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18

Nice! I'm a bit older than most here and am focused more on day game, as I don't do loud clubs. I'm curious how you would approach an attractive woman in a supermarket or target? Direct v indirect. Any canned approaches or are they spontanious/ situational?
/r/seduction23/07/26 11:18 PM
1

Good game is when you are so comfortable with approaching that it is effortless and fun. Like any sport it takes practice. You fail, learn, get better, and repeat.
/r/seduction15/07/26 12:54 AM
1

Good game will get you laid despite your weight. I’ve been on both sides of the weight dilemma and I’ve had just as much luck being 30-40 lbs overweight than I have being thin. Woman eat with their emotions more than their eyes.
/r/seduction14/07/26 10:28 PM
3

Dude you have to approach cold. If you’re waiting for IOI’s from her before you approach, you’ll almost never talk to anyone. Even the hottest dudes still have to initiate
/r/seduction14/07/26 10:25 PM
1

Do you think your situation would be different in any other city?
/r/seduction14/07/26 09:49 PM
0

With lots of cash and condoms
/r/seduction14/07/26 09:46 PM
7

You learn game by playing the game. You can watch YouTube, read posts, read books or even take a seminar on game. But the only way to learn game is to practice until you get competent. (It took me around a year- year 1/2). Once you’re competent the game is ridiculously fun.
/r/seduction08/07/26 05:48 PM
0

You don’t need all the pick up tactics. Just be handsome, rich, and powerful. Duh!
/r/seduction20/05/26 03:59 PM
15

If you think you need a coach, get a coach. It definitely can’t hurt except maybe in your wallet that said there’s a ton of material available online and in books. I doubt any of the modern coaches are bringing anything really new to the table that wasn’t around in the 90s.
/r/seduction15/01/26 06:24 PM
1

Bro is sharing a glory hole with countless dudes. The web of diseases is vast. Enjoy
/r/seduction23/10/25 03:33 PM
1

Cause men usually have to pee which shits down the Johnson until they do
/r/seduction20/10/25 08:38 PM
-1

Just ask her if you can put a baby in her. This line is never failed to get a laugh and a smile.
/r/seduction09/09/25 03:51 AM
30

Hey baby. Nice melons 🍉
/r/seduction04/09/25 07:16 AM
4

🤢🤢🤢 yikes
/r/seduction03/09/25 01:28 AM
3

Hope you’re getting regular bloodwork done. If not you could be spreading a wildfire 🔥🔥🔥
/r/seduction03/09/25 01:09 AM
2

Just ask. It’s not some wild notion you have to convince her of. She’s either down or not. If you’ve established a strong sexual relationship, she’ll easily agree. Women want men who lead and are direct. Just tell her what you want.
/r/seduction03/09/25 12:51 AM
1

My town is 16000 people. I prefer to meet women in the city. Too many people talk in small towns
/r/seduction24/08/25 02:10 AM
3

Stippers look strange in the light.
/r/seduction24/08/25 01:33 AM
2

Tell interesting stories and you’ll never be boring. Have some canned material ready and you’ll be ahead of 99% of men
/r/seduction16/08/25 02:05 PM
2

Women love emojis. Full stop ✋
/r/seduction16/08/25 02:03 PM
6

Some good points but #3? Not sure about that one. Maybe I’m playing the game differently but I’ve never been rejected when kissing in public on the first date
/r/seduction16/08/25 02:02 PM
0

Just means you skipped some steps in your game. No big deal. You’ll do better next time. It’s just like any other game. Keep working the levels and you’ll soon be a master seducer.
/r/seduction16/08/25 01:55 PM
71

Impressing girls with magic tricks
/r/seduction23/05/25 05:50 AM
1

Game trumps looks assuming you’re not a total slob.
/r/seduction24/04/25 07:06 AM
0

The only opener you’ll ever need. Ready?!?! “You 🔥🔥🔥”. That’s it. Simple and effective. You’re welcome
/r/seduction16/04/25 06:45 PM
1

Sure. Just watch out for those STI’s. I’m not joking.
/r/seduction09/04/25 02:52 PM
1

