31ar Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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1	Women shit test unintentionally Firstly, get a hold of yourself man. This isn't really shit-testing and it certainly isn't gaslighting. Secondly, women aren't some perfect supercomputers designed to test you and make you jump through hoops. She's human too, and probably totally confused by you! You're being WAY too analytical and touchy about stuff (and effectively failing the vibe test, let alone a shit test). And I don't mean failing her vibe test... you're ruining your own vibe. When it comes to situations like this, you go…	/r/TheRedPill	07/04/25 09:53 AM
27	How to close efficiently in Bucharest, Romania The goal is not to get lots od drunk girls around me, I mostly want to meet girls who are just having a good time and can lead to a sober date. Friggin hilarious bro. Your actions and your words aren't lining up at all.	/r/TheRedPill	15/08/23 10:03 PM
30	How to gain “inner confidence” One angle : Competence = confidence.	/r/TheRedPill	27/01/23 02:04 AM
1	FwB downgrades plans at the last minute You guys hadn't met in a long time. She wanted to first just meet and ensure she was still into it - rather than just going at it at home. I've heard women say "i forgot how much I liked you until we spoke again"... So it's entirely possible.	/r/TheRedPill	16/01/23 03:14 AM
1	I feel like following RP advice will make me a monster. Ok hang on! This is something I've never seen mentioned, but i think about it a lot :: There's 2 parts to the red pill : 1) The theory / principles about how female nature & sexual strategy works. 2) Actionables, tips, tricks and methods to adjust your current behavior to get the most out of this new reality. From what I've seen in my several decades of life, of which the last decade was after TRP opened my eyes.... #1 above is pretty much 100000% true. For #2 however (the actionables; for examp…	/r/TheRedPill	11/12/22 12:10 AM
1	There is one thing im doing wrong and i would love to know what it is. To get your answer, look at the differences in your behavior between when you don't like a girl and when you do. I'm guessing you try to be very "nice" when you like a girl.	/r/seduction	09/07/22 02:05 AM
1	Frame as I understand it [Discussion] Frame has 3 components. Logical, emotional, and power. This is good! Most of us lose frame on the emotional part - - and it's no surprise that's where women know they have to hit us, since they are low on the (physical) 'power' part. The emotional part is also where people pleasers & doormats lose frame.	/r/TheRedPill	25/02/22 02:23 AM
2	Almost lost virginity at 16 I've been reading this sub for 5+ years, and this is probably the most disturbing post I've read. I think the one thing that's standing out to me is your complete inability to read parts of the situation. This girl is telling you to take things slower. Not every girl just wants to reenact a porn scene. There are emotions involved, and basics of trust and comfort, even when it's mostly just sex. You're completely blind to that, and I don't really blame you because - like you said, you've been w…	/r/TheRedPill	19/07/20 09:42 AM
9	Meet The Endorsed Contributors: VasiliyZaitzev Good stuff UncleV. Thanks for your contributions here. I don't really remember most usernames, but yours was memorable because of something a few years back like "Sit down kids, and let Uncle Vasiliy tell you a story" (good branding /marketing!) - and the post was eye opening too. Could you point us to a few examples of what you consider "real" psychology: Really, advice I would give to young guys is get as much practical experience in psychology as you can. Not the bullshit they teach you, but …	/r/TheRedPill	26/10/19 08:17 AM
30	Meet The Endorsed Contributors: VasiliyZaitzev @ mods : enjoyable series! Can we include ages of the ECs (as well as ages in the timeline of the shift from blue to red)? I think that will add a lot of value to readers, especially the younger ones who are expecting to just read a few sidebar links and transform.	/r/TheRedPill	26/10/19 08:12 AM
3	Help with girlfriend Firstly, this should be titled "Help with me" -- not "Help with girlfriend". You're the problem - and unless you realise that, you're not going to be able to truly fix it. How did I find TRP? Well I was in the exact same situation as you (5+ years ago). Everything was amazing, except this 1 thing. Of course, we broke up a few months later. Spectacular girl, but she just slowly lost most and more respect for me. If you're going to do this, you need to do this ON YOUR OWN. You can't confide in her…	/r/MarriedRedPill	23/10/19 11:01 AM
6	Meet The Endorsed Contributors: RStonePT I've yet to see a way to increase a mans neuroplasticity and get into learning new mental models, other than experiencing some sort of trauma. Goddamn we need to discuss this. Like the mind's own "if it ain't broke, don't try to fix it". Is there ANY other way? And I ask not from a point of view of purely TRP, but also a greater view of potential to change so many human behaviours that are bad for society & the world in general. PS - That "Unhappy Wives" thread was pure gold. Thanks.	/r/TheRedPill	08/08/19 04:49 AM
16	The "Other" Guy It's actually really easy to summarize - though hard for people to understand without examples (like you've provided). Summary : Disrespect. When she's drunk, the lack of respect she has for her man comes to the surface.	/r/TheRedPill	24/06/18 04:22 AM