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| 3 | How does a man starting from the bottom utilize any of this information? | 3141592652 | /r/askTRP | 09/10/19 07:30 AM | |
| 1 | How can not be a beta orbiter without the logistics to bed a girl? | Red Pill Theory | 3141592652 | /r/TheRedPill | 27/08/19 09:36 AM |
| 1 | How can I get with a girl if the logistics are shit? | 3141592652 | /r/askTRP | 31/08/19 09:17 AM | |
| 1 | Help With Letting A Girl Know I'm Actually Interested | Escalation & Calibration | 3141592652 | /r/seduction | 01/09/22 04:15 PM |
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| 5 | On paper, I have everything, but life isn’t lived on paper.I've heard the memes, stereotypes, etc. so I wouldn't doubt there's some truth to it. But it's really just some black pill stuff to write off every girl just because you're Indian. | /r/seduction | 25/07/26 01:46 PM |
| 7 | On paper, I have everything, but life isn’t lived on paper.Sounds like a cop out. Guy literally says he has everything down but his social skills need work from what I'm reading. | /r/seduction | 25/07/26 12:51 PM |
| 2 | How do you get laid while on vacation?I'd ask your friends. But also outcome independence. In most cases women ain't gonna approach. So just talk to a bunch and see what happens. You're on vacation you already have plenty of time to hang out and take them wherever your hanging out/partying that night. | /r/seduction | 25/07/26 11:59 AM |
| 3 | Do people here still cold approach?People on here be wanting like a guide like it's a video game. Like guys there's no one size fits all. It seems like all the comments come down to "give the exact words you said". Like it doesn't matter if you never actually talk to the girl at all. | /r/seduction | 24/07/26 12:39 PM |
| 1 | Those who have 0 game and no action in years, what you all doing?Well they're not exactly handed over when you do but you have to try. My last few jobs I applied to over 100 and only got a few interviews. But the thing is to try. Why admit defeat? | /r/seduction | 23/07/26 05:55 PM |
| 3 | Those who have 0 game and no action in years, what you all doing?If you never apply for jobs you never get any | /r/seduction | 23/07/26 05:50 PM |
| 4 | Overly nice guy cousin. Flipped the script and became “that guy. Here’s a simple formula.If you're not getting DOMS and eating enough that's the answer | /r/seduction | 17/07/26 02:14 AM |
| 17 | How can I stop feeling nervous around big tiddy girls?Homelander? | /r/seduction | 16/07/26 12:59 PM |
| -1 | Can We Please Stop With the Dating Coaches and "Gurus"?The information is there I can agree but the issue I see is most think their situation is different then everyone else's. They make it so specific and complicated and focus all on one girl. People won't take the advice. Just like taking a horse to water. | /r/seduction | 15/07/26 01:42 PM |
| 2 | AITO Who Feels Like Dating Has Never Been Easier?The pandemic has been over for more than 3 years now that's interesting you notice now. | /r/seduction | 14/07/26 11:31 AM |
| 2 | Do you think men enjoy giving head or they just fake it?Look at stuff from the 80s, ain't no bald pussy there | /r/seduction | 27/05/26 01:26 PM |
| 1 | How do you move from the introduction to the seduction/flirting part of the conversation?If you were a creep a couple times learn why that is and adjust. Like a job interview if you fail a few learn why and do better next time. All this tip toeing around ain't getting you anywhere. | /r/seduction | 25/04/26 12:30 PM |
| 1 | Why women don't chase men?Interesting comment. If a person was a transgender women are they bow more prone to pursuing as biologically they are the same as before? Maybe its different because of the hormone changes? | /r/seduction | 22/04/26 12:04 AM |
| 1 | Men who date 10/10 (gorgeous type of women), what was the experience like?Yeah I live real close to a college and it's so obvious who the college girls are. Girls be showing up to the grocery store at 9am with their face done up lol. | /r/seduction | 29/03/26 10:59 PM |
| 1 | How do I get dates as a 26 year old who doesn't go to bars or drink?Unless you're like 60. But even then it should come easier. Old people make friends mad easy. | /r/seduction | 03/02/26 01:46 PM |
| 2 | Base level attraction matters — no game can override itLook I don't expect all guys to be able to get girls easily but why so blatantly make it black and white and say that it's impossible? AMD also unless you checked a guys looks yourself how are you to judge how attractive they are? | /r/seduction | 30/01/26 09:50 PM |
| 2 | Base level attraction matters — no game can override itWhy do people coming back here with a blackpill mindset? If attraction is all that mattered then seduction techniques would be completely irrelevant and obviously it's not. | /r/seduction | 30/01/26 09:33 PM |
