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| -3 | She slept with another guy quickly, but is taking things slower with me. How should I interpret that?Ok, you’re probably right. Should this stop OP from pursuing? Some of yall have fragile ego’s. Chill out! Yeah she may have liked the other dude more but this is a casual situation anyway so who cares? It’s the third date so it can still happen if OP plays his cards right. | /r/seduction | 18/06/26 03:49 PM |
| 18 | How do I pass this shit testMannn...I would have used 1 or 3 haha So we can take it that it worked and the date has been set up? | /r/seduction | 11/06/26 09:03 AM |
| 1 | How to escalate for a kissBrother, when you say you left after sometime how long are we talking about? If you leave quite soon then she might think that you were just there for one reason. If she wants you to stay then that means she’s comfortable around you. You say she’s dating to marry. That means she is not in a rush to get too intimate. Of course I understand as a guy you have your urges. You already asked her once if she would like to kiss you, so she knows that you want that. Now you just have to let things flow n… | /r/seduction | 08/06/26 06:42 PM |
| 4 | Women Want To Be Approached, Just Not How You Do ItAnd how do you know that a stranger is way too creative to be an accountant? | /r/seduction | 25/04/26 10:25 AM |
| 2 | Help me hook up with this girl againFirst up, don’t be clingy. If it’s a casual relationship then you don’t need to see each other every week or text each other every day. Remain calm and chill. You already had sex so she is attracted to you. Don’t be struck it’s oneitis. Go about your day and just text weekly. She’ll want to hook up again sooner or later. | /r/seduction | 22/04/26 05:56 PM |
| 13 | What made even dating coaches go a bit bl@ckpilled in recent years?As for your Steve Jabba comment: You either die a Hero or you live long enough to see yourself become the villain. You think 26 year old Crystal Harris married Hugh Hefner cuz his Pickup game was so good? There comes a certain point in life where no matter your game, you’re not going to become s-tier in picking up women. The dynamic between men and women has not changed, however the game certainly has. Due to the rise of social media it has made men and women more visible. Ladies have much easie… | /r/seduction | 13/04/26 06:36 PM |
| 168 | I Slept With 80 Women From Dating Apps, Here’s How I Got 3 Hook ups This Week (Breakdown With Proof)Basically you’re treating it like a sales job 😂😂 it’s all about lead generation and there are several methods, strategies and tactics one could use. Ur just doing marketing automation 😂 and instead of salsforce or hubspot ur using tinder, bumble hinge etc. | /r/seduction | 24/03/26 07:28 AM |
| 1 | Great second date, lots of chemistry - then ghosted when I asked for another date. How common is this?Not in Brazil though 😉. Yes I know he’s in American | /r/seduction | 09/03/26 05:40 PM |
| 1 | Slept with 65 girls last year.. here’s what I learnedI’d say that if you have enough status/MONEY then it’s less of a numbers game. | /r/seduction | 06/02/26 06:33 PM |
| 1 | Is it a red flag a woman, you're not in relationship with, is still in contact or hangs out with an ex?It’s very respectful to call her ex a loser 🤣 | /r/seduction | 19/05/25 04:17 PM |
| 1 | Is it a red flag a woman, you're not in relationship with, is still in contact or hangs out with an ex?Scrub or not…apparently he had game and she liked his dong | /r/seduction | 19/05/25 04:02 PM |
| 7 | She's Hot, She's Broken, She'll Ruin You(unless you're him and how to be him)Vanilla with some sprinkles…if you find the right one they will try fallecio but of course it won’t be like porn haha | /r/seduction | 17/05/25 07:51 AM |
| 2 | She's Hot, She's Broken, She'll Ruin You(unless you're him and how to be him)Damnn man this hits close to home..now I’ve got more life experience but number 1 sounds familiar 😆 tried to show emphaty to a girl but you are damn right..we’re not their therapist so leave out that talk at 3 am 😂 | /r/seduction | 17/05/25 07:46 AM |
