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She sucked at family planning just like her partner
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/26 07:00 PM
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You’re projecting your own personal preference that makes you satisfied as an general life rule for happiness although in reality that is not case.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 12:54 PM
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Humans are intrinsically drawn to beauty by default this naturally extents to wanting an attractive spouse.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 01:56 PM
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Whilst not all men help a women to gain subtle access to her to eventually incrementally sleep with her, there are many men especially in hyper sexual societies like in the west or sexually repressed societies who do that in hopes a conversation would spark where they can gain further access.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/26 03:18 PM
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This is not a Islamic subreddit sis, and you’re most likely naive, meaning you’re not familiar with traits that converge with particular personality.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/26 03:14 PM
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It’s does. Innately wanting to get into close proximity and showing Goodwill towards them is how “love” is conceptually defined here. The first step would be maximum physical attraction which naturally entails sex appeal, next step is sex which is an expression of getting into close proximity and also goodwill through spontaneity in the act leading to bonding, next step intellectually in-tune. This what love is when put into practice.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/26 05:28 AM
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Idiot comment, “Iove” has different contexts, for this subreddit an favour and try to figure what “Iove” means.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/26 05:18 AM
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I agree, always reductionist. She essentially wants women to be either whores or asexual but is undecided on which one.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/26 05:15 AM
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Wrong, sex is part of love and is an indicator of love. You’re confusing lust with sex appeal which is part of the process of love.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/26 05:14 AM
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Three fundamentals to a successful marriage/relationship , 1. Mutual maximum physical attraction 2. Compatible sex drive 3. Intellectual compatibility.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/26 05:09 AM
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Sex is a reflection of a sign, and has the after effects of bonding that happens when enjoying each other. An emotional attachment and (In specific cases) devotion is formed from it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/26 06:46 PM
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Your mixing lust entice in a public setting with high libido (which men and women both can have).
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/26 06:39 PM
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Funny how many Guys here have been stressing on the importance of physical attraction yet women downplay it using personality as an excuse.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/26 03:15 PM
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Says the feminist lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/26 03:12 PM
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A reductionist view towards a complex matter. It’s tiring to the Self seeing how reductionist people are in this sub when it come to matters that are complex, have nuances and are interdisciplinary.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/26 03:09 PM
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Boy/girlfriend is in essence exploitation
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 10:00 PM
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What needs to happen is creating a paradigm that ensures equality with equity that would be curbing feminism aswell.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 07:10 AM
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It’s because of marriage being a scam and relationships in general. And unfortunately men today aren’t doing anything to fix it because they’re too busy trying to consolidate control that their ancestors once enjoyed. Since they can’t have that, they simply checked out.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 06:35 PM
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Myopic views as usual.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 03:17 PM
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This is what I was contesting and explained it. You’re not really attracted to that person. It’s a form of heuristic pragmatism for a lack of a better word. Physical attraction is a prerequisite.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/26 06:22 PM
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Getting sex so easily is a sign that the woman has had her attraction threshold maxed out where she is viscerally inclined to him. Where she is mobile,fluid, expressing goodwill towards him which also translates in sex in being spontaneous & mobile. Being compatible intellectually only means you can grow to tolerate this person, it facilitates for tolerance it doesn’t mean you’re genuinely attracted to that person. Attraction starts physically and is fundamental, it facilitates for a deeper and …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/26 05:43 PM
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After mentioning what delusional liberals believe in, you went ahead parroted that nonsense…. No point of even arguing.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/26 09:34 AM
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The redpill educates men on that.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 07:27 PM
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The Men in between are a chadlite they’re a unpredictable in the dating market. Unlike Chad who is more predictable in the dating market. A 10/10 is in the eye of the beholder, beauty is subjective to a degree and not completely subjective as delusional liberals try to make it out to be. They way I define Chad is a guy with an attractive face and in decent shape.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 07:26 PM
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No, if physical attraction was culminant you would be sleeping with that person that you’re trying to pursue for a long term relationship. The other person met that you slept with met your attraction threshold where you found in them sex appeal and viscerally wanted to get into close proximity with them which started off with sex but you didn’t invest any further to continue the process of love which immediately want dormant as a consequence. You were into them and mobility attests to that.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/26 07:06 PM
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“A” wanting Sex with “B” is an indiction that attraction towards “B” is culminant, they’re viscerally inclined to having sex with that person finding sex appeal in them as a consequence of naturally finding that person meeting their maximum attraction threshold. This entails as a consequence of that, are the effects of the Halo Effect in the case is mobility. The fact they want to get in to close proximity with that person through an act that is invasive is an indication itself that they’re genu…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/26 06:53 PM
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There’s a lot of topics where conservative Christians employ ploys to attempt to be politically correct.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 06:20 AM
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No one can agree on the definition of love here if you were to compartmentalize them and interview them.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 07:42 PM
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Classical scholars saw sex is something dirty and only met for procreation, it was only recent that Christians started to be more lax after facing pressure from the liberals.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 07:15 PM
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Isis couldn’t give a damn about any foreplay or anything. It’s an terrorist ummayid ideology that’s all about dominance and control through brutality. This also translates into women micromanage in bed aswell.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 07:13 PM
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Lol poor reductionist logic, the Quran forms a view or concept by multiple verses put together where an concept or a view is inferred from them. You’re scattering verses and manipulating them. Typical Christians, always cunning and myopic.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 07:09 PM
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Sex was seen as a dirty practice in Christianity and is only meant for having kids. Being positive was recent emergence after facing pressure during modernity and post modernity era.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 07:04 PM
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Because halo effect takes effect if maximum attraction is met which entails sex appeal being culminant.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 06:09 AM
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Arrange marriages are cultural not religious. There are only regulations on how you should interact with the opposite gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 05:47 AM
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For religious people sex can only happen in marriage and one of its main objectives is to curb fornication. Intellectual compatibility & culminant mutual attraction is part of a vetting process to maintain stability, curb bleakness, maintain tranquilly and security of the soul.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 05:46 AM
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Sex is part & partial of the framework of love, a relationship without sexual activity becomes a friends with benefits thing gradually which only benefits the women most cases unless she is cooking and cleaning.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 05:33 AM
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They date within their socioeconomic status for the same reason which what I’m pointing out but you’re not understanding. Im not speaking of necessarily wanting a lavish lifestyle, it’s can be luxurious but not lavish. like I said women don’t wanna build up with a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/26 07:20 PM
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You’re taking to a brain dead bitter misandrist who continuously denies reality. And is probably a 1
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/26 07:50 AM
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They’re not building up with their counterpart, the current social phenomenon shows women not wanting to build with a man from the ground up, otherwise there wouldn’t be redpill movements that capture how women chase lifestyle and money.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/26 07:43 AM
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It is prostitution. The nuance here is if you build with a guy who is laying down his first building blocks and work together as actual partners to manage your finances. For example in this instance not going on expensive dates as much most of them would be cheap and less frequent over all, not buying expensive furniture, clothes, very little shopping, little to none take outs, signing water, internet, gas, electricity contacts and tv subscriptions that are budget friendly, going to supermarkets…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/26 04:24 AM
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Provider is a ploy and is essentially prostitution. Family planning is a thing, both save up and manage finances properly and then when the time comes have kids and once they’re in school she can go back to work and contribute financially. Plus both of them are raising the kids and doing house chores.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/26 03:55 AM
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Men take advantage of it, otherwise they wouldn’t go for a virgin for marriage if they outwardly supported it since that would also mean virginity and the benefits that it comes with would no longer be valued, yes can say that by engaging in it they’re essentially supporting but I say it’s more nuanced.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/26 05:00 PM
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This goes back to the women, the fact they were easy to insinuate into the man’s favour and were open to it meant to the man that he can enjoy both worlds, bang the part-time whore and then settle with a virgin. That happens very often. Women feed that stuff and give top tier men opportunities which other men wanna be like aswell.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/26 04:50 PM
