you. I think at one point in my life I could've and would've been willing to make more sacrifices and still have maintained a successful and happy relationship. I'm just no longer willing to do so to my own detriment.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 01:48 AM
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I 100% disagree. Most of the advice I've gotten from women to improve my chances would involve trying to change who I am and doing things I otherwise have no interest in doing to meet women and/or (allegedly) become more attractive. What he said above is just another version of "there's someone out there for everyone." Nope. Absolutely not.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 12:53 AM
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I assure you I have been advised to broaden my horizons to overweight women, despite the fact that I am not myself overweight.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 05:36 PM
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You can't have it both ways. You can't say if men were willing to date women on their level there'd be no single people while also saying most women are out of most men's league.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 04:27 PM
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Whaaat? You can't honestly believe that. The most common advice for men who are struggling is that they need to lower their standards. You literally said it right here: If men lowered their standards they wouldn't be single.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 04:24 PM
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Very attractive women have the most options to choose from, correct? If out of all their options they're choosing men as described above, doesn't that mean those men are the most attractive to women?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 04:14 PM
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She must be French
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 03:14 PM
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Yeeaaahh, I've been that guy. Definitely only need to learn the lesson once. If she tries to keep you from the boys, you should choose the boys.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 05:50 AM
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Men bail on the friend group when they get a gf too. Don't make friends with women that you secretly want to fuck, don't do stuff for them that you wouldn't do for a guy friend, and it'll be like any other friendship. Women suck on a romantic level if you're not Chad, but they're actually usually above average friends as long you don't let yourself get used.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 05:45 AM
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Are you having a problem with men thinking you're not interested in dating on a dating app?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/25 04:03 PM
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Part of a coordinated media campaign to encourage degeneracy https://i.imgur.com/ErfHzIf.jpeg
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/25 03:50 PM
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The bar for women to clear to be successful in that regard is a lot lower than it is for men. If you screw it up most guys'll probably find it cute, if a guy screws it up it's an ick and a next.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/25 01:30 AM
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Charisma is pretty much as immutable as your face or your height. I think exceptionally good looking people are a dime a dozen compared to exceptionally charismatic people.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/25 12:51 AM
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Fair enough. I think you're being humble when it comes to your face, because otherwise it just doesn't add up. White guys with okay faces a head taller than you with full heads of hair don't even get that kind of play on apps.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/25 09:12 PM
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I've had women display pretty non ambiguous signs of attraction. Care to elaborate on this? With just the info you provided it sounds this is entirely based on how you interpreted a situation rather than proof of anything. Also, do you live in the west, or somewhere else?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/25 08:20 PM
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I'm not suggesting they believe they're adonises, but I would bet most assume their wives are attracted to them. I suppose if part of your circle is trophy wives married to rich men, then I'm sure they know. I don't know any average middle class guy who knows his wife/gf isn't attracted to him. Outside of our little circle of hell here, most men truly believe what many women say: Factors beyond their looks made their wife/gf develop or increase a sense of physical attraction to them. We've had m…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/25 08:01 PM
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I wonder if how their husbands would feel if they knew the truth..