| 2 | Base level attraction matters — no game can override itEverybody is aware of that. It would be like saying don't look for a job if you have a bad resume, analogous to don't try and pull if you're unattractive. It's literally black pill mindset and useless in most cases | /r/seduction | 30/01/26 09:30 PM |
| 10 | She asked me out but already had plans after, would you still go?Get drunk at the museum and bang in the parking lot. | /r/seduction | 12/01/26 02:29 AM |
| 1 | how do I find people to video infields for me? I live in seattle.Yeah maybe. I admire his enthusiasm though. | /r/seduction | 30/12/25 02:53 PM |
| 0 | how do I find people to video infields for me? I live in seattle.Creepy because he's a virgin? Damn bro that's ice cold. | /r/seduction | 30/12/25 02:20 PM |
| 1 | Is it true that women prefer men who pay them no mind?A simp is an actual thing though. A chad in this case is just black pill shit as described in your post. | /r/seduction | 13/12/25 09:56 AM |
| 11 | Is it true that women prefer men who pay them no mind?No the Simp in this case is a pushover a guy who would do anything to get laid. It's like those guys who pay money on only fans, the guy who would drive across town at 3am to give a girl a ride, that guy at work who always goes that extra mile for the hot chick. A so called Chad if people are still using that is like a James Bond perfect womanizer. The guy who always approaches and doesn't fawn over random women like that. | /r/seduction | 13/12/25 09:07 AM |
| 59 | Is it true that women prefer men who pay them no mind?Say you have a girl who's attractive you know on insta or some social setting whatever. You lust after her and do favors, offer them free stuff just because they're some attractive girl where you think you ever have the slightest chance of getting with her. Meanwhile she doesn't know you at all or barely even cares about you. That's what a simp is. | /r/seduction | 13/12/25 03:22 AM |
| 187 | Is it true that women prefer men who pay them no mind?You ever hear of a simp? That's exactly what you don't want to be. | /r/seduction | 13/12/25 02:01 AM |
| 2 | I’m unsure if this was a normal sexual interaction, and I’m confused on what he thinks of me? Is he enjoying the sex?I'd say you are but maybe I'm wrong. Imagine if a guy asked a women that, it would immediately turn them off. A hookup doesn't need no emotions in it or at least shouldn't. If it does it's moving towards a relationship. | /r/seduction | 12/12/25 11:39 PM |
| 2 | I’m unsure if this was a normal sexual interaction, and I’m confused on what he thinks of me? Is he enjoying the sex?Isn't that really what hookups are? I've felt that way as a guy before honestly but each party is on the same page. Unless it's an actual relationship there's no reason to get so attached. | /r/seduction | 12/12/25 11:24 PM |
| 1 | how do i have sex in the car with an FWB?Same shit guys always so lol. It's just society's rules that they have to | /r/seduction | 11/12/25 10:23 AM |
| 3 | Changing careers, going back to school, a good place to meet girls?Act like you belong there and you're fine. Don't play the old guy going back to college card and you wont be out of place | /r/seduction | 09/12/25 12:30 PM |
| 1 | Changing careers, going back to school, a good place to meet girls?Bro you already gave up for no reason. This blackpill attitude ain't gonna help | /r/seduction | 09/12/25 12:28 PM |
| -4 | The one belief that turned me from “nice guy with female friends” into the guy actually fucking themIt's implied in your comment. Once you become socially trained it's actually pretty draining not to talk to anybody actively avoid them | /r/seduction | 09/12/25 12:01 PM |
| -2 | The one belief that turned me from “nice guy with female friends” into the guy actually fucking themNah actively avoiding people is | /r/seduction | 09/12/25 11:13 AM |
| 1 | How I turned Instagram story replies into 4 dates this monthCurious this subs dating advice relevant to you then? | /r/seduction | 05/12/25 10:51 AM |
| 0 | I'm devastated and hopelessAt least he's being honest. Need more of that in this sub | /r/seduction | 04/12/25 09:18 AM |
| 1 | How to get laid easilyAnybody begging for likes online doesn't secure to me | /r/seduction | 28/11/25 08:36 PM |
| 2 | Tall girls are an untapped resourceThis is what this sub considers advice now? You didn't even close or tap my guy. | /r/seduction | 23/11/25 08:53 PM |
| 0 | Girl keeps teasing me at the Gym I go to. How can I seal the deal?So he should awkwardly stare from across the gym? Come on man | /r/seduction | 20/11/25 01:39 PM |
| 4 | Fix your Incel mindset before you go and seduce/harass womenAll the black pillers and people complaining how online dating sucks came out of the woodwork. | /r/seduction | 20/11/25 05:59 AM |
| 3 | I am a teenage girl with hybristophilia AMAWell as long as you deal with it in healthy way | /r/seduction | 19/11/25 08:22 AM |
| 1 | I am a teenage girl with hybristophilia AMADo you not feel any shame for this? It seems like it would be a hard fetish to to take part IRL. | /r/seduction | 19/11/25 08:10 AM |