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Not really, women are simply not attracted to that person. It’s not a problem in of itself. I’d say many of the 80% would be chadlite or Chad if they invested in looks maxing.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/26 04:08 PM
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Keep western nonsense to yourselves and let the thinkers there who aren’t western washed reform their societies. Another reason men overseas don’t egalitarianism is because of the rubbish that is in the west, liberalism is a disease.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/26 12:12 PM
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I’m not supporting your theory but rather criticising it as being reductionist. The only definitive element is attraction. Height is a fetish nothing more nothing less, across other cultures height had little to no significance. Being assertive is different being dominant (in the traditional conservative sense), the traditionalism is exactly that which is influenced by the environment that they’re in it’s not intrinsic.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/26 07:23 AM
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Love is a process by default and not what western people like to think, maximum sex appeal is the first step in the process.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/26 07:14 AM
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Wrong, environments influence that. The only biological thing is humans are intrinsically drawn to nice things which extends to wanting a attractive spouse aswell.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/26 07:09 AM
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That’s a reductionist view, humans evolve and are meant to be that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/26 08:20 PM
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Women finding maximum Sex appeal in you is the actual measurement of wether she is truly attracted to you or not, which yields all the benefits of the halo effect.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/26 08:18 PM
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That’s conditioned by culture. It’s not definitive.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/26 08:10 PM
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Women who have high libido don’t have the same test levels as a men. Women should quit spewing nonsense about matter that is nuanced and complex like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/26 07:29 PM
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Feminism is a ploy and doesn’t benefit men in any way whatsoever it’s just a facade, it’s like democracy a tool for neo-imperialism.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/26 05:46 PM
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Quit exaggerating stuff and see therapist. No point of engaging with bitter women.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/26 05:32 PM
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Again it’s subjective. A person who hustles at 16, expands their knowledge, looks after themselves, self reflects, will be at his peak once they’re 21-23. I’ve seen this happen right before my eyes so many times which dismantles the claims of the Redpill guys here.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/26 05:16 PM
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They know they’re exaggerating it’s not done because they’re manipulated into exaggerating it. They’re simply insecure and have an ego which they ironically deflect onto men.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/26 02:05 PM
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In a knife vs fist fight she wouldn’t be but in a fist fight she would be distraction and a weak spot, her running would be doing him a favour.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/26 02:00 PM
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Life is most valuable, a loved one is not more valuable than your life they’re not a divinely appointed personality. And in a knife vs fist fight your at a loss by default and it’s always been taught by street fighters to run in such circumstances because that’s the best option.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/26 01:58 PM
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You don’t win in a knife vs fist fight you’re always at loss, in this case you run.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/26 01:44 PM
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Which means no rights like the good ol’’days, many men want traditional roles but don’t understand the environment where that paradigm worked in men’s interest and not other way around when feminazism came and ruined women mentally and by extension morally.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/26 01:41 PM
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Misogyny is not prevalent, it’s simply framed as “misogyny” although it makes completely no sense. Something that stupid liberals say but don’t understand.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/26 01:32 PM
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The probability is greatly exaggerated amongst women as a ploy to deflect from hidden insecurities and ego.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/26 01:21 PM
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This phenomenon of women using “rape” and “murder” as an reason not to approach and etc is just an ploy to justify their hidden insecurities and feed their ego which they deflect on men and not work themselves which takes accountability.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/26 01:20 PM
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Your average guy does because he’s simply average. (In looks department)
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/26 03:13 PM
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Sorry I meant culminant*** settling means tolerating for whatever need in return.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 04:39 PM
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She found his “personality” attractive not physically attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 04:38 PM
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Desire is either culminate or not. Otherwise it’s settling.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 04:36 PM
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Or Perhaps she is “sapiosexual”
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 04:35 PM
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Dumbest advice is telling people to improve money to attract women. And “game” nonsense, just know how to communicate like a decent talking person.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 04:32 PM
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A lambo or Ferrari would be nice if i couldnt afford say a Bugatti Chiron pure sport.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 04:19 PM
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These men are being settled for and the women with them are settling for them, not being with the person they truly desire.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 03:50 PM
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Trust me a lot of people wouldn’t wanna be here if they were given the option and God showed them in what vehicle (body) they would be in and how their life would play out in some areas.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 03:48 PM
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They were just in need for sex at that moment and tolerated their very mediocre looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 03:28 PM
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Dressing skimpy or provocative only attracts negative attention by default it’s a natural phenomenon. You can either look like a snack or look like a rose.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/26 11:08 AM
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You’re not entitled to anything, and yes it’s for marriage only when you have proven yourself to be a genuine compatible partner You’re spending money on yourself regardless, what a stupid argument. The guy is also spending money on himself dressing up, getting a good cut. Sounds like a gold digger who is deflecting from that fact, quit being entitled and start contributing otherwise stay single and save us your selfishness.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/26 06:02 AM
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Quit deflecting.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/25 04:31 AM
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It’s not biological programming it’s been socialised in them due to their environment, if we were to change the environment to facilitate for egalitarianism, equity and cooperation then a woman wouldn’t be a gold digger, her thought process and perception would be drastically different.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/25 04:30 AM
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You demanding “better” gifts shows the opposite of gratitude.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/25 05:52 PM
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You’d be surprised how this is common in some cultures and how many others think that way. Then both should work and do family planning, many women don’t know how to do these stuff and shouldn’t even be in relationship if they wanna have kids without having knowledge on managing finances and family planning.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/25 05:48 PM
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It’s not sexist, it’s being looked at within a broader context of other things included; you’re tunnel visioned looking at things that are peripheral.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/25 05:22 PM
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An Oxymoron statement.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/25 05:11 PM
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For the “shitty gifts” and not able to do something nice for Christmas. It’s funny how it’s always the women that wanna treated will with all these things but never wanting to reciprocate that for once. Its rare to see a women do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/25 04:55 PM
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He’s right about having kids to feed ego. Bertrand Russel discusses this phenomenon where men would want to have kids as an extension of their live and pass one their wealth to them, which is the closest thing to “immortality”
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/25 04:32 PM
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These women who do that want to rely on their kids for their retirement and have given up on finding a man she can control. Women rather use future references such as “providing for our future kids” and “pregnancy” as a ploy to get financial security out of a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/25 04:27 PM
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Spoken like a ungrateful women…. You need some stoicism in your life and also practice and master gratitude. Women don’t like putting the same effort when reciprocating, they do just enough where the man doesn’t notice he isn’t being exploited & manipulated where she can still retain him and get her financial security in check and lifestyle funds secured.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/25 04:05 PM
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Women have a even more exacerbated delusion than those splinter subset of men. They want a man to pay for their lifestyle, bills and expect him to do 50/50 with house chores and kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/25 01:01 PM
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The art of deflection and ignorance right here
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/25 03:51 PM
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You’re allowing it to happen, he is only using you. He would want to use you to alleviate his sexual desire with ease and quick access, not having to search for a 8 or a 9 who can cater to him. You like it because it’s a privilege and an honour to experience such a guy, it’s the same with mid-loooking men who see it as a privilege and pedestalize a women being in their presence and having some sort of access to her. You’ll be able to easily, not something really worth being in the backer list.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 06:37 AM
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A women wouldn’t mind getting the privilege to atleast experience Chad at the expense of being exploited if they can’t have him, that’s what the original blackpill rightfully aspires men to be like. That’s culminant desire which makes gives you the luxury of someone being mobile, fluid & open towards you if you’re in the receiving end. This is pure authentic desire.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 04:57 AM
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That’s how many women secretly think, atleast your upfront on this part. But i definitely feel sorry the next guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 03:52 AM
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With sex, it’s reasonable that you would want a pure person and not used up. The reasoning behind it is loaded, too much energy.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/25 05:44 PM
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A left winger is not a moderate, no moderate would sympathise with new age terrorists (left wingers).
