33dst Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
16	Breakup led to redpill - but having second thoughts		33dst	/r/ExRedPill	02/05/18 01:14 AM
1	Fucked up a good thing		33dst	/r/askTRP	30/04/18 04:55 AM

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1	Breakup led to redpill - but having second thoughts I'm working on sharing more, I still can't bring myself to talk about it with my father. I know he wouldn't be judgmental, but I just don't feel comfortable with that yet because I'm not too close with him. I've realized that in the past I looked for support from the girls that I date, and that obviously hasn't worked out for me so far lol. Things would go well for a few months, and then I'd open up way too soon and lose my value in their eyes. I think it made me look desperate because I was loo…	/r/ExRedPill	23/05/18 10:39 PM
1	Breakup led to redpill - but having second thoughts In the end I suppose this whole thing was good for me. I spoke with my mother for the first time in my life about the way I felt instead of bottling it up and pretending I was fine. If I hadn't found this sub I don't think I ever would have.	/r/ExRedPill	18/05/18 03:08 PM
1	Need some advice Definitely keep working out and take it seriously, it can really help your confidence. Also, you need to stop living in the future by having this goal of getting a girlfriend in your mind constantly. I can guarantee you from experience that when you do find a girl who's really into you, you're most likely going to rush it and scare her off. Just take it day by day, keep on working on your social skills and confidence, and you'll come across a girl eventually. And for the love of God, when you st…	/r/seduction	14/05/18 04:44 AM
1	Breakup led to redpill - but having second thoughts This whole thing's been pretty rough on me, but it was a much needed wake up call. I've always been pretty introverted too, but lately I've been working on changing that because it's not doing me any favors. It's nice to hear from someone who was the same way. Thanks for reaching out!	/r/ExRedPill	09/05/18 04:08 PM
1	Breakup led to redpill - but having second thoughts What do you think are the best takeaways are? I agree with them on things like confidence and outcome independence, but I didn't spend a ton of time on it after I started to realize trp wasn't for me	/r/ExRedPill	02/05/18 10:02 PM
1	Breakup led to redpill - but having second thoughts Just got No More Mr. Nice Guy. I'll check out Models after I finish it. Thanks for the recs, if you or anybody else reading this have any others let me know	/r/ExRedPill	02/05/18 09:52 PM
1	Breakup led to redpill - but having second thoughts Yeah, those truths are what sucked me in initially. There's some good takeaways, but all the talk of lizard brains and 'plates' made me take a step back	/r/ExRedPill	02/05/18 09:05 PM
2	Breakup led to redpill - but having second thoughts That's actually a pretty unique way to look at it, thanks. I think subconsciously I'm afraid of being alone and I need to address that	/r/ExRedPill	02/05/18 03:32 PM
2	Breakup led to redpill - but having second thoughts Thank you my friend. The pedestal is my probably my biggest obstacle right now, as well as being a stereotypical 'nice guy'. I'll do what I can while staying true to myself	/r/ExRedPill	02/05/18 04:55 AM
3	Breakup led to redpill - but having second thoughts When I say attached, it's mostly an internal feeling, but it results in me being overly nice. For example, I realized that I would avoid conflict; when teasing her, I'd say I was kidding and all that. I suppose it stems from a fear of losing her by being too mean, which sounds pretty pathetic. I also tend to come on way too strong by trying to 'lock her down' in a committed relationship, again probably from a fear of losing her. In a way, I let her walk all over me. She was never rude or confron…	/r/ExRedPill	02/05/18 04:20 AM
4	Breakup led to redpill - but having second thoughts Thank you for the input. I should have made this clear initially, but I don't resent her because I know the way you feel about someone is not something you consciously decide. I'm just having trouble finding a way to avoid getting overly attached to prevent another situation like this. It just seems very natural to me, but I know it must seem incredibly overbearing and unattractive.	/r/ExRedPill	02/05/18 01:59 AM
2	Hooking up is the easiest thing in the world but trying to hold a relationship is so hard. I'm the exact same way. It ended up in a breakup, pretty much exactly like yours. It's just your brain playing tricks on you, and if you're like me, you get attached way too easily if it's not a one night stand. You need to take a step back and address that. Admitting it's a problem is the first step. Look up videos about how to eliminate oneitis, watch Corey Wayne and people like that on youtube. Next time you're seeing a girl you like a lot, make sure you take a step back every once in awhile …	/r/seduction	30/04/18 03:34 AM