Good game is based on eternal principles of human behavior. You can change the marketing, but the game stays the same.
/r/seduction07/04/25 10:52 PM
1

If your game is solid the women will be flattered and engaged. It's people with no game or bad game that make approaching women feel icky.
/r/seduction07/04/25 10:45 PM
-1

I disagree about the "worthy of dating" part
/r/seduction07/04/25 10:43 PM
5

Practice practice and then go out and practice. It’s just like any other skill
/r/seduction07/03/25 04:47 PM
2

Women don’t want to be seduced and men don’t want to be “locked down”.
/r/seduction07/03/25 04:39 PM
34

A wedding ring and a baby
/r/seduction07/03/25 04:31 PM
1

Save your money and go to a boot camp on game.
/r/seduction21/02/25 05:37 PM
1

Grocery store
/r/seduction20/02/25 02:01 AM
1

Talk to everyone. Male or female.
/r/seduction20/02/25 01:47 AM
39

Letting go of being outcome dependent. I used to be terrified to sexualize conversations with women, but experience has shown me that they love it and enjoy it just as much as men do.
/r/seduction24/01/25 06:54 PM
2

Speed seduction
/r/seduction19/01/25 02:20 PM
3

Does thinking like that, serve you? He might be a fucking loser but a smooth talker. He might be an ugly ass hat with a small dick, but he’s got a big checkbook. Again, what makes you think he’s better than you?
/r/seduction09/01/25 04:11 PM
16

How do you know he’s “better than you”?
/r/seduction09/01/25 03:28 PM
2

He doesn’t want to teach live anymore so this is a clever way to earn some passive income. Glad it’s working for you.
/r/seduction07/01/25 09:21 PM
2

Ross has been working on this for about a year or so. It’s clever. If you’re new to game this could be a good place to start. If you have game, you don’t need apps. I’ve learned more from Ross than anyone else. His personality is like course sandpaper but his work over the decades is undeniably powerful.
/r/seduction07/01/25 09:04 PM
2

Good post OP. Like any skill, you can read about it, watch videos on it, but you’re never gonna get good at it without putting in some hours of effort and work and blood sweat and tears. There’s a learning curve to this game and it takes time. The good news is the rewards are off the charts, awesome. It is a true superpower.
/r/seduction05/01/25 04:10 PM
3

Have stamina and a big hog
/r/seduction01/01/25 05:52 AM
1

You can still get RSD material. Just google speed seduction it’s paid to play, but he’s got decades of content on there.
/r/seduction30/12/24 09:42 PM
12

First date = specific day. After that, it’s week by week.
/r/seduction29/12/24 08:17 PM
1

You move on immediately I wouldn’t even ask a second time
/r/seduction27/12/24 03:03 PM
10

Church
/r/seduction23/12/24 11:39 PM
1

This guy gets it
/r/seduction21/12/24 07:30 PM
19

It would be considered like a hail marry or onside kick in the NFL. It’s possible, but it’s a very low percentage of success.
/r/seduction18/12/24 07:57 PM
1

“Look I know the thought of you being with a more experienced man may be a little intimidating for you. But imagine how good it will feel to not have to put up with immature boys, who don’t have their life together.”
/r/seduction25/11/24 02:50 PM
1

I don’t care what anyone thinks. I’m just dating for fun.
/r/seduction24/11/24 04:01 AM
1

Don’t forget hypnosis and palm reading
/r/seduction24/11/24 12:47 AM
20

Keep rocking it brother. I’m 45, learned game after a 20 year marriage. Never had so much fun in my life. Never thought I’d be dating women half my age. It’s fun. You got this. Master the game and you’ll never worry about pussy again.
/r/seduction23/11/24 04:59 AM
3

Cut bait and move on
/r/seduction23/11/24 03:56 AM
-1

Ross Jeffrries
/r/seduction22/11/24 02:04 AM
-4

I’m sure a quick Google search or AI search will help but there are certain language patterns created to draw women away from a relationship, especially if it’s no longer serving her
/r/seduction22/11/24 01:10 AM
-6

