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Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/25 07:29 AM
3

And here’s the kicker: that expression? It can come off a little judgy, a little condescending, like he’s trying to stay above it all. But if the energy isn’t backed up by real confidence or clarity, it can end up looking like someone trying to be impressive, not being impressive. ChatGPT knows too much, SHUT IT DOWN.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/25 05:07 AM
1

You're right, I bet you can't.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/25 03:56 AM
1

Sure Jan.gif
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/25 03:56 AM
1

Nothing can motivate you out of bed but you. Do you want it or not?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/25 03:54 AM
1

I'm sure they do answer: With a mute and a ban. I have no doubt that's coming my way already just for talking back.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/25 03:51 AM
1

Yeah that'll happen around the same time Olivia Rodrigo shows up at my door and professes her undying love for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/25 03:39 AM
-1

I can't answer because I might get banned for more verboten content. I'll ask you: How is mocking a misandrist woman claiming she can't be a misandrist because she likes her brother and her husband by saying this "I have a friend of a different race, therefore I cannot be a racist." race baiting content?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/25 03:32 AM
1

I can't answer because I might get banned for more verboten content. I'll ask you: How is mocking a misandrist woman claiming she can't be a misandrist because she likes her brother and her husband by saying this "I have a friend of a different race, therefore I cannot be a racist." race baiting content?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/25 03:32 AM
4

A mod can make a comment like this, but I get a warning for violating the race rule when I went out of my way not to mention any specific race (nor was my comment actually related to race). Cool cool cool.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/25 03:24 AM
5

It's about them tingles
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/25 03:09 AM
2

He's either handsome, or he ain't.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/25 03:00 AM
1

Depends on his face. If he's in the west, the guy you described will probably be matched with obese women based only on looks alone. Profession is irrelevant to your question.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/25 02:46 AM
1

Mentally, yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/25 02:34 AM
1

Lol, I wasn't trying to insult you boss. I was just thinking the whole thing seems pretty juvenile.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/25 02:33 AM
1

Are you really young, like high school aged?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/25 02:19 AM
2

People (usually) try harder to impress people out of their league. 90% of being good at giving head comes down to your level of enthusiasm. The mechanical part of it is easy.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/25 01:51 AM
1

That would require men to want women less than women want men, our biology makes that virtually impossible.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/25 01:46 AM
1

Would
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/25 12:07 AM
2

What she really meant "and yet they still aren’t willing to date any girl below a seven. and isn’t slim. and is older. and has short hair. and has piercings. and has kids. and believes in astrology. and goes to church every sunday. and wants to be taken out to dinner. and wants commitment. and wants flowers. and wants sex after marriage." See, she's talking about herself, and she still probably has suitors that she doesn't want.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 11:59 PM
1

I think everyone's gotta pick their battles. You'll drive yourself mad if you spend your whole life dwelling on every aspect of the world that doesn't fit your personal tastes.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 11:55 PM
3

He was going to end up friendzoned regardless. If she really liked him, she would've let it slide.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 10:45 PM
3

I accept the things I cannot change
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 10:22 PM
2

Would you volunteer to spend money you don't have to? Would you give up leverage in a romantic relationship for no reason?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 10:17 PM
2

*Defrosted* pizza? <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 06:42 PM
1

S
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 03:28 PM
2

A 20-year $2M policy for me is like $50 a month as far as I can tell. $2M is several times more than I earn in a year, and would offer plenty of security for my hypothetical family. They wouldn't be set for life, but it'd give my widow plenty of time figure something out. That being said, I've never even tried to get life insurance since I have no reason to.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 03:24 PM
4

You can't even afford one from Goodwill
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 02:05 PM
3

Why is she the reason? I've never seen any version of Snow White, but I heard something about them drastically altering the story. Wouldn't people not being into that be more of a reason than the actress?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 02:04 PM
1

I'm not, but the answer is life insurance.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 01:23 PM
2

Me when I think about current events <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 04:37 AM
2

6 of one half dozen of the other
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 11:53 PM
1

Could also be that it has a finite lifespan because they have diverging long term goals.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 11:42 PM
3

You don't know they're happy. They could just be staying together for their ducklings.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 11:37 PM
2

FWB to me is somewhere between fuck buddy where you just meet up and fuck, and situationship which is a relationship that one or both parties doesn't take seriously.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 11:35 PM
2

Undoubtedly a future serial killer at least.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 11:21 PM
3

I accept acts of service (to my penis) as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 11:07 PM
1

This strategy has worked so far, so they might as well give it a shot. One's capacity to endure suffering is generally seen as a positive personality trait as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 11:06 PM
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I was dating women before RP existed as far as I know, and definitely before I knew about it. When I finally heard about it, it didn't really tell me anything I didn't already know.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 10:58 PM
2

Thanks, I'll check it out.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 09:55 PM
1

Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 09:52 PM
1

I think I get it. Maybe for different reasons, maybe not so much, but I get it. There's always tomorrow man.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 03:43 AM
1

Sounds about right for Russia lol
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 03:18 AM
1

Brutal
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 03:05 AM
1

Pretty basic: Multi, vit-D, fish oil, and creatine Do you find those supps for mental stuff really work? I think I tried to take L-theanine when I was going through a particularly stressful time and all it did was give me the worst heartburn I've ever had.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 02:36 AM
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I try
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 02:19 AM
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Nah, I'd feel the same way if we were talking about men. If a guy is married and his wife cheats on him, but he stays with her for the sake of the kids or whatever, would you think he forgave her?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 02:14 AM
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I just know the day is coming where a healthy (19-21 BMI) woman will be at the buffet with you to watch you eat.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 01:15 AM
1

Like girl he doesn’t give a fuck about you or your desire to get married…leave him. That's what I'm saying, why don't they? It’s okay that you don’t see wrongdoings against women as wrongdoings, but at least be honest about it. Where did I imply those men had done nothing wrong? Of course leading someone on is wrong. I just don't think those women have forgiven them for it. They've just decided to put it up with it for whatever reason. There's nothing altruistic about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 01:11 AM
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I think that might've been the joke
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 12:32 AM
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Those women are just acting in their own self-interest, it has nothing to do with being forgiving or not. They've made the calculus being a forever-gf to the guy they're with is more appealing than the alternative. They've forgiven nothing. Forgiveness would be accepting the guy isn't going to marry them and then not bitching about it online.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 12:30 AM
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Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 11:08 PM
4

Please give 3 examples of ways women are forgiving towards men that men are not towards women
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 11:04 PM
3

Time to contact a lawyer. No one should have to put up with this kind of harassment.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 09:54 PM
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Report her to HR
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 09:36 PM
1

It's also not like the key grants him his freedom. He's gonna need energy to escape the prison once he gets out of his cell.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 08:13 PM
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75/25
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 08:02 PM
3

He'll still have the stick to grab the other item no matter which he chooses first.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 08:01 PM
1

maybe i just have a helpful vibe idk lol I doubt it's that because I get it too and I don't look friendly or helpful at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 07:34 PM
2

Never thought of it like that, so fair. If I had the looks I think I'd be white pilled though.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 07:32 PM
3

Go for it then. If you get the vibe she's just there for the meal, you can always excuse yourself to the bathroom and dip before the check comes. I get about 2-3 matches a day on average Black pill stolen valor.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 07:15 PM
0

You're black pill, so is it fair to assume you get very few matches?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 07:06 PM
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She's well below average if she gets so few likes that this one stands out enough to bother her a year later. Also the fact that she's even considering giving him another chance means she's got nothing else going on. That's not a thing average women have to give a second thought to.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 06:58 PM
3

I'd say 60/40 this is mostly just complaints this one woman who told you all this in the first place has about you. If you overshared sexual details at some point, it'd most likely have been with her because you said you were close. You probably creeped her out at some point (whether you were actually being creepy or not), and then she started finding everything you do creepy. After that, she started poisoning the well against you. I'd start looking for a new job.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 01:58 PM
5

Why should I care about any of this?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 01:32 PM
2

Nothing to be scared of, every day will be easier than the last. It helps to get some days under your belt because you start being able to lean on not throwing away your progress.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 02:15 AM
2

At least give it try to get through the night then. If you can't stand strong through tomorrow then you're just not ready yet. Pretty much all of us tried and failed multiple times before it really stuck. You've gotta really want it because that first week is a bitch.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 02:07 AM
1

How long since your last one?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 02:00 AM
2

You choose weird people to hang out with. Birds of a feather flock together
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/25 05:32 AM
1

22nd
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/25 05:25 AM
2

I want to dress like a cowboy, fight like a samurai, and raid like a pirate.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/25 05:21 AM
1

Commenting to see if my name comes up
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/25 04:17 AM
1

I don't shop dresses, Coat. You keep linking 'em, and I'll keep giving my opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/25 04:14 AM
1

Big no. I like the pink one from the other day that I didn't like that much way better.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/25 04:08 AM
1

Exactly. I think your dream about torturing them with legos is just you remembering stepping on legos because they're male self-insert characters. You're Batman.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/25 04:04 AM
2

Do you like James Bond and Batman?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/25 03:57 AM
1

🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/25 03:50 AM
3

You stepped on a lot of legos barefoot as a kid
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/25 03:47 AM
2

Fuck the debt even, residency is supposed to be grueling as hell. No one's going through that just to get married lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/25 03:18 AM
1

This feels like mostly conjecture on your part, but I know even less about the situation in Europe as an American. Here, men don't want the overwhelming majority of jobs in the medical field. The idea that a meaningful number of women are going to the trouble of becoming a doctor just to marry a doctor seems unrealistic to me. Nurses and assistants maybe, but not doctors.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/25 03:09 AM
3

