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The lies you tell yourself, help you cope with the realities you can't face.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/25 10:54 PM
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It is gynocentrism plain and simple. The complaint of women having to do all the emotional labor in a relationship is another example of women believing that the way they roll is the correct way; and anything a man does, or doesn't do, or believes, or prefers, or desires or wants is deeply wrong, or flawed, or defective. and that if men just did what women wanted them to do, everything would be fine. Sorry, I don't buy it; I'm not gonna feel bad about it; and I am definitely not gonna have my ea…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/25 11:14 AM
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The second I hear a woman mention "emotional labor" I'm like... next!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/25 09:20 PM
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"There's a reason these relationships have a high FAILURE RATE." Marriages in general have a high failure rate (higher if you add permanently separated). I have not seen any numbers on the age gap category being significantly higher than the average failure rate. Also, love fades, but cash flow lasts forever. Frankly, I suspect that transactional marriages have a lower divorce rate than hormone fueled "love" base marriages.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/25 01:27 AM
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"I don't care" ... and neither should anybody else.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/25 01:21 AM
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You don't need to get it. Its none of your business.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/25 01:18 AM
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"then who cares?" Apparently alot of people care, attempting to police what is acceptable and is not acceptable for consenting adults to do together. It is busybodyism and mostly coming from women. Ironically (and perhaps no surprise at the hypocricy), women overwhelming have a "you go girl" attitude when they see older women hooking up w younger men.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/25 01:16 AM
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We live with Paleolithic impulses, mediated by Midieval institutions as we navigate modern financial realities and wield god-like technologies.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 09:03 PM
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"Women don’t need anything from men anymore" Western women? > largely yes. The need list is short but the want list is long. There is still much of the world where the traditional exchanges of value between men and women creates a complimentary working partnership where each participant fulfills largely mutually exclusive roles.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 09:00 PM
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Where do you think "my truth" came from? From the Feminist movement's assertion that you may not question a woman's lived experiences. Meaning her subjective truth that she is telling you trumps the objective truth.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 06:25 AM
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People tend to see in others what they see in themselves. If you have been whoring around, it makes you feel better to believe everyone whores around.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 01:49 AM
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Women lie to themselves about their beliefs, motivations and goals. And then they tell "my truth" to men about their beliefs, motivations and goals. From an Evo Psych point of view women needed to develop this "morally flexible" architecture, bc women's reproductive strategy from the very beginning of our species has been to stand at the finish line and fvck the winners. And at that moment if their world view isn't "working" to land that Alpha, the worldview gets changed. You can yell at the clo…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/25 09:39 PM
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"this is absolutely not science and I'm glad you agree" I don't agree w you. My point was that I don't care to argue w you or anyone else, for that matter, on Reddit about what is "science"; and is Evo Psych a science.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/25 08:35 AM
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And my point is that you can call it what you want, I don't care. It has a pretty good track record of pointing people towards explanations that make sense for behaviours that are observed.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/25 06:39 AM
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Evo Psych does not pretend to be a "unified field theory" - it does not offer the one equation that predicts all outcomes in the human behavior universe. Having said that, at times it explains a great deal. While its not the "one ring to rule them all" it is directionally correct.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/25 04:35 AM
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because women lie to themselves about what they believe & value; and then they lie to you about what they believe & value.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/25 03:16 AM
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Modern western feminists find that egalitarian arrangement more intellectually attractive, but that dynamic is not gonna drop any panties.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/25 11:42 PM
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"I never had one". >You are the exception that proves the rule. "Not all women" is technically true. But as a practical matter does no change the fact the the overwhelming majority of women aspire to/demand the "big wedding".