| 31 | Should i just get tinder?Tinder should be used as a side quest..don’t rely solely on dating apps as the results can be hit and miss..it’s a nice addition to your dating life but it’s best to manage expectations | /r/seduction | 13/05/25 11:14 AM |
| 11 | "Womanese" - a guide to basic yet complex things women say and do without telling you what they meanHooking up is not the same as her being interested in you. Some girls just like to fuck so they may have backups. Don’t let anyone use you my friend..no wimp and simp mentality. | /r/seduction | 02/05/25 05:02 PM |
| 26 | where did i fuck up ? Girl ghost me after great first dateYou’re her backup | /r/seduction | 01/05/25 08:03 PM |
| 1 | Most Ridiculous Dating Excuse I've Ever HeardThis doesn’t only apply to love but life in general. Think of careers, fitness, happiness etc. We’re all responsible for our own health, wealth, happiness and wellbeing. So get going!!! | /r/seduction | 01/05/25 02:32 PM |
| 5 | I approached a milf at the libraryThe fact that she showed you the ring on her finger means she’s loyal and thus you can assume happily married (or not interested in you). So you don’t need to ask that question cuz women who want to cheat will cheat. | /r/seduction | 30/04/25 11:44 AM |
| 4 | What’s your single biggest most important “the one thing” that lead to a change in success?Basically what you’re saying is: Don’t stick your dick in crazy. But we both know there are brothers out there that will do it regardless. | /r/seduction | 18/04/25 06:33 AM |
| 5 | Where to meet a good-looking, humble, introvert girlsChurch on Sunday’s but you’ve got to observe thoroughly. At the library in the history and cooking sections. Sometimes selfhelp section but again observe carefully. Vegan restaurants. | /r/seduction | 17/04/25 04:53 PM |
| 51 | Do girls always give you tell tale signs of when they want to kiss youYou kinda gave a Hollywood answer lol Emphasis on “if you play your cards right”..but that’s a vague thing to say… if you play your cards right then you’ll become a millionaire too. The short answer to OP’s questions is no, they do not always give tell tale signs..you’ve got to feel the moment and take your shot. Yes sometimes you may take a L but then you’ll have to remain a gentleman and pretend it didn’t faze you. Continue on with the conversation. Make her feel comfortable and don’t make it … | /r/seduction | 12/04/25 01:19 PM |
| 511 | She invited me back to her home but we didn’t have sexShe touched your 🍆!!! What else do you need to escalate it further??? Kissing, cuddling and touching…you got yourself to blame | /r/seduction | 30/03/25 10:22 AM |
| 3 | Does bodybuilding really increase my chances twentyfold?Fitness, clothing, perfume and a nice haircut does wonders | /r/seduction | 20/03/25 01:29 PM |
| 1 | Has your date ever caught you out with someone else on another date?Ah so kinda a classmate. That sucks bro but it’s part of the risk if you date someone that’s in your circle. She’s rude cuz the other girl was hotter 😹 | /r/seduction | 06/03/25 09:22 PM |
| 3 | Has your date ever caught you out with someone else on another date?She ghosted you but you still see her often enough for her to be rude? Pls explain bro..is it a classmate/colleague/someone living in same building. | /r/seduction | 06/03/25 08:57 PM |
| 1 | Asked a girl in my class about studying-now I don’t knew where we stand.She’s right beside you?? Then you don’t text.. talk to her!!!! And if she’s lukewarm then no you don’t have to touch her like bro said. Ask her about the lecture and if she wants to study at the library on Saturday and also say you guys can grab some Starbucks before. | /r/seduction | 27/02/25 08:02 PM |
| 5 | How long were you able to keep a FWB?Because you should always be able to express yourself and be true to who you really are. If it’s real love then why would she dislike it? The one will not judge you for it and will appreciate your vulnerability and openness. If she doesn’t love you and just wanted the sex then yeah she might leave your ass. That’s the risk you take for love. | /r/seduction | 04/02/25 12:19 AM |