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/25 04:43 PM
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Explaining would be a waste of energy and effort since we’re gonna be citing sources and explaining things with depth and comprehensiveness.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/25 04:34 PM
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His reasoning behind why he is getting you to chase him is valid, but his approach to it can be better.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/25 04:28 PM
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Because people see it as fragile ego thus automatically invalid.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/25 04:23 PM
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His reasoning behind it is valid but his approach could be better.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/25 04:20 PM
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Women frame a guy being treated well as “princess treatment” and you did exactly that.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/25 03:55 PM
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So a guy being treated well is now “princess treatment”…. This only proves that redpill’s point about modern day women.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/25 03:48 PM
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Hypergamy and halo effect, despite been proven women refuse to admit it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/25 03:38 PM
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Wanting to “experience” a person is what makes you a Chad’s leftover. And I feel sorry for the next guy, poor bastard.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/25 03:23 PM
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All thanks to liberalism. Liberalism doesn’t entail progressivism.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/25 02:41 PM
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Being with a non-virgin automatically makes you at an disadvantage since both are out of tune with one another which results in alienation, dissatisfaction, and disappointment. Whilst two virgins are both open to exploration and spontaneity thus having fun which consequently simultaneously results in being drawn to one another and continuing in that trajectory. What he said is also true, it’s a multi-faceted matter as to why being with a virgin is better.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/25 09:21 AM
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This is why I’m against western dating, they lack values and it’s pure exploitation.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/25 09:16 AM
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Lol, that’s like saying enjoy your Toyota corolla and stop comparing it to a Ferrari FF. A Ferrari will always be better than some shit box Corolla.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/25 08:50 AM
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The problem with westerners they try to invalidate all insecurities despite some of them being valid.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/25 08:49 AM
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A virgin wanting a another virgin a fine. But women want it for different reasons than men do. For women its pure delusional insecurities. For men it’s more reasonable and that some can be backed up.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/25 08:42 AM
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Nope completely different
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/25 08:34 AM
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Outside of western men, yes. You can know what your doing while exploring, it’s not rocket science. If your man doesn’t mind a non virgin then what are you worried about ?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/25 08:03 AM
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The concept of “platonic” relationships with the opposite gender is stupid to begin with.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/25 03:26 PM
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You can’t really blame Mr.Nice guy here, he’s right about her not having Chad going through hoops and giving it to him effortlessly. Plus women try not to reciprocate upto the same capacity as the guy, they first attempt to test the waters on upto what extent can they push boundaries on not reciprocating upto the measure. Some are more diligent, if they feel they that the guy will sense it right away, they approach it slowly in subtle incremental steps where they comfortably don’t have to recipr…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/25 03:19 PM
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lol this is what redpill will always have clients. Life’s a game and it’s not fair.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/25 02:10 PM
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Spoken like a betabux. Most religious readings are rubbish and doesn’t cater to contemporary conditions of time & place.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/25 01:54 PM
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Then its no longer “dick game”.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/25 06:19 PM
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It’s been debunked. Go through the threads.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/25 06:12 PM
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Treat her right, and she will outside of her working hours and she will also treat you right. A fwb thing pretty much.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/25 06:11 PM
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so it’s not the dick game, proved my point.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/25 06:06 PM
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Completely different context.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/25 05:57 PM
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Sex can’t possibly be “average” unless you mean it’s stale, lack of spontaneity, which is bad sex. And it’s actually usually bad from the women’s end not men’s which goes unnoticed and shifted onto the man.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/25 05:54 PM
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Most women are stale in the bedroom, there factors can be from societal or cultural stereotypes , or entitlement & laziness.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/25 05:48 PM
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You’re paying either way, except a hooker is cheaper, a bargain is a win.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/25 05:46 PM
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The loneliness “epidemic” is pure feminism propaganda that is baseless.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/25 05:45 PM
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Lol, you’re only penetrating. The issue is from you’re end not his end. There is a lot from the women’s side that hasn’t been uncovered.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/25 05:17 PM
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For starters they have the wrong conceptual understanding of “lasting long”. And they haven’t worked on themselves to even prepare for the actual deed. Women are actually lacking a lot when it comes to sexual intercourse and put zero effort. And that comes from entitlement and ignorance.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/25 05:14 PM
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It’s a ploy in the context of a man to get something out of her. You’re bitter of the fact stacy gets free stuff because of her being conventionally attractive. That’s what’s making you tunnel visioned and not seeing the broader picture & insight.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/25 05:06 PM
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It’s entitlement that has been anchored to “liking me” “romance” and “being a man”.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/25 05:03 PM
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A man not letting himself be susceptible to being exploited and learning from the past doesn’t entail that he doesn’t like you. And it’s mostly women who are willing to break the rules for the more attractive guy. It’s the halo effect. Men usually employ ploys for the more attractive women since she is more of a “challenge” to get her in bed with him.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/25 04:59 PM
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It’s freely available for the Chad not so much for the average looking guy. Also both women and women are mostly settling.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/25 03:34 PM
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Nope you have anchored being turned on with that, it’s an mental issue from the women’s side, making sex a reward to get she wants. If she was to reprogram herself, she would be turned on like a switch the same way how halo effect turns a women on like a switch 24/7.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/25 02:52 PM
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That’s what they all say… most women who marry for resources aren’t comfortable of that fact use “romance” as a facade to avoid confronting their unsettling, bitter reality, giving themselves closure. Thus they use “romance” as a defence mechanism which has been subconsciously anchored.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/25 02:23 PM
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What is the most expressively tangible contributions can she bring besides resources that would in return also improve her life…. so it’s a win-win. Obviously you shouldn’t be with a person purely for contribution, but contribution is important factor in a strong relationship. This is different to wanting a person in a particular financial caliber, which is gold digging.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/25 02:06 PM
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Women settle like how most guys settle
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/25 07:37 AM
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These ultra conservatives, don’t know how to make distinction between genuine non lustful attraction, sex appeal and lust itself, they amalgamate sex appeal and genuine attraction with lust thus thereby inflating their sexual repression causing unnecessary psychological issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 02:45 PM
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A lot of men haven’t felt that sensitivity has decreased, nor do they feel that they’re muted a little. It doesn’t really effect sensitivity. There are circumcised men who have intense orgasms who don’t last that long (which is normal). Lasting long has nothing to do with being circumcised or not it’s purely biological where some intrinsically last longer than others this is how nature intended it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 12:19 PM
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That is superstitious stuff, there are plenty of Muslim males and Jewish males who masturbate due to sexual repression. Circumcision on men doesn’t hinder the quality of pleasure or the ability to feel pleasure.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 09:03 AM
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Many women haven’t took the time to step out and default to skepticism to reflect on philosophical matters, do introspection often and have a completely formed philosophy on life, expanding knowledge to work on mental resilience, to improve navigating different circumstances that they might go through during their life, decision-making, and gratitude. They were raised in a environmental that was either rough or very competitive where after a long period of time they become entitled to a more fre…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 02:23 AM
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Simping is usually done by people who are neurotic. There a lot of instances where it’s just virtue signalling to get sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 02:09 AM
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While Islam doesn’t mandate it to be done at birth (circumcision is for males only), you’re expected to be circumcised at some point in your life. Many Jews and Muslims have had it when they were born and likewise do the same with their kids to not put them in that situation when they are a little older.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 01:53 AM
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No you’re just ignorant of how people are pressured when it comes to being out in the real world.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 01:47 AM
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A reasonable answer
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 04:14 PM
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Because they now live in a time where women have the freedom is sleep with Chad and exploit the beta later on.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 04:12 PM
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There’s something called virtue signalling.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 03:13 PM
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Most women would want a loveless relationship subconsciously but they want the facade of romance so to not face the bitter unsettling reality of their relationship being purely transactional where both are trying to exploit each other with employing ploys.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 03:11 PM
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That’s cultural and customary nonsense, we’re in a constant trajectory of evolvement and refinement. Women who want men to approach them in the 21st century are just insecure and have a ego and ironically they project that on to men
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 02:07 PM
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You can be progressive in ideology in religion and still a virgin, this doesn’t really apply to liberals who claim to be committed to their religion. It’s more appropriate to say people who are really committed to their religion are virgins.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 02:03 PM
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Exactly, this is what many women don’t understand, men are finally starting to deal with things more logically and realised they have nothing to gain in old frameworks thus they rightfully checked out. Hopefully more men will be more rationally driven when it comes to relationships and not ego or emotionally charged.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 06:07 AM
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Circumcision is obligatory for men in Islam and Judaism, and in Islam circumcision is prohibited for women you can only do very minor cosmetic modifications with the condition that it doesn’t hinder the ability to feel pleasure. There is nothing with male circumcision it’s only inhumane for the female because it hinders her ability to feel pleasure, arousal and etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 05:12 AM
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It’ is dead and I hope it stays that way. Leave no room for exploitation and entitlement. No is entitled to pampering until they have know each other for over a month when then both are gifting, buying stuff for each other, take turns, naturally, in dating one another (50/50). Heck back when I was in my teens when I was an working at an workshop one of my coworkers went to grab a part from a car company and overheard a women literally surprising her husband with a brand new 95,000 dollar sports …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 03:42 PM
