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3893liebt3512/r/MensRights01/03/13 07:42 PM
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I guess I'm confused as to how this is the woman's fault. The man is in the position of power, correct? He is the one who issues promotions. She can't make him promote her. If he gives her a promotion because she sleeps with him, then that's on him. Is it not?
/r/MensRights22/02/17 07:57 AM
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Because her cheating on you has absolutely nothing to do with your children.
/r/MensRights30/10/16 04:21 AM
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That's not how custody works. Custody just means having legal responsibility. Placement is where the child lives. A couple can have 50/50 custody, but one parent has primary placement. That means the child can live 100% with one parent, and both parents are still legally responsible.
/r/MensRights30/10/16 04:20 AM
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Maybe you just need better friends.
/r/MensRights10/10/16 07:58 AM
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I don't know any women who think this is okay, actually.
/r/MensRights10/06/16 04:36 AM
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Yeah. Because those safe haven laws were made for the mothers; not the infants who were previously being abandoned in dumpsters, bathrooms, and outside in the freezing cold. The child support agency, which is who I'm assuming you're talking about in the second part, also plays a significant part in the wellbeing of children. I understand where you're coming from, but if a mother is abandoning an infant at a fire station, or wherever the states designated area is, then the father probably isn't p…
/r/MensRights21/05/16 07:54 AM
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I mean...no one ever said fathers couldn't leave their newborns as well. But do you really think there are many men who need this resource?
/r/MensRights20/05/16 04:52 PM
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Again. The majority of your comment is accusing an entire group of people of doing things that a small fraction of them do. You're not making s very strong case here.
/r/MensRights19/01/15 01:20 AM
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Dude. Cops are people, just like you and I. The majority of them just want to go to work, do their thing, collect their paycheck, and go home to their families. You're no better than the small fraction of prejudice cops when you say things like that. You're basing your opinion of an entire group of people based on the behavior of a few. Feel good about yourself.
/r/MensRights19/01/15 12:19 AM
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It's not unreasonable, if his daughter claimed she didn't know him, that he would react defensively and without thinking in this situation. If it happened very fast, and the father thought the guy was reaching for a gun? I could see it. Not that it's right, in any way, it's a horrible situation, but I could definitely see how it might happen.
/r/MensRights14/03/14 05:26 PM
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You're going to have bat shit crazy and judgmental people in every movement. Just like some feminists are psycho man haters, there are going to be MRA's who are psycho women haters. My point was that most of the crazy comes out online because of the anonymity of the medium through which the views are expressed here, if you can get passed that, you can find some really interesting views and subject matter. And the entire subreddit most certainly did not bash this women. If you had bothered to rea…
/r/MensRights23/08/13 10:15 PM
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I like to think so. (:
/r/MensRights23/08/13 09:12 PM
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Eh. She's happy.
/r/MensRights23/08/13 09:11 PM
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Her being single? That'll probably last 6eva.
/r/MensRights23/08/13 09:07 PM
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Big age differences between all us girls. My mother was married three times.
/r/MensRights23/08/13 08:45 PM
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Both of my sisters have good relationships with their biological fathers, but call them by their first names, because my father is the man who raised them, and they call him dad. It has nothing to do with crying or being immature, and everything to do with not wanting to call someone dad who doesn't deserve it.
/r/MensRights23/08/13 08:31 PM
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No. His responsibility is to pay for half of her expenses, because she is half of him, and he is 1/2 of what created her. I think you are assuming that he takes her half of the time, and that's not the case. He takes her when he wants. Which usually ends up being maybe every other weekend, since we live in separate places and he'd rather spend time with his friends then driving an hour and a half to see his daughter. Which is fine by me. He can do what he wants. He can't, however, expect to have…
/r/MensRights23/08/13 08:30 PM
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I think the welfare programs have a lot of issues. I've known people who have abused the system, sold their food stamps, and lived on welfare for years without a steady job just because they can. I know a 40 year old woman with three kids who works a seasonal job, whose mother pays for whatever her kids need, and who buys a case of beer every three days with her child support money. Let me stress this: I do not want to end up like that woman. Her mother offered to pay for her to go back to schoo…
/r/MensRights23/08/13 05:44 PM
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Mom and Dad both, presumably, have roofs over their head. But lets say Mom is paying child support, and only wants the kids every other weekend, and Dad has primary placement. They have two daughters. So dad has primary placement and mom has the kids two weekends a month. Dad has to have a house (or apartment or whatever) that can comfortably fit himself and the two girls. So a three bedroom, lets say it costs 3,000$ a month. Mom, on the other hand, can get away with a one bedroom or a two bedro…
/r/MensRights23/08/13 05:33 PM
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The comments you see like that are from a very small population of people that subscribe to this subreddit. /r/MensRights is a subreddit dedicated to discussing problems men face in society such as: Male rape and the ridicule men face in society when they come forward with rape claims Family court battles. A lot of men have had problems in this regard because the court system tends to sway in the mothers favor. Domestic violence against men. Again, like with male rape, this is one of those thing…
/r/MensRights23/08/13 05:17 PM
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What counts as a childs expense, though? Does food count? The roof over it's head? Hot water for baths? Or is it only clothing, or toys, or diapers? School expenses?