| 2 | Seeing unattractive guys with beautiful girls.You don’t have to be a super model, millionaire or a saint to get laid. Have you never heard of bartenders and male receptionists (i.e. hotel and gym) getting tail? There are also woman who fall for criminals that are in jail. Forget money, is Simon Cowell conventionally considered attractive (I don’t think so but I also certainly don’t think he’s ugly). It’s all about swagger, attitude, your approach to life and how you treat others. It not for nothing that back in the day judges from idols aro… | /r/seduction | 17/01/25 03:36 AM |
| 2 | Bars/clubs are a waste of time to game, here are my reasonsJust like women have ego, men have too. It’s about being able to pull while the odds are against you. You’ll be feeling like the alpha after you’ve succeeded in pulling a girl despite all the competitors. It’s like gambling in the casino. The house always wins but players can go on a roll and hit it big. The rush of the win is what they’re after. | /r/seduction | 25/12/24 01:44 AM |
| 2 | What are the subtle yet impactful things that a woman does that are very seductive to a man?Oh boy will you love the UK 🇬🇧 | /r/seduction | 23/12/24 04:10 PM |
| 3 | Full texting analysis - Getting laid with a goth chick from TinderFirst of all, great job brother 👏 I was wondering if you could show us your profile? You mention you get opened to at 10-20%. What do your pictures look like stylewise and what content have you used as hooks? | /r/seduction | 01/11/24 11:50 AM |
| 3 | Hong Kong game anyone?It’s easy. Given the high property prices over there, most people live at home with their relatives in a cramped flat. The comfort of a hotel room is something that is welcome and you can offer them. Unless you’re staying at a hostel, then you need some more game. As with everywhere else you visit, dress well, be polite m, respect local rules. Put on your happy face, wear nice cologne and game on! | /r/seduction | 26/09/24 12:17 PM |
| 2 | Leveraging wealth to build a pipeline of women?My bro, you are not paying each girl 100 bucks for the night but 100 bucks per hour. That’s fucking 500 bucks an hour. If you do that often then your money will be leaving you at a fast rate. This type of method is advisable for the super wealthy who have enough to spend but you’re talking about having a one bedroom condo. That ain’t FU money. You know what the stats say right? Most athletes go broke within 5 years of retiring. You do you and if you enjoy it then proceed with this method. But if… | /r/seduction | 20/09/24 01:30 AM |
| 20 | Fitness coach tried daygame - here's what happenedTakeaway 1 isn’t really a takeaway. Looks matter but as you know from tinder, even the good looking ones don’t get lots of matches relatively speaking. There are lots of nerds working at places such as 7/11, subway, Best Buy etc. That interact with customers/guests every day so that’s a moot point. Doesn’t tell me shit. Having conversational skills is an entire different ballgame so being a pt or not has nothing to do with getting a person interested in you. | /r/seduction | 07/09/24 03:58 PM |
| 1 | Girl losing interest AFTER great sex?After fucking once, OP wants to fuck again and again | /r/seduction | 06/09/24 06:09 PM |
| 5 | Girl who I slept with and have been dating seeing other guy in tripWell you didn’t make it official. Maybe she doesn’t take you so serious then. She also has her needs. It’s better for you to confess your feelings to her and see how she responds. Oneitus is a bitch if it isn’t reciprocated. Love can hurt but take it as a lesson learned. Nobody is at fault here. You’ve caught feelings and didn’t make it clear enough. | /r/seduction | 05/09/24 05:53 PM |
| 29 | What should I do if a guy hits on my GF at the gym?I agree with politely joining the conversation but is holding her hand necessary? Usually you can tell whether a pair is a couple quickly through their vibes and energy. And if the guy still doesn’t get it, slip in a “babe” or “honey” somewhere in the conversation. | /r/seduction | 02/09/24 03:09 PM |
| 1 | How often do you see your causal or non serious partner?Spoken like a true norwegian doggo 🐶 | /r/seduction | 28/08/24 04:26 PM |
