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Obviously. Let's talk about n count How the fuck are BBand Low n count men supposed to do that ( either by choice or by circumstance) To a low n count individual, having sex is an important thing, something you do with a person you have an emotional connection to. So to them it's difficult to understand that casual sex may be unimportant to women. Even those who have engaged in it. Women.who have had sex in a casual context seem to think that its different. Ie they fuck different in a casual con…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 05:57 PM
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Mean while she will be able to tell me what its is like. Able to tell me why she didn't love the past men as much as she loves me and that's why she doesn't feel the need to do the things she did in the past anymore. And because of my lack of experience, i should believe her? No way in hell she is gonna paternalize me in the relationship right? Fucking lol. People get away with what they can get away with. All i am right now is an easy mark if I don't set up some boundaries and contingencies.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 01:04 PM
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The first part is so Inna that I am not even gonna be engaging in it. As for the second. Up until the recent past i was willing to look past a lack in any of these as long as she was loving and loyal. Seeing as expecting that kind of love is naive, i should probably look at it like a business proposition. iE exactly like women do.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 12:59 PM
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Let me be clear. Those men probably don't want women who have "Eat, laughed and prayed" their way through their 20s. I sure as fuck wouldn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 12:55 PM
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Please women regularly have meltdowns regarding a guys past too, it's just that it's uncommon to come across that scenario.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 12:44 PM
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What do you think the issue is? We don't trust what we don't experience. Women don't belive men when they say loneliness is a terrible thing because they haven't as a group understood what it mean s to be a lonely guy. Men don't trust women when they say that the attraction they have for the person they settle for is just as valid as the one they had for their boyfriends in their 20s. As an inexperienced man it is a completely valid fear because i simply can't trust your words for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 12:43 PM
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I liked his video on Kan ye and all of his earlier videos. However he is far too leftist for my palate. He is unable to seperate creator from their work.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 12:40 PM
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It still kinda sucks knowing that you are cut off from what everyone around you considers a normal human experience. Makes you feel like a Golem. Unfeeling, incomplete and not entirely human. Even now i feel like I am pretending to feel how I feel. I don't know what love feels like. If I ever get into a relationship a lot of the performance will be based on movies books and what my friends do. Who h is still in women favour because the prescription is that i have to do a lot of things while my S…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 12:38 PM
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Yeah Honestly. I think as a society we condition men to view women in a positive light. Learning to not ascribe that as a default may seem misogynistict but it is not.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 05:59 AM
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It's not so much them existing than the difference in the life they live. I don't think i will ever know what it's like to be lusted after. Not even by my eventual wife.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 05:56 AM
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Looking forward to your reaction to the crazy shit i post soon. Ofcourse you can disappoint me by not posting, but i doubt you will be able to resist.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 05:23 AM
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Not necessarily. I went into it because i was good at studying and it seemed insane to throw away an opportunity few get. At the tail end of my post graduation i am beginning to regret it, but it's too late now. I have always been a nerd at heart so i am trying to use the carrot on my self thinking about the cool and interesting surgeries i get to do if I get into a super specialist program. If I don't... I'll practice primarily to earn as much as I can. I just try and do a good job because I fe…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 04:44 AM
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A good chunk of society doesn't really have goals. These people live life defensively, reactively. For them their goal is not not end up a certain way. Being a 40yr old virgin or a 40year old betabux is a malediction you want to avoid, much like not wanting to be a dead beat or not wanting to go bankrupt. Ofcourse in some cases you just kind of slide into that position like i did.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 01:59 PM
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Sunday school is a thing. My favourite person was a boy who hung out with all of us and was 5 years older than me. He was someone i really looked upto. Friendships like that can occur within communities.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 01:10 PM
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I have friends. Less than 5, but i do have them. Kindness is not something i experience on a regular basis so I tend to value it and the people who express it highly. Perhaps a little too much As far as liking people is concerned, i have dealt with too much bullshit to genuinely like human beings. The generalizations fall away if I am dealing one on one though.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 01:04 PM
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I guess i should just use people then. Ingratiate myself into the social groups at my work and then operate within that context and with them cosigning my bullshit and vice versa. Not exactly ethical but it's not like i have many options. Thanks for the heads up.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 11:38 AM
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Yeah thats totally fair. But it becomes a necessity for men to approach. Like I have spent 30 years of my life trying to not make women uncomfortable. All of my approaches were warm (3 in total) and all of them were shot down. Which is fine. But apparently i should have been more social? Practiced talking to people more? Learn the social nuances of conversation so that I don't make women uncomfortable. And the fact that I didn't practice it and get better at it ( for fear of making women uncomfo…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 09:27 AM
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Bullshit. Are you as a gender gonna pretend the last 10 years didn't happen. Are you gonna pretend mom's and sisters don't tell their kids that they will find someone cause they are good people? They presented women nor being into me in my teens and wanting to settle with me later as a good thing (husband material) and I fucking believed it. Why the fuck wouldn't I. They believed it too because in their head the woman is finally settled with the man she "truly loves". Looking back at how naive i…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 07:00 AM
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If you had come to a dating advice sub ,20 years ago the meta was that personality matters more than looks. And the advice given to men was, you will find someone someday. Now it is "well you have to be attractive, duh" Wether or not you see it, there was a society level Gaslight of men to belive that a woman's love was more honest and virtuous, a notion that women back then also contributed to. It's a notion they still contribute to when they imply that the woman getting in a relationship with …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 06:55 AM