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Because of being sexually-burnt out as a result of not able to satisfy sexual desire, being in a hypersexual space, they as a result become in a confusing situation where they are in a tug of war where they are sexually frustrated thus they become sexually ambivalent between sexual repression and wanting to fulfil their sexual desires. This doesn’t happen to all men with high libido that are single (they manage it to a large degree with discipline, like myself for example and other religious peo…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 01:42 PM
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Nice ploys
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 01:21 PM
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There shouldn’t be chivalry at all. This is what makes women entitled and gives leeway for exploitation, both of them should start at neutral.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 01:19 PM
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Women with unreasonable standards are broken women who give in to Chad and then say they don’t respect him after sleeping with him.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 12:56 PM
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Halo effect
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 12:17 PM
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She’s finding herself in Chad’s bedroom while calling her naughty girl and etc. some unhinged guy literally screwed some chick that he essentially bullied, attraction goes a long way.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 08:52 AM
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These type of men have a high libido in reality like I said they’re just burnt-out sexually thus resulting in sexually ambivalent, resulting in frustration.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 08:34 AM
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An example ?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 07:07 AM
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Sex doesn’t entail being not lonely or lonely. These men are just sexually burnt-out thus resulting in sexually ambivalent. Get what ?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 05:41 AM
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Lonely women forced themselves due to being delusional because they actually believed in fairytale that feeds their entitlement, self-centrism and delusion. It’s not really their “choice” men are now starting to use their brains for once (hopefully they will delve more deeper and abandon the traditional nonsense) seeing how they are being exploited and held back.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 02:13 AM
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That’s a reaction to feminists trying to do exactly that. What these men don’t realise is that reaction is a disservice, they want immediate results which aren’t gonna be culminant results and reap all of its benefits. Tunnel vision is a disease.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 02:04 AM
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No surprised women like you are in denial. It’s true and even neutral thinkers have captured that phenomenon in women. Chad’s are 8’s and 9’s, your right that an your 8 could be someone’s 9 while some else’s 9 could be a 8 to you. Are girls really that stupid ? In general yes, due to feminism, if feminism didn’t exist and a balanced egalitarian rationalist oriented movement came instead then there would be very little traumatised women, redpill wouldn’t be recognise nor have an large presence si…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 01:47 AM
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They’re dumb for not using their mouth to communicate properly.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/25 02:33 PM
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Wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/25 02:12 PM
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If they’re conventionally attractive depending on the place, she might be boning or has boned Chad. The same way Chad is boning Stacy while keeping the 7’s on his roster for quick access when in need for sexual satisfaction, in the case of women keeping the betas for resources.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/25 02:01 PM
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Women most of the time are like this due to how they are raised, and lack of understanding the reality of things and navigating them smoothly. How attractive are these women you go out with ? Who’s more attractive you or them ?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/25 01:52 PM
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It is actually messed up.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/25 01:34 PM
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They do expect to put in low effort themselves while enjoying the luxury of being on easy mode putting most of the toll, load and turmoil on the man despite having the capacity to lighten theses up and foster for a more relaxed life for both.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/25 01:21 PM
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Nothing is egalitarian, equitable and balanced about feminism it’s an cult for bitter women made by a bitter women and is a ploy.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/25 12:37 PM
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The whole concept of “men’s loneliness epidemic” is a scam. Both men and women are lonely. The feminist terrorist are simply concocted that narrative to get back at men.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/25 12:35 PM
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It’s the exception not the norm. Most women and men settle and don’t actually get the person that they’re actually attracted to, your average women would settle for finance and security for her own personal comfort at the very least if she can’t retain a Chad or get him in the first place. There is no such thing as “love” in such relationships it’s just a smoke screen that is put on to not face their bitter reality that they’re not comfortable with which is that they’re not in love but rather th…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/25 02:36 PM
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Wrong, you don’t get it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/25 03:33 PM
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Attraction is of two types, one form of attraction is admiration like admiring a Lamborghini for example or a Ferrari because of its beauty nothing lustful just genuine admiration obviously this requires particular conditions for that to happen, then there is sex appeal which is what’s more important than the first one, it’s one that really solidifies the other. Finding Sex appeal in someone means that you genuinely innately incline towards that person wanting to be in close proximity to them (t…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/25 03:26 PM
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Women can get it anytime easily, men can’t. That’s not the argument here, there is a lot more depth that your missing out on that can clarify a lot things and bring nuances to light
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/25 03:03 PM
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It’s not, because it anchors, thus you’re constantly reminded of it in the back of your mind in certain circumstances.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/25 03:01 PM
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You’re looking at it at very face value. Think with some depth, you’ll get their eventually if you give yourself some time to ponder and reflect.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/25 01:24 PM
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A good session anchors. Don’t be lying to yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/25 01:22 PM
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There is only so much rationally sex positions one can do unless your demanding gymnastics. Its ridiculous sex can be “okay” or “meh” unless it’s stale where there is no exploration & Spontaneity, there is mismatched libidos and lack of attraction being culminant.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/25 03:26 PM
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Then those people are working to achieve the life that they desire. Having a better income to achieve that. A general answer
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/25 02:08 AM
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A nice short answer is “so I can live the life that I desire with ease and comfort”.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/25 03:18 PM
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Everyone should have financial literacy before entering a relationship that’s a basic competence standard , that’s not the issue here. Both can and should build & grow together and achieve stability & more.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/25 08:08 AM
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Google misogyny.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/25 08:03 AM
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Sex is no longer special the moment it became outside the boundaries of marriage. So that’s just pure delusional and that’s price she pays for being a part time whore alongside other consequences.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/25 12:36 PM
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That’s them settling for at least an attractive women that is stacylite not an full stacy and even then these 7’s don’t want them but rather go for the chads aswell.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/25 01:04 AM
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Halo effect, she definitely did. What they don’t like is they are being mislead and exploited. Average looking Men shouldn’t be going after such women who have no self-respect but alas these men are desperate to the point of having no self-respect.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/25 12:52 AM
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You’re intellectually stale no point of putting effort just to show your ignorance and tunnel vision.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 04:50 PM
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Thats mental gymnastics.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 04:47 PM
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Go see a therapist.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 04:46 PM
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Cheating and wasting time, overall jerk is not exclusive to 7’s but since they have options it’s a lot of them who are wasting time & misleading.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 04:20 PM
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You’re not being rational here at all. No point of having a discussion with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 04:03 PM
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A women who willingly gives it right away to chad, but makes another wait is very telling that she doesn’t find him they attractive, otherwise she can vet him while sleeping him just like the other guy she gave it to so effortlessly. There is not a single topic that you bring up where you don’t sound bitter and low effort intellectually.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 03:45 PM
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Those guys are attractive, typically 7’s (chadlite ) and above. The 7’s are the ones who are usually the most cunning. Most Women aspire to date those within the 20 percent bracket, whilst a small percentage of men would also go for the 7’s.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 03:25 PM
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A large contingent of women not women in general, do you read in between the lines or the full sentence? You guys never fail to baffle me with your ignorance and comprehension skills.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 03:15 PM
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They aren’t lying about those claims, except the “they just wanna be pumped and dumped”, that’s 50/50 not all hypergamous women are like that. But perhaps a large portion of them are.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 03:08 PM
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You’re making zero sense. Hooking up is degeneracy. Women can own her sexuality without being a part time whore.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 02:34 PM
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Yeah you don’t like to use much critical thinking but rather experience things instead. Religious people also party but their parties are not messed like your ones, and it’s very fun aswell.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 02:22 PM
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Doing outright stupid stuff is not how learning should be approached neither being an degenerate. You can enjoy your teens and not be degenerate or outright stupid stuff like most westerners nowadays.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 02:17 PM
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Red flag then.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 02:15 PM
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Doesn’t change that it’s still degeneracy.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 02:13 PM
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Then you wouldn’t be throwing that word around to without a second thought. No contempt was shown to the female gender, having contempt towards a particular set of women doesn’t entail misogyny.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 02:12 PM
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Hypergamy gives the impression of “grass is greener on the other side” and undermines the concept of building and growing together.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 08:49 AM
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Feminism is a liberal tool for imperialism and ruin societies to maintain monopoly. It was a grand scheme that was meant to be work in incremental steps.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 08:05 AM
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what makes sense is to build and grow with that person, finance shouldn’t get in the way because that person is laying down their building blocks. This will result in gaining strong mental resilience, deep sense of gratitude, extensive insight on how to navigate different circumstances and better decision-making, all these qualities translate over to other aspects and makes a person competent. Majority of People don’t know how to evaluate or define what is being financially stabled, even when gi…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 07:54 AM
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It’s the feminist ideology that brainrot them, sadly. Men were the ones who are supposed to fix women’s problem not women who were artificially made to be ignorant. Feminism was formed by a broken women that should be seeing a psychologist .