Have you ever heard of the boyfriend destroyer pattern?
/r/seduction22/11/24 01:00 AM
15

I hope not. I’m 45 and still play the game weekly.
/r/seduction22/11/24 12:36 AM
95

You don’t
/r/seduction20/11/24 06:07 PM
-1

It’s on his website
/r/seduction27/10/24 09:00 PM
4

Mystery wrote an entire book of nothing but openers. Check it out.
/r/seduction27/10/24 05:34 PM
1

Talk normally like you would with any friend, but occasionally remind her about how amazing it was when you guys were in bed. (Oooof last night was good)(Are you still buzzing a little from last night?)Don’t lean on it too hard just drop subtle little reminders.
/r/seduction26/10/24 07:37 PM
0

Absolutely and I wish more people practiced that skill.
/r/seduction24/10/24 10:17 PM
0

It doesn’t really matter how you approach or what you say specifically. What is importantly is that you’ve practiced your approach so many times that it comes off completely natural and spontaneous. This goes for the first date too. Have a plan. Where are you going? Where are best tables at the restaurant? What stories will you tell? How will you escalate and when. My first date is something I’ve done hundreds of times. Same spots, same stories, same progression of escalation. So as you think of…
/r/seduction24/10/24 09:25 PM
169

Some gold in those hills. Thanks for sharing
/r/seduction24/10/24 03:46 PM
3

I certainly have fun while playing the game.
/r/seduction23/10/24 11:15 PM
0

I’m getting laid
/r/seduction23/10/24 11:11 PM
-1

Ok boomer
/r/seduction23/10/24 07:49 PM
7

Study and practice. I read some books, went to a boot camp, and practiced a lot. Took a year to get consistent results. After 3 years it’s effortless and I am waaaaay more picky about who I share my energy with.
/r/seduction23/10/24 07:31 PM
152

Solid game is invisible to women.
/r/seduction23/10/24 04:46 PM
1

When they get what they want, they never want it again. You gotta be like the rabbit a always stay a couple steps ahead to keep them chasing.
/r/seduction22/10/24 05:40 AM
45

You gotta have standards. Met this really cute girl online we shared pics and texted a bunch. When I met her she was about 60 pounds heavier than I anticipated. I looked at her thighs and thought there was no way I’m going In between those ham hocks. I bowed out gracefully. She was bummed but if the body mass is such that it interferes with basic sex, – too bad so sad. Next!
/r/seduction22/10/24 02:04 AM
1

I also live in a very small town about 90 minutes from Phoenix. Because my town is so small I do not pick up women in it. It’s just a bad idea because everybody knows each other. What I have found helpful is to meet women online, set up some dates in the city and go have some fun. Typically I will set up 2 to 3 meets each time I go to Phoenix. That way if something goes wrong I have some back ups. If you just looking to pick up women, I would pick a location to meet the women, have another locat…
/r/seduction22/10/24 12:58 AM
2

How long have you been studying game? Many of the issues that you’re experiencing are easily addressed, but just learning some simple techniques and systems for seducing women.
/r/seduction22/10/24 12:48 AM
3

Agreed
/r/seduction21/10/24 05:09 PM
9

Who said they are attractive? That’s in the eye of the beholder. These men have put in the work, figured out how to dress, and how to speak to women. That is why they appear attractive. I know some PUAs have used paid actresses, but it’s probably more the exception in the rule. I wouldn’t let a couple of bad actors dissuade you from learning the techniques found in the YouTube videos. Bottom line is get your shit together, get your appearance on point, and learn some fucking game. Then you’ll be…
/r/seduction21/10/24 04:35 PM
20

You have a lot of patience. Hopefully he learned something from watching you operate
/r/seduction20/10/24 07:58 PM
10

Bowling is a good one. Lots of high fives and hugs as you pass each other as you’re taking turns. Something silly like Dave and Busters (arcade) also works for little touches and flirting. Even just sitting next to each other while eating sushi or enjoying a wine tasting will give you lots of opportunities to touch and flirt. Dancing as suggested above is also wonderful
/r/seduction19/10/24 11:18 PM
1