| 144 | People are surprised when I say I get no girlsYou don't have to lie but don't tell em straight up you getting nothing. Even the hint a girl knows you get some will will make them interested. | /r/seduction | 10/11/25 12:44 AM |
| 6 | I’m a loser in high school and no girls like meStop with this black pill stuff. | /r/seduction | 09/11/25 03:26 AM |
| 23 | Got Pulled By An "Unattainable" 8.5/10 Baddie W 100K On IG | Here's 6 Male Behaviors That "Work" With Women Of High BeautySome just wanna get laid | /r/seduction | 28/10/25 01:29 PM |
| 12 | Are the Dating coaches and Gurus actually that good in real life?The biggest issue most guys have is they refuse to try any sort of dating IRL. Online dating doesn't count. They'll keep looking for any excuses not to talk to women. And it seems like all the ads most gurus have is selling you the secret to success. If you can break that barrier without immediately thinking a dating coach will solve your issues with chicks you'll save lots of $$$. | /r/seduction | 06/10/25 05:43 AM |
| 0 | Is Pickup Dying?Thats assuming all you want is a relationship. | /r/seduction | 25/09/25 04:14 AM |
| 1 | I cannot spark interest in womenWell even if you had choosing signals someone still has to break the ice and escalate. | /r/seduction | 20/09/25 07:07 PM |
| 3 | Talking to 5+ girls at the same timeWhat area is that lol? | /r/seduction | 08/09/25 08:10 PM |
| 1 | How can I approach a girl in a club that has a group of friends and isn’t willing to roll away alone?Not allowed to fail? We all need growing pains my guy. If it's really that one girl you want just do some cold approach on lots of other girls. Gotta think like this, not talking to someone is the same as a rejection. | /r/seduction | 07/09/25 08:12 PM |
| 5 | Would you text back a girl who ghosted you for 2 days?I'd say hit it and see where it goes. Your biggest issue was ruminating on this one girl you literally just met. | /r/seduction | 24/08/25 10:52 PM |
| 1 | How does sex between actual friends usually happen or start?It's really reading the room and guiding your girl as long she's comfortable. Say at home on the couch in your bed, don't be afraid to go for a hug, maybe kiss if it feels right. There is no one size fits all situation. | /r/seduction | 20/08/25 03:41 AM |
| 3 | How does sex between actual friends usually happen or start?It's possible to lead a sexual interaction without assaulting anybody. This really needs to be more clear for young guys. | /r/seduction | 19/08/25 10:30 PM |
| 46 | Is dating younger college girls worth it ?That's a GF my guy | /r/seduction | 17/08/25 08:03 PM |
| 1 | How do you not be boring?It sound's difficult but a lot easier then one can think. Any hobby or activity you like is one you can do in public now. Say a sport or some kind of board game club.(just an example) Also maybe concerts which a lot of people are into nowadays. Very easy to talk to people at any one and the pressure of a little to none because you won't see 90% of them again. I think your biggest issue is focusing on the outcome too much. Just focus on having some fun and make some friends first. Everything else… | /r/seduction | 17/08/25 05:12 PM |
| 1 | How do you not be boring?Why so vague? Can't go outside to do the main part of actually picking up women? Is this an advice sub or people just complaining about being a hermit? | /r/seduction | 16/08/25 11:48 PM |
| 1 | I don’t want to jerk off. I’m not at a point of my life where I can get hot girls. What do I do?Well you don't get experience by just reading books all day. Tired of the people who won't talk to a girl but wouldn't mind reading an encyclopedia for breakfast. | /r/seduction | 13/08/25 11:36 PM |
| -1 | If You Struggle With Rejection….LOL what? Talking to a stranger should be as easy as wiping your ass at some point. | /r/seduction | 10/08/25 06:40 PM |
| 3 | Is it too late ? 31 never had a physical girlfriendThe fact that someone would feel they need to confess out of guilt or shame is a larger issue. | /r/seduction | 07/08/25 01:20 AM |
| 5 | Is it too late ? 31 never had a physical girlfriendlol no. Why self sabotage for something that means nothing in the long run? | /r/seduction | 06/08/25 11:13 PM |
| 2 | What does this fist-shaking gesture mean? (Nonverbal behavior on public bus)Dudes don't call other men beautiful like that. Definitely more to this. | /r/seduction | 31/07/25 11:42 PM |
| 0 | I’ve heard that some men are doing about 50-100 approaches a day, how is that possible?Well actually when you have a very specific type you can expect lots of rejects. | /r/seduction | 15/07/25 03:36 AM |
| 22 | I’ve heard that some men are doing about 50-100 approaches a day, how is that possible?That only if they never score. Some guys will do this approach like spamming job applications. Eventually it's a yes. | /r/seduction | 15/07/25 02:36 AM |
| 2 | How do I hook up with this coworker without making things weird?Definitely not. | /r/seduction | 29/06/25 03:28 AM |