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 04:42 AM
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Making bank would attract Gold diggers, that’s single most stupidest advice that “men” can give to others. It never made sense, people like that are really desperate to the point that they have no self-respect.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 04:35 AM
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You can be mature at any age, but westerners don’t like that concept and call it “growing fast” giving it an negative connotation.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 04:32 AM
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Degeneracy is not “fun”, the western conceptual understanding of “fun” is skewed and enables degeneracy.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 04:31 AM
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Learn what Misogyny means before throwing that word around. What you’re saying makes no sense. Literally 0 sense at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 03:40 AM
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It shows you’re an desired individual which means you enjoy the luxury of having options and selecting the one you truly desire to start a new chapter with.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 03:31 AM
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Your Average looking guy would choose a model that cooks, cleans, is kind over an average looking girl, this is no different to women. Humans by default want nice things this also extends to wanting an conventionally attractive looking spouse.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 03:23 AM
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Your average Women don’t go for them either way because of a similar mindset.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 04:00 AM
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Kids don’t keep you young, and the other is a mindset problem you’re weak. This is why men will always be bitter if they don’t value themselves and change their rubbish simpleton lazy mindset.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 02:11 PM
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Women don’t do the same thing, they come to the realisation that they can’t get the top attractive guys to commit, be their de facto butler, romantic, carry all their mental and physical load, pamper them, provide financially for them, be their therapist, personal atm machine, body guard, personal driver and personal assistant. Thus they look for that in betabux who are naive and lack self-respect.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 08:14 AM
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Your excuse is just a ploy to justify taking resources where it’s worth while and control the man. Otherwise it if was 8 or an 9, then she would be mobile, down to break the rules.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 07:53 AM
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How does lack of sex after failing to get it take away 10-20 years off your lifespan ?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 07:17 AM
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Blue pillers don’t accept that reality despite being commonsense.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 04:35 AM
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That called wasting time & exploiting which westerners have normalised because they can’t think straight and do some introspection, mimicking whores instead.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 04:25 AM
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Men overate average-Stacy adjacent women and average looking women, because of how they dress and skimpy clothing, showing off their cleavage, wearing provocative jeans, thus their lust is enticed giving them a skewed perception. These average women also don’t want their looks match.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 04:20 AM
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The reality that we live in it’s seen as okay by the majority.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 04:00 AM
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Ideally this is what you should go for otherwise you’re just a betabux.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 03:57 AM
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Men on average don’t want attention from 4’s & 7’s (average-Stacy adjacent) that’s not considered anything, it matters when 8’s or 9’s are looking at you. And an average looking girl is also shooting for the stars going for attractive men.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 03:41 AM
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It’s Human nature that people want a nice looking spouse, it’s an extension of naturally wanting nice things. A lot of these mid men can be chadlite or even chads if they invested in their health, looks and the way they dress and stop being cowards and entitled like most women nowadays. Average women also want the attractive guy and over rate themselves despite being average looking, many of them compensate by working on there butt, dressing up provocative or skimpy to capitalise on men’s lust w…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 03:38 AM
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If a women doesn’t wanna build from the ground up with you and grow, doesn’t have an stabled income, then you shouldn’t be with that a women in the first place regardless of how attractive she is. You want a life partner not someone who sets you back.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 03:26 AM
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Women do that all the time to men to get resources when they can’t get Chad… yet it’s not repulsive by the majority of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 01:54 AM
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The religion does hold the men equally accountable, it’s the corrupt cultures that don’t. It’s the south Asian cultures Balkan cultures , middle eastern cultures that’s still stuck in their old ways. Middle easterners (especially the Arabs) are stubborn to reform and progression, history has shown this. Unfortunately the west and its degeneracy has given them an excuse despite the nuances and complexity.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 12:58 AM
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There needs to be more purity culture. You don’t need to be a whore to know whether your attracted to a person or not. The purity culture has nothing to do with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 03:01 PM
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Halo effect proves his point, a sucker will always work harder.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 02:36 PM
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It’s not worth it when you’re not physically attractive. You want a women to desire wholly and not just for you’re personality. That’s just settling. Sex appeal is important and likewise the halo effect.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 02:34 PM
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There’s also research that says otherwise. These women who don’t live longer than unmarried women are in a conservative interpersonal relationship. Too much load & turmoil on the women.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/25 08:49 AM
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Your understanding of what happened in Syria is completely wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 01:50 PM
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I wished western concept of dating was demonised at an global scale, it would have paved away for a much better framework on how people should get to know one another. All of these things are valid.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/25 02:07 PM
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Most Women want a butler who is also romantic, money lender and buys things for them, carry all their mental and physical load, have sex at their own time (which is usually not frequent) their way. This either comes from a place due to poverty or enduring a tough life for a long period time (accumulating trauma with time) where they have reached the point that they have said enough is enough by such & such age i should be living and enjoying a more freeing, relaxed, non-constraining, financially…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/25 02:02 PM
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Other countries women still want an attractive guy, for example in the Balkans and middle esteem culture, they want an attractive guy, who also has money, and is an de facto butler. Whilst some are traditionalists, these women are typically villagers.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/25 04:19 PM
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Those hot girls (which are 9s) are only wanting to get with him for the money, he’s better off spending it on sex workers for a cheaper price and better experience, objectively. As for every human looking for what’s the best, many end up being delusional and start sounding like a fairytale, instead of rationally approaching it. For example a lot of women, essentially want a butler with social status , money, who they can have sex with at their own desire not his, think for them most of the time,…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/25 03:58 PM
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that would facilitate for women desiring men for who they are not exploit them, but western women still want a guy with money & social status they aren’t looking for an egalitarian relationship where both build and grow together and contribute financially.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/25 03:35 PM
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Yes wanting to money is human nature aswell, but it can either be ethically approached or unethically approached. That’s not the same with looks, looks is important regardless of gender and should be extremely valued. A successful marriage is dependent on 3 pillars 1. Mutual maximum attraction 2. Sexual compatibility (same libido level) 3. Intellectual compatibility.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/25 03:28 PM
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One is human nature and other is not ethically approached, so not the same thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/25 03:07 PM
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You sound like a woke unhinged Liberal who is out of touch with reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/25 03:28 AM
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This is about physical looks purely. Why do People not understand that this ?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/25 06:51 AM
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That’s a lie.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 01:19 PM
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The redpillers are circumventing around what they really want and can’t really express their frustration directly. They want to sleep with a hot women but they can’t cause they’re not conventionally attractive nor up in par with them in that department. They’re frustrated by the fact that they won’t have the chance to or have them genuinely desire them like they would desire Chad. Mutual maximum attraction is important and not shallow.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/25 03:33 AM
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Being attracted to women is different to lusting over them, there is an nuance here.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/25 03:13 AM
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That is your personal experience which is exceptional. But the order goes like this for both genders.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/25 04:36 PM
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Scientifically men age better than women. Your simply bitter unless you’re speaking of Caucasian men
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/25 04:27 PM
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No there are. A women is gonna remove standards for the most attractive guy, and you’re in denial of that trying to be manipulative frame it to be something else. You are admitting that she let go of some her standards to meet him halfway but for an average attractive looking guy she imposes extra standards and demands.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/25 03:50 PM
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You’re being in denial at this point. Ask ChatGPT and tell it to give you sources.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/25 03:42 PM
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Actually it’s proven that a women does become more mobile with an attractive guy while having an less attractive guy going through hoops. A women who doesn’t engage with casual sex but goes out on dates would be more open to having sex with an really attractive guy after a date rather than your average looking guy or average-Chad adjacent looking guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/25 03:10 PM
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It goes for both genders, and it would be more enjoyable for her if he is hot. That’s a natural phenomenon it’s human nature.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/25 02:51 PM
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A women who doesn’t engage in casual sex won’t (which is rare), but she would definitely sense a strong heightened sex appeal from him and be mobile.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/25 02:48 PM
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Common sense, no would actually admit to it so easily and in fact most won’t because it’s an ugly reality. I’ve seen it all around me with both men and women actually surprisingly.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/25 02:42 PM