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 09:53 PM
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As a woman you are unable to perceive how (as a practical matter) Family Court is stacked against men. First and foremost, Family Court is not a court of law, but rather court of equity. This means that Family Court Judges have enormous discretionary powers. In Family Court "the law" is facially neutral, but with the Judges enormous discretionary powers, the results do not land well on men. Often the man is the only man in the room. Judge, and both attorneys are overwhelmingly women. As for your…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 02:57 AM
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As a woman you are unable to perceive how (as a practical matter) Family Court is stacked against men. First and foremost, Family Court is not a court of law, but rather court of equity. This means that Family Court Judges have enormous discretionary powers. They are less like a neutral referee and more like a 3rd party advocate. In Family Court "the law" is facially neutral, but with the Judge's enormous discretionary powers, the results do not land well on men. Often the man is the only man in…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/25 07:01 PM
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In USA divorce proceedings Family Court Judges can impute (assign) additional income to a parent when the Judge concludes that the parent can and should be earning more. (Example: a former lawyer who is still licensed to practice law but previously decided to change careers and now make substantially less.) When a judge imputes income, the judge will calculate child support based on a higher income amount (an amount that the Judge thinks the parent could be earning) than what the parent is actua…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/25 06:10 AM
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Look up "imputed income"
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/25 01:32 AM
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"most men don't understand how the family court system is so rigged against them" ... until they experience it. KInda like Mike Tyson's famous quote. "Everyone's got a plan until you get punched in the face"
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/25 01:29 AM
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"When you try to explain to any woman how marriage is a contract... it's in one ear and out the other. -------- ... or worse. The response is generally some variation of "you don't love me enough to marry me"... and it goes rapidly downhill from there.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/25 01:26 AM
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"women don't run from the men they want." >THIS< ------- Apparently I was waaayy ahead of my time. But I thought I was just being lazy or didn't really care. Starting at age 17 the GFs just kinda presented themselves and made their interest apparent. I thought that that was just how it worked. Up to (and including my wife (I was 32 when I got hitched) my women picked me. If I was attracted to them, I just rolled w it. (Note: I always preferred a sane, respectful, modest "7" to a beautiful, high …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/25 12:26 AM
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I would never go home w a woman who walked up to me out of the blue and "worked it". I would be expecting that I'd get drugged and wake up in an alley missing a kidney.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/25 06:09 AM
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Men choose, then women decide. That is the flow chart. You can like it, you can hate it - but that is the dance since time immemorial. Complain all you like, but it's shouting at the sky about the weather.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/25 06:03 PM
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"It's because that's the only way to avoid gendered power dynamics." . "Everything is about sex... except sex, which is about power." — Oscar Wilde
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/25 04:39 AM
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"It’s about how, almost everywhere... women still often have to walk on eggshells to protect fragile egos." Once again your personal experience with men is extrapolated out to be a universal quality of all men. ------------ . "If the reality I described bothers you, maybe it’s because it hits closer to home than you’d like to admit." When you don't have logic on your side just fall back on the good old reliable Ad Hominem attack.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/25 06:47 AM
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"if you feel the need to tip toe around a man, are worried about his reaction and need to fluff his ego then he’s not, and tbh never was ‘one of the good ones’" ... or maybe you are reading the situation wrong because you have mental problems like low self esteem or insecurities which skew your perception of reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/25 06:36 AM
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Logic fail > "All the men I have ever been involved with are 'X', therefor all men are 'X' ". Another example of solipsism in women.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/25 06:30 AM
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Your entire argument seems to be based solely upon your personal experience and the experiences of 2 cherry picked media personalities. You are engaging in inductive reasoning, namely that> "The results of my sample size of 3, accurately reflect the realities of the larger population of 150 million". A sample size of 3 ain't gonna do that. In short, the premise of your argument is (from a statistical analysis point of view) not based in fact.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 07:49 PM
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if you are gonna do duty sex you still gotta perform - no starfish sex. I have always appreciated women who put in a good performance. Sometimes the "fake it till you make it" thing kicks in and the she actually starts to enjoy it. In any event I appreciate the performance. Part of the performance is faking that you want it and are enjoying it. Your proposal for some kind of compensation, while rational and logical and fair under the circumstances that you describe, unfortunate kills the whole b…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 02:50 AM
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"You cannot tweak culture and society a little bit and suddenly the dating market is balanced out" All I got to say on this reality is a rif on Andrew Breitbart's famous quote about politics. The dating market is downstream from the culture. And right now the culture is pretty fucked up. Feminism's relentless (an successful) attacks an everything having to do w how men and women relate to each other has gotten us to where we are now (where largely no one is happy).