| 27 | Does a very attractive and outstanding Asian guy make a differnece?Kpop is getting more popular. You think that Jay Park can’t get women? Ok for the non celebrities it will be different. If someone is attractive and outstanding then it doesn’t matter what their race is. Action and personality will speak for itself | /r/seduction | 26/08/24 08:20 PM |
| 17 | Went on 22 Hinge dates in the last 9 months: Here are the results (2024 Online Dating Experience)Yet only 1% of his matches end up in a date | /r/seduction | 11/08/24 06:25 PM |
| 4 | Which sunglasses has gotten you most tail ?Man makes the shades not the other way round. You can’t go wrong with some classic ray ban’s but if you wanna be cool, loud and stand out then try on the Versace shades that Biggie Smalls also wore | /r/seduction | 11/08/24 04:39 PM |
| 176 | Went on 22 Hinge dates in the last 9 months: Here are the results (2024 Online Dating Experience)1000s of matches, 100s of chats, 22 dates and still couldn’t get even one girl to stick around. Welcome to the online dating world of 2024 fellas. It’s not you. OLD tends to suck these days. | /r/seduction | 11/08/24 04:37 PM |
| 3 | When 2 men compete for the attention of 1 girlDid he? | /r/seduction | 03/08/24 12:28 PM |
| 1 | Why not just become a Passport Bro?Could she speak good English when you met her? I wonder how you communicated with each other in the beginning. Was it a case of attraction and spark were flying so body language was enough. | /r/seduction | 27/07/24 03:04 PM |
| 1 | Sex for women is too emotional to accept a one night standWe’re now living in 2023 a.k.a. The social media era. A lot of women don’t have a problem with sexualizing themselves through IG or even go beyond that by showing off their naked bodies on OF. Here on Reddit you can see plenty of crazy subs where women show NSFW content that would have been unfathomable in the 60’s. If anything women use us men to make a quick buck. Sex goes both ways and you’d be surprised how many women are open to having flings | /r/seduction | 28/08/23 06:22 PM |
| -1 | Accidentally Hit on My CrushHaha how old are you? | /r/seduction | 21/08/23 12:56 PM |
| 334 | Accidentally Hit on My CrushDamnn dawg!!! Ur 40 and were rizzing up a girl half your age??! Actually she was doing the heavy lifting by asking you out. You still got it 👊 | /r/seduction | 21/08/23 11:39 AM |
| 2 | My observations with guys who pull womenNever selfdepreciate yourself in any situation (romantic or business wise). May I ask how old your friends are? Your points make sense and are logical but it also takes experience to master the art of communication | /r/seduction | 17/07/23 09:11 AM |
| 1 | Except your mother there's no woman in this world that's above youWhat about grandma? | /r/seduction | 16/10/22 01:24 PM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]Why text her two days later? Why didn’t u text her that night? | /r/seduction | 10/01/22 12:39 AM |
| 1 | Women fall into two categories: those who are attracted to you, and those who aren’t. The concept of ‘leagues’ is nothing more than a self-limiting mindset that leads to failure.Pick up “skills” are the same as sales pitches. Just gotta try and keep one’s attention | /r/seduction | 11/09/21 04:00 PM |
| 0 | Where’s the best place to meet high value women?Yes the bank..we’re talking about high value women right? They’ve got their shit together..or you can just chill with the students at festivals | /r/seduction | 10/09/21 06:07 PM |
| 4 | Where’s the best place to meet high value women?The thing with the grocery store it’s all hit and miss as everybody goes there. I’d say the bank, gym (not those cheap ones) and even Starbucks are better places | /r/seduction | 10/09/21 04:36 PM |
| 1 | Had sex with this girl before. Now going to her place to ‘watch a movie’ at 9PM. Do I go empty handed?Bring a bottle of wine and perhaps some snacks like chocolate and strawberries 😉 | /r/seduction | 02/07/21 12:10 PM |
| 1 | So I went on 5 dates todayWhat kind of routine stories do you tell? And also what kind of jokes do you generally tend to start with? | /r/seduction | 29/06/21 08:15 PM |
