| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 9 | How unattractive is insecurity to a woman? | 30inchbluejeans | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/18 08:46 PM |
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| 12 | Women are not more attractive than men on averageSometimes I wish I was gay lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/02/20 07:32 AM |
| 9 | Wait, Do Y'all Really Think "Exciting/Fun" = "Criminal Activity"??I can’t believe people actually think this I feel like I’m living in another universe | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/01/20 03:59 PM |
| 1 | How is it “unfair” that alpha males get lots of casual sex?Learn to read | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/20 05:32 PM |
| 3 | How is it “unfair” that alpha males get lots of casual sex?Nobody said that men don’t want causal sex You’re arguing against something that nobody said | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/20 05:16 PM |
| 10 | Don't watch porn.Many high value men are red-pilled no fappers This is compete fiction lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/19 01:20 AM |
| 0 | Do TV shows or works of fiction create unrealistic expectations about how easy dating is?I don’t believe this. Do you think that only chads fuck off tinder? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/11/19 12:18 AM |
| 2 | Would you trade all the struggles of your sex with the struggles of the opposite sex?Significantly less frequently | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/19 07:19 PM |
| -1 | Why do women have sex with dangerous looking men straight away, but they are "not comfortable" or "feel threatened" inviting average non-threatening men back to their place?So have most men I’m sure | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/19 03:51 AM |
| 1 | Is online dating fucking up the minds of men? Is it better to stay away from it?Lmao what This seems like a shit study | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/19 05:45 PM |
| 2 | Is online dating fucking up the minds of men? Is it better to stay away from it?Lol I’m a below average height not very buff not very attractive white guy and I do just fine on tinder | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/19 05:43 PM |
| 3 | CMV: Most men severely underestimate the work women do in terms of working out/diet to just "not be fat".I don’t believe that only a minority of women want a guy who is over 6 feet tall. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/06/19 06:23 PM |
| 2 | How unattractive is insecurity to a woman?have you been with her through a ... monthly slump, yet? Those are kind of a thing that can happen. Yeah I'm hoping that's all it is. I'm very glad you've found someone and I hope everything works out. Thank you very much for your comments and good luck to you too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/18 01:39 AM |
| 2 | How unattractive is insecurity to a woman?If you're still with her - is it something you feel like you can ask her about? Do you regularly talk about your relationship? Kind of, yeah. She said that the less sex was for other reasons, but I have no way of knowing if that's true or not, so I'm left to wonder if I did something to make me less attractive to her. What you're describing sounds kind of like the tail end of a relationship that may be more of a learning experience than a happy memory. That's kind of unfortunate to hear. I hope … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/18 12:49 AM |
| 1 | How unattractive is insecurity to a woman?I would also say though that if it is a real problem and it’s brought up in an appropriate context with someone you are in a serious relationship with, and you feel them back away, you dodged a bullet. It would suck to be expected to be strong and stoic all the time imho. It wasn't a real problem, just something I shared because I wanted her to know that I understood what that type of stuff feels like. I don't really have any serious insecurities, and I don't have a problem being strong and stoi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/18 11:35 PM |
| 2 | How unattractive is insecurity to a woman?"I can tolerate insecurity if it's on my terms and only in small doses." Yeah, I think that's fair. Nobody wants to be with someone who's a constant downer. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/18 11:09 PM |
| 1 | How unattractive is insecurity to a woman?"I can tolerate insecurity if it's on my terms and only in small doses." Yeah, I think that's fair. Nobody wants to be with someone who's a constant downer. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/18 11:07 PM |
| 2 | How unattractive is insecurity to a woman?Sure, I'd love to have a conversation. With my current partner, the conversations would play out something like the following: She would share something about herself that she was insecure about or didn't like. I would explain why she shouldn't worry about what she was worrying about, or I would tell her that the thing she was insecure about didn't bother me at all (if it was a physical thing). After that, sometimes I would share something that bothered me. I did this to sort of make her feel li… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/18 11:04 PM |
| 1 | How unattractive is insecurity to a woman?Yes, always. I wouldn't talk about that kind of stuff on an early date or anything. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/18 10:47 PM |
| 1 | How unattractive is insecurity to a woman?Thanks a lot for your comment. How early do you mean when you say "very early on in our relationship"? I would agree that oversharing is weird and off-putting for either gender, but if it's brought up in an appropriate context, is insecurity still unattractive? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/18 10:32 PM |
| 1 | How unattractive is insecurity to a woman?Yeah, it was in a serious relationship. I wouldn't bring anything like that up while we were just dating. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/18 10:28 PM |
| 1 | How unattractive is insecurity to a woman?Ah alright. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/18 10:01 PM |
| 0 | How unattractive is insecurity to a woman?I'm a bit confused, maybe you misread my comment? I don't have a problem with insecurities pouring out involuntarily. I don't have that many and they don't really bother me at all. I used to think that it was just a perfectly innocent topic of conversation that didn't have too much of an impact on your attractiveness, but that doesn't seem to be the case. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/18 09:57 PM |
| – | How unattractive is insecurity to a woman?Yeah it's starting to seem like it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/18 09:48 PM |
| 2 | How unattractive is insecurity to a woman?Got it, thanks. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/18 09:41 PM |
| 0 | How unattractive is insecurity to a woman?Just stop being so fucking neurotic! Not neurotic at all, I don't have a bunch of insecurities that come pouring out of me and interfere with my life that I can't help talking about all the time. Even just sharing minor things it seems has a negative impact on your sexual attractiveness to a woman. I'm perfectly cool with not letting any of that show, I just didn't realize that it actually mattered. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/18 09:41 PM |
| 0 | How unattractive is insecurity to a woman?if you are compulsively oversharing/word vomiting your problems on your partner all the time without seeking help, that can be trying and might impact sexual appeal in a general way Nothing like this, just kind of talking and sharing. sharing insecurities and personal stuff in an appropriate way can build intimacy & trust, which can lead to a stronger relationship overall and potentially better sex From my experience women have no interest in hearing about your insecurities, even if it's in an a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/18 09:37 PM |
| 2 | How unattractive is insecurity to a woman?Got it, thanks. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/18 09:28 PM |
| 1 | All else equal, women care more about “how you come off” than your “raw goods physical looks”They’ll have sex with them but they won’t be interested in anything more than that | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/10/18 07:00 PM |
| 3 | All else equal, women care more about “how you come off” than your “raw goods physical looks”There’s no way a woman would deal with a 0/10 personality no matter how hot a guy is Maybe if he had a lot of money | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/10/18 04:48 PM |
| 1 | If you want a good gauge of the SMP, try catfishing.No fucking shit That’s how it is being a man Deal with it and stop shitting up the subreddit with your incessant whining | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/10/18 12:20 AM |
| 1 | Society mocks beta males who refuse to raise the kids of alpha males, in an attempt to turn them into providersOh noooo society doesn’t approve of my decisions waaaaaah ;(((( | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/18 05:23 PM |
| 2 | The counselling pill is the best pillLol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/18 04:42 PM |
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