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Just tell her. She'll be mortified if you've not been intimate regularly or if it is one of your first times, but it's her job to be clean. It's not different than if you want down and her and she farted. You're the gift and you deserve for her to maintain her hygiene.
/r/askTRP27/12/16 12:17 AM
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FB advice. You can set your relationship status so only she and her friends (who you are also friends with) can see it. Anyone else, friend or not, cannot see it.
/r/askTRP16/12/16 12:44 AM
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Sorry that bothered you so much.
/r/TheRedPill13/12/13 10:42 AM
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Try being less offensive. You come across as weak, not logical.
/r/TheRedPill13/12/13 10:30 AM
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You have the opportunity to become an authority in this arena, but you've got to be more logical. It is no more difficult to raise women with good values consistent with their nature than it is to raise boys consistent with their nature. It surprises me you are not innately grasping that concept.
/r/TheRedPill13/12/13 09:58 AM
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LOL, you're hilarious.
/r/TheRedPill13/12/13 09:38 AM
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How does this not equally apply to boys as well as girls? Aren't boys under the same societal pressures to not act masculine?
/r/TheRedPill13/12/13 09:15 AM
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Do you have children? Because this seems foolish to me after raising two boys into men despite outside influence. You have a tremendous amount of control over your children's values.
/r/TheRedPill13/12/13 02:32 AM
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I see what you are trying to say, but your thinking is flawed: If a person doesn't have the balls to raise a girl with proper values, he doesn't have the balls to raise a boy. Think it through: Girls who ride the carousel do so because their parents didn't teach them proper values, not because they are girls. Boys who follow TRP values do so not because they are boys, but because their parents taught them proper values. Go over to red pill women, they might help you here.
/r/TheRedPill13/12/13 02:30 AM
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The only relevant question is do you enjoy being with her? I don't believe this is true. I have two sons in their 20's. I would consider this terrible advice for them. You addressed a tiny bit of this in your "to continue" paragraph, but I think it's important for people to understand just how bad this advice truly is - think through the implications. You can enjoy being with a terrible girl who exposes your life to all sorts of risks, so you're saying men should do that? I'm wondering if you re…
/r/TheRedPill13/12/13 02:11 AM
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Actually, I've seen committed Christians use this book to their advantage. Consider: Knowing how the game is played, even if you choose to not use some of the tactics, gives you an advantage others do not have. There are certainly laws that, if you put them into practice, would violate many people's ethical code. But knowing what your opponent is doing is beneficial even if you choose to not use those tactics yourself. Same with the dark triad. Employing tactics that come natural to a dark triad…
/r/TheRedPill13/12/13 01:30 AM
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I can't reveal too much here without disclosing my real life identity, but let's say I have spoken with the author and the number of people applying the 48 Laws is tiny compared to the world-wide sales.
/r/TheRedPill13/12/13 01:10 AM
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TRP knowledge from a woman's perspective is not against their nature - it is in keeping with it. Ask trpwomen and they can make it much clearer than I can.
/r/TheRedPill13/12/13 01:09 AM
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I gotta tell you, even though millions buy his books, only a small percentage actually finish reading them and a tiny percentage of those have systems in place in their lives to create actionable plans. If writing this stuff benefits you either through image or income or ego, so few people will actually put the stuff to work it won't make a difference.
/r/TheRedPill13/12/13 12:14 AM
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Where do you think all the (male) white knights come from as well? I appreciate what you are trying to get to, but it is naive to think boys are automatically going to have solid RP values and girls are impossible to teach. The reality is we have had a long tradition in the west of either not instilling values at all or instilling non-productive values in the children of both sexes.
/r/TheRedPill12/12/13 10:05 PM
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I enabled my wife to not have to mature. We married at 19. I took care of us. If she had a need, I was the man, I took care of it. If she was weak, I was strong. The problem I faced was, in the end, she had no maturity. She had no tenacity. She had no perseverance. Because she had never had to use those emotional muscles, she had never developed them. When I realized this error, I told her I needed her to start - even slowly - to be responsible. Baby steps. She chose, instead, to try to find ano…
/r/RedPillWomen12/12/13 07:41 PM
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Had the same thought - if she was ashamed, she would have trashed the vid. And it wasn't a choice she made just one time - I'm sure she came across the video many times either intentionally or while she was "putting something away" and chose, again, to not get rid of the video. Throughout the marriage she has been continuing to hold on to that event as a peak experience of her life.
/r/TheRedPill12/12/13 02:34 PM
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Some people only see good movies. Some people will see even a bad movie if their favorite star is in it. I believe that's the thinking: Having a star that is "hot" right now means all that star's fans will see the movie - even if they aren't interested in the "type" of movie.
/r/TheRedPill11/12/13 04:43 PM
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Money can't buy happiness, but it can give you wonderful company until happiness gets here.
/r/TheRedPill11/12/13 07:17 AM
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Everyone needs to read this comment.
/r/TheRedPill11/12/13 05:34 AM
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One of the most attractive traits you can maintain with a woman is the idea you have options. You have to be the prize she hopes to receive. When you get into a live-in, exclusive relationship, you lose that leverage. Now, there are other ways to let her know you're still above her and worthy of her fidelity above all others, but it becomes harder. Much harder. Just like you are hard-wired to find a woman with a certain hip-waist ratio sexually alluring, she is hard-wired to find a man who can h…
/r/askTRP11/12/13 04:31 AM
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Check the sidebar for definitions - SMV = Sexual Market Value.
/r/TheRedPill11/12/13 03:08 AM
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Keep in mind men are not necessarily any more rational. They may come off that way because the "life price" to marrying a sexually appealing but otherwise dull woman in today's society is much lower than a woman marrying a hot-tempered bad boy. Every day here someone (or some five) comes here saying "I know she's a terrible person, but she's so hot" or something similar.
/r/TheRedPill11/12/13 03:02 AM
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In consideration of what eyeshafty said, I do think we have some responsibility to make the information here accessible to as many people as possible. While I initially had the attitude this was fine, I don't know how it would look to others. Sarcasm is easy to misread, especially when one is already prejudiced. So I removed it. But it would be fun to watch you and Shafty in a grudge match MMA.
/r/TheRedPill11/12/13 02:56 AM
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No, I am not. You really think it's that bad? I guess my humor does not translate well to text. I'll remove it. Thanks for sticking with this until I saw the light.
/r/TheRedPill11/12/13 02:49 AM
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It was a joke. Because I had given good, non-judgmental responses when so many who come here believe we just hate women, I added it. Ya see, the juxtaposition makes an important point. And I proudly stand by it. OK, now I've sheepishly removed it. I really meant no offense, soup.
/r/TheRedPill11/12/13 02:43 AM
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I love this advice.
/r/TheRedPill11/12/13 02:32 AM
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I don't have time to pull the references for you. Google is your friend. Saying 60%+ of divorces are filed by the wife and having it questioned is kinda like saying "prove to me that wars kill people." This is a well known fact, you can look it up pretty easily on your own.
/r/TheRedPill11/12/13 02:26 AM
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Then I would encourage you to take the 2-3 hours to read the side bar recommendations.
/r/TheRedPill11/12/13 02:23 AM
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In most cases: If a woman divorces a man, she receives 1/2 of the marital assets, regardless of how they were acquired. She receives the bulk custody of the children. She receives full child support, even if there is shared custody. She receives "maintenance" payments often for the rest of her life. Does this always happen? No. Does it currently happen in the majority of cases? Yes. Edit: Not to put too fine a point on it... It is a sweet deal for most women and a bad deal for most men because w…
/r/TheRedPill11/12/13 02:19 AM
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You asked: Go to other males? Why do you believe a woman would do that? I merely answered.
/r/TheRedPill11/12/13 02:15 AM
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Because they do, souppy. Empirically. Depending on what study you want to cite, at least 60% of divorces in the US are filed by the woman.
/r/TheRedPill11/12/13 02:11 AM
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There are many offensive things you will find here. Some of them are unfounded and probably shouldn't be here. Many of the posts, however, contain substantiated truth. I, too, sometimes find those offensive, but upon evaluation, I have the intellectual integrity to say "if it's true, then it's true." If you can hold you nose long enough to hang around, you will see lots of questioning of concepts presented here. It's not all a circle jerk - if someone posts something new (that hasn't already bee…
/r/TheRedPill11/12/13 02:08 AM
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Sure, quick to violence with poor impulse control. In a violent culture, that meant they could overcome an opponent quickly, without hesitation. Another would be multiple partners. It has been empirically demonstrated that men who have multiple partners are more highly desirable than those who have few or 1. A third would be selfishness. A man who displays "dark triad" traits - basically meaning his decisions are based not on empathy for others or considerations of morality, but only on the effe…
/r/TheRedPill11/12/13 02:01 AM
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I've been married 30 years, currently separated on the way to divorce. BUT... While you will see all sorts of people here counseling against civil marriage (and the reasons why), you will also see men coming here talking about where to find trustworthy women for marriage. LTRs and marriage are up to the individual - TRP is about giving you the proper information to choose the best options for yourself.
/r/TheRedPill11/12/13 01:51 AM
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I'm not sure this is accurate. Here's why: We know that men are attracted to the physical characteristics in a woman that, from an evolutionary standpoint, reflect fertility. But it would be wrong to say women are chosen on their ability to bear children. In almost all cases, we are seeking women we either DON'T want to have children with, or want to fuck hundreds of times more than we want children. To say men are looking for women who can bear children would be incorrect. Men are looking for w…
/r/TheRedPill11/12/13 01:37 AM
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How can you entertain other women if she moves in? Oh, wait, you don't intend to. Ever. You are giving up the most important alpha position you can have and what do you get in return? She's already there any time you want. She already cooks for you. Why give up something major and get nothing in return? My two cents.
/r/askTRP11/12/13 01:04 AM
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No problem. Return the favor some time. We're all on the same road. I doubt you're stupid though. I mean, maybe you are, but maybe you're just like the rest of us - pussy makes it tough to think clearly about situations.
/r/TheRedPill11/12/13 01:01 AM
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Thanks for doing this. 48 Laws is one of my favorite books and was literally life changing for me. Helping other people understand it is God's Work, son.
/r/TheRedPill11/12/13 12:55 AM
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Here's the thing: This is a low value woman. No question. Not even a debate. You can't even say "oh, but since then she's had a religious conversion." She's always going to be low value. The reason her past bothers you is because you thought somehow she wasn't low value. If she was just a plate or FWB, no problem, I'd say keep sleeping with her. But to you she's more than that - heck, even coming here to ask the question means you don't see her as low value. If you have this kind of reaction to …
/r/TheRedPill11/12/13 12:54 AM
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I was trying to be helpful. He got 27 upvotes and almost no comments. Wanna guess why? If he put in a tl;dr he'd probably get more support. I do see that you took time to make a helpful comment. Good on you, son.
/r/TheRedPill11/12/13 12:47 AM
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Good on you for your approach and getting the digits. That was extremely good and something I am trying to improve on myself. When I first meet a girl for a date, I kiss her on the cheek and try to put my hands on her hips and pull her toward me when I do it. That seems to set a tone. I also look at her lustfully (if that makes sense) throughout the date, and while we talk about "logical" things I will suddenly just stop and say something overtly sexual like "man, the things I will be doing to y…
/r/TheRedPill10/12/13 11:58 PM
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The two guys who used this probably said it a little better than I wrote it here - along the lines of "if you are ready to be exclusive and you want to be exclusive with me, then prove it by being exclusive with me. I'm not going to commit until I see it first."
/r/askTRP10/12/13 08:43 PM
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I want to support you, but tl;dr please.
/r/TheRedPill10/12/13 08:37 PM
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Not sure if this is a good approach, though I have talked to a few people who have used it. I'd be interested in everyone's input. "I am not willing to commit to exclusivity until someone proves to me they will be exclusive."
/r/askTRP10/12/13 08:18 PM
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I think a key realization - and the one that was hardest for me to appreciate - is that "love" means something completely different for a woman. Even sincere love. She loves the way you make her feel. She loves the experience of being with you. She loves the security and protection. Remove those feelings and there isn't anything left. And she can't understand why this doesn't make perfect sense to everyone. I have no doubt my ex-wife loved me in this way and was completely sincere.
/r/TheRedPill10/12/13 06:28 PM
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True, but I hate this line of thinking. There is some "fake it until you make it" that makes sense, but just caring around a guitar case when I couldn't play and wasn't trying to learn to play, would hurt my ego more than help it. I can fake being the man I am working to become, I don't want to fake being the man I have no intention of becoming. My two cents.
/r/TheRedPill10/12/13 02:14 PM
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I was the front man for a worship band at my church when I was in my 30's. I was married. College age girls at the church were constantly swooning over me. I was surprised how forward these girls would be, knowing that I was married and Christian. Being able to sing well helps.
/r/TheRedPill10/12/13 02:07 PM