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/25 06:45 PM
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"Obviously women's standards, even for 'pure desire', have a cultural and biological component, like everything." "Everything is about sex... except sex, which is about power" ~Oscar Wilde
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/25 06:24 PM
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There isn't a blowjob in the world that would make me want to take on all of the potential drama (and legal risks) associated w this scenario. IDGAF if she's an 11.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/25 11:56 PM
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"I get almost all women are reasonable," I don't know what you are smoking, but I'd like some of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/25 11:54 PM
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""Don't shit where you eat" is a good rule to follow if you have a decent job and responsibilities. As far as the OP is concerned, if he is a 20-something in the service industry (prob), get paid minimumly and DGAF if he gets fired, his job provides a low risk/high yield environment for him to "party" w his co-workers.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 08:36 PM
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No matter how unappealing a man is, there are women somewhere on the planet who will accept him (assuming he is not a sociopath). Men who complain they can't pull a woman are probably not pricing themselves right in the sexual marketplace. This observation assumes, of course, that the man in question is actually in the sexual marketplace; meaning he is not some basement dweller who lives on delivered pizza and never sees the light of day.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 06:15 PM
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"Ask most women, and they will tell you that older women are more attractive" Ah, more attractive to whom? If you want to know if men find older women more attractive it would seem to me that the better source of such information would be, oh I don't know, men?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 05:41 AM
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"Everybody's got something to hide except for me and my monkey"
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/25 09:42 PM
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"If you didn't have the money, those women would not date you" I agree w you and I am OK w the trade. There are plenty of beautiful women I can't attract or afford to keep- I freely admit that and I am not angry about it. That is how the sexual marketplace works. At bottom: Women trade sex for resources and Men trade resources for sex. You can attempt to sugar coat that reality as much as you care as you delude yourself that "true love" is all that motivates women in their choices of partners. I…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/25 06:02 AM
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"if you didn't have MONEY the women there wouldn't want you, this is the facts." I agree w you and I don't have a problem with it. Don't kid yourself - Speaking generally nearly all women want men who make bank. The more a man makes, the more most women are attracted to his total package. At bottom all relationships are transactional. The only difference is the degree in which the parties are explicitly clear (if at all ) about it (both to themselves and to each other). When I was a lawyer makin…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/25 05:58 AM
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"fly to 2nd/3rd world countries where the value of their mediocre income is inflated" Ah, not inflated but rather increased. In business this is normal, accepted, smart locational arbitrage. You can't sell ice to an Eskimo, but transport it to Florida and you increased its locational value. USA women, of course, hate this analysis bc this growing trend highlights the growing lower value of USA women in the global sexual marketplace. USA men are increasingly saying "why do I have to work so hard …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/25 02:09 AM
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"fly to 2nd/3rd world countries where the value of their mediocre income is inflated" Ah, not inflated but rather increased. In business this is normal, accepted, locational arbitrage. You can't sell ice to an Eskimo, but transport it to Florida and you increased its locational value. USA women, of course, hate this analysis bc this growing trend highlights the growing unattractiveness of USA women in the global sexual marketplace. Men say "why do I have to work so hard to have a shot at getting…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/25 02:05 AM
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"society push women to appeal to the male gaze to gain some power" No - It's not a societal construct. Society isn't "pushing" women to this. It is fundamental evolutionary psychology at work. Men and women each use what they got (what appeals to the other sex) to get what they want/need. That is the game of life. Like it or not, it's real. Recognize it and deal with it. Else, it's just screaming at the sky about the weather.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 07:23 PM
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Everybody uses what they got to get what they need. That is the game of life. Like it or not, it's real. Recognize, deal with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 07:11 PM