| 6 | How do I hook up with this coworker without making things weird?You work in a restaurant? Yeah make the move bro you won't regret it. | /r/seduction | 29/06/25 01:36 AM |
| 3 | Shes hot but she’s a sexually repressed virginTake it slow then | /r/seduction | 25/06/25 01:31 PM |
| 3 | If you could go back to college again, What would you do differently?This right here. It's only 4 years of your life like high school. 90% of those people you never see again. So take some chances. | /r/seduction | 20/06/25 10:20 PM |
| -4 | The Top 10 Reasons Why You Get Rejected By WomenLet's say it does, worrying about the shit you can't change doesn't help you get dates. That's blackpill shit. | /r/seduction | 20/06/25 08:53 PM |
| 1 | I just cold approached at a bar and the rejection stung more than the appsThen I am sad for you | /r/seduction | 19/06/25 08:57 AM |
| 1 | What should I have done here?Well you'd have to read the situation and saying any normal girl is disingenuous. This isn't some girl he met at the library, he met her at a bar, this would be more standard. It's pretty well established what the goal is when meeting someone there. | /r/seduction | 16/06/25 02:56 PM |
| 1 | What should I have done here?Could be she didn't want to get to know and just wanted to hook up. Could've been as easy as saying "you wanna get out of here" | /r/seduction | 16/06/25 01:31 AM |
| 2 | What does my crush's friends smiling at me meanTalk this chick now because in 20 years you'll be wondering why you never had the balls to it in the first place. | /r/seduction | 15/06/25 08:32 PM |
| 2 | You want her? Don't tell her. Show her just enogh to keep her guessingHaving to guess all the time but yet you wouldn't ask him out. More great advice lol. | /r/seduction | 15/06/25 07:35 PM |
| -2 | No logistics to lose v-card?If a chick is DTF the logistics matter way less than you think. | /r/seduction | 10/06/25 12:31 AM |
| 3 | What I've learnt from fking attractive womenHighly depends honestly. Issue being the barrier to entry is literally nothing. | /r/seduction | 01/06/25 01:30 AM |
| 1 | Welp, I got catfished for the first time.After you already kissed him? This would like that scene in Trainspotting lol | /r/seduction | 30/05/25 05:43 AM |
| 3 | Women with ugly duckling syndrome are superiorWell this thread got weird | /r/seduction | 27/05/25 01:18 AM |
| 3 | Women with ugly duckling syndrome are superiorSo let's say it's true how's it gonna change things? How are you gonna know she was less attractive before? | /r/seduction | 26/05/25 11:09 PM |
| 1 | How can I get a date/number in the workplace without getting fired?This is either a good thing or bad thing TBH. If you get along well with everybody else it might not matter. But there was this one guy at my last job that tried going after every chick and nobody would give him the time of day. | /r/seduction | 26/05/25 03:24 PM |
| 71 | What’s the sexiest move a guy made that totally blew your mind?I only see chicks come on here to wondering why guys won't approach them. | /r/seduction | 25/05/25 04:20 AM |
| 1 | How many of you have ONLY met women to date using apps? I want to hear from youGood for you man. People also say it's odd but really it's been a thing since the 90s. People have been getting GFs online for 30+ years. Before that probably snail mail. But if both people are happy what's the issue right? | /r/seduction | 24/05/25 01:49 AM |
| 2 | How many of you have ONLY met women to date using apps? I want to hear from youI don't think it's odd. A lot of younger folks generally believe the only way to date is through apps and find getting a women in person to be weird or creepy or something. But either way is fine I think. | /r/seduction | 24/05/25 01:43 AM |
| 5 | What did you actually learn from being here?The title of this subreddit is seduction | /r/seduction | 20/05/25 12:01 AM |
| 1 | What is worse watching porn or posting bikini photos in relationships?While I agree in some sense if the guy was just browsing instagram for that reason alone that would bother anyone. | /r/seduction | 19/05/25 01:01 AM |
| 10 | When age turns them offJunior in high school are you? | /r/seduction | 18/05/25 04:37 PM |
| 1 | Parties and festivais ratio getting worse?Nailed it | /r/seduction | 17/05/25 10:29 PM |
| 1 | Am I Being Realistic…I don't think anyone's political stance will matter unless it's an ltr. What you guys think? | /r/seduction | 17/05/25 09:46 PM |
| 1 | Parties and festivais ratio getting worse?Festivals are pretty goat imo just generally not even for picking up chicks. The smaller ones are better I think because your not spending all your money on the big name | /r/seduction | 17/05/25 09:39 PM |
| 1 | The blind should not lead the blindPeople still do that. | /r/seduction | 05/05/25 02:14 AM |
| 7 | Went out alone tonight and pulledHe walked into a Gay bar | /r/seduction | 05/05/25 01:58 AM |
| 2 | Do most pickup artists struggle to form deep connections beyond hookups?You're on here. That makes you one as well. | /r/seduction | 04/05/25 10:14 PM |