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Maybe it's just me, but I never fear "looking" gay - two reasons: First, I'm not gay. Second, being gay, even if I was, isn't a bad thing. I don't think anyone has ever asked if I were gay. Maybe some thought so, I don't know, but I guess I just don't give off that vibe. Asking guys to meet for lunch hasn't been a big deal for me.
/r/TheRedPill10/12/13 01:40 PM
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If you haven't yet, read Greene's 48 Laws of Power - it is the foundation for everything Underwood does.
/r/TheRedPill10/12/13 04:36 AM
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The key is to ask more men out on dates (hear me out, I'm not joking...) When we are in school (high school/college) we are forced into situations where other guys become our friends - we're in class together, on teams, it all works. After we get out of college, we go to work. We don't necessarily want to hang with the guys from work - many of whom we might be competing with or are our boss or subordinate. We get along with them, but we can't be open with them the way we need to be with friends.…
/r/TheRedPill10/12/13 04:28 AM
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Don't sweat it. Just ask. He won't care and he might have samples or a coupon or something. It's not cheap.
/r/TheRedPill09/12/13 09:58 PM
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Pretty much where I get any Rx - doctor then pharmacy. It's a pretty standard process. Am I missing something in your question?
/r/TheRedPill09/12/13 08:32 PM
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This took me a second...
/r/TheRedPill09/12/13 08:23 PM
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I love my ATM machine. I have trouble, sometimes, remembering my PIN number, tho.
/r/TheRedPill09/12/13 06:21 PM
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I'm having trouble seeing our government being long-term thinkers enough to say "a multi-decade period of feminism and immigration will preserve and expand the tax base." In my observation, politicians rarely think beyond their own self-interest and next election. Enlighten me.
/r/TheRedPill09/12/13 05:59 PM
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Yeah, this is what I have found as well. I'm not having issues now, but I wish some wise friend had said beforehand "hey, 30Y, you need to Viagra up before you hit that..."
/r/TheRedPill09/12/13 05:57 PM
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Debated about sharing these two from a few months ago, but it might help older guys re-entering the dating pool after a long LTR. Here goes. When I started dating again after a 30 year marriage I was met with some initial success. This report will focus on the first two women I got naked with. I had not had sex with anyone other than my ex in decades and I underestimated the impact of the unconscious emotional attachment to my ex combined with things like condoms, general awkwardness, etc. Andre…
/r/TheRedPill09/12/13 05:47 PM
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There was an infamous murder not too long ago where a guy in his 40's hit up a much younger girl online, pretending to be her age. She professed her love for him. Eventually she wanted a pic, so he sent her a pic of a younger male friend. She was now madly in love and wanted to meet. He decided to reveal his ruse and she then was conflicted. She continued to talk to him after, but also hooked up with the younger friend. Ultimately the older guy killed the younger friend, somehow thinking that wo…
/r/TheRedPill09/12/13 04:26 PM
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Stop caring about one encounter so much - you have lots of options. You have to cultivate the idea that tonight, tomorrow, next week there will be tons of hot chicks ready to fuck you - and some of those you will actually want to fuck. As long as you obsess about one encounter this much you'll never develop the confidence and poise you need to actually succeed.
/r/askTRP09/12/13 03:59 AM
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There are such things as appropriate selfishness and inappropriate selflessness.
/r/TheRedPill08/12/13 07:33 PM
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I have the advantage of being very sexually alpha in my 20's, marrying and becoming uber beta in my 30's-40's and now being single and relearning sexual alphaness in my 50's. Here is what I have observed: In my roaring testosterone 20's if I showed up to pick up a girl (or for date night with my wife) and I didn't like what she was wearing, I told her to change. With my wife I would pick out clothes I wanted to see her in. I had certain sexual desires and I demanded they be fulfilled. After leav…
/r/askTRP08/12/13 07:03 PM
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It also doesn't count as cheating if they tell their spouse immediately after and then move out. 'Cause she was unhappy throughout the marriage anyway.
/r/TheRedPill08/12/13 06:54 PM
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You can shut this down with letting her know you fucked someone else that night (or make her think you did.) And she knows this is fucked up - she initiated the LTR exclusivity. She believes that means something.
/r/askTRP08/12/13 05:53 PM
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So I just started a long-term relationship My opinion: You JUST STARTED being exclusive. She knows this is not cool. Even if she doesn't want to be with the guy, she's willing to risk your relationship at this stage just to see her hockey team. Are you sure she is a high value woman you want to be exclusive with? Sounds to me like a pretty low value move on her part. I'm not seeing how being exclusive with her has any benefit to you - and she obviously thinks she can take you for granted. "He'll…
/r/askTRP08/12/13 05:34 PM
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Male business owner here: Encourage, support, etc. - all the things others have said - but do this as well: Remind him of how he overcame hard spots before. Be specific if he's open to it. Those reminders really help build confidence. Winning begets winning. He's won in the past, remind him he is a winner. For me, though it may vary for him, sex really helps. Being sexy for him. Showing him you want to jump his bones. That really builds many men up (though you probably knew that as well.)
/r/RedPillWomen07/12/13 09:09 PM
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But you then to state or imply in many areas the ideas presented here are not correct, yet you refuse to state any positive defense of your own convictions. It makes you look as if you have no rational basis for your beliefs and no refutation for the ones presented to you here. Can you at least provide some substance to what you believe and why or actually refute the points presented to you here?
/r/TheRedPill07/12/13 03:54 AM
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I realized before I ever responded to you that you were unlikely capable of rationally considering these points, but I also know that others may read them and see truth they hadn't been exposed to before. Do you consider yourself intellectually honest? Able to consider any viewpoints other than your own without resorting to logical fallacies? That's an honest question, not a rhetorical one. Intellectual honesty will serve you well in life and TRP is about helping people accept truths that might …
/r/TheRedPill07/12/13 03:47 AM
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Outliers actually tend to prove exactly what LaserSoundMusic was pointing out.
/r/TheRedPill07/12/13 03:41 AM
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This smacks of a lack of intellectual integrity which it seems you wish to present yourself as having (in all of your redditing, not just here.)
/r/TheRedPill07/12/13 03:40 AM
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I wasn't saying what was "right" - which is an interesting word to try to define in this context - but what is true. Huge difference. What I said is true, though you and Ayn might think it is not the best.
/r/TheRedPill07/12/13 03:39 AM
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Actually, it was an answer. You just missed it. If we evolved with certain instinctual preferences, then asking "why do gender roles exist" is just like saying "why does the sun exist." I feel as if you came here with such a closed mind it is impossible for you to hear what people are saying.
/r/TheRedPill07/12/13 03:37 AM
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Women, in general, just like men, in general, go for the highest possible value person they can mate with. Mate selection is comprised of a group of highly complex factors and includes things like self-image, which is tough to measure. TRP is not meant to address a specific person or a specific relationship, but is intended to address the generalities and probabilities surrounding male/female relations. We can know that men are more likely to rate a woman's relationship potential based on her ap…
/r/TheRedPill07/12/13 03:35 AM
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That is a logical fallacy and not what notablepaladin was saying. Of course a single woman can be stronger than a single man. You are making a straw man argument. Men, on the average, are physically stronger than women. Men, on average, are more aggressive than women. Testosterone produces those effects. I'm sure the top woman weight lifter is much stronger than I. I am also confident I am personally stronger than 90% of women.
/r/TheRedPill07/12/13 03:28 AM
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Agreed, and most of us choose, at times, to ignore our instinctual drives, but humanity as a group will follow those instincts. That's a key concept you might be missing. A small group of people will ignore their drives, sometimes due to societal pressure, but the group, as a whole, will fall into a bell curve of actions consistent with their instinct.
/r/TheRedPill07/12/13 03:25 AM
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Objectivism as a concept only works in theory. In practice our instinct is a constant tide pulling us in a consistent direction. While a few people will choose to use constant disciplines to attempt to thwart the pull of instinct, it will be a constant effort for them. Some people will avoid some of the pull of instinct, but in the end the vast majority of humans will operate instinctively then justify their actions with rationalizations or pseudo-logic. Ayn Rand was a tremendous thinker but not…
/r/TheRedPill07/12/13 03:21 AM
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I am newer here, but I think I can field this one. Most people (including psychologists) believe sexual orientation, gender identity, etc. are predominantly influenced by biology/genetics and secondarily by environment. Most of the people I've seen here at The Red Pill also believe some gender roles are also just as much influenced by biology/genetics. From a behavioral standpoint that would mean that for most women being the recipient of a male's protection, provision, commitment is somewhat ha…
/r/TheRedPill06/12/13 08:54 PM
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I agree with you that the article itself may not be helpful - that RP men should just do what they want to do and not worry about a woman's feels - but it is still a good topic to discuss to know how to respond when you just can't get off. Personally, I like throwwhathere's suggestion above: "Awww, babe, I just gotta teach you how to do it better."
/r/TheRedPill06/12/13 03:40 PM
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This is great and shows me exactly how far I have to go in changing my thinking. It never occurred to me to "nicely" blame the girl.
/r/TheRedPill06/12/13 03:37 PM
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It gets worse: The fact that 50% did not get divorced does NOT mean those men are "happily married." There are many of those men in relationships where their spouse is an emotional (and probably financial) drain, but for one reason or another they choose to stay in the relationship. So, the chances of a marriage being "successful" are more like 1 in 4 or even less.
/r/TheRedPill01/12/13 12:47 PM
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I wasn't suggesting more surveys, I was suggesting using existing surveys research and reanalyzing the data. It's one of the principle ways Sociology studies are done today - there is a wealth of research already completed that can likely do a better job of unearthing your answers than a poorly randomized, small group study. Edit: research not surveys
/r/TheRedPill26/11/13 05:56 PM
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Good advice. Thanks for the input.
/r/askTRP26/11/13 01:35 AM
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Methodology is everything here and I think you're looking at too broad a subject to confirm/deny anything. Here's why: There are many claims central to TRP and each one would have to be evaluated differently. You can simply not effectively use self-reporting. The amount of data necessary to confirm/deny even one TRP claim would typically involve dozens of randomized participants observed over a long period of time - if a TRP claim is true, it takes years to verify or deny. Just 1 or even a dozen…
/r/TheRedPill25/11/13 08:28 PM
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I like her. I enjoy the casual feeling I get around her-no pressure, etc. "very much" is a non-specific term. I would say she is far more in to me than I am to her, but that's her choice. I have been up front with her (which is why she probably wasn't surprised when I didn't respond.) If she gets sick of me, she'll walk. That's OK. I will miss her, but I am not ready to start adjusting my lifestyle so someone won't leave. It's not where I am. A few weeks ago I had one of the girls I was dating r…
/r/askTRP25/11/13 06:39 PM
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Thanks for the reply. No, she's not a dick. Didn't mean to imply she was. She has gotten a little clingy before, but she calmed down. Just asking about how to reconnect, but it seems like just need to set up a time with her. No muss, no fuss.
/r/askTRP25/11/13 05:24 PM
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Thanks for the reply. Because she works at odd hours, she doesn't typically know more than a few days or so ahead if she will be available. That's one of the reasons this was an issue anyway. But once I know when she we will available again, this might be a good plan.
/r/askTRP25/11/13 05:05 PM
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Thanks for the reply. I typically let her know a few days in advance when I will be seeing her. This weekend was a little unusual and I didn't know until Saturday morning whether I would be available at all, let alone deciding if I wanted to see her or not. If she had wanted to watch the PPV with me, I would have told her she wasn't invited. Which she wasn't.
/r/askTRP25/11/13 04:56 PM
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Wow, you got me.
/r/TheRedPill22/11/13 01:34 AM
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Has anyone put the previous domain (whatever it is) into Amazon's Way Back Machine? It's possible all the content is archived. I would do it, but I don't know the URL to use.
/r/TheRedPill22/11/13 12:55 AM
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Sure.
/r/TheRedPill21/11/13 10:38 PM
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It's pretty non-alpha to have to announce to everyone how alpha you are - even if your "brown pill truth" is actually true. It makes one look weak and needy. You would do better off to demonstrate your alphaness here by your comments and instruction.
/r/TheRedPill21/11/13 10:12 PM
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I don't use the app to make calls, I have it tied to my cell so when I click "quick dial" it uses my cell to make the call and it doesn't go over wifi so I haven't seen lag, etc. I haven't had any problems with it using in that manner.
/r/TheRedPill21/11/13 06:51 AM
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It was late and I was tired.
/r/TheRedPill21/11/13 06:02 AM
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I was corrected on this elsewhere in the thread. You cannot SEND pics from an ATT phone to a Google Voice number.
/r/TheRedPill21/11/13 05:34 AM
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Hmmm...that may be. I am on ATT, but I don't think I have ever tried to send a pic to a Google Voice number. Edit: Wait, I think I have and I might be wrong that it was delivered. Ima check right now to see if I can. Edit 2: Yup, /u/puaSenator is certainly correct. You can not send pics from an ATT # to a GV #
/r/TheRedPill21/11/13 05:16 AM
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OK, first the audience here is almost completely male, making the assumption I was addressing males makes sense. Secondly, having their number blocked is simply one way of ignoring a person. Why is this such an issue for you? You've said blocking a number is "cowardly" then acted as if I (or anyone) was saying WOMEN ARE SO CLINGY. Seriously, chill.
/r/TheRedPill21/11/13 04:58 AM
1