/r/MensRights23/08/13 04:41 PM
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I'm going to ignore the backhanded jab, and focus on the WIC part. I was on it when I was pregnant, but stopped getting it because we didn't really use a lot of what the checks covered, and I breastfed so we didn't need the formula, and I figured someone else out there probably needed/could use it more than I could. I wasn't aware they provided childcare assistance. Thank you. I'll have to look into that.
/r/MensRights23/08/13 04:32 PM
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Those "chains" are his daughter. And I gave him the option of walking away. He chose to stay. He had just as big of a part in making her as I did, and he wanted her just as much. Why shouldn't he pay child support? He gets to see her, he gets to be a part of her life, I don't have sole custody, I don't keep her from him. He can take her as much or as little as he wants. She is his responsibility as well as mine. What gives him, or anyone, the right to reap the benefits of having a child without …
/r/MensRights23/08/13 04:27 PM
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Right. Again. The girl depicted in the picture isn't Juans baby mama. It's his daughter. Heaven forbid that girl get to do something fun for herself and have some nice things after her father walked out on her. Can you give me an example of when a child support payment for one child is 60% of the non-custodial parents income (barring additional charges like unpaid child support)? Cause I've heard this before, and no one has ever been able to give me an example of it. Which is funny, because you'…
/r/MensRights23/08/13 04:18 PM
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Notice how I didn't list food or Drs. bills in the list of things I pay for every month? Food stamps and health care. That's what we get through welfare. I have a dwindling savings account, student loans, and a weekend waitressing job in my home town to cover what my campus job doesn't. I've applied for child care help, but it hasn't gone through yet, so yeah. Right now, I'm paying for everything I listed. I work my ass off, and am putting myself into debt, so that I can take care of myself and …
/r/MensRights23/08/13 04:08 PM
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The point is she can't afford to support the child on her own. The cost of new boots and a manicure is not equivalent to the amount of money a child costs in one month. I spend ~1500 a month on my daughter in a month between daycare and all her necessities. A manicure and a new pair of boots is maybe 100$. Probably less, if the boots are from target or walmart or something. Lets say I have ~1500$ dollars in the bank. After paying for everything my daughter needs, I now have 20$ in the bank. Wint…
/r/MensRights23/08/13 03:16 PM
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Right. My ex pays 100$ a month in child support, and no other bills, while I'm over here paying rent, utilities, >1000 in daycare costs, diapers, wipes, clothes, toys, monthly prescriptions, special creams and ointments for my daughters severe and chronic skin condition, going to school full time, working 20 hours a week, and being a full time single parent. We barely scrape by every month, but you're right. He's totally subsidizing my lifestyle. I'm living a cushy life with all that money I get…
/r/MensRights23/08/13 03:01 PM
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Yeah, I believe this about as much as I believe the young mothers who claim people come up to them when their with their children and bad mouth them for not giving their children up for adoption. Not saying its never happened, but I'd bet my ass most of them are lying. My ex and I are young parents who are separated and have our daughter out in public all the time separately. Nothing even close to either of these things has ever happened to us. I have a lot of friends from both genders who are y…
/r/MensRights26/06/13 10:03 PM
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I appreciate your appreciation.
/r/MensRights06/06/13 03:28 PM
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You quoted a few lines, so let me quote one: turn him into your eager love servant. I don't know if you noticed this or not, but all of those pictures from the second link appear to be domme/sub relationships. You may not be familiar with BDSM, so let me fill you in. In a domme/sub relationship one person is the dominant partner (the mistress or master) and the other person is the submissive (the slave). The master or mistress treats their slave just like that: a slave. I'm also not sure how any…
/r/MensRights06/06/13 12:37 PM
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I'm not so sure they are. People tend to judge the masses on a few, and it's not a very good practice to get into.
/r/MensRights13/05/13 05:15 PM
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How is this any different from the posts on feminist sites portraying fathers that abuse and neglect their children? And yet those posts get vilified and torn apart by MRA's because it's "Not an accurate portrayal of fatherhood". We all know that there are neglectful and abusive parents of both genders. This does not belong here. This is not a mens rights issue just because it has to do with a woman being a terrible mother. This will not help the cause.
/r/MensRights13/05/13 01:09 PM
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You'd have to have a sample of the biological fathers DNA to compare it with, so unless the other contender(s) get tested as well, you wouldn't be able to let the biological father know that he has a child. The only people to tell would be the woman and the guy she claimed was the father in the first place.