I know nothing about the medical field, but how does women entering the medical field create staff shortages?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/25 02:27 AM
3

I don't think the girlboss thing applies to a doctor. I'd save that sentiment that for all the women (men too really) who think everyone should be extremely impressed because they dedicated their life to reaching the level of the average middle management corporate drone.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/25 02:05 AM
1

Doing everything you want to do at once sounds doable then. Good luck.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/25 01:39 AM
6

I appreciate the genuine response. Your fiance sounds like a lucky guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/25 01:36 AM
1

Cigs or weed?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/25 12:16 AM
1

I bet I know what those two bonded over!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/25 12:13 AM
2

I'm not convinced anyone actually finds them funny. They just like the hot slutty girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/25 11:13 PM
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treated me with respect and wasnt just rushing to get in my pants. What does this actually look like in practice? The majority of women expect men to take the initiative physically (first kiss, touching, sex), so what is the difference between doing that and "just trying to get into a woman's pants?" How do you express that you actually want a relationship while also not being interpreted as disinterested or gay?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/25 11:00 PM
2

You're not fighting, though. You're just hanging out with other like minded folks and momentarily making yourselves feel good. The people you're protesting are fighting, though, and they're winning.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/25 10:19 PM
1

And you know what was accomplished by all this? Absolutely nothing. That's not meant to be taken as support of Trump's agenda, but these protests are a fart in the wind.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/25 10:09 PM
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Eyesore
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/25 09:56 PM
1

You denied it the same way racists deny they're racist. No one buys it from them, and no one's buying it from you lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/25 09:54 PM
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Your deflection and lack of denial is a confession. Not sorry, today, Satan.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/25 09:51 PM
1

Who?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/25 09:49 PM
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"I have a friend of a different race, therefore I cannot be a racist."
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/25 09:44 PM
1

Nobody's forcing you to participate
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/25 09:32 PM
1

Tell her you think it's a great idea, quickly change the subject, and then act bored and dismissive every time she brings it up going forward. Telling her not to do it will just make her want to do it more. Also, if she can afford that, who really cares at the end of the day?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/25 09:10 PM
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A while back some guy's snot nosed 3-year old kept looking at me and asked his dad "why is he alone?" It was as if he could see into my soul. I wasn't aware that was necessarily a group activity you little shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/25 08:57 PM
1

I was talking about the screenshot you posted.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/25 08:47 PM
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I don't date women with dads
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/25 08:41 PM
1

Then what I said wasn't directed at you. Why are you taking it personally?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/25 08:39 PM
1

The main problem is finding a man that I actually want to offer it to they can't find a man they like that sees them as anything more than a set of holes.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/25 08:33 PM
1

How's that going?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/25 08:28 PM
2

Sure, but most of the time they want more.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/25 08:22 PM
2

That's true, most of the time those men are just out of their league and nothing will change that.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/25 08:22 PM
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Many millennial/zoomer women seem to be making it their mission to offer as little as possible to a relationship. Then they wonder why they can't find a man they like that sees them as anything more than a set of holes.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/25 08:17 PM
1

Believing there are celebrities who haven't had plastic surgery is like believing in Santa Claus.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/25 08:11 PM
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Absolutely delusional take
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/25 07:50 PM
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Is it a day that ends in Y?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/25 06:56 PM
1

Now do normal women who don't have tons of money for surgery or access to the best surgeons. Also debatable that most of these women look better. I'm really not a fan of the sunken cheek look they all go for.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/25 05:05 PM
2

Women can smell that on men
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/25 03:39 PM
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I'm with you on the second part, but we'll have to agree to disagree on the first part.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/25 03:35 AM
1

Your bf seems to think so. Take it up w him
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/25 03:22 AM
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Never said it was
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/25 01:51 AM
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When she's in a relationship but she's acting like she's single
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/25 01:42 AM
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<image>
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 11:29 PM
1

I'm A LOT more worried about the economy overall.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 10:18 PM
1

What happened?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 09:54 PM
1

This is all my fault because I haven't taught my son to stand up for himself properly.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 07:00 PM
3

So he gets rewarded for beating the fuck out of womens faces for years, because women find him hot
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 02:02 PM
1

Neither
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 04:54 AM
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You don't wanna know
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 04:49 AM
2

They couldn't find a model without shitty tattoos for the mole one? Also, you're trying to market a product to women, and you call the color "mole?" The whole marketing department needs to be fired.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 04:23 AM
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I'm no math expert, but it seems a whole lot of people are assuming roles they don't want.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 03:57 AM
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Depends on where I am. Where I live, people don't really do that. I don't mind it when I'm in the south and people are chatty though.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 03:37 AM
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You've posted here all day every day for *years.* At least I come and go. You'd be lost without this subreddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 03:32 AM
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I suppose people finally moving on is ultimately a good thing. Sucks for dorks like myself who have nowhere else to go, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 03:31 AM
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Shit's pretty dead, huh?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 03:15 AM
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Sometimes I think I just experience varying degrees of sadness. If I've ever experienced happiness, it's been extremely fleeting.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 02:42 AM
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I think most people agree with this. What we can't agree on is what "equal" is.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 01:41 AM
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I've more or less given up on the romantic area of my life delivering me any happiness.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 01:00 AM
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Feeling a little down about the fact that all my hopes and dreams for the future more or less hinged on a good economy and it's being tanked on purpose.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 12:23 AM
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They're crying about no women being into them, even the scumbag women.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 09:06 PM
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Eh, even if I was divorced I'd still probably try to avoid dating other divorcees. After a certain age that's probably impossible though.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 09:04 PM
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Divorcees have are significantly more likely to get divorced again, so the idea that they're not relationship material tracks.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 08:52 PM
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Or anyone, based on the daily
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 06:15 PM
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Who said women can't be trusted?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 04:44 PM
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>Do you like me
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 04:21 PM
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I added another definition that doesn't include the gay stuff. I don't see why it just has to apply to alphabet people.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 04:18 PM
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A cutecel is someone who is cute looking, but cannot find a partner. Male cutecels sometimes had positive female attention in their teenage years, but women found them too feminine after around age 18. A cutecel tends to be near the bottom of male social hierarchies. Male cutecels are usually unintentionally androgynous, angry, and sad. Their hyper-feminine appearance is often a turn-off to women after their teenage years.[1] Some cutecels are also short, just shy, have autism, or body image iss…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 04:14 PM
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I should delete my account
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 04:05 PM
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It sure would be be nice to climb into bed next to a woman, put my arm around her, and have her respond by pushing her body into mine.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 06:37 AM
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Me too (I'm not sure what we're talking about now)
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 06:28 AM
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"accidentially"
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 06:14 AM
1

I guess not
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 06:10 AM
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This is what I get for trying to show solidarity with the poor
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 05:50 AM
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Idk, fishing for validation online seems to be working well for him.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 05:27 AM
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It means I have less money than I did 9 hours ago
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 05:17 AM
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How come none of you mfs told me Val Kilmer died?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 04:41 AM
1

I'll never be convinced anyone actually enjoys reading Dostoevsky
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 04:07 AM
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It's all so fucking bleak
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 03:54 AM
3

This applies the other way around, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 03:44 AM
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<image> I'm tired boss
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 02:54 AM
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What difference would that make?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 01:45 AM
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I think a lot of those random women who are suddenly into you when you get a gf would've been into you regardless. A guy being taken just gives them a reason to actively pursue you instead of being passive like they normally are. Preselection is part of it, but not all of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/25 11:12 PM
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This is shocking to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/25 09:28 PM
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You know they're gonna be licking the ketchup off their dirty fingers.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/25 08:27 PM
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Left is a slob. Probably has stains on their shirt, wipes their hands on their pants, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/25 08:17 PM
3

You're better than most non-binary people at being gender ambiguous.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/25 07:24 AM
2

Huh, what happened around 2015? MAGA is cancer.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/25 07:20 AM
2

Men have a higher beauty standard in relationships than women do
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/25 06:31 AM
1

You gotta learn to proofread your posts babe
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/25 06:29 AM
1

Midnight Run with Robert De Niro and Charles Grodin is better
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/25 05:39 AM
1

Wish you (an inanimate object) were here.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/25 04:43 AM
1

Calmly talking out an argument when things cool down instead of just taking the easy way out and moving on is actually great advice. I wish I'd done that more in the past.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/25 03:49 AM
2

Nope
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/25 03:44 AM
2

Carlo Rizzi ovah here
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/25 03:43 AM
2

I don't want to believe that.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/25 03:30 AM
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I'd rather she just admit she was wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/25 03:25 AM
1

A rare case of NIMBYs being consistent. Respect.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/25 03:19 AM
1

High income or low-medium income housing?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/25 03:12 AM
1

Not what I would've guessed, but I did assume that she's had some kind of bad experience, which is totally fair. The thought that I'm Chernobyl level radiating a bad vibe does enter my head, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/25 03:05 AM
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Clean hoodie, shorts, and running shoes (was the end of a jog). Hood up (to deflect the heavy wind), sunglasses on.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/25 02:56 AM
2

Imagine they're both white
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/25 02:45 AM
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Hypothetically a guy is walking down the sidewalk and a woman coming towards you going the other direction not only crosses the street, but actually goes further and stands 30 feet in the dirt waiting for you to pass. Does that say more about the guy, or her?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/25 02:40 AM
2

AI voiceover Nope
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/25 02:28 AM
2

Huh
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/25 02:12 AM
2

What they don't know won't hurt them
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/25 02:08 AM
2

I use Tide and I don't smell like chemicals
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/25 02:02 AM
2

You could always larp
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/25 01:54 AM
1

