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Kids would maybe use one pallet. He did this
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/22 01:54 AM
380

They thought they'd have easier access to women who they deem less valuable, turns out even those women want nothing to do with them. Easy to see why they're big mad
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/22 05:17 PM
190

Imagine harassing your spouse over three grocery items
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/22 01:54 PM
432

They just want to push the idea that coffee dates and walks are going to be the only thing offered. They know you'll say no but want you to second guess your standards
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/22 11:39 PM
23

Wait this is exactly my experience too and I'm so curious to know what peoples thoughts are on why the timeline is so important to them?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/22 10:43 PM
24

Have you blocked him?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/22 07:30 PM
127

I'm dying to see what he looks like
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/22 01:48 PM
684

This. There are tons of submissive meek women out there but often a man will purposefully seek out a strong willed and vocal woman and want to change HER to become submissive.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/22 01:16 PM
82

"Thank you feel the same" meanwhile is dying inside
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/22 07:35 PM
8

Is using food stamps/ pantries shameful?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/22 07:35 PM
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That's not true and it's rooted in xenophobia and racism. Western culture can be argued to be the most misogynistic historically. Porn originated in the west just as an example. Anyways wont argue about this too much I just think strong movements can and should be intersectional and take some constructive criticism
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/22 01:49 PM
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What about with partners? Always curious how to handle introducing being divorced, and for what reasons. I divorced my abusive ex. Dates usually ask early on what caused the divorce (i think thats a fair question) so I always wonder how best to approach that. I dont want to being up any of the abuse or trauma but I also don't want to belittle the reasons for divorcing with a child between us. Would love any advice
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/22 01:03 PM
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Respectfully this comments section and post is giving "other culture bad" when in reality those experiences you all had were simply with shitty men of different flavors. It adds nothing to attribute misogyny and bad behavior to culture and religion, if anything the misogyny engrained in the cultures you are most familiar with are harder to identify and so they should be handled with more care and stronger vetting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/22 12:50 PM
95

"So I can bug him for a long long time" ...just tired of this phrasing all the time. Like by default she's a nuisance in his life
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/22 02:05 AM
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The thing is this was probably written by a woman
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/22 01:39 PM
41

Why is this like, a common theme? I really want to understand psychologically what it is with men intent on proving our allergies are fake?? I have heard it happen before. It's similar to that guy that was so insistent that his girlfriends special hair towel was not necessary and he went out of his way to sneak it out of her bag while she was asleep. Like similar line of thinking but in this case its obviously worse because.....anaphylactic shock
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/21 10:16 PM
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General huffing and puffing and redirected anger to random other things. One of my favorite themes with men is reacting to insults with "oh really? That's so funny I actually love the thing" and watching the fumes emerge lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/21 04:39 PM
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Just do something he told you he didn't like and see how he reacts. My ex one time told me a piece of clothing I had on was ugly so I wore it like every day for a month straight. Except in that case it wasn't a test, it was just to piss him off. The ship sailed actually the second he negged me for no reason
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/21 02:15 AM
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I just blocked a guy I went on one date with because he didn't text me for three days. No "hey I haven't heard from you! 🥺" just the block and delete he deserves.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/21 05:05 PM
157

My first read was that he was annoyed you weren't easily impressed and astonished by his fancy steak place and nice part of town, some guys are bothered when luxury or nice things are ordinary/familiar to a woman
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/21 01:29 PM
256

I mean even if true it's like, ok then die? Lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/21 11:21 PM
42

How do you guys manage to get phone passwords early on?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/21 02:21 PM
75

I literally have heart palpitations……. Oh my god
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/21 02:59 PM
45

This. Even if it weren’t important to her, it’s a living thing. If my boyfriend stomped a flower or something on the sidewalk for fun, I would be very concerned
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/10/20 06:17 PM
4

Congratulations on the riddance and don’t give him the opportunity to be able to reach you in the future
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/20 12:20 AM
8

With words, sis! “I want to be in a relationship with someone who will provide financially for the household. My earnings from my job would be for my personal use.” No one’s gonna force a guy to agree to that. You state what you want and if he is on board then great. If not then next. Key is to be direct from the start and own it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/20 06:01 PM
8

You’ll only fall into whatever you accept. If you want to be taken care of in a relationship then find someone who is willing to happily do that. Ultimately it isn’t about keeping score in a healthy partnership, but you decide what you want for yourself
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/20 05:51 PM
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Yeah men will turn on you and you’re either going to hear about everything they’ve spent on you or have it taken away at some point in the future if you have no other source of income. Have your own career and independence and spend that money on yourself. I’m actually Muslim and the way it works for us is any money the husband makes is the collective property of the wife and household as it’s his obligation to provide, while any money she makes is solely for herself and anything she gives of it…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/20 05:13 PM
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Its literally admitting that you are not likely to keep her around or get her to like you, so therefore your investment up front isn’t worth it. Men who are happy to pay for dates are the ones who know they are more likely to find a high value match
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/20 05:50 PM
1

Spend time with a family member or friend these next couple of days! Dont be where he can physically find you and try to talk to you. Get your mind off things and find support in someone who cares about you or at the very least can keep you company.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/20 02:55 PM
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This is so true. All settling does is guarantee you’ll never meet the right one for you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/20 02:54 PM
1

I texted and blocked. Honestly I feel like an idiot for letting it get this far to begin with. He had been pushy the whole time. He would ask me to “compromise” when I told him I wasn’t comfortable going on a date until my divorce is completely finalized. (Duh??).. he even asked me to talk to him before deciding to cut things off in the future (I attempted to once and he kept texting me that it would be a mistake to stop talking when we were getting along so well.) The final straw was when I ask…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/20 02:45 PM
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She’s the best she’s made such a big wave in Egypt and the Arab world teaching women to learn their worth and not allow men to treat them like trash. Men harass her for it nonstop
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/20 11:53 PM
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Do you guys think its okay to cut off a talking phase (havent seen him in person yet) with a text? He is very persistent so if i do it by phone he’ll keep talking and try to change my mind. But I don’t want to be rude as we’ve been talking for a few weeks now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/20 11:36 PM
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After enduring a lot of bs from LVM including abuse of all kinds, I’m learning to find a balanced approach to getting to know someone for a serious long term relationship. I sometimes don’t know if my perception of “red flags” is real or if it’s an over sensitive trauma response. Anyway I have been talking to an overall lovely guy from a different state for a few weeks now. We talk on the phone daily and text regularly. He checks a lot of boxes off and is not too intense or too withheld, is resp…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/20 05:36 PM
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