I've not had that issue, but you might be correct. It could be the women who have sent me pics were all on the "right" networks.
/r/TheRedPill21/11/13 04:54 AM
1

I am on AT&T and have been getting photos for a few months. It doesn't have anything to do with the carrier - it goes to Google who puts it into my email as an attachment. To send photos, you can reply to a text you have received using the number it came in on and it will send photos. You just have to initiate the text like a regular text message, not using the Google Voice app.
/r/TheRedPill21/11/13 04:52 AM
1

I'm on AT&T, but it has nothing to do with the carrier. It comes thru Google. Correction: Some carriers do not allow you to send pics to a GV #.
/r/TheRedPill21/11/13 04:50 AM
5

Sometimes just telling a girl you don't want to see them any more doesn't stop them calling/texting. You are assuming everyone is rational.
/r/TheRedPill21/11/13 04:49 AM
2

I can send you a screen shot of my gmail. It might be a setting I have different than you have, but when someone texts me a pic to my GV #, it is sent to my email as an attachment.
/r/TheRedPill21/11/13 02:54 AM
9

Right...we should only share tips that can be applied equally, everywhere, by everyone. Who pissed in your Cheerios?
/r/TheRedPill21/11/13 02:46 AM
4

Yeah, cause there's only tens of millions of single men in the US.
/r/TheRedPill21/11/13 02:43 AM
2

Beats me.
/r/TheRedPill21/11/13 02:42 AM
0

I get pics from girls there regularly. They show up as attachments to the "SMS to email" thing.
/r/TheRedPill21/11/13 02:42 AM
5

I hadn't seen any comments about it. Didn't know it was common knowledge.
/r/TheRedPill21/11/13 01:35 AM
3

Photos will be sent to the email account associated with the Google Voice account.
/r/TheRedPill21/11/13 01:35 AM
13

When I go down on a woman, it is because I enjoy it. But I don't become a vibrator stand-in. I am in control. I tease her and tell her when she can cum. When I can tell she is getting close, I'll tell her she can't come yet. It's not an act or "trying to appear alpha," it's just the way I enjoy it.
/r/TheRedPill20/11/13 09:10 PM
3

I'm not sure what this demonstrates. Did they test for and control for other factors like the self-confidence of the husband? A more self-confident man is likely to marry a more attractive woman, but he is also likely to be more satisfied with life in general. Did they control for career/income? A more financially successful man is likely to have a more attractive wife, but financial success might also make him more satisfied. I skimmed the article, and didn't see these things addressed.
/r/TheRedPill20/11/13 07:17 PM
1

Unless he leverages it for more benefit, I would agree.
/r/TheRedPill20/11/13 06:40 PM
2

You need to leverage the time with those "rental girls" to maximize the return on your investment. I would get lots of pics. Maybe a smart phone video or two. Stuff you can post to social media (if that's a part of your "thing".) I would probably have them bring a couple changes of clothes and go to various venues, all of you changing clothes in between. This gives you lots of social proof you can drip out into media gradually. Also, get a freakin' model release.
/r/TheRedPill20/11/13 06:39 PM
1

Great tips, thanks.
/r/TheRedPill20/11/13 02:23 PM
2

I think there are times when a guy needs to be completely upfront about what he wants from the girl I am having a hard time thinking of a situation when he shouldn't be upfront. Shouldn't we let her know almost immediately we want to bed her? Enlighten me if I am missing something. After a breakup or divorce the women will be on the lookout for her next beta provider. But this time she is almost guaranteed a higher status beta. In essence she will one-up her self by using the resources of her pr…
/r/TheRedPill20/11/13 01:23 PM
2

Great idea. It would also, likely, give me more opportunities to "practice" instead of doing local stuff. I'll wager a cruise would work as well.
/r/TheRedPill20/11/13 01:19 PM
3

What's the difference between a joke and 3 dicks? Shante Cosme can't take a joke.
/r/TheRedPill20/11/13 10:36 AM
26

One of the things I am trying hard to make an unconscious competence is this: There are always hot women you can fuck for free. I still have to remind myself about this, but it is something I am striving to make second nature. One of my goals is to fuck a woman who I have not spent a single dime on. I have been spoiled by having the funds to take women out to a nice dinner, maybe live music or a band. I want to learn to not lean on that "crutch."
/r/TheRedPill20/11/13 01:33 AM
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Google Cache: http://webcache.googleusercontent.com/search?q=cache:http://www.returnofkings.com/21313/5-reasons-to-date-a-girl-with-an-eating-disorder
/r/TheRedPill20/11/13 01:22 AM
3

Older guy (50) here... First, you asked for advice for a "mid-30's married woman" so it sounds as if you have one person in mind. What one individual woman will find appealing varies widely, so what might work in general may not work with a specific woman. Second, focusing on one woman (even a single one) is likely somewhat of a delusion on your part. For a confident, older man, there are many women who will be interested in him. All shapes and sizes. Focusing all your intention and attention on…
/r/askTRP18/11/13 02:45 AM
2

Raquel Welch is 73 - just because she likely still has solid SMV doesn't mean all 73 year olds do.
/r/TheRedPill18/11/13 02:35 AM
1

Whatever.
/r/TheRedPill11/11/13 02:55 AM
1

I don't know if I am a good judge of that because I haven't dated in 34ish years until now. The first month I was on eHarmony I took out 7 women. 3 of those were much uglier or fatter in person than they appeared in their pics, so they never got beyond coffee. 1 I just didn't enjoy and couldn't connect with, so I didn't take her out again. The remaining 3 I continued to date and slept with. One was a blonde who is a terrible dresser but is pretty and has an awesome body. One is a redhead who hav…
/r/TheRedPill11/11/13 12:33 AM
1

I completely agree. This is one of the reasons why some of the things I read here about "game" are tough for me to apply to my situation.
/r/TheRedPill10/11/13 11:43 PM
1

Not one woman I have set a date with via eHarmony has flaked. I have so far slept with each one I desired to sleep with after meeting her. A couple took several dates to make that happen. But I don't know how it would work for someone who is younger, I am 50.
/r/TheRedPill10/11/13 11:42 PM
4

50 year old guy here... Every women I have met through eHarmony that I have taken on at least one date was willing to sleep with me.
/r/TheRedPill10/11/13 03:07 PM
2

So I was called up for jury duty a couple years ago. I was chosen for the jury pool (meaning I was selected to possibly be on the jury for a trial.) It was a child porn on computer trial. The defense attorney was asking the jury questions to make sure they were fit. Part of his questions made it obvious he had no clue how cookies work. He thought cookies could only be added to your computer if you "actively" accepted them. There is no way he was going to represent his client well in that case. Y…
/r/TheRedPill10/11/13 08:17 AM
3

After a few years of hearing how the legal system here actually operates, all "within the limits of the law," I seriously have fear of ever being arrested for anything. People go to jail for "short" periods of time not because they are guilty, but because the risk of trial is so huge. Would you rather do 1 year or 20? The number of other things that go on here (and I suspect elsewhere) are amazing. Until I became friends with a few local attorneys I would have never believed what goes on. Withho…
/r/TheRedPill10/11/13 07:54 AM
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You are assuming the justice system everywhere works as intended. I know a criminal defense attorney in my state well. This is how it would go down where I live: Man is accused of rape. Prosecutor goes through computer (probably with man's permission - he has nothing to hide - or possibly with a search warrant.) Prosecutor and his attorney have a meeting (note: Accused is not present here.) Prosecutor says "well, if you go to trial, I going for the max sentence - look at all the incriminating th…
/r/TheRedPill09/11/13 05:36 PM
2