That's really
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/25 01:45 AM
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Not a woman, but I didn't know people actually did this on purpose. I always thought they were scars from getting hit in the face.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 07:34 PM
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He's always been hyper-sensitive about Tesla stock price. I can remember him pitifully whining on twitter about how people shorting the stock were "mean" a decade ago. His net worth is how he calculates the value of his life.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 07:16 PM
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It's looking like it's the best way to ensure they'll never be able to read or write
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 07:11 PM
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I'm not going to introduce him to this stuff if he's currently ignorant of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 06:05 PM
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Keep an eye on it to make sure anything really bad doesn't happen, but other than that, getting your heart broken is part of life.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 05:59 PM
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Pistachios I don't dislike the rest, but I'll never seek any of them out either.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 05:28 PM
2

Glad I saw this before I hit "place order" on the Tiffany website.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 04:44 PM
1

I thought that agency was deleted
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 04:32 PM
1

He should make capeshit instead
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 04:27 PM
2

April fools!
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 04:26 PM
1

Like, I literally just behave like a (kind of unhinged and bit insane) decent person and I literally get asked out and cold approached by women. It is awesome. You're getting cold approached and you think it has to do with your behavior? How do you figure they know enough about your behavior when they don't even know you?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 04:01 PM
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Yes, that's what I'm saying, snarky gifs notwithstanding.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 04:44 AM
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Try re-reading it until you figure it out I'll give you a hint: You seem very insecure about your N-count.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 04:33 AM
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Okay, my original reply to you stands
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 04:16 AM
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Your message seems to be that N count doesn't matter and men are stupid for caring? Am I wrong about that?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 04:02 AM
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Requires a lot of skill to pull off consistently. Otherwise you're gonna taken by a shark eventually, if not within those first few hours.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 04:00 AM
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Laborers get paid shit, especially for the wear and tear it puts on your body. There's a reason those jobs are mostly filled by convicted felons and illegal immigrants. To get hired as high end waiter or bartender definitely requires a skillset. With no skills you're gonna start out a busboy or a barback, again making shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 03:09 AM
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What men with no skills/education are making a lot of money?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 02:52 AM
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That's a possibility whether you've had a hoe phase or not. You can start to miss the good ol' days too. I think that's even more likely given women often refer to ending their "hoe phase" as being ready to stop having fun and settle down. A higher divorce rate is also correlated with higher N count.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 02:42 AM
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Given your flair and how clearly obsessed with this topic you are, it seems like you're trying to convince yourself more than you're trying to convince us. Maybe pair bonding isn't real, but there are A LOT of women getting into situationships that aren't casual on their end. These women who repeat the same behavior over and over again seem to become jaded by these experiences. As a jaded person myself, it's easy to see how that has a negative impact on future relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 02:37 AM
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Nope, I don't see how that information helps me. My default is to assume she's had sex with a hotter dude than me at some point anyways, and I just don't find that to be worth caring about. The only thing I really care about is if she's been an absolute whore, and that's gonna come to light eventually anyways.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 01:54 AM
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You questioned her friend's integrity, and she won't stand for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/25 08:44 PM
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What do you expect when you insult their close personal friend (who doesn't even know they exist) like that
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/25 08:28 PM
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I think it all comes back to a culture of selfishness. It's kind of over my head to try to explain it, but it makes total sense to me as an American.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/25 07:54 PM
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Even Americans know Americans suck. Is this even a uniquely American thing?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/25 07:19 PM
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You're never gonna win this argument brother. All men are guilty for how Chad treated them.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/25 06:15 AM
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Also stop projecting because men are more likely than women to overlook any and every other factor in favor of looks This really depends on your experience level I think. The whole reason I'm fucked is a woman's gotta have both, and I don't have the looks for that.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/25 05:56 AM
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Much like Christmas presents, you have to unwrap it to find out.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/25 05:47 AM
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I'm spiritually 49% Texan 51% California beach bum
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/25 04:24 AM
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https://i.redd.it/th5pe2vsayre1.gif You had your chance, and you blew it.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/25 04:14 AM
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Shit. I was hoping to impress strange women eating alone in restaurants.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/25 04:04 AM
2

Damn, it's even worse than I thought
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/25 03:54 AM
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I don't understand what's happening here
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/25 03:11 AM
2