/r/MensRights27/04/13 03:12 AM
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Or the positive stories get looked over because the don't generate as much interest as the negative ones.
/r/MensRights27/04/13 02:43 AM
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Can we be best friends? I was literally coming here to say something to this effect, it struck me as the silliest. Also, since you're the only one who has commented on this, I'm assuming the issue here is because the woman is in the success column, and the man is in the not success column?
/r/MensRights25/04/13 05:17 AM
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This is what I was thinking. If they offered some sort of seminar to both sexes about the legal definitions of rape, and how it's both parties responsibility (at least within the context of alcohol, and other situations of the like, not talking about dark alley, guy holds you down and rapes you kinda thing) to govern themselves. Have some discussion about the false rape accusations, have some discussion about how men get raped, too. It could be a good thing. Just not how there going about it now…
/r/MensRights23/04/13 02:25 PM
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In my town, we recently had an 18 year old man beat another young man, 20, to death with a baseball bat. The victim was asked by the attacker beforehand if he had a weapon, and said no. He was then viciously beat to death the by his attacker, and was in the hospital and brain dead for four days. The attacker is being charged with second degree, and is facing 5+ years. So while I can't answer your question fully about the man kills woman question, I can tell you that men who commit brutal crimes …
/r/MensRights04/04/13 04:39 PM
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That's what figured. (: I wish you all the happiness in the world.
/r/MensRights04/04/13 12:41 PM
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I think it would be incredibly disrespectful. But there's a difference between abandoning what could have been and what is. There's also the difference where the woman is the one who has to physically carry the child for nine months, which can create a myriad of life threatening and non-life threatening symptoms. Morning sickness, pre-eclampsia, eclampsia, baby blues, psychological effects from the hormones/other bodily changes, stretch marks, non elective surgery, the list goes on and on. Grant…
/r/MensRights04/04/13 03:39 AM
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Again. It pisses me the fuck off that there are woman out there who act like this. Vent away, please. I'm sure you need it. I can't tell which is the rule and which is the exception, but woman who act like this shouldn't fall underneath any category, because it shouldn't happen. This is one of the reasons I'm subscribed to this sub. I find it abhorrent that people act like this.
/r/MensRights04/04/13 03:17 AM
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Do you have any scientific evidence that cites that 90% of children who come out of single mom (I noticed that you didn't say single parent, but specified woman who are parents who don't have a partner) households are, in your words, "fucked up"?
/r/MensRights04/04/13 02:18 AM
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I'm really sorry you had/have to go through this. My ex and I broke up, and I made sure he got whatever custody he wanted. It hurts my heart that you and your children are being put in this position, and it really pisses me off to know that there are woman out there who let their emotions get in the way of whats best for their children.
/r/MensRights04/04/13 02:08 AM
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Oh my god, yes. Done. Do you have a color preference? Also, and this is strictly curiosity, I'm not trying to like...shove my beliefs down your throat, or make you feel like I'm implying that your choice is wrong, but is there a reason you don't want children, or is it just a feeling? I only ask because I have a hard time explaining to people why I would want so many children, so I was wondering if there was some sort of explanation behind yours or if, like me, it's just an intangible feeling yo…
/r/MensRights04/04/13 02:00 AM
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Deal, but you have to come up with a fancy name I can RES tag you with as well.
/r/MensRights04/04/13 01:53 AM
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I see were browsing comment histories now, aren't we lady who knows a lot about horses and whose SO snores like a cartoon bear. ;) Edit: Whoops. I clearly didn't do my homework. Horse, not SO. Sorry. That was totally unintentional. Kinda funny, but actually very unintentional.
/r/MensRights04/04/13 01:46 AM
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I don't think my boyfriend would like that very much. I'm only supposed to make sandwiches for him. It's in our dom/sub contract. Please don't get me into trouble, he'll think I've been a naughty girl and he'll punish me.
/r/MensRights04/04/13 01:43 AM
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Right. But not selfish to abandon her and the child when he had an equal part in making said baby (barring rape and manipulation) just because he doesn't want to pay (and I'm talking about child support here) for his child. I'm still not sure. That's exactly what a troll would say.
/r/MensRights04/04/13 01:32 AM
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...except for the fact that some woman are morally or personally opposed to abortions. Abortions can be extremely emotionally, physically, and psychologically traumatic. If you think otherwise, then you're just..ignorant. I can't decide if you're being a troll or you're actually serious. I'm leaning towards troll because thinking that someone is seriously making these arguments just makes me sad about humanity.
/r/MensRights04/04/13 01:21 AM
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A man has every right to walk away from a pregnancy in which he did not willingly sign up for. This creates single moms. Single moms are the downfall to our society. Was your original argument So what your saying is, men have every right to abandon their children, and fuck those woman who choose to stay and take care of their children instead of taking the easy way out? You're logic makes no sense and is coming off as slightly misogynistic. You're either a hypocrite, can't follow simple logic, o…
/r/MensRights04/04/13 01:08 AM
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Ahh. So I did jump to conclusions. I apologize.