| 1 | I am tired of motivational jerk off posts around here and the lack of practical examples in othersI do and I did. I gave multiple. If you don't help then just say it. | /r/seduction | 22/04/25 12:11 AM |
| 1 | I am tired of motivational jerk off posts around here and the lack of practical examples in othersHell yeah. Don't be walking on your tippy toes giving a shit what they think all the time | /r/seduction | 22/04/25 12:02 AM |
| 2 | I am tired of motivational jerk off posts around here and the lack of practical examples in othersGuess you don't want any help | /r/seduction | 22/04/25 12:00 AM |
| 2 | I am tired of motivational jerk off posts around here and the lack of practical examples in othersI think you're overthinking it too much. You are on the right track talking about specifics like universities and stuff like that. It's better to be dynamic you dont wanna be like a robot | /r/seduction | 21/04/25 11:52 PM |
| -1 | I am tired of motivational jerk off posts around here and the lack of practical examples in othersLiterally anything my guy. If you can make friends even acquaintances then getting dates comes. It's not rocket science. | /r/seduction | 21/04/25 11:35 PM |
| -1 | I am tired of motivational jerk off posts around here and the lack of practical examples in othersThere's doesn't need to be. There's a million examples on this subreddit already. What you always see is people going an about is people reading like 20+ books and watching YT vids all day. Just go out and talk to people. | /r/seduction | 21/04/25 11:26 PM |
| 10 | I am tired of motivational jerk off posts around here and the lack of practical examples in othersI get that 100%. Best advice I can give for someone who learned 99% of pickup on my own is to actually try. Then when you fail you learn. Aside from that most advice isn't gonna help unless you actually make the effort at some point. | /r/seduction | 21/04/25 11:09 PM |
| 2 | YSK: Unmatch girls on Tinder a bit after you have their contact details or go on a dateConfirmation bias maybe but some of the people I talk to generally believe online is the only way. Really odd to me. | /r/seduction | 19/04/25 09:16 AM |
| 9 | YSK: Unmatch girls on Tinder a bit after you have their contact details or go on a dateIf they could find people IRL they wouldn't be there lol | /r/seduction | 18/04/25 03:46 PM |
| 2 | Do the most gorgeous girls NEVER chase a guy?Christ dude it's a metaphor. Ask girls out or you get none. Pretty simple. | /r/seduction | 17/04/25 10:31 PM |
| 1 | Do the most gorgeous girls NEVER chase a guy?It's a metaphor my guy. If you never ask a girl out why would you expect to get one? | /r/seduction | 17/04/25 10:22 PM |
| 0 | Do the most gorgeous girls NEVER chase a guy?That's like asking why an unemployed person who doesn't apply for jobs why they don't have one. There's no point in complaining man. | /r/seduction | 17/04/25 09:53 PM |
| 2 | Do the most gorgeous girls NEVER chase a guy?Making the first move is making your intentions clear not subtly waiting for the other person to ask you out. There's a clear difference and I've been on both sides. | /r/seduction | 17/04/25 09:49 PM |
| 11 | Fat guys of seduction, how successful are you?I mean sure that can work as well but at some point the person needs to realize they're not attracting the people they want. | /r/seduction | 16/04/25 02:18 AM |
| 11 | Fat guys of seduction, how successful are you?Play the same field then. Go for the same type of women | /r/seduction | 16/04/25 02:11 AM |
| 4 | She did it, but I can't do itYou're putting the pussy on the pedestal. Don't do that. | /r/seduction | 31/03/25 02:00 AM |
| 12 | You want to know a cheat code? Use sun screen every day.People are living longer though and we get cancer the older we get | /r/seduction | 27/02/25 09:57 AM |
| 2 | You want to know a cheat code? Use sun screen every day.You've gotta look at Asian skincare. Americans aren't doing it right. | /r/seduction | 27/02/25 09:54 AM |
| -1 | You want to know a cheat code? Use sun screen every day.Ignorant | /r/seduction | 27/02/25 09:53 AM |
| 49 | Who else was told growing up work hard, get a good job, make a lot of money and girls will come flocking to you?What you're describing is peacocking. I'll be honest when I looked pretty decent when I was younger but never really put myself out there which is where the real issue is nowadays. Parents just assume everything will just work itself out. | /r/seduction | 22/12/24 07:31 PM |
| 1 | Japan for Asian / India men?Well I'd say you're actually doing well considering | /r/seduction | 20/12/24 11:59 PM |
| 66 | "If you could give your younger self just one piece of advice about seduction or dating, what would it be?Don't waste all your time on a for women until you have her. AKA abundance mindset. Same advice for your career. That shit job you have in your teens ain't gonna matter years later. | /r/seduction | 02/12/24 02:05 PM |