Q4W: Snakeskin cowboy boots, yay or nay?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/25 03:00 AM
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How many likes your profile gets affects the algorithm i.e. what profiles it shows you
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/25 02:53 AM
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What's the experiment?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/25 02:49 AM
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I can see how it might not be bad advice, but I totally agree on not wanting to go out of your way.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/25 01:38 AM
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Damn I'm good
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/25 01:32 AM
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Prove it
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/25 01:28 AM
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Take it for what it's worth, but you give me major "leave me the fuck alone" vibes, so that might be part of your problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/25 01:24 AM
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I wouldn't think so. Out of curiosity, what are you hoping for?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/25 01:11 AM
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Based on your other comment, it sounds like she's not getting emotional validation from her bf. I would say something like "respectfully, we don't know each other that well and I think you'd be better off talking to someone else about this stuff."
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/25 01:07 AM
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I actually thought you were older, but now that you mention it...
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/25 12:19 AM
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If guys approach you often as it is, I could see it happening. If not then probably not. Also sitting at the bar (if there is one) or a table will make a huge difference I imagine.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/25 12:16 AM
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Is this whole thing a bit, or are you actually down this bad?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/25 12:08 AM
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Given your love for twinkish men, how old are you?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/25 12:06 AM
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I wouldn't be talking one on one enough to my friend's gf for this to be a possibility.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/25 12:04 AM
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Clearly I'm missing something since two people are bringing this up. Is there another thread where a guy is asking that?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/25 11:38 PM
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I've never heard a man express that, much like I've never heard a woman express what OP is expressing before. There are men who don't understand why their wives are always mad at them, and that's often because their wives settled and were never attracted to them to begin with. When someone is fundamentally unhappy with you, they look for things to get mad at you for to justify their unhappiness.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/25 11:36 PM
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Does being mad at someone often put you in an affectionate and gift giving mood towards them?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/25 11:19 PM
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You can't build IRL social networks if people aren't socializing IRL, and that is unfortunately the reality we live in. There is some merit to what you're saying, it's just much harder to put it into practice than it's ever been.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/25 10:50 PM
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Breaking news
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/25 09:46 PM
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No. Only spontaneous scratching allowed.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/25 09:39 PM
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You couldn't be more full of shit, and you know it too.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/25 09:38 PM
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Are you saying you have no dealbreakers that are solely based on physical appearance? I have some preferences, but how the interaction goes, what he says, how he says it, gestures, posture, sound of the voice, how he smells weight a lot more. He has to have something physically that i like, for my husband for example, it's his very plushy skin. Why didn't you just say "yes, I have dealbreakers that are solely based on physical appearance" then? You were trying to avoid saying yes because then yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/25 09:31 PM
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Women have empathy towards other women. They have never had it for men, and most women don't even try to pretend they do.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/25 08:56 PM
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Are you the one who kept a spreadsheet and shit?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/25 07:59 PM
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Once or twice a week.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/25 07:55 PM
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Why do you think it's self sabotage? Seems to me she liked having a virtual relationship, she never wanted an actual real life relationship with this guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/25 07:17 PM
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This is one of those times where just because you can post something, it doesn't mean you should.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/25 07:00 PM
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That's what the doctors always tell me
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/25 06:12 PM
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I think your hypothetical is deeply flawed.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/25 06:00 PM
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You implied it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/25 05:19 PM
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I'm not bald. Maybe you're just larping? You often come off that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/25 05:06 PM
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Literally all the women here disagree. I wonder who we should listen to, baldie.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/25 05:00 PM
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See this is an example of women saying whatever they need to to win an argument. You said just the other day you have no dealbreakers. tsk tsk
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/25 04:57 PM
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Nah it just damages the drywall
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/25 04:59 AM
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I relate to some of what you've been through: You gotta realize your parents have their lives, and you've got yours, and at some point you've got to realize your life isn't about them. Fuck what they think. If they actually love you, they'll love you regardless. If they don't, fuck em.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/25 04:47 AM
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How deep?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/25 04:09 AM
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That's yet to be established
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/25 04:00 AM
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My bad, I misread your original comment. I thought you were talking about women making men earn it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/25 03:33 AM
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If they're making you try hard, they don't like you that much.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/25 03:19 AM
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I got some theory of mind for you: Women say shit like this because they want to seem complex and deep and special. Y'all really ain't.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/25 03:18 AM
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Duke's or Hellmann's?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/25 01:25 AM
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Something like 95% of day traders lose money. The 5% that don't probably have inside info. So is it worth it? You tell me.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/25 01:24 AM
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Seems like you're trying to convince yourself more than anything here.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/25 11:55 PM
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If I had to imagine that I doubt I would've ever dated at all lol
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/25 11:45 PM
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It's pretty standard for any office job
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/25 10:03 PM
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Interesting, thanks for taking the time to answer my questions.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/25 06:52 PM
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Any of the women in here who seem to have little or no experience romantically because they have impossibly high standards. I don't think any guy is ever going to measure up for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/25 06:06 PM
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Do you think most women would relate to you in this way? Do you think you make it apparent you feel that way when you encounter man like that in real life?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/25 06:04 PM
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Any guesses why? Just a feeling?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/25 05:46 PM
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I think I'm rare in that I'm flexible on children. I think I'd kill it (perhaps not the best choice of words) as a dad, but I'll probably won't feel regret if I never have children. I think it'll mean divorce for most people, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/25 05:42 PM
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Depends how you define bad. Given your stated preferences, I suspect your disgust for Chalamet comes from the fact that he looks more like prey than predator (in the good way, not the bad way). He's not a bad guy by any other metric as far as I know.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/25 05:33 PM
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Women's sense of attraction or disgust is crazy
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/25 05:05 PM
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Projection
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/25 04:36 PM
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Shotgun, birdshot, spackle, paint
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/25 04:32 PM
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Depends on why. I've had it happen twice. Once for a week, which ultimately wasn't a big deal. I just needed to relax and get my mind off it. Another time I thought I stopped wanting to have to sex with my gf because I thought I was worried about not being able to perform. What was actually happening was I simply didn't want to have sex with her anymore. I was done with the relationship because she treated me like shit. My body knew it was over long before I consciously did.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/25 04:30 PM
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Yes, I'm American. Nowadays, I think I should've joined the coast guard, which was not even a thought when I was younger. I think it'd be fun to be a rescue swimmer, or chase drug smugglers, or even fly helicopters if I got lucky. There seem to be a lot of fun jobs in that branch.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/25 04:13 PM
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Yeah you got me there. I concede the argument. Be honest though, you don't really to vomit when you look at a guy you're not attracted to, do you? I mean, there are plenty of women I'm 100% not attracted to, but none of them really make wretch on sight alone. They just do nothing for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/25 03:58 PM
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I'm of the opposite school of thought, I think we'd be better off as a society if we were harder on everyone instead of just men.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/25 03:47 PM
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Yes, I wish I hadn't let my family talk me out of it when I was younger.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/25 03:45 PM
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Even though you're not attracted to him, you know damn well Chalamet's not ugly.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/25 03:39 PM
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You're entitled to your opinion, but I've got no shortage of blame to throw around, so I'm gonna do it. Furthermore, I think if the genders were flipped, people would have no problem blaming the man. Women get sympathy, men get told they should've seen it coming and to be better.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/25 03:39 PM
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I appreciate that.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/25 03:28 PM
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These are preferences within a preference. Ugly is ugly, and no one prefers ugly.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/25 03:24 PM
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Of course it's not okay lol, I'm not defending Tate. I just think people who offer themselves up to a known predator, and expect the predator not to do what a predator does are equally to blame.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/25 03:20 PM
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I don't think you're different from any other woman really.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/25 03:16 PM
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Not sure why there are so many complaints about this. $50/month or whatever it is a small price to pay if it enables you to get what you want. That's only like 1.5 first dates.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/25 03:11 PM
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In that case I think I'd rather be invisible.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/25 03:04 PM
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I'd say it's about the same. Women are just willing to have a relationship with no physical attraction on their end while men will almost always be at least someone physically attracted to their partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/25 03:03 PM
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If I intentionally go to the worst part of Detroit flashing money around, and I get robbed (or worse), how is that anything but my fault?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/25 02:52 PM
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I think her saying she wants to be friends right off the bat was a bad sign and something you should avoid in the future. Unless there's some obvious reason based on your profile, why would she want to be friends when you don't even know each other? Why is she using a dating app to make friends?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/25 04:40 AM
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Yeah, I know. I've met women with similar voices (put on or not Idk), though.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/25 03:27 AM
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Q4M: How much does a woman's voice matter to you? Could you be with a woman with that Elizabeth Holmes type voice long term? I couldn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/25 03:13 AM
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I kinda wonder about the ghosts thing. Growing up I lived in a pretty old house, and one of our dogs would lose his shit at one particular closet if the door was left open. The ghost must've been scared of the dog though, because it never bothered the rest of us.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/25 03:10 AM
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Old neighbors had a mastiff mix. One of the scariest looking dogs I've ever seen, but he was extremely chill. Didn't bark at all either, which was great.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/25 02:41 AM
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My girl outweighs me by 20lbs Now paging Automatic-Meaning
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/25 02:30 AM
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They seem to have a strong sense of community. Also seem to tend to be doing better than average financially. I've never heard of a poor mormon.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/25 02:29 AM
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Why does Amazon necessarily need to exist?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/25 02:26 AM
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He's Chad or a high tier Chad-lite ain't he?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/25 02:24 AM
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Sorry, I meant "...even if the father's genes are going to be used?" Either way, you basically answered my original question here. I was thinking maybe you don't really want to go through pregnancy period if you can avoid it.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/25 02:16 AM
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I just used husband because that's typically when people start having kids. You can assume he told you early on if it helps. I will say, I'm not surprised you're attached to making sure your bf passes on his genes given how you've described him.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/25 02:12 AM
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In the type of future we're talking about, what's more valuable? Ownership of the land the AI datacenter exists on, the nuclear power plant that provides it the AI energy, and the uranium mine the nuclear fuel comes from, or paper with dead presidents faces printed on it?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/25 02:07 AM
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What's the point of you being pregnant even if the father's genes aren't going to be used?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/25 02:03 AM
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Why would he care if his wealth is no longer tied to selling the public a product?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/25 02:00 AM
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Not the answer I expected honestly. None of them women here seem to be particularly attached to their kid having their father's genes.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/25 01:57 AM
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Saying Amazon would crash suggests it would happen overnight. That's not what's going to happen. Bezos could start slowly divesting from Amazon and investing in AI/robots and the resources needed provide them with energy. By the time Amazon as it exists today is no longer needed and therefore worthless, it won't matter to him.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/25 01:52 AM
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If there are legitimate genetically heritable issues, then of course. This is what got me thinking about it. I'm wondering whether if it can be avoided, are you obligated not to risk passing a heritable disease on to your children? Let's say the disease is something like type 1 diabetes or asthma.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/25 01:44 AM
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Q4W who have/want kids: How offputting would be it be if your husband didn't want to pass on his genes and preferred to find a donor? Money's not an issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/25 12:58 AM
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I hope you're not really DMing them, but women are only ever alone by choice. Foreveralonewomen know there's a foreveralone sub full of dudes just like them. They don't want those guys. You know who they want.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/25 12:08 AM