This is from her blog - http://www.lifeofatrophywife.com/about-me/
/r/TheRedPill07/11/13 11:34 PM
11

it just knows how it has specifically been caught before It thinks it knows. It often does not, correct?
/r/TheRedPill05/11/13 02:21 AM
1

Yet you spend most of your time on reddit posting porn. Go to askwomen and see if they think porn is demeaning and objectifying to women. You are not a feminist.
/r/askTRP04/11/13 04:33 AM
1

My other comment was the basis for my comment. You spend most of your reddit time posting pictures of Japanese school girl porn. Hardly a feminist. If you took time to read the blog posts, you would find many of them are based on and link to peer reviewed studies.
/r/askTRP04/11/13 04:30 AM
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The studies are fairly common. Because I have begun to think you are a confused insincere child, I won't take the time to look them up for you, but if you truly want to, do some Google Scholar searches or just hang around lurking on TRP for a while and you will find them.
/r/askTRP04/11/13 04:20 AM
1

But you, on a personal level, objectify and sexualize women, exploiting sex workers, correct? Doesn't that reflect a complete lack of empathy for women? The reason I ask is because I suspect you already believe some tenets of TRP are likely true and wish they really didn't apply to you.
/r/askTRP04/11/13 04:18 AM
1

Pretty ambiguous. I would like to see you address a more specific and integral tenet like "woman in general find alpha males more appealing sexually" or "women are more interested in a male sexually when he is stoic." When you say "act in the way TRP encourages him to act" what exactly are you referring to? I have some ideas, but I am curious how you see, with your limited exposure, how TRP tells men to act.
/r/askTRP04/11/13 03:44 AM
1

I don't think I have ever used the words "average red piller." I tend to think the "ARP" (we'll use that acronym because I think it's kinda cool) WOULD mock or shame someone who they perceived as choosing to be a beta. The more mature RPer would likely remind the feminist man about peer reviewed studies regarding gender roles and differences, about the illogical application of the law to the irrational and illogical lines of thought going through modern feminism and then encourage that person to…
/r/askTRP04/11/13 03:40 AM
1

If you wish to discredit or verify things taught on TRP, start out a new discussion about a specific assertion you believe is incorrect. You might be right, but you also may find many here replying with reputable, peer-reviewed studies demonstrating the veracity of the thing being taught. You may also/instead be given anecdotal evidence which you will need to evaluate. For example: Are women in general more attracted to an "alpha" (defined as...) as opposed to a "beta" (defined as...) Since you …
/r/askTRP04/11/13 03:26 AM
1

I am not being disingenuous, though I can see how you may think I am. One large portion of TRP is covering successful mating strategy. In my mind it makes sense because passing on our genes is one of the few evolutionary imperatives we have. A pretty basic tenet of TRP is that women are attracted to an alpha male for the same evolutionary reasons a man is attracted to a high hip-to-waist ratio. (Understand I am intentionally generalizing here.) When people come to TRP asking how to be more alpha…
/r/askTRP04/11/13 03:09 AM
2

Of course they can. They often are. Intellectually honest people are able to hear conflicting viewpoints and data and consider whether their view needs to change to meet the facts.
/r/askTRP04/11/13 03:01 AM
1

I was using that limited analogy to help break through some of the obvious prejudice in your statements. Your lack of understanding of how psychology works holds you back from seeing this in any objective way. If you can come up with a better framework, I am completely for it. I have studied human behavior for decades and find TRP theory to be helpful in understanding and predicting human behavior. Sometimes it goes too far and suffers from confirmation bias or indulges in misogyny, but for the …
/r/askTRP04/11/13 02:58 AM
1

Have you not found my replies reasonable? Whether they are persuasive is up for debate - many have found a great deal of help here, that doesn't make the things they learned true. I have been able to see the logic behind much of the things people "teach" here, but because this is an unformal setting, the supporting documentation is rarely quoted when it is a topic that is often covered here.
/r/askTRP04/11/13 02:47 AM
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That's exactly how I understood your point. TRP is certainly NOT normative in that no one is telling anyone here how to behave. Often people will come here and ask "yes, but what it the RIGHT thing to do in this situation?" The answer is almost always "whatever is right for you." The red pill does not teach a certain behavior. TRP tries to present a view of the world as it really is, rather than as it is often presented to be, specifically in the area of human sexual relations. The information o…
/r/askTRP04/11/13 02:45 AM
1

They are obviously not. One is based on hard, measurable, testable science. The other is based on observed and self-reported human behavior. The conclusions and theory applied in RP are based on the same type of observation used daily by therapists around the world to assess clients. There is a huge difference between psychology and physics.
/r/askTRP04/11/13 02:38 AM
1

To what end?
/r/askTRP04/11/13 02:13 AM
1

There is no question TRP is not and does not present itself as a normative theory, unless you are using that term in a way I am not familiar with. TRP is not about what we believe "should" happen, it is much more about what does happen. In that sense it makes predictions and encourages actions based on an understanding of sexual evolution. TRP is obviously flawed (as almost everything built on the foundation of evolutionary psychology), but it provides solid, practical tactics for navigating mal…
/r/askTRP04/11/13 02:12 AM
1

Is the theory of gravity "true"? Well, no. Right now it is the best mathematical model we have and so until something better comes along, we operate as if it were true. It works so well to describe things like the interaction of planets, assuming it is true allows us to do things like shoot a probe around a planet to give it momentum to get further into space without using as much fuel. TRP is the best explanation of how men and women interact. It is not perfect. It is not even falsifiable in th…
/r/askTRP04/11/13 02:07 AM
1

TRP, to me, is more like moral particularism. TRP gives an individual the ability to see things from a hopefully realistic perspective. This allows one to look at a particular circumstance and make a conscious decision about what is the "right" or "moral" thing to do based on all of his personal values and understandings. Some people try to codify any new information they receive. "This is always to handle X" or "you should never do Y". This typically comes form a narrow understanding of the sub…
/r/askTRP04/11/13 02:03 AM
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I was 5'10", 170, lifted heavy 3 days a week, 3 mi 3-4 days a week. I ate 6 meals a day with a strict 40-30-30 pattern, made up of "real food" including veggies with the exception of post workout (no sugar) shakes. I was having low sugar crashes 1-3x a day. I was also waking up 4-5x a night. Felt like shit. Went to the doctor. He advised me to monitor my blood sugar and then bring the data back. I did. Fasting averaged low 80's, never went above 120, but typically an hour or so after eating it w…
/r/TheRedPill02/11/13 10:06 PM
3

Thanks for posting this!
/r/TheRedPill02/11/13 09:49 PM
3

what demographics are seen as the least sexually attractive Do you have a link to the study or article you are referring to? I would like to read it.
/r/TheRedPill02/11/13 08:23 PM
1

Identify "they" and "studies" before you accuse someone of rationalizations. Google Scholar is your bitch too.
/r/TheRedPill02/11/13 04:42 PM
1

I think the commercials for NFL merch and for brands appealing to women are telling. Notice they all put the product and the woman in a place where she is viewed by men. Otherwise: This product will make you more appealing to men. Now, look at the commercials for men. Some of them include women, but in most cases, they are the accessory. The men aren't wearing the jersey or drinking the beer to attract their attention. In fact, many commercials show only men with no women at all.
/r/TheRedPill02/11/13 04:40 PM
2

The popularity of this commercial would indicate it is already normalized in the mind of the populace.
/r/TheRedPill02/11/13 04:29 PM
2

There is a false belief that advertising and media drive cultural change. That is a misnomer. Advertising and media reflect change. If this is a popular message in India it is because the populous already affirms this view and this commercial is simply an affirmation of what they already believe.
/r/TheRedPill02/11/13 04:22 PM
2

Actually, I gotta agree with Haraklus here. After being in business for most of my life, pursuing the things money can provide is a great way to get poor - you end up rewarding yourself far too soon to build any lasting wealth. Focusing on building a growing net worth will allow you to have everything, not just appear to have everything. Edit: There is a Chris Rock bit about how blacks might get rich, but they will never be wealthy until they care more about their investment portfolio than the r…
/r/TheRedPill02/11/13 04:13 PM
2

I have a good friend who is a recent state beauty contestant. She is 5'10", blonde, beautiful, tanned and toned. She gets asked the same question, repeatedly. Heck, for that matter, women I date often ask "where do you get your confidence?" I guess it's just how average people respond to confident people. I am NOT a non-white, overweight woman.
/r/TheRedPill02/11/13 03:40 PM
5

As an older guy I might be better off saying "Why would I keep count?" the frat guy thing might be a little dated.
/r/askTRP01/11/13 04:10 PM
4

Only the ones who got a second date.
/r/askTRP01/11/13 04:06 PM
3

Does this dynamic change when you are older (50) and she is late 30's? Isn't a big part of your attraction that you are the successful one in the relationship? Edit: I realized after asking this, the answer is NO. It has just been an easy way for me to get women to sleep with me. I need to have better game.
/r/TheRedPill01/11/13 09:49 AM
1

I think US society has gotten to a point where you can have children with a woman, have a home, but maintain your own, separate "space" and never be married or suffer the consequences of marriage.
/r/TheRedPill31/10/13 11:59 PM
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The big takeaway from this is for any of us is one question: What are you doing right now, today, be be Jay?
/r/TheRedPill31/10/13 11:29 PM
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only men are usually able to feel safe walking down the street at night. Do you have data to back up the idea that women should NOT feel safe or that all people, regardless of gender, should not feel safe? It seems to me feelings can often be irrational and your comment seems more like it is based on a certain world-view rather than data.
/r/RedPillWomen30/10/13 12:35 PM
2

You first.
/r/TheRedPill30/10/13 11:27 AM
2

Which is my point - why? Why do I want to spend time convincing these women of anything? Why are these women worth my charity? I understand that on some level you want to save them, but will it get any of us anywhere closer to our goals? Why do you care about "saving" these women?
/r/TheRedPill30/10/13 04:00 AM
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Why would I want to waste my time on a woman who I will never see and never fuck?
/r/TheRedPill30/10/13 03:48 AM
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"You shouldn't feel safe with me."
/r/askTRP30/10/13 02:12 AM
6

So, that was serious? OK, well then...
/r/TheRedPill29/10/13 10:21 PM
1

Good point. Though I would counter that it is not as much about true potential costs to public freedom v. benefits to society as it is determined most often by public outcry. Male circumcision will likely not be banned until a majority of men in the US have not been circumcised. Right now the attitude is still more of "eh? what's the big deal?" Female circumcision seemed barbaric when it came to the forefront in the US not long ago because most women in the US had not ever been exposed to the id…
/r/TheRedPill29/10/13 08:33 PM
4

You forgot the sarcasm tag
/r/TheRedPill29/10/13 08:16 PM
2

I meant to reply to you, because I thought you were trying to - like many in this thread - say male circumcision is so much less harmful therefore it is OK. My apologies, I stand corrected. My knee jerked.
/r/TheRedPill29/10/13 05:24 PM
8

