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| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|
| 10 | “Have you seen rape and abuse statistics? I never want a son” This! Men are scared of their hypothetical daughters wearing a skirt in the future, but not worried about their future sons who would grow up to be a danger just like themWhats hard is other people don't with their kids. It's a constant battle between myself and a locker room full of boys who have been raised in a different way. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/06/20 04:14 PM |
| 20 | “Have you seen rape and abuse statistics? I never want a son” This! Men are scared of their hypothetical daughters wearing a skirt in the future, but not worried about their future sons who would grow up to be a danger just like themAs a mother of three boys, I worry about this constantly! we are always talking about consent, respect, boundaries, ect. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/06/20 01:31 PM |
| 3 | Boundaries and Standards. Nice remindersI need this hanging on my bathroom mirror | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/06/20 06:26 PM |
| 25 | "She Divorced Me Because I Left Dishes by the Sink" - Women are fed up from having to "nag" men to do the bare minimum. She shouldn't have to tell you something needs to be done. You're an adult - Just do it!Yes yes yes yes yes!!!! I was made to feel crazy for 14 years because I wanted to live in a clean home. Made to feel it was my “problem” then. Made to feel like I was unrealistic and needy. NEVER FUCKING AGAIN | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/06/20 12:10 AM |
| 53 | What are some pills you've swallowed about dating?Damn, do men lie. They have SO MANY alter egos, some of which you will never know. I found this one out the hard way when I suspected my ex husband of cheating with my best friend. Not only was I right, but the messages I read between him and his friends were downright appalling. He was a completely different person with each person. To be honest, it broke my trust in believe if anyone around me was their true self. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/06/20 11:51 AM |
| 30 | Being upfront about wanting a HVMThank you! I didnt even really look at it that way. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/06/20 02:38 PM |
| 12 | Stands me up with 24 hours of no response after a “fender bender”. Then comes clean about apparent anger issues. Boy bye. Most mad I had already done my hair and makeup 🙄I have no idea! It's the first time I ever heard that saying. I thought maybe it's a weird southern thing..... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/06/20 01:03 PM |
| 60 | Stands me up with 24 hours of no response after a “fender bender”. Then comes clean about apparent anger issues. Boy bye. Most mad I had already done my hair and makeup 🙄I was so annoyed. It’s cool, I took my fine ass downtown and marched in the protest instead ✊🏼 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/06/20 02:03 AM |
| 107 | I love all the newbiesI feel like we should have a “big sister” program for someone to help us newbs get through this mess Lololol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/06/20 01:40 AM |
| 41 | Stands me up with 24 hours of no response after a “fender bender”. Then comes clean about apparent anger issues. Boy bye. Most mad I had already done my hair and makeup 🙄It’s so weird. It’s almost like this conversation was with a completely different person. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/06/20 01:31 AM |
| 13 | Stands me up with 24 hours of no response after a “fender bender”. Then comes clean about apparent anger issues. Boy bye. Most mad I had already done my hair and makeup 🙄Right?!?! 🤨 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/06/20 01:13 AM |
| 30 | Stands me up with 24 hours of no response after a “fender bender”. Then comes clean about apparent anger issues. Boy bye. Most mad I had already done my hair and makeup 🙄Seriously. And I was careful. No red flags but I did have a gut feeling that I didn’t listen to 😫 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/06/20 01:00 AM |
| 3 | Reminder to keep your children away & safe from L/NVM, even if he's their father.I am so sorry for your experiences. As a single mother of three, this fear plays a HUGE part in my dating life. My therapist has even said that no man should even be introduced to children prior to 6 months in a committed relationship. She explained that studies have shown men can "fake it" for about 6 months, and then they will start to reveal their true self. I ave found a lot of men get intimidated when I mention waiting that long but if they don't want to wait, there's the door! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/06/20 02:47 PM |
| 6 | Yes 👏🏼women are human beings and deserve to be treated well. You are the full package already.This is what my OLD bio should say | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/06/20 12:52 PM |
| 5 | Boy bye.NO! It comes off real creepy and fuckboi. I responded that hookups have never been as good as advertised so Im gunna pass. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/05/20 06:49 PM |
| 4 | Boy bye.AMEN! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/05/20 06:45 PM |
| 21 | Boy bye.Right?! Don't want to offend so let me use a "kind" word....eyeroll | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/05/20 03:57 PM |
| 9 | Needing some support this morningThank you so much for your kind words. I cannot wait for the day to feel peace in my heart. I long for it every minute. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/05/20 02:47 PM |
| 5 | Needing some support this morningI completely agree. I'm a smart, educated woman. I was NOT born yesterday. The blatant disrespect to my intelligence is baffling. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/05/20 02:46 PM |
| 27 | Breaking MomTo be fair, I think a lot of women take on these social norms of children and marriage WELL before maturity. I know I did. I got married a week after I turned 18, had my first child at 20 and then two more after. I didnt find true maturity until i was at least 30. I had no idea what i should have been expecting from a relationship, a partner, and a friend. Most of these women get in too deep to fast and drown. TBH, i really don't think its their fault. I was never TAUGHT what a relationship shou… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/05/20 07:06 PM |
| 1 | Not used to the attention?Thank you 😭😍 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/05/20 11:01 PM |
| 17 | Why are they asking for pictures?That's understandable. I have a pretty legit profile with good photos and prompts as well as my IG linked. They aren't asking for nudes, rather just a "selfie" and it bewilders me with all that I have shared already. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/05/20 01:05 PM |
| 1 | Not used to the attention?Thank you so much for your reply. I think you really hit on a lot of points and I need to do some self reflection. I like to think I'm confident but deep down, I still have a lot of trauma I am healing from after such a long and unhealthy relationship. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/05/20 11:43 AM |
| 2 | Not used to the attention??I do! And therapy has been a god send. You are absolutely right, I find myself constantly being willing to give in or compromise because that is what I’m used to doing. It’s incredibly difficult | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/05/20 12:44 AM |
| 4 | Not used to the attention??Yeh. Newbie is a total understatement. My ex and I got together at 15. I’ve literally never dated and have no idea how to know what’s genuine and what isn’t | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/05/20 12:42 AM |
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