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Sex still on? Is he Chad?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 11:59 PM
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No I tell everyone else we work with besides my coworker
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 11:52 PM
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Ghost ship only if an early 2000s nu metal soundtrack is included live the movie
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 11:50 PM
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It won't be an overnight thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 10:20 PM
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Why says they will need people to buy their products? Demand for consumer products only exists because people have wants and needs. AI/robots have no wants and only need energy to perform the functions the elites want and need. AI/robots will be able to produce their own energy. Theoretically anyways.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 08:15 PM
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If AI actually has the potential some people believe it does, the average person will become useless. If the elites let us continue to live once we've outlived our usefulness, it'll be in squalor. Better to not be born at all then be born with no opportunity.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 07:55 PM
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You could try an ice bath
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 07:47 PM
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Get hotter or accept one of the men in real life who already tries to date you.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 06:51 PM
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Sounds like your standards are just low enough where you'll date a man you're not physically attracted to then.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 06:48 PM
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Are you saying you have no dealbreakers that are solely based on physical appearance?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 06:01 PM
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I'm very glad I don't dream
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 05:33 PM
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Baldness and being short are two of the classic things people say can be overcome through confidence, and it's simply not true. Every woman finds those features unattractive. Even when women date those guys, they're settling hard and physical attraction is largely if not totally absent. I acknowledged them all, I just singled out veiny arms as an example. They're all not universally attractive or unattractive features. Side note: It's interesting to me how women on this sub seem to prefer more f…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 05:10 PM
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I don't see how that's even possible given people decide someone else is unattractive before they'll learn they're insecure.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 04:53 PM
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Didn't fall for it the first time. #Pureblood
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 07:37 AM
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Asking which you'd rather date is implied when I asked what's more unattractive. I'm not suggesting you want to date either, but not dating either was never on the menu for the sake of this hypothetical.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 07:35 AM
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You'll never convince me (I warned you not to try) you'd rather date an ugly secure guy over "normal everyday insecure" attractive guy. And no "neither" isn't an option in this scenario. Ugly is worse than insecure. Fact.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 07:09 AM
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Non answer
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 06:59 AM
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Those are not universally unattractive or universally attractive features. They're secondary or tertiary features at best. Even if a woman finds veiny arms unattractive, for example, most of the time she won't reject a man she otherwise likes because of it. Now you don't know how to proceed.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 06:56 AM
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Of course, you'd have to be dumb to think it could go anywhere else.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 06:24 AM
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plenty of guys who are not objectively or universally unattractive have insecurities and they are still able to get a gf or even hook ups. No shit? How is this contradictory to what I said? however, can you give me a list of traits that are universally considered unattractive? deformities? We both already know what these are, so no.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 06:16 AM
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Alright, let's do an experiment: Name three physical features you find unattractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 06:12 AM
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Q4W: What's more unattractive? Having physical traits women universally find unattractive, or being insecure? No need to answer, everyone who's not a gullible r-word already knows the answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 06:08 AM
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Very true. I was there, and I can confirm there were no women there. Plenty of friendly AC130s above tho (I was the one calling them in).
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 04:57 AM
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I thought you were a dude until I saw you identify yourself as a woman, and since then, I've recognized you as such. Of course, there are no women on the internet, but I take people on the internet as they say they are regardless. I'm benevolent that way. RIP Harambe
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 04:51 AM
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That's a shame
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 04:27 AM
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You ever seen True Romance?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 04:18 AM
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This makes me uncomfortable. Please delete.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 04:01 AM
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I disagree, but I acknowledge this as a worthy challenger
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 03:30 AM
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Rose only sucks because she's a million years old and still hung up on a guy she knew for 3 days a million years ago. Cal is objectively a scumbag abuser. Jack did nothing wrong and should've taken the door and let Rose freeze to death. Everybody sucks here.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 03:24 AM
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Don't care about symbolism, it's just dope. You have embarrassingly bad taste, respectfully.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 03:12 AM
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Pillowfists
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 03:03 AM
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Simp
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 03:02 AM
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Respectfully, the Maryland flag looks like it should come with a seizure warning.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 03:00 AM
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I am without shame
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 02:53 AM
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Is this AI? Either way, I love her hair and eyes.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 02:50 AM
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I'm kinda into flags. Not enough to post on r Vexillology or anything, but I'm definitely vexillology-curious. The Chicago flag is undoubtedly the greatest flag of all time.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 02:48 AM
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I'm sure they exist, but I find most people are just hiding behind them in an attempt to excuse their bad behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 02:06 AM
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Aaaaackshually, women always bear the brunt of war, you fucking bigot.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 12:36 AM
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I think we both know that's not the norm
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 12:19 AM
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Long story short, if I could experience it, I would have. I've wished I could a few times, but I can't. I think if it were common, you'd see close friends falling in love with each other a lot more often, which isn't the case. I think it's so rare it's not even worth discussing in a place like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 12:04 AM
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Did you meet him before he got fat?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 11:31 PM
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I wish someone was passionate about me enough to want to stab me.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 11:05 PM
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This would've been preventable with diet and exercise.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 11:01 PM
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I remember other kids not being able to read aloud very well at that age, but I don't remember other kids struggling to speak, no. From what I understand, there's plenty of data out there that says children of today are struggling massively compared to previous generations, so I'm not surprised. It's scary.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 10:47 PM
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She can propose and find out if the guy wants to marry her or not instead of complaining. Then she can do with that information as she pleases.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 10:41 PM
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Is what these guys are doing even cheating? My understanding of those groups is that there's usually no defined relationship, women have just deluded themselves into thinking they're in one. Over and over and over. The infamous West Elm Caleb was never in a defined relationship with any of those women as far as I can tell, but women were furious nonetheless. Women have to know at this point the guys they want to date also have loads of women who also want to date them. The proof is literally sta…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 10:23 PM
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You can't say we have to follow traditions because they're followed by most of the world and then go "oh wait, not that one!" Well, you can, I guess, it's just hypocritical. In any case, I don't really care about you personally. There are plenty of women who do identify as feminists who do still want men to be traditional while not being traditional themselves, and those are the women I'm talking shit about. Maybe that applies to you, maybe it doesn't. It doesn't really matter to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 07:20 PM
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She looks like the missing link
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 06:47 PM
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My whole suspicion from my first reply was that you love tradition when it suits you, but eschew it when you don't. That was the whole point I was trying to make. My suspicions were confirmed when you said also believe in the parts of feminism you like, and eschew the parts you don't ("there are things I believe in and things I don’t."). I'm not trying to box you (women in general mainly) in as a feminist. I'm trying to box you in as a hypocrite, which you undoubtedly are.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 06:43 PM
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You sound like the classic feminist. You want all the benefits without any of the drawbacks. Nothing in life works like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 06:20 PM
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And then repeat the cycle, hence the need for those groups in the first place. When you repeat the same "mistake" over and over again, it's a conscious choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 06:17 PM
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I suppose you're anti-feminism as well since it's predicated on not wanting to conform to tradition followed by the vast majority of the world?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 05:49 PM
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I didn't mean for it to come off like I was arguing against just you. I was more arguing against everyone who makes that argument. And good for you, you're more conscientious in that regard than I am, certainly.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 05:20 PM
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That's a common refrain, and I don't buy it. There are ethical concerns with the phone in your hand too and probably half the shit in your house, but you don't care about those. Would you change your mind if he only looks at amateur porn that people have posted on their own free will?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 04:28 PM
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If that's all it takes, we're not gonna last anyways. I think women being insecure about porn is one of the dumbest things they do. I watch porn because my imagination is lacking (in all aspects of life, not just this one) and I just want to get jerk off and be done with it. The woman I'm with is not being compared to people on a screen, just like I'm hopefully not being compared to the guys in her "romance" novels, or worse, the guy in her office she's recently developed a crush on.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 04:21 PM
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"Are we dating the same man" facebook groups, for one. They obviously want monogamy, but their situation is begrudgingly acceptable because there aren't enough attractive men to go around.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 04:05 PM
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Sounds like he's depressed.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 03:55 PM
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Yeah, I tried to delete before you saw it. No need for me to pile on, I know you know who you are.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 07:20 AM
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Bet he has dreams about the bullet he dodged
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 07:08 AM
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I need to do some soul searching and commit to becoming meaner
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 06:55 AM
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They like the attention. If any of these women ever really want you to ask them out, they'll get so desperate that they'll let you know in such a way that even the most oblivious man couldn't miss it. You will either know for a fact they're gonna say yes before you ask, or on rare occasions, they'll ask you. You should never be hoping this'll happen, though, because it rarely does.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 06:50 AM
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Scored 67
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 06:28 AM
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Can't imagine any other reason to choose your partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 05:22 AM
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Idk, I don't really have standards I don't meet myself. They're clearly still to high though given the economics of dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 05:13 AM
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It's was kinda jarring to me how similar talking about bombing people seemed to other work group chats I've been in.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 05:08 AM
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I have well defined masculine features and a strong jaw. I have no idea what that'd look like on the female version of myself. Maybe I'd like it, maybe I wouldn't. If we just assume the female version has a normal BMI like I do and isn't hideous, I'd say he clears my bar 80% of the time. I'm not sure what your point is here other than bragging you can date a bunch of your male friends if you want to. Congrats?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 04:59 AM
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“0715pt: Rise" “0735: ‘Trigger Based’ Walk to 7/11 (This is when I purchase my vaguely coffee flavored water, pending seeing another item that piques my interest)” “0800: Arrive back home and start browsing PPD (1st strike package)" “0803: Click reply (THIS IS WHEN THE FIRST BOMBS WILL DEFINITELY DROP)” “0805: Clicks on another thread (2nd Strike Package)” “MORE TO FOLLOW (per timeline)” “We are currently clean on OPSEC”—that is, operational security. “Godspeed to our Warriors.”
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 04:12 AM
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More like Handsome_Hank
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 03:51 AM
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I do not think I could ever get away with being gross, not that I'm inclined to or anything. Like I don't even want to be gross outside of my control, like sick, in front of a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 03:44 AM
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Liquid assets
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 03:35 AM
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At my first job, at orientation the HR woman presented herself like she was there to help the average employee with anything. I learned real quick that's just a tactic to get you to walk yourself into her office and basically snitch on yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 03:33 AM
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Women can put up with that shit for a hot guy apparently, but I cannot do the same for a hot woman. One time, okay, we're all human. The second time I'll look like the roadrunner sprinting for the door.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 03:29 AM
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I just get the idea this is mostly happening for the first time when these women are younger. Most people will never regularly interact with more other single people than when they're in their late teens or early 20s. Whether they're going to college, working some crappy job with a lot of other people their age and partying on the side, or all of the above. It would seem to me that there'd never be a more opportune time to have your pick of the litter, assuming everyone wants different things. M…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 03:22 AM
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myself and a lot of women here have said we gave guys chances that we weren't that into and got mistreated. If everyone finds different things attractive, like you said above, there should be no shortage of attractive guys around for each woman. Why is giving an unattractive guy a chance an idea that ever even enters a woman's head?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 01:55 AM
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I'd expect nothing less from an elegant woman such as yourself
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 10:59 PM
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Thank you for showing me the way queen
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 10:51 PM
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You guys don't floss and it shows
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 10:47 PM
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Western Standards: Masculine features, a defined jawline, and facial symmetry are highly valued—your look fits well into this category. A clean-shaven or sharply groomed beard could further refine it. (8-9/10, depending on personal style preferences). European/Modeling Standards: A more chiseled or angular look with leaner features is often preferred in high fashion. You have strong facial structure, but a more "effortless" or styled approach might push you further into this category. (7-8/10, d…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 10:27 PM