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You’re not being objective here and emotionally charged. You need to prioritise human nature here. A genuine attraction starts off in this order, an emotional attachment only happens after engaging in intimacy and to a degree after being physically attracted to that person where you are drawn towards them.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/25 02:03 PM
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It has nothing to do with gender. That’s how the order goes in an genuine attraction towards the other person.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/25 01:54 PM
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Lust driven men are less picky due to their lack of discipline, and post-nut clarity proves this. A women would go against the rules for the right guy, a women gets to be picky because she has better discipline and her sex drive is dormant and needs to be activated unlike men.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/25 01:03 PM
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The ones who are sleeping with average and less than averages are simply being dominated by their lust to the point they would sleep with anyone. Once post-not clarity hits its game over.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/25 12:54 PM
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So are men, both men and women want attractive spouses it’s an innate Human desire, humans by default want nice things.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/25 12:40 PM
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Wrong, emotional attraction is a another step after physical attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/25 12:38 PM
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It’s not mythical it’s very common. You just need to be tolerable in looks. Most Women marry for security, lifestyle and financial reasons, not because they find the guy attractive and has an superb personality.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/25 12:23 PM
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It’s not false, if they were given the option to have casual sex with a guy that they find maximally attractive they would.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/25 12:19 PM
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By default there should be maximum mutual attraction between the two, otherwise you’re just settling.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/25 12:01 PM
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You’re not understanding what is said. Tate has all the Qualities that attracts a reasonably large amount of women. Tall, fit, money, confidence, and all elements in a conservative interpersonal relationship paradigm that benefits women. Women are still going to be with a man for money, narcissism is not part of equation.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/25 10:16 AM
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No one wants to be with a rapist, besides that Element, a reasonably large amount women would like the Tate package that I summarised.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 05:00 PM
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Asshole part is pretty personal. But minus the rapist, respectfully you’re naive here. A reasonably large contingent of women would want that unless they wanna have full control over a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 04:25 PM
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On point
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 04:27 AM
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These men are who are drawn to Tate are insecure, naive and still lack insight and an outlook in life, otherwise your average guy all want those three things that Tate is using as bait, a nice car, a nice lady, and money.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 04:19 AM
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Sorry, but the Tates are far from being lonely, perhaps they might feel bleak around them after a long while but that’s compensated for by having a brother who is also your best friend, which not many people have sadly.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 04:16 AM
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So You’re telling me that a reasonably large amount of women don’t want a person that is reasonably fit not necessarily ripped, tall, adopts some elements in the conservative interpersonal relationship paradigm that benefit women and rich ?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 04:12 AM
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When men are being pampered it’s framed as “princess treatment” but when a women sucks a man’s resources it’s framed as “Princess treatment” under the guise of “masculinity”. Rich men have butlers who serve them that is also a form of pampering, back in old times they had slaves for that.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/25 05:06 PM
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Still a large portion of women lowkey want a guy like him even if they are outwardly against him. Many guys are drawn to him because he has the three things that you’re average guy wants but in abundance. Beautiful cars, a beautiful women and money. Btw I’m against the redpill ideology.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/25 04:53 PM
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Finally somebody said it !!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/25 03:41 PM
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What she is trying to say and is circumventing around it, is that men should be slaves to get what they want and not be smart about it otherwise women can’t exploit for benefits. “Love” is nothing but a ploy for the very most part.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/25 03:34 AM
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Sexual chemistry is a another fancy word for lust. Western women in general with an fringe exception don’t conceptually understand these things.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/25 03:17 AM
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The 4 pillers to a successful marriage is, 1. mutual attraction that is naturally maximised, 2. sexual compatibility (same libido) and 3. intellectual compatibility. 4. Clean past. What is you conceptual understanding of love ? How do you define it ?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/25 03:07 AM
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Only redpillers are glamourising those days. What’s making others alienate to that is feminism and a lack of independent reasoning
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/25 03:03 PM
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There is no immaturity here… you’re displaying immaturity and justifying it. There isn’t anyone that is better than me, most would share similar sentiments with me. Values and Principles are important, some people value their honour, dignity and respect more than others.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/25 03:01 PM
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As they say, every accusation is an confession.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/25 02:58 PM
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It’s the opposite, a guy who has a problem with a women being with other guys is a good guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/25 06:37 AM
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lol maturity can occur very early on in life. You’re just not a independent critical thinker nor are you raised well and lack values and principles.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/25 06:34 AM
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Your grandma didn’t marry him for “kindness, loving and etc” she married him for security and financial reasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/25 06:29 AM
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Ploys are meant to be deceptive… that’s how they start off. feminism isn’t required to recognise these things, it certainly wasn’t required during 7th century arabia where women were being buried alive and seen as a “thing” that as bought and inherited when reforms were taking place.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/25 09:57 PM
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Being a gold digger and a whore is now what makes women happy?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/25 09:51 PM
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Feminism is a ploy and in reality is a soft form of terrorism and exploitation.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/25 02:56 PM
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lol why should a person settle for less because you feel a certain way? A mediocre looking guy is objectively better off living that away than being miserable, resentful and unsatisfied in life.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/25 02:30 PM
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Freedom is needed to progress to higher tiers of morality and ethics, to break free from cultural superstitions. What’s really needed is an regulated emancipatory fluid society.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/25 03:19 AM
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Looking like a snack is different to looking like to a rose 🌹
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/25 03:15 AM
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Still brainwashed by western propaganda?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/25 02:59 AM
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Being a whore is not freedom but rather destruction of a society and unethical.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/25 02:57 AM
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Forced marriages are prohibited under sharia. Majority of people here are ignorant on sharia and listen to western propaganda despite their being Sunni & Shia subreddits
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/25 02:50 AM
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There is something mentally wrong with these women. Especially western white girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/25 04:55 PM
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Your just a slave…. And you shouldn’t be with such a women in the first place. That’s bitter person’s mindset, trying to justify cheating with mental gymnastics.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/25 07:30 AM
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People need to learn to take a realist approach in such matters and be entirely objective and honest with themselves. Being single can be a better option for many people, an alternative would be having a good set of friends for life.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/25 06:32 PM
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With the second type, it would be more accurate to say it’s built on tolerance, availability, and pragmatism.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/25 06:30 PM
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These guys simply want to retain her for the service that she provides hence the lies. No different to women but it’s implemented differently.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/25 06:02 PM
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These “gender” roles are based misogyny, it’s Aristotelian.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/25 05:33 PM
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It is gold digging whether you like it or not, women by default shouldn’t be entitled to chivalry which is western nonsensical culture. Both are supposed to reciprocate by default.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/25 05:31 PM
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Exactly there are hardly any men or women, this is the issue at hand. Men and women aren’t raised to be self-reliant, as a consequence they look for a father or mother replacement when looking for a “spouse”. It’s normal for men to have these feminine traits but women lean more towards them than men do is the difference. Both genders are meant to balance each other with these traits and while still leaning slightly leaning more towards their default traits. Both men and women are contributors. Y…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/25 05:18 PM
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You’re conceptual understanding towards masculinity is mainly a social construct. It’s not objective. Masculine traits would be Contributor Endurance Rationalism Emotional discipline (emotional intelligence) As a consequence of rationalism, a Philosopher trying to make sense of things. Femininity traits would be A contributor Passionate (due to leaning more towards emotional than males) Comforter
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/25 03:44 PM
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You’re ignorant on understanding human nature and even the trajectory the earth is progressing in. The problem with people like you is you’s like to go against the grain on human nature and justify it with logical fallacies and “morality”.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/25 01:10 AM
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If your gonna argue for moral reasons, you need a solid backed paradigm on interpersonal relationships and overall modesty. Let’s start here instead of being emotionally charged.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/25 01:01 AM
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So your not banning it for moral reasons but for economic disadvantage reasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/25 12:53 AM
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It’s baffling that you don’t realise how ridiculous your OP is. Hence why i said you need to fix your conceptual understanding of “love”. You sound like feminist who is at an “disadvantage”. The answer has been shown by the redpill and even the issues in themselves that they don’t realise. The diagnosis is mostly correct but their solution is incorrect.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/25 01:44 PM
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You’re conceptual understanding of “love” is the issue here. Get that fixed first.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/25 07:07 AM