/r/MensRights04/04/13 01:04 AM
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Right. Their actions are okay because the woman got pregnant on purpose. I had forgotten that two wrongs make a right. And for the record, woman who trap men into pregnancies is a relatively small percentage of woman who end up as single moms. There are plenty of woman who accidently get pregnant (Because birth control is never 100%) whose partners leave because they don't want children, and plenty of woman who end up as single parents for various other reasons, none of which are their fault. Vi…
/r/MensRights04/04/13 12:51 AM
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And...what? It's not like most woman are like "Yeah! I'm wanna be a single mom! I want to struggle for the next eighteen years and have to do this all on my own!". Is it really single moms who are the downfall of our society, or the fathers who abandon their children?
/r/MensRights04/04/13 12:38 AM
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Shitty fathers as in the ones who leave because they don't want children? As in all of the people saying that if a man doesn't want a child, but the mother didn't abort, then they should be able to have a "financial abortion"? Edit: It occurred to me after I posted my original comment that you may have meant this as a good thing, because no father is better than a shitty one. If that was your intent, I apologize for jumping to conclusions. It just really gets to me that most of the time, this su…
/r/MensRights04/04/13 12:27 AM
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I really don't think that was the point of this.
/r/MensRights04/04/13 12:25 AM
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Yeah, I highly doubt the sign literally says "I'm a terrible kid.". Are you sure it doesn't say something like "I stole a candy bar from the store" or "I drove my parents car drunk."? That I can understand. Publicly admitting something that you did that was illegal and/or socially unacceptable is embarrassing, and the point behind it is to make sure they don't do it again. Personally, I wouldn't stick my kid out by the bus stop with a sign that details what they did wrong, but I can see the moti…
/r/MensRights02/04/13 01:03 PM
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Yes! Thank you! My brain doesn't work so well after an eight hour waitressing shift. Much appreciated. (:
/r/MensRights23/03/13 07:47 PM
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Sexual abuse is not statutory rape, it's child molestation, which is what I was talking about. "Sexual abuse" does not specifically refer to a woman who was statutorily raped, it refers to children of all genders that were abused sexually.
/r/MensRights23/03/13 10:41 AM
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Thank you. Though credit should go to the author of the book, I really enjoyed (This may be the wrong word to use, but I can't think of another one atm) the fact that the sexual abuse victim was portrayed as a male, and the assaulter as a female. I think (hope) that it opened up peoples minds to the idea that sexual assault can happen to and from anyone of any gender, and that any child even mentioning that something inappropriate has gone on should be taken extremely seriously. Child molestatio…
/r/MensRights23/03/13 04:10 AM
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I love that movie. It's excellent, really delves deep into the psychological effects of sexual abuse. Although, I would have classified it more as child molestation, rape is an accurate depiction of the events as well.
/r/MensRights23/03/13 03:56 AM
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Vilifying them isn't going to discourage the behavior either. When has that ever worked? Everyone's "so concerned about the children" but no one will do anything to help the parents out so that the children will have better lives. It's assbackwards and pointless to bitch about something and then not do anything to help.
/r/MensRights20/03/13 02:57 PM
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Well, besides the fact that the article had virtually nothing to do with single parents, and focused on out of wedlock children born to parents who were still together: I don't think the issue with single motherhood lies within the single or the mother portion. I think it lies within the fact that there are very few resources to help bring single parents above the poverty line. They are expected to work minimum wage jobs, use welfare, and live in crappy neighborhoods just because they had kids y…
/r/MensRights20/03/13 05:52 AM
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They could have stopped at any time during the rape. They had plenty of opportunities to take a step back and think "Hey. Maybe this is a bad idea. Maybe we should stop this. Maybe this isn't right." But they didn't. They continued raping this girl for however long the act lasted, and then posted multiple times about it on social media sites, and youtube. Youtube no less. They posted video of it on youtube. They're seen bragging and laughing about how they, and this is a direct quote from the vi…
/r/MensRights20/03/13 05:32 AM
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That's...disgusting. Good for that guy for finally saying what (most) everyone else was thinking. Woman commit suicide after having abortions? I'd like to see how many of them had to deal with protesters in front of the clinics trying to make them feel horrible before hand. I bet you anything that has something to do with at least one of the suicides.
/r/MensRights20/03/13 05:07 AM
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The issue its self may be an issue, but this article has nothing to do with the rights men have to their children. Let's not start posting every article about single parents just because if you have a single Mom you probably have a single Dad and single dad's everywhere at getting fucked over in regards to custody. That logic makes no sense.
/r/MensRights19/03/13 08:01 PM
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But the article wasn't about men's rights to control their own reproduction, it was about how a lot people in their mid twenties are having children without getting married. I'm a little unclear about what that has to do with men's reproduction rights. No where did it say that the woman were forcing the men to have children out of wedlock.