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There was a fork in the road for me at one point romantically and I am very curious how it would've worked out if I'd gone the other way. Other than that, just looking at random scenarios feels like a tease.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 10:06 PM
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"I appreciate your confidence in asking for honest feedback! However, I can't analyze or rate people’s appearances."
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 10:03 PM
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Makes you sign up for that. Too much work.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 09:20 PM
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I don't think so. It seems like I've met more bitchy small women, but most women are small to me, so Idk.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 05:43 PM
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1lb a week for $1k a month is crazy.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 05:32 PM
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Would
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 05:29 PM
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Someone posted an AI attractiveness test in here the other day, and it rated me between 7-8 depending on the pic lol. Further proof AI is a scam. What did it rate you?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 05:25 PM
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He will once he starts
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 05:17 PM
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Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 05:09 PM
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Dead internet theory
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 04:37 PM
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Weird, I assumed you were tall
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 04:33 PM
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Depends how literal you're being about it. If the female version of myself has even roughly the same thoughts, opinions, likes/dislikes, and life experience, that'd be pretty dull for me, wouldn't it? I want someone who is similar enough to be compatible, but different enough to be interesting. Not gonna answer a probable gotcha question any deeper than that.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 06:39 AM
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I don't consider faking interests or aspects of your personality to be as sinister as lying. If you've ever been in a relationship, you've probably done something you didn't want to do to make them happy. Doing something beforehand for the same purposes is no different. You just have to be willing to maintain the charade for their sake at your expense. It's the same as maintaining your physique by skipping that bowl of ice cream you wanted, or doing your half of the household chores even though …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 06:02 AM
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"I was very tired, but it's for my family, so it's worth it." King
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 02:36 AM
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Unless they're clearly just feeling sorry for themselves and fishing for compliments, I'll never understand why people are bothered when others describe themselves in negative terms. They'd know where they stand better you would.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 02:12 AM
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Who says it ever will be? Plenty of old people are still banging each other. I also think after years together a deeper love will develop where it may not necessarily. Regardless of what happens down the road, I want it to be present to start with. I forgot to ask before, did your previous partners know you weren't attracted to them?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 02:03 AM
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You're welcome
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 01:54 AM
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While I think it is ideal to find someone who matches you almost perfectly, I don't think your relationship is doomed or even can't be fulfilling if you don't. You just have to decide what's most important to you. I think at one point in my life I could've and would've been willing to make more sacrifices and still have maintained a successful and happy relationship. I'm just no longer willing to do so to my own detriment.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 01:48 AM
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I 100% disagree. Most of the advice I've gotten from women to improve my chances would involve trying to change who I am and doing things I otherwise have no interest in doing to meet women and/or (allegedly) become more attractive. What he said above is just another version of "there's someone out there for everyone." Nope. Absolutely not.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 12:53 AM
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I suddenly understand why there are so many guys out there who just want sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 12:48 AM
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I don't agree at all, but thanks for the answer I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 12:47 AM
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If you weren't attracted to them, what were your reasons for wanting a romantic relationship them in the first place? Not trying to be confrontational.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 12:40 AM
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He is my everything. I'm in love, more than I ever have been. This is what you want to hear as a guy. If they don't feel that way about you, you don't have to stay with them. The worry is women feel there aren't enough attractive guys to go around, so a lot end up feeling stuck with something suboptimal.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 11:59 PM
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We're assholes when we just sex and we're assholes if we want a relationship. Can't win!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 11:42 PM
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Does that mean not being repulsed is the bar to clear for you? You'd date a guy you're lukewarm on?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 11:40 PM
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I'm not saying it guarantees you success on it's own in a vacuum, or that every tall man is automatically successful. I'm saying it can make up for a list of other negatives. In real life women are slightly more forgiving in real life, but being taller than other men makes you stand out rather than blend in. Standing out vs blending in can be all the difference, including in real life.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 06:26 PM
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I assure you I have been advised to broaden my horizons to overweight women, despite the fact that I am not myself overweight.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 05:36 PM
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You seem unfamiliar with how the algorithm works on apps. I've used an app before with a blank profile before just to check it out. Obviously, a blank profile isn't going to get many likes. Very quickly, the only profiles that account was presented as options to swipe on were other clearly unpopular profiles. The guys you're talking about are not even being shown the 10,000 women you're talking about except for maybe the first 24 hours while the algo attempts to determine your league.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 05:36 PM
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You can't have it both ways. You can't say if men were willing to date women on their level there'd be no single people while also saying most women are out of most men's league.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 04:27 PM
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Whaaat? You can't honestly believe that. The most common advice for men who are struggling is that they need to lower their standards. You literally said it right here: If men lowered their standards they wouldn't be single.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 04:24 PM
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Very attractive women have the most options to choose from, correct? If out of all their options they're choosing men as described above, doesn't that mean those men are the most attractive to women?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 04:14 PM
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She must be French
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 03:14 PM
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Let me put to you like this: If a guy is unexceptional in every way, or even has multiple qualities that are working against him, and he's average or below height, are you surprised he has no success with women? Now if that same type of guy is tall, are you surprised if he does have success?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 03:09 PM
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Yeeaaahh, I've been that guy. Definitely only need to learn the lesson once. If she tries to keep you from the boys, you should choose the boys.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 05:50 AM
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Men bail on the friend group when they get a gf too. Don't make friends with women that you secretly want to fuck, don't do stuff for them that you wouldn't do for a guy friend, and it'll be like any other friendship. Women suck on a romantic level if you're not Chad, but they're actually usually above average friends as long you don't let yourself get used.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 05:45 AM
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Wanting a relationship/marriage that isn't a dead bedroom is a fantasy? You can just say "nothing." I'd respect you more if you did, honestly.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 05:31 AM
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I've been told (by women!) my expectations aren't high, and still...
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 05:25 AM
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In that case, what do you think average men should be expecting from women nowadays?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 05:09 AM
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What new expectations do women have a harder time meeting?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 05:03 AM
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You had to know that thread is radioactive, even for PPD
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 04:10 AM
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Think about the times you've embarrassed yourself because you fat fingered something on your phone sober, and then remember the SecDef is a drunk. It's a disease, cut the guy some slack!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 03:40 AM
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I don't think it's improbable at all actually. I've known too many guys who'd have no success if they were 5'8''.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 03:36 AM
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Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 03:14 AM
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For a lot of them, on an individual level, their prospects would improve in all likelihood.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 03:12 AM
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He's been doing this so long she can't remember when it started, and it's just now starting to affect her attraction towards him? Told you guys looks are the only thing that matters.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/25 11:00 PM
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Start my own Tiktok and farm that sweet social media money
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/25 10:01 PM
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What if she forgets Sharon's extra shot of espresso, and as a result she plows into a family of four on the way home because she fell asleep at the wheel?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/25 09:50 PM
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Not even shoes and a shirt if I can avoid it
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/25 09:00 PM
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I'm very disappointed in you.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/25 06:45 PM
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If that's your goal, the advice women give to guys on how to meet women is what you should follow. You'll have a much higher success rate than cold approaching.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/25 06:44 PM
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Would you prefer they keep you around as an orbiter, chore boy, or permanent backup?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/25 06:35 PM
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"I look like a basic white girl, and I am," Stewart said, adding, "I think it's hilarious. One of them was like, ‘We know she has a monogram rain jacket’ — which I do." An officer pulled Stewart over for going 79 mph in a 55 mph zone, according to the report. Stewart was issued a citation, and approximately two minutes later, she was pulled over again in her 2021 Volvo XC40, going at an even faster rate of speed, clocking in at 84 mph in the 55 mph zone. Hot, self-aware, and a flagrant rule brea…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/25 06:17 PM
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It doesn't seem like there are any industries where being entry level doesn't suck. It seems to me it's just a matter of how long it's gonna suck and what the eventual upside is. There's just no way around the fact that experience is infinitely more valuable than any education.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/25 05:52 PM
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Look at industries where there is a shortage of available labor and pursue the one you think you can tolerate most, whether that be via college or vocational training. Or join the military (kind of US specific advice). It ain't rocket science. People get ripped off by secondary education because they "chase their dreams" and then figure out why dreams are dreams.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/25 05:40 PM
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that smile Did Bugs do 9/11?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/25 05:11 PM
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Easier said than done obviously, but worrying serves no purpose.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/25 04:58 PM
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Yeah that'll happen when you've been around the block a few times.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/25 04:50 PM
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In the areas gentrification usually occurs, the inhabitants are usually renters. When wealthier people move in, it drives the cost of rent in the area upward, pushing the original inhabitants out of their homes.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/25 04:47 PM
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I was willing to hear him out until he assassinated his own credibility 90 seconds in. Then I made fun of him. This was a significantly better use of my time than watching that video.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/25 04:41 PM
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"I've long been an advocate of being sensitive and open about the struggles of women white knight for women." The male feminist has nothing useful to say to me. I'm sure the video goes to heavily criticize men, something he'd never do to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/25 04:30 PM
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Are you having a problem with men thinking you're not interested in dating on a dating app?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/25 04:03 PM
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Part of a coordinated media campaign to encourage degeneracy https://i.imgur.com/ErfHzIf.jpeg
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/25 03:50 PM
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Women especially. How often do we hear women say they want to be chosen and feel special? If a man did this to a woman he'd be dead to her immediately 99% of the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/25 06:59 AM
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Seems like he was actually her last choice given the "dead end" wording. That reads to me like she literally exhausted every other possible avenue at the moment before she circled back to this guy. Regardless, second choice or last choice, there's knowing deep down you probably (almost definitely) weren't someone's first choice, and then there's having it spelled out in plain english. I'd rather just start fresh with someone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/25 06:15 AM
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The bar for women to clear to be successful in that regard is a lot lower than it is for men. If you screw it up most guys'll probably find it cute, if a guy screws it up it's an ick and a next.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/25 01:30 AM
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Flirt? Not really. Beg me on multiple occasions to let him suck my dick? Yup.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/25 01:25 AM
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But we established they're gonna be drooling over somebody else at some point regardless, did we not? What's the difference?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/25 01:20 AM
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No, but I understand that's gonna happen at some point and I can't do anything about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/25 12:58 AM
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Charisma is pretty much as immutable as your face or your height. I think exceptionally good looking people are a dime a dozen compared to exceptionally charismatic people.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/25 12:51 AM
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What kind of moron has read receipts on?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/25 09:45 PM
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That's one of them. See, not mythical.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/25 09:43 PM
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Fair enough. I think you're being humble when it comes to your face, because otherwise it just doesn't add up. White guys with okay faces a head taller than you with full heads of hair don't even get that kind of play on apps.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/25 09:12 PM
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Ironically, women owe a lot of their recent success to being more avid rule followers than men.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/25 09:03 PM
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Watching this took years off my life
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/25 08:58 PM
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Good people aren't good for the sake of being rewarded
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/25 08:46 PM
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I've had women display pretty non ambiguous signs of attraction. Care to elaborate on this? With just the info you provided it sounds this is entirely based on how you interpreted a situation rather than proof of anything. Also, do you live in the west, or somewhere else?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/25 08:20 PM
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I'm not suggesting they believe they're adonises, but I would bet most assume their wives are attracted to them. I suppose if part of your circle is trophy wives married to rich men, then I'm sure they know. I don't know any average middle class guy who knows his wife/gf isn't attracted to him. Outside of our little circle of hell here, most men truly believe what many women say: Factors beyond their looks made their wife/gf develop or increase a sense of physical attraction to them. We've had m…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/25 08:01 PM
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I wonder if how their husbands would feel if they knew the truth..
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/25 07:37 PM
2