Complete this sentence: "Involuntary genital mutilation of baby boys should be legal because..."
/r/TheRedPill29/10/13 05:02 PM
2

So it's OK to do to boys because doing it to girls is much worse? Does that argument make sense to you?
/r/TheRedPill29/10/13 04:59 PM
1

Not to argue, but you are making a comparison. You're saying, "yes, but, female circumcision is worse." So what? We should be allowed to do genital mutilation as long as it isn't too bad? That's my point.
/r/TheRedPill29/10/13 04:59 PM
1

So it's not as bad so it must be good?
/r/TheRedPill29/10/13 02:45 PM
3

While Jews might say "this is a tradition" rather than "this is a commandment" the same law and tradition that at one time commanded genocide also commands circumcision. There are other facets of the Law (such as capital punishment for adultery or blasphemy) that you allow man's law and reason to supersede. Why not genital mutilation? Society moved on and realized capital punishment for blasphemy was inconsistent with humanity. You no longer have that option of obedience to your law/tradition in…
/r/TheRedPill29/10/13 02:44 PM
2

How do you feel about clitoral mutilation? Should we allow those who think that's a good idea for their daughters mutilate them?
/r/TheRedPill29/10/13 01:52 PM
5

Saul was rejected as king because he refused to follow G-d's command to commit genocide. David became king because he chose to commit genocide. Just because an ancient text tells you to do something does not make it reasonable. To mutilate an 8 day old child because Moses said so is not a standard anyone outside of Judaism can respect any more than they can accept G-d ordained genocide.
/r/TheRedPill29/10/13 01:50 PM
2

If you focus on advancing your career and having an amazing life, you'll have chicks. If you focus on chicks, you'll not only lose your career and amazing life, you'll ultimately lose the chicks as well.
/r/TheRedPill29/10/13 02:25 AM
4

Rare individuals have intellectual honesty and their ego is more tied up in that than in proving themselves right. Those people are more concerned with finding the truth - even uncomfortable truth - than making sure others are impressed with their "rightness."
/r/TheRedPill28/10/13 07:33 PM
5

Most people don't seek the truth. ...most people seek confirmation of what they already believe in the name of seeking truth.
/r/TheRedPill28/10/13 06:36 PM
7

Single men are already taxed at a higher rate than married men. While some would argue that single women are also taxed at a higher rate, consider the disparity between single women's income and single men's income.
/r/TheRedPill27/10/13 12:39 PM
9

Men going their own way. Men who have given up on women (or, in some cases, pursuing relationships with women) and doing their own thing.
/r/TheRedPill27/10/13 01:43 AM
1

I am sure it is possible. I am not sure it is possible for you in particular or any individual. You would have to gain enough wisdom and insight to see what causes your mother to act the way she does (not simply the actions themselves) and then have no sympathy for those same thought patterns in yourself over the long haul. It's not easy. I compare it with a man overcoming narcissism. If you read the literature on the topic, it will tell you therapy probably would help, but because of the partic…
/r/TheRedPill26/10/13 09:02 PM
1

I didn't mean to belittle your honest question, I thought you were questioning the validity of the observation. Here is an example from my ex-wife and my marriage: Her mother was enough to drive anyone around her nuts. She had a way of doing things that would cleverly manipulate while giving the appearance of innocence. It wasn't just once in a while, it was ongoing. She would create situations where you had to either do what she wished or be confrontational. Over time, in that household, it jus…
/r/TheRedPill26/10/13 06:15 PM
1

Wow, seriously? Other than my ex and my sister and my mother and my aunt? Anyone who is any student of human behavior has seen this pattern over and over again.
/r/TheRedPill26/10/13 11:19 AM
1

You aren't marrying the hot 20-something who is all balanced and says she hates how her mother acts, you're marrying the hot 20-something who, in her mind, operates just like her mother though she fails to see it. You won't see it either, until you're both 40ish. One day you wake up and think "Jeez. She's just like her mother."
/r/TheRedPill26/10/13 11:17 AM
2

With most of the porn she is in, I'm sure that's true. I know most have porn they have shot themselves they can offer. Julia Hayes (a top earner at one time) comes to mind as someone who had her own site stocked with schlocky homemade porn.
/r/TheRedPill25/10/13 11:31 PM
6

I am fat, bald and 50 and I was surprised when I became single again how women in their 40's throw themselves at me now that I am single. Confidence goes a long way.
/r/TheRedPill25/10/13 09:30 PM
4

I wonder about their mothers (now in their 50's - 60's.) Did they not counsel their daughters? I only had sons, so I can't truly relate, but I wonder a little if the moms were kind of on board with the whole thing. They were vicariously riding the carousel with their daughters. I will need to ponder this one more as I think about the mothers I know in that age range with daughters. I can think of at least one that has amazed me with the way she has whored our her daughter. But that might be an e…
/r/TheRedPill25/10/13 09:28 PM
4

This requires some intimacy or some keen observation. If you are dating a woman and go into the bathroom and see used pads/tampons in the trash or a box of such when there normally isn't one, she's probably going to be ovulating 10-14 days later. If you aren't able to observe a woman's bathroom or have other cues, observe the way she dresses. When a woman is ovulating, she will dress more provocatively than when she is not. It's not foolproof by any means, but it can certainly be an indicator. C…
/r/TheRedPill25/10/13 09:16 PM
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Consider: You are an aging porn star who can no longer make a living in the adult industry. You were not famous enough to make serious bank and you have no career. Any career you MIGHT have had has been seriously jeopardized by your naked hoochie being all over the internet. Solution? Become a crusader against porn. Organizations will pay you handsomely to come speak on the evils of porn. That may not be what she is doing, it is probably what I would do. Edit: In fact, I might even start a porn …
/r/TheRedPill25/10/13 09:03 PM
2

Was that one of the OKC blog posts? If so, can you link it? I have been looking for actual data relating to the 80/20 principle, but have been coming up with the same things over and over again.
/r/TheRedPill25/10/13 08:58 PM
3

Earlier today I was on Google Scholar looking for similar studies. I had trouble finding those. Can you point me to some of these studies?
/r/TheRedPill25/10/13 08:55 PM
4

I am bald because I prefer to be bald. It makes working out easier, it makes cleaning up easier, it makes getting ready to go somewhere easier. I'm not going to grow my thinning hair out and take care of it every day just so some woman who I don't really care about finds it attractive.
/r/TheRedPill25/10/13 08:09 PM
1

Anti-psychologists... well, Psychology isn't very often considered "scientific" itself. This needs to be amplified. Psychology and especially evolutionary psychology are often a series of guess work. Because controlled studies of human beings are considered unethical, we have to depend on trends and self-reporting much of the time. While those can be enlightening, they are often difficult to precisely explain and often fall victim to various human logical errors in interpretation.
/r/askTRP25/10/13 07:04 PM
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Actually it confronts what many here believe and is based solely on the research from the article. I am giving women the benefit of the doubt that their rape allegations are sincere - they actually believe they were raped - because on an intellectual level they believe they would never have consensual sex under those circumstances, partially because they are unaware of their sexual desire. Based on what I have read here, most seem to believe it is a much more conscious choice. But feel free to e…
/r/TheRedPill24/10/13 07:37 PM
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This would also seem to explain "sincere" regret rape allegations. In her mind she is convinced she would never had sex with that guy, or in that way, or at that time, because on a conscious level she wasn't aware of how her body desired him in a primal way. The next day she says "I would never have consented, therefore I must not have consented. Rape."
/r/TheRedPill24/10/13 06:36 PM
6

I recently separated at 50 and I can tell you two things - I don't know if they will be helpful or distressing: First, we had a great sex life. She would do what I wanted, the way I wanted, wearing what I wanted (or not wearing) pretty much any time. She had maintained her looks and she looked good. I had no complaints there. Second, once we separated and I began having sex with other women, I found that there were not only many women willing to have sex with me, but they were also younger and e…
/r/askTRP23/10/13 11:30 PM
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This has always been true with science, though we remember it from the Dark Ages because a number of discoveries were later accepted and the scientists vindicated by posterity. If one attempts to publish research that goes against the current accepted norms, it is always initially rejected. Every discipline has its own statements of faith and it is difficult to get someone in those disciplines to even consider ideas outside of the accepted norm.
/r/TheRedPill23/10/13 12:44 AM
2

Some time in the last 25 years or so, marriage stopped being a benefit for the man. If he wants to have children and be active in their lives, he no longer needs to be married to their mother. The benefits of a long term relationship can still be there with the mother (or other, subsequent women) without the financial risk.
/r/TheRedPill13/10/13 02:12 PM
1

If I am meeting someone for the first time in real life who I have already texted with and talked to by phone, I will kiss her on the cheek.
/r/seduction12/10/13 10:59 PM
0

In your case, you are not sending your children to a school for many hours a day. You have more children than the average mother. But to say that most women who are SAHM work hard is ridiculous. Once the kids are in school, there is nothing for them to do. I will even take it one step further-and if you are a part of a homeshcool group I'll wager you will agree-there are plenty of homeschooling moms who are also lazy. We homeschooled for several years and I was amazed at the ways a number of the…
/r/TheRedPill11/10/13 09:51 PM
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Once your kids are in school, full time mothering is pretty much for lazy women. I say that without reservation. Housework should take no more than an hour or possibly 2 a day. Feel free to disagree, and I will be happy to defend my position.
/r/TheRedPill11/10/13 05:17 PM
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Thanks for the comment. The reason I asked was simply because this is a "featured article" on the sidebar. It reads too much like fiction to me.
/r/TheRedPill11/10/13 01:57 PM
6

I just read "Dinner with Michael" from the sidebar. While it does present many of the red pill ideas, it reads to me like a made up story from someone who is experiencing rejection from women at a young age and was imagining what his future will be like. Am I the only one who thinks this? Has this story been in any way vetted?
/r/TheRedPill11/10/13 10:52 AM
0

All I can see when I look at her is Eric Roberts.
/r/TheRedPill10/10/13 11:54 PM
1

50/5'10"/260/bald eHarmony: Awesome. Most women engaged through the communication process and I had very few who did not respond. It was easy to move into a first date quickly and, because I tend to do well on a first date, get physical intimacy pretty quickly. POF: Terrible. Couple responses, but it's like everyone wants a chat fest. Unappealing women contacted me, but they're unappealing...
/r/askTRP10/10/13 11:28 PM
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More realistically: "I was drinking/drunk" "I was afraid to say no" "Boyfriend was ignoring me" "I was feeling vulnerable and I just gave in to my feelings" "I never do this kind of thing" "It was a really confusing time in my life" "I was abused as a child" etc.
/r/TheRedPill08/10/13 05:43 PM
6

You may not be a whore, but you're wearing the uniform. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8K1KHqi9bXc
/r/TheRedPill08/10/13 05:37 PM
79

Why thank you. Come here often?
/r/seduction08/10/13 05:15 PM
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I don't think so. She's telling herself "she only wants him as a friend, not for sex" but it's just her rationalization for having him around to "accidentally" have sex with him.
/r/TheRedPill08/10/13 05:13 PM
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I'm sure you have seen this, but if not, enjoy IT'S NOT ABOUT THE NAIL: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-4EDhdAHrOg
/r/TheRedPill08/10/13 05:12 PM
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I really like the way you set up that comment. First you made sure to say you were a woman-which gave me context. Next you gave specifics. That made me think you had put a great deal of effort into giving the rest of us understanding, not just throwing something out there. Finally ending with "my two cents" makes you sound humble and able to have people nicely disagree with you. <cue easy conversation>
/r/seduction08/10/13 04:49 PM
1