/r/MensRights19/03/13 07:13 PM
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Not trying to be rude or combative, but how is this a mens rights issue? (I'm looking for a real answer here, not a flippant remark about how it's "obviously about mens rights" which is what I usually get when I ask this question.) Also. I dislike that this article is implying that single parent families are unstable. Same with families that incorporate step families into the picture. In what world is having more family ever a bad thing? Doesn't more family=more role models, and more chances for…
/r/MensRights19/03/13 06:58 PM
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Well, luckily for this guy and everyone else, you don't get a say in what is and isn't a waste of space for the masses. (:
/r/MensRights11/03/13 04:39 PM
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Yes. Because teaching people the warning signs for abusive behavior is a waste of space. /s
/r/MensRights11/03/13 04:08 PM
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Dude. That's not what I'm saying at all. No, this post wasn't really about men's rights. And like I said somewhere else on this thread; not all of the numbers listed are signs of abuse, but numbers 1, 2, 3, 5, 8, 9, 14, 15, 16, and 17 are classic behaviors for emotionally abusive relationships. Maybe this post doesn't specifically belong in /r/mensrights, but everyone should know the signs. I don't see the harm in posting it here.
/r/MensRights11/03/13 02:31 PM
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But these aren't unique problems. These are pretty basic warnings signs for anyone in a relationship, man or woman. I don't see a single warning sign on here that's specifically and only for men. In fact, my ex did several of these to me, and he was a man. I'm not saying men shouldn't look out for these warning signs, but none of these are behaviors that only woman do.
/r/MensRights11/03/13 02:08 PM
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Which is how it should be. (: I think it's nice, too. Progress, ladies and gents, progress.
/r/MensRights11/03/13 04:42 AM
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Lmao. You're hilarious.
/r/MensRights11/03/13 03:54 AM
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Okay, buddy. Whatever you say. I'm not going to try to sway your opinion. It's obviously not worth my time.
/r/MensRights11/03/13 01:13 AM
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Oh for sure it has nothing to do with men's rights (or very little, at least). If you'll notice somewhere on this thread I said that this should have been posted somewhere where both genders could benefit from this information. However, someone (not sure if it was you or not, I'm too lazy to check) said, or implied at least, that none of these were abusive, just undesirable, and I was informing them of all the ones that were, in fact, abusive.
/r/MensRights11/03/13 12:50 AM
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Numbers 1, 2, 3, 5, 8, 9, 14, 15, 16, and 17 are classic behaviors for emotionally abusive relationships. Do some research, please, before dismissing this as not necessarily abusive so much as undesirable Again. I did work for an abuse intervention service. I know the signs. These are the signs.
/r/MensRights11/03/13 12:22 AM
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Oh, I'm sorry, you're right. I had forgotten that instead of simply asking someone a question about what they meant when they used a word, I should utilize a robot machine to tell me what was intended. Because human interaction sucks, and robots are always right. /s
/r/MensRights11/03/13 12:12 AM
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Really? You think the person who wrote that book didn't take some sort of inspiration from their family? To quote you, nobody is that stupid.
/r/MensRights11/03/13 12:02 AM
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Lmao at You're defending a woman who likes nothing more than to verbally abuse and belittle her own family behind their backs. Might want to think about that before donning your armour and riding to her rescue. Who says she's doing it behind their backs? Maybe she didn't let her children read it, but if I wrote something like this about my boyfriend, I would definitely show it to him. I would welcome my boyfriend to write witty poems about all the things I do that annoy him, because I'm sure the…
/r/MensRights10/03/13 11:16 PM
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Let her calm down, think about why she was acting crazy, and come to the conclusion herself. Only she knows if she was acting irrationally because of PMS or not. It's not your job to point out why she was acting irrationally, just that she was (if she in fact was acting irrationally. She may think otherwise. What seems rational to one person, may seem very irrationally to another.). Telling someone they're acting crazy because "They must be PMS'ing" is you reducing how they feel into an easy way…
/r/MensRights10/03/13 10:49 PM
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You can adore being a parent, and love your children, and still find them super annoying sometimes. You can clean up after your family all the time, and not mind it, but when your spouse constantly doesn't pick up after themselves, it can be super annoying. You can love your spouse, and want to be married to them, and legitimately love your life together, and still find them super annoying sometimes. I get where this lady is coming from. It's not hard to rinse your dishes, or take the trash out,…
/r/MensRights10/03/13 10:38 PM
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If you look up warning signs for emotionally abusive relationships, most of these will come up. This isn't "cosmo bullshit". I don't see any terrible sex or relationship advice. I see red flag warnings for abusive relationships, and everyone should know what to look for. Abusers are very sneaky and manipulative, and often times people in relationships with them don't know whats going on until it's too late and you're wrapped around their finger making excuses for their behavior because you "love…
/r/MensRights10/03/13 10:05 PM
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This post should be targeted towards both genders, not only are there (I'm assuming) gay men on this sub, but if anyone acts like this towards their S.O. of any gender, it should be a red flag. I know its posted in /r/mensrights, so that's why you said kick "her" to the curb, and I'm not trying to attack you or anything. I just think this would be a good thing for both genders to read, and I wish you would have posted this somewhere where both sex's can benefit from it. They are really good warn…
/r/MensRights10/03/13 09:54 PM
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Not all abusive relationships are physical. In fact, a lot of them aren't, and that's how people get stuck in abusive relationships that eventually end up involving physical violence. Source: I did some volunteer work for a Domestic Abuse Intervention service.