Evidently self love is all about hating someone else
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/25 06:58 PM
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You can keep this to yourself next time man
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/25 06:40 PM
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Looks and status will get you through a concrete wall Kool-Aid man style. Compatibility of personality is only kind of a predictor of how long the relationship will last. In a lot of cases women will just adopt whatever personality the guy has.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/25 06:05 PM
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The alleged blonde on the right is what women consider very attractive when it comes to women btw.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/25 05:24 PM
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The basic content of your post is accurate of course, but I don't believe you got 7 groups of strange women to talk to you in a bar, let alone get their thoughts on the men in the bar through the course of a natural conversation.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/25 05:21 PM
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Eh, NYC is comparable on paper with regard to walkability and forced daily interaction with strangers, and it has a pretty horrible reputation as far as dating goes. I think part of it is we're very obsessed with status. It's not just about being attracted to your partner, but how much the partner you can get will impress your peers.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/25 04:51 PM
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Yeah my bad, I meant to mention that I'm in America and that your mileage may vary for that reason. Something like 70% of people (it's pretty equal between the genders) are fat here. From what I've seen of Norwegians, the overwhelming majority of the population would rate above average in the US.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/25 04:12 PM
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When I was on OLD I got a pretty good mix of people in my "feed". I was periodically checking it for a few months, and I felt like it represented the people I see out and about pretty well (I wss swiping on men and women). Lets ignore more subjective aspects of beauty and just consider fitness, as most people prefer fitter bodies. In my experience couples tend to be pretty well matched in fitness, or the woman is fitter than the man, often by a lot. Idk if there's much point to having this conve…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/25 03:50 PM
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Physical threats shouldnt be held up to reputational, or legal threats. Yeah, but we cant actually expect these to hold the same weight. I initially thought this, but I think they're about equal. Both can absolutely ruin your life, just in different ways. I'd unironically rather be dead than have everyone who ever googles me assume I'm a rapist because of an accusation.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/25 03:13 PM
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If most people are casual OLD users i.e. not swiping thousands of times, how are average women getting past the algorithm to these so-called average men? Also a woman saying her female friends are with looksmatched males is laughable. Women overrate women and underrated men as a rule. For all the things the infamous OKCupid study may or may not prove, it does prove that.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/25 03:01 PM
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Match group's stock is down 82% from its all time high four years ago. If the apps are designed to foster failure in men, rather than women's preferences being the cause of that failure, why hasn't Match changed their business strategy in the last four years? Surely you're not saying they're tanking their business on purpose?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/25 02:37 PM
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Most people being casual users actually proves his point too. A casual female user of a dating app will only ever be shown the most popular male profiles according to female users. That's how the algorithm works. Women are all selecting the same guys and most men's profiles are almost never even seen.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/25 02:30 PM
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People feeling entitled to plead their case is exactly why people are so upset by ghosting. They think they just got the chance, they could change your mind. Otherwise, rejection is pretty much just rejection no matter how it's delivered.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/25 02:01 PM
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This is just women being completely incapable of introspection and defaulting to something irrelevant.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/25 05:04 AM
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How many bananas are you eating per day?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/25 04:40 AM
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What am I, a whore? How about a high five? ✋
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/25 04:20 AM
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The rest of it's meh for me (no offense), but I'll appreciate a fresh pair of white AF1s till I die.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/25 04:08 AM
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And you see how far England has fallen. Once arguably the greatest empire the world has ever known reduced to barely even being able to keep the Scots in line. Also, yes. That's exactly what it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/25 03:49 AM
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Have you looked at Japan's birth rate lately? Is that what you want?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/25 03:37 AM
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Standard son at this point A sad state of affairs indeed
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/25 03:30 AM
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Pop/top 40 type stuff usually. Works for me because I just listen to music, it's not really an interest.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/25 03:07 AM
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Did they ever let you play with the siren on the truck?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/25 02:06 AM
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She'd reject most men so how is that relevant?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/25 01:46 AM
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I don't see any pictures of him other than the ones where he's sticking his fingers in his beer. That suggests to me he's 29 but still tries to hit up frat parties on the weekend.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/25 01:40 AM
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Why would you accept an ick or a red flag or incompatibility after a certain point? It makes no sense to be so cut throat to start and then just stop. If we take the example OP used, if someone is being disrespectful to your face, they simply don't respect you, full stop. Even if you try to talk that out, at best they'll manage to hide their underlying contempt for you for a while. Eventually that disrespect is going to surface again in a way that results in you being hurt worse than you would h…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/25 01:31 AM
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You don't have to compromise with someone you're compatible with.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/25 12:47 AM
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That's pretty lame
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/25 12:43 AM
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There are many many people who extremely unhappy with qualified immunity for police. I don't think that's a solution at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/25 12:41 AM
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I've been told time and time again that women's lives have never been better because they have access to more options than ever before, so no, I actually think it's how emotionally healthy people think.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/25 12:38 AM
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Less and less it seems to me. Everything's a red flag or an ick or whatever the term du jour is now.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/25 12:33 AM
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It's a shame the study didn't also show them nude videos of men for the sake of comparison. I bet the arousal rate would be drastically lower. My support for this hypothesis that most women say they don't find pornography or nude content featuring men appealing, and because most women readily admit they find most men unattractive. This is why I suggested they lean more towards being gay rather leaning more towards bisexuality.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/25 12:02 AM
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This should actually make men who get little or no attention from women feel better about themselves. If most women actually just lean towards being gay, there's really nothing wrong with you except for the fact that you're not a woman. Nothing you can do about that short of transitioning, if even that.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/25 11:44 PM
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What's the incentive to do so? If you have the option, why wouldn't you fire up an app and have dozens to hundreds of new and potentially better options within days?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/25 11:24 PM
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I accept your concession
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/25 11:02 PM
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Couples aren’t getting married because there’s no point when you’re already living together and monogamous Bullshit. Being forever-girlfriend-zoned is quite literally one of the most common fears I still hear from women. Women are not tolerating that kind of lack of commitment on a significant scale. More people are opting to stay single because a relationship/dating/fwb isn’t worth the effort it requires. More women are opting out because there aren't enough Chads to go around. It's really that…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/25 10:49 PM
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It goes to show how much has changed over the years, probably due to women having access to more men via proliferation of OLD. When I was working retail 10-15 years ago, the overwhelming majority of women were dating a coworker.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/25 10:43 PM
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You explicitly stated you believe are men who are less attractive than you, which is the same as saying there men beneath your league. The only mental gymnastics being performed here are by you.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/25 10:31 PM
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How do you explain the ever declining marriage rate?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/25 10:26 PM
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So your basis for this claim about how women view men is…one anecdote of a lesbian relationship? Hilarious, isn't it? Lesbian dating dynamics have little in common with hetero dating dynamics simply because even straight women will tell you they think most women are more attractive than most men. Women rate most women as above average and rate most men as below average.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/25 10:21 PM
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And women use that freedom to... drum roll chase Chad
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/25 10:14 PM
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With narrow carve outs in the law like that, you're putting doctors in the position of having to risk their career and freedom every time they perform an abortion based on the whims of a potentially pro life extremist judge. Not to mention the legal costs associated therein. It's either that, or you give doctors so much power that the abortion law is toothless to start with.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/25 10:04 PM
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If she can't handle me as a felon, she doesn't deserve me with a clean record
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/25 09:42 PM
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Lmao, I'm fucking dying. You literally just said you do feel superior to some men when you acknowledged there are men you believe to be less attractive than you. Looks like it's a female activity too!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/25 09:13 PM
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Were you born yesterday?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/25 08:41 PM
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I guarantee you have that same feeling of "superiority."
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/25 08:39 PM
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That's a non sequitur, but sure. I expect I won't see you around here much longer since the things discussed here don't seem to be of much interest to you. Good luck and God bless!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/25 08:22 PM
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The only thing that evokes that sort of desperation from women is a man out of her league. Average guys are a dime a dozen, hot men are rare. Scarcity motivates people to act desperately. Econ 101. If it makes you feel any better, men behave the same way in response to scarcity in the dating market. The only difference for them is, attention from any women is relatively scarce so they kind of act that way with all of them. I've experienced it first hand. Women beneath my league have continued to…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/25 08:11 PM
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You're choosing it right now by dwelling on this person and continuing to pedestalize them.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/25 07:21 PM
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Why would you do this to yourself?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/25 07:03 PM
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I'm just gonna come right out and admit that I was intentionally interpreting it in the most sinister way possible. I was wrong for that. I think we should just ignore each other going forward. Sound good?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/25 06:53 PM
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What about that is hateful? It's an observation.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/25 06:44 PM
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I'm talking about a few weeks ago when we got into an argument. It was in a thread that was a couple days old at the time, so it's unlikely it was someone else. You said women need to be more careful about who they "mix genes with." We both know bringing up genetics was bait, and I decided I didn't want to engage with yours once I realized who I was speaking with, which is why I deleted my comments.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/25 06:38 PM
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Again, the man who said he doesn't feel love for women that I am referencing is not me.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/25 06:30 PM
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I deleted it because I realized who I replied to and I know you like to report people the middle of an argument you're losing.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/25 06:25 PM
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Where did I state my opinion of women? I'm not OP.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/25 06:09 PM
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It's all male power fantasy (of which I am not above)
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/25 05:57 PM
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Again, by the dictionary definitions you are correct. In the real world it's a different story. I have been described as both confident and arrogant by different people, and it's entirely dependent on whether they already had a positive opinion of me or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/25 05:34 PM