| 7 | I don't understand what flirting isSee because I feel most ND people don't pick up on the subtle things all the time. They want most things black and white laid out plainly right in front of them. Which is fine in a lot of situations but not for dating. | /r/seduction | 22/11/24 02:41 PM |
| 3 | If you get no attention on dating sites does it mean you will get no attention in real life?Yeah no shit | /r/seduction | 16/11/24 03:18 AM |
| 2 | Do you contact a girl after a night out? She didn’t seem fully sober so would she even remember me?Go for it | /r/seduction | 08/11/24 03:01 PM |
| 1 | People who get laid,how?Being resentful is pretty bad as well. Those are the guys you should be befriending. You know for them giving you tips and the social proof as well. | /r/seduction | 08/11/24 03:08 AM |
| 2 | Approaching Girls Alone: Any Tips for Avoiding Large Friend Groups?Won't not can't | /r/seduction | 06/11/24 02:11 AM |
| 4 | What is the Obsession with Cold ApproachesWell considering you’ve never tried | /r/seduction | 05/11/24 08:55 AM |
| 1 | All I wear is gym attire, is this bad?Maybe if you’re a man | /r/seduction | 24/10/24 03:34 PM |
| -5 | Why are all dating coaches/PUAs are attractive?lol what | /r/seduction | 22/10/24 03:02 AM |
| -9 | Why are all dating coaches/PUAs are attractive?If women will go after him he’s attractive full stop. Shit on him if you want but clearly he’s doing something most aren’t. | /r/seduction | 21/10/24 08:17 PM |
| 3 | Why are all dating coaches/PUAs are attractive?Cringe shot right here. If they were truly that ugly they would never pull anybody. | /r/seduction | 21/10/24 07:35 PM |
| -3 | Why are all dating coaches/PUAs are attractive?Nah tons of women go for that kind of guy | /r/seduction | 21/10/24 07:22 PM |
| 4 | PSA: seduction =/= basic social skillsSociety been doing that to people for the last few years. It’s letting people use it as a crutch rather than something that can be overcome. | /r/seduction | 15/10/24 02:47 AM |
| 57 | How to get laid at an anime conventionIf it was one piece you could talk for hours | /r/seduction | 04/10/24 08:52 AM |
| 11 | How to know if she wants to kiss you (so you don't make it awkward)Just go for it, how YOU react after is what makes it awkward or not | /r/seduction | 27/09/24 02:05 PM |
| 5 | How to know if she wants to kiss you (so you don't make it awkward)lol bro this isn’t a porno. Most girls will want to kiss you at some point. | /r/seduction | 27/09/24 02:04 PM |
| 27 | Seduction for ADHDers?• stop watching porn •start talking to chicks • don’t be a simp | /r/seduction | 18/09/24 11:48 AM |
| 1 | Everyone says to optimize instagram profile but how?I mean some might but you you’d be surprised how many are in debt or have their livelihood funded by somebody else. Ever notice how younger people have so much free time and money? College and loans make it easy. | /r/seduction | 23/08/24 12:33 PM |
| 2 | Are people here actually having sex?It’s all just experience. Can’t learn if you don’t try. Say you’re the creepy guy? Keep approaching till you figure out how not to be. Yeah you might turn someone off and get called a creep. Own it and walk away. If anybody here hasn’t tried to get a girl IRL they have no right to claim “why can’t I get laid”, “why can’t I get a GF”, etc. It’s like wondering why you don’t have a job if you never applied for any. | /r/seduction | 16/08/24 04:21 PM |
| 1 | Is there a PUA community for gay men? There ought to be.A lot of people have the same problem men, women, gay or straight people whatever. Yeah it’d be nice if everyone approached you even lots of straight guys want that, girls do but as you can see most people aren’t experts. Once you realize you aren’t gonna get swooned like that you gotta put in some work. | /r/seduction | 16/07/24 12:58 AM |
| 1 | How to escalate from daily snaps to something else with a girl?Just ask her out. If rejected can move on quick and go find another girl. If she says yes, awesome. Win win situation | /r/seduction | 03/07/24 05:42 PM |
| 1 | Shame with publicly dating a much older womanThis is so true. The last 6 months has been a literal trip for me | /r/seduction | 27/06/24 01:01 AM |
| 5 | Showing mental weakness is a turnoff to most women.People always say this but aren’t most on here just for short term stuff? If you’re looking for long term stuff yeah crying is gonna happen sometime but you still gotta be your girls rock if shit hits the fan. | /r/seduction | 20/06/24 01:10 AM |
| 3 | Past a certain age(30+), are most people married or in relationships?Nah you just care too much what others think | /r/seduction | 06/06/24 10:52 AM |
| 2 | How important money/status is for a guy? Is it a huge deal or it's just a bunch of my insecurities? Please be honest.Have you any read the wiki or any posts on this sub? Just literally start talking to girls and asking them out. | /r/seduction | 30/05/24 10:51 PM |
| 1 | How important money/status is for a guy? Is it a huge deal or it's just a bunch of my insecurities? Please be honest.Dude was busy in prison | /r/seduction | 30/05/24 10:50 PM |