/r/MensRights10/03/13 09:44 PM
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As in "Suffer not a witch to live"? Because that just sounds creepy.. Edit: Whats with the downvotes? It was a legitimate question. I wasn't saying that he was saying that particular phrase, I was trying to pin down the context of the use of the word "suffer" because that's the only other place I've seen it used like this.
/r/MensRights10/03/13 09:34 PM
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Thanks. (: They do. I'll eventually go back and get my masters, but I'll probably take a few years off to work and spend time with my daughter.
/r/MensRights05/03/13 08:51 PM
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Ohohoh. Now I see it. Sorry, I mostly just skimmed the article. Personally, I don't think paying child support is the biggest issue here. Why is she not being prosecuted for having sex with a minor? She's 35! That's well above any limitations set in place by Romeo and Juliet laws..
/r/MensRights04/03/13 09:10 PM
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Pretty fantastic. Thanks for asking. She's turning one tomorrow. :D She just learned how to walk and she's got four teeth and counting. I just got a waitressing job and have been accepted into a four year university as a pre-nursing student. Her dad takes her three days a week for about five hours at a time, because he is also juggling work and school. I'm not too concerned about the downvotes. My karma gets real fucked up from frequenting this sub. Hivemind, and all that jazz.
/r/MensRights04/03/13 08:10 PM
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I don't mind much, but thank you for defending me. (: If people can't handle actual events, and instead would like to cocoon themselves in speculation and fiction, that's their problem.
/r/MensRights04/03/13 07:35 PM
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I was 18 when I got pregnant. I gave birth to my daughter three days before I turned 19. On Jan. 6, 2006, when he was still 17 and she was 18, they had sex in the back seat of a car and made a baby she named Joshua. This is the story I'm commenting on. Idk you're talking about, but if you have a news article, please link it, so I can be brought up to date.
/r/MensRights04/03/13 07:22 PM
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Everything you said about the age of consent I completely agree with. And I do agree that it is unfair. I think woman should absolutely consult the father before terminating a pregnancy. But I think the thing that gets minimized here is that woman are the ones who carry the baby, and ultimately make the decision to terminate. Men can suggest it all they want, but the person who has to choose, act, and deal with the emotional (Not discrediting that men don't deal with emotional consequences as we…
/r/MensRights04/03/13 06:34 PM
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I'm not sure what this has to do with female privilege. In my state, unless the DA gets a hold of it for whatever reason, you can usually only be charged if the parents of the minor bring you up on charges or go to the police. If our places had been reversed, and I had been the one who was 15, my parents wouldn't have brought him up on charges anymore than his parents brought me up on charges. My parents fully expect (and did expect when I was that age) for me to take responsibility for my own a…
/r/MensRights04/03/13 06:08 PM
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if an 11 year old boy has sex with his teacher, and she gets pregnant, it would be ridiculous to hold him responsible for child support. This is where it gets tricky. Because there is so much grey area here, and speculation on what and what is not appropriate. I think the Romeo and Juliet clauses (laws?) come into place here. Each situation should be taken on it's own accord. I don't think there can be a hard and fast rule on things like this. That being said, your example is horrifying, and I a…
/r/MensRights04/03/13 05:56 PM
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Right. Because why would anyone ever want an opinion from someone who has been in this situation before. That would just be silly. For the record, my daughters father stepped up. He didn't claim statutory rape as a cop out. Because that's exactly what using that excuse when you consented to having sex with someone is. It's a cop out. The courts were going to defer his child support payments until he was 18, and he stepped up and said that he would like to pay them right now, so that he could hel…
/r/MensRights04/03/13 05:44 PM
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Is this a Wiki article? Either way, this is such a crystal clear case of correlation vs causation, and how many people don't understand the difference. In case anyone was wondering, here is a Wiki (I know, I know. Not always the most reliable source, but in this instance, they got it right on the money): http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Correlation_does_not_imply_causation TL;DR: A correlation between two variables does not necessarily imply that one causes the other.