| 2 | Who else is in their late 30s and still trying to learn how to be proficient at attracting women?Well we as men will never be truly able to understand women 🤷🏻♂️ so it is an ongoing process. Just be yourself and stay respectful | /r/seduction | 10/04/21 02:35 PM |
| 2 | I approached a girl todayPractice makes perfect! 💪 keep going at it bro! | /r/seduction | 13/03/21 03:47 PM |
| 1 | No one told me this, so here you goIt's not only me who decides but also my bank account and sometimes the government (Seeing the restrictions due to Covid-19) 😝 | /r/seduction | 01/02/21 11:13 AM |
| -2 | Importance of giving space and having patienceSomehow I get the feeling that you may just end up with #2. Give him time to understand your love language and he may be a keeper 😁 | /r/seduction | 17/11/20 05:52 PM |
| 2 | Trigger ATTRACTION Switches to avoid friend-zonepff though these are some good points this kinda felt like an advertorial to promote your own channel. Not that there is anything wrong with that but are you here to give genuine advice or just want clicks and views for your channel? | /r/seduction | 27/06/20 12:40 PM |
| 4 | What’s your go to first date idea that isn’t dinner and/or a movie ?It also depends on the type of girl you’re dating. Is she kind of an hipster? Then maybe a museum would be a nice first date. Is she into beer? Then I’d take her to a local brewery. Really into coffee? Then I’ll take her to a local specialty coffee shop. Sporty? Then I’d take her go hiking. Like skating? Let’s meet at the park then. Foodie? How about you come over to my place and I’ll cook a nice meal (salmon, roasted potatoes and vegetables). If she’s vegan then I’ll go for kimchi fried rice. P… | /r/seduction | 16/06/20 10:47 PM |
| 9 | Help for younger guy with older womanGenerally speaking they indeed like the stamina but also the fact that she feels good being with a younger guy (makes her feel young, refreshed and hip). Just be yourself, stay respectful and give her a bit of attention but not too much. Good luck ;) | /r/seduction | 31/05/20 08:53 PM |
| 32 | This community fucked me up. Fuck this place, just get out there and focus on being the best guy you can be and girls will come naturallyYou’re here for the humour I guess😄 there are some hilarious threads on here. | /r/seduction | 19/05/20 10:47 AM |
| 1 | What if a girl reachs out but then doesn't actively partecipate to the convo?Hi Gyrl, First of all, thank you for your thorough reply. I get the point that you´re trying to make but in this case, OP and the girl are seperated by distance and thus we´re not talking about asking each other out (yet). In this case the girl does start a convo and it´s up to OP to set the tone. However, in a lot of cases you have a guy and woman that are texting back and forth and are vibing but then come the next time/day/week it´s the guy that has to always start the conversation while in t… | /r/seduction | 18/05/20 09:30 AM |
| 0 | There is a "blind leading the blind" belief in this sub that's hiding in plain sightHaha OP trying to subtly but not so subtly promote his upcoming seminar?? 🤣🤣🤣 | /r/seduction | 15/05/20 07:30 PM |
| 2 | A friend who had his wife leave him of seven years wrote this - remember to respect yourselvesOr maybe he’s a poet 🙃 | /r/seduction | 15/05/20 07:26 PM |
| 4 | What if a girl reachs out but then doesn't actively partecipate to the convo?She either just wants attention or is playing hard to get or her interest is low. Whatever it is she’s disqualified herself. We’re all grown ups and I don’t know about you but I’m tired of these games. Guys know your worth and stick to your principles. | /r/seduction | 15/05/20 05:11 PM |
| 3 | Once you're together how are you supposed to escalate sex every time?It really depends on the person. Everyone is different and we can´t know what floats his/her boat based on just a question like this. But generally find out what they like and what arouses them (it can be kisses, sweet talk, a certain scent etc.) | /r/seduction | 05/05/20 01:16 PM |
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