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Regardless she is still not any better than him. He was dumb until he “cheated”?and she is dumb for avoiding therapy.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/25 09:03 PM
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She’s traumatised, doesn’t wanna fix herself and has no morals. The girls who like her and follow her are also retarded and broken.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/25 04:06 PM
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Khadija (a.s) contributed financially and was actually supportive. The rest of the wives were there to break stereotypes against divorcees & political reasons. And the Quran doesn’t support your rubbish claim of being natural providers but rather the opposite.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 06:10 AM
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These women weren’t taught to be self-reliant and also have a underlying unresolved trauma that they haven’t confronted.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 09:01 PM
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Protection was for both gender’s responsibility if we were to go back to very primitive societies, both carried out the implementation of that differently. Both men & women are comforters, women leaning towards that more. That’s not biology, that’s culture and a lack of a more defined & devised awareness. As we progress with the passage of time the intellect increases its capacity within the trajectory of reaching crystallisation in awareness & cognitive potential.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 08:58 PM
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Men aren’t “natural” born providers, that’s a social conditioning and long one. Any rational logical man (which is masculinity) would know this and also knows not to be with women who are essentially gold diggers & manipulators. There is nothing good from a conservative interpersonal relationship paradigm at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 05:54 PM
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How is that a recipe for disaster? you’re diagnosing where is this emotion coming from, why are you feeling this emotion ? and then finding out the root cause whether it’s an deficiency, something you lacked, etc. then you fix the issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 06:39 PM
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The whole point of stoicism is to avoid addressing them with someone else and you address them yourself and fix the core issue once pin pointed. You still “feel” the emotions but you simply don’t let them govern you but rather you govern them. Expressing most of them leads to thrown off balance.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 06:13 PM
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Stoicism is a good way to control emotions and makes diagnosis easier.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 05:35 PM
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The redpill arguments about women many of them are true but their solution is 99 percent of the time is rubbish.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/25 03:35 PM
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Summary, women need de facto butlers.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 08:21 AM
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Hijab is should be enforced, you simply haven’t understood what is hijab except the conservative interpretation towards. It’s not an option for you to walk like a whore and not take accountability for your causing psychologically. The west doesn’t have much values that are humane, and only looks to rule over others, they’re mostly superficial.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/25 05:12 AM
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No, back then both men and women were stoned or lashed if they were caught fornicating or committing adultery. You’re most definitely wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/25 04:36 AM
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There isn’t anything really tangible that can be offered besides financial contribution, then there are other mid tangibles, intellectual compatibility, libido compatibility. Finances goes a long way, in fostering for a tranquil relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 06:46 PM
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No your wrong, honour, dignity and respect was taken very seriously back then, both faced the consequences. You’ simply have a bias and is ignorant of how things worked back then.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 03:15 AM
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It’s also a massive challenge for a man and burden. Women here simply don’t wanna take accountability and cultivate in themselves work ethic and dedication. Edit: No one wants chad’s left over’s. We live in a time where we no longer have to cater to his left overs due to the availability of education and workforce.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 04:04 PM
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Or train women how to be a life partner and not find a replacement for their father.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 03:35 PM
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That entails it’s also stupid to for women to mislead men who are kept in the friendzone as orbiters and are exploited and also hypergamous women.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 03:31 PM
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These women were dumped because of number of reasons outside of attraction. It’s much more complex. A single mothers in the 21st century can get a job and invest in her future to make a good living and eventually retire. So she can’t be complaining about anything, the only time her complaints are legitimate if the dad is not doing his part on parenting and being involved in their child’s life to ensure a healthy atmosphere and upbringing.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 03:04 PM
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I was making a general statement about particular women. He’s not a sociopath. Unless women who settle for betabux and sleep with attractive men during their prime are also sociopaths and also hypergamous women are sociopaths. And women who friendzone guys and exploit them for attention and resources. On average free sex with an attractive girl is not easy and widespread, so if the consent is there then seize moment.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 02:56 PM
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A man shouldn’t be doing that to any women without first vetting her to see if she will reciprocate upto the same measure. Plus a man should be a women’s idol and worshiped before granting her true love an a vatting process. Men Showing love makes them very vulnerable and naive.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 02:39 PM
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Lol the deflection, you arent willing to hold your gender up to the same standard who exploit men.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 12:30 PM
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Women are also give men false hope through manipulation. So it’s fair I guess. He was also wise for not pursing such a ignorant naive women.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 11:51 AM
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Any person with dignity and self-respect wouldn’t want this to be the norm or be with such women. Times were great when there was capital punishments for such debauchery behaviour.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 11:21 AM
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He clearly lacks etiquettes
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 08:05 AM
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Expecting a man who makes more money, pays their bills, asks them out first and is a butler to them is traditional.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 07:48 AM
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These women want cheap butlers once men realise this, the rational next step to take is to be self-reliant entirely, making your own food, bed, laundry and cleaning. Most men and women are looking for someone to replace their mother and or father. And structure standards that are inline with actual human nature and not social constructs and engineering, and also revolve around securing comfort in its true meaning & definition which most men aren’t aware of.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 07:42 AM
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That’s A1 covert manipulation right here. Utilising “Romance” (which is ambiguous for majority of ppl) and (rewarding with sex and tapping into lust) sex as a ruse to insinuate the man into the position of being a de facto butler/slave taking the toll’s & loads while the female enjoy the luxury of relative comfort. I’m seriously considering starting a fourth line myself in contrast to black, blue & red pill, where proper rationale and logical is used and there is a clear methodology. I would be …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 07:04 AM
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Red pillers are irrational on a lot of things when it comes to solutions. It’s literally the opposite of rationalism.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 08:52 PM
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A women should build financially with the man and learn along the way. Mutual attraction is fundamental to a successful marriage, plus it’s inline with human nature with wanting nice things. These two matters are completely different, one is biological and rationale while the other is just a insecure gold digger.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/25 03:30 AM
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Two different matters, once is biological while the other is conditioned by society
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/25 03:24 AM
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Or you take maca and arginine to function like a normal optimal human.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/25 12:37 AM
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Clearly you didn’t open them. Read again, and don’t reply until you actually have understood what is clearly being said.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 04:34 PM
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Lol you’re the comedy here, open your eyes next time so you can see clearer.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 04:31 PM
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Sex is a service, wether you like it or not. Unless you abolish the traditional paradigm and precisely define what love is and what it entails when implemented.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 04:09 PM
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If men were to focus and work more on their discipline and unshackled themselves from being a slave to their carnal desires and be persistent in abolishing one of the primitive paradigms towards a relationship, this would eventually force a group of women into reforming and adapting to the balanced paradigm that men will set up which will consider both genders. Women try to retain the man through sex, so as long as the man is impulsive she will work on that weak point to get what she wants and r…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 02:40 PM
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It’s not male nature to not want a women not their age, it’s much more complex than that. You need to look at the common patterns of what we’re these people who advocate for this were dealt with in their younger years that made bitter later on. A women’s past matters the same way a men’s past matters because it has psychological effects (baggage, burnt out pair bonding). Looks is one of the pillars to a successful marriage, if both aren’t gonna look after themselves in all aspect physically then…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 09:17 AM
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These are all legitimate and concede with human nature.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 06:33 AM
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Your delusional if you think men are ever lovable at an young age unless they are financially stabled (however you interpret that) or successful. Women are looking for financial security or lifestyle, they aren’t looking for “love” it’s essentially legalised prostitution.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 06:30 AM
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Money does make a man attract more women to get sex, most women aren’t seeking genuine love but rather are looking for someone who is a slave to his carnal desires whom they can bait and manipulate to get a lifestyle, possessions, and financial security and essentially a butler with addition of getting attention and sex whenever she wants not whenever he wants. This whole protector and provider nonsense is not something that is intrinsic to human nature it’s a social construct that was formed or…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 06:20 AM
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Then it is the men’s fault for enabling such exploitive paradigm and adapting to them. If men were all taught these traits that I mentioned that will filter out all gold diggers from those who actually “love” the person for who they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 04:09 AM
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Abolish the social constructed paradigm of what makes a man a “man” and “masculinity”. People are so low scale thinkers and naive to be believe in such shallow & insular theory. The true traits of masculinity is men are contributors, philosophers, rationalists, and emotionally disciplined. While women are contributors, comforters & passionate. These traits are supposed to complete one another while both genders lean more towards their respective traits.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 06:13 PM