Someone else here a couple weeks ago replied this way: "I only do that for girls I'm sleeping with."
/r/TheRedPill08/10/13 03:25 PM
1

I enjoyed it and profited from it, but to each his own.
/r/seduction06/10/13 08:09 PM
2

Read The Book of Pook. It really helped me to realize my focus has to be on me and not on women.
/r/seduction06/10/13 05:13 PM
2

Yeah, I came upon this over the past 2 weeks. Spinning 4 plates meant that I had to work at this daily, and it was hurting my life in other areas. I have now cut way back and put women at a much lower priority in my life. I do what I want to do.
/r/seduction06/10/13 05:13 PM
1

I'm not some kind of expert here-many are far better than me-but I also make it clear during texts and phone calls that I am interested in them sexually. That sets the stage.
/r/seduction05/10/13 02:55 AM
3

I have typically talked and texted with a woman prior to meeting her in person. When she arrives I kiss her on the cheek as if it is always how I greet a date. I have only been dating for a couple months, but have done this with about a dozen dates without incident. Then, when the date ends, I always kiss them goodbye on the lips. This might be harder for a guy in his 20's, I am a guy who just turned 50. Maybe that makes a difference, though I doubt it. I'm not awkward and I present as confident…
/r/seduction05/10/13 12:47 AM
1

But to some extent, isn't game mostly charisma-which is a social skill one should learn while improving oneself? "Acting alpha" is how to succeed in a myriad of arenas, not simply in the mating game. To succeed in business I've had to learn and use many of the same techniques that I am now reading about in the world of seduction. If one is working on self improvement but discounts social improvement, that's a huge hole. Maybe I'm missing something here, feel free to advise me.
/r/TheRedPill05/10/13 12:08 AM
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I start the first date with a kiss.
/r/seduction04/10/13 10:22 PM
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I am 50. Markus, the founder, recently said that they would no longer allow me to choose to be matched with anyone more than 15 years younger, because that's just about sex. Dating is just about sex, everything else is smoke and mirrors. It's either about women trying to trade sex for commitment or men trying to trade commitment for sex.
/r/TheRedPill03/10/13 10:45 PM
1

How old is "a bit older"? The reason I ask is because I want to follow up with guys who are older. I'm 50 and the way I live is far different than it would be for a guy who's 30.
/r/TheRedPill03/10/13 10:28 PM
2

Yup, I agree. A woman who is 5'9" and 145 is much different than a woman who is 5' 2" and 145.
/r/TheRedPill03/10/13 07:19 PM
11

Dating sites are for women to find men, not visa-versa. You know how I know? They ask for height but not weight. Think about it. You can say you're athletic or average or thin or BBW, but nobody says "how much do you weigh." It would be a super helpful stat.
/r/TheRedPill03/10/13 01:28 AM
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I wonder if the genders were reversed if this would have been appalling to the Ted crowd? "I hacked online dating and got the smokin' hot, submissive 25 year old of my dreams after turning down 1,000 ugly ones."
/r/TheRedPill02/10/13 07:53 PM
2

I dated a girl who used to say "don't, stop" in a teasing way and then changed it to "don't stop" while we were going at it.
/r/TheRedPill02/10/13 04:51 PM
1

48 Laws prepared me for TRP before I even knew there was a RP.
/r/askTRP02/10/13 04:18 PM
1

Online has proved to be a great way for me to meet women in real life who I then sleep with, but there are some things I have discovered that may only apply to me (50/Bald/5'10"/260lbs.) These tips don't exactly answer questions about your profile, but once you start talking to girls via your profile, they may help you sleep with some of them: Different sites are different. eHarmony was great for me because the women I met there saw me as "scientifically selected" for them. I also am on PlentyOf…
/r/askTRP02/10/13 04:15 PM
1

Thank you for this comment. I was wondering recently about something that happened last week and if I did the appropriate thing with a woman I am sleeping with. We had a date planned for Wednesday evening, but she had family emergency stuff Monday and then late night Tuesday and was beat. Instead of a date, we stayed in, ordered pizza, watched Netflix. No sex, not even any real kissing, just some cuddles. I enjoyed it, but I don't want it to be a common thing.
/r/TheRedPill02/10/13 02:48 PM
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I would be concerned about the lying, not because lying is bad or that she's had so many partners. I would be concerned that she intentionally lied so you would find her more appealing. It would cause me to question what other things she is temporarily doing/saying to cover up who she really is and over time, after marriage, you will see her change into the person she really is rather than the person she was while dating.
/r/TheRedPill02/10/13 11:48 AM
0

I actually thought recording was a good idea, that's why I looked it up to see if it was legal.
/r/TheRedPill01/10/13 11:25 PM
2

In some states this would be illegal. http://www.quickanddirtytips.com/business-career/legal/it-legal-record-conversation
/r/TheRedPill01/10/13 11:02 PM
1

Last Minute Resistance It appears many of us had to look it up.
/r/TheRedPill01/10/13 10:59 PM
2

Last Minute Resistance It appears many of us had to look it up.
/r/TheRedPill01/10/13 10:58 PM
1

I have a number of friends who are millionaires by nature of my business and I don't know any who started out with any significant inheritance or who gained it through being lucky. Microsoft millionaires are an aberration, that type of thing does not happen often.
/r/TheRedPill01/10/13 09:51 PM
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I understood that "less fortunate" is often used as a pc term, I was more pointing out that it also implies these men are "more fortunate" which is an implication I resent. I wasn't clear.
/r/TheRedPill01/10/13 09:17 PM
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"the great majority of our male millionaire members sought non-millionaires,” said Shuster. “It seems that financially independent men want to share their wealth with those less fortunate. With women, the story is much different.” Less fortunate? Did all these men simply inherit wealth or did they build something? The idea that a man is wealth by "good fortune" is laughable and rarely happens. In fact, I suspect it is just as common for a woman to be born into wealth as a man, but it is less lik…
/r/TheRedPill01/10/13 11:18 AM
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I am not an expert on TRP, but I am on conversion (God) and how that affects people. While many people will say conversion has completely changed them, the reality is they are going to have the same reactions and be the same people they were before conversion with some minor changes. For a time a person might act differently through act of will, but eventually their old personality will come to the surface. She may never be promiscuous again, but the same things that caused her to be promiscuous…
/r/askTRP01/10/13 11:05 AM
3

Oops, my comment was removed because I included a link. Yes, I did, and I used it to post to /r/relationships about the affair.
/r/TheRedPill01/10/13 10:46 AM
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That's how I ended up here. Posting about my wife's affair after 30 years and was encourage via PM to check out TRP.
/r/TheRedPill30/09/13 10:56 PM
2

You may be correct. It may even be PROBABLE you are correct, but my sons would have likely made the same statement.
/r/TheRedPill30/09/13 02:26 AM
2

Maybe, or maybe one of them is just compliant and amiable, despite having their life stifled.
/r/TheRedPill30/09/13 01:05 AM
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I would have said the same thing 5 years ago. Make sure you are not in denial about the true state of your marriage. I can elaborate if you want more detail, but once I finally saw my marriage for what it was I was also able to see other long-term marriages have many of the same issues.
/r/TheRedPill30/09/13 01:04 AM
1

Even an internet business can be tough for her people to document.
/r/askTRP30/09/13 12:49 AM
1

If she knows what to expect, she'll find a thrill elsewhere. *Possibly true, unless you have something other than conjecture to base this on (which you may, I just haven't seen it.)
/r/TheRedPill30/09/13 12:32 AM
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That's probably the case. Good clarification.
/r/TheRedPill29/09/13 11:00 PM
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I have a very inside view of this: Church girls are just as promiscuous as non-church girls. I used to do pre-marital counseling in a college town with couples who were getting married in the church. I never met a girl who was getting married who was a virgin and most of them had to deal with their "guilt" over previous sexual partners.
/r/TheRedPill29/09/13 07:34 PM
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Stop trying to discount our feelings with rational thoughts!
/r/TheRedPill29/09/13 01:13 PM
4

My niece, who is working toward her doctorate in sociology, is all into the cisgender stuff. She explained it to me as a way of saying a person fits into their biological gender without having to hurt anyone's feelings with words like "male", "female" and "normal." Basically it's about feelings. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=j9G4J9dSSiE
/r/TheRedPill29/09/13 11:41 AM
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THANKS!
/r/askTRP28/09/13 11:14 PM
2

ZZ Top and George Thorogood and the Destroyers are also good music for mindset.
/r/askTRP28/09/13 10:26 PM
2

I am a good conversationalist and I can guide conversations to areas where the women feel comfortable talking with me about intimate things. I always try to make the conversation heavily sexual without it being creepy. They tell me the kinds of things they like in bed, etc. My first day "dating" again after my separation, I had four dates. I ended up sleeping in the coming weeks with three of those ladies (and I could have with the fourth, but she was crazy.) Some things you might want to know, …
/r/askTRP28/09/13 10:11 PM
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I only got back into dating a few months ago after 30 years of marriage, but I've used TRP stuff to enhance my way with women, though I am seeing women in their early to mid 40's so your mileage may vary. Being dominant and in control is key. Just do it. Don't apologize. For example: One thing I do on a date is pre-order a complete setup when I make the reservation. It's takes an additional 5 minutes, but every woman I've taken out has been super impressed and actually mentioned how impressive i…
/r/askTRP28/09/13 09:56 PM
1

After hiring a number of college graduates over the years, I can assure you an undergraduate degree does not necessarily require a person to be well read, intelligent or even remotely informed.
/r/TheRedPill28/09/13 06:20 PM
2

True, but to present that we should consciously consider each time we drive that we are risking our lives is absurd.* (*Unless you live in Russia.)
/r/TheRedPill28/09/13 06:18 PM
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That seems to me kinda like saying "the risk of driving is death." With modern birth control sex happens thousands (maybe tens of thousands) of times without resultant pregnancy. To assume people who engage in sex should, each time, consider the "risk" of pregnancy is a little absurd. Unprotected sex? Sure. She's not on the pill? Of course. But in most situations between sexually active adults, pregnancy is rarely the outcome. If my logic is flawed, feel free to correct me.
/r/TheRedPill28/09/13 05:35 PM
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Law school question: In some jurisdictions the death penalty does not apply to single murder but it does apply to multiple murder. A woman on the way to an abortion clinic is killed by her boyfriend. He can then, legally, receive the death penalty. If he had killed her AFTER her abortion, he cannot. Does that not mean the law considers a fetus a person?
/r/TheRedPill28/09/13 05:31 PM
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Actually, in the adult industry, there are many women offering the "Girlfriend Experience" or GFE. Realizing men wanted to do more than just get laid, these ladies play the part of surrogate girlfriends.
/r/TheRedPill28/09/13 10:30 AM
1