It’s easy and preferred.
/r/seduction11/10/24 06:28 PM
4

Chat GPT will practice with you.
/r/seduction10/10/24 09:44 PM
1

"Now that you've had time to IMAGINE HOW MUCH FUN ITS GOIONG TO BE when WE'RE GETTING TOGETHER, let's pick a day IT'S HAPPENING. I'm going to be at LOCATION on DATE. You should join me for X (X = margarita, tea, dinner, a walk, whatever)." It's meant to be slightly confusing and loaded with subtle suggestions and commands. Or just say "hey - what up? Come join me for this thing I'm doing later this week."
/r/seduction10/10/24 08:12 PM
2

Clubs suck for many people. I'd rather run game at a corporate hotel bar at 5PM on a Tuesday. Bored business women from out of town are so easy to pickup. Think outside the club and start approaching in places where you can actually hear each other, hold a conversation, build some rapport and escalate from there.
/r/seduction10/10/24 07:59 PM
23

With any public location you should be asking yourself if there is a social contract where it's expected that people may be approached for dates. At a club, bar, or public event like a concert or festival, it is expected that people will flirt with each other and try to hook up. There may not be a social contract in places like class rooms, gyms, or even a yoga class. I'm not saying don't flirt in these places, but I suggest you be very subtle and mindful they they may just be there for a workou…
/r/seduction10/10/24 07:57 PM
1

Why are you worried about being seen as a creep? Is this belief serving you?
/r/seduction10/10/24 07:17 PM
1

Are you leading her towards sex? Women want to be led plain and simple. So if you’re not escalating kino, escalating the sexual innuendo in the conversation or flirting with her in an overt, I want you, kind of way - then you should start doing those things right now and you’ll see a huge improvement in your success.
/r/seduction07/10/24 11:12 PM
1

Ask questions that illicit the response you seek. For example, if you want to turn her on physically, ask her to describe the last time, she felt really turned on. If you want her to future pace with you and imagine the two of you together in the future, ask her about a vacation that she wants to go on in the future and how it will feel being there immersed in it. Asking fact questions is fine, but what really drops their panties is asking questions that require the listener to imagine a scenari…
/r/seduction07/10/24 11:05 PM
18

Nice post. Good words of encouragement. Game has no age limit and the principles work the same on a 20 yr old or a 50 yr old. Learn their buttons and how to push them and you'll have everything you want.
/r/seduction07/10/24 09:51 PM
7

You really don’t know one way or the other at this point. She hasn’t sent you any clear signs up until now. It’s time for you to step up, show some interest and see how she responds.
/r/seduction02/10/24 06:26 PM
2

Flirt with her dude. Run some game. Then you’ll know her level of interest and you can calibrate accordingly.
/r/seduction02/10/24 06:24 PM
2

If the dates are not going anywhere you need to lead them to where you want to go. If your game is good you should have a series of stories or experience that you share with your date. The stories should be designed to elicit emotions from the female. each story escalating the feelings and encouraging Kino. So if you’re not getting where you want to go with a woman, you need to look at your roadmap and improve it.
/r/seduction02/10/24 04:54 PM
3

Learn good game, approach often, calibrate as necessary. OP sounds very outcome dependent. It’s like fortnight. Some rounds you get blown out early. Others you get the victory. The real enjoyment comes from playing the game and improving. Who fucking cares if you crash and burn. There is always another round. Always another opportunity. Learn to love the game and you’ll get better at it.
/r/seduction02/10/24 03:50 PM
2

Something in your game is preventing you from hooking their attention and maintaining it long enough to lock in the date. Tell us a little about what’s going on specific
/r/seduction02/10/24 03:30 PM
3

I learned that all of the gurus are basically doing the same thing. The reason is, the techniques they teach actually do work. The key is to be bold, be fearless, and remember that you were the prize, not the chick.
/r/seduction01/10/24 01:58 PM
7

I learned game in my 40s. I've never had so much fun with women. I dove in, studied everything I could get my hands on, and practiced weekly for nearly 2 years. Now I have many beautiful plates spinning and my dance card is always full.
/r/seduction30/09/24 09:37 PM
1