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Passion is still alive if both find each other intellectually compatible, sexually compatible, and attractive. This what keeps marriage alive. People just don’t really deeply invest in these things as they should.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/24 07:30 PM
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Generally speaking, yeah there is an imbalance. It is actually rare, respectfully disagree. Most women are influenced by all this superficial stuff that’s being propagated.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/24 07:03 PM
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What makes you say that ? If she is attracted to you physically and intellectually and share the same libido, why would she leave after 3 years ?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/24 06:59 PM
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Women should be doing the pursuing equally in the context of LTR. if a women approaches you naturally she’s gonna wanna pursue you, that’s an logical equation.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/24 06:53 PM
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They want control of her since he wants her to raise his kids, cook, clean and spread her legs for him, these type of women who I mentioned don’t mind being in that position because it’s an exchange. Bertrand Russell has explained this in the link I linked you to. Cheating is not just sleeping with someone, there is also micro cheating. Hence why you should be her “celebrity”. She should be head over heels over you, then you can pour your love onto her. These guys who are willing to cheat, settl…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/24 06:48 PM
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They want a guy they can physically tolerate, being hot is not their priority. The cocky ones would try to retain chad or let him sleep with other girls in exchange for high class provision and sleeping with chad.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/24 05:44 PM
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Most women aren’t, they simply haven’t been raised properly.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/24 05:30 PM
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Not all women are gold diggers some recognise that they don’t want to be a financial burden and wants build together and find true love. Although a very small minority unfortunately.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/24 05:21 PM
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Pursuing naturally would happen after a women approaches you.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/24 05:18 PM
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Some women have bigger shovels than others. Bertrand Russell make an good argument on why prostitution will always persist as consequence of that. https://www.instagram.com/p/DBL6jIkoknn/?igsh=OGUxbG42bGdrbnB2
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/24 05:09 PM
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Sorry but you actually have almost not chance unless your an 8.5 out of 10 where you might get her to approach you.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/24 04:53 PM
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This isn’t true at all. Your theory is most definitely & certainly false.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/24 04:32 PM
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What he’s suggesting for that is silly and the manosphere are still succeeding in that and getting more.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 03:34 AM
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His point is not clear and contradicting and he is self contradicting. The goal is sex, so wether the manosphere are douchebags or not, they have the upper hand in getting laid more.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 02:33 PM
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That’s what’s he Is suggesting since the ultimate goal is sex. Except it is more covert.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 01:26 PM
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The OP is suggesting a different process to get sex (Which I think is absolutely silly and waste of time, see my comment on the thread), the end result is the women is still getting pumped and dumped.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 01:20 PM
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She is still getting pumped and dumped except in a much more covert manner.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 08:37 AM
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It makes zero sense to make it harder on oneself by making the silly claim that men should search for sex through a process that is meant for marriage not for purely having sex. That process doesn’t matter since your goal is sex not marriage. Hooking up with women without this process is definitely not a waste of time, it’s a waste of time to go through that process of you’re just trying to get laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 06:01 AM
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The RP guys that you’re into or come across, otherwise a a guy has his own stuff in balance and is doing fine. It is human nature to seek a life partner, that’s the intrinsic way of life. You are you’re own enemy, be balanced and you’ll see RP declining, be more emotionally clouded, stale intellectually, and power hungry then naturally you will see men either shifting to the RP paradigm or turning away from these subset of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 07:50 AM
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Lol it’s the polar opposite, men get nothing of value if they get married. A man can get a escort or go to brothel for sexual intercourse, women are manipulating weak men who are enslaved by their carnal desires, in return for finance and lifestyle by weaponising the relationship paradigm that the RP entrapped themselves with and became prey to manipulation. She is simply a financial burden and a draw back, unless she contributes financially. Modern marriages actually cater to women, most marrie…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 04:13 PM
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Your average young man (which is the majority) wouldn’t want to live in a trailer. And also notice you implicitly admitted that women seek to date above the average, in this case in the trailerpark community.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/23 04:30 PM
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Old average men & women…. Not young men and women with an average wage…. I’m not talking about looks here.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/23 04:02 PM
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I’m not talking about the economy, most women won’t even consider an average wagey guy, this shows women are incompetent in very limiting times and ignorant when dealing with finance and finding a way out of the limiting circumstance they’re in through hustling, starting a business and compromising.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/23 02:49 PM
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The reason for that is most women are just incompetent, and ignorant when it comes finance, business, true meaning of compromising & hustling.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/23 11:39 AM
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That’s not how relationships works…. This is exactly why I absolutely despise western women and encourage others to despise them and leave them to the poor gullible white men.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 03:10 AM
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How on earth did you infer from my comment that I come from a place of “disappointment” and “hurt” ? It’s purely logical and reasoning. Generally speaking a large portion of married people are not living the life they really hoped for. Finding the one, is subject to each person, some want wives that are pretty much house maids who they can have sex with and others want wives who they see as their equal, companion and a life partner with goals & ambitions aswell, which the complementary type rela…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 07:56 PM
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Or perhaps it’s they want sex but they want to have sex with someone who desires to have sex with them. I mentioned that they want to have sex with someone whom they love not a hooker. I think you almost answered the million dollar question… it’s a cascade of things that are associated with leading to sex, by default these cascade of things are a means to an end (sex) which is something that is intrinsic. Now we need to find out what are these cascades to find out how does the lack of these thin…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 03:54 PM
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Cos men get nothing of value in return in marriage, hence why you don’t see men say anything good. A single man who is chasing his dream & passion has a more fulfilling life than a married man. A married man has no hope of living the life he really wants, won’t fulfil buying the house he actually wants, buying his dream car, be in a financial burden and will be stressed & burnt out. A man is a free housing commission (including water, electricity, and wifi), food supplier, clothing supplier, and…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 11:13 AM
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Or just don’t go after women who aren’t chaste and have no self-respect.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/23 05:08 PM
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Companionship, lending a hand financially taking some load off, taking some load off in the household, gain more wisdom & knowledge, and help you grow and improve spiritually. This here is what I call a “modern” complementary dynamic relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/23 05:06 PM
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I really doubt it’s a lack of validation . here’s why, sex is arguably one of those things that are the most pleasurable things in life so it is only natural to desire it a lot (atleast for a healthy person). There is something that is intrinsically repealing about doing it with a hooker.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/23 03:26 PM
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Women who like it when a guy likes them who doesn’t confess, are attention whores even when married, and also they used that to their advantage to get stuff out of men. Typically in the west I definitely see where your coming from. And I agree that this says a lot about regular women, this really shows their ignorance and incompetence. I make a similar a argument for living for yourself. Today men are being punked, the women are living the life that men are working hard for, which is the luxurio…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/23 12:26 PM
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a debate is reasoning and rationale…. Besides better sex, which can be worked on with your normal chic, no one is born being good at sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/23 11:18 AM
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?? It’s a genuine question. What makes a escort better than your normal women? This indicates there is something faulty which got me curious…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/23 11:05 AM
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How are they a better company ? Elaborate please.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/23 10:11 AM
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I would argue that all of them would enjoy the deed but not be fully satisfied cos they would want to do it with someone whom they love. Sex with a hooker is different to with someone whom you love. See my lengthy comment here https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/14ddjd5/when_guys_claim_their_only_problem_is_the_lack_of/jot40lf/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=ioscss&utm_content=1&utm_term=1&context=3 i hope you would chime in.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/23 08:52 AM
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By default sex shouldn’t be monetary, the fact that sex is now monetary shows that there is something faulty/missing that needs to be fixed. Arguably sex is one of the things that are the most pleasurable things in life, so it’s only natural to desire it a lot, this is something that is intrinsic. Sex with a hooker is different to sex with someone whom you love & married to, there are different after-effects and even with lust enticements. I unfortunately I don’t know how to explain it or descri…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/23 08:35 AM
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“….any women who finds a man attractive who isn’t good looking” there is self contradiction here. plus its illogical the reason why a person approaches another person in the first place is because of their looks, furthermore attraction plays an important factor in marriage. Marriage needs to be approached comprehensively. “Where the attraction built due to his other qualities as being some transactional mammal who is merely using him for whatever reason…” The redpillers are also right in this on…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 06:55 PM
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Hi, I’m new here, I intend to do a experiment in the future here. Some qualities of a traditional wife are ethical and moral while others actually stem from dehumanisation and misogyny if we dig deeper into history (that is whole discussion in of itself), which have been indoctrinated into her and hypnotised into. The good qualities of a traditional wife is she doesn’t date, this particular aspect is good but some parts of it are extreme. Ideally you should talk for a week or 2 asking serious qu…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 04:33 PM
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