/r/MensRights04/03/13 04:37 PM
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I was 18 when I gave birth to my daughter, and my daughters father was a month away from turning 16. In the state that I live in, the age of consent is 18. Because my daughter is using gov't funded health care, they state sued him for child support. The court system never came after me for statutory rape, we've been to court several times regarding child support and custody agreements. At the time that I got pregnant, and throughout my entire pregnancy, I was living with him and his family. The …
/r/MensRights04/03/13 04:16 PM
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Thank you for taking it as a challenge, and not as an attack on the post. You responded very politely, and I wasn't expecting it. I absolutely 100% agree with you on the inequities in access to a divorced couples children for the men. I think it's abhorrent that woman are favored over men in cases where there is no need. If the man is an unfit parent, obviously there should be some sort of limitation, but that goes for women, too. My daughters father and I are no longer together, and I would nev…
/r/MensRights02/03/13 05:54 AM
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How exactly does "that very common personal behavior" drive related politics? What, exactly, does it have to do with the MRM?
/r/MensRights02/03/13 02:15 AM
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Yes. How dare I object to a slightly offensive post that is completely off topic, and serves no purpose but to point out how catty some woman are.
/r/MensRights02/03/13 12:54 AM
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Nope. I'm an equalist who knows that equality means men as well as woman. And your ignorance about feminism is simply delicious.
/r/MensRights01/03/13 11:16 PM
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I'm not pretending anything. But since you apparently think you know all, Master of the Universe, continue on thinking whatever you want.
/r/MensRights01/03/13 10:41 PM
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The courts petitioned me and my ex for a paternity test for our child support case. But he wasn't on the birth certificate, because he wasn't there to sign the papers at the hospital, and we weren't married.
/r/MensRights01/03/13 10:16 PM
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I don't think you should generalize based on that group. A lot of people label themselves feminists, and a lot of them don't subscribe to the "equal means woman only" idea. It's people who lump all feminists into a group with one another that are prohibiting the advancement of this cause. Just because some feminists believe that, doesn't mean they all do. Generalizing isn't going to help your cause, it's going to hurt it, because it makes you look like you don't have any idea what your talking a…
/r/MensRights01/03/13 10:11 PM
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What do you mean by "disposability"?
/r/MensRights01/03/13 08:57 PM
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So whats your theory on how this relates to mens rights/womans rights/equal rights for all? That someone will inevitably get "more" equal rights than another person?
/r/MensRights01/03/13 08:47 PM
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So...by the pigs taking control of the farm, breaking all the original commandments set in place, and replacing it with one commandment, their saying that the pigs are more equal than the other animals? Am I interpreting that correctly?
/r/MensRights01/03/13 08:38 PM
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I haven't. I've heard of it, but only in passing, and never about what the books plot entails. What is it about, and how the does the pharse "Some people are more equal than others" play into it?
/r/MensRights01/03/13 08:26 PM
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Dictionaries define misogyny as 'hatred of women' and as "hatred, dislike, or mistrust of women". I don't know what comments you've been reading, but I have found more than a couple comments on this subreddit that fit that description.
/r/MensRights01/03/13 08:23 PM
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Then what can we strive to achieve? Is it practical to, instead of having a mens rights movement and a womans rights movement, have a equality movement? Or a peoples rights movement?
/r/MensRights01/03/13 08:09 PM
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Right on, rightbot. Have a good day at work, buddy.
/r/MensRights01/03/13 07:45 PM
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I really try to ignore them. I really do. But against my better judgement, I tend to get into arguments with the people making them. I know I shouldn't, but I just can't help myself. Personally, I think there shouldn't be a MRM or a FRM. There should be one movement. The equality movemnt. And we should all work together to make this happen. 1 group twice the size of each of the groups we have now would get a lot more done than two groups half the size working against each other.
/r/MensRights01/03/13 07:44 PM
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I fully support the MRM and everything you are fighting for but this is the type of shit that makes women feel unwelcome here. This. I want equal rights for both sexes. However, some of the comments on this sub are extremely misogynistic. In order to achieve equality, men and woman need to work together, not against each other, and I don't see that happening in this sub. Not very often, at least. There are a lot of men on this sub who don't make rude comments about woman, but there are enough do…
/r/MensRights01/03/13 07:29 PM
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I'm a little confused about what this has to do with : men's rights and the ways said rights are infringed upon. What was the purpose of this post?
/r/MensRights01/03/13 07:12 PM
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Gotcha. Sorry if that sounded defensive. I like to think that I know all, and that gets me into trouble sometimes. lol
/r/MensRights28/02/13 03:12 AM
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How is this bad advice? If you have the right to remain silent, use it. Anything and everything he says can be used against him in a court of law. Which means if he says something that could be misconstrued out of context as any sort of confession or evidence, they can use it. He needs to discuss every single word that comes out of his mouth with his Lawyer before it comes out of his mouth.