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/25 07:37 PM
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Match group's stock is down 82% from its all time high four years ago. If the apps are designed to foster failure in men, rather than women's preferences being the cause of that failure, why hasn't Match changed their business strategy in the last four years? Surely you're not saying they're tanking their business on purpose?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/25 02:37 PM
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People feeling entitled to plead their case is exactly why people are so upset by ghosting. They think they just got the chance, they could change your mind. Otherwise, rejection is pretty much just rejection no matter how it's delivered.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/25 02:01 PM
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This is just women being completely incapable of introspection and defaulting to something irrelevant.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/25 05:04 AM
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How many bananas are you eating per day?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/25 04:40 AM
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What am I, a whore? How about a high five? ✋
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/25 04:20 AM
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The rest of it's meh for me (no offense), but I'll appreciate a fresh pair of white AF1s till I die.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/25 04:08 AM
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And you see how far England has fallen. Once arguably the greatest empire the world has ever known reduced to barely even being able to keep the Scots in line. Also, yes. That's exactly what it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/25 03:49 AM
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Have you looked at Japan's birth rate lately? Is that what you want?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/25 03:37 AM
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Standard son at this point A sad state of affairs indeed
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/25 03:30 AM
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Pop/top 40 type stuff usually. Works for me because I just listen to music, it's not really an interest.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/25 03:07 AM
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Did they ever let you play with the siren on the truck?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/25 02:06 AM
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She'd reject most men so how is that relevant?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/25 01:46 AM
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I don't see any pictures of him other than the ones where he's sticking his fingers in his beer. That suggests to me he's 29 but still tries to hit up frat parties on the weekend.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/25 01:40 AM
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Why would you accept an ick or a red flag or incompatibility after a certain point? It makes no sense to be so cut throat to start and then just stop. If we take the example OP used, if someone is being disrespectful to your face, they simply don't respect you, full stop. Even if you try to talk that out, at best they'll manage to hide their underlying contempt for you for a while. Eventually that disrespect is going to surface again in a way that results in you being hurt worse than you would h…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/25 01:31 AM
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You don't have to compromise with someone you're compatible with.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/25 12:47 AM
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I've been told time and time again that women's lives have never been better because they have access to more options than ever before, so no, I actually think it's how emotionally healthy people think.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/25 12:38 AM
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Less and less it seems to me. Everything's a red flag or an ick or whatever the term du jour is now.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/25 12:33 AM
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It's a shame the study didn't also show them nude videos of men for the sake of comparison. I bet the arousal rate would be drastically lower. My support for this hypothesis that most women say they don't find pornography or nude content featuring men appealing, and because most women readily admit they find most men unattractive. This is why I suggested they lean more towards being gay rather leaning more towards bisexuality.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/25 12:02 AM
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This should actually make men who get little or no attention from women feel better about themselves. If most women actually just lean towards being gay, there's really nothing wrong with you except for the fact that you're not a woman. Nothing you can do about that short of transitioning, if even that.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/25 11:44 PM
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What's the incentive to do so? If you have the option, why wouldn't you fire up an app and have dozens to hundreds of new and potentially better options within days?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/25 11:24 PM
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Couples aren’t getting married because there’s no point when you’re already living together and monogamous Bullshit. Being forever-girlfriend-zoned is quite literally one of the most common fears I still hear from women. Women are not tolerating that kind of lack of commitment on a significant scale. More people are opting to stay single because a relationship/dating/fwb isn’t worth the effort it requires. More women are opting out because there aren't enough Chads to go around. It's really that…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/25 10:49 PM
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How do you explain the ever declining marriage rate?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/25 10:26 PM
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So your basis for this claim about how women view men is…one anecdote of a lesbian relationship? Hilarious, isn't it? Lesbian dating dynamics have little in common with hetero dating dynamics simply because even straight women will tell you they think most women are more attractive than most men. Women rate most women as above average and rate most men as below average.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/25 10:21 PM
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And women use that freedom to... drum roll chase Chad
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/25 10:14 PM
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If she can't handle me as a felon, she doesn't deserve me with a clean record
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/25 09:42 PM
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Were you born yesterday?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/25 08:41 PM
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This is a great idea if you want a desperate woman to start stalking you.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/25 06:45 AM