Guys struggle to even approach and you’re knit picking whether the opener is too direct?
/r/seduction30/09/24 02:21 PM
3

As long as it’s brief, welcome and not creepy it’s all good
/r/seduction28/09/24 05:27 AM
2

Did you ever ask her about the fake number? Perhaps it was just written down wrong
/r/seduction24/09/24 05:00 PM
8

You might consider figuring out the anger issues before playing game. If I were her, I wouldn’t text back. Perhaps for my own safety.
/r/seduction23/09/24 09:43 PM
6

You could think of it like going to the gym. You know it’ll be good for you. You know the more you do it the better you’ll feel and the more capable you’ll become. Problem is getting off the couch is hard. Taking the first steps is awkward. Sometimes you’ll feel real some and your body will experience discomfort. The good news is all that is temporary and once you establish the habit and put in the effort, it will bless your life in countless ways. Learning game (social dynamics) is the same as …
/r/seduction23/09/24 08:30 PM
109

Dogs are chick crack for sure
/r/seduction23/09/24 08:11 PM
8

Approaching is exciting regardless of the outcome
/r/seduction23/09/24 01:20 PM
9

Your approach needs to breath a bit before asking for the number. “Hi I don’t know you but give me your phone number” will rarely work. Start building rapport with some whitty banter. Get her laughing, smiling, and enjoying being in your presence. Anchor those good feeling to you. Give her a false time constraint and always appear to be leaving. Once you’ve hooked her emotionally, then ask “You seem like someone I’d like to get to know better, I have to go to this art gallery opening on Tuesday.…
/r/seduction20/09/24 07:13 PM
0

It works the same as day game only it’s darker and louder.
/r/seduction20/09/24 07:06 PM
3

Sure. Hypnotherapy is a wonderful modality to change your life. Whether it’s changing the way you eat, creating and reinforcing new habits, or seeing yourself through different eyes. Hypnosis can reframe how you look at yourself. So go find a hypnotherapist. It usually only takes one session And a session shouldn’t be more than about 300 bucks
/r/seduction20/09/24 05:34 PM
1

Find a hypnotherapist in your area and go do a session
/r/seduction20/09/24 05:26 PM
6

Google it: Controlling one’s frame, or improving one’s frame, can refer to improving one’s assertiveness to strengthen their frame. Assertiveness skills are considered the foundation of quality responses and are the most important factor in driving frame control. A frame can also refer to a person’s interpretation of reality. The brain uses frames to make sense of the constant stimuli that bombard the senses.
/r/seduction20/09/24 06:53 AM
0

Never give a woman options. You need to lead. If you want her to sit closer, tell her to move closer, or even better lead her to where you want to take things. If you’re asking you’re losing. Women want men who lead.
/r/seduction20/09/24 06:47 AM
4

They’re shit testing you and you’re not exactly passing the test. Hard to say without more details but you might need some help with frame control
/r/seduction20/09/24 06:43 AM
-3

Did you know you can practice with chat GPT? Get the app that you can talk to and you can literally run game on it to improve your skills. Try it and tell me how lame it is. 🤩
/r/seduction20/09/24 03:43 AM
-3

These are the all time best grocery store pickup lines ever spoken. Be careful when using because I have seen panties drop right in the middle of the produce section. You can thank me later. Are you a magician? Because whenever I look at you, everyone else disappears. Do you believe in love at first sight, or should I walk by your cart again? I’m not a photographer, but I can definitely picture us together—especially in the produce section.
/r/seduction19/09/24 10:00 PM
1

Chat her up. Invite her to a school event. Invite her over to study. Any action is better than no action. You have thousands of girls at your school. If this one doesn’t hook, the next one will. You live a life of abundance, act like it. Women will notice
/r/seduction19/09/24 06:39 PM
14

Sounds like that song from Frozen
/r/seduction19/09/24 05:07 PM
1

What hobbies are interest do you have? Some of my closest friends came from joining outdoor clubs and doing adventures with the members. Things like mountain biking, Whitewater, kayaking, surfing, and snowboarding. It’s a wonderful way to build, lifelong friends.
/r/seduction19/09/24 04:24 PM
0