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While those are more or less the definitions of those words in the dictionary, that's often not how they're used in practice. People often describe people as arrogant when they believe someone's confidence to be unearned or unwarranted, regardless of their actual competence. It's heavily dependent on whether people like you or not, and looks have a lot to do with whether people like you.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/25 05:28 PM
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How am I claiming victimhood?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/25 05:10 PM
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Dudes just can't help themselves. You see it even with guys in here who claim to and should know better.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/25 04:58 PM
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If you reverse image search you will find there are white knights that came to reassure and validate her.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/25 04:41 PM
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The ability of women to make themselves the victim in every scenario never ceases to amaze
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/25 04:29 PM
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The only difference between being perceived as confident or arrogant is how you look.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/25 03:54 PM
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This is a great idea if you want a desperate woman to start stalking you.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/25 06:45 AM
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Shouldn't credit be awarded based on whether it works or not? It's gonna work a hell of a lot more often for women than it would for men. That's just the way it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/25 06:18 AM
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Women already do ask out the guys they like, or do everything short of it. Men who have to chase are only wanted by women if they're willing to accept a situation where they put in the majority of the effort for little in return. The whole point of chasing is about proving you're willing to debase yourself for her attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/25 06:00 AM
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Is that not what you meant? You brought up genetics.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/25 05:39 AM
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Good news for you, we're gonna reach the point where only the top men get to breed anyways.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/25 05:35 AM
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When you stoop down to level of someone who's being nasty, you were always on their level. You can't claim any moral high ground. "He/she started it" didn't fly as a valid excuse on the playground and it doesn't fly now either. I just find it funny what with all the vicious shit people say to each other here, a man saying he simply doesn't want to love women is what you and at least one other woman chose to get your back up about. I have literally never seen a woman react negatively to the litan…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/25 04:23 AM
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So let me get this straight, when women spew vitriol we should empathize with them and realize it's coming from a place of valid and genuine grievances. When men are hateful, it's because they're out of touch and bitter i.e. their feeling are invalid and stupid. When a man simply says he does not feel love for women, you're "heartbroken." No one's falling for your crocodile tears, lady. Just another uninspired "women good 😊😊😊, men bad 😡😡😡" argument. A lot of men here are out of touch bitter men …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/25 11:50 PM
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What does it matter that they're in relationships? They always qualify it by saying their SO is the exception to the rule. It's like someone saying they're not racist because they have a token friend who's a different race. Many say they would never date again if things fell apart with their current SO because men are so shit. I'm also done responding to you because it's clear you have no intention to argue in good faith.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/25 10:42 PM
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I'm guessing you're conventionally good looking? I imagine it is fun when you have lots of options to choose from it's not such a long grind. If the apps are a desert for you, and you're forced to do activities to meet women that you wouldn't otherwise do on your own, it's pretty much like having another job that loses you money.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/25 10:34 PM
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Having no merit at all and only having merit you don't value is essentially the same thing. Women here proudly proclaim men have no merit, and they're all guilty of the sins of the men who mistreated them. I don't see you or any woman on here clutching your pearls over that.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/25 10:11 PM
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This subreddit is a sea of women outright calling men worthless and/or evil every single day, but one man says he doesn't feel love for women and it breaks your heart. Forgive my lack of sympathy.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/25 09:59 PM
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Women check out of dating because they think men suck? You go girl! Man even ponders checking out of dating for unspecified reasons while acknowledging he's incapable of actually doing so? HOW DARE YOU!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/25 09:22 PM
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He's been looking for a clean break ever since she stopped blowing him once they got married.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/25 07:00 AM
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I think very funny and very stupid ideas qualifies me to President of the United States these days, so I'll take it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/25 06:55 AM
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Getting married eventually isn't that hard, even in a time when marriage rates are declining. Statistics still back that statement. Nice guys seem to be mostly complaining a lack romantic interest. At some point most of those guys will be "rewarded" with a shitty one-sided relationship. The relationship I'm describing is where the phrase "happy wife, happy life" originated from.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/25 06:48 AM
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Right, but I'm sure it applies to any area. I'm not giving advice, I'm just saying it might be an option
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/25 06:32 AM
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Who said ending up with a wife was anything to write home about in and of itself?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/25 06:30 AM
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Oh I fully understand the fantasy, I just don't believe in it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/25 06:07 AM
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Movie studios are definitely targeting the right demographic (35-45 year old single women) with romance movies right now.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/25 06:05 AM
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Thanks for acknowledging you agree with me. That's rare here.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/25 05:44 AM
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Really? I remember botox being an option when I was trying to stop sweating too much. Thankfully Certain Dri permanently clogged my pits.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/25 05:39 AM
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When were they ever about following one's heart? For most of human history they were about survival, now they're about tingles.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/25 05:32 AM
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Botox is probably your only option then. I have no experience with that though.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/25 05:30 AM
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Doesn't matter really. Men don't really care if a woman is stylish and women won't like a man because he's stylish.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/25 05:29 AM
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What a stupid quote
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/25 05:23 AM
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Rx strength anti perspirant is your friend
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/25 05:17 AM
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I never said it was, but what's the superior alternative in your opinion?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/25 05:12 AM
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He has not be "something else." Being nice doesn't matter, and is at best a neutral personality trait, but is usually unattractive. Who almost always has the hotter gf/wife? The hot ruthless guy or the hot nice guy?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/25 05:09 AM
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I'm just saying no woman likes a man because he's nice. You extrapolated the rest of that shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/25 05:04 AM
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Most couples throughout human history haven't liked each other all that much.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/25 04:56 AM
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Maybe it's not true for you, but r dating and similar forums are full of women asking for advice on how to get guys out of their league who've put them on the furthest back burner to fall in love with them. Dating down seems like a good option for average men.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/25 04:52 AM
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Why would a woman give a man she doesn't find hot the time of day in the first place? I've been assured this doesn't happen?!?!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/25 04:43 AM
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That's the whole point. Most men have fewer options than his equivalent woman, so his best bet for a long term relationship is a woman who likes him more than he likes her. If she likes him more than he likes her, she's less likely to discard him for the slightest indiscretion.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/25 04:40 AM
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She used an unattractive physical trait to justify her distaste for the unattractive personality trait. A beard that doesn't connect isn't a real dealbreaker.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/25 04:32 AM
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I think they do generally hate the ugly ones, they just don't need to talk about that because it's expected. If they like the successful and/or hot ones they generally try to hide it. Looks and status trump all at the end of the day.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/25 04:28 AM
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They have the same hate for the unsuccessful ugly ones. Really it's just about not being ugly.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/25 04:24 AM
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Genuinely nice men are always pushovers to a fault which is unattractive. There are definitely fake nice guys like the ones she's deriding in this video, but women can't help but virtue signal, so she has to paint all nice men as fake. They're not all bad, they're just unattractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/25 04:14 AM
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I don't really know any truly wealthy guys, but upper middle class white guys are consistently the biggest boob guys I know.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/25 03:04 AM
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It does make a difference because it's about the status of the guy being the magical 6ft+ and therefore also taller than most other men. Women don't care about the logic of it, they only care about how it makes them feel.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/25 12:28 AM
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By competence, do you actually mean mastery?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 07:16 AM
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"Sidewalk rule" Nah. If you're out with someone you should operate as a team to avoid danger, what are we even doing there if there's a risk to us? I suppose the evergreen risk there is a car veering off the road onto the sidewalk and the person furthest from the road is marginally safer in that scenario. Or if I need to defend her from something I can push her to a wall and act as a shield. I'm certain I've never thought about it consciously until right now, but I do reckon I've usually been on…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/25 06:02 AM
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So is women's "locker room talk" them expressing how they really feel or not? Because I never thought for a second women ever bought the "it's just locker room talk" excuse from men.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/25 07:20 AM
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women's standards, their looks, lack of income How are these not entirely valid things to blame?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/25 07:06 AM
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It’s easy to just decide it’s because of your height, or penis size, or whatever insecurity, blame women for not liking you, and become bitter and angry, and then come and lash out at the women who are trying to actually be helpful and have a conversation about it. What would you prefer men blame their lack of success on? Don't say personality, because I'm sure you wouldn't deny that personality alone does not generate romantic interest. Looks sure as shit can't though.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/25 06:45 AM
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It wouldn't sell so well if these weren't sentiments shared by the average woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/25 06:16 AM
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Why not?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 06:53 AM
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They are if they're hot. What is it women always say? "The bar is in hell for (hot) men?"
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/25 07:12 AM
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There aren't many when you have a position that's impossible to defend, so I understand why you responded the way you did. We're both just arguing based on anecdotes. Being a woman doesn't make you the authority on the subject.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/25 06:58 AM
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"I can't refute anything you say, so here are some feminist buzzwords and allusions to you being a child. Take that, moid."
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/25 06:12 AM
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Yes, I know, this is PPD and all women are infallible KWEEEENS who would never embarrass themselves like that. Obviously I'm just making shit up.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/25 05:59 AM
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A man being sexually attractive may make it more likely to live with him not carrying his load, but it doesn't make it more likely for us to partner with him in the first place - especially when we could just fuck him casually and not have to wash his laundry or deal with his beard trimmings in the sink. You've got this one backwards based on what I hear from women. Women seem utterly desperate get into relationships with hot guys, all else be damned. I can't tell you how many women I've heard t…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/25 05:48 AM
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[Citation needed]
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/25 05:03 AM
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they stop "feeling sexy" and men settle in and stop making them feel sexy. Probably because they learned long ago that trying to make a woman who feels unsexy is a fool's errand. That's what makes dating someone with low self-esteem so brutal and draining.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/25 04:37 AM
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