I gently disagree that feminism hasn't executed people (though I do see your hedge "openly.") I suspect many men have killed themselves either in a short-term fashion (gun) or a long term (alcohol) because of the direct effects of feminism on the women in their lives, the courts and societal expectation.
/r/TheRedPill28/09/13 12:02 AM
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I am new to TRP, but reading Pook really brought this idea home to me: Just do what makes you a better man. Everything else flows to you when you decide to make your only, single priority being a better man.
/r/TheRedPill27/09/13 11:33 PM
0

I am fat, balding and 50. I have good size-I've lifted for a long time-and I have a good jawline under my jowls, though I don't know how pronounced it looks to others. But when I started dating 3 months ago, after a 30 year hiatus, I was surprised that: Women wanted to date me and saw me as a "catch" Women wanted to have sex with me without me doing much of anything in return They typically are bothered that I am seeing other women, but they don't really care Now I am new here, and I am not clai…
/r/TheRedPill27/09/13 11:14 PM
0

Ministers. Don't ask me how I know.
/r/TheRedPill27/09/13 11:10 PM
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One thing I am learning, and I am not saying you really believe any differently, is that improving myself is for myself. If it gets me more women, that's great-provided I wan to give some time to them. If not, that's cool, too. Because I love me more than any potential pussy down the road.
/r/TheRedPill27/09/13 10:42 PM
3

Good point.
/r/TheRedPill27/09/13 06:33 PM
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I am new here, so feel free to correct me, but isn't dating for women a race? They have a very limited time to remain fertile and sexually attractive to men. Yes, I am dating women in their 40's right now, but I am new to the game. I suspect as I refine myself, I will be dating women in their 30's. Women, on the other hand, don't usually have that luxury.
/r/TheRedPill27/09/13 04:45 PM
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In ads we create for our clients, we limit choices to generate more online clicks. Works like a charm. Often we use "act or leave" and it generates far more clicks than "1 or 2?" Edit: Wouldn't this also indicate that when a woman we are interested in believes she faces the choice of "have this guy now" or "lose him forever," fear of loss would move her to take the guy then? Isn't this the value of "walking away" and "having other options"?
/r/TheRedPill27/09/13 04:43 PM
1

I didn't think about that-I knew that, but forgot it. That's a huge difference.
/r/TheRedPill27/09/13 04:22 PM
2

What they TELL you and who they are are two different things, typically. Woman (and most men) tend to tell you they are whatever they see as their own ideal, not as they actually are.
/r/TheRedPill27/09/13 02:32 PM
2

Doesn't the Family Leave Act provide for both sexes?
/r/TheRedPill27/09/13 01:54 PM
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What I have encountered most often doing business with women and having women as employees and contractors is this: They don't like quantifiable accountability. Are there exceptions? Of course. But overall the idea that getting it done is more important than the process to get it done is often lost on them. I have owned several small businesses, all with less than 10 employees, and everyone on those teams has to be productive for the business to be profitable. Large businesses can absorb so much…
/r/TheRedPill27/09/13 01:40 PM
1

Thanks!
/r/TheRedPill27/09/13 12:25 PM
3

Serious question (since your TRP endorsed): Are you serious that it is hard to be sleeping with three girls at the same time? I ask because I am and was surprised that it wasn't hard at all. In all fairness, I am 50 and all of these women are in their early to mid 40's, but when I first became single I was actually scared I would have a sexual drought, but I haven't experienced one. Met them all through eHarmony. Is that unusual?
/r/TheRedPill27/09/13 05:11 AM
2

Good nuff!
/r/TheRedPill26/09/13 02:29 PM
3

EXACTLY. Jenna must get the creepiest comments eva, yet she must see that as just part of the price you pay for internet fame and using your boobs.
/r/TheRedPill26/09/13 09:15 AM
2

Thanks.
/r/TheRedPill26/09/13 03:01 AM
2

I tracked my wife's cycle throughout our 30 year marriage, and know the benefit there. Thanks for that advice. MMSL? Not catching that acronym. Married Man Sex Life? Looking at the site I'm guessing that's it. I'll look at it. Thanks for that as well.
/r/TheRedPill26/09/13 02:26 AM
3

I would add faithful. Not just in the idea of not cheating on you, but in the idea that she can make a commitment and stick to it. Yes, that includes a commitment to a particular man for a period of time, but also to a cause, a goal, something bigger than herself that is difficult to achieve. The same thing men respect in each other.
/r/TheRedPill26/09/13 02:03 AM
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In most areas of business-and YouTube is certainly a competitive business place-women cannot out compete men on an even playing field. So, they cry for rules that benefit women. I have been in business for a long time. I have, at times, felt fearful, personally attached and threatened. That's what happens when you try to develop a following in any business. Jenna Marbles may be hot, but she has also been pretty smart in how she marketed herself. Does she use her appearance as a tool? Of course. …
/r/TheRedPill26/09/13 01:57 AM
2

It occurred to me the other day that if George Clooney needs to be in rotating LTRs to get his emotional and sexual needs fulfilled, I probably need to go down that road as well-eventually. I'm not in the mood for an LTR right now, but I am confident the benefits will likely outweigh the costs at some point in the future, so I won't rule that out. But what you are asking, trplurker, is a tough balance. Because of my religious background (I am now an atheist) I was blue pill for a long time. Like…
/r/TheRedPill26/09/13 01:51 AM
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You're a cheapskate, it's THREE month's salary, and that's gross, not net.
/r/TheRedPill25/09/13 11:53 PM
1

They have them everywhere.
/r/TheRedPill25/09/13 10:42 PM
1

Very few ministers are willing to go along with this. If you don't have a marriage license they will not do the ceremony.
/r/TheRedPill25/09/13 10:22 PM
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Women have been doing this for ages - I won't marry him until: He finishes school and gets a career job He buys me an expensive ring He gets out of debt He has his own house All of these proving he has the ability to be the high value male she seeks.
/r/TheRedPill25/09/13 10:13 PM
3

Good points. I have been trying to adopt that attitude that I am the gift. When a girl gets to see me, spend time with me or even talk to me, I am the gift she gets. Just me. Not what I give her. Is that a good way to view this?
/r/TheRedPill25/09/13 05:26 PM
2

Makes sense. So far trying to talk to the women I am dating has been ponderous.
/r/askTRP25/09/13 04:51 PM
4

After 30 years of marriage and a recent (10 weeks ago) separation, I have been having the same thoughts. As I date, though, I see this validation of the red pill concept that women, in general, really don't want to talk about the things I am interested in or ponder the bigger questions in life. I am now trying to put more energy into my relationships with other men and stop hoping for something with women that is contrary to their nature. Interested in feedback: Is this correct? Valid?
/r/askTRP25/09/13 01:02 PM
3

Embrace conflict. I don't mean by that to encourage conflict, but when conflict comes your way, embrace it. You will succeed much more quickly in every area if you refuse to be intimidated by conflict. Just embracing it sets you apart from 99.9% of the men you will encounter.
/r/TheRedPill24/09/13 04:24 PM
1

Own your own business that you control.
/r/TheRedPill24/09/13 04:22 PM
2

Great, instructive comment. Thanks.
/r/askTRP23/09/13 02:48 PM
1

Good for you.
/r/askTRP20/09/13 07:58 PM
1

Nope, they are 24 and 27 and on their own, though their response was interesting: Wow, she's held you back for a long time. This is such a good move for you.
/r/askTRP20/09/13 07:43 PM
1

In process, brother.
/r/askTRP20/09/13 07:24 PM
1

Separated from my wife of 30 years.
/r/askTRP20/09/13 07:23 PM
1

TRP can help with learning what to expect. "Why" is a question often better not asked. Good point.
/r/askTRP20/09/13 05:22 PM
2

Makes sense.
/r/askTRP20/09/13 05:22 PM
3

Except TRP analyzes behavior all of the time. For this behavior to be so consistent, it must have a payoff for the women involved.
/r/askTRP20/09/13 05:04 PM
-1

LOL, toche.
/r/TheRedPill17/09/13 12:36 AM
1

Maybe, I responded as I responded. I don't think our conversation since then had been detrimental to anyone who has observed it, and might even be beneficial to some.
/r/TheRedPill17/09/13 12:15 AM
1

I get where you are coming from and I make posts like this, when I do, to make it clear he was avoiding the question by using a logical fallacy. Without doing so easily swayed onlookers tend to assume the one doing the attacking is "obviously" right. If he didn't want to discuss, he could have said, "you know, I don't want to discuss this any further" without the attack. The attack was to make him look better in the eyes of the onlookers and to not have to take responsibility for dodging the que…
/r/TheRedPill16/09/13 11:57 PM
1

Why have a discussion when it is easier to go right to the ad hominen, right? Do you believe when both parents work they are somehow deserting their children? Asking that question sent you over the edge so you have to attack me because you can't address the idea?
/r/TheRedPill16/09/13 11:31 PM
1

Why do you believe that two working parents can't raise happy, healthy children? I was not suggesting he abandon his kids, just that he NOT abandon his career. Where did I suggest he should abandon his kids?
/r/TheRedPill16/09/13 11:20 PM
-1

There are more ways for a family to work than "one makes the money/one cooks, cleans, wipes child ass." Why would anyone think that's the only way to make a family work?
/r/TheRedPill16/09/13 10:28 PM
4