/r/MensRights28/02/13 02:58 AM
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I'm sorry. I don't quite understand this. How is it her fault if she gets raped? What do you mean by She may have a duty/obligation/burden not to hurt her family or friends by introducing this into their lives. But all of this directly depends on if she feels that she has a duty/obligation/burden. Victim blaming is when you say "She was wearing a tight dress, she was asking to get raped", or am I incorrect? I guess I'm just a little unclear about what this post is about and some of the wording i…
/r/MensRights28/02/13 02:48 AM
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I know several woman who make more money than their husbands. But again. Just because some woman make less money than their husbands, doesn't mean they all do. And that certainly doesn't mean that woman value money over a lot of other things that are important in a relationship. I could say that all men are chauvinistic woman haters, because one time a man said something very rude to me. But I never would. Because I wouldn't define an entire gender by the actions of a few. And I'm sure a lot of …
/r/MensRights27/02/13 03:56 AM
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Again. Stop saying that "all girls do things". Unless you want me to counter with some stereotypes of men. Things you "all" do. Because I'm sure you'd get just as offended as I do when you lump me in a category with bitchy inconsiderate people. I'm sorry that girl did that to you. She sounds like a bitch. But that's ONE person. Not the entirety of the gender.
/r/MensRights26/02/13 05:29 PM
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I still can't tell! lol
/r/MensRights26/02/13 03:20 PM
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Wow. I...don't want to have this conversation anymore. Thanks for the brain food, boys. I'm out.
/r/MensRights26/02/13 03:11 PM
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I can't tell if you're being a jackass or not.
/r/MensRights26/02/13 03:09 PM
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It's not "men" who should feel ashamed for factoring looks into choosing a partner. It's everyone. And this guy wasn't choosing a partner. He was deciding whether or not to get married. He was already dating her. Her looks had obviously not come into play thus far, but he needs to not marry her because of her "rapidly aging looks"? That sounds right to you?
/r/MensRights26/02/13 02:59 PM
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Dude. I'm not going to argue with you about this. It's not even worth it. Believe what you want. I'm just saying that not all woman think like that. I didn't realize that was such a radical statement to make.
/r/MensRights26/02/13 06:09 AM
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/r/shitcosmosays Theres an entire subreddit dedicated to the fact that Cosmo is nothing but a load of horse shit.I think you are taking anecdotal evidence, and applying it to the entire female gender. And that's about as fair as saying that all men are horrible fathers. Which, news flash, isn't true.
/r/MensRights26/02/13 05:36 AM
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Don't kid myself? Seriously? It must have been quite a feat to interview every single woman on the planet about what she looks for in a man.
/r/MensRights26/02/13 05:25 AM
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No. "Woman" do not idealize marrying up. Some woman do. Not all. Please don't make that generalization about the entire gender. It's offensive. I couldn't give a fuck the "status" of my future husband. The things I care about are him loving me, how he's going to treat me, how he's going to treat our kids, can we be happy together, ect. Edit: Grammar
/r/MensRights26/02/13 05:07 AM
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I didn't say that he was wrong in advising his friend not to marry this woman on the basis of her not having a job or any job prospects. In fact, I'm pretty sure I agreed with everything he said I would agree with you about most of these points being causes of concern for your friend and his future with this woman except for the part where he judged her on appearance. Maybe it says something about our society as a whole when people are judged less on the person that they are, and more on their p…
/r/MensRights26/02/13 04:52 AM
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Wow. Just..wow.
/r/MensRights26/02/13 04:45 AM
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We obviously have very different definitions of marriage. Maybe I shouldn't have used the word sexist. Maybe shallow is a better adjective for it.
/r/MensRights26/02/13 04:44 AM
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That's a little sexist, if you ask me. There are plenty of men who marry for other reasons besides their S.O being attractive and youthful. An old woman has little to offer in the first two departments. I find this entire sentiment to be a little abhorrent. You said she was what? Early fifties? And your friend is in the same age group? I should hope by that time that he has learned to judge his relationships on what's on the inside, instead of on the outside, even if you haven't.
/r/MensRights26/02/13 04:15 AM
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I would agree with you about most of these points being causes of concern for your friend and his future with this woman, but what does her "quickly fading looks" have to do with them getting married? I guess I'm just a little confused about the validity of her physical appearance on their relationship.
/r/MensRights26/02/13 02:53 AM
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Thanks.
/r/MensRights25/02/13 03:34 PM
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Do you mean PDA between two lesbians, or lesbians sexually harassing people who have specifically told them to back off?
/r/MensRights25/02/13 07:16 AM
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crusade against imaginary evils This really says it best. Thank you. And it's not just people posting to MRA that do it. I've seen it in the feminist subs, too. I don't know why these subs can't just be about promoting the rights of the specified gender, instead of tearing down and blaming the opposite gender. And I'm talking about the ladies too, before you all get offended. We all do it, and it's not getting us anywhere. It's just creating a wider gap between the genders. ETA: And by "all" I d…
/r/MensRights25/02/13 07:06 AM
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