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I appreciate you digging into Evo Psych. Post menopausal women engage in cosmetic procedures in an attempt to look more beautiful. Why do this if they can no longer reproduce? - in order to increase their chances of attracting higher value men who are attracted to beauty (the men don't know why they find certain attributes attractive - it's hard wired). Men who don't desire to reproduce are still attracted to those signals of reproductive vitality in women, even menopausal women. At least that i…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 04:32 AM
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as I said in an earlier response to your similar previously asserted observation> "wouldn’t moderately overweight women be more attractive?"> Everything in moderation. Some fat? - good, too much fat?- can't run, jump, gather firewood, walk all day gathering nuts and berries, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 03:58 AM
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"so you are saying..."- nope. I no where said overweight women are attractive to men. When I said "have some fat" what I mean is normal BMI. Everyone has fat w the exception of the heroin chic, size O models that the fashion industry offers up as ideal. While I am trying very hard to answer your questions in good faith you are increasingly reminding me of Cathy Newman that UK argumentative bad faith interviewer of Jordan Peterson who became famous as the "so you are saying..." woman. here is the…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 03:51 AM
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"so you are saying..."- nope. I no where said overweight women are attractive to men. When I said "have some fat" what I mean is normal BMI. Everyone has fat w the exception of the heroin chic, size O models that the fashion industry offers up as ideal. While I am trying very hard to answer your questions in good faith you are increasingly reminding me of Cathy Newman that UK argumentative bad faith interviewer of Jordan Peterson who became famous as the "so you are saying..." woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 03:38 AM
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. “Weird birth marks or a “beauty mark” are not representative of poor health”> maybe not, but clear vibrant skin is associated w good health. Women spend zillions of $$ each year on skin care. why?- they know why. "wouldn’t moderately overweight women be more attractive?"> Everything in moderation. Some fat? - good, too much fat?- can't run, jump, gather firewood, walk all day gathering nuts and berries, etc. "why has skinny been the beauty standard?"> Because gay men run the fashion industry. …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 12:19 AM
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"size of someone’s butt/boobs, absence of an odd mole on their face, or presence of “wings” on their eyes is not correlated with reproductive success" Wrong: large breasts store more fat which can help a woman more easily get thru times of nutritional deficits, thus increasing the likelihood of her child successfully getting to adulthood; imperfections on the skin indicate/suggest sub optimal health; which is linked w sub optimal outcomes for birthing women; crows feet around the eyes is highly …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/25 08:53 PM
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Enforced is prob too strong a word, but women pay very close attention to what works
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/25 08:49 PM
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"Women do things to improve their appearance because it improves their self confidence and can give them a way to artistically express themselves" I call BS. That is the lie they tell men ... and perhaps/probably themselves and their feminist girlfriends. Much of women's beauty enhancing behavior is about enhancing naturally existing visual cues that men interpret (correctly) as highly correlated with reproductive success. Stated another way, what men find attractive in women is 100% correlated …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/25 08:23 PM
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"It's not something you can share or divide or give multiple people without having your body physically violated in the worst way." That is your opinion. Other people feel differently. If 2 consenting adults come to a living/life/employment/whatever arrangement that works for them, I am happy for them. I feel certain (based upon your post) that given the ability to do so you would make illegal many adult consensual behaviors. In short you would be a totalitarian busybody. Why not let people navi…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/25 06:49 PM
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"We don't want sex to be sold." Thank you for minding everyone else's business and defining for them what is acceptable and unacceptable behavior. Everyone uses what they got to get what they need. It's a freely negotiated deal btwn 2 consenting adults. Who the F are you to tell them that they haven't met your standard for moral behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 12:53 AM
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"With both age and income it’s ok to date someone a little above or below you, but if you’re talking about a significant gap the relationship probably won’t work" Thank you for your permission to date a few years below my age.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 12:36 AM
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Depends where you live. Different cultures approach marriage and divorce differently. Different cultures create laws which incentivize divorce in some places and discourage it in others. Bottom line for me ( guy who is in decent shape, not crazy or abusive, with meaningful assets) I would be out of my mind to get married (regardless of whether or not children are in the equation).
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/25 11:13 PM
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