Attend a boot camp or at the very least read a few books
/r/seduction19/09/24 02:10 PM
1

Good eye contact is a powerful tool to be used in every social interaction.
/r/seduction18/09/24 10:34 PM
2

Look into just her right eye. Keep looking until you can see your relfexion in her right eye. Now realize that you are simply looking at yourself in her eyes and notice how all the anxiety automatically goes away. You see it's easy to look at yourself in the mirror without getting nervous, just like it's easy to maintain strong eye contact while remaining calm and cool. You got this.
/r/seduction18/09/24 10:23 PM
2

Here are some horrible examples that should get the juices flowing. Hey, can you help me? I'm looking for the nearest (starbucks, in and out, who fucking cares). Hey, I'm (Name) did I see you at the (insert name) party last Friday? You look so familiar. Hey I'm (name) have I seen you at the (random place on campus)? You look so familiar.
/r/seduction18/09/24 10:17 PM
5

A series of language patterns spoken nearly word for word. The whole night is like a rehearsed performance, but to her it feels spontanious and fun. I bounce the ladies to the same three locations, tell same same jokes, escalating in intervals along the way. Before she knows it her clothes are laying on the floor and she's asking herself where I've been hiding all her life.
/r/seduction18/09/24 10:01 PM
1

Tea. Chicks love tea
/r/seduction18/09/24 08:09 PM
3

Say something cute, lean in and kiss her. Now that you have the tension broken, look for little moments to kiss her some more. Engage in a little push pull, always ending the kiss before she does. This should escalate to sex if you don't talk yourself out of it.
/r/seduction18/09/24 08:02 PM
0

religious gilrs are the easiest to sleep with. The more they love Jesus, the more they'll love your cock.
/r/seduction18/09/24 07:50 PM
6

My close rate is the same no matter where or how we met. If you're not closing, you need to adjust your strategy on the date. I repeated the exact same first date hundreds of times, like a comedian working out his routine, untill I started getting consistent results. Now I close 8/10 times. Adjust, test, evaluate, adjust, test, evaluate. You got this.
/r/seduction18/09/24 07:48 PM
-1

Put the number in your phone, take a picture of the two of you, and text it to her with a little note - "we look cute together"
/r/seduction18/09/24 07:41 PM
20

Lets talk about this one: (Asking boring questions: Avoid the generic “How’s your day?” or “What’s up?” questions—they’re predictable and uninteresting). What are some alternatives to How's your day? Maybe - "What was something that surprised you today?" "Did you find yourself thinking about me today?" I'd like to hear some clever things to text to reinitiate a convo.
/r/seduction17/09/24 09:09 PM
-1

Close your eye and lean in
/r/seduction17/09/24 02:01 PM
1

Consider getting a dating coach or attending a PUA seminar.
/r/seduction16/09/24 09:03 PM
1

They live on different planets. Mystery is just talking about pickup and Ross is focused on seduction. They’re trying to compare processes, but they’re talking about two different things.
/r/seduction17/07/24 06:23 AM
3

Copy paste. Never write something twice.
/r/seduction11/05/22 11:37 PM
2

It’s a way of her seeing if you can emotionally stand on your own two feet or if she’ll need to support you.
/r/seduction11/05/22 11:35 PM
25

Texting is like dancing. There is a flow and an energy to it. The man usually leads but at times it’s fun to follow. Being playful adds to the experience. And sometimes you gotta know when to sit down and let it breath a little. Maybe dance with someone else for a bit and come back to it with a fresh perspective. But anyone follow strict rules or steps is never going to feel in sync with their partner. Sometimes you just gotta go with what feels right.
/r/seduction11/05/22 11:35 PM
6

Curiosity is your greatest asset when meeting new people. Some people look at strangers like fish at the aquarium. Each one is different, comes from a different place, and has a different story. If you’re curious enough to ask, you’ll be amazed how easily people are willing to connect and share.
/r/seduction11/05/22 11:30 PM
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