| 1 | Those of you who successfully faked it till they made it with confidence. How did you do it?Considering most women’s clothes ain’t have pockets | /r/seduction | 30/05/24 01:10 PM |
| 3 | Socially acceptable ways to meet younger womenI call BS. That’s like people complaining how they have no friends. Ask yourself have you actually tried already? | /r/seduction | 26/05/24 05:42 PM |
| 4 | Socially acceptable ways to meet younger womenThink it’s depends on the type of women. It’s pretty easy to get a read on somebody before you even start dating seriously. | /r/seduction | 26/05/24 12:03 PM |
| 3 | Socially acceptable ways to meet younger womenIt can’t be any different than finding somebody at work. Maybe show up a couple weeks and get to know somebody and then ask them out could be better. | /r/seduction | 26/05/24 12:01 PM |
| 11 | A day in the life of a hot girlWhy are you trying to justify all of this when nearly half of it is your problem? | /r/seduction | 21/05/24 12:41 AM |
| 4 | How do you guys get over the guilt of making a girl uncomfortableThe post looks like it was written by a middle schooler | /r/seduction | 16/05/24 12:55 PM |
| 51 | Using alcohol to start cold approachingThis is such a bad habit. I was a day driver for awhile and it never actually solved any issues. Plus the fact that people can actually smell the alcohol on you. This might work if you’re on a booze cruise or on a night out with friends but please learn to get rejected sober and you’ll feel so much better. | /r/seduction | 14/05/24 08:41 PM |
| 3 | Loners: Prioritize making female friends over trying to pull girlsI fell this sometimes. It’s not like I dislike people but if we aren’t into the same things it’s like why are we hanging out. Like people I used to drink or smoke with I barely hang out with anymore. Either that or I feel like I’m putting in so much effort into a friendship that I just don’t even bother anymore. Like it’s not reciprocated friendship. I don’t really like to fake interest in a person. | /r/seduction | 11/05/24 10:30 PM |
| 4 | After meeting a girl in person and getting their contact, do you chat for a few days before asking out or just go straight to the point?What is this? It’s not rocket science. Just ask her out or don’t. | /r/seduction | 10/05/24 07:49 AM |
| 260 | What's something that you have learned from getting rejectedFinding the type of girl that’s actually into you. | /r/seduction | 09/05/24 08:08 PM |
| 8 | Female coworker asked for phone number !Fair point | /r/seduction | 05/05/24 08:02 PM |
| 0 | Female coworker asked for phone number !Nah it’s fine as long as you know how to handle it | /r/seduction | 05/05/24 05:15 PM |
| 1 | Tinder girl says it's too soon to meet up in person and she's too shy to meet new peopleTiktok | /r/seduction | 27/04/24 12:22 PM |
| 2 | What are good and free activities or jobs you can do to expand social skills/circle and meet woman?I feel I’m in the same position brother. I’ll be 30 soon and it seems most women in this age range are all looking for something super serious and ready to settle. Then it seems you get younger chicks expect me to have my shit together as well. I know it’s possible because I know lots have, just wished my social skills weren’t so trash as a teen. 🤷 | /r/seduction | 19/04/24 08:14 AM |
| 2 | obtaining multiple gfsWhy does everything in this sub need to be a joke? | /r/seduction | 17/02/24 07:14 AM |
| 2 | I hate talking but yearn for connectionYou care way to much. You're already talking about love before even going on a date. Abundance mindset is what you need | /r/seduction | 09/02/24 04:22 PM |
| 1 | What are some cheap/ free resources you used to improve your dating life ?"Enough" is a bit of misnomer. Yeah being at your peak is ideal but if you take a look around you when in public you'll realize how many people who aren't the standard definition of attractive still seem to have relationships. Of course that may require you lowering your standards a bit but there's mothing wrong with playing the field. Remember looks are important but not everything. | /r/seduction | 09/02/24 03:47 PM |
| 1 | What are some cheap/ free resources you used to improve your dating life ?I respect that and I hope you find what you're looking for. Just don't become bitter and start hating women, there's a lot people on here that rant about nonsense. | /r/seduction | 09/02/24 03:36 PM |
| 1 | What are some cheap/ free resources you used to improve your dating life ?It's easy to come to that conclusion if your luck with women is sparse but if you look at it like sales then it begins to make sense. Like when you first start trying sales is like when you first start making moves on women. At first you'll suck but then you'll learn what you can improve on and then you'll see success. Its probably not gonna be a night and day difference but if you accept the black pill nonsense people like to throw around you'll never get anywhere. | /r/seduction | 09/02/24 03:26 PM |