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Better a 45 year old loser who had sex than a 45 year old loser who didn't . I would prefer the 45 yr old who had sex to a 45 year old overt betabux ( like full blown, deadbedroom, step child disrespecting him everyday and a wife oblivious to his breaking sanity)
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 06:45 AM
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Tell me why men shouldn't be jealous of that guy? You are a woman. To you i am sure sex is not a big deal. I have good looking friends who just get date s off tinder and sleep with them. This guy had a girlfriend who broke up with him. He was sad but chose to go out and get tail. And he did. Later the girlfriend came back and seeing how non needy he was she wanted to get back together. They are engaged now. It's a different level of experience for these guys. I can hypothesis and predict all i w…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 06:40 AM
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I think it's because by definition an alpha has to be sexually successful. It doesn't preclude intelegence and financial stability/ success. But that person needs to be sexually desirable to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 06:37 AM
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It is his life. I am sure he saw a lot more than that. In that context he has a greater ability to judge their relationship than most people or even you for that matter
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 06:32 AM
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It's not like i am swimming in options, that I can afford to turn my nose up at a decent level of compatibility. Also my lack of experience means that I don't know how to vet properly. I can only go off actions and words. i am also likely to ignore my own rules if i do fall for someone simply because it will be a very new experience for me. So it makes sense that i end up being hyper vigilant over the behaviour women display. Just like women after a certain time avoid fuck boys i want to avoid b…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 09:38 AM
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Be kind as you would be to any other human being and not just because she is a woman. Also in the dating world bring a good man, being a kind individual doesn't matter at all. It doesn't make you more attractive. If that was the case the Mr Rodgers would be a sex symbol. You are who you are, for your own sake. Not because you want people to like you. Wether that means helping a lady up if she trips and falls or walking past her because you trust in her ability to get back up is upto you.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 09:16 AM
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How would I know that if she doesn't let me know this? If I am in a relationship for 3 years and eventually I find out that she was a far more willing partner in the past while telling me that she is not a sexual person then what am I supposed to do. That's 3 years with someone who was dishonest with me. Time I won't get back. Not to mention when I break up she will spin it as "he broke up over sex".
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 12:47 AM
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Exactly. Do not set yourself on fire to keep others warm. Here the others are imaginary women in your head. They are not gonna appreciate you for being an upstanding man. Infact they will place blame on you for being alone if you shy away from womankind to spare them the infliction of your existence. And no they are not gonna recognise the kind timid soul within you and approach you. Infact they will take one look at you, decide you are unconfident and respect you less for it. Your friends will …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 12:36 AM
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So why are you in a relationship then? Why are you wasting their time? Should you not be working on your self and getting back to a sense of normalcy? I am will to put myself second to let my partner fulfil any fantasy they have ( within limits). I want them to experience pleasure, and hopefully I want to be the cause for it, or facilitate it. I wouldn't feel used, or dirty about making my partner happy. I am looking for a similar investment from my partner. That's the only way for me to be able…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 12:25 AM
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It was a hypothetical. ( "Giving a blowjob, is just not who I am anymore " ) You are unexpectedly ... Sensitive .. for someone calling themselves bigvulvaenergy. It reminds me of the type of girl in my school who used to just rag on people rilling them up and then goes 'it was just a joke Jesus don't take it so personally' at the end. She would insult people like a pro but cry when someone called her a slut She ended up accusing me of sexual assault because she found me too uptight. Didn't even …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/23 11:33 PM
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We tend to interpret that as she doesn't like him. I am a pretty submissive dude. In my mind her pleasure is tantamount. So if my future SO has a consensual non consent kink, I would read up and embody the character she wants me to be - despite it being the furthest thing to who I am... I want the same energy from my SO. So naturally I don't want someone who is gonna have a full blown Identity crisis over deciding wether or not to suck my dick
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/23 11:20 PM
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Motivations are formed in the past.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/23 11:09 PM
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That's not true. We make accomodation for people based on their abilities and circumstances. Eg if I date an autistic girl, and she doesn't get sarcasm, I am gonna be a lot more direct. Engaging in subtle sarcasm feels like bullying at that point. If I date a virgin, I won't push for sex. We will only do it if she feels comfortable. Infact, I would try my best to make it a good experience, so that she doesn't have issues with it in the future even if we are not together. ( That's not a veiwpoint…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/23 10:56 PM
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Don't pretend. You have been on this godforsaken sub long enough to know what AFBB sounds like
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/23 09:44 PM
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Why would I want a woman at war with herself? Would a woman ever be kind to me if I have a schism within me with my bluepill version fighting the redpill version? I am betting on no. I just keep the same energy.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/23 09:30 PM
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So what should a guy who is low n count and with a former party girl believe when she is not enthusiastic about sex with him? What would be the smart read on the situation? If she is being malicious about this she is not gonna be truthful when he asks, so don't say "just talk to her"
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/23 09:27 PM
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Then don't make him your bf
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/23 09:24 PM
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That would be great if he has the information in advance. Most don't get it and get T-boned later with the realisation.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/23 09:22 PM
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like what, 1 % Try 30% It's called forced penetration. Not even counted as rape in Britain and India as far as I know. So yeah. Sexism is alive and well.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/23 09:19 PM
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In the movie cast away Tom Hanks imagined a volleyball to be his friend Willson. He knew it was fake. He was tricking himself to stay sane. Despite that he took an actual second between deciding to save himself and Wilson. That's how strong the fake love was. Incels who are not too down and out of the idea as further proof of their unwantedness, may make relationships with the chat bots. That won't affect the larger dating market though. What's more terrifying is the the companies owning the cha…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 04:38 AM
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