The only problem I have with this advice is: He doesn't want that life. Edit: Just to be clear - I wanted kids. I raised two boys into great men. But I also ran a business and did other things I found rewarding. I would not be willing to be mister mom. Wife is a doc? Good. If he doesn't want to be mister mom then they need to figure out together how to raise the kiddos. It is not a default that because she makes the money she gets to make the rules and he loses out on his own happiness. This is …
/r/TheRedPill16/09/13 10:24 PM
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I'm having an internal debate about narcissism. NPD is typically rooted in shame. Narcs have so little self-esteem they have to build up a world in which they appear to be something they know they are not. But I wonder about people who have healthy self esteem yet choose to embrace narcissism. They could run the world. And, I believe, they do.
/r/TheRedPill16/09/13 10:17 PM
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There are other reasons to not let a woman know too much about your world. I don't worry about getting a girl pregnant, but I don't want them showing up at my doorstep unannounced either. I go to their place, or if we go out somewhere away from their place I get a room. I don't think the anonymous thing is too hard. Heck, I've only been single for a couple months and have slept with a couple women who probably couldn't remember my last name. One of them got my first name wrong, though she correc…
/r/TheRedPill16/09/13 10:02 PM
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I have business cards that say I am a butt model. Seriously.
/r/TheRedPill16/09/13 02:47 PM
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Working hard at becoming an engineer is one of the more predictable ways to a steady, middle class paycheck. You still got to show up every day or they stop paying you. Being an engineer doesn't give you anything residual. My father turned 74 this past Sunday. He was a Chem E. Worked for the same company from 1970 until 1995, when the company went out of business. He was 56. He had always made a good living, but it was totally dependent on forces outside of his control. The same amount of initia…
/r/TheRedPill14/09/13 10:11 AM
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I'm 50 years old. One of the things you realize as you look at the people who run things is their grades didn't matter much. That's also one of the reasons why I don't advocate going to college. It isn't a reliable path to wealth.
/r/TheRedPill14/09/13 10:03 AM
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I see this a lot: Financial and life success and happiness does not come from working hard. Everyone needs to fucking learn this. Who works harder, the guy who digs a ditch or the guy who made $1 mil last year selling his T-Shirts online? If a man holds on to the idea that hard work is what will make him happy, financially secure, etc., he's missed one of the major lessons in life. That's blue pill. Hard work APPLIED IN THE RIGHT PLACE can make you financially secure, but almost no one does that…
/r/TheRedPill14/09/13 01:04 AM
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Sounds good. If you are a construction worker you probably have connections with other potential contractors. Starting a business just means finding a customer. Once you find a customer then you use their money to hire people and build. Do that a few times and, like you said, you don't have to get your own hands dirty.
/r/TheRedPill13/09/13 06:49 PM
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So, if you get a graduate degree you might earn a median income of $99K? Wow, that's not much and is totally dependent on someone else's choices about you: Will they hire you, will they promote you, etc. I still gotta say the best thing you can do is start a business.
/r/TheRedPill13/09/13 06:30 PM
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This actually sounds like good advice. Why construction and not some other business?
/r/TheRedPill13/09/13 06:19 PM
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Don't confuse theredpill with seduction. Most of the guys I know in their 40's and 50's have a suit and 6 figures and wish they had no responsibilities and $60K. The goal of TRP in my understanding is to allow men to see the way the world really works and make their decisions accordingly. A suite and 6 figures sounds good until you are one of the white-collar corporates who have to deal with the expectations and stress.
/r/TheRedPill13/09/13 06:18 PM
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Don't fucking waste your time in college. Skip the debt and go out and start a business. Seriously. Get a customer, hire people to do the work and enjoy your time and lifestyle. You need to fucking learn that doing well in school means jack squat in life. The guy you will end up working for will likely be a total putz. Social skills are what will bring you success. Guys who do well in school almost always end up beta in life because they don't really understand how the fuck the world really work…
/r/TheRedPill13/09/13 04:15 PM
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Good observation. It is very much the prisoner's dilemma. I had never considered it this way before.
/r/TheRedPill13/09/13 12:28 PM
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Love this. From now on I will measure everything I choose to do in relation to women on the PWI.
/r/TheRedPill12/09/13 05:02 PM
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In my view it's not bullying, but in her view it would be. She was poking fun of the choice to teach VB.
/r/TheRedPill10/09/13 03:35 PM
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She wasn't criticizing VB, she was making fun of a teacher that would make the choice to teach VB. Bullying the teacher in an article about stopping bullying.
/r/TheRedPill10/09/13 03:07 PM
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I do think it's interesting she was bullying the teacher in an article about not allowing bullying.
/r/TheRedPill10/09/13 03:06 PM
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Teasing (and to a large extent bullying) plays an important social role. We show each other in typically painless ways how to behave in society.
/r/TheRedPill10/09/13 03:05 PM
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What's the Kansas City Shuffle, Mr. Goodkat?
/r/TheRedPill09/09/13 01:43 AM
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Add this to the list of things that most definitely happened.
/r/TheRedPill07/09/13 12:33 AM
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Does anyone else think it's funny that a guy makes a post about being alpha then ends his post with an apology for posting?
/r/TheRedPill07/09/13 12:18 AM
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I have some reason to believe the veneration of the single mother has caused some people in the area I live to choose to become a single mother for the perceived status.
/r/TheRedPill06/09/13 04:04 AM
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Good for you. You've got sense.
/r/TheRedPill06/09/13 04:02 AM
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I am new here, so if this is off based I am willing to consider it, but I would add this red flag when considering dating a woman with children: A woman can be on her best behavior while dating you. She can temporarily make you think she is exactly what you want in a woman. She can be kind and sexy and interesting. But if you really want to know who she is, look at her kids. Even at 2-3 years old, you can see whether they are polite, disciplined, etc. They are the longer-term product of her cons…
/r/TheRedPill05/09/13 05:49 PM
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I'm kinda thinking marrying a woman with children you're paying someone else's child support no matter what the courts would say. It would be foolish to think you're not going to be paying for food, shelter, clothing, Xbox Gold memberships, gas, cars, etc. for that kid even though it is not yours. I can't see any upside in doing it. Now if you get divorced, that flow of cash to those kids might end (if the courts don't force it), but why establish that flow of cash in the first place by marrying…
/r/TheRedPill05/09/13 05:37 PM
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I disagree. I've been back in the dating pool for a couple months now. I am 50 so the three women I am seeing are in their 40s and all have children in their 20's. People make jokes about "living in your mother's basement" as if the kid is the loser and at fault. While I agree if you're in your 30's and haven't gotten your life together on any level yet, it probably is your fault, the same is not true for someone in their early 20's. By the time someone hits 20, they are mainly the product of th…
/r/TheRedPill05/09/13 03:22 PM
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I may be biased, but what I realized was giving my wife many chances over the years often resulted in temporary change. Looking back, I realized the problem wasn't she needed me to be different, she just wasn't a good person. If your spouse has no concern for your needs in the marriage, that's the person she is inside. Sure, when you act more alpha she may change the way she responds to you, but she will never be a caring person. Compassionate people are compassionate. Selfish people are selfish…
/r/TheRedPill04/09/13 05:56 PM
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I did this and it made a complete change in my wife. Unfortunately for her, I wasn't doing it for her and I left her. I spent 30 years of marriage doing for her-heck, I could have written the same things the OP did-but if you truly go alpha, you leave her. She has already proven who she is.
/r/TheRedPill03/09/13 09:40 PM
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A few years ago I read an article comparing the amount of housework men do before marriage living alone compared to the amount of housework they do once they get married. I'm having trouble finding it now, but the basic finding was that when a man marries the amount of housework he does increases dramatically. The interpretation was that women create far more housework for both of them to do. If I can find the article I will do an edit.
/r/TheRedPill30/08/13 03:39 PM
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Wednesday I wanted to have some female companionship. I called three girls I have been seeing but they were all busy so I got a nice cigar and went to a local "Gentlemen's Club". Sitting with a stripper she tells me she is 23 and has a 4 year old daughter. I ask where the dad is and she tells me he's in prison. "But he's not that kind of guy." Me: "Obviously he is, that's why he is in prison." Her: "Well, he had plans to be a Marine and after he met me, I decided to go into the military too." Me…
/r/TheRedPill30/08/13 01:27 PM
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After 30 years of marriage: Separated July 12th Joined a dating site Met a number of women and got phone #'s, etc. Had four dates in 1 day on 7/27 Had sex with one of them on 8/1
/r/TheRedPill05/08/13 06:55 PM
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I will.
/r/TheRedPill01/07/13 05:20 PM
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Since Friday when I posted my original thoughts, I have found a great deal of peace and support. I talked to several of my friends who know both of us, and they all feel I should have divorced her years ago. Now I am ready to move on. Seeing a lawyer this morning.
/r/TheRedPill01/07/13 09:48 AM
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Thanks for the encouragement.
/r/TheRedPill30/06/13 10:27 PM
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If you read my responses it had little to do from shielding her from consequence, it had to do with protecting my choices. I didn't want to have to go through repairing a relationship with my family and friends if I had chosen to stay with her.
/r/TheRedPill30/06/13 07:05 PM
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I did a little math today. Right now, just for the things I pay for monthly, not including any gifts or other non-essentials I might buy for her, she costs me $1,900.00 a month in after tax costs. Car/Insurance (health and auto)/Food (half)/Hair/Nails/Subscriptions/etc. Thinking through the last 30 years, she has already taken half or more of every dollar I've earned. Some of that made sense: She was home when our boys were young, etc. But she continued to be dependent even when the boys could f…
/r/TheRedPill29/06/13 08:22 PM
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Thanks for your advice. I think this has been a long time coming and I am surprisingly calm about it all today.
/r/TheRedPill29/06/13 08:18 PM
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MGTOW Here is the funny thing (and over the last 24 hours this has become abundantly clear to me): In every other area of my life I have always done my own thing. Nobody told me what to do, I did what I wanted. Except with her.
/r/TheRedPill29/06/13 06:29 PM
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It's my understanding our retirement fund will be split and she will have the option of paying taxes and a penalty and then can access her portion of the funds. We'll see if she does. I suspect her best route will be to find someone else to take care of her financially.
/r/TheRedPill29/06/13 06:18 PM
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Actually, she isn't working because she quit her job after I found out about the affair and isn't really trying to get another. She does some work in our business, but it is minimal. However, the state we live in does not have alimony.
/r/TheRedPill29/06/13 05:01 PM
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Thanks for your comment. Yeah, I am not worried about dating. Going to consult with my lawyer Monday.
/r/TheRedPill29/06/13 04:42 PM
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I have thought for a while--before the affair came out--that I would be better off for the most part single.
/r/TheRedPill29/06/13 12:36 PM
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Yeah, it sucks.
/r/TheRedPill29/06/13 12:16 PM
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Yeah, I'm moving that direction. I am about done with this.
/r/TheRedPill29/06/13 04:02 AM
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I have lots of years, mate. You'll see that one of these days. But I appreciate your input.
/r/TheRedPill29/06/13 03:03 AM
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Thanks for sharing. Seriously. It does help.
/r/TheRedPill29/06/13 02:46 AM
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Who knows. She has been given a great life with great support--not only from me, but from good psychiatric professionals and my extended family. But I am beginning to grasp she is unworthy of me. That's been my issue. I was willing to put up with things I should have never allowed because of my own dysfunctional beliefs about myself, life and marriage.
/r/TheRedPill29/06/13 02:43 AM
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Thanks for your detailed reply. It's pretty obvious our sons are mine (they look nothing like their mother and look exactly like me--so much so jokes are made that no one really knows for sure who their mother is...) but that does not mean she was faithful to me. Here's the thing: I am not really worried too much about companionship and sex. I am charismatic and financially secure. I am reasonably good looking. If I want to be with someone, I will be. The bigger issue is how I have allowed mysel…
/r/TheRedPill29/06/13 02:40 AM
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I think it's not to believe there is virtue in being faithful to a woman who bleeds your life away. Many men my age--especially if they grew up in church--feel as if it is their duty.
/r/TheRedPill29/06/13 01:51 AM
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I don't wear a wedding ring because of an accident years ago where I broke my knuckle, and because they think I am single, women regularly approach me. I am not concerned about getting "dates."
/r/TheRedPill29/06/13 01:50 AM
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Someone else pointed that out on the thread. It seems obvious to me now, but only after it was pointed out. She should have known better.
/r/TheRedPill29/06/13 01:48 AM
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Getting laid is not my primary goal in life. I would prefer a companion who I also sleep with. You may be young enough you don't understand that 18 year old women, no matter how hot, are annoying.
/r/TheRedPill29/06/13 01:48 AM
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Maybe I'm coming to my senses now.
/r/TheRedPill29/06/13 01:47 AM
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She came from white trash. Her alcoholic father raped her until she was 12. He mother was literally delusional.
/r/TheRedPill29/06/13 01:46 AM
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Actually she told me I didn't buy her enough jewelry. I then pointed out that I bought her shoes, clothes, household stuff she wanted on a regular basis, and she then backed down a little. Of course, then I bought her more jewelry. I feel like a schmuck.
/r/TheRedPill29/06/13 01:45 AM
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