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Shouldn't credit be awarded based on whether it works or not? It's gonna work a hell of a lot more often for women than it would for men. That's just the way it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/25 06:18 AM
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Women already do ask out the guys they like, or do everything short of it. Men who have to chase are only wanted by women if they're willing to accept a situation where they put in the majority of the effort for little in return. The whole point of chasing is about proving you're willing to debase yourself for her attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/25 06:00 AM
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He's been looking for a clean break ever since she stopped blowing him once they got married.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/25 07:00 AM
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Right, but I'm sure it applies to any area. I'm not giving advice, I'm just saying it might be an option
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/25 06:32 AM
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Movie studios are definitely targeting the right demographic (35-45 year old single women) with romance movies right now.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/25 06:05 AM
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Thanks for acknowledging you agree with me. That's rare here.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/25 05:44 AM
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Really? I remember botox being an option when I was trying to stop sweating too much. Thankfully Certain Dri permanently clogged my pits.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/25 05:39 AM
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Botox is probably your only option then. I have no experience with that though.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/25 05:30 AM
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Doesn't matter really. Men don't really care if a woman is stylish and women won't like a man because he's stylish.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/25 05:29 AM
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What a stupid quote
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/25 05:23 AM
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Rx strength anti perspirant is your friend
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/25 05:17 AM
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I never said it was, but what's the superior alternative in your opinion?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/25 05:12 AM
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He has not be "something else." Being nice doesn't matter, and is at best a neutral personality trait, but is usually unattractive. Who almost always has the hotter gf/wife? The hot ruthless guy or the hot nice guy?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/25 05:09 AM
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I'm just saying no woman likes a man because he's nice. You extrapolated the rest of that shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/25 05:04 AM
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Most couples throughout human history haven't liked each other all that much.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/25 04:56 AM
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Maybe it's not true for you, but r dating and similar forums are full of women asking for advice on how to get guys out of their league who've put them on the furthest back burner to fall in love with them. Dating down seems like a good option for average men.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/25 04:52 AM
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Why would a woman give a man she doesn't find hot the time of day in the first place? I've been assured this doesn't happen?!?!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/25 04:43 AM
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That's the whole point. Most men have fewer options than his equivalent woman, so his best bet for a long term relationship is a woman who likes him more than he likes her. If she likes him more than he likes her, she's less likely to discard him for the slightest indiscretion.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/25 04:40 AM
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She used an unattractive physical trait to justify her distaste for the unattractive personality trait. A beard that doesn't connect isn't a real dealbreaker.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/25 04:32 AM
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I think they do generally hate the ugly ones, they just don't need to talk about that because it's expected. If they like the successful and/or hot ones they generally try to hide it. Looks and status trump all at the end of the day.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/25 04:28 AM
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Genuinely nice men are always pushovers to a fault which is unattractive. There are definitely fake nice guys like the ones she's deriding in this video, but women can't help but virtue signal, so she has to paint all nice men as fake. They're not all bad, they're just unattractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/25 04:14 AM
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So is women's "locker room talk" them expressing how they really feel or not? Because I never thought for a second women ever bought the "it's just locker room talk" excuse from men.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/25 07:20 AM
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women's standards, their looks, lack of income How are these not entirely valid things to blame?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/25 07:06 AM
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It’s easy to just decide it’s because of your height, or penis size, or whatever insecurity, blame women for not liking you, and become bitter and angry, and then come and lash out at the women who are trying to actually be helpful and have a conversation about it. What would you prefer men blame their lack of success on? Don't say personality, because I'm sure you wouldn't deny that personality alone does not generate romantic interest. Looks sure as shit can't though.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/25 06:45 AM
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It wouldn't sell so well if these weren't sentiments shared by the average woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/25 06:16 AM
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A man being sexually attractive may make it more likely to live with him not carrying his load, but it doesn't make it more likely for us to partner with him in the first place - especially when we could just fuck him casually and not have to wash his laundry or deal with his beard trimmings in the sink. You've got this one backwards based on what I hear from women. Women seem utterly desperate get into relationships with hot guys, all else be damned. I can't tell you how many women I've heard t…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/25 05:48 AM
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they stop "feeling sexy" and men settle in and stop making them feel sexy. Probably because they learned long ago that trying to make a woman who feels unsexy is a fool's errand. That's what makes dating someone with low self-esteem so brutal and draining.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/25 04:37 AM
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