| 1 | What are some cheap/ free resources you used to improve your dating life ?To most men a random woman isn't gonna tell you this too your face. | /r/seduction | 09/02/24 03:07 PM |
| 4 | What are some cheap/ free resources you used to improve your dating life ?Well you don't need to look like a million bucks but taking care of yourself even just a little bit would help. The most important thing is approach. If you never do that your like the 45 year old women begging a man on tiktok to approach them. | /r/seduction | 09/02/24 03:04 PM |
| 1 | Being shamelessHonestly that really depends and I'm telling you that's BS. A couple rejections in the same venue doesn't mean you should leave right away. Yeah there's a proper way to go about goddamn it but just running away with the tail between your legs is just a waste of time. | /r/seduction | 09/02/24 02:54 PM |
| 3 | Being shamelessFacts. | /r/seduction | 09/02/24 02:49 PM |
| 5 | What i learnedIf somebody asked me that I’d feel they’d be selling me something I don’t want. I’ve worked in stores before trying to convince people to buy things but once your start asking what’s the hang up? Why aren’t you buying so and so, etc. people get turned off real quick. | /r/seduction | 26/12/23 09:58 PM |
| 2 | If you are comfortable being alone, at ease with rejection, and have abundance mindset, you will rarely act needy with othersI feel the same. I'll be like I shoulda texted that chick back or something but I'll forget about it and then nothing. There's definitely a line somewhere where you're too needy and then not showing enough interest. Too many games too play while balancing my own shit. | /r/seduction | 18/09/22 10:39 PM |
| 2 | If you are comfortable being alone, at ease with rejection, and have abundance mindset, you will rarely act needy with othersHappened to me so many times. Gets easier every time I'll tell you, and even I'm no pro. | /r/seduction | 18/09/22 10:34 PM |
| 2 | Help With Letting A Girl Know I'm Actually InterestedI'll work on that. I notice a few people I've been talking to have been really passive. Maybe its the why and how questions that are lacking. I'll work on that. Thanks. | /r/seduction | 01/09/22 07:02 PM |
| 1 | Help With Letting A Girl Know I'm Actually InterestedYou make a fair point. I'll work on that. Its only like when the girls acting kinda passive but I know we could hang longer. | /r/seduction | 01/09/22 07:00 PM |
| 1 | Help With Letting A Girl Know I'm Actually InterestedWhy does it seem like there's awkward silences then? I like talking about myself which may be a bit of an issue. I don't necassarily want to brag to others but telling them about me makes convos as well. But also foreign chicks in general interest me so much more. I always ask about their culture, where they're from, etc. and the convos usually flow alright. But after a few minutes it seems die out. What gives? | /r/seduction | 01/09/22 04:42 PM |
| 2 | Community college cold approach tipsPeople aren't necessary afraid of approaching hot girls. Its more like they think they're not good enough, like the girls above them or something. But once you get over that and talk to more people you'll realize just because someone's attractive doesn't make them a better person. | /r/seduction | 01/09/22 04:01 PM |
| 5 | If you had $50K cash sitting in the bank in your early 20s, what would you do with it?Having liquid assets readily available is a good thing. Why is a savings account a bad idea in your opinion? | /r/askTRP | 27/01/20 03:28 AM |
| 1 | If you were an introverted 30 year old who didn't need a job, but wanted to get one in order to meet people, where would you work?You're right man. I overthink this sort of thing all the time. | /r/askTRP | 19/01/20 06:56 AM |
| 3 | If you were an introverted 30 year old who didn't need a job, but wanted to get one in order to meet people, where would you work?Damn I hear the don't shit where you eat thing thrown around a lot but I think it doesn't apply here? | /r/askTRP | 19/01/20 06:49 AM |
| 0 | I get paid to sit around for 8 hours. I can do whatever I want. What would you do that is productive?To each their own | /r/askTRP | 24/12/19 06:36 PM |
| 4 | How many hours a week do you work?How are you gonna say that and not say what job? | /r/askTRP | 21/10/19 07:22 AM |
| 1 | How can I get with a girl if the logistics are shit?Yeah you're right but I haven't had like a true friend like that over the house in years. Fuck it all bro. I'll try anything at this point. I'm trying tinder and other stuff and I'll see what works. | /r/askTRP | 31/08/19 09:54 AM |
| 1 | How can I get with a girl if the logistics are shit?I am ashamed yes. Don't really know what I should be doing differently to be quite honest. I've got the basics(lifting, job, fit), but not having my own place does bother me a lot. I just need to get out more I guess. | /r/askTRP | 31/08